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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:27 PM
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As a woman it’s pretty easy to avoid being used for sex.. you just wait to have sex until the relationship is clearly defined and you tell these men what you’re looking from upfront. I’m usually the one to break things off actually, but that’s worked for me when I was trying to date
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:05 AM
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Yeah I have an avoidant attachment style and have taken a break from dating for that reason? What’s the problem? It still doesn’t change the fact that size does matter to a point? I’m sorry your penis is under 4 inches I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:01 PM
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Okay, I don’t care. I’m not here to validate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:54 PM
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That’s what you took from this comment? Sex with a ‘porn sized dick’ can be pleasurable but not in the way they’re used in porn. Size matters to a point of course. Anything under 4 inches isn’t really usable. Anything too big can be painful if used in the way it’s used in porn. But vaginas are also made to stretch and too big is better than too small.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 10:35 PM
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When I watch porn I watch porn that actually involves female pleasure. Like if I look at a scene and think “yeah that actually probably feels good for her!” I get turned on. It has nothing to do with romance. I could care less about a romance plot in porn. I think a lot of women don’t like mainstream porn because a lot of the acts look straight up painful (anal with ridiculously sized penises, being gagged by a ridiculously sized penis, being jackhammered or put in weird sex positions that don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:19 PM
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That’s not true and you’re clearly not a woman. Women get aroused by hot naked bodies just as much as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:17 PM
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Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:08 PM
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You said that if women don’t want negative attention from men (you know, being stalked, harassed, raped) they should make themselves ugly if it’s such a problem Which is absolutely disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:25 AM
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Yeah maybe the first part where he says making money off of your looks but then after that it sounds like he’s just talking about the average somewhat attractive woman or women in general
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:22 AM
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You know women want to look good for themselves, right..? You know women don’t do everything for men, right? Saying that women who don’t intentionally make themselves ugly are asking to be stalked / followed / raped / murdered is insane. Please never have a daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:55 AM
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The fact that you think ‘attention’ in the form of someone waiting outside of your house for three hours or stalking you or even potentially assaulting you is better than “no attention” is insane to me. I’d rather be left alone than fear for my life, but okay. I’m not saying male loneliness isn’t an issue and I do sympathize. But saying that not being acknowledged at all is worse than someone making you fear for your life is insane. Maybe it’s time for you to watch forensic files and see just ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:45 AM
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I’m going to share with you a story I experienced while dating as a woman and see if you still think that way. I met this guy at a local coffee shop. He lived less than a mile away from me. We made plans to get ice cream the next day. We got the ice cream, it started to rain. I invited him over to my house to get out of the rain. He had a good job, seemed like a normal person. It was the middle of the day and I live in a condo. I made us coffee and we spent about 20 minutes talking until the rai…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 08:48 AM
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Do you think that most attractive women are able to make money off or their looks ? The amount that actually do is so small. A lot of attractive women have tried onlyfans and failed. Also, let’s not forget the constant sexual harassment that comes with being an attractive woman that usually starts from age 12-15 and being afraid for your life sometimes. I’m a female paramedic and I’ve been groped by patients and I’ve had a ton of disgusting men make comments towards me. I’ve also been talked dow…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:49 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 05:43 AM
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Most women don’t like anal sex. It doesn’t feel good. Sex for women is like a lot of good pressure. You feel the pleasure in your lower abdomen kind of. It is difficult to understand and men probably won’t ever understand that but I’m not sure if anal sex is comparable I said most, which is true from what I’ve seen and women I’ve personally talked to. I don’t need anyone saying “I am a woman and I love anal”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:52 AM
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That’s not true lol. Someone almost 20 years older than the other person has so much more life experience and arguably power. But you can keep defending dating way younger women all you want because they don’t see how much of a loser you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:35 AM
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It’s not so much that women are shaming these men it’s more so that they’re concerned for the women involved in these age gap relationships because they’ve been that woman. Almost every woman I know has a story of being involved with an abusive older male partner in her teens or early twenties. It’s sad how common it is. Also, there’s no way at 37 and 21 there’s no power imbalance. You’re gross for that. A mentally stable well adjusted 37 year old man wouldn’t consider a 21 year old as his equal…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:34 AM
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Yeah it’s not a thing. It’s just a joke on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:25 PM
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Icks aren’t about physical things though. They’re usually about actions that a man does. And honestly, most ick posts I’ve seen on social media have been a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:24 PM
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I dislike sex work too. But I have nothing against the woman who capitalize on it, I have more against the men who pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:37 AM
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Exactly. I work as a paramedic and got kicked by a patient today. I’ve gotten spit on. I hurt my back lifting lazy obese people. If I could sell feet pics and make my own schedule that sounds pretty independent to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:12 AM
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Idk I don’t find taking pictures of my feet degrading. I think the men who look at porn / feet pics and pay for these things are much more pathetic than the women profiting off of their looks. Some of the OF girls are making hundreds of thousands even millions a year. I’m not mad at them for capitalizing off of men’s horniness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:10 AM
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Yes. You can be independent and have your own money
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:27 AM
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Dude why do you get why an adult man would want to rape a minor but not why an adult woman would want to rape a minor…? It’s the same thing. They’re both pedophiles. Both are equally as bad and neither should be excused.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:21 AM
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I think porn already has a negative effect on how men see women and sex with women. I think this will be worse. Creating a life like robotic being that will consent to any form of sex is a lot different than a personal masturbatory device. I don’t blame people for creating this considering for women casual sex has so many more risks than benefits and I guess men have to get off somehow with something. But I can see a man who uses something like this have sex with a real woman and become bored an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:51 AM
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Yes this is it. Not severe bodily trauma and hormonal changes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:45 AM
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No shit It’s literally a medical condition It has nothing to do with anything else. This post is retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:06 AM
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I don’t think having 2 girlfriends is a fantasy for most men. I think that’s a lot for most men. Also, nothing against the first commenter, but usually polyamorous people are really ugly so whatever vision you’re imagining in your head is untrue. Only ugly / severely religious women would be okay with sharing a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:06 PM
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I think witholding sex is manipulative.. for instance saying “you didn’t do XYZ so now we aren’t going to have sex.” Or “if you don’t do xyz we aren’t going to have sex” But that’s a lot different than being disinterested in your partner because they’re lazy and don’t help out and feel like an additional child. I don’t think many women withhold sex. I think they’re disinterested in it and it’s because of their partners usually unless it’s caused by a medical issue. The bottom line is, you don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:58 PM
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Exactly and they’re not withholding sex as punishment necessarily, it’s because they’re just not attracted to someone they have to pick up after
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:51 PM
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The “you didn’t put your coat by the door thing and now I’m not going to have sex with you” is deeper than that. A lot of women in heterosexual relationships take on a roll where they’re always telling their male partner to pick up after himself. These women do most if not all of the housework, cooking, childcare, and work too. They see their husband as another kid after awhile and nobody wants to have sex with their child. this is just how I’ve seen this described and it makes sense.. they’re n…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:48 PM
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Yes, I think it’s weird no matter who’s doing it. There are a lot of men in Hollywood who have age appropriate spouses / significant others.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:20 PM
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I think it’s weird he only dates people under 25
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 08:18 PM
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I disagree.. I think a lot of women would be against dating a man with a kid. That also means you have to deal with his ex and knowing his ex is still in his life. Not all women want kids. In fact, most single women I know don’t want kids and don’t want to be around them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:29 PM
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….what? I’m just saying for men staying is a choice so I think single dads are treated a little bit better and are less common than single moms. Why do I have to walk on eggshells around everyone in the subreddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:26 PM
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Yeah I don’t know why single moms are so demonized while the same can’t be said about single dads. I think it’s because single dads have the option of just leaving or not being involved while single moms don’t necessarily have that option. So single dads are less common in general than single moms. I think single parents dating each other will always be the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:58 PM
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Yeah I think younger women dating older losers because they don’t know better is unfortunately pretty common
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:11 PM
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4 and yeah a lot changes in your teens / 20s year by year which is why large age gaps where the younger person is in their early 20s or teens are frowned upon
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:22 PM
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A lot of women have regrets about the relationships they got into in their teens. I don’t feel bad about it, but thanks for trying to make me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:26 PM
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…? Okay I’m glad you were smart enough to be perfect at 19 and not make mistakes most people aren’t. Your brain continues to develop until you’re 25. I’m doing really well for myself now a mere 4 years later and would never entertain a guy like that now so you live and you learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:40 PM
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Yeah, because I was a teenager and he was in his 30s lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:52 PM
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you guys aren’t compatible if this is something she enjoys doing regularly and you don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:30 PM
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Going to clubs occasionally with girlfriends is normal and healthy. If it’s a super frequent thing and you have a problem with it maybe you two just aren’t compatible. Her telling you how many guys came up to her just shows she’s trying to make you jealous and is insecure. She sounds young and probably is young. Just cut your losses and move on. You’re not going to control or ‘teach respect’ to a young girl who wants to enjoy her time being young and party with her friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:29 PM
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It’s something I regret, not something I’m ’proudly sharing’ I was a literal teenager. No, young women are often naive and fall victims to tactics like lovebombing and don’t have enough life experience to realize they’re being treated poorly. And young women often don’t have a lot of resources like money themselves so they don’t count men out who also don’t have those resources. For example, I own my own home, live by myself, and have a good job. I want a man who also is independent in these way…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:24 PM
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Yeah 22 year olds do a lot of stupid stuff because they’re 22 I dated a 30 year old hobo when I was 19. I’m 23 now and I’d never date a 40 year old no matter how much money he has. I’m good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:38 PM
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This is actually statistically wrong Couples with less age gap do better
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:26 AM
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Exactly lol a 40 year old man dating a 22 year old isn’t dating her because she’s some amazing person and wise beyond her years It’s because she’s young and hot and doesn’t have enough life experience to know he’s a loser
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:25 AM
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… less women than you think have sugar daddies. It’s definitely not a common thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:23 AM
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It’s his fault because he’s participating in pedophilia
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 01:17 PM
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I think you can tell when a guy is inexperienced Obviously you can’t tell when someone pays for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:16 AM
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He’s insane and obviously butthurt that I am not interested in teaching an inexperienced guy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:02 AM
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Inexperienced and pays for sex? Seems like someone I totally would never be involved with or ever date to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:02 AM
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Kind of fucking disgusting that you’d be okay with raping an exploited minor just because you want to orgasm considering 30% of prostitutes in America are underaged. I’m not going to keep my judgement to myself. People like you are the reason sex trafficking is so prevalent and kids are still being exploited..and you should feel ashamed for that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:59 AM
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Kind of fucking disgusting that you’d be okay with having sex with an exploited minor just because you want to orgasm considering 30% of prostitutes in America are underaged. I’m not going to keep my judgement to myself. People like you are the reason sex trafficking is so prevalent and kids are still being exploited..and you should feel ashamed for that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:58 AM
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I’m fine with it being legal as long as it’s regulated like how they have the bunny ranch in nevada. I’ve said I’m fine with legal and regulated prostitution in other comments. But the idea that a child being subjected to hell or a woman being beaten / abused just so men can get off is disgusting to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:55 AM
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“In the United States, a minor is exploited in the sex industry every two minutes, according to activists. Every year, a total of 150,000 young people, mostly girls who are US citizens, are forced by pimps to sell their bodies. “ Here’s another statistic from this article
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:52 AM
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“UNICEF states that 30% of the females in prostitution are below 18, with children often being trafficked through friends and relatives. The prevalence of boys in prostitution is strongly related to foreign tourism.” I’m also in public safety and if you’ve seen what I’ve seen and what happens to these women and girls and how they’re treated as subhuman you wouldn’t be defending or encouraging that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:51 AM
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Because it’s not for me? I want to date someone sexually experienced who knows what they like and what they don’t like and knows about the female anatomy and how to take control? Stop trying to convince me that I should want to teach someone sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:44 AM
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Except you don’t realize that a large percentage of prostitutes are underaged, addicted to drugs, and abused by their pimps as well as isolated from their families. If you are paying into that system you are a POS.. Paying for regulated, legal prostitution is fine. A bit pathetic having sex with a woman who isn’t interested in it or you, but fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:41 AM
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If you pay for a prostitute who is often being forced against her will to sell her body and often times underaged you are a piece of shit. Going to a place like the bunny ranch where prostitution is regulated is the only ethical way to pay for sex. I’m in public safety and you really wouldn’t say stuff like “but it’s okay, I’m paying for a service” or anything else to justify unregulated prostitution if you’ve seen the things that I’ve seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:39 AM
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No.. I love giving. I just don’t like teaching and having to have bad sex. If I’m with a guy and he doesn’t know female anatomy or is awkward during sex it’s a turn off. I’m sure there are some women out there who’d like to teach an inexperienced guy but that’s not me It sounds like you’re just bitter that you’re inexperienced to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:11 PM
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It’s not a red flag necessarily But I’m not interested in teaching anyone. It’s a turn off for me. That’s my preference and that’s okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:08 PM
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As a 23 year old woman everything you said is spot on. Also, some of us have even been in these toxic age gap relationships ourselves and know just how scary and abusive they can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:43 PM
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I mean this is very common in age gap relationships. It’s often why older men go after younger woman because they know they can mostreat them without consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:40 PM
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Same. And when I hear about ‘age gap relationship s’ where the younger person is under 25, I get worried for them. It has nothing to do with me wanting the older guy who’s chasing after young women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:39 PM
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Exactly this is it. It has nothing to do with women wanting those men for themselves. Actually, I find any man who goes after a woman a lot younger than him a huge turn off. And if a man told me his last girlfriend was 10 or so years younger than him I’d get the heebie jeebies and reconsider dating him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:38 PM
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This simply isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:32 PM
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No lol they’re completely capable I’m just saying it’s weird if you’re 37 and can relate to / are in the same place in life as a 21 year old. And if you’re not, then there’s a bit of a power imbalance. 21 year olds aren’t infants they’re capable of doing whatever they want. But you SHOULD grow and change a lot in your 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:29 AM
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Not saying she’s not. But I feel like a 37 year old and a 21 year old shouldn’t be in similar places in life
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:00 PM
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They’re right to be weary You’re almost 20 years older than her. Her brain isn’t even finished developing yet and she’s most likely going to outgrow you. I’m 23f and dated a 31 y/o when I was 20. I could never imagine dating a man like that now, my tastes have changed dramatically and I realized how strange the age gap was
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:25 PM
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… yes? Why would they accept sexual advances from someone they’re not attracted to? Just like a 300lb ugly woman can’t go up to a man and make a sexual or flirty comment and be perceived as anything other than disgusting. She’s just less threatening than a man making a sexual advance because men are much more likely to rape / kill than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:17 PM
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It’s just a way to protect myself from getting hurt. I understand why men lie about wanting a relationship to have casual sex, so many women just aren’t interested in casual sex anymore. Why? Because the risk / work just isnt worth the reward
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 09:42 AM
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I mean… telling someone you want a relationship with them to get sex is so shitty. And women are picking up on men doing this and sleeping with them early on less.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:30 AM
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I feel like women are kind of turning away from dating already because it’s kind of not worth it anymore because a lot of men already do this to get sex Like I don’t sleep with anyone anymore unless we’ve been going on dates for a month and have established a relationship. If some guy wants to put in that much effort just to hit it and quit it then he can I guess. But the ones who just want sex will likely find someone who will give them that after a date or two. So you can do this if you want b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:22 AM
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Huh? Most women can’t finish from penetration. Men who are good in bed know this and use their fingers / tongue. Women need to communicate with their partners better and tell them this also. It’s not a hard fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 07:48 PM
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Because at 19 I was living at my parents house, had no idea who I was, still in school Now at 23 I own my own home, have a good job, feel comfortable being alone and know the signs of an abusive / controlling relationship so I won’t fall into that again
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:29 PM
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Exactly and I feel like leaving marks on someone’s back is something really young inexperienced women who think that’s what they’re supposed to do do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:57 PM
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I know that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:10 PM
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Oh. What a gross reply! And the sex isn’t what I’m talking about. I’m more so talking about manipulation and feeling pressured to engage in certain activities
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 12:03 PM
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People usually date and have sex with people who have the same background as them. Whether that be educational, socioeconomic, whatever. So the people banging uneducated men are probably mostly uneducated women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:11 AM
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You can still have a good job without a college degree. I do believe you need some sort of secondary training to get most decent paying positions whether that be trade school or a class at a community college. I’m a paramedic and I made 80k last year with some overtime in there. I also live in a very low COL area, one of the poorest major US cities. So I’m doing pretty well for myself. But in general, educated men / women are allowed to prefer educated partners. If someone turned me away because…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:09 AM
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?? Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:38 AM
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You don’t know that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:34 AM
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I don’t think people think men who date 24 year old women are predators, that’s ridiculous It’s more of a “what do they have in common?” Thing. Also, I think a lot of the women who get ‘outraged’ at these older men dating these younger women is not because they want these men for themselves , it’s because they realize how immature and naive they were at 24 compared to 34 and feel protective over the younger woman. I’m 23f. I dated a narcissistic abusive 30 year old when I was 19 and whenever I s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:16 AM
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Wow this is crazy to me as a woman who works in a male dominated field and has a ton of genuine male friends. The only thing I get out of these friends is friendship and laughter because they’re all funny as hell. They’re also mostly married / in relationships so they’re not looking to screw me either. The notion that men and women can’t be friends is weird
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:41 PM
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The gender and social dynamics aspect is bullshit too. It’s all bullshit. That’s what I’m saying Also, the show was filmed almost 20 years ago. It’s not a realistic depiction of anything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 11:09 AM
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I’m just saying greys is unrealistic about everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:43 AM
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This is ridiculous. Most offices have a dress Code. The only time I notice women dressing super provocatively is at a bar / club. Most professional settings (school, work) have some semblance of a dress code. I don’t know what you want people to say besides “if it bothers you look away”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:54 AM
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Because casual sex has a terrible risk reward ratio for women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:49 AM
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Because men ejaculating is the sole cause of pregnancy and it’s controlled by them. I think this could be avoided if a condom is worn and only sleeping with women who say they’d get an abortion if pregnancy occurs or who take birth control. I kind of feel the same way about women who get pregnant. Pregnancy is pretty avoidable nowadays but also nobody should have to carry a pregnancy they don’t want. It’s a last resort
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:37 AM
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Right I’m only a paramedic and I know just how unrealistic greys is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:38 AM
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What..? This is a super unrealistic portrayal of medicine, relationships, everything. Also Meredith’s whole thing was nobody would be as good as Derek. The Vet’s occupation wasn’t the real reason why she dumped him. I kind of feel like you’re not really a doctor. Most doctors can’t stand greys because it is so inaccurate. Also you’re talking about how greys captures the modern dating scene but the seasons you are talking about were filmed nearly 20 years ago. This is such a weird post.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:25 AM
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I think if you’re married and there is no reason to suspect she cheated and she’s been faithful the entire marriage there is no reason to get a paternity test and it’s insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:58 PM
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