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I use conditioner way more than i use shampoo, fwiw Keeping hair properly moisturized can maybe prevent hair loss (and shampoo dries hair), maybe he's worried about keeping his hair? Also, does it matter? Even if All Of Reddit agrees youre right, wont taking Reddits Side instead of your husbands maybe alienate him, even if reddit is right? I think calling him out on this is a lose-lose situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 10:04 PM
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How common is it to get dumped because of a small dick? Like, it seems if you've gotten to that point, the lady's already bought what youre selling
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 05:53 PM
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"Rule's of thumb" are useful, even if they're just mostly accurate, so people will continue to use them. If you're the kind of person who doesn't care, 1.) That says something about you in-and-of itself 2.) Some people will make erroneous assumptions about each other all the time, maybe you just drew the short straw with regards to shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 08:09 PM
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We can continue the conversation in the other thread, but my thoughts on these: GirlMarketingPower This site isn't very reputable.... My reasons explained below. Women make up more than half of the U.S. population, and control or influencer 85% of consumer spending I can't find anything reputable to back that up. The article references a title, which I googled; That source of theirs just links to a dead blog. I did some digging, and apparently it was originally written by some random lady that k…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 07:37 PM
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Yet you seem to disregard that crutial distinction above, even though it was in my first sentence. Whoops, my bad. [Re: Women are Wonderful effect in media, and Fixing Society at Large] It's not only rom coms, it's tv shows and talk shows watced by hundreds of millions, YouTube podcasts advertisements, politics, tought leaders, hashtags, memes... It does not matter whether the producers are men or women, money talks, and comfortable lies are selling better then honesty. I do aggree with you, yet…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 05:15 PM
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I notice you keep repeating the phrase "Men have to change" like it's a mantra. Are you deliberately trying to take advantage of the repetition cognitive bias for rhetorical effect, or is it accidental? About the cheating and relationship issues. There is a tendency though, as i stated in my OP, to blame it all on men, by saying: it's men's fault. How many rom coms do you wan't me to bring up, where a girl friend, tells her girl friend, "it's not your fault all men are... ". Men have to change. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 06:25 AM
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Men usually get 'silenced' because they are choosing inappropriate forums to air their issues. To be fair, radfems regularly disrupt and shutdown "mens issues" speaking events, etc; Blowing whistles, pulling fire alarms, etc. It's not only an "inappropriate forum" thing. If you want to make change in areas of men's rights don't piggyback off other groups, do your own campaigning, and if you are engaging with women's issues don't negate their issues by constantly bringing up your own. When guys t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 10:57 PM
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When a man cheats, he is an asshole, when a woman does, he is an asshole (he didn't care enough, didn't pay attention, kept putting the toilet paper with the wrong side out on the holder etc..). Depends on the dynamic. If the girl is self-supporting, then she's the asshole. If she's in a situation where she can't support herself (imagine a stay-at-home wife who's been discouraged from developing a career by her husband so he can have a "Trad Spouse"), then I think it's a lot more understandable …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 10:47 PM
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Men, on the other hand, won't really feel disgust at the thought of having sex with a woman unless the woman is grotesquely obese/deformed or really old uh, do you got any evidence to back up this wild claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 10:12 PM
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Why is the premise that women's standards are unreasonably high, do you think? Why is the premise that guy's standards are unreasonably low, do you think? Hint: It doesn't matter. You're not going to convince your spouse that they have a bad brain, and if only they'd see the world the same way that you see it, then they'd be a Good Person. Lot's of people on this sub try, but again: this sub is low-key toxic. Neither partner is going to be entirely happy. Stop trying to convince your partner tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 08:46 PM
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The men in here do argue in bad faith, constantly. Phrasing: This wording implies that every guy in this sub does this, like we're all reading from the same secret script. IMO the habit this sub has of painting the entire other gender with a broad brush is really unproductive and simplistic. If you sincerely think that the majority of men in this sub are arguing in bad faith, then isn't posting here a waste of time for you? Regardless, debating the intent of some undefined percentage of other pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:14 PM
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I think that "There is no 100% Way" is maybe missing the point just a little bit. Yes, there is no 100% guaranteed way, but: some ways have worse odds of creeping them out than others there's a huge difference between making a girl feel awkward, and making them feel seriously creeped out. Your examples are all omitting details about social cues. Generally, public locations are off-limits unless someone has signaled some positive interest with a smile or something. Asking people out is generally …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:46 PM
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Is the spectre of [misandrist and misogynist cliches] WAY overstated? Yes. Because the people who gravitate towards this sub are generally not neurotypical, emotionally healthy people. As a result, our concept of the 'flaws' of the other gender are somewhat exaggerated to begin with. And because a lot of people here are upset, they exaggerate it in their posts even more out of anger and hurt. The realistic manifestation of hypergamy in the real world isn't women throwing their panties at the hot…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 05:11 PM
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Ok, just to get it straight- In the OP, they emphasis that compromise is the solution. The solution is NOT to force the partner with the lower standard to adapt to the higher standard or for the partner with the higher standard to accept the lower standard, the solution should be compromise. You post an inflammatory comment suggesting that "the men in here" are either autistic slobs, or people who argue in bad faith. Everytime this topic comes up, the men in here act like "clean" is the most sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:36 PM
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Are you suggesting the woman pay for the date to show interest? Because that's just going to confuse me. I agree. In my experience, women wanting to pay is actually a pretty reliable signal that they're uninterested; I think they feel guilty receiving a favor from someone they plan on cutting ties with. This has been very consistent for both initial dating and long-term relationships. E: To clarify on the second half of this ^: People I've been dating for a year or more suddenly get squirrelly a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:15 PM
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You: The prostitution market will solve relationship inequity! Me: No, we're in a time of historic financial inequality, and markets begin to fail when people don't have money, so I dont think your solution will work. Besides, prostitution doesn't meet emotional needs, which is another reason your prostitution solution misses the mark, which is why I- You: POVERTY DOESNT EXIST, DONT TAKE MY STUFF, NOBODY LOVES YOU, REEEEEEEEEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 09:20 PM
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No it can't, not unless you also fix income inequality. People who struggle to keep the lights on aren't going to have meaningful access to sex (and emotional intimacy, which gets weirdly disparaged here)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:14 PM
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If we assume your assertion is correct, that all male-female "friendship" is rooted in sexual attraction, then it follows that A.) either everyone is secretly Bi (because men are still friends with other men, despite claiming that they're not gay...) or B.) women exude a mystery pheromone X which acts like male bug repellant, because for some inexplicable reason unattractive girls can't get guys to hang around even if they act exactly like "one of the guys." Neither make sense. Reductio ad absur…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 08:17 PM
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I actually entirely agree with you about whataboutism, but that's a completely irrelevant topic. It's a valid discussion, and one that should be had, but it's counterproductive to shoe-horn it into a discussion about 'love-vs-sex', especially since the top level poster made something pointlessly gendered. This whole situation is like someone discussing potential causes of sleep disorders, and the top level responder says something like "It's so annoying that men have to sleep every night." In th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 05:57 PM
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Arguably 'men do it to' was a rhetorical 'so what' response. The OP was talking about love-vs-sex. It's irrelevant that 'high value' individuals have a hard time finding good partners, and it's especially irrelevant that men have a hard time finding good partners, since it just makes it pointlessly gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 05:05 PM
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It's true, but with caveats. Attraction is highly predicted by physical proximity; So you dont have to be the top global 20%, you just have to be in the top 20% of the people the girl spends her time around. An ugly guy with a hot girl stands out in peoples memory because it's the exception, not the rule. Charisma does work, but very few people have are very charismatic. Most people never will be. It's a lot easier to have sex if you lower your standards. The 'laid all the time' guys are probabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:44 PM
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The mentality that people shouldn't ever try to be social with groups of five people or more is a really limiting belief. And trying to find new places to meet people is lame? There might be aspects of this subreddit that you don't like, and that's fine! But some of the things you're saying are counterproductive or meaningless. For instance, "don't force your life, get a real one' is like saying, 'don't practice piano, get good at piano'. Routines are like scales, they're not pretty but at least…
/r/seduction18/03/13 10:07 PM
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I'm guessing your over-intellectual stuff is coming across as affected and not really sincere. Like, you only allow yourself to be seen as a brilliant guy who won't allow himself silly pleasures because you're afraid of what people would think, but its coming across as being pretentious. The fact that you are only willing to use canned jokes rather than make spontaneous jokes reinforces the assumption that you're not willing to risk being vulnerable in front of others because of how people might…
/r/seduction04/03/13 11:53 PM
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