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I didn’t get into my first relationship till I was 21 and I am still in that relationship now. It’s been about a year and a half. We met online, not through a dating app. We are currently long distance as I am finishing up my degree. I date with the intention of marriage and have never been interested in anything short term. It took me awhile to start dating because I had a lot of fear and anxiety. I’m also not very social and have been very education focused.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:35 AM
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I was the loneliest I felt in high school. I didn’t have friends. I sat alone at lunch for pretty much all 4 years. I had terrible anxiety and I was depressed. I would cry myself to sleep a lot and I thought about killing myself multiple times. Loneliness is about more than having a boyfriend. Some people’s brains are actively fighting against them. People can also be in a relationship and still struggle with their mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:51 PM
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I just don’t find the smashing and breaking of things to be particularly arousing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 12:14 AM
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I can’t really think of any. I’m not well versed in male celebrities. but think of the heartthrob characters in an early 2000s tv show.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:53 PM
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To each their own lol. I’m more into a clean cut masculine type.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:43 PM
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Hypermasculine invokes the image of a hairy lumberjack to me so no that is not what I am attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:40 PM
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If he takes an interest in my hobbies, goals, and desires by asking questions. If he respects my boundaries about intimacy and does not try to push or coerce me into something. If he makes time for me and showcases that I am a priority for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:01 PM
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I do take mental health very seriously and I understand the impact that loneliness has on a person. I am in a relationship so I would not be giving any other men romantic or sexual attention. However, even if i wasn’t in a relationship, I would not give attention or sex to men for the sole reason of wanting to help them because that would harm my mental health. I only want to have sex with someone I am i love with and it would greatly harm me to engage in casual sex. It would also be intolerable…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:37 PM
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It’s hard to know for sure how anyone would react when placed into an entirely different society with different cultural expectations. I understand that you want to get to the bottom of why women are attracted to men but sexuality is a bit hard to explain. A lot of it happens on the subconscious level. It’s chemical reactions and the ignition of the nervous system. I’ve only been sexually involved with one man so I can’t pull from a large amount of experiences to answer your questions. I had the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:53 PM
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I’ve never been physically attracted to a woman. I can acknowledge when a woman is beautiful but I wouldn’t want to be involved with them romantically or sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:33 PM
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For me personally, I find men physically attractive (height, muscles, jawlines, wide shoulders, etc) but what really makes me feel sexually attracted is my connection to them and behavioral/personality traits like masculinity and dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:26 PM
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I’m not fine with either of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:47 PM
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Yup. To me, sex is about love and connection. That cannot be achieved during a hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:39 AM
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It’s totally valid and normal to feel frustrated when things are going your way or your life isn’t how you want it to be. How you handle that frustration is the most important part
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:34 PM
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I’m sure that would help for a segment of women but I think there is also a large segment of women who aren’t interested in any hookups whether they are safe or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 11:31 PM
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yeah that’s why I said it’s not unique lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:10 PM
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My type has evolved a bit as I’ve gotten older. For example, I used to not find facial hair attractive at all when I was a teenager and that is no longer the case. However, a lot of the same traits have persisted and I won’t pretend that those traits are unique lol. I like men who are taller than me by quite a bit, lean body type, have a more masculine/dominant presence yet still kind and gentle. I wouldn’t say having this type has limited me at all and my boyfriend fits description.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:55 PM
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B. I have no interest in intimacy without connection. I would rather have someone who cares about me even if that means no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:23 PM
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Personally, that statement doesn’t make me feel anything. I found someone to put up with me 🤣 But I will say that individual women vary in how “high vs low maintenance” they are. There are absolutely women out there who are willing to put effort into a relationship. Is it easy to find someone good to be in a relationship with? Probably not. I don’t have much experience with dating but there are good men and women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 10:34 PM
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How someone chooses to express themselves through their personal style does say something about them. but sometimes the conclusions people draw might not be necessarily true. A woman can dress in a way that is considered “slutty” but not behave in a manner consistent with that or a woman can dress modestly and behave in an opposite way. As humans we cannot know every single person so we look for quick ways to assess them and how you present yourself is often the main way people make assumptions …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:47 PM
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If you don’t want a girl who goes clubbing all the time, then don’t pursue women who go clubbing. It’s easier to avoid people who display behavior you don’t like than to expect them to change once you start to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:33 PM
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I feel like no where online can be considered a “safe space.” If you want to talk about something and receive compassionate, nonjudgmental responses then you are better off talking to family, friends, a therapist, etc. People online will take the most innocuous comment and make it into a big spectacle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:17 PM
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No. I’ve never had causal sex and never have been interested in it. To me, it seems soulless and negates what sex is about to me which is connection and love
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:29 PM
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Sometimes a woman wanting to wait for sex has nothing to do with the man and everything to do with her own comfort and boundaries. Plus there are other ways to show attraction besides sex. Personally I wanted to wait till I was in love and completely ready to have sex for the first time and that’s what I did
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 12:26 PM
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I found out naturally. He knows mine and I know his
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:22 PM
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The honesty is worth something at least
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:18 PM
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I think it’s more likely to be the case but there are obviously shy women with high sex drives. It will just take longer for you to find it out than with a very forward woman. It could also be the case that someone looking for something more serious doesn’t want to completely lead with sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:05 PM
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