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Antingly/r/MGTOW18/04/17 02:57 AM
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Antingly/r/MGTOW15/12/16 07:31 AM
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Why such a narrow conception of what can cure loneliness? I echo your feelings and instead have turned towards cultivating the highest quality friendships that i can. I have found an amazing collection of brothers who all thirst for what life has to offer, lean on me for support when needed and lift me up when I am the one who requires support. We all rely on ourselves while cheering each other's success. Our conversations are thought provoking and lively. While women do still have a place in my…
/r/MGTOW211/01/21 05:01 AM
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From someone else here: "You can either LOOK rich or BE rich" Rather than think saving for FI means you're not a spender, look at it as if you're trying to buy the most awesome and expensive thing you can: your freedom for the rest of your life. When I look at $10 and think that I could either turn it into a trinket or it could be another step towards a great achievement, it's not hard to invest that money. Now see how you think about turning that money into a drink for some stranger at a bar. O…
/r/MGTOW08/01/21 11:53 PM
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If you look at one of the latest posts she's actually divorced now. When I saw the 2017 date, I immediately thought no way it's lasted to present. Found an 11 month old comment from her talking about how wonderful her husband is, and then a 4 month old comment talking about her hoping to successfully process her divorce. Both comments were written in the type of tortured grandiloquent prose expected of someone rebranding their base desires and biological urges as enlightenment (i.e. hamstering).…
/r/MGTOW211/03/20 06:53 PM
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Funny.. when I worked in finance a while back a couple female coworkers went as "Girls Gone Wild" with trucker hats and this cheap plastic that was meant to look like boobs. The billionaire boss thought it was hilarious and squeezed one so hard that he actually cracked the costume - while posing for a photo. I was good friends with these girls and we joked about how they should keep the picture of him with them because it could be their payout for life, but there wasn't a whiff of feeling offend…
/r/MGTOW17/10/19 11:29 PM
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As a paying member of DC this really lowers my opinion of the company that they'd appease the mob like this. I wonder what the minimum would have been t for him to lose his job? If dancing is enough, then what else is? Eye contact for too long (isn't this actually a rule at Netflix and GitHub now)? Too many repeated conversations? Could that even be considered enough? What exactly is always considered safe that then isn't also considered excluding them from networking and other opportunities? I …
/r/MGTOW17/10/19 04:17 AM
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I thought this was a fake screencap at first. Watched the ad and read some of the comments. Seems like feminists really love it. Men not so much. I'm going to be really curious to see if there's a noticeable drop in their sales. I've always been on the fence about using their products, but too lazy to quit. This is probably the kick in the pants I need to abandon them as a customer.
/r/MGTOW14/01/19 09:39 PM
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Had an amazing relationship for 7 years. She was model gorgeous, absolutely doted on me, and respected me and I was very good to her. People repeatedly told us they aspired to have a relationship like ours. There was no reason not to marry. I had a strong background in game, knew how to lead, and could obviously see the results in how well she treated me. Everyone could. It took 6 months for it to blow up. I lost my job. She got a new job and started making good money, had other new influences. …
/r/MGTOW28/11/18 09:47 PM
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Every story was about an aggrieved wife forced to deal with her not-left-enough husband. In each case the wife wrote off the husband and it was about what he needed to do for her. Well almost. The very last story the husband was far left of the wife. But in that case, it too became about how he needed to moderate his views to accomodate her. It's almost as if it matters less what the viewpoint is and more about whether the person who holds it happens to have a vagina. Ah solopsism, woman is thy …
/r/MGTOW28/11/18 08:58 PM
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Exactly my thought. At the very very best, her phone was simply filled with all sorts of trash talk about how worthless he was. In all likelihood it was actually filled with both. Talk about the luckiest broken wrist ever.
/r/MGTOW12/09/18 07:36 PM
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You sound like a good dude with your head screwed on right. Thank you for taking the time to write out your thoughts just because you were moved to help.
/r/MGTOW07/09/18 11:28 PM
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"Remember when you were a child? Did you need a relationship?" I'm not sure why I've never heard anyone put it this way before, but thank you for that articulation. As in most areas of life, if you have no fear of 'failure' it frees up so much energy, which in turn clears the path to your goals.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/18 03:20 AM
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You know, if the delusion is strong enough, she thinks that he is nothing special and that of course she should have an all expenses paid trip in exchange for nothing but her amazing presence. She wasn't in gold digging mode at all, because she thought the world would still give her everything no strings attached. If a woman is a gold digger, it means she's a realist and accurately ascertains her odds are better feeding off of someone else's already established success. Reminds me of the Aziz An…
/r/MGTOW03/08/18 07:43 PM
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Looks like in her case, it's beta bucks... I want to be a different role model from the one I got. Two months ago, I started seeing someone I never would have dated 10 years earlier. Back then, I wasn’t looking to get married or seek a lifelong partner, and that was a mistake. This man is a very reasonable choice, and I’m at a place in my life where reasonable is very sexy. That column talked about a trip to Miami paid for by a billionaire where she locked herself in the bathroom to avoid having…
/r/MGTOW03/08/18 06:28 PM
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I actually knew the girl in the far right picture when she was in her early 20's. She was definitely pretty, as well as completely insufferable. I'm guessing the former changed, but not the latter.
/r/MGTOW03/08/18 06:19 PM
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On the surface the guy seems like a stooge, but seems to me he has a pretty good reason. From the article: "the soldier said he would like to custody of the baby because he himself was adopted. "My adopted father completely changed my life. Without him I would not be where I am today. And for the opportunity to do that for someone else, I believe it's important. It could change the child's life and give him a better future and I believe that's the right thing to do,” Garcia said." If this is how…
/r/MGTOW19/05/18 01:05 AM
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If you want to retain a shot at custody for your kids DO NOT LEAVE THE MARITAL HOUSE. The courts in the US generally favor the status quo and if you leave, even if you come see them frequently, then they will consider her to have primary custody. They look at things like who dresses them, feeds them, takes them to school; takes them to appointments (medical, etc). Photos of you smiling together and videos where they say they love you are crucial. Don't assume for a second people will be reasonab…
/r/MGTOW18/02/18 12:57 AM
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You're totally right. In my case she couldn't just say she wasn't happy or wanted more money. She needed a "reason" to give other people so she wouldn't look bad. It ended up being that I was abusive, particularly emotionally abusive. Fortunately, given that I'd emotionally supported many of her family members through hard times, not everyone bought it hook line and sinker, but even though it ran counter to everything they knew about me they concluded "well where there's smoke there must be fire…
/r/MGTOW18/02/18 12:51 AM
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So according to this person, if you said you hate black people, then any black person should apologize, and ask what they can do to make it better for you? GTFO.
/r/MGTOW27/11/17 07:09 PM
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When you marry you entrust someone with the power to ruin you. And then you're telling me some random toxic person that joins my wife's company or social circle can get her to pull the trigger. I'd have to be insane to agree to that. This dude had foresight. Until my divorce, I absolutely did not grasp how important a woman's ability to withstand influence from her friends is. Now I can't fathom a long term relationship because I have zero interest in controlling anyone. The thought of hitching …
/r/MGTOW26/11/17 05:54 AM
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As everyone else is pointing out, these are kind of bullshit numbers. Here is a better set put together by a group of data scientists. You can see how education, race, etc impact divorce rates. They've got other really cool visualizations too on different topics. The cliffs notes are that it's about 42% at the worst. https://flowingdata.com/2016/03/30/divorce-rates-for-different-groups/
/r/MGTOW21/07/17 03:41 AM
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You are NOT sentenced to X years of misery because you had a relationship Y years long. There are averages, but it is way more in your control than you may realize. It's easiest to not feel remorse when your life is better in every way. That's always my goal post any breakup. I was with her for 8 years. Irrational for 6 months, slowly better for 6, and now a couple years afterwards I just thank my stars my train changed tracks because that old one was headed off a cliff. Whenever you feel down, …
/r/MGTOW19/06/17 05:18 PM
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Last two girlfriends over the course of 2 years resulted in exactly 2 dates where I took them to a restaurant or paid. I just say they can come along with whatever I was planning to do anyway. Otherwise I'm sorry I'm too busy. My friends can't understand how in the world I get away with it, but I think the girls realize that if they dump me I'll just shrug and move on with life. So sad that my best relationships ever are because I no longer give a shit because I have sadly accepted AWALT. Both o…
/r/MGTOW04/05/17 05:50 AM
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She doesn't understand stats. These groups are not close to random samples so you can talk about correlations but definitely not that marriage causes happiness. If you split up never married guys it's going to be a few mgtow and a lot of incels who are begging for the plantation but can't get accepted. If you look at married men you have a much more normal representation including a lot of guys who had everything going for them and got locked down as a result. Would it really be surprising you c…
/r/MGTOW18/04/17 05:03 PM
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http://www.statisticbrain.com/marriage-statistics I think this site does a better job. These guys are known for pretty good data visualizations. http://flowingdata.com/2016/03/30/divorce-rates-for-different-groups/
/r/MGTOW18/04/17 04:40 PM
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The ethics of abortion are one thing and that's a totally fair debate. ...but from a tax perspective, it's definitely cheaper to give a woman a few hundred dollars of free birth control than it is to end up with someone on welfare later in life. I think I read that for every $1 in taxes we spend on BC you save $16 down the road.
/r/MGTOW18/04/17 03:10 AM
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It's for an investment account. It's like being a startup that sells 50% of itself for the princely sum of nothing in return. You don't have to notarize anything else on the form. Just this.
/r/MGTOW18/04/17 02:58 AM
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Not entirely that simple though. They'd just make up shit and then you'd have false DV or other charges to go along with the divorce rape. Truly, the only way to win is to not play. Apparently Ronal Reagan became a big champion of no fault after having his wife drag him through the mud so she could leave him. "California was the first U.S. state to pass a no-fault divorce law. Its law was signed by Governor Ronald Reagan and came into effect on January 1, 1970. ... Before no-fault divorce was av…
/r/MGTOW17/03/17 04:02 PM
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Reminds me how the turkey thinks the farmer is its best friend until Thanksgiving day. Why would they be any different if life has just been never ending wish fulfillment from the moment they were 13? Adversity often breeds strength. If I were trying to create someone mediocre I would hand them everything and make sure they are never tested nor forced to rely on themselves.
/r/MGTOW11/02/17 05:06 PM
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My understanding is that if you show up to court, you get your money back. If you skip town, then you lose it. They set it high enough that you'd rather show up and face the consequences instead of lose the cash. However, most people can't afford a $200k bail. They go to a bail bondsman instead. That person will charge you ~10% or $20k. In exchange they'll front all $200k for you. Even if you show up you don't get the $20k back at all. But now if you skip, you're going to have dog the bounty hun…
/r/MGTOW19/12/16 05:38 AM
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First comment: "The real victim here is the next woman who makes a legit claim against a stalker in Orange County. If police respond as if her claims are false, there is a real possibility that she will be hurt or even killed." That's funny. I thought the real victim was the guy who was arrested 4 times for something he didn't do, his family that went through the stress of false accusations with him, and his grandmother that died before he was exonerated. He moved to TX afterwards; I'm sure it h…
/r/MGTOW19/12/16 05:34 AM
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I lol'ed at the part where she said she had 3 months of being single and found herself. Wow the bar is set low for adversity. Trainwreck from start to finish. I get the feeling that she has to reframe her failings as enlightenment. Her narrative is her safety blanket because it masks the truth that she's an utter mess. I can't imagine being so dysfunctional that I need to vomit out a piece like this to distract me from reality and the full on meltdown that would happen if I had to stare it in th…
/r/MGTOW15/12/16 07:03 AM
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I'm friends with several lawyers and when time came for me to hire one for family law every single one (male and female alike) said that I need to hire a woman. The reasoning was that the system is biased against men (something that all the female and male attorneys I met with immediately said to me) and that when it came to family matters a female attorney could use her gender to her advantage. Mostly so that it wouldn't look like a man beating up on a woman, and instead it'd be a woman beating…
/r/MGTOW09/12/16 01:02 AM
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From my young attractive female friends: It's almost entirely black and latino guys that do the type of outrageous cat calls. But if you walk by a bar on a Friday night then all the drunk white guys do it too. In a 10 minute walk through the city she will always get 1-5 comments (many from homeless guys). Some of them are pretty vulgar but she still sees them as a compliment. I think she realizes if people didn't give her this attention, then they probably also wouldn't let her get away with mur…
/r/MGTOW30/10/16 06:09 PM
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I'm kind of surprised reading the comments. Sure, some girls seem like they don't enjoy sex that much, but, some girls will black out during an orgasm. I'm sorry, but I have never experienced anything like that - even when it was really good.
/r/MGTOW09/09/16 03:31 AM
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I'm not sure I know of any school shooters, but the place does breed kids who commit suicide. I should know, because I went there and my best friend killed himself. Although in this case it was because they caught him smoking weed and kicked him out. Next year, the university I went to another kid killed himself. I was hardly surprised to hear he was another exeter grad. Of course, this is also a place that kicked out someone who thought they had bought adderal. Turns out it was aspirin, but bec…
/r/MGTOW09/09/16 03:15 AM
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I recently divorced after an 8 year relationship. 7 years was bliss, then I was unemployed and she got a better paying job and suddenly couldn't stand the burden of "carrying me." (Ofc if you totaled up the money we both contributed over the years I had her beat 2x at least) My roommate's younger sister was over this weekend. She dropped out of school because she felt like it, is "adventurous" and travels and as a result of course has no money. To get a meal while she was here she jumped on Tind…
/r/MGTOW06/06/16 07:21 AM
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Her only actual goal is to humblebrag to other women so they can see her as high status. Calling him a "weirdo" is part of the narrative that she just receives so much attention she can't handle it (and too bad for the other girls who don't).
/r/MGTOW26/05/16 03:27 AM
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I created an account just to say that I would love it if this happened. I love reading r/mgtow, but I'm totally aware of how malleable a human being's mind really is. It's essentially the Availability Heuristic - the stuff that is easy to recall or remember is erroneously seen by your mind as more common than it really is. I agree with other posters that the anger is really useful for those healing, but for those of us who are moving past it, I'd rather be inspired so that I can guard myself aga…
/r/MGTOW27/02/16 04:28 PM
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