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| – | PPD ACTUALLY SAVED MY LIFEBecause they're humans and humans are illogical and irrational. And it just can't be helped. Pillers should try to be illogical and irrational too, it might help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 08:34 AM |
| 8 | No men who really think deeply about women retain a high opinion of them; men either despise women or they have never thought seriously about them.Or you can be like "women are same people as me, just with different genitalia" and stop caring about that nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 05:04 AM |
| – | Most men have no trouble getting relationships/datesThey prey on those men. Just not very man is dumb enough to take a bait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 07:44 AM |
| – | Most men have no trouble getting relationships/datesThere isn't some sort of visible sign that somebody struggle with relationships. So you have no way to know about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 07:28 AM |
| – | Most men have no trouble getting relationships/datesMost men have such troubles, They just don't make drama out of it, they learn and try again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 05:36 AM |
| – | Average men should NOT have access to casual sexThere are better thing to do in life than "cycling through girls". And adapting to new partner combined with dropping connections with previous is annoying as hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 05:07 PM |
| – | Why do men think they have low standards?First, you have sex. Then you have relationships with a girl that you manage to get regular sex with. You won't go and look for another girl for that. So standards for sex are standards for relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 11:11 AM |
| – | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeYes, which was a surprise for me. I think because it makes everything easier for both sides but I'm not sure. You talk what you want and expect on first few dates and then go for it or just look for somebody else. No drama, no misunderstandings, feels like a fresh air. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 07:45 PM |
| – | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeI remember moment when I stopped pretending that I'm nice, caring, relationship orientated and went directly to "I just want to fuck". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 06:44 PM |
| 7 | Men who believe in monogamy, exclusivity and being faithful lose in this dating marketEntire point of being on "dating market" is to leave it with somebody nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 05:44 PM |
| – | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeMy experience is exactly the opposite - any attempts to do thing in right way ended with failure, while doing everything in way I want lead to success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 05:09 PM |
| 2 | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeWhy men should go after some set of arbitrary ideals set by somebody else and not their own desired in the first place? Toxic masculinity should be abandoned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 05:56 AM |
| 24 | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeIt's just entitlement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 05:00 AM |
| 6 | Let's get to the point: how do female attraction and sexuality actually work?There IS some not-random factor of course. Like if you behave like an asshole then your chances are going to zero. But not behaving like an asshole won't guarantee anything. But you'll have better chances. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/23 08:28 PM |
| 10 | Let's get to the point: how do female attraction and sexuality actually work?There's no dating market because people aren't goods. There's sampling bias in your data. I'm sure it's based on some sort of online dating service. Men just love to screw up their chances. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/23 08:16 PM |
| 3 | Let's get to the point: how do female attraction and sexuality actually work?It's unpredictable and random. There might be some rules for every individual, but you don't and can't know them. It's a dice basically. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/06/23 07:25 PM |
| 7 | Older men dating much younger womenIf both are adults then it's their problems and nobody's else. And if you became victim of some sort of manipulation then it's your fault for not knowing better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 05:26 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Dating gets harder - not easier - for men as they agePeople in early 20s usually are dumb, don't know what they ever want and love to overcomplicate everything. Then they learn not to do so, what to avoid and what they really want. And then things become much easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 07:40 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Dating gets harder - not easier - for men as they ageWhen you age you get more life experience and you have to deal with less and less bullshit. So dating become easier thanks to that. Of course it become harder afterwards because there are less free people around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 07:35 PM |
| 4 | CMV : A woman can almost ALWAYS find a better option within a couple of months of trying, so why would they settle?But why "better guy" should choose that particular woman? You need agreement from both sides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 01:42 PM |
| 3 | CMV : A woman can almost ALWAYS find a better option within a couple of months of trying, so why would they settle?Ratio stays the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 01:33 PM |
| 3 | CMV : A woman can almost ALWAYS find a better option within a couple of months of trying, so why would they settle?No. Because amount of "better options" is very limited and finite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 01:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women don't have unrealistic dating standards, they just seem that way in comparison to men's terribly low ones.Have a good career, be in shape, have good social skills.... these aren't "impossible standards", they are very reasonable for any man to strive to achieve. They are unreasonable - most people will never be able to reach all of them. In worst case same standards should be applied to women. Good career, good shape, good social skills - all in same time. But they aren't important in the first place anyway because attraction doesn't work this way in first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 04:56 PM |
| 1 | If a young man cannot find at least one woman who wants them, the problem is their personalityThere might be a lot of reasons for that, including just simple bad luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 03:07 AM |
| 1 | If a young man cannot find at least one woman who wants them, the problem is their personalityThere might be another reasons. For example you might not have time or opportunity to meet somebody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Can somebody explain to me the difference between ghosting someone and giving them a vague rejection?There's none. Lack of answer is answer by itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 04:58 PM |
| 7 | Question for the 35+ crowd40,M, married. Funny people who really like to invent artificial and not actually existing problems for themselves and then sit just sit there and stare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 04:56 PM |
| 3 | All pills - Is (seriously) dating a single parent off the table for you?Yes. Because I decided so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Have we discussed socioeconomic pressures as to why there are so many single young men?There's no obligation for anybody to look for a couple. But pressure from society forces people into something that they might not even want. Of course they have no success. Right solution is to normalize being alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 03:23 PM |
| 3 | Have we discussed socioeconomic pressures as to why there are so many single young men?There's no obligation for anybody to look for a couple. But pressure from society forces people into something that they might not even want. Of course they have no success. Right solution is to normalize being alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 03:22 PM |
| 8 | CMV: The most obvious reason why modern dating is broken is because women have too many options because of the internet.So, you're against women having options and don't see why somebody might be with you by their own will and by force. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the red pill could actually help lonely men get laid and get in a relationship?No. Entire point of colorful pills is to sell solutions that won't and can't help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 10:18 AM |
| – | If you’re not the best version of yourself or really close to it, you shouldn’t be datingNo. First, you don't know how close you are to the best version of yourself. Second, no matter how good you are - you can become even better. So this goal can never be reached. Time is a limited resource and you don't know when and where you'll meet good potential partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 06:53 PM |
| – | Why are Pick-Up Artists (PUA'S) looked down upon?In dating it's simple. You have to go and try it a few times. Then you'll find that it isn't hard or scary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 06:46 PM |
| – | Why are Pick-Up Artists (PUA'S) looked down upon?They try too hard. Most of their stuff is useful when you have no idea where to start. But it isn't something that you build your life or income on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Would you give up video games for sex?No. Once I didn't go after girl that liked me because she didn't like videogames and people that play them. Giving up something that is important for you just for sex is dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 07:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV : For a woman to want to commit most of her mortal life to a man and grant him exclusive access, he SHOULD be pretty impressive, not just a guy who existsBut average guy isn't impressive just like average woman. And most of them are married by some reason. Which means you don't need to be "impressive" to find a couple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 08:27 PM |
| 2 | I think the biggest problem in dating is that women are simply not honest about what they are attracted to, and despite the fact that men have learned this they are simply told: “so you’re going to tell an actual woman what she wants?” When men say never take dating advice from women.Exactly what I wrote. You don't know who you'll be attractive to. But you can see "red flags" in people who you attractive to and may decide not to go with them. And you cant force yourself to like somebody just because they pass some sort of checklist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 08:25 PM |
| 4 | I think the biggest problem in dating is that women are simply not honest about what they are attracted to, and despite the fact that men have learned this they are simply told: “so you’re going to tell an actual woman what she wants?” When men say never take dating advice from women.Red flags is one thing, seeing somebody attractive is another. And you can't control who you'll see attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 08:02 PM |
| 3 | I think the biggest problem in dating is that women are simply not honest about what they are attracted to, and despite the fact that men have learned this they are simply told: “so you’re going to tell an actual woman what she wants?” When men say never take dating advice from women.They aren't "dishonest". They just don't know it. Just like you. You might think that you attracted to that or that kind of women but your subconscious doesn't care. That's why caring about it is waste of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 06:55 PM |
| 1 | If women really like you they’ll approach you. How much truth is there to this?Kind of. Just don't forget that you supposed to go away at first signs that she doesn't like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Should sex toys be permitted in a relationshipWho is going to enforce such permits? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 08:30 AM |
| 3 | CMV Women rating 80% of men as unattractive just proves women find different things attractiveBut why apply data from dating apps outside of said dating apps? People who use those apps don't represent anybody but themselves. Data like that is another good reason not to use apps for dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 08:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV Women rating 80% of men as unattractive just proves women find different things attractiveI love how people still running around with that very biased data like it has anything to do with real world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 07:22 PM |
| 1 | I cannot understand why any person looking for a serious relationship would not support the FDS 3-month for sex strategy.It will vet out men that have no interest in wasting their time and nothing else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 04:41 PM |
| 2 | I cannot understand why any person looking for a serious relationship would not support the FDS 3-month for sex strategy.Because you don't know if it have any chance to become serious relationships. If it work then it will work without waiting. If it won't then no amount of waiting will help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 04:28 AM |
| 2 | I cannot understand why any person looking for a serious relationship would not support the FDS 3-month for sex strategy.If you don't like waiting for 3 months for sex but still do it by some reasons then you'll find a girl that have no problems with that. So you'll end with somebody who isn't compatible with you. Or with very different attitude towards sex. Not a good start for serious relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 07:31 PM |
| 1 | I cannot understand why any person looking for a serious relationship would not support the FDS 3-month for sex strategy.Because you never look for specific form of relationships. You don't know and don't have a way to know how relationships are going to progress. And if you behave like somebody else you'll end with wrong girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 05:56 PM |
| 8 | Men's SMV doesn't actually increase with aging.Entire idea of SMV is incredibly dumb and it doesn't work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 05:55 PM |
| 1 | How do you begin dating as a guy with no experienceYou just ask girl out and check if it works. There are no other ways really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 05:04 PM |
| 1 | ALL men who want to date should go to the gym and take care of themselves, and women are reasonable to demand that.I didn't go to the gym and I dated women. So it isn't needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 05:04 PM |
| – | Women lie about their partner preferences. They self-report preference for intelligent and ambitious men, but they chose the most attractive ones ignoring other traits.You have no control over your attraction. You might think that you're attracted to one kind of people, but you won't know why you're going to be attracted to. So they don't lie, they just don't know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 05:03 PM |
| 1 | What is "Red Pill"?Another way to sell same crap over and over again. And to make sure that victim won't go away and continue buying it. That's it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 03:25 AM |
| 1 | AI for companionship, escorts for sex. Is this the future of relationships?It won't be human-like at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 03:22 AM |
| 1 | AI for companionship, escorts for sex. Is this the future of relationships?It's just a movie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 03:21 AM |
| 1 | AI for companionship, escorts for sex. Is this the future of relationships?Doesn't matter. Thing with superhuman AI is still a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 04:24 PM |
| 2 | AI for companionship, escorts for sex. Is this the future of relationships?Tool can do fantastic things. But it still a tool, not a person. But I'm sure there will be strange people who will form pseudo-relationships with those tools. You can't have relationships with somebody that can't even reject you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 07:48 PM |
| 2 | AI for companionship, escorts for sex. Is this the future of relationships?Because AI isn't a person. It's a tool at best. Buy robot who can do all house chores, cook dinner and google for you, put it in closet when it isn't needed. That's all. You can have relationships with another person, not with a tool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 07:22 PM |
| 5 | AI for companionship, escorts for sex. Is this the future of relationships?It's just being single with extra steps. There's no problems with being single, you no need to spend your time and money on talking roomba. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 06:43 PM |
| 8 | AI for companionship, escorts for sex. Is this the future of relationships?No. Because it isn't relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 03:26 PM |
| 4 | Another AF/BB example. Do women really think that the “BF” material is winning?You shouldn't if you don't want to. Nobody forces you into mythical "betabux" nonsense. You choose to participate or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 10:07 AM |
| 5 | It's perfectly sensible for a woman to be rapidly promiscuous with some men, and have tougher criteria for relationship-material menThey can do whatever they want. Question is why should you go with any of that? You as a man can decide who you're going with too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Successful men of Reddit, do you struggle with retaining high value women?If you struggle with "retaining a woman" then said woman isn't into you and you should look for somebody else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 03:46 PM |
| 4 | Passport bros is the only optionGirl in foreign country that know English and willing to go with foreigner is going to be either progressive or gold digger. I have no idea why some people like those mythical "traditional and conservative" women. Considering that their ideas about "traditional" and "conservative" are very strange and too murrican. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 03:44 PM |
| 2 | How much resistance to the Red Pill is just resistance to the politics and presentation of the Red Pill i.e. how would you feel if concepts like looksmaxxing, preselection, The Wall, etc. came from a neutral or left-wing perspective?Most of those ideas are false, You just need to get out of internet to see that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 07:37 PM |
| 3 | Most people, whether it'd be TRP or TBP or wherever don't deserve a high value SOBut who in his right mind want young, virgin, traditional, conservative, feminine and submissive woman? Virgin - so she doesn't know things about sex, especially in combination with another traits. Traditional - entire can of worms just by itself. Conservative - so repugnant to anything new. Conservative and traditional in combination with virginity means horrible sex life. In general it's a good idea to stay away from that kind of women and people who praise them. Conservative traditional virgi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 04:45 AM |
| 1 | CMV:Passportbroism,not the BP,RP or BlkPl is the solution for men to become happy.You're going to deal with kinds of shit that you never heard of. "You can take girl from the village but you can't take village from the girl", you know. Just fair warning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 04:56 AM |
| -1 | CMV:Passportbroism,not the BP,RP or BlkPl is the solution for men to become happy.If you like to deal with gold diggers of all sorts then yes. And cultural and language barriers aren't that easy. And burgers have very strange ideas about world outside of burgerstan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Western men deserve to get a girl more attractive than them CMVIf you only care about gold diggers with pretty faces then you'll get gold diggers with pretty faces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Western men deserve to get a girl more attractive than them CMVYou totally forgot about all sorts of language and cultural differences, And if you don't see anything but "hotness" then nothing will help you, ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Why some men have absolutely no standards?Because you never know who is going to reciprocate and who won't. In most cases you'll be rejected anyway, not a big deal. Just sitting there and waiting for perfect girl to fall from the sky won't bring you anywhere. And if you don't like it - then there are dozens of girls who have no problems with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Tradition for dating was a good idea that made perfect sense, but it is not enforceable anymoreThere's no such thing as "traditional dating", entire idea that men and women can choose who to marry is modern invention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Waiting for sex, attraction, and not being worth the waitYes, he's an exception. In theory waiting is fine if you have some sort of guarantee that you'll get what you want in the end. But in any other situation waiting is just dumb waste of time. I wouldn't wait for more than few weeks because I have more interesting things to do and there are other girls that won't make me wait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 08:27 PM |
| 3 | What do you think of the stereotype that woman are deeply complex creatures with a myriad of wants and needs whereas men are simple creatures that are very easily satisfied?Both are dumb and harmful for everybody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 08:21 PM |
| 5 | What do you think about the Disney trope of the heroine who "waits to be saved by Prince Charming" instead of overcoming adversity in traditionally more masculine ways?It's dumb. Passive princess-like girls are boring and create a lot of problems afterwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Is "chasing" women that said no to your date advances ever worth it?Absolutely not. We aren't in school anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Discussion : My theory as to why dating on apps is so hardInternet is shit for non-verbal communications. Non-verbal communications are critical for dating. So internet is shit for dating. There's no need to look for some sort of complicated explanations. And I won't mention that last thing app developers want is to let you to find a couple. Because their business is build on your inability to find somebody and they'll do anything to keep you in this state. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 05:14 PM |
| 1 | This guy basically breaks down how harem works and why 63% of men under 30 are singleInternet coaches/influencers are last persons you should listen about anything. Their goal is to sell their services and nothing else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 05:11 PM |
| 6 | Can We Train Men To Be Less Horny? Yes!As always, puritans are looking for a new ways to be puritans and force others into their shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 05:03 AM |
| 4 | CMV: In theory, a high value man is one who invests in his woman’s beauty financiallySo called "high value man" won't just give money to some girl that he barely knows. Because there are a lots of other girls that aren't need those "investments" at all. In general it's a bad idea to date somebody who isn't proper independent adult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 05:01 AM |
| 7 | How do incredibly meek or stupid men get women?They don't think that much about it, they just act. So at some point they find a girl that into them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 05:56 PM |
| 2 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....Honestly, it sounds like a recipe for disaster. This way you'll agree to deal with women who aren't compatible with you at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 04:34 AM |
| 9 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....You don't need any information in advance. And you shouldn't really care about her reasoning, there's no real way to know that. If you aren't getting what you need from relationships then those relationships are bad and it's better to find something better. You can talk about that but if things aren't changing then they won't change. Waiting/friendzone isn't forced on you, you agree to stay there and wait. You can leave at any point and nothing can stop you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 09:31 PM |
| -1 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....You can learn if you want to learn. Try to teach a girl that she supposed to do something else than just lying and enjoying the process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 07:29 PM |
| -1 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....Some virgins have no idea what woman is supposed to do in the bed. And you have to teach her. So it's better to just avoid virgins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 07:20 PM |
| -2 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....It doesn't exclude exclusive relationships. You can have exclusive relationships even in case of sex on first date. I just said that if girl don't want to have sex with you then she doesn't like you and dating her is waste of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 07:18 PM |
| 3 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....Looking for some sort of "consistent message" isn't that much different from looking for some sort of "perfect opener" or something like that. You live in way you like and then find somebody who fits into that. Attempts to keep all and every door open means nobody will ever open them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 07:06 PM |
| 2 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....A guy won't move on if he likes you. Why? There are countless girls that you like or might like. If things doesn't work with one of them you can just move to another. There's no point to waste your time on girl that doesn't like you. And if girl doesn't want to have sex with after first few dates then she doesn't like you. Which means that things didn't work out and it's better to move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 07:01 PM |
| -1 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....No. On top of waiting you have to teach them a lot of things. It's better when somebody else waster his time on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 06:30 PM |
| 1 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....I was agree to wait for months in my 20s because I was dumb. In my 30s I'd dump any girl that wouldn't jump in my bed after 2 weeks. Your time in this world is limited. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 06:23 PM |
| 10 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....But nobody forces guy to wait. He can just go and look for somebody else. Waiting is just like friendzone, always mutual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 06:20 PM |
| 4 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....But why anybody should care about so called "purity"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Rapper Waka Flocka walks off Fresh and Fit podcast over debate about rape culture and body count. 6 girls leave as well. Myron says rape culture is a myth. Was he being way too insensitive with this topic whether it’s true or false?There's better use for your time than watching/listening some dumb 3+ hours long navel-gazing podcast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 03:59 AM |
| 2 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.If dating is a job interview and relationships is a job - then why do you need them at all? It would be much better to be single. Or look for somebody without checklist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Telling men to stop associating their self-wroth with sexual success is like telling women to stop feeling like they have to be beautiful.I never linked my self-worth with sexual success. And it worked well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 03:11 PM |
| 2 | How would your life be different without p0rn?It wouldn't be different. I've found porn really boring and not worthy my time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 03:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you think AI will affect dating? What effects has it already had?Online dating will be shittier than ever. So dating in real life will be only viable option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 06:11 AM |
| 0 | Young men will always follow people like Andrew Tate and those like him so long as women discriminate based on things men can’t control more than things they canCan you all please stop with this mythical "social life of a hot man" nonsense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 06:12 PM |
| 11 | Young men will always follow people like Andrew Tate and those like him so long as women discriminate based on things men can’t control more than things they canNot being able to find a girl is a normal state for a man in that age. This problem usually solve itself given some time. Only thing that Tate and co. are doing is preying on those people and leading them in wrong direction. Only thing that young men must do is to read/watch less shit in internet and spend more time in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Femininity can basically be bought from the store in the form of cosmetics, hair style and different clothes.You can't buy behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Why would the most attractive guys consistently go for a normal girl?Because prettiness become old very fast and have no correlation with important qualities. Idea that beautiful women are in any way better than average is very dumb. And focus on "beautiful women" is a good sign than man has zero experience with women and have no idea what he's talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Do you see men's very low standards for sex as a good or bad thing?It's just much easier for guys. And attractiveness isn't only about how person looks. Enthusiasm and being proactive in sex matters much more than pretty face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Do you see men's very low standards for sex as a good or bad thing?Sex is sex. And there's no correlation between how girl looks and how good she's in bed. If your dick likes her then it's good. Worst thing you can find is nice and pretty pillow princess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 06:43 PM |
| 3 | What are your opinions on the Tate brothers, Hamza and Balkan Gains?They repack some common sense in the way that some men agree to listen and then add poison on top. Sorry, but things like "be disciplined", "have goals" and "hit the gym" are common sense and not some sort of secret knowledge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 12:33 PM |
| 3 | What are your opinions on the Tate brothers, Hamza and Balkan Gains?But they're still selling access to some sort of "private chats" or to "courses". Or even doing MLM. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 12:25 PM |
| 11 | What are your opinions on the Tate brothers, Hamza and Balkan Gains?Their only goal is to sell useless shit. So there's no significant difference between Tate, Hamza and any random telemarketer. They'll tell you any bullshit you want to hear if it helps them selling their shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 09:54 AM |
| 2 | Young men should gravitate to aba and preach/Destiny if they are so desperate for a father figure online.There are a lot of information about how shit works. You can try things and check what's working and what isn't. If you don't or can't think for yourself then somebody else will, but for it's own benefit. And I see entire idea "society failed young men" as ridiculous. You have your own brain, you aren't supposed to just believe anybody without thinking. Especially any sort of authorities. Everything about being a teenager is about learning how to think for yourself. If you still believe authorit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 06:40 PM |
| 5 | Young men should gravitate to aba and preach/Destiny if they are so desperate for a father figure online.Or they can just start using their own heads (those that are located on shoulders) and use some critical thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 06:00 PM |
| 8 | What can restore the divide between men and women in America?Why? Your own self-worth shouldn't depend on somebody's else approval or disapproval. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 04:32 PM |
| 1 | I wonder if many of the guys that cannot date are actually enjoying the sufferingMore than you think. But I don't think it's a conscious decision. "Society" tells guys that being alone is being a looser. So men can try and force themself to find somebody even if they don't want or aren't ready for relationships. Which causes some form of unconscious self-sabotage. And give nice excuse for themselves. A lot of men should be honest and ask themselves questions like "Do I really want a relationships?", "Do I give a fuck is some rando think that I'm a looser just because I didn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 04:26 PM |
| 3 | What can restore the divide between men and women in America?And nothing of value will be lost. American cultural influence isn't a good thing for the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Men are not oppressed by women, they feel entitled to womenSometimes reading less shit in internet is good for your health. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 04:08 PM |
| 3 | What can restore the divide between men and women in America?Nothing. Americans like splitting into teams and then throw shit to each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 04:01 PM |
| 9 | Joining a hobby group with intentions to meet chicks is terrible adviceTo find somebody you have to meet new people. And women from clubs and bars might not be kind of women you want to deal with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Men are not oppressed by women, they feel entitled to womenPlaying field still isn't equal. Men are still supposed to be active side and lead in relationships but not otherwise. Nobody can force you to play by rules that you don't like. Relationships need agreement from both sides. There's no way to force it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 12:15 PM |
| 2 | Where have all the good men gone?Hardworking guys are busy and don't have time or desire to date. They know that they have a choice so they aren't in rush. If girl wants guy like that then she has to put effort and make sure that it will make guy's life easier. Otherwise dating has no point from guy's perspective at this stage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 04:14 AM |
| 2 | " I prefer women that allow me to physically discipline them,have a low body count, at the age of consent " are not preferences.Nobody can force anybody to date or not to date somebody else. So all those talks about what is preference and what isn't are useless waste of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 04:08 AM |
| 1 | CMV: trying to convert BPers or hardcore RPers is a wasted effort and it benefits normal men that they’ve effectively removed themselves from the dating poolIt wouldn't be a problem if they just keep to themselves. Problem here is that BP/RP ideas easily sway young men to their side. Because they offer easy and wrong solution for problems that every men had at some point of their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 02:00 PM |
| 1 | [Reminder] Here is why RedPill gurus and PUAs are scammersSome PUA things work, at least it will give you information where you should start. Because a lot of guys have no idea what to do to find a girl at all. Information how to make yourself presentable and try to talk with somebody without being annoying. But I agree that everything beyond it is scam territory. They can't make money from basics so they have to invent something to sell. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/03/23 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Men aren’t creepy or gross for preferring young adult womenI feel entitlement in your post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s?Yes. Because why should I date somebody in her 30s when I can date somebody in her 20s? Of course if woman in her 30s is good then I can date her, but that should be her initiative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 04:30 AM |
| -2 | Why do you think young men seem way more worried about being undesirable and unattractive in dating than young women today?Nothing of this solve problems "where and how find a girl to date" and "how to advance relationships". Problems that young men struggle with. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/03/23 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think young men seem way more worried about being undesirable and unattractive in dating than young women today?It always was like that for most men. You just learn how to deal with that after getting experience. And that's why RP/BP is so dangerous - almost every young men is potential target. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/03/23 04:40 AM |
| 0 | Why do you think young men seem way more worried about being undesirable and unattractive in dating than young women today?Because for young men getting one date is an accomplishment. To get one date you have to deal with a lot of rejections, sometimes dozens. And that outside of dating apps that I know very little about. It feels once-sided and unfair more than often. All of that force you to ask such questions about yourself. Women usually asked out so they don't have to deal with same problems. They're choosing which men worth their attention and don't approach men by themselves. Answering your question - it isn'… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/03/23 04:18 AM |
| 1 | In the Old days the Redpill claimed that "Game" was the most important thing, in my observation the Manosphere transitioned hard to Looks/Money/Status maxxing theory, why did the Manosphere abonden game?Books about "The Game" don't sell anymore. Main and only goal of entire manosphere is to make money from your misery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Younger men cannot try harder on dating without being desperateSome people think about dating far too serious. There's no need to try harder, you need to enjoy yourself. You ask somebody out, spend time together and see where it all going. And forget dating apps, they're cancer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?OLD apps favor men who look good on photo. That's it. And "look good at photo" is very small part of what makes you attractive. And we have no idea how those algorithms work, I'm sure their main goal is to keep you single while giving you date or two sometimes. Because that makes sense from business point of view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Paper is called "A First Look at User Activity on Tinder". So it's already biased towards people who use Tinder and doesn't represent how attraction works in real life. On dating apps you have photo and some text, that's all. In real world you have a lot more information including all sorts of non-verbal signals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 05:12 AM |
| -1 | Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable?Based on what data? If you mean that data from okcupid then it's biased in many ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 04:31 AM |
| 5 | Do men really want traditionalism more than women?Manosphere want your money. They don't want to make you happy, quite the opposite - they can make money only if you're unhappy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 03:34 PM |
| 0 | Adults of PPD, do you have friends who just can't get a relationship despite being good potential partners?No, I don't know any. Not that I was so interested in state of their personal life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 01:57 PM |
| 1 | New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for themThere's sweet spot when you can get best comfort/effort ratio. If you managed to reach it - why bother going outside? You can only put more effort in expense of something else in your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Theory: dating apps have irrepairably damaged Collective Unconcious Sexual Selection (CUSS) health.So, pill people are going to run around with that article for next 10 years just like they did with that data from okcupid? I only see that people in general become more selective and don't jump into relationships because media said them to do so. Most people don't use dating apps or leave them because they're shit. I expect articles like "Evil zoomers are destroying some sort market related to shallow relationships and dating!" in the future. Just like with millennials. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you rather be single or in a horrible relationship?Being single is much better than being in anything but good relationships. When you're single at least you can try and find somebody else. Or not waste your time and energy on something that you don't like. It's not about horrible relationships, but any relationships but good ones. And bad relationships are bad for both sides, except when one side is exploiting another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 07:17 AM |
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