Antique_Mountain_263 Archive

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7	Body count preferences: Why some men want women with little to no past I’m a married woman ten years older than you and I agree with what you’re saying. It makes sense that men want to marry and have children with women who are more selective and thoughtful about who they have sex with. Women who sleep with a lot of different men, especially outside of relationships, are usually more impulsive and reckless. Those qualities could make marriage, parenthood, and having a stable life more difficult. Unfortunately, sometimes girls don’t have adequate protection and guid…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/06/26 06:42 PM
6	Are women meant to be alone in the end after all? Sometimes he has more energy than me. He exercises, takes the kids out on bike rides, takes them to the pool, and does other fun errands, makes sure we have everything we need, and still has the energy to talk to me and spend special time after they’re in bed. What women should be doing is picking men who want to be fathers and husbands. When I first started dating my husband, my friend who was also a mutual of his, warned me that he was “boring.” He wasn’t a party guy, didn’t drink, and didn’t …	/r/RedPillWomen	17/06/26 03:53 PM
12	Are women meant to be alone in the end after all? My husband is four years older and I would say he is slightly older but still my peer. We have built a wonderful marriage together, married for ten years with four kids. He has the energy for all of us. We understand each other. We share laughs over the same things, understand the same cultural references, communicate similarly, etc. You don’t have to marry a much older man for a traditional marriage. My family right now is taking care of the great-grandmother (matriarch) and though we love her,…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/06/26 11:52 AM
2	What is a realistic weight/body goal? You’re still nursing, you can run, you’re taking care of four kids every day! And you’re already slim and healthy. You are crushing it at mom life! Your body has done so much and is still going strong. Someday when you’re older, 60, 70 or 80 years old, you’re going to remember the days of how agile and strong your younger body felt. You’re in the good times now mama. As far as lifting, we have a home gym set up so I usually do it at home. I stick to the basics - squats, lunges, hip thrusts, dead…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/06/26 02:32 PM
1	What is a realistic weight/body goal? Girlie. My four kids are the exact same ages as yours. I only feel like I’m just now feeling like myself again. Pregnancy and postpartum really takes so much out of you. But I thought you were going to say you were 20-30 pounds overweight. You are at a perfectly healthy weight. You are already thin for your height. It’s definitely the dance culture affecting your mindset. I’m 5’8” 150lbs and muscular because I lift. 140 is my goal weight (pre-kids), I was definitely skinny then. However, I look …	/r/RedPillWomen	10/06/26 12:13 AM
-1	Orgasm gap is not caused by men, its caused by women because they don’t close the gap of effort gap Married ten years and my husband and I both orgasm every single time, and use no toys, no porn, or other objects lol.. I don’t know about most women not participating in sex.. I actively participate in the marital act every time. I would question if a woman was really interested if she is just lying there, not participating, every time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/26 12:34 PM
9	Women will inevitably change after kids, if you can't understand this just don't have kids I agree with this take. Yes, our young children need so much from us right now. We have to be creative and adaptive to make time for each other in this season. But I still do the little things for him. Have a warm meal for him when he gets home from work, keep the fridge stocked with his favorite drinks and protein shakes, give him a hug and kiss before he leaves and when he gets home, schedule most of the kids activities during the week (so our weekends are open to do what we want), etc. I want…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/26 02:13 PM
4	Any chronically depressed RP women found a way to get the light back in their eyes they had when they were younger? You’re young still! Get in the gym and lift weights, sprint, Pilates, workout classes, whatever you like best. Exercise gives you endorphins and makes you look hot. Do your best to get a full night of sleep every night. Lack of sleep makes me look and feel worse. Spend a month only wearing skirts/skorts/dresses. I tried this challenge a few years ago and it was so fun. I automatically feel more feminine in a dress and people out in public treat you differently too, compared to wearing workout cl…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/05/26 01:09 AM
14	Sometimes feelingweird about the fact my boyfriend has a “line” with revealing clothes even though we mostly agree on it? Sounds like your boyfriend respects you and is just trying to protect you. You asked him what he thought about you wearing an ultra short revealing skirt that would show your entire butt and underwear (and potentially genitals) in public? You realize that other creepy men will be able to see it too. Take pictures of you when you’re not looking. Not just other young attractive guys will be looking. Older men from other cultures (who don’t respect consent at all) could you see too. There is a diff…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/05/26 12:36 PM
64	How do you find a conservative/right wing man? Volunteering in conservative politics, campaigns, going to Young Republican events, going to a conservative leaning church, make friends with conservatives and ask them to introduce you to their friends, go to the gym. A lot of the older ladies at political events have sons, grandsons, nephews, etc	/r/RedPillWomen	03/05/26 12:04 AM
1	Almost 11 months postpartum with second baby and really struggling I know… it does sound naggy when you have to ask a bunch. I’m not sure if you’re religious but I definitely prayed about it, for God to help him understand me and for me to express myself clearly to him. But ultimately I held my ground and probably did sound naggy to him. When I got to the point where I felt I couldn’t safely drive, I asked him to drive us since I couldn’t do it safely. I did not ask or give him the option of me driving because I truly couldn’t. If he couldn’t, then I would resc…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/05/26 06:49 PM
1	Almost 11 months postpartum with second baby and really struggling It could also be that he doesn’t wake her up and leaves the baby to cry alone. That would be my fear at least.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/04/26 09:18 PM
1	Almost 11 months postpartum with second baby and really struggling Great advice as always. I also recommend the ear plugs, eye mask, air purifier, fan blasting, magnesium, GABA, weighted blanket, lavender room spray, every sleep gadget and supplement you think would help. It took me trying several things to learn what helped me sleep the most, even when I was being woken up a lot.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/04/26 02:25 PM
2	Almost 11 months postpartum with second baby and really struggling I have been here with the extreme sleep deprivation, many times with my four kids. I even had to get on sleep medication, because even when my one year old sleeps all night, I still have trouble. It’s like my sleep rhythm has been damaged by the years of lack of sleep. It’s slowly getting better for me, but sleep deprivation is very serious. It affects your whole body and mind. You are not the same person when you’re exhausted as when you’re rested. You having break downs is a clear sign of that…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/04/26 02:20 PM
6	For those marriage-minded women looking to find a husband, are you really dating only one person at a time? Before my now husband and I started dating, we were “talking.” When we first started this talking stage, I was “talking” to another guy. I had never kissed the other guy, we were just getting to know each other to decide if we wanted to start dating. As soon as I started “talking” to my now husband, I stopped talking to the other guy. I was crushing so hard on my husband and I lost interest in the other guy. It didn’t feel right to string him along. Ten month later, I was engaged. I can’t imagin…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/04/26 03:38 AM
2	Polygamy… 💕💀 So you’re an affair partner? This is not polygamy. This whole thing sounds stupid and fake.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/04/26 03:14 PM
2	Women do not peak in their 20s The point is that the best matches and marriages are between a man and a woman in the same life stage / near the same age. Men shouldn’t have to wait decades to marry and start a family, and women shouldn’t have to settle for old men when they’re young. Young men and women are generally both in their physical peak in their 20s. We need young healthy moms and dads who will be around for most of their children’s lives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 12:16 PM
3	Women do not peak in their 20s In our hunter gatherer days, people died in their 30s and 40s. 40s is two decades off from 20s lol. What percentage of men are pro MMA athletes? Relationships are most stable (and least likely to get divorced) when the couple is in the same life stage, which I would personally define as within ten years of each other. Please don’t try and suggest that 40 something year old men should be pairing up with teenage girls. 🤢I promise middle aged men are invisible to young women unless they’re Chris Ev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 01:57 AM
7	Women do not peak in their 20s Women’s attraction is also tied to men’s strength, health, and fitness, thick hair, bright eyes, all things correlated with youth. That why men in their 20s and early 30s are at their “peak.” Military has age limits, athletes don’t normally play long into their 30s. 40s is definitely not male peak anymore. And it’s okay. Men and women can (and do) still find romantic partner at any age. It’s okay to not be at your physical “peak” anymore. No one should take it personally. Just embrace your age a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 10:45 PM
12	Women do not peak in their 20s No, it’s the same for men. 30s and 40s is when a lot of balding starts, they start getting overweight, aging, etc. Men and women can both stay looking close to physical peak in their 30s if they take great care of themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/26 08:39 PM
2	I don't think I can live the life I want or be the woman I want to be if I have kids Stop looking at that subreddit. I am 34 with four kids and have never looked at it. I love my kids and I still keep up with my fitness and looks, skincare, cute outfits, long hair, lashes/nails (though I do them at home), make up to enhance my features, white straight teeth, etc. I love my children, I always wanted children. If you want them, be a good and virtuous woman who will attract a great man. Then you can build a great family. It’s not always easy, sometimes it’s hard. Life is hard for e…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/04/26 11:41 PM
3	Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age. I think this is probably true for some women. For others, large age gaps are seen as predatory or gross because very young women often lack life experience to realize what’s happening. Why would a pretty 22 year old date a man 20-30 years older than her, waste her youth and fertile years on him (if he doesn’t want to marry), or become a very young widow someday (if they do marry), when she could build a life with a man in her same age range and life situation? Someone she actually finds physical…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/26 07:39 AM
7	Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age. Yes, maybe in the past the men would “breed” with multiple younger women, but only if he was the strongest, the tallest, the fastest and most intelligent, with resources. Which is similar to today.. professional athletes (and the like) often have children with many women who they may or may not marry. Average men don’t have that option.. which is most men. Some of these high status men don’t continue to pursue younger women because they prefer monogamy, are religious, truly love their woman, wan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/26 01:25 AM
2	If a man asks me to fly out to see him should I expect him to pay? Oh I’m sorry that your family isn’t able to help you out. I would just tread lightly because you simply don’t know him. He could seem totally normal on the outside but might be a pervert and a bad person in secret. He might also be a great guy. You just don’t know. If he is really interested in seeing you again, he can fly to your city (don’t tell him your address or invite him to your house). He can get a hotel and then you can meet up with him for activities/meals. Then you will be in a safe a…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/26 12:44 PM
1	If a man asks me to fly out to see him should I expect him to pay? Is he from where you live? Maybe he could visit home sometime? You could meet up for lunch, activities, dinner, etc and get to know him again on your terms. Where you can safely go home when you wanted to. And say goodbye at the end of the night and go to your home, so you don’t feel pressured to sleep with him. I would not recommend planning to spend the night with someone that you haven’t seen in years. Especially not in another country. Do you know his family, any of his friends? Ask about hi…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/02/26 03:18 AM
1	You're a slim, shorter (5'5 and under) 20-something Girl. What Are Your "Asks?" I was in your shoes ten years ago, except I’m a little taller. 22 yo, long hair light colored hair, athletic and slim, green eyes, college educated with a solid job. I got a well educated intelligent man, taller than me but not over six feet, pretty eyes, fit, a few years older, provider mentality, steady job but he wasn’t earning much yet. We are also both religious and that was really important to us. Got engaged after ten months of dating. Ten years later and I had our four babies by the time…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/26 12:18 AM
2	The 'Mankeeping' narrative shows that women are openly hostile to discussing men's emotional labor load You are totally right about all the emotional labor men do. This was interesting to read. Makes me appreciate my husband that much more!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/26 02:37 AM
2	How often do you get hurt by female doctors/nurses? I’ve given birth four times and almost all of my nurses, doctors, and midwives have been women. The majority of them were professional and even great. A few didn’t seem very caring, but maybe they were having a bad day. A few were young and seemed nervous. I’ve never experienced anyone who intentionally tried to hurt me at a hospital. Overall, the care I got after delivering was excellent every time. I wouldn’t want to have a baby in any other country.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/26 11:02 PM
4	Would you date a man who makes less than you? You’re right, my perspective on dating is old. It’s actually non existent. I met my husband when I was 13 and I never had to try. I’m trying to arrange my kids marriages someday too lol (they’re toddlers). Honestly dating seems awful today.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 04:17 AM
9	Would you date a man who makes less than you? I wasn’t trying to give any advice here and I also never dated, my husband was my first boyfriend. But you are a sheltered person who hasn’t gotten out much if you think 33 is old. You’ll see someday 😊	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 03:38 AM
14	Would you date a man who makes less than you? “Current people” is tripping me up a bit lol, we are all alive so we are current people. Maybe you mean young and single? I’m 33 and already been married ten years because I met my husband young. But there are people my age and older still dating, looking to get married, and start a family. And people of all ages can be single. Old people can be single too. Young people can be married and off the market. I have a friend who is 26, already married for eight years with three kids. I have another f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 03:21 AM
7	Would you date a man who makes less than you? Whats the age range of the current men and women, just curious? Under 30?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/26 02:40 AM
9	I used to follow this sub, now I'm done with men Granted I don’t have much dating experience… but my husband has never asked for anything related to anal sex. I’m sorry that you’ve had this experience with men. That would be very offputting for me too. My husband does cherish me and provide for our family. There are good ones out there, but I think it heavily depends on your region, religion, age, etc.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/12/25 09:52 PM
2	F (25) another rant I love your comments on here 🙏 I just think that there are so many more honest ways to earn a living that are not remotely sexual, which allow women to preserve their dignity and self respect. Especially in their husband or future husband’s eyes.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/12/25 09:18 PM
1	F (25) another rant I agree that sex work is exploitation and maybe OF doesn’t have the same violence and exploitation that other sex work has, but in my dad’s eyes (and how he taught me) it’s the same. If you take your clothes off to excite men and get paid for it, that’s prostitution. He is a very old school guy.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/12/25 12:35 PM
1	F (25) another rant Sex work is not real work. OnlyFans is all about selling scared parts of yourself to men who are deep into the sin of lust. It doesn’t show value for either side to engage in that kind of behavior. There is so incredibly much more in the world that they could pursue.. medicine, engineering, ballet, pastry cooking, creative writing, design, environmentalism, education… And on and on. They chose nothing productive and instead, the basest of human desires. Even if it’s a “hobby” it’s not a good one…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/12/25 12:32 PM
1	Partner weight gain as a way of stabilizing sex life? My advice.. make those meals protein focused and then go to the gym with him. Eating a lot plus lifting heavy in his 20s will bulk him up in a good way. A layer of chub over muscle on some men looks good.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/12/25 02:13 AM
13	Career women, do you regret it ? I also went to college and started my career for a bit before I quit at age 25 to have my first baby (I’m 33 now). I was in accounting and I did it solely for the money. It was not rewarding to me in any way. I think there is a big difference if you plan to work as a doctor, surgeon, teacher etc. Careers that are meaningful to you and to the community (especially if they pay well) will make it more worthwhile to go back. Also, medical jobs often have more flexibility. Even as a doctor, you could…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/12/25 02:12 AM
1	Postpartum and my husband has turned emotionally cruel. Is this abuse or stress? Yes that all sounds like psychological abuse! I feel so sorry for you! This is such a vulnerable and sacred time with your newborn and a good husband fully supports and cares for his wife during this time. You will never forget the way he is treating you now. If you stay together, you’ll need to discuss it because this is so painful for him to be doing.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/11/25 01:55 PM
21	If the U.S. only allowed women to immigrate, most of the usual left/right arguments basically disappear. Not just the U.S. but Europe as well. I wouldn’t say it’s “male” problems as much as it is the cultural issues that the men from certain countries bring with them, which the women wouldn’t or would at a much lower rate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/25 07:26 PM
2	Getting Married Over the Wall at 42 (first marriage) Oh I love that! 🙏	/r/RedPillWomen	19/11/25 11:02 PM
4	Getting Married Over the Wall at 42 (first marriage) Wow five babies in five years? That’s amazing! I had four in six years. It’s not easy to do. I’m finally a year and a half postpartum and not pregnant. Feels nice to be more myself for the first time in a while.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/11/25 08:25 PM
1	Getting Married Over the Wall at 42 (first marriage) Interesting love story, thanks for sharing. Curious, do you wear a hijab now? Or is that something more traditional Muslims do?	/r/RedPillWomen	19/11/25 08:23 PM
1	Would you date a bi man? Yes obviously heard of them! They’re just not common in conservative small towns in the south. Or at least weren’t over ten years ago when my husband and I started dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/25 01:18 AM
5	Would you date a bi man? Having had a relationship with a trans person would signal to me that we have very different social circles and beliefs, and we aren’t compatible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/25 01:01 PM
2	Would you date a bi man? The USA? lol we live in a conservative area.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/25 12:59 PM
4	Would you date a bi man? Well he is my husband of ten years now so… I wouldn’t divorce him over it. I would feel strange about it though. He is a traditional, conservative, and masculine man who never had trouble getting dates or relationships with pretty women lol. I don’t think he even knew a trans person up until this last year lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/25 02:56 AM
2	Girls, I fumbled so hard. Don’t do what I did… I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this! I hope you can find a good solution. In my experience, men can learn to do these things. I also used to do everything for my husband when we were first married. Now that we have little kids, I literally can’t do it all. At first, he only noticed but didn’t help. And I didn’t ask either. 🤦‍♀️ But eventually I did start asking and he started taking initiative. Tonight while I was putting the kids to bed, he was downstairs vacuuming and cleaning up their mess …	/r/RedPillWomen	15/11/25 02:51 AM
7	Would you date a bi man? If this was before I met my husband obviously 1. No, sorry. 2. Yeah, I think I would at least give him a chance if I like him otherwise. 3. No, sorry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/25 02:42 AM
3	Men shouldn't expect women to settle for them in their prime (20's) because men themselves don't have a prime they can give women. Men’s “prime” equivalent is also in their 20s when they’re also young, in good shape, with less baggage. They don’t need to already be rich and successful, but have the attributes, potential, and discipline to be successful men and good fathers. And be someone that a woman can build a life with. Most people have the best long term relationship success with people within a few years of their age (less than ten years). I actually think my husband is attractive and enjoy having sex with him, theref…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/25 01:18 PM
7	Why is sex a nontradeable ? I mean.. for many religious people, we do ascribe very high value to sex. We, as women, are literally giving the man access to our live giving source, our womb. There are also lots of non-religious reasons to be selective about sex partners, and even waiting until marriage. My own personal view is that I love “belonging” to only one man, and he belongs to me. We have a connection like no other. Our intimacy created little human beings that we are now raising. It’s pretty incredible that we can c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 06:26 PM
–	Q4W: Why do you want to marry and date men, given that the majority of women are not attracted to the male body? We are attracted to the male body. Bodies that take care of themselves. It also matters who the person inside of that body is. We all have our types, but we don’t feel attraction the same way men do. We operate on menstrual cycles with four phases, or women take hormonal birth control which can also greatly alter their physical attraction. I am not attracted to every guy I see, but I am attracted to my husband. I am only sexually attracted to men and I also wanted to have babies, which we did. H…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/25 11:14 PM
2	They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married. Sounds like an amazing wedding!	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/25 07:38 PM
–	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. Oh I didn’t know that. It would make sense then. But I wonder if the stereotype is really true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 04:26 PM
–	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. Yes exactly. We need to tell women the truth (or at least this perspective that a lot of men have) so they aren’t left with regret and upset they never had a chance at a happy marriage and family. Many women were lied to or just never told this advice. “Staying pure” sounds really backwards and oppressive today, but there were real reasons that we were taught to do this throughout history. I’m not here to shame any woman for her past. You are a whole human being, no matter your sexual history. B…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 02:14 PM
–	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. That’s what my husband said basically. He also said women who have spent a lot of time traveling to other countries alone are perceived as more promiscuous. It must be a man thing because I don’t make that correlation. But I’m not into travel culture so I don’t know much about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 02:06 PM
–	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. I don’t think not traveling means you stay home and never try new things. Traveling wasn’t ever a hobby of mine (outside of the travels I did with family). I still try lots of new things- new exercise classes at the gym, reading books about topics I don’t know much about, volunteering in the community, chatting up strangers in public and hearing their life stories, trying new recipes with my kids, taking on a new DIY house project, etc. I do like to be home, but I’m always learning something new…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 02:04 PM
–	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. Just here to say I’m an early 30s woman who wanted marriage (married almost ten years now).. all of my friends are married women and my siblings are all married. Many women do want marriage. Check out the Waiting to Wed subreddit or other relationship groups. The women who do want to marry and have children should at least be made aware that certain behaviors will limit their potential options someday. Modern feminism / culture tells them they can do whatever they want without consequences but t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 12:16 PM
–	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. I was surprised when I saw a survey that said men found “travel” to be an unattractive hobby for a woman to have. I asked my husband and he agreed with this sentiment. It’s just something as a woman I would have never given a second thought. I will say I find it kind of annoying when people who travel talk all about their amazing travels and we are all just left listening to them for half an hour lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 12:09 PM
1	32F Can my pros outweigh my cons? Her title says “32F”	/r/RedPillWomen	18/09/25 12:38 PM
2	Lost on how to move forward in my relationship need advice from wiser women. Sounds like what you were (and liked about the relationship) were the dominant / submissive roles in and out of the bedroom, which is fine, but I don’t know if either of you are mature enough for that. That dynamic requires a lot of trust and understanding, and you’re both so young. I agree with having conversations face to face. I think face to face communication is what is missing so badly from the under 25 cohort right now. I guarantee you the conversation will go differently in person compar…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/09/25 04:00 PM
1	Is 22/23 too young to get married?? No not at all! I was 23 when I got engaged and we had a very long engagement so I was 24 when we finally got married. But I knew at age 22 that I was going to marry him. And we’re eleven years together going strong	/r/RedPillWomen	11/09/25 08:13 PM
5	Women who embrace femininity and let men lead seem way happier… coincidence? Well, yes absolutely 💁‍♀️ I live this every day. When you have a good man, he makes it easy to be this way. There’s also the added benefit that I grew up in a traditional and religious household and reaped all the benefits of that.. being mentally and emotionally healthy, having a support system, no childhood trauma, being closely guided and parented in the teen years, being encouraged to follow traditional values in my early 20s.. yes all those things contributed too. Unfortunately not all wome…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/08/25 04:42 PM
4	Dating a millionnaire Older doesn’t mean they’re more mature or would be better partners, even if they are “ready to settle down.” I bet there are tons of great guys closer to your own age or 24-26. Anything five years or less doesn’t even count as an age gap at all. 28 and 21 isn’t bad either but this particular guy sounds like a waste of your time. It’s a red flag to move on. Find someone local to you, have them meet your family early on. Or ask your family to see if they can set you up if you haven’t already. I hi…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/08/25 10:19 AM
7	Realistically, how many men will marry an obese woman? Oh I didn’t see that part. His porn addiction is a problem HE needs to work on. It’s not all on you. If he’s watching that, he’s re-wiring his brain and dooming his marriage. You are right. No matter how much you lose, it wont help with the intimacy. Counseling, turning to friends and family, church, something has to be done to fix the porn addiction. If he wants to remain married to you, he has to stop. Many people rightfully consider it cheating. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this! Husband …	/r/RedPillWomen	19/08/25 09:25 PM
32	Realistically, how many men will marry an obese woman? Obesity is not attractive to the majority of men or women. Are you saying you want to leave your husband because you’re obese and he doesn’t desire you? There is one way to change that. You have some degree of control over how your body looks. If you can’t find a way to do it on your own, there are GLP-1 meds available now as well. As mothers, we should want to be as healthy as we can for our children. I don’t want to burden my children with multiple health problems later in life. I want to be a…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/08/25 01:03 PM
1	How did you get into a male-led relationship? In my opinion, that type of safe male-led relationship is only found with Christian men with the morals and values to guide them. Most religions also have rules that state they shouldn’t marry non-believers of their faith. This dynamic could be something you foster in a relationship with a man you trust and who respects you. Finding someone through the normal ways who you love and then asking to try these things.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/08/25 01:18 AM
–	Sex is a need, and men are losing today because they are not needed, which is a result of the Industrial Revolution. As a married woman, it took me a few years to understand this about my husband (we got married young), but things changed for the better once we started being intimate multiple times a week. I am always receptive to his advances and he is to mine as well. I didn’t know how important sex was to men. It helps that he goes to the gym, has excellent hygiene, and does loving things for me other than when he wants sex. And I do those same things. Being in a solid marriage makes both of our lives (and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/25 12:47 PM
2	I think I regret getting married, but I don't know if I'm not being patient enough. Do you feel he’s a trustworthy man? If you went looking into the finances, would you find anything suspicious? Or if you looked through his phone, is he talking to other women or looking at porn? Are you compatible on religious beliefs? I just wonder if there is maybe something you don’t know about this man and encourage you to look into everything just in case. Having children with him will be difficult, period. Motherhood, even when well supported, has its challenges. It is hard to be a workin…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/08/25 09:12 PM
23	I think I regret getting married, but I don't know if I'm not being patient enough. Using a harsh tone with his wife is personal. It’s how he speaks to you. That’s such an excuse. He’s using you to take out his frustration. Honestly when you said that age gap, I thought at least she probably doesn’t have to work? But you’re working and going 50/50 and he isn’t trying to get a better job at HIS age? These are the kinds of issues couples can worth through, but usually they’re both young and it’s the result of just being inexperienced at life still. By the time they’re almost 40, …	/r/RedPillWomen	12/08/25 08:53 AM
–	The fixation on “purity” in women is often rooted in male insecurity, not morality. As a religious woman, I have a very different view on this based on my religious beliefs. That is also a reason many people choose not to engage in extramarital relations or heavily shame them within their communities. It is about guarding your heart and body, for both men and women, so that you can have a strong marriage for life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/25 12:32 PM
3	Why do men think women are trying to share the top men? A lot of women are choosing to be single So glad my attractive husband doesn’t think it’s okay for him to cheat and lie just because he’s attractive. A man without morals is not an appealing man at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/25 11:36 AM
0	People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women. I guess I see your point to an extent.. if he forgot her name momentarily because he’s really busy with something at work, or tired, etc. We have four kids so it is a lot to keep up with, and I wouldn’t fault him for it happening sometimes. But he wouldn’t be able to be as involved as he is without knowing their teacher’s names. When he’s home from work, he is talking to them, having deep conversations, checking the communications from the teacher, etc. He truly knows our kids because he’s a gre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 07:56 PM
2	People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women. Knowing the person that spends 30+ hours a week shaping your child’s mind is not arbitrary or irrelevant. My husband knows all of our kids teachers because he’s involved and helps drop off and pick up, attends parent meetings, attends events if he’s able to, etc. He cares about our children’s well-being and knowing their teacher is an important part of that. Unfortunately a lot of men are not like him, not willing to be good husbands and fathers. We are raising up our boys to be like him and the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/25 11:45 AM
2	Onlyfans proves male hypergamy. Also things like voting and joining the military can be productive things that are good for the person. People can build careers in the military and get health and education benefits, etc. Doing pornography and sex work is objectively harmful to women. Women are more likely to be addicted to drugs, commit suicide, deal with social and familial isolation, have a MUCH harder time finding a good husband and creating a family someday. Young people don’t always make good decisions. That’s why the leg…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/25 06:20 PM
3	Onlyfans proves male hypergamy. I mean.. some of those things are debatable too. That’s why younger people are charged way more for car insurance. Because it is statistically more dangerous when they get behind the wheel of a car. A 16 year old where I live recently caused a huge accident and killed six people. So maybe a lot of them should not be driving. 18 years old is too young to make this decision. Even women in the industry support raising the minimum age to participate. Many of them wouldn’t have done it if they had ev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/25 06:03 PM
4	TTC and afraid of gaining weight I have four little kids, my youngest is 13 months old and I’m still nursing him. I gained more weight than I should have in 3 out of my 4 pregnancies. I put in the effort to lose weight after each one by watching my diet and walking a lot. I slowly incorporated exercises until I built back up my ability to do more intense exercise (after six months postpartum). Eat only one portion (or half a portion) of dessert. Eat your pasta and bread (you NEED carbs esp if you’re breastfeeding), but be sure …	/r/RedPillWomen	31/07/25 04:10 PM
3	Onlyfans proves male hypergamy. If seeing a naked woman doesn’t involve violence and coercion, then have at it. But when it does involve all of those things and worse, then yes it is a problem. The porn industry is DEEPLY problematic. It’s not just willing women taking their clothes off because they want to. Many are coerced, drugged, forced to, and they deeply regret it even a year later. Because the brain is not developed enough to make a decision like that between the ages of 18-21. Children are also abused and forced to pa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/25 01:12 PM
1	Onlyfans proves male hypergamy. Men watch significantly more porn than women do. There is a large gap between men and women. And even though men also get victimized in pornography, it’s mostly women (especially young women, particularly white women). My experience as a woman.. I have never sought out pornography. Thank God my brain wasn’t ruined by being exposed to it as a child. It is mentally and emotionally destroying an entire generation of people today.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 07:22 PM
0	Onlyfans proves male hypergamy. Sadly there are tons of men who are addicted to and watch porn regularly. Whether it’s OF or another website, men often say that “all men do it.” Even though that’s not true, a lot of men don’t watch porn for various reasons. But I’ve been told that’s the minority because most men do. And of course pornography preys upon young and vulnerable women, mostly featuring 18-21 women. It’s sickening to think about creepy 60something year old men lusting after 18 year old girls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 07:12 PM
8	Getting my man to use sex toys on me when it went horrible the first and last time. Does he not give you oral? Or use his hands on you? My husband usually does one of those first before we have sex. Is he opposed to you using them on yourself? Maybe he can “accidentally” walk in on you using one? Maybe it would open up the conversation to re-introduce them that way. Or maybe you can use a different toy, like a small personal massager or something? We don’t use any toys so I’m not sure what’s out there. But if it’s something like a giant vibrator, maybe that’s intimidating to hi…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/07/25 10:35 PM
1	Reddit women are a minority the basic "normie" girl is pretty darn patriarchal I know several women married to guys who work in tech/computer science. They all exercise and look good in addition to the computer skills. But I’m mostly just saying women want a man with skills or something they can admire, look up to, and respect. A lot of women appreciate an intelligent man. My husband is extremely well read and I think that’s such a sexy quality. He is so intelligent and I really admire him for that. He’s always been an excellent conversationalist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 01:00 AM
13	Reddit women are a minority the basic "normie" girl is pretty darn patriarchal As a woman from the Bible Belt.. things that are turns off in men are being really skinny/scrawny/zero muscle, bad posture & lacking confidence, men who have absolutely no real world skills and only play video games and watch porn, and generally men who seem like they wouldn’t so much as squash a bug for a woman. Things that women find appealing are having skills in something (whether it’s cars, computers, yard work, etc), men who exercise, look like they bathe regularly, and extra points if the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/25 05:55 PM
4	My mind is telling me no but my lady parts are saying yes You barely know this man. Do you know for sure he doesn’t have a criminal history? What is his family like and where is he from? Does he have the same morals and values as you as far as marriage, parenting, etc, go? One of the consequences of sex is having a baby. I know the chances are very low if you’re on birth control and take precautions, but not zero. Guard your womb until you know he is worthy of being a husband and a father.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/07/25 08:43 PM
8	Age gap relationship The bigger the age gap, the higher the risk of divorce. A guy who is 25-26 will still feel a lot older than you at age 20, but you’d have a lot more in common than with a guy 30+. I don’t think any 35 year old man dating a 20 year old would be considered established or respected by his peers. He’d be considered a little creepy, barring some rare circumstances. I have seen couples where the guy looks extremely young (age 32 but literally looked 18-20) so it kind of made sense that his wife was 23…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/07/25 05:12 PM
13	how to differentiate between a player/a man who doesn't want to commit to any woman yet vs a man who just doesn't see you as the "one"? Sounds like you dodged a bullet for sure. He was trying to get sympathy from you so that you’d have sex with him. That boundary protected you from heartache and other issues. Good job on having it! Any guy who is highly desirable in his mid 30s and wanted to be married and have children would be by then, barring some rare situation. I wouldn’t even give him a second thought. If you’re in your early 20s, you’ll find the best guys in their 20s as well. I was 22 and my husband was 26 when we starte…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/07/25 12:45 PM
3	How often do you run into men who are "good/solid/catch" men that cannot seem to attract women - if, so what is typically the glaring obvious reason why? is there ever a time where just is no good reason? My husband has a friend that meets all this criteria. He is tall, handsome (dark hair, blue eyes, fit), socially very friendly, fun, and sweet, rugged masculine (former military), earns good income, owns a home, lives in a big city, etc. He is a total catch! The bridesmaids at my wedding were all swooning over him. First, he couldn’t settle down because he was in the military and moving a lot/stationed far away and made it hard to stay with women. He dated a woman long term but she wanted to sta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/25 05:08 PM
1	Sex feels like a necessity but his rejection breaks me (F26) every time. Self esteem and sadness due to boyfriend's (M23) low libido. He is happy otherwise and wants to move in. How to proceed? Does he struggle with porn? That can seriously mess up a relationship and a man’s desire for his wife.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/07/25 11:10 PM
1	Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those Relationships 25 and 21 is not an age gap. It doesn’t start getting creepy until they’re more than 15 years apart. Anything 30+ years apart is just weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/25 01:39 PM
2	Ladies, in your experience, what percentage of women would you say are size queens? I have never heard the phrase size queen before and had to look it up. So in my social circles (married millennial women with children) I’d say it’s zero. I have never talked about penis size with any of my friends before. And we talk about sooooo much. It just doesn’t come up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/25 06:42 PM
2	How long do you guys wait to have sex when you're dating? Based on my Christian values, my family, etc.. my mom was upset when she found out we were having “sleepovers” while dating (though his parents did not care at all when they found out we’d slept together before marriage). Physical intimacy can also cause women to feel enamored and then overlook warning signs that they’d normally be able to point out. Generally I feel it’s best for women to reserve intimacy for marriage and guard their hearts and bodies. It worked out for me thankfully, but it wa…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/06/25 11:13 PM
8	How long do you guys wait to have sex when you're dating? I waited two months with my husband. It was really hard because I was so attracted to him (and I still am). I do wish I could go back and have waited longer, but it all worked out. We got engaged after 10 months.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/06/25 12:53 AM
1	30s are perhaps the worst years to date (as a man) Marriage is not oppressive to women and women benefit immensely from marriage. I love being married! My husband is the best. He provides income for our family so I can stay home and raise the children and work in the home. We are very happy with our traditional gender roles. It’s not that anyone has a “time limit.” If you grew up in a Christian family, you’re taught that intimacy is meant to be reserved for marriage. And young people tend to have strong sexual impulses. Therefore, when you find …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/06/25 11:47 AM
3	Real Talk: What I’ve Learned About “High-Value” Men After Dating One (Or So I Thought) Yeah I wouldn’t expect a stable and healthy young man to be in therapy. A lot of men don’t like therapy. My husband has a “garage beers” night with the dads in our neighborhood and that’s where a lot of them talk about the issues they’re facing. A lot of them really look forward to sitting around the bonfire or watching a sports game and hanging out with the guys with no women around. Men need friends, family, and a community to talk to.. not a therapist.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/06/25 05:19 PM
5	It's not offensive to ask for dna test This is a good response, as a woman I agree. If he explained it before TTC, and told me his reasoning for it so I could understand, there would be no issue with the test. Also after the children are born and growing up, you can often see similarities to dad anyway. Our boys are all built exactly the same as my husband and our daughter inherited a carrier status that I don’t have, but my husband does.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/25 01:06 AM
3	30s are perhaps the worst years to date (as a man) I’m just telling you the truth, sorry it’s hard to hear love.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/25 07:06 PM
2	30s are perhaps the worst years to date (as a man) It’s good you like being alone because no self respecting woman, including childfree and those that don’t believe in marriage, would accept that. Maybe drug addicts or prostitutes desperate for you to pay their bills.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/25 05:02 PM
2	30s are perhaps the worst years to date (as a man) Wanting a woman to invest her youthful, prime child bearing decade with you to get nothing in return (no marriage, children, future security, etc).. then breaking up with her at the end of the decade so she has to start over dating when she’s older is… a tall order, my friend. Everyone is allowed their preferences though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/25 02:49 AM
0	30s are perhaps the worst years to date (as a man) So you’re not looking for a long term relationship or marriage, you just want to cycle through 20something women? Because I know some women in their 20s would go for guys in their 30s.. but that number becomes less in your 40s and basically none in your 50s. You can be attracted to women in their 20s all you want, but unless you’re a billionaire and cool with gold diggers, that will run out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/25 01:56 AM
–	American men are becoming disinterested From a woman’s perspective who knows a lot of women and talks to lots of them every day… I have never met a woman who likes to play video games. Not when I was in college, not as a young adult, and not now as a married mom of babies. We have lots of other hobbies and interests but not video games haha. Maybe they’ve just never been in my social circles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/25 09:36 PM
1	What makes a man dominant to you? I hope it’s okay for me to say this, but more men need to be taught this! To look for what needs to be done without having to constantly be told… that’s how I’m raising my boys.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/06/25 09:21 PM
2	Can teen girls also do "Nun Mode"? It sounds like your parents should have been more strict about your screen time.. a teenager can’t be expected to regulate their screen time on their own when it’s literally designed to addict them. A social media detox would be a GREAT idea for you! You can do all of those things you want! It takes 21 days to build a habit. Starting is the hardest part. Try some kickboxing videos on YouTube or go to an in person class at the gym. Try cooking a recipe for your family, like lasagna! Go read a pap…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/06/25 01:32 AM
12	What makes a man dominant to you? Such a good response. All of that is sexy behavior from a man. A man who doesn’t just sit around and watch as his wife is busting her butt taking care of the kids all by herself. He grabs her purse when he sees it’s weighing her arms down while she’s trying to carry the baby. He gets up and grabs the toddler before he gets hurt instead of just screaming from his lawn chair. He is physically capable of doing things and just does them like a grown adult man. He doesn’t treat his wife like his mom,…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/06/25 01:21 AM
5	Why are modern woman so keen on "vetting" a man? In my opinion, “vetting” is a modern day version of getting your father’s approval. I was raised in a more traditional family and before my first date with my now husband, he came to our house for family lunch and met my whole family. I also went to his house and had lunch with them too, including his grandmother. His grandmother was the one who gave her stamp of approval, and my dad gave his to us as well. That was how we “vetted” each other. That was in 2014 so it wasn’t even that long ago. It…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/25 04:52 PM
1	Millennial males (and older) had it easier. I agree with this actually. I’m early 30s and my husband is mid 30s. We started dating in 2014 and I was in college. It was so different even just over ten years ago.. women weren’t wearing ultra revealing clothing, no one posted sensual photos of themselves dancing or posing, promiscuity was considered shameful (even sleeping with one guy was a big deal)m, the idea of doing literal porn would be shocking, Christianity was a bigger part of the culture still (therefore living by its ideals), we d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/25 02:42 PM
2	32F Can my pros outweigh my cons? I agree with almost everything that was stated above.. sounds like you’re beautiful and contrary to what online forums say, 32 is young. Plus you’re sober now, not had sex for a long time, you’re a believer, and all the other great stuff you shared! I agree with “settling” when it means giving guys a chance you normally wouldn’t. You may find that attraction grows with someone unexpected (for example if you’re a taller woman, a guy shorter than you, or a man who has tattoos if you’ve never been …	/r/RedPillWomen	25/05/25 06:36 PM
1	My (F19) best friend (M20) is "not ready to be in a relationship" how do I proceed emotionally? I suggest you move on… look for another great guy to date. He may see you with him and get jealous.. but maybe he won’t. Treat this guy like a friend moving forward, because that’s what he is. Don’t sleep with him. If he really wanted to, he would be ready for a relationship with you. But he doesn’t.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/05/25 03:22 PM
1	Just wanted to share my wild story as a RPW. That’s an inspiring and lovely testimony you have! Congratulations on your success in life, and praise God for his mercies!	/r/RedPillWomen	13/05/25 09:44 PM
5	If men think women are expired by the age of 30, why do men even bother to get married in the first place? You might think this after reading some things online but life does not end after 30. You don’t become less sexy after you turn 30. I don’t think the vast majority of men believe that, just the chronically online ones who probably harbor a lot of bitterness against women (whether it’s warranted or not) or they have qualities about them that make them unfavorable husbands to women. Even many conservative, older, unmarried guys don’t pursue women in their 20s, they actually do want women closer to…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/05/25 12:49 PM
1	Only attracted to dominant masculine men - help I’m so sorry you went through that 😔 wish you the best on your dating journey!	/r/RedPillWomen	03/05/25 01:20 AM
3	Only attracted to dominant masculine men - help Infidelity, abuse, alcoholism, drug problems, financially ruining the family with bad choices, criminal behavior, abandonment in some way of the wife and family, etc etc. Basically any real reason that isn’t “I got bored” or “I fell out of love and wanted something different.”	/r/RedPillWomen	01/05/25 11:17 AM
5	Only attracted to dominant masculine men - help I know several masculine guys who are military/ex-military, police, do construction/contracting, etc. Traditionally masculine fields. My husband is friends with them and though most are married, the single ones go to the gym, go to nice grocery stores that offer prepared meals, they attend church, and they actually go to nice breweries/bars sometimes. Maybe you can look there. They will want to know why you are divorced though. If it’s for a good reason and you’re in shape and have your life tog…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/04/25 05:13 PM
17	This is a bit taboo Dating for 3.5 years, he has all these concerns about sex and you don’t have a ring?… I would feel like I’m being used for my body. It doesn’t sound like you’re sexually compatible. It also sounds like he might have a porn issue. My husband and I are excited for each other (even after four kids) and sex makes us feel so connected. He makes me feel loved, adored, cherished, and special when we are intimate. He expresses what he likes and I gladly fulfill those things for him because I enjoy makin…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/04/25 07:30 PM
2	Dating after college hopeless? I graduated college single just like you… I was 22 and was about to move to a new city for my job. I was staying with my parents for the two weeks until I moved and got invited to a pool party by one of my older sister’s guy friends at his parent’s house. I thought.. why not? Sounds fun and I had another girlfriend going with me. We immediately hit it off and ten years later we are married with four kids. It was totally out of the blue and unexpected at the time. He is everything I wanted in a h…	/r/RedPillWomen	26/03/25 03:44 PM
4	What’s the best next move? First of all, you’re 24. Time is not running out, you are young! But you are smart for wanting to date intentionally now, while you’re young. Dating for marriage only. Have you talked to your boyfriend about marriage? Have you introduced him to family, talked about having kids, possibly settling down together someday? There is nothing wrong with pursuing your master’s degree if that’s what you want. I would highly recommend finding a way to do it without incurring any debt (if that’s a concern),…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/03/25 04:45 PM
10	Older man boring/slow to catch on Sounds like it’s not a good fit. Just go for the hotter guys you’re talking about.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/03/25 02:51 PM
2	I didn't follow my bf's lead because it felt wrong and now he's mad - wanting other perspectives Absolutely it would be rape in OP’s case, whether married or not! The vibe is my marriage is totally different. I tend to be a little shy in the bedroom, especially since having kids, and my husband is my safe space where I can let go and trust him even when I’m nervous. I know I can follow his lead and it’ll be great for both of us. I always feel 100% respected and cared for. He doesn’t watch porn and that’s another reason why I can trust that he won’t try anything violent or degrading. OP’s bo…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/03/25 06:46 PM
11	I didn't follow my bf's lead because it felt wrong and now he's mad - wanting other perspectives He’s not your husband. You are still vetting him. This is super concerning because it shows he doesn’t understand basic hygiene/safe sex. Soap as lube? No. I don’t mind my husband gently encouraging me to try new things in bed (actually I love when he does). But he is my husband, he has earned the trust to do that, vetted by me and my whole family before we got engaged. He is always so thoughtful about his actions and very intelligent and well-informed before he speaks on something, which makes …	/r/RedPillWomen	19/03/25 03:24 PM
7	Weight loss fixed my marriage… don’t know how to feel? So you lost 85 pounds and have 60 more to go.. that is amazing! Congratulations! I understand where your husband is coming from. If my husband were 145 pounds overweight, I would struggle in my attraction to him too. You said yourself it was a significant amount of weight and it’s a risk to your overall health to be that big. Our society has normalized obesity but it’s a relatively new thing in human history. We are attracted to healthy people. It’s good to strive to be healthy for many reasons …	/r/RedPillWomen	05/03/25 02:39 PM
-2	The wall for childfree Why don’t you want children?	/r/RedPillWomen	04/03/25 12:05 PM
3	Being in shape is truly the key I would never shame anyone for taking weight loss meds. Obesity is awful to live with, especially when I see obese children I feel so sad. I have never been obese or taken these meds but I would if I struggled with it! There are so many benefits to our healthcare system and society as a whole when people are healthier and not obese.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/02/25 03:43 AM
8	Being in shape is truly the key I’m in shape after four kids. It’s so true, men look at me everywhere I go. From teenagers to older men. The obesity crisis made being healthy or even slim a huge boost for women. I just eat small/normal portions. That’s almost all of it. I don’t eat snacks like chips and when I have dessert, it’s small or low calorie. Overeating is so common now. But I would never shame a woman for gaining weight or not being in great shape after having kids because it can be really hard. Harder for some than o…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/02/25 03:38 AM
14	Please help me reprogram! Do not listen to Pearl Davis. Not only is she unmarried and childless (meaning she has no actual experience with relationships, and it also goes against all of her “advice”) but her content is not actually helpful for women at all. Her whole platform just appeals to men who hate women. I recommend the book, The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/11/24 02:36 AM
2	Do you wear high heels if you around the same height as you’re boyfriend ? I’m 5’8” my husband is 5’10” and I wear heels with him. Sometimes I’m just his height (because he wears shoes that have soles too). Sometimes I’ve been taller than him. He doesn’t care and never has. On our wedding day, I wore flats because I wanted to be my natural height in photos, and also because I did a ton of walking and dancing. I prefer low heels these days anyway, or cute cowboy boots with a little heel on them. Easier to chase after my toddlers in too.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/11/24 01:52 AM
5	body count and experience for women Love this! You absolutely don’t have to have sex with multiple people to “learn” what you like. Intimacy with your spouse and only your spouse is truly the way to go. Been with my husband for ten years and now in our early 30s, sex is the best for us both. Even after four kids.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/11/24 12:25 AM
5	When men marry Very interesting. I know a few of my husband’s friends who are still single. He is an attorney and we started dating when he was 26, fresh out of law school and I was 22, fresh out of college. Now he is 36 and I’m 32. So he was right in that spot of high commitment for someone with high education at age 26. One of his single friends is 6’3”, very handsome, military and great shape, Christian, and says he wants a wife. He just quit the military early and says he’s seriously dating now. I’m honest…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/10/24 12:39 AM
9	Happy Married PRW, please brag on your husband a bit! 32 and been with my hubby for ten years 💜 pregnant with our fourth child. I have been a SAHM ever since we had our first. He is an absolutely amazing dad and provider. We live in an awesome area, have an active social life, family that helps us, great sex life, and a solid marriage. I had some friends tell me “I could do better” when we first starting dating because I was earning more money than him at the time, he is “only” 2 inches taller than me (I’m 5’8” so already taller than a lot of guys)…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/03/24 11:50 PM