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I get what you're saying. I can talk to girls pretty easily If you try to make acquantances/friends with a girl before trying to escalate you are just gonna friendzone yourself So I can friend zone myself all day long, that doesn't get me laid or GF.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 08:40 PM
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Because I don't like bothering people I don't know.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 07:14 PM
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Unless the sidebar has changed in the last 3 years yes I've read it. No I'm not approaching all the time because they either seem busy or giving off body language of don't bother me. Die at 60? Are you absolutely sure that what’s on the other side will be better than what you have here? No I'm not sure it's better but it'll be a change of pace. There’s nothing worse than being in a bad situation, and, instead of setting goals and pulling yourself out, you’re dragging ass, wallowing in your own s…
/r/askTRP11/12/18 07:02 PM
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Yes more name calling I love it. Y'all are great at being dicks but ok. Your hamster is going off the rails. Everyone’s afraid of hot girls. The more you talk to them, the less scary they are. It hasn't gotten any less scary then it was before Unfortunately this sets me back getting in shape” How? How does you being a bitch mean that you can’t work out and eat healthy? Because I don't fucking care to do shit that is vanity for other people. I don't care to be fit or have abs or whatever dumb bul…
/r/askTRP11/12/18 06:15 PM
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I'm 30 years old I've been trying to at least figure it out but 6 years of trying and it's not getting any easier on better.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 06:12 PM
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You make it sound easy. Therapy couldn't help me basically said I'm doing everything fine. So still broken person with tons of wasted time and money and is no closer getting what I want. Maybe in another 30 years I'll get over that and still have no girls be interested in me and be fucking 60yo. That sounds awful
/r/askTRP11/12/18 01:41 AM
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I'm done. I'm fucking stupid for trying to figure out these people. But it's not worth the time or effort. It's all based on caveman logic million years ago but I'm the only fucking dumbass that doesn't have this innate or ingrained ability to be alpha. This big human brain isn't good for anything else but getting in my way. Fuck this. I'm the only dumb motherfucker who isn't reading the blood on the walls that says you're not wanted. Women suck men suck people suck
/r/askTRP11/12/18 12:59 AM
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Dude I don't know the difference. Is this person just being nice because or something. From the girls so far they're either not interested or think I'm only after sex and they vanish. I guess offering my time isn't enough for them.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 12:50 AM
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What does this do besides make me angry and hate everyone.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 12:38 AM
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I can do that I choose not to do that. If I don't people will basically ignore me. Instead of being ignored by just women I'll be ignored by all people. That sounds great
/r/askTRP11/12/18 12:36 AM
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Do I need to wait another 30 years or something?
/r/askTRP11/12/18 12:24 AM
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When is that?
/r/askTRP11/12/18 12:20 AM
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What's the difference between giving away love and expecting nothing vs giving away love because that's who you are? I don't expect anything in return I just do. But according to all this dating advice it seems everyone is just taking advantage of me.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 11:56 PM
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Is BPD that bad? I'm a guy that has it.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 11:43 PM
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Should you be on the waiting list? Yes. Why's that? Disappear from that particular scene for awhile. When all the girls have been taken, then you’re last on their list I've been told I'm not supposed to ask why I'm not on the list? How am I supposed to find out what I'm doing wrong? I don't treat them any differently than I do anyone else. I don't want to be someone's last pick or do I just go with what's given to me. Me going out trying to get what I want isn't working.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 09:34 PM
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Are we still cavemen?
/r/askTRP12/07/18 08:59 PM
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Stealing that one.
/r/seduction25/05/17 07:44 AM
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So I'm screwed since I don't value anything?
/r/seduction19/05/17 06:33 PM
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I'm working on this as well. I can see the possibilities in the interaction and most don't end well.
/r/seduction26/04/17 08:14 AM
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Most of the time to me it feels creepy and tight. Not natural
/r/seduction21/03/17 07:27 AM
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What do you even say to a random girl on the street or waiting in line at Walmart ?
/r/seduction21/03/17 06:59 AM
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Every time we take tabs and go out have a great time, talking to people is easy girls just hover and want to dance with us just having fun. But when I don't take it oh man probably won't talk to a single person let alone try and even dance.
/r/seduction26/12/16 04:51 PM
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Failures 1-20 no big deal. Failures 21-100 that's when I have confidence problems. Need at least one win for it to stick.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 10:18 PM
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Mostly since I hear so many conflicting ideas. I hopefully will come back to it before I turn 30.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 10:47 AM
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So what your saying is I should drop everything I'm doing and be a salesmen, bartender, barista. So I should have kept my job at GameStop making shit money and living in my parents basement. You guys preach about game and theory but this is new to me and makes zero sense.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 11:03 PM
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This still makes very little sense to me. From my understanding your saying that this is the only way to get women to approach me? If they don't care about it then why would they ever.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 04:24 AM
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Wow really muscles change brain chemistry. I'd like to see the research on that.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 08:58 PM
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When your naked and had no idea a battle was going on?
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 08:43 PM
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I hear this a lot live in the moment. HOW. I can't live in the moment if I'm constantly worried WHATS NEXT. Exercise,therapy,bills, job, job sucks not qualified for a better one go to school, study, resume, become interesting, etc. I try to meditate but I'm yet to get to the point where everything is OK.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 12:50 PM
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I'm currently in therapy. He says he is but I'm yet to get ADHD specific treatment.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 12:39 PM
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Do I get anything at the top of the hill or the middle. It's like I missed the class or handbook that tells you how to get out of the hole. At 27 I thought I would have had at least one girlfriend or at least a fling with some chubby girl and not considering paying for sex and blowing my brains out. FUCK.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 08:39 AM
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I'm and all or nothing person (working on it). If I'm going to fail I won't do it. Waste of time and money and effort. Getting over that is difficult to say the least. I like the Stoic philosophy. Currently reading "Guide to the good life" so far it's just history about it haven't gotten to the part of applying it.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 03:40 AM
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I've lost around 90ish pounds so far, that took 3 years to get that and I'm nowhere near where I want to look like. I pretty much hit the gym 5-6 days a week. Self acceptance is another thing I've been working on. From therapy ound I had adhd, comorbid anxiety and depression. Yay. So to me it seems like mostly an uphill battle 90% of the time.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 03:35 AM
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I'm confused. I can't think of a reason for a woman to approach me.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 03:29 AM
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Being attractive part seems like a catch 22. To be attractive you need confidence. To get confidence work out, study and get a better job. Just one of these things your probably looking 1-3 years before you get to one of these things, get a good weight or you get that degree or you snag that job. I'm making progress in these fields been about 4 years now but I have very little to show for it. What am I doing wrong?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 09:18 PM
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Kill your ego. How ?
/r/seduction13/08/16 08:27 PM
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I've read models I may pick it up again. It made me extremely angry the first time I read it but it made things a little clearer. I thought I was living a life true to me but according to that book I'm wrong.
/r/seduction21/10/15 11:56 PM
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No problem thanks
/r/seduction21/10/15 08:12 PM
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The only reason I get stuck on this all the time because just people I know don't do anything. They only leave the house to go to work or McDonald's. They have women falling out of the ceiling for them. Me on the other hand I work out, cook my own food, has hobbies I enjoy albeit solo hobbies and I just get nothing. No I wouldn't want to hang out with me nor would I want to hang out with those guys either.
/r/seduction21/10/15 08:10 PM
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Like what I like your shoes lets have coffee
/r/seduction21/10/15 01:17 PM
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So what I'm from everyone's responses is A: I'm hideous and B: to stop trying
/r/seduction21/10/15 01:15 PM
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My rational thought says this is pointless why put yourself through all this trouble
/r/seduction21/10/15 12:54 PM
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What is confidence is it believe in your on BS or this is the best I am be happy or move on.
/r/seduction21/10/15 12:53 PM
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I guess I'm not the fun adventurer I thought I was being. So this sounds like something you would say to a women after you've had a few chat sessions not on the first date or even meeting this person in the street
/r/seduction21/10/15 10:35 AM
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Let's say I did 1000 approaches and nothing came of that than what. I've analyzed it and its either what I look like or what invisible vibe I'm putting off. So I could spend hundreds of thousands of dollars and be poor now I'm back at step one no money to protect and provide resources so then I'm a failure again. I don't know how to fix any of that. I've been going to a therapist for about a month now but I'm not sure where I'm going to unlock this part of my brain that is going to let me functi…
/r/seduction21/10/15 10:32 AM
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I've been trying to figure out what my worth is but at this time it's less than nothing. Am I good at things sure, are these things something that I can market to a potential fling or partner I don't think so but with most things I could be wrong.
/r/seduction21/10/15 09:47 AM
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I'm not bodybuilder nor am I rich by any means. So I'm screwed on that front and resources are we cavemen still am I to take advantage of the remaining friendships I have to keep that women happy, before Jim rolls through flexing with a suit made of $100 bills and sweeps this girl away
/r/seduction21/10/15 08:28 AM
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One of my friends used the career point when I talked about this. I have no problem interviewing. Yeah I get nervous and sweaty, if I get the job great if not on to the next one. It's just hard to be positive when you don't know the requirements to play
/r/seduction21/10/15 08:23 AM
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Frustrated angry mostly both. I know that I need to get over that it's just been difficult
/r/seduction21/10/15 06:30 AM
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It's pretty easy to talk to them no pressure cause they aren't interested in me.
/r/seduction21/10/15 06:06 AM
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I was waiting before and then did the reading but I still have zero to show for it.
/r/seduction21/10/15 06:05 AM
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The girls my friends bring around when we do go out. I don't think I have a problem being around them.
/r/seduction21/10/15 03:15 AM
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I'm not opposed to that approach. Not sure where to start
/r/seduction21/10/15 03:12 AM
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Just looking upon the things I've done it just one of those nagging thing that hasn't happened. Thanks stranger
/r/seduction21/10/15 03:05 AM
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Face down throw the suck. I'll try to continue on
/r/seduction21/10/15 02:00 AM
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Tried failed many times. Keep trying keep failing at one point I'm supposed to have success is that tomorrow or 50 years from now
/r/seduction21/10/15 01:13 AM
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At least you had this happen to you. That has never ever happened to me. Most times even talking to women it's like I'm wasting there time
/r/seduction21/10/15 01:12 AM
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I try to get out and about on my days off. From the gym to the mall some days.
/r/seduction09/07/15 08:20 AM
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I agree with you have to like yourself before anyone else would. I just need to get to a point to where being me stops being a hassle.
/r/seduction08/07/15 08:07 PM
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Needy/desperate sounds accurate.
/r/seduction08/07/15 10:24 AM
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I do enjoy working out not super keen on eating right but I'm making it work. Going to the gym to hit the punching bag is the only thing that helps keep me sane and not just locked in my room sulking. Do I believe in the process not currently but everyone says the same thing work out, get better looking, better clothes but I still don't have women throwing themselves at me. I don't believe I stand a chance in being that 1 in a million.
/r/seduction08/07/15 10:09 AM
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So either my standards are to high, No standards at all or women I've been trying to date are waiting for that one in a million and I shouldn't even bother with them.
/r/seduction08/07/15 06:44 AM
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I feel like I was a doing better by myself before I tried to start dating. I gave zero fucks and did what I wanted. Now I've changed to be more presentable to the opposite sex and it's not getting anywhere. Actually looking back at it now that wasn't working for getting girlfriends before but I just didn't care.
/r/seduction07/07/15 11:27 PM
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I can understand the negative aura feeling but if your not seeing any results from the work put in it gets discouraging to even try. Nothing against the fake it till you make it, but to me it's like telling someone to play a professional sports even though they have never played " If you believe that you can play said sport then eventually you will get good at it".
/r/seduction07/07/15 12:38 PM
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I can understand that. How does someone become confident in themselves if something they are doing is not actually changing their mindset to be confident?
/r/seduction07/07/15 08:59 AM
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I thought I was being attractive years ago... Guess not. Been hitting the gym and eating better got some hobbies I actually enjoy and a few friends I don't hate. Still not getting anywhere.
/r/seduction07/07/15 06:38 AM
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I have this issue as well, people are easily intimated when big black guys come through.
/r/seduction02/05/15 08:05 PM
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Cool man thanks. I've got a long road ahead of improvement and exploration.
/r/seduction13/04/15 07:09 PM
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I've been doing t25 at home and walking a lot, what would you recommend for getting started on building muscle. Clothes wise really more of the same with a few work polos and button downs, your right I've never really dressed 'stylish' more function over style. I haven't sank a whole lot of money in clothes yet just pants. Trying to work on confidence but every time I turn around my footing is ripped from under me.
/r/seduction13/04/15 02:29 PM
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Have yet to find any activities that I enjoy. Mostly EDM shows and solo motorcycle rides. To be completely honest I don't think I have a value or am yet to find it. I've got a few pictures floating around I'll find them when I get home from work.
/r/seduction12/04/15 10:52 PM
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At 27 Introvert/ kinda shy, I've never had a any dating experience. I've tried online dating for a while but that is a constant reminder that I may end up forever alone. I've picked up some books no more Mr. Nice guy and Models. I've lost about 60lbs, got some new clothes but still feel as lost as ever. But still looking for some direction.
/r/seduction12/04/15 06:16 PM
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I'm slowly starting to see this recently in my friend group tons of negativity.
/r/seduction15/03/15 11:23 PM
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Online dating has really put a bad taste in my mouth for that reason.
/r/seduction22/12/14 12:08 AM
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