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DebateAnxiousPeggingSlut/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 03:39 PM
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Damn, I thought my stilts would get me laid
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:46 PM
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The mask is off at this point As a man, you should just assume any given woman wants you dead lol Not because it’s necessarily gonna be true but because you’ll protect your emotional well being if you prepare yourself for it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:44 PM
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Wow, way to just admit outright that women are so dry around you that you can’t comprehend them orgasming.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:19 AM
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I mean, aroused, sure - all the time. Elaborate fantasies? No. It’s basically just “oh wow, that’s a nice ass!” and that’s about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 09:04 PM
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Maybe that would be great!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 03:53 PM
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Asking for help constantly when we are taught to be fiercely on our own all the time. You have the social norms that allow you to ask for help. We don’t. Why do we have to help you build your life when we can’t even need your help ourselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:36 PM
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Oh please, Most men don’t even want all that stuff. It just pisses you off. We can make our own food, pay a bill, set an appointment, vacuum, etc. Just go away with these constant criticisms - you’re pressuring yourself to do all that. Men? Maybe 50 years ago those demands were common because the husband was the one working. Today? No guy expects you to cook and clean - hell, we don’t even want you to if it’s just going to make you hate us anyways. Most men are begging you to be lazy because all…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:15 PM
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ChatGPT is already clawing your jobs away just like outsourcing took ours 30 years ago. Women mean nothing to capitalism either. They just haven’t had the time in the workforce to become quite as disillusioned. But it’ll happen. Especially with AI being endlessly patient and helpful for businesses and customers. And not being paid. You’re not wrong in much of this. But you’ll see the logic of the NEET thing soon enough. Because you’re an expense that your boss wants to get rid of too. And when t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 12:11 PM
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Then don’t be a better person, I can respect it. If you think the game isn’t worth the candle, quit playing. My issue isn’t with people who stop trying to better themselves. It’s with people who see what the situation is and want to bend it to be different by themselves. You’re one person, you’re not going to change anything. If you think women are too hypergamous to be worth the effort then don’t bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 12:00 PM
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It really seems like men are choosing to bend over for a bad deal and would rather bitch about it than actually change it though, going by your hypothesis here I mean, all of the complaints about providership, alimony, disposability, hypergamy, etc. have been around for a very long time. Don’t like providership? Quit your job. Don’t like alimony? Don’t get married. Don’t like being used? Don’t let yourself get used. Don’t like hypergamy? Only date women based on how rich they are. I’d respect th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 04:38 AM
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Just don’t do those jobs or unionize for like 400 dollars an hour instead of blaming women for being underpaid at a job that men don’t want to do either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 04:23 AM
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Lol ad hominem? I’m attacking the way you behave, not anything about you you’ve given zero numbers at all You’re just bitching trying to look tough It’s silly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 03:52 AM
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lol you sound so butthurt and are just whining. I’ve listed studies. You’ve come up with nothing but insults and whining. It’s frankly embarrassing to be a man, Not because of “woke” or feminism but because of people who act and talk like you are doing right now. You’re being driven by emotion. Be loud and angry all you want. Be emotional all you want. But don’t pretend being pissy is some intellectual position.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 11:52 PM
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The problem with this frame of mind is that you’re putting yourself in “mouth writing a check that your ass can’t cash” territory. Women don’t want men that act this way. It makes them want to stay away from you. You can either try to scare them into compliance with hateful and aggressive ideologies or make yourself a better person. I’ve never understood why the latter isn’t the answer here. Because even if it doesn’t get you a woman, you’re still better off in the long run than the red pill bul…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 04:30 PM
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You don’t even provide any actual reasoning or counter with data - just “this is how it feels”. Typical red pill nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 01:40 PM
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Terrible social skills, tbh Men talking like this - “80/20”, “Chad”, “Red Pill”, “dating market”, “body count”, “AF/BB”, “alpha”, etc. And there being a male loneliness (singlehood) epidemic… Those things are very related to each other! It’s just so fucking cringe lol They take their lives way too seriously. It’s the kid in PE class that pretends he’s playing in the Super Bowl. They just overdo it and need to tamp down on their egos, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 12:35 PM
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Men; yes. Men in the past though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 08:39 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 08:23 PM
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Why do you think people with mental illness shouldn’t be?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 05:39 AM
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That’s what I mean Like we’ll argue the logic of a choice that we emotionally structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:26 AM
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Not at all. I feel like we base our decisions from emotion and play logic from there Like “this measurement matters to me emotionally and given that, I think it’s smart to do X.” Who is to say that one person or another will get the same amount of fulfillment from this or that thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:17 AM
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I have OCD, I’m mentally fated to not go for logic first in some situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:11 AM
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Money is made up. All the better to have the government be taking it bc it’s a reminder that you can’t keep it The problem is that our government doesn’t ensure your basic needs in turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 04:23 PM
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Why would you not want the perks of a public sector job yourself! Instead of dismantling what’s cushy about government jobs, make the private sector cushy, my god people are just bitter idiots
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:36 PM
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People are free Advocate for your own welfare programs and quit being so miserable because you push yourself too much
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:34 PM
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Nobody is arguing for redistribution of men’s wealth to women. We’re arguing for redistribution of wealth from those that have it to those that have none. Men included.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:33 PM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:32 PM
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Exactly. I’m like on the cusp at 32 where I’m kicking myself for not sticking with interests and hobbies. French, poetry and creative writing, graphic design, photography, sports, forestry, education, history, travel, interior design, psychology, gender studies, philosophy, sustainability… The amount of shit I could’ve tried and just never did anything with honestly stings.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:31 PM
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You don’t have to like completely upend your entire life. Just dial it back a bit is all. It isn’t like most horny men don’t go to the grocery store and have jobs and stuff already. They’ve already largely cultivated lives beyond women, they’re just incredibly hollow ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:24 PM
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Is that a consequence of being male or is that a consequence of sacrificial social norms that ask you to live simply to provide money for women - and any potential or actual kids? Because I get the impression that most men simply end up on this train and get so depressed because by the time they realize they could’ve been happy for themselves, they’ve invested years into those sacrificial social norms
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:05 PM
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And you’re free to think I’m a bad person too! That’s life!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:29 AM
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Good luck to them, I guess lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 11:24 AM
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And somebody broke you in the first place that made it feel like you need one to be whole. At least to any greater extent than women need men in order for them to be whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:25 AM
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Absolutely I kinda think one of the tragedies of our era is that essentially AI and corporate greed are taking over your jobs right after the first generation of women being independent. It’s like a bunch of men are ganging up on you without realizing that we’re all fucked these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 12:40 AM
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I honestly think half the issue with men is that we grew up a lot under the example of our parents and put way more worth on making a lot of money because that’s the way the world actually was for us growing up. But then, you progress in age and kick yourself because you could’ve done something that you’d have had interest in too. So like I’m 32 and basically missed the station on this but I’m hopeful that the next generation of men are emotionally free enough to pursue something soulful with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:47 PM
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Thing is, we live in a world where the scales are tilted towards us needing to advocate for more rest and relaxation from people Working 80 hour weeks with no sleep, endless bills to pay, an endless shame for taking a break isn’t working out. I’m not saying something like UBI is an actual ideal policy but the fact that people are even talking about those things is a win itself. We’re living in a society that is too hard working, too industrious, too successful. I know it’s hard grasp the notion …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:43 PM
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Probably not. But hook or crook? Maybe!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:48 PM
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Well then I hope they take your shit, “bud”. 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:44 PM
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They owe so much in back pay to everyone else that it’s insane. We really need like an AOC figure to win and put them in their place.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:07 PM
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Quit looking at women and start looking at the rich. They’re your enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:02 PM
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Why on earth would you want to take that away from women instead of giving it to yourself? Makes no fucking sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:01 PM
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Sure, that’s generational change though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:32 PM
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I agree. Fuck them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:15 PM
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What differs between that and anything I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:14 PM
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Nah, we just need to tax the shit out of rich people and redistribute. Punitively. 100% tax rates on billionaires. Take the whole loot. Or at least make sure nobody has it. I want them “bs subsidies” too! The “successful” have destroyed the planet itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 05:14 PM
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They want enemies. Make it rich people. They’re down with Bernie - he’s the most popular politician in America. That should say something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:13 PM
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It’s happened before - FDR, Teddy Roosevelt, antitrust, New Deal, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:11 PM
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That’s what I mean though Trump doesn’t give a fuck about ideological consistency - he just cares about Trump The moment that bandage is removed and conservatives are stuck with adhering to their values? Imo, they’ll be cooked again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:27 PM
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Oh totally I’m just trying to brainstorm anything that the average individual can even do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:26 PM
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Maybe. But AI gf’s don’t accidentally kill people. Not yet anyhow lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:05 PM
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Meh, all that’s being revealed is that women and men are not on the same page at all. Women are surprised that their economic advancement has coincided with NEETs and men dropping out but I don’t think they really realized that the main motivation for men to work hard was for wives and kids. Now? Women can girl boss for themselves, why would men want to continue killing ourselves and being miserable? Sitting in the air conditioning and playing Xbox is so much better! Hopefully, the next generati…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:03 PM
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I think we are on the conservative side of the pendulum BUT it’s a weak turn because of how much they’ve alienated women - especially younger ones by the violent masculinity, outright sexism, and abortion bans. The Democrats, meanwhile, are going to have to go balls deep into class war against Musk/Zuck/Bezos and Big Tech someday. Fortunately, the oligarchy is making it easier by being so obnoxious and quid pro quo-ing with MAGA on the daily now. So, a little of column A and a little of column B…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:38 PM
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Sure, but I’m not seeing any reason to believe that this exact mindset isn’t just as prevalent among men in the other direction. Everyone is a victim these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:02 PM
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At some point, and I say this recognizing a large degree of privilege being that I’m married and it’s been a decade since I’ve been swimming in the dating sewer… You guys are going to have to take the power back. You are right about dating, you are right about 80/20, you are right about the hypocritical hypergamy, you are right about the hypocritical humiliation of alternative methods to find companionship… But you need to embrace the suck - AI girlfriends, passport bros, porn, mediocrity becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:46 PM
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Commenter above literally just said to turn the page
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:59 AM
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The commenter above literally said, essentially, to just turn the page
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:58 AM
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Well exactly, either way. That’s what I mean by the last part lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:57 AM
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Okay - What sort of legislation do you propose be passed to “equalize the dating market”? Or “end the male loneliness epidemic”? Or what have you. These are actually a lot trickier issues because it’s a hell of a lot less concrete than “can a man legally do something that a woman, all else equal, cannot?” Nobody is forcing men to use dating apps at 80/20 levels compared to women. Nobody is forcing men to be alone. Nobody is forcing people to choose hypergamy or not, etc. These are all, fundament…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 09:51 PM
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And a large part of the issue with that is because so many build their lives around women - what careers they pick, what they study, where they move, etc. Get an AI gf and live for yourself until someone suits your fancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:34 PM
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AI girlfriends, man. It’ll change things. It’s right now where online friends and long distance relationships were 15 years ago - fringe but you start seeing it once in awhile. You only really need something to nudge men into greater patience and less desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:32 PM
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Just don’t continue the same mistakes that my generation of men did - live for yourself and don’t bank on women being in your life path. Jobs, college, where you live, etc. - don’t make those things hinge on appealing to women. Assume they don’t even like your half of the population. And maybe some will eventually. Go into everything assuming the worst and you’ll never be disappointed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:09 PM
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No because it’s been this way for awhile. Women hold most of the cards in dating; and basically all of the cards in online dating. Alan Watts once called it “Law of Reverse Effort”. Men want to date so bad that they’re undateable. You gotta leave - go live in the forest, go be a monk, just live for yourself. Make them miss you. Eventually, maybe, they will. And if not? At least you didn’t put all that effort in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:29 PM
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It’s a branch but the root is more just not giving a shit about yourself In a sense, it can feel like women want men alive more than men themselves do lol Risk taking and so on There’s certainly a daredevil component to testosterone though I think it’s deeper too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:14 PM
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Sure, I just don’t think the extent to which they sidestep advocating for fairness for men is appreciably different than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:05 PM
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Well and this lends itself to something I’ve long been skeptical of but is growing on me - Bernie would’ve beat Trump in 2016. If class war is untouchable politically, it becomes race and gender and so on war
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:03 PM
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Meaning like - both men and women pay lip service to fairness but nobody actually wants to follow through to the extent that it’s a step back for themselves, generally speaking
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:57 PM
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Aren’t they doing the same, largely
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:33 PM
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Do you really follow through to the nth degree on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:09 PM
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I agree 100% And like… it’s illuminating if Red Pillers are talking up Bernie because the association people make about you is alt right basically. And if feminists/blue Pillers want things to get better for ourselves, that’s a point that needs some notetaking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:47 PM
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Sure, I just don’t even think the intent here matters that much. It’s how it comes across - “you’re my bitch now muhahaha 😈” That’s the way it seems to so many men. And I think that’s the core issue feminism faces rn. Regardless of the actual beliefs, men see it this way and it’s never going to change unless people can shift gears into something more complementary and welcoming.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:07 PM
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I think you’re expecting women to just voluntarily give up advantages that they have for some vague notion of fairness and yet… would you? It’s like women asking men to proactively just decide to take a big pay cut because of the wage gap. Sure, some people have such a strong sense of justice that they’ll do it. But expecting that such a thing would be the norm is unrealistic. And let’s be real - we would probably milk the benefits of the same advantages at least as much. You’re falling for the …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:43 PM
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I mean, everyone internalizes some and externalizes some I’d surmise that women tend to internalize a sense of meaning a bit more than men do, at least in the current era.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 09:32 AM
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I’m just feeling mournful is all. 😔 I think it’s a fair topic tho. Wouldn’t you rather know your enemy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:38 PM
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What’s wrong with talking about it? Maybe you can’t do anything about the issue itself but understanding it can help address its effects. Or just let an emotion go. Why not that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:30 PM
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Nobody is obligated to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:16 PM
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That isn’t a single man dying thing That’s a lot of people if you’re talking about all men who die single or become widowers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:09 PM
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Widowers were included
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:26 PM
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No but it can be private. Thus preserving more public dignity than dating and coupling within a financial and educational scenario that feels humiliating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:19 PM
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Dying? Seems like a pretty big one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:15 PM
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My likely scenario is that more and more men will slowly and then all at once embrace AI girlfriends and the like, as they get better/more realistic/more normal (similar to how online friendships have become), because women getting so far ahead in a clearly hierarchical domain like education is going to make feminism seem like elaborate humiliation for them. Even though I don’t at all think that’s the intent. That’s how it’ll come off - “Look at you, not so tough now! I have you right where I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:13 PM
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This holds for widowers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:36 PM
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Are you? Because you’re pretty focused on the passive party here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:16 PM
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I understand the sentiment you’re expressing but I do not think that’s the root of the issue. I believe that what women provide men emotionally, given current social norms at the least, is far more powerful and healing than logistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:53 PM
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Why is the bad boy somehow less responsible for his own actions in this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:51 PM
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Sure, I think a pinch of selfishness would actually do men a bit of good, at least in terms of our internal lives
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:50 PM
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I would add that careers and just wives themselves provide the same sorts of meaning, at least somewhat My main point is that men need to stop externalizing their meaning and instead look inward a bit more
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:44 PM
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I’m not sure that’s actually the root issue I think a lot of men don’t care about themselves enough to do it, really
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:42 PM
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It’s not either or though You need a healthy balance
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:41 PM
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I think a lot of men’s social norms basically externalize our identities - you’re living for your wife, your children, your career, whatever. We’re not really living for ourselves and it can feel like that train left the station long ago
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:23 PM
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Hard to suss out correlation vs. causation but my guess would be that men have social norms which end up relying on private vulnerability with a partner more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:18 PM
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I mean, if you want to go the way of the (Kawasaki) Ninja? There’s also freedom to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:14 PM
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In which your response is to provide a bunch of bullshit justifications rather than simply saying “they are assholes who abandoned their children” You’re going through many hoops to justify deadbeat dads by virtue of what may be going through their heads and offering none of that er… understanding to single moms who choose to stay with their own kids. That’s the sexist part - TLDR - you’re justifying the far greater asshole in this scenario way more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:07 PM
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You’re pretty into justifying the deadbeat dad here. Nobody is unfamiliar with that “rationale” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 01:48 PM
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Not if you don’t process the raw emotions enough to even figure out what you want in life. Your path is one that just leads to wasting decades of your life living in ways you don’t even want to. Which is a far greater waste of time than spending months or even a couple of years figuring out your internal state and really pondering it - shadow work and so forth. You could also just take LSD or some shrooms too if you take care to do it wisely. It seems efficient your way but really isn’t. At leas…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 01:37 PM
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You seem very attached to an argument you’re pretending to be “above the fray” on. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 01:35 PM
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The taxpayer part doesn’t matter here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 01:34 PM
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Calm down. The problem is that you’re backpedaling and couching a profoundly sexist opinion in “I’m just asking questions” rationales.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 01:33 PM
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Who is abandoning their literal child? Answer that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 01:15 PM
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The man has zero responsibility for his actions and the mom is the demon here because she doesn’t throw the kids out? Are you serious? This is just absurd levels of pure sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 01:12 PM
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💯 no notes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 01:11 PM
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Wow, Shit on the single moms who stay with the kids to keep them fed and clothed; and defend deadbeat dads. No words necessary here…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 01:11 PM
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There’s infinity single mothers? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 01:09 PM
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How is “burning the village down” more emotionally mature? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 01:07 PM
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You’re not processing emotions if you freely admit to burying them in the next sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 01:05 PM
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I’m unsure why you would want to have a partner if you’re not motivated enough to at least keep up with your own health for your own sake without constant new sexual and romantic stimuli. That reeks of a personal issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:48 PM
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Being a citizen entitles you to vote
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:44 PM
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Well, when he puts it that way… 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:02 AM
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Okay, pinnacle of logic 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:23 PM
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You don’t have to get all emotional, dear. It’s just the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:14 PM
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You are literally in “Q4W” whining about your experience being talked over and mad at someone over it I mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:01 PM
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You either get that or get deeper into exactly where the hate goes. I’d rather them say their extreme hateful things than hide behind vague bullshit tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:12 PM
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I want to read these guys actually spell out exactly what they mean though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:49 PM
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Can you further explain the “nature of women” here? What exactly do you mean by that? What is their nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:28 PM
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They won’t even say what the hate is even for… Im so tired and I’m a guy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:32 PM
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So what did they do to you? Like concretely? I’m not trying to shit on you. I wanna know exactly what it is that women did?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:54 AM
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lol you just gonna live by threat? Have some self reflection, please Perhaps that’s an ingredient behind this male loneliness epidemic?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:17 AM
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Reread your own post
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:22 AM
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More reporting No male would’ve reported anything like that 20 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:59 AM
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Awwww That’s really sweet! So, yes, those things are appreciated
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:44 AM
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Aight You are just straight up sexist, brah
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:43 AM
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When is the last time that men have asked them to be romantic or given an indication for how to be? There’s entire genres of media that go the other way. You want flowers? You want to be proposed to? You want to be asked out? Fucking advocate for it. When women started joining the workforce, they had to punch back against centuries of inertia. But they did. Most of this sub seems to just be dudes bitching about stuff privately because they don’t even want to risk anything in their personal lives…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:15 PM
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I’m not and you don’t have to do anything I mean, I’m free to think you’re a bad person if you don’t feel bad but That’s a you thing ultimately
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:52 PM
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I’ve seen the studies about men leaving wives with cancer before. All I know is that we really, desperately need to be soul searching. We’re in denial of how hard it is to live with us and it hurts everyone. I’m sorry. But it’s how I really feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 07:52 PM
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Oh I see what you’re saying I guess in a way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:12 PM
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What do you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:41 PM
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I have always felt like it would be better to be hit by a women than emotionally hurt by her. A bruise will heal in a day. Their words will cut you for a decade. Like, if you’re really mad at me? Just throw a punch. I won’t hit back. I’ll say sorry. Whatever. Better that way than the words lol I’m not joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:04 PM
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I mean, most men would probably stay with a wife that hits them. We’re made to feel like sinners from the get go and like we kinda deserve it if someone hurts us. I’m sure there are areas women feel that way. But I do think men feel that way more in today’s world. Like, if you go into “men, what did your parents do that you don’t want to do to your own kids” threads - “they beat the shit out of me” is a common refrain
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:17 AM
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Men get beat up emotionally more without places to really process it because you’re supposed to just let every insult slide and be in control at all times. It’s weird how women think they’re unheard and yet you remember shit they say 5 years ago or the time or two that she hit you - the thing is, you can never let on that it stings emotionally. I think women face bigger macro issues but men face bigger micro ones, at least in the context of everything you can’t really talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 08:56 PM
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Men need to be honest about the kind of love we even want. It ain’t anyone else’s fault that most of us live lives of quiet desperation. Well, at least the quiet part is certainly our own fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:07 PM
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Half the problem with dating apps is the assumption that women are into the same game that men are, to the same extent. Have some poetry based dating app and it’d probably be different. Are you sure they’re looking at the photos and deeming the men unattractive or the spelling and grammar errors?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 12:22 PM
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Every single one? I mean come on
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 12:19 PM
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Who are rating them is my point “I touch myself to all the men” isn’t a particularly socially acceptable thing for women to say in regards to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 12:03 PM
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I’m not saying you’re wrong to be hurt by these dynamics but I am saying you aren’t alone in them. They may not show up in the exact same areas for women but they’re there. If nothing else, there’s a ton of equality in how much life sucks ass lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 12:00 PM
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That’s all self reported though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:51 AM
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Same when you guys talk about women who use sexiness to extract a billion dollars out of guys though. Most women don’t and can’t. Like 99%. The average OnlyFans girl only makes like $240 a month. Not enough to even cover a car payment these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:50 AM
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How are you being seen more if all you’re being seen for is sex? Is sex not a certain form of labor to extract from all the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:35 AM
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You can view them as an NPC - most people in public aren’t thinking about some random person’s life. But it isn’t like women are somehow in a different boat. It’s not like I’ll pass you on the street and think any harder about your life story than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:34 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:32 AM
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The irony of you completely ignoring the simple fact that there are just as many invisible women. Perhaps in a slightly different way, but it hella rhymes with your experience. It isn’t like you guys notice unattractive or older women when y’all say “every woman is living life on easy mode in some pampered palace”. If nothing else, notice all the ways that your complaints are not special.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:31 AM
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Men have it much harder to find a partner, women have it much harder to keep one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:33 AM
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This is true of any gender war shit. People will just grieve the connections they want but can’t make with the opposite sex. It’ll manifest in fairly loud rhetoric but all it really is, is “I still want to like the other half of the population but I think they hate me”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:22 PM
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Sure, who doesn’t want the other person to initiate and also to not feel creeped out?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:48 PM
6

Are signs of improvement at processing the insecurity valid though?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:43 PM
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It’s nobody’s job to fix someone. At all. But I’m not entirely disagreeing with the vibe because, let’s be real, most men will fuck up and it’ll be scary. I had a manic episode that resulted in a new car and a lost job lol My wife stayed I still feel unforgivable about it. It’s hard to really talk about in the first place. It feels like sometimes, we’re probably forgiven by others but never forgive ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:31 PM
1

Honestly, I just wish there were even a few more who made themselves known anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 06:31 PM
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For men to start actually wanting it to change in the first place. The only side of the equation that’s changed from 50 years ago is women’s… because they wanted to have the autonomy to live life how they chose? That so bad? But what do you expect from anybody else if men just keep voting to give each other ass cancer instead of, like, a bit of a break?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:40 PM
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Sure, but they aren’t determinative Life is a risk and people seek certainty to protect themselves which is both understandable and ultimately a foolish errand
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:20 PM
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How humans operate in crowds and how humans operate individually are not the same thing Your mistake is in assuming that you personally are bound to crowd control
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:07 PM
0

So you can think for five seconds and realize that you’re not a robot bound to some law of physics when it comes to what you personally find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 05:06 PM
3

We’ve turned love into efficiency instead of efficiency into love.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 02:05 PM
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That’s a better metaphor than I can come up with lol But exactly! I’m so tired of how absurd the Big Data-ification (lol?) of human relationships is getting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:51 PM
1

I love Love Island! It’s so cheesy that it helps after a day of much brain usage
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:50 PM
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Thank you! Like you are looking for the yin to your yang. Not some objective measurement. This is getting absurd. Can we just start doing like fantasy football over romance at this point? This is dumb as hell lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:20 PM
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What’s your WAR bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:19 PM
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The irony of it is that, logistically speaking, domestic roles have never been more available to men because women stepped into providership ones. But if you’re not even going to try to take those roles in the first place - meaning things like SAHD, childcare, nursing, etc. - then there’s really nothing to complain about. You could have an actual “men’s rights movement” around things like paid leave, childcare and education jobs, domesticity, etc. - it’s never been more possible. So it just seem…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 09:25 PM
1

Then why do all your influencers charge membership fees? If you’re not disposable, why do you have a price?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:34 PM
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Do they try to change this in like large enough numbers to really do it? Because there’s a ton of men invested in male disposability and they’re mostly on the Red Pill side
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:02 PM
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It really seems like a ton of men crave evolutionary laws to keep from taking a risk All of that neglects the historical fact that women were like “hey guys, can we do the provider thing, too?” And then it happened. If you don’t want to risk change, that’s fine But we should accept then that it won’t happen All of these apparent advantages that women have are not carved in stone That ideology and appeal to nature fallacy is a great way to bitch about stuff without risking ostracism for trying so…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:58 PM
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I’m just rolling with the overall concept you guys put out there
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:29 PM
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Why? I don’t agree with all of the root ideas of feminism - patriarchy and stuff kinda turns me off due to the same Apex fallacy mentioned above However, if they’re on the side of UBI, labor unions, greater range of gender expression, and so on? I’ll take it. I don’t care how the sausage is made. I just want what I think will work best in the end for the most amount of people Maybe my perspective is wrong, it certainly isn’t universal But I like their direction better, even if I can’t get on boa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:25 PM
1

Submission, you say? 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:17 PM
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I think I’m more just talking with someone that worries that men’s loud volume in pushing our experiences will drown out women’s experiences Like, we can have separate experiences without one being erased by the other, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:07 PM
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Men might front more like that because we feel the social pressure to have everything under control at all times But women do their homework more For the same reasons you mention Overconfidence is a double edged sword
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:57 PM
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Power itself doesn’t convince someone that they matter though Look at the most powerful men on earth The biggest losers who are cut off from family and get high on ketamine all the time I look at that and think “can somebody else please take that role away?”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:47 PM
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I mean, basic mortality makes every being fundamentally disposable Males aren’t alone in that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:25 PM
2

I love eating three tubs of ice cream and binging Netflix in the evening too. Currently watching the new season of You on it. Hbu? I will agree that women way overestimate their ability to be telepathic and that they talk over men’s emotional experiences and assume our intent to be bad, at least way more than we actually have bad intentions I get the heightened cautiousness because even the weakest men are physically stronger than most women. And I also think that they should have the ability to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:22 PM
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It’s the presumption of nice thing that gets me Neurodivergence doesn’t mean kindness or meanness I think Autistic people should be given plenty of grace for misunderstandings But I think they also are more than they realize and they end up on the defensive and anxious because they think they’re seen as creeps more than they really are Most people are aware of Autism and it’s high prevalence nowadays I think there’s a vicious cycle with it where Autistic people are made to feel super self consci…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:00 PM
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Plenty of women in the feminist side are and accept different neurodivergences in themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:39 PM
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Cool. I’m sorry you value yourself like a stock.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:22 PM
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Men need to have higher standards for ourselves. Women aren’t going to solve or break men’s issues. If you feel like you’re only worth a Ford Transit camper van, your self respect is low from the start. Simping, as it were, is irrelevant to the root of the problem - men don’t enjoy themselves, we feel like we are chores. We expect women to help, but all they can do is prune the branches of what’s really rotten - we have such a bleak sense of self and feel like burdens. Especially in an age where…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:19 PM
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Ideally, I’m not sure what a realistically stable alternative in a country with more firearms than people would be
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:07 PM
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If that’s the case, why would fertility rates not climb exponentially higher forever?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 11:29 AM
0

What’s your perspective exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 11:15 AM
1

So they save $300k that would otherwise be used to raise one kid (multiply for more), in an era where being childfree has never been more socially acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 10:42 AM
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Which is what? That you can be a number? Everyone knows that everywhere else in life, what’s new?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 10:41 AM
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You just tax the robot. Or its profit generation more specifically. And redistribute.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 10:39 AM
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Temporarily. Not long until UBI after. Too many guns in America for that situation to sustain itself for very long. Maybe you have an alliance form between men with Autism who already have 80% unemployment rates and women whose sectors get demolished by AI first? I think if you’re looking at it solely from an either or/one industry perspective, you’re lacking many variables
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 10:38 AM
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Maybe. Then again, maybe not. I have no formula to offer you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 10:35 AM
1

Source is really just “trust me bro”?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 10:31 AM
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I mean, two 2/10’s that actually love each other and enjoy life have it a lot better than two 10/10’s that hate each other, no? I’d rather be the 2/10 in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:50 AM
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The Market Value metaphor is more problematic because it dehumanizes human relationships, whatever its accuracy. Like we’ve all become 80/20, AF/BB, Markets (lol?), etc. Red Pill turns dating into CNBC stock market graphs. And I can’t think of anything more boring, tbh. It isn’t about whether or where those terms fit, so much as the simple fact that looking at your relationships with other people as an exercise in day trading says some pretty bleak things about where people are.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:46 AM
2

What about the people who are happy poor?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:40 AM
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I mostly think it’ll keep men balanced enough to take things at a reasonable pace in dating and courtship rather than the speedrun they do now to attain a partner to come home to. You can come home to ChatGPT. It can mimic a gf, even if you’re not good enough for one at the moment or simply don’t have one for whatever reason. It’s not a replacement for human relationships but it can prevent you from rushing into one too fast. As for the economy? I don’t really see it mattering that much in the l…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:12 AM
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There’s a legitimate social stigma to men seeking help ngl I just hate when people try to use statistics to paper over culture You can build a million suicide prevention places but you can’t force men to use them That’s the real problem Help exists for men, but not much social acceptance for them to take it Unless that changes, the rest of it won’t matter regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 11:06 PM
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Are they? How about fat ones? Ones with acne? Ones with moles? They aren’t people too?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:58 PM
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Yes, it is. That’s how love works. You open yourself up to the risk of pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:28 PM
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all of them? Or just the ones you pay attention to?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:14 PM
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“The average woman on a dating app basically has this [super pampered and perfect] experience and even if she doesn’t have this experience, she’s insecure about not having that experience and she will lash out on her insecurities about this by being a brat to men on apps who don’t fit her fantasy” sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:12 PM
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Do they get more help and resources? Or do they seek more help and resources. Because I’ve never seen a suicide prevention initiative that discriminates by gender. I’m sure you can find one that exists somewhere, but I’ve never seen it in a remotely major one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:01 PM
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You seem to be lashing out at them and then blaming them for lashing out at you. Glass houses and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:59 PM
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Then what’s your point? Just to dick measure who has it worse, endlessly?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:57 PM
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It’s always been a form of generational hazing among men, mostly. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:56 PM
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That’s actually a lot of homeless women for homeless men to not feel existentially lonely and like homelessness is something only men can comprehend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:52 PM
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Okay? And a bunch of men will say that the moment she hits 30, she’s useless. Can’t you see that we’re sinners here, too? If nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:23 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:21 PM
5

Congrats! Here’s to 200 more!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:18 PM
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Because most women don’t live the kind of amazing and pampered lives you’re heavily implying here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:36 PM
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Show up in life without expecting it to be fair because it never can be. They don’t allow us to start a conversation with them? Where aren’t we allowed to? Or are you afraid to take the punch back? Sure, they’ll do that. Whatever. Better to have an honest argument than a fake peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:32 PM
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That they have no power to force men to love them? Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:28 PM
2

Thank you for seeing the efforts when we do things right.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:27 PM
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I’m not. I’m just saying to trust them to decide to address that on their own. Maybe they do, maybe they don’t. It’s their right to decide. Let ‘em hate you if they do, you can’t change how they decide to see you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:23 PM
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How am I putting stock in it? Look at my username This is absurd shit but it’s interesting to banter about, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:22 PM
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I am. Life ain’t fair. Show up anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:19 PM
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I’ve never seen a woman care if a guy qualifies as one per se, but you guys do throw out stuff that you know we’re sensitive to if you get mad at us lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:18 PM
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And how are the men doing anything different? lol The mirror between the two genders might as well be a window at this point Just a bunch of bitter tennis, back and forth
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:16 PM
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That’s a boring and transactional life I’d prefer the heartache Hopefully just the fear of it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:15 PM
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Dude, we’re also saying “here’s all the things you need to do just for me to love you” and then complaining that they are doing it Unconditional love is risky. That’s why nobody does it anymore. Love is letting someone have the power to hurt you and trusting them not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:14 PM
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Is it possible to love conditionally?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:05 PM
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Which, is a burden worth carrying. What else is worth doing with your life anymore than trying to heal somebody else? ChatGPT can do whatever else you’re spending time on and climate change will ruin the rest. All you get is connection. Take it or leave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:05 PM
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Why wouldn’t it be? What’s the point of doing otherwise? If they’re going to be mad at men, they’re gonna be mad at men. Is your approach working out?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:02 PM
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Anddddd there it is. You want women to love you unconditionally and yet you won’t love them that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 08:01 PM
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So what? If you love them, why care about competing with them? Let ‘em roast us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:54 PM
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You could make the argument that the collective “woman” is. But you’re still not seeing them as individual people and it’s hurting both of us. You think you’re alone in feeling like you’ve been fucked over, are alone, are useless, are taken advantage of, don’t matter for who you are, gonna die alone and it’ll be 10 days until your corpse is found, etc.? Actually listen to what women, individually, say. One by one. They’re basically crying to you that they hurt in all these same ways. Maybe not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 07:46 PM
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I would pick the tattoo’d loudmouth. Way hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 05:04 PM
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If men don’t love women unconditionally then the dickpocalypse will never happen because we’re both still fundamentally flawed, hurt, and needy human beings regardless of how much money we have, how old we are, how fat we are, etc. If men did love you unconditionally, we’d cease to be interesting. Same goes the other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:33 AM
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Okay so you want me to say men don’t love you unconditionally? Men don’t love you unconditionally. You don’t love us unconditionally, either. Maybe that’s why the dickpocalypse won’t happen. Our relationship to the other isn’t that different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:25 AM
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So what happens if we just kinda miss you and worry that you simply need us less than we need you these days? Not that either loves more or less - how would you measure it accurately? But that you are more lovable, at least right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 03:07 AM
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How is that different?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:45 AM
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By dickpocalypse, I’m assuming you essentially mean that men will be abandoned by women I’m saying that a lot of the rhetoric on the women’s side can reinforce that fear for men Is it logical? Nah. Every woman is different and the range is just as vast as it is for men. But the fear of the dickpocalypse isn’t about whether or not men love you, it’s that they don’t trust you to love them At least in the ways they need it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:41 AM
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You’re who men come home to. They’re not wrong to be afraid of you leaving, for you say you want to. Or all but explicitly say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:28 AM
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I would hear out the story and see what I felt about it as accurately as I could If nothing else, it’d be a pretty novel thing that I hadn’t heard before. I’d probably bond with her in that instance though Because fundamentally the effects on her would be remarkably similar to being falsely accused in itself
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 11:15 PM
2

Interesting how your entire diatribe neglects the other half of the population’s preferences, strategies, and desires entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 11:42 PM
1

But are you anxious or at least avoidant about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:39 PM
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Better question for Blue Pill tbh lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:08 PM
2

It’s complicated. I’m bipolar pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 03:51 PM
2

Same thing, fundamentally. Isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 03:47 PM
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Tell yourself that As a fucked up affirmation “She will leave, this is temporary, take the love while it’s there, it will not last”. Hell, say it over and over again to yourself. Out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 03:45 PM
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Of course I have said no. I pride myself on maintaining enough distance to keep the pain of inevitably being left away
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 03:44 PM
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The best advice I can give anyone in this time - assume you’re gonna be left; become at peace with that Because you probably will be No one stays
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 03:42 PM
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I can’t add anything better than this. A compassionate and honest take if I’ve ever seen one. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:10 PM
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It goes back forever Just used up advice that is frankly less relevant than ever Women have less of a need for money and date down more than they ever have for simple economic reality - yeah, it still means the deck is stacked against men in the traditional ways; but ironically, the 80’s, 50’s, 20’s, Triassic Period, were more relevant to their complaints It’s just that the “beta men” of that period all died silent and early deaths like poor/working class people always have; perhaps pacified by …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 01:00 PM
0

What’s that mean lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 03:46 PM
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I can’t argue that lol I’m not saying it’s a good thing But I’m certainly into possessiveness and such Black widow spider shit rofl
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:40 PM
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I guess it depends on the person but yeah, this day and age I kinda like the idea of being chased down and her not taking no for an answer It feels really weird but like, I fantasize about that type of thing Like running away and being captured by her. Mmmmm lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:36 PM
3

The problem with leagues is that they ignore individual preferences One person’s 3/10 is another’s 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 01:05 PM
1

Okay but you actually answered mine perfectly, dude. I guess what I’m getting at is that the one thing “toxic masculinity” offers men is a vague sense of direction at all - it may be mean, it may even be predominantly bullshit; but it provides concrete steps and ideas where they aren’t finding many elsewhere. But therein lies the fragility of it all - most men nowadays are just looking for a vague sense of direction at all. And manosphere stuff provides it even though, imo, there’s basically not…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 12:18 PM
1

And in none of that did you indicate that you find anything regarding men, overall, as lovable. I’m not demanding you to build a shrine to some specific hot guy. I’m literally saying… men… as a concept lol… what are they for? And you have no real answer. Nobody really does these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:09 AM
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I would hope so. (Finding someone cute or just lovable for any reason really has nothing to do with sleeping with them either.) All I know, is it would be profoundly healing to men to even hear “What in men makes us lovable?” Is a question I don’t remember anyone, of any political or social stance, actually answering. Because honestly, whether it’s 4B women or manosphere crypto grifters, the only thing anyone agrees on seems like “men fucking suck”. One way or the other. It isn’t as if red pill …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:03 AM
1

When did that happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:21 PM
5

Then give us reasons why we’re pretty lol Hard to believe men are even attractive to you So… you’re not wrong on the hating ourselves part But I also don’t think it’s entirely men’s fault When’s the last time men have ever had a reason to believe that you are actually attracted to them rather than just a social default or what they do for (and sexually, to) you. Literally. What do women find attractive in men? (And it can’t be something we do lol, that’s off limits - it has to be something that …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:08 PM
1

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:00 PM
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And bragged about his relationship with Epstein And told Megyn Kelly she had blood coming out of her… wherever And imported Andrew Tate from sex trafficking prison to our country And has said numerous sketchy things about his own daughter, Ivanka And buried his ex wife in an overgrown lawn Constantly called women with any amount of weight pigs Has allegedly said women should be treated like shit in the workplace He’s got a pattern of behavior, this isn’t some isolated thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:07 PM
3

Yup. Like… you can pursue basically the same policies with a million other people and still he’s the guy you pick? Says a lot. Same with Kavanaugh fwiw. Either and any of those sorts would’ve been fine without the SCOTUS seat or presidency and yet they are the ones you pick because, not only are you afraid of rape allegations ruining men’s lives, you go so far that you are promoting men with them! So… you own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:59 PM
3

Yeah like… you didn’t have to vote for him? Even if you are a conservative, there’s plenty of others… yet he’s the guy that gets picked 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:55 PM
1

Yeah, hbu?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:55 PM
2

“I’m Fine with Raping and Can’t Get Laid, Why Me! - A Tale of Modern Masculinity, As Told by Red Pill”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:51 PM
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Oh God, please spare me from this insufferable whining and defending indefensible behavior How many rapes has he been accused of? 26? 28? What’s the number of rapes we’re okay with here? Also, you should go to college and stop simping for men who sexually assault people
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 06:20 PM
4

Poor babies :( so scared and little lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:51 PM
3

If I were you, I’d be a lot less delicate to men about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:42 PM
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What in the fuck is wrong with Red Pill men? Are you shocked that women don’t like the guy that fawns over “grabbing ‘em by the pussy”? Like are you guys this dense? You can’t see the incredibly predictable progression of events over the last ten years? For the love of God, please go to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:40 PM
3

Sure they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 04:50 PM
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Women are more accepting in my experience, honestly. To the point that we seek out approval more from them and that’s the real rub. The ball ends up in your court to soothe all the insecurities and pain because nobody trusts other men to do so - at least around those things. This is getting better! More men are becoming more accepting and even outright supportive of it. But for how much more women are being asked to change to accommodate effeminate men and AMAB people, there’s even still a great…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:44 PM
11

So you vote to Make Black Lung Disease Great Again instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:38 PM
1

Yes but the flip side to this is the extent to which men police feminine behavior amongst each other to a much greater degree You can take it in the ass as a straight dude and most women would just be like… well, whatever floats your boat, I’ll stick my hand up there if it helps Men are changing about that sort of thing though, too. So I’d certainly lend credit in our direction too. But so much more of this is a problem among men than narrative suggests otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:20 PM
1

The thing I’ve found that’s most attractive to people is simply carving out your own individuality and finding yourself. The most common hard-hitting complaint I hear from women about men these days? It’s not money or physical attractiveness. It’s “I don’t even know who the fuck you are.” Because so many people don’t even know themselves. Resurrect incomplete childhood hobbies, try new things, travel, search for jobs you don’t hate even if they pay less, etc. The best relationships aren’t made f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:17 PM
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Thank you As a dreaded “working class white male”, I absolutely hate the narrative that I’m some stupid pawn for right wing reactionary politics and Red Pill bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:11 PM
2

Honestly, I think the opposite. Most social attitudes cycle through - backlash to backlash The more content I compare - posts/videos by red pill men vs. feminist women? The feminist women are just more grounded, less hysterical, and far more compassionate to men - or at least less cruel The Red Pill is an absolute embarrassment and disgrace to men tbh I hate it and that hatred has only grown
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 03:06 PM
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