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| 25 | Do men even like women?? | AntiqueGhost13 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 02:39 AM |
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| 37 | Television New Zealand are holding an open casting call for a new reality dating show. The difference between the men's and women's questions is astounding.Oh yeah this sounds like fboy island. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 02:42 PM |
| 159 | Woman wants to stay after finding out her boyfriend of four years is still married - to his best friend - because they never filed the paperworkThe edits get more and more cope-y, like she's trying so hard to justify his lying. Like, please, the man has been hiding and lying about a marriage for over four years. What's the question at this point... 🤕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Masturbation requires porn apparentlyThe edits were even more aggressive and pickme 😩 Although I must say I was very pleasantly surprised by the comments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 03:03 PM |
| 7 | What are our thoughts on this culture of rushing into marriagePersonally, I think it's so foolish and unwise, and I find it so unfortunate that it's pushed as "goals". When I was a kid, I used to think it was ideal or expected to be married at 21 since you see it so much on TV/film, the high school sweethearts getting married right out of school and facing no adversity. Now I look at people in their late teens/early 20s and see practically babies. Not to beat a dead horse, but prefrontal cortex maturation continues until the mid-20s... Rational decision-ma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 04:54 PM |
| 4 | Some scrotes actually think like this--can you even imagine the privilege to complain about this???Did anyone else notice the pickmes in the comments saying women victimize themselves, #notallmen... As if DV and IPV isn't shockingly prevalent 😰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 04:33 PM |
| 19 | Pickme dates. He brought to the gym and for a walk? How romantic… Thoughts? 😂Girl, why would you be flexing on social media about having rock bottom standards 😰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 01:26 AM |
| 150 | Destroy the concept that your teen years are supposed to be fun and once you hit 25, you’re old and it’s over. Some of us had to heal from trauma during our teen years and our 20s (30s, 40s, 50s and so on) and would like to begin a good life without constantly being told it’s too late.All of the HVW I know in their 40s say the 30s were the best years so far. They say they look and feel better than they ever have, are financially stable, and give less of a crap about others' opinions. It sounds much more liberating than the years of young adulthood when you're so self-conscious and caught up in what everyone else is doing 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 01:34 AM |
| 36 | Andddd it’s confirmed. 🙄 my heart goes out to Anna💞This is insane to me. If these people weren't wealthy and famous, this situation would be viewed as low class and trashy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 07:09 PM |
| 13 | This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us.How can they call this subreddit toxic then go ahead and write a page-long psychotic torture fantasy like this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 04:16 PM |
| 71 | This is who really gets empowered by sex work.This is who's really benefiting from an industry that commodifies women's bodies... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 05:29 PM |
| 52 | This is really sad and honestly terrifyingThis is so unbelievably depressing. As is the comment from a SW saying she'd be out of clients if men were still attracted to their wives postpartum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 03:02 PM |
| 21 | Some women get so desperate for the ring they end up accepting any situation just for the sake of being married. Better be single than with scrotes like this...A part of me has to believe this isn't real. One of the comments says he didn't do his laundry for 6 weeks and drinks directly out of milk cartons? And she still had two kids with him at such a young age?? I just can't even fathom that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 01:02 PM |
| 58 | Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc.I think it's possible, albeit incredibly rare, and the desire to change has to be intrinsic. I met this LVM surgeon once who was a "reformed" playboy and settled down in his early 40s, probably because he saw all his friends doing the same. He would complain about his wife and kids every single day, would tell stories about the "hot" women he used to get in college, and would apparently still try to hook up with nurses. This is what I imagine happens to most former f-boys: begrudgingly settling … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 11:52 PM |
| 28 | Men admit to being sexually attracted to their 15 year old daughter’s UNDERAGE friends and gets THOUSANDS of upvotes. Honestly I think 99% of men are closet pedophiles and this is what most women with daughters will have to deal with.Honestly. Seen too much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 09:06 PM |
| 45 | Men admit to being sexually attracted to their 15 year old daughter’s UNDERAGE friends and gets THOUSANDS of upvotes. Honestly I think 99% of men are closet pedophiles and this is what most women with daughters will have to deal with.This is so viscerally appalling that I don't even have a strong enough word to describe it. Knowing there's so many perverts like this in the world makes me want to go off the grid and live in a cabin in the mountains. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 08:41 PM |
| 15 | "Sexual compability"1000% agree that it's just a cop-out and a line used to hit it and quit it. And definitely agree that compatibility in regards to preferences and desires is something that can be discussed without needing to "sample the goods". People are willing to put up with all kinds of terrible behavior and emotional abuse, but "sexual incompatibility" is the sudden deal breaker? Not buying it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 05:54 PM |
| 29 | Can you even spell my name?God, this is tragic. I'm sorry. Even the guy I've been seeing for 3 weeks can spell my first and last name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 01:33 AM |
| 43 | He proposed on our 1st anniversary. Success story!What a beautiful ring! Congrats!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Pedophiles in the comments are telling on themselves.Naturally all the comments are people intentionally missing the point by going into an argument about semantics. All these pedophiles outing themselves. I feel disgusting just watching sex scenes between characters on shows who are supposed to be in high school, even when the actors are in their 20s. But I guess these people have no problem admitting they like teenagers :vomit: | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on dating men without fathersI recently came to the realization that I have a pattern of attraction to men with a history of poor relationships with their fathers or grew up without them entirely. They've all had severe emotional issues that they weren't willing to work through, and it manifested in their crappy treatment of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 03:56 PM |
| 4 | Reminder: FDS is not heavily focused on how to improve your appearance"Based on her character" -- 100% agreed. It's not a moral shortcoming to not be conventionally attractive. We shouldn't be so fixated on appearance, but rather how someone treats themself and others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 04:24 PM |
| 43 | Targeting👏Young👏Girls👏Is👏Wrong👏Agreed! Her youth becomes apparent when you hear her singing about getting her driver's license and listening to Billy Joel as if that's a rarity. I'd feel like an absolute creep pursuing a teenager. I've been reflecting on these pairings recently, and it's disappointing and disturbing. Grooming is so prevalent in Hollywood, and it sets a bad example for ordinary folks. I'm glad people are becoming more aware and critical of it, but there's still way too many people whose argument lacks nuance, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 04:16 PM |
| 5 | Proper posture is sexy!Damn, is that why I hunch over?? 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 02:57 PM |
| 6 | How not to OLD with a scrote. I played the pickmeisha because this guy was so obnoxious. I added comments to each screenshot and more in comments.I'm cackling so hard. So CORNY. Using cheesy pick-up lines comes across as so inauthentic and disingenuous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Translation: “I have no plans for my future but I will abide to yours until I find the next best thing”This is repulsive, and I'm flabbergasted there people who think this is acceptable. Her posts sound fake tbh, and I hope to God they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 05:30 PM |
| 56 | Beware of Male PostersI guess that explains the recent influx of rude, nasty comments. Don't they have anything better to do than harass strangers on the internet? Absolute cave dwellers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 05:26 PM |
| 18 | Rejection is redirectionBlegh, currently going through the same thing, yet again. It's genuinely devastating to play house for a few months then be unceremoniously discarded when they get bored or find something "better". This is a good reminder to choose yourself and not settle for pitiful crumbs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: Has anyone else watched the TV show “Manifest”? I can’t help but notice a lot of HVM qualities in Ben Stone.I certainly developed a bit of a crush on Josh Dallas from that show lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 03:46 PM |
| 16 | She’s 19 and pregnant by a 28 y/o 🤡 The age gap strikes again! 🤢🤢🤢1000% agree. A child, a literal teenager. Babies shouldn't be having babies; it benefits no one. I can't even read that original post. It's too disturbing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 01:01 PM |
| 93 | Billie Elish bf is 10 years older than her.Completely agree. It's problematic and gross and sets a terrible example. I'm praying for a time when adolescent celebrities set the example that you don't need a SO to be "complete", especially a creepy predatory one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 02:21 PM |
| 27 | What every woman wants to hearI would've believed this was "romantic" before, but not now. I refuse to do 100% of the emotional labor. Not happening, and not putting up with garbage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 02:14 PM |
| 15 | Remember, men have no problem using you for relationship benefits until they find someone betterThis is relatable. I feel like a foster home for emotionally unavailable men until they find their forever home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 12:26 AM |
| 1 | 🚩 RED FLAGS 🚩 Career edition 🤭😳 (psychopath edition 🥲🧛♂️)Not bad tbh 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 04:44 PM |
| 20 | 🚩 RED FLAGS 🚩 Career edition 🤭😳 (psychopath edition 🥲🧛♂️)Ngl I did PA school cause I knew I'd end up on SSRIs otherwise | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 04:11 AM |
| 10 | 🚩 RED FLAGS 🚩 Career edition 🤭😳 (psychopath edition 🥲🧛♂️)So true for ortho 😅 I've met some shockingly wholesome neurosurgeons. It's a whole mixed bag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 04:09 AM |
| 9 | Has anyone watched Married At First Sight? It's basically the pairing of LVM with women who need therapy. The latest season has truly broken one of the cast members, Paige. This show is dangerous.I used to think their intentions were good in the earlier seasons, but as it went along it became all about the drama. And the "experts" have been doing so little to step in. Your radar would have to be that of a 4-year-old to let Chris get past the first interview. Most of the guys on that show are a nightmare 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 10:39 PM |
| 19 | Too many Pickmeisha’s are levelling up on their looks and not their mentality. It changes nothing except giving more men the illusion of choice.100% agreed. I feel like such a hater saying it, but I can't stand seeing so many profiles from people my age whose entire page is pictures of them meticulously posed in front of a painted wall. They're not actually doing anything. Then they archive photos that don't get as much engagement and pare it down to 16 perfectly curated photos. It's so unnatural and superficial. One of the biggest things I resent about social media is how dependent we've become on "likes" for validation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 10:41 PM |
| 8 | The plastic surgery industry thrives based on the insecurity of women due to the demands of the patriarchy.I've found my brief experiences in plastic surgery to be kind of depressing. Women coming in asking "what do I need?" and surgeons rattling off a list of procedures and injections, pointing out micro-flaws the women didn't even notice before. Women in their early 20s hyperfocusing on every line or overinflating their lips. Women in their 60s and 70s absolutely petrified of aging naturally. I love the reconstructive side, but the cosmetic aspect feels borderline predatory. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 03:22 PM |
| 35 | The Pink Tax and Makeup CultureCompletely agree. The time and money we're conditioned to put into grooming and preening is silly when you step back to think about it. And the number of steps involved in "getting ready" keeps growing. These industries prey on women's insecurities for a profit. We don't need any of this, yet we're socialized to believe it's necessary and enjoyable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 02:34 PM |
| 70 | The wall is real. For men. Exhibit #7777 😉Clearly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 05:31 AM |
| 634 | The wall is real. For men. Exhibit #7777 😉I thought the exact same thing thing I saw the trailer 🤣 the women look incredible. The guys... rough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 05:21 AM |
| 245 | Don’t Let him Skip the CourtshipI'm dying at the watching LOTR part 🤣 Invited you up at 2pm smh. Couldn't even do the absolute bare minimum. It's really astounding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 08:04 PM |
| 142 | Woman spends THREE YEARS as a FWB, later feels resentful about it. 😔Ladies—we can and must demand more.This is just embarrassing. We collectively need to stop settling for this treatment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 04:49 PM |
| 9 | Do not take that condom offI encountered a patient once, 20 year old male, who came in for STI testing because he had had sex with an escort with visible genital lesions, followed by 7 other women. Turns out he had HIV, chlamydia, and HSV. Ended up passing it on to an 18 year old girl whose first time was with him, along with who knows who else. Disturbing stuff tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 01:02 PM |
| 8 | LVM and their "advice" to young girlsI had a peds attending once tell me a woman's most important purpose in life is having kids, and the pick-me 22 year old scribe started agreeing with him. I was not having it. Meanwhile, my female peds preceptor was the only person who ever said something to me along the lines of "...when you have kids-- if you want to. Don't feel pressured..." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 05:34 PM |
| 206 | That's what you get when you build a manI don't know why I'm at all surprised the top-voted comments are telling her shes TA. Very telling about how that subreddit views women. Guess you should be grateful your boyfriend rates you a generous 8 and graciously allows you to make him look more presentable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 03:16 PM |
| 49 | Dr. Anthony Youn, High Value King 🙌I can't stop watching his videos recently. Love him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 12:07 PM |
| 17 | Online dating programs you to settleThis is a big part of the reason I don't like or use OLD. It feels like you're digging around for the least terrible option, which isn't saying much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 07:47 PM |
| 9 | Have you ever rejected a man because of his sexual history?The way men speak about prior partners is very telling imo. If they boast about how extensive their history is or make rude remarks about past female partners... huge red flag and turn off. One thing I don't tolerate in anyone, including male friends, is telling embarrassing stories about women just to get a laugh out of their audience, at the expense of someone else during a vulnerable moment. It's tacky and disrespectful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 04:43 PM |
| 5 | One of the most disgusting things I've ever readWhat kind of misogynistic garbage is this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:24 PM |
| 5 | I never support violence against anybody but this scrote is making me see red.He sounds like the kind of guy who thinks menstruation is "gross" and should be hidden. People who act like normal physiologic bodily functions are disgusting or "gory" are the weakest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 03:05 PM |
| 3 | This is why FDS exists. To counteract the army of redpillers/PUA who have been taught to prey on vulnerable women.Wow I completely forgot about RoK. I liked it better that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/21 01:00 AM |
| 13 | I’ve had to use this so many times, sadly it doesn’t always work.."I don't see him" 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/21 12:56 AM |
| 16 | Do men even like women??Make it make sense 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 03:13 AM |
| 9 | Do men even like women??THIS, 100%. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 03:12 AM |
| 4 | If this has been posted before please remove it. But sisters, this is where 50-50 will get you. It's their kid, but her bills.Same. The stats alone tell me all I need to know about this big hot mess. Bleck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 01:38 AM |
| 2 | What do y’all think about this video? Asking because I don’t know what to thinkI feel like this is saying there's this dichotomy where you're either a wild libfem or conservative tradwife. While there are women who fall on the extremes of the spectrum, it can be a spectrum nonetheless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 06:14 PM |
| 23 | Ohio State Grooms Students into Sex WorkCareer services really needs to step it up 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Just because you’re a rare case does not mean you should encourage others to give it up on the first date. Please- vet your partners before giving them any!That's not something to brag about :| | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 12:31 PM |
| 4 | Scrote tropes decodedEXACTLY. A lot of these are good traits, but if you have to say it, you're probably not it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Teenage girls are proud to be approached by college guys. They really believe they are ”the winners of the game”🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️Would certainly be disturbing for women in their late 20s to be encouraging this to impressionable teenagers. Although tbf, her hands look young. Or maybe I just have old lady hands LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 08:57 PM |
| 21 | Teenage girls are proud to be approached by college guys. They really believe they are ”the winners of the game”🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️Girl, you don't have "game". You look like easy prey. Pitiful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 02:08 PM |
| 24 | Cosmopolitan. Why, WHY did I regarded it like the bible once?? SMH. 'WomYN HYperGAMouS BAD, man naturally born one uppers GOOD.Nasty. Why are they giving disgusting a-holes like this a platform? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 03:44 PM |
| 21 | I am so glad that more and more women are realising that casual sex is a complete scam for women.EXACTLY. This is another thing that kills me. It's not a need, it's a biological drive. You won't individually die without it. But people absolutely use that as a flimsy excuse to behave poorly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 10:07 PM |
| 2 | There should be a website where we can leave reviews for men we've dated.I'm googling screenshots and having war flashbacks. You could submit guys you know, upload pictures, and rate them on different attributes. I remember I used to see so many comments dragging guys for being cheap or having a massive ego. I wonder if I have screenshots on my ancient iPod. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 02:07 AM |
| 3 | There should be a website where we can leave reviews for men we've dated.I remember looking up guys I knew on Lulu in college. It was a real riot seeing the things girls said about them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 12:41 AM |
| 73 | This Sub is so empowering that I can't stand other relationship subredditsI had to unfollow all of those subs for my sanity. Every other post is "My (23F) husband (52M) of five years told me I'm not doing enough around the house, even though I cook three times a day, clean every day, and stay at home with our three kids (4M, 3F, 1M). He says he pulls his weight by being the breadwinner and that I'm lucky to have the luxury of being a SAHM. I tried telling him I'm exhausted and need his help babysitting sometimes. AITA?" It's hazardous to my mental health to see so man… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 02:57 AM |
| 72 | "You're being sex negative!" is so insulting to women. True sex positivity for women is impossible to achieve in a patriarchal world. Requiring women to be "sex positive" before dismantling patriarchy is such a "fuck you" to women.So poignantly and accurately said. I personally resent this modern movement that ultimately does nothing but objectify and commidify women's bodies. There's nothing empowering about being used transactionally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 10:51 PM |
| 11 | Anyone else struggle to make other lady friends? 🥺SAME. I'm at the point where I only want to surround myself with people who are motivated,, with a strong sense of self, and who are invested in real self-improvement. It sounds bad to say, but I can't be around women whose entire identity revolves around men, especially LVM. I can't be friends with people who don't know how to be single for more than a month, and that seems to describe most people I encounter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 02:53 AM |
| 5 | Why do men marry a woman they don't actually love, continue to have children with her, and cheat? Why not stop before the marriage? Why not divorce?Seems like a lot of men want to have their cake and eat it too. They want the comfort and stability of a relationship, the illusion of a white picket fence life with the 2.5 kid nuclear family, and the ability to dip into other options. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 07:53 AM |
| 7 | My now fiancé took me to the nail salon just a few days before proposing to make sure my nails were done for the photos. It only took him nine months to propose! He always knew I was the one for him. Your HVM is out there ladies!Love to see it. Congratulations! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 06:16 PM |
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