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String along implies that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:38 AM
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Why would you ruin the chance of a woman to have a family and kids by lying to her? This is her last chance to do that. Very selfish just to get a few point above in any arbitrary number system.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:29 AM
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A lot of women wouldn’t want to be used strictly for a man’s pleasure. Most women do however want to have sex when both parties are committed to each other’s pleasure. Hopefully, that is also a part of male sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:36 PM
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To men you do. If that not a core tenant of redpill?
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/24 03:59 AM
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Probably unsatisfied with their sex life yes.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/24 03:51 AM
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Does that mean when a 40 year old man is having sex with a 40 year old woman, he doesn’t find her attractive? I agree that men’s sexuality is ageist. That’s why women need to understand male sexuality so they know they need a good career before getting married and having children. When the man becomes not attracted to them they can just leave the marriage and have a career to fall back on and still have children. It’s best for both so the man can go after younger women and the older woman still …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:08 PM
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How is a woman turning 30 karma? That implies older women did something to deserve “the wall.” They didn’t do anything but age. And if a women does everything right they could still be single and postwall depending on circumstances. I don’t think karma is the correct term.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/24 06:38 PM
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No. Stay single because no man wants to date them. Become career women most likely.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/24 01:21 AM
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It is not the same for men. Men prefer 20 year olds. They don’t like older women. Study after study has proved this.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 11:29 PM
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Just Purplepill debate. I see the redpill stuff everywhere though. Even in seemingly safe spaces. It’s just how men think it seems. I’m trying to not believe it but it’s hard when it’s pushed in your face everywhere.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 11:21 PM
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I’m not a troll. Why is it so hard to believe that the concept of the wall is harmful?
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 11:20 PM
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Do you not agree that the wall affects women’s dating and marriage potentials though? How are you still dating way postwall?
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 11:19 PM
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Did you not experience a lowering of self esteem and self worth when you learned that you had an expiration date? I’m trying to reconcile being redpill ( I truly believe in it unfortunately even after trying to dismiss it) and living a happy life.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 11:15 PM
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I certainly never had any problems before learning about the redpill. Becoming redpill has ruined my self esteem and self worth. I thought many of the women in this subreddit would be able to relate but I guess not. I’m trying to focus more on my education and future job so I can find my self worth again. I still keep going back to wanting to be a mother though but honestly learning about how many men think about older women has made me just not want to date or get intimate with any man.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 11:12 PM
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I agree that the redpill had drastically altered my self-esteem. After I found the redpill my self esteem changed dramatically and I find myself wearing bagging clothing to hide my body because I feel like any man that is looking at me will find me unattractive. Seriously, learning about the wall and how strong men prefer youth has made me suicidal (not anymore). I’m 23 and already feel too old for most men and there are graphs and studies to prove it.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 11:09 PM
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Redpill men. Askmen or really any male dominated space online. And hitting the wall is a very clear and vulgar way of saying no one wants a woman anymore.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 08:28 PM
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Yeah. I know that but how can women feel comfortable or confident when that man is most likely using them as a last resort? He would rather be with a 20 year old and is simply getting what he can get.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 08:21 PM
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This sub is for women. I’m listening to what men are saying. Are you saying the wall isn’t real or more of a slope? Because men seem to be saying that a wall is when women lose their desirability. So men still find women desirable after the wall?
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 08:17 PM
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I’m 23. I’ve never been in a relationship and am worrying I’ll be 25 and postwall before I do. I just can’t get it out of my head that men won’t find me attractive in 2 years because all men say that older women aren’t attractive when they have anonymity.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 08:03 PM
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How am I taking it too far? Men have made it clear women after age 30 are unattractive. I don’t think men want to divorce their wives just that they aren’t attracted to them as much as they used to be.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 08:02 PM
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How am I bashing men on Reddit? I’m not a misandrist and if it looks like that I didn’t mean to come off that way. You’re the one coming onto an 18 day old post insulting me and telling me and other women that were lying about meeting men who we thought were creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:32 AM
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It literally is true. Some men are fucking creeps. The question was what is a creep and I gave an example of a creep I encountered. This is not common and doesn’t happen often. Also women can be creeps too. Maybe get out of your bubble and talk to people. And the fact some men get off on scaring women does not make me feel good at all. You sound naive and sheltered honestly. Some people are terrible and you have to look out for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:29 AM
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Yes. He bought knives every day if the same female cashier was there. He usually doesn’t check out with the males and when he does it’s not with knives. He’s probably bought hundreds of knives. That’s fucking creepy. He also makes sure there is almost no one in the store when he does it. Maybe you misunderstood and thought it was only once but no it was consistent buying of twenty knives for weeks whenever a female cashier was there. I don’t think he likes the cashier either he just wants to cre…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:21 AM
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What anti-male policies was Kamala running on? lol. Trump won because people are unsatisfied with the economy and Kamala said she wasn’t going to do anything different than Biden in regard to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:33 AM
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You said the abortion ban means nothing. It literally does. Unless those women mean nothing to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:21 PM
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Men aren’t the ones getting pregnant. Deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:50 PM
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Women have literally died from being denied an abortion. How does that mean nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:50 PM
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Seems like you lost the plot. In relationships, it’s ideal that the man tries to make the woman happy and the woman tries to make the man happy. If they aren’t doing that, then it’s not gonna be a long relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 06:21 AM
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I’m a woman, but I am in the same boat as you. My self-esteem is horrible. I developed an eating disorder when I was 19 because of what I read online. I already feel old and undesirable at 23. I even toyed with the idea of suicide if I wasn’t married at 30 because of the redpill teaching about aging and the wall. Started to believe no man is attracted to women over thirty. I’ve spend hundreds of dollars and hours trying to stop aging. Really, coming across this stuff has made my life hell and it…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:01 AM
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As a shy woman. No, this is not true. I’m trying to get into a relationship with a man and it’s one of the hardest things I’ve ever done.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:24 AM
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No. Immediate breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:13 PM
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Why would you date a person who isn’t sexually attracted to you? This isn’t about power. If what men are saying about the wall and women are not getting attention after 30 because they are too old to be attractive then women need to find men who will be attracted to them. Aka old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:19 AM
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And I just said they don’t want a 30 year old women. They would rather date younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:13 AM
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For what??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:09 AM
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Because they want 20 to 25 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:08 AM
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Yeah. Because of men like you the wall doesn’t really exist. Or if it does it’s only for women wanting to date 6ft tall men who make 600k. Even then just date 15 years older and women will likely have a better chance than dating their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:03 AM
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It’s better than being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:01 AM
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A woman never hits the wall if she dates 10 years older. Do you think a thirty year old woman wouldn’t have success if she focused on regular men 38 - 44? The wall only happens if she’s stuck in a 2 to 3 age range. Like a 50 year old man is not gonna refuse to date a 30 year old because she’s too old.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 02:55 AM
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She clearly made a huge mistake expecting a man to feel empathy for her. Going for a woman would obviously have been the more intelligent choice. I’m a woman and I would have helped her without a single thought. Indeed, what you said is nasty and OP is not a good person. He has the right to not be a good person I guess, but he is one. And by the way, I’d think this both for men and women. It common human decency to help a person in need. Need time you’re in danger in public make sure you don’t f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 06:49 PM
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People who make people uncomfortable and don’t care. They keep doing what they’re doing even though it’s socially unacceptable or just straight weird. The man I’ve really only thought “Wow, he’s a creep!” was when he bent his neck to get a better look at my crotch and looked for several seconds wide eyed without blinking. Another one was a man who always stayed late at a store I was working at when there was a female cashier and buy like twenty knives. That guy was a creep. I’ve had unattractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:40 PM
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What rights would they not have in this world?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:36 PM
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So you watched a weird TikTok and thought that was reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:24 PM
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So people lower on the dominance hierarchy deserve less rights? I don’t understand. Do you want to go back to the day of peasants and lords?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:21 PM
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Sex workers are human. Being a sex worker and being human is not separate. That being said it sounds like you do respect sex workers to some degree. At least you respect them as human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:12 PM
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What does that mean? That women don’t deserve to be considered equal to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:09 PM
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I mean you’re just quibbling about words then. Most people would call that respecting their rights as a human being. I don’t think most people have an admiration for sex workers. I’ve never meet them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:07 PM
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So when sex workers feelings and wishes matter to you? I serve sex workers at my job where I serve the public. I have to care about them as human beings and respect their wishes and feelings. Like food, shelter, and so on. This
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:05 PM
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I mean you should regard the rights of sex workers as human beings though. It be wrong if you to cuss at them or refuse them types of service because of who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:55 PM
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That is not how genetics work! A dominant personality trait is not solely found on the Y chromosome.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:33 AM
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Strong women are having a lot of children. They are not outliers. My mother and her friends are grandma age and all of the strong women I grew up with are having children. Most importantly though that is not how genetics work at all. I’m studying personality and inheritance in college right now and plan to go to more school to become a genetic counselor. That being said a child no matter the gender gets an equal amount of inheritance from mother and father. For example, my father is very opinion…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:30 AM
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Yeah. This guy is completely misguided on a lot of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:18 PM
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It was a cultural trend participated in by both men and women. Trying to blame a specific gender for it is weird. That’s just not how culture works.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:17 PM
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I know women who aren’t like so your point is immediately disproven. It’s quite easy to disprove that lol. You just need one woman who isn’t like that and it’s disproven.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:47 AM
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I do not feel bad for a woman who dates a man who says he will dump her after she turns 25. I feel disdain and disgust that they let themselves get used like that. Indeed, that’s even more ridiculous than getting with a person who wants you for your money. A man can keep money, but a woman will always turn 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:35 AM
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Lol. Guess I’m abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 09:31 PM
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They say men age like wine women age like milk. Women hit the wall at 30. Most men won’t even date women their age. Literally type in old women on twitter and Reddit and see what comes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:00 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:50 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:50 PM
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Yeah. The men won’t enjoy having sex with the woman though which is the point men get into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:51 AM
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I don’t want to believe this, but literally most men online say this is the truth. Its deeply embedded into every culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:50 AM
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No. I didn’t say that. They would just rather be with a women who is younger but will take what they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:47 AM
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That’s because the men can’t get anything better. If they could have a younger woman they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:45 AM
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Men are almost never attracted to women 35 and up though. Women can never stop time and for men it seems that it the most important thing in attraction for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:44 AM
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Men always say older women are unattractive though. Women aging like milk is a common saying. I never believed this until I heard what men say about older women when no one can hear what they’re saying. It’s across every part of the internet that men don’t like older women and prefer younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:37 AM
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Yeah. But men care a lot about youth. How does that change just because they’re married?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:27 AM
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What age do you prefer?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:05 AM
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Do you still find women your age attractive? So women should go after older men to look younger so their partner will still be attracted to them when they age?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:01 AM
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It means to be in a longterm relationship with the intention of staying together.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:57 AM
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How old are you willing to go for a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:57 AM
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Does this mean you would never marry a woman? What is an old woman to you? What women do you consider young?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:56 AM
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I have to admit I’m jealous of you not being worried lol. I’m so worried about aging and men not wanting to be with me. I’m 23 and only have a couple years left before men don’t find me attractive. I’m so worried about finding someone in the next few years or else no man will want me. All my life my looks were of paramount importance in my life as I’m sure all women can relate to this. To realize women only have 7 to 10 years of actually being attractive to men and men wanting to get into relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 04:49 AM
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How old are you? What do you consider young?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 04:26 AM
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lol. So if I said men are violent assholes that is just a criticism and shows no dislike towards men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:55 PM
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Breaking a woman’s jaw after she confronted someone for being rude?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:57 AM
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What is she jealous about?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:55 AM
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I don’t think you get what I was saying. I’m saying men and boys are getting taken more seriously in the past years and that’s why the women are getting in trouble. Before, then there was an attitude of well he’s a boy, he probably liked it. I care very much about protecting people from sexual assault. Honestly, I feel horrible that what I said can be in any way construed as saying I don’t care because that is the antithesis of who I am as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:05 AM
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I mean shit like this happens. It’s not dewy Disney Word like you apparently think life is for women. Some men prey on women and it’s a lot more common than you think and a lot of times it doesn’t get prosecuted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:40 AM
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I would look into it. I’m just not gonna brush anything off of that severity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:29 AM
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No. She’s told many people about it. She even confronted her mother and father about it. By the way, her father freely talked about it with her that one time. That’s what she said though. Her sisters know and believe her. She just didn’t want her father to go to jail or the story outside the family because then it would look bad and he would be ostracized. She loved her father and didn’t want him to be harmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:26 AM
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Why would a 5 year old have that? What physical evidence could my mother possibly provide years after the fact that would make you believe her? And abuse was rife within the family. Everyone has stories from that household. Even the men. They can’t provide eyewitness to her abuse but they sure can provide their own stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:07 AM
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Real question? What evidence is there that a woman needs to show to prove childhood sexual assault? How is my mother supposed to prove something happened to her when she was 5 and didn’t yet know what was happening to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:58 AM
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Ok. I’ve seen the light. My mother is a horrible person who lies about the most horrendous things that can happen to a family. My sister lies and so does most of the women I know. Thanks. Women’s voices don’t matter. They a bunch of lying whores all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:53 AM
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I don’t believe there has been an increase in females raping young boys. Sexual assault is just taken much more seriously nowadays which apparently upsets many of the men in this sub. Male victims benefit from this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:52 AM
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Lol. I wish I was able to be this ignorant and naive. Life would be a lot more serene if I thought that. Envy you really. I feel bad for any woman you’re close to and shudder to think about you having a daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:50 AM
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So, apparently rape is extremely rare according to the statistics?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:48 AM
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You’re the one calling my mother a liar based on literally nothing but bias and ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:47 AM
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Why would my mother want to split her family apart? And my sister’s rapist isn’t dead. She knows there’s no way to get a conviction so she just tries to live with what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:47 AM
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lol. And men like you are the same ones saying women being raped isn’t as big of a problem of women make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:45 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:44 AM
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Would you then have the same reaction if a son told you his father molested him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:44 AM
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Damn. Cold hearted. Do you give the son the same inconsideration to his side of the story?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:42 AM
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You wouldn’t believe your own mother after she cried to you about how relived she was after she broke her hymn the first time having sex because she was afraid her father raped her? Besides, these women literally were silent until the men died because they didn’t want to upset the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:39 AM
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Because I’ve seen the effects it’s had on them. I’ve been there for them when they cried.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:37 AM
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So you’re gonna imply that my Aunt lied to me about being raped by her brother? My own mother lied to me about being molested by her father? My sister lied to me about being raped? Yeah. I believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:36 AM
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Yeah. I believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:34 AM
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Dude. I know nothing about you or what happened. If the state presumed they’re innocent then so would I.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:18 AM
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I have no idea about your situation. I’ve said multiple times in this thread that I would look at the facts. It’s just that “oh, he’s such a good person,” is not very convincing. I’d look more into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:11 AM
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Yeah. We’re 100 percent identical.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:35 AM
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That not how that’s works lol. I have a clone (I’m a twin) and we are so different. Why are girls more fussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:33 AM
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Why wouldn’t you want a daughter?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:30 AM
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Would you believe your daughter if she told you she was sexually assaulted?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:21 AM
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I don’t believe that. People just aren’t as cruel to their daughters nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:07 AM
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Literally the majority of women I know have been raped and no man went to jail. Most didn’t even report it because they knew nothing would happen. Sorry, but I’m on the women’s side on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:03 AM
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They were dropped due to insignificant evidence. Mostly likely a he said she said situation. That doesn’t mean the woman lied about the rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:59 AM
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I agree. But all cases are very serious no matter what. I don’t care if my hypothetical son might have touched an unconscious drunk or might have physically forced a woman to have sex with him. If there’s proof he did it, I’m not supporting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:57 AM
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Most people want to believe the best in their children, but most time they are wrong. All these men in the sub saying I’d trust my son. Well, I’ve had this scenario happen in real life where I trusted someone and turned out to be wrong. Most rapists are people you trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:54 AM
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I like the implication that some cases of SA are not serious lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:48 AM
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Yeah. The question is extremely vague. Literally a thousand hypotheticals could apply to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:44 AM
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If there was reason to believe he did it? No, I wouldn’t represent him in court. When it comes to sexual assault I’m very cold. I’m no stranger to sexual assault in the family either. My Aunt was raped by her brother and my mom was molested by my grandfather. I’ve watched both of them struggle with what happened to them. I’ve also watched my sister spiral into heroin addiction after being raped at a party while intoxicated. I’ve had neighbors give birth to their Uncles rape baby. Of course, I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:28 AM
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I don’t know. Really, depends on the case. If there was reason to believe he didn’t do it of course I would support him. If there was reason to believe he did, I would be very upset and conflicted and not support him. I’ve had family members that turned out to be rapists and honestly my heart turned cold toward them. I don’t love them anymore. It would probably be different with a child though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:14 AM
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That’s good to hear. I do know where OP is coming from honestly. Coming into contact with how many men see older women can be extremely upsetting and jarring, especially if you’re very sensitive and obsessive about topics such as myself. I don’t come into contact with men outside of my family much in my life and take what men say online at face value. Pretty stupid, I know lol. I understand emotions running high and saying stuff to insult women online. I feel myself wanting to do that to men, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:41 PM
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I know, men finding women more attractive at 40 does not mean they don’t find women attractive at older ages. This girl literally needs to look around at the world. There are literally dating apps just for older people with no younger people involved whatsoever. Most women my mom is friends with got divorced at 40 and 50 and are already partnered up with men their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:34 PM
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I don’t think people find fault with saying younger people look pretty lol. The problem comes when men start saying women hit the wall, an older woman is a used up car, women’s value goes down as she ages, and that she’s women ages like milk when men age like wine. Men’s value goes up as women’s go down. No one likes a woman over thirty. Women over thirty are bitter old hags. After women hit a certain age they wouldn’t be able to find a man because men find her unattractive. Men aren’t attracted…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:59 PM
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I don’t care at all about it. I only care if a man is threatening me which thankfully doesn’t happen often. I don’t really think it’s an advantage either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:50 PM
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This only applies to redpill men and men who care a lot about youth. Most men are attracted to women their age as well as younger women. At least I hope so. Men do keep telling me on this sub that old women are ugly and undesirable. Hopefully, that’s not true. I don’t know what men think, but I like to be positive about people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:08 PM
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No. People are losers. Just not people with jobs contributing to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:01 PM
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Cool. Every woman totally says that and I have to apparently answer for it even though I’ve made it abundantly clear I don’t think that. Besides, the only ones responding to me to say those men are losers are men, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:52 AM
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So? Why is somebody a loser if they don’t work their dream job. They’re working and contributing to society. This conversation is ridiculous. The people here suck if everyone is defending calling service worker losers. Do you really live your life thinking the majority of people you interact with on a daily basis are losers?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:22 AM
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This quote isn’t about sex workers. It about not wanting women around you except to have sex with them. A man who say this wants to replace a longterm relationship with a sex worker because he only likes women when having sex with them. I always took it as saying “women are annoying except when I’m having sex. I’d rather pay a woman to have sex with me than have a girlfriend because then I have to be around her when I’m not having sex and I don’t like women enough to want that.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:54 AM
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When he doesn’t want to get a job, mean, doesn’t take care of his hygiene, rude to people and just generally a nasty person people don’t want to be around. I’ve known people who work in the service industry and they don’t fit into any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:21 PM
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I’ll say it again. A man isn’t a loser because women don’t want to date him. Women can be proud of caring about a man’s career when looking for someone to date. That doesn’t mean men with not so stellar careers are losers. Respect people in the service industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:17 PM
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So? Why does that make a man working at a fast food place a loser? I don’t want to date a lot of people. That doesn’t make those people losers. Men being losers isn’t dependent on whether women want to fuck them or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:53 PM
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And you can keep disrespecting people trying to make a living. The only loser in this scenario is the one looking down on someone trying to make an honest living.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:44 PM
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Yikes. Tells a lot about you that you think people in service jobs are losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:15 PM
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She’s irritated that the men aren’t respecting her because she’s a woman. She’s just complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:12 PM
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Apparently, man-hating is a very low bar. Looked at the first twenty posts and not one was hating on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:16 PM
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She admits she from a culture with gender segregation. It has nothing to do with her personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:15 PM
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I’m bisexual. Definitely attracted to men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:01 PM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:59 AM
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Don’t want a masculine Chad. Literally the last man I’d ever be attracted too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:58 AM
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That sucks. I wish you good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:31 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:29 AM
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If you have any problems with women it’s certainly not because of your appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:17 AM
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Don’t got a lot of time left to find a partner, vet, and get married before 30 though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:00 AM
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I hope so.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:59 AM
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Turing 23 this month. Panicking as my value as a partner plummets. Trying to find a feminine man as I simply cannot keep convincing myself I find masculine men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:54 AM
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lol. Real funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:25 AM
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I’m not defending them. Literally where did I say that? Besides, there are literally thousands of websites on the dark web geared toward men depicting child abuse. Again, doesn’t mean shit. Just like that doesn’t mean shit. Weirdos that want to fuck serial killers don’t have many options. Women on dating apps who want a normal man have thousands. You obviously don’t want to underhand what I’m saying because it’ll go against your notion of these poor normal men being slighted by these horrible wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:18 AM
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Millions of women do not want to date serial killers. lol. That claim is literally ridiculous. Besides, most women are not defending women who lust after dangerous men. I’m big in the crime community on YouTube, which is mostly populated by women, and that sort of behavior does not fly. Barely anyone, male or female, defends women going after criminals. Why would women call out a woman who married someone on death row? Majority of women aren’t even aware that shit is happening. There is not gonn…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:01 AM
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Most women don’t want to date and have sex with serial killers. You seem to be able to apply logic with men. It shouldn’t be hard to apply that same logic to women. A few rotten apples doesn’t mean women as a whole want to fuck evil men more than normal well adjusted men. Weirdos with a sexual paraphilia disorder doesn’t mean anything about the current state of relationships between men and women, just like men with a pedophilic disorder doesn’t mean anything about it either. If you want to appl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:39 AM
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I don’t think that humans are children until 25. I’m not comfortable with 18 years old doing porn either. I remember being an 18 year old woman and I was extremely immature and I don’t think I was out of ordinary in that regard. Personally, I’m bisexual and I steer away from any sex involving what looks like teenagers of any gender. Too much risk that I’m watching something unethical or that these teenagers were manipulated or that they later regret the decision because they didn’t think it thro…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:51 AM
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She has boyfriends after.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:56 AM
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Ok. With that logic I’ll say it really says something about men that men in every culture rape children and women. Besides, famous good looking nice men get way more attention from women than men famous for committing crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:51 AM
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Ok? Those women aren’t sane?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:30 AM
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None.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:27 AM
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Why would some crazy ass woman make what I say as a woman bullshit? Does it make sense to automatically deny everything men say because some crazy ass man likes to kill and rape children? Let’s face it, if we looked at the worst men do because of their sexuality it is vastly more damaging and horrible than the worst women do because of their sexuality. Still, that is the minority of men and doesn’t change how most women look at men as a whole. It’s completely idiotic to choose a few lunatic wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:37 PM
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I run 6 to 3 miles everyday and lift 3 times a week and I’m a woman. I also moisturize, wear makeup, do my hair, and make sure I have a nice outfit ready for the day. Women spend a lot of time on their looks. This whole conversation is ridiculous. Women spend more money on clothes, makeup, hair products, etc. than men do. Money is effort as well, not just the time spent in the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:11 PM
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I’m mean yeah. If you don’t think someone has human value you’re not gonna treat them kind. Look at the caste system in India. The lower castes have less value and therefore aren’t treated as well. Slaves had no value as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:34 PM
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You have no idea what human value is then. I’m not talking about how someone is valuable to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:26 PM
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So, apparently The President has no human value? What about a doctor? My gynecologist is an ugly woman so apparently she has no human value. Apparently, if Unable_Evidence_4028 doesn’t want to fuck a person they have no human value? The world and the innate value of people does not revolve around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:21 PM
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We were talking about human value not sexual market value.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:00 PM
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Funny you‘re the one judging other people’s human value. Personally, I believe humans derive their value from being kind and helping each other. An old ugly woman who is kind is more valuable than a handsome rich man who is unkind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:19 PM
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You should look into eugenics. I think you would like it. Also the idea of untermensch seems to be right up your ally.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:03 PM
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Your logic is inconsistent. If women’s human value is from their sexual attractiveness than a unattractive women cannot have human value. Unless something else gives a woman human value. And if opportunities are what gives a person value, is a poor child less valuable than a rich child? Does a disabled man have less human value than an able man?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:59 PM
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I was being purposefully annoying because how can an ugly woman have value if the only thing valuable about women is their sexuality and looks? I don’t think your line of thinking is rational. Imagine if there were two female teachers, is one a less valuable human being or less important to the running of the school because she’s unattractive or older than the other one?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:26 PM
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Lol. Ugly women are valuable because you can sell their kidneys?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:03 PM
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So ugly women have no human value? Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:52 PM
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Does that mean a women whose always been ugly is more valuable at 30 than a woman whose used to be attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:19 PM
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So when women age they become less valuable as a human beings? A 30 year old woman is less valuable as a person than a 30 year old man? Geez, even most redpill men try to say women only lose value in the sexual marketplace and not their overall value as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:46 PM
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And not one of them wanted to be with you long term?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:12 PM
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Let me guess? Someone women who have children in respectable marriages somehow avoid becoming a used worn down car when they have kids? Men like you make the entirety of men look bad, calling mothers old rusted cars. Have some respect for the bodies that give people life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:09 PM
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And turn in old rusted cars according to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:53 AM
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She is a woman. I’m sure she knows her body better than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:52 AM
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Don’t date single moms if you don’t want to. No need to insult every woman who has ever given birth. Life isn’t a strip club lol. I’d like to see a bunch of men get naked on stage and women rate their sexual attractiveness. What a disgusting thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:45 PM
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Yeah. I don’t carry any ill will toward single fathers, I just don’t date them and I certainly don’t call them a rusted old car that’s breaking down.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:45 PM
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I’m not dismissing what you said, but I’ve seen men use that data to say the worst possible interpretation. And yes, it can be scary to see men say that all men don’t like older women point blank. Men don’t just point that out to help women lol. Usually along with that graph they say women age like milk and that 30 year old women are “old” and hit the wall. It can be scary especially when a woman is having trouble finding a partner. That’s all I’m saying. Men do use that graph to try to upset wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 10:51 PM
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No. They aren’t. It would be pretty hard to be in a longterm relationship though if men started to dislike their wives because they aged. That is simply not true and men on here always try to say that older women are nasty and older men don’t like older women. That’s not the experience in real life and that graph is misleading when it comes to who men date because the majority of 40 year old men aren’t dating 20 year old women. Nor do some men want too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:48 PM
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Because men make it seem like they dislike older women with that information. That information is always used to say women age like milk and that older men simply settle with older women and would rather be having sex with a younger woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:02 PM
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Women are gonna age even in a longterm marriage so I would advise any women to stay away from men valuing youth too much. Even freshly turned 18 year olds are gonna be ugly in 12 years according to men like you. Don’t want a 45 year old husband telling his 30 year old wife she’s “too old.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 06:14 PM
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Every man on the sub literally says that doesn’t matter to them. That means nothing to most men. You’re just trying to dunk on her and say she doesn’t bring anything worthwhile to the table. I’ve even heard men say a woman having that is a detriment to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:25 PM
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lol. Why so hateful toward older women. If you don’t want to date them, don’t date them. But why are you seething on Reddit about how much older women suck?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 06:05 PM
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Partnering up before 30 does not stop a woman from aging. How do redpill men not take that into account. A thirty year old woman is still unattractive even if she married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:32 AM
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I already addressed the short thing so I wouldn’t have to do it over and over in the comments. Don’t cut that part off and bitch about me not having no answer lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:29 AM
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No need to get personal lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:25 AM
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It’s depressing that for the majority of my life men won’t want to have sex with me, even if I marry nothing will stop men from finding me unattractive. Surely, you want to be considered attractive by your partner when you’re 30? That’s not how it works for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:20 AM
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I don’t plan on divorcing my husband so nothing of what you said applies to me. I agree that I’m not entitled to a lifelong marriage. No where did I say I was. I’m just confused on how men deal with being with an unattractive women for the majority of their life. How is that sustainable in a long term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:18 AM
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Yeah, but they still won’t be attracted to me. How does marriage work. Are married couples in their forties not having sex because the women is unattractive? Does the husband not like having sex with his older wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:13 AM
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I agree it’s just a fact. Nowhere in my post am I disputing that. I’m just wondering how these men are going to marry a woman if she’s not gonna be attractive in ten years. Are they just gonna deal with unsatisfying sex from an old ugly woman for the rest of their lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:12 AM
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This isn’t just dating. This applies to marriage and life long relationships. A woman could be the most perfect and beautiful and be useless to a man she’s with in ten years if his preference is youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:10 AM
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So then men saying that older women are unattractive don’t mean it? I’m just taking them at their word.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:07 AM
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Yeah, but I feel like saying all men are incapable of a satisfying lifelong sexual relationship with one women is a bit much don’t you think? You seem to be saying that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:05 AM
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If men find older women unattractive why even get married or get into a long term relationship? If men think that why do they want to tie themselves down to a woman who they will find unattractive in 10 years? Some of the men in here make it seem like it will be impossible for women to be in a lifelong healthy monogamous relationship because how can that exist when attraction isn’t there?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:31 PM
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Someone here also said, “Old women just look really bad.” Again, men who say that are not capable of having a fulfilling long-term relationship. I’d advise an 18 year old to steer clear of any man who speaks like that. A man who thinks like that and gets a young girlfriend is not gonna be attracted to her in 10 years. He is trash and any woman who dates him is an idiot. Many women don’t want to though which is why the poster also said to get a young girl from the Philippines or Ukraine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 07:15 PM
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They didn’t even read it. lol. They just looked at the title.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:26 PM
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She’s talking about the attitude men have toward older women. I don’t know why men in this sub think their young girlfriends aren’t going to get old. News flash, everyone ages. Even if you marry a fresh just tuned 18 year old in 12 years she’s gonna be a post wall hag. The men who speak that way and have that opinion about older women are literally incapable of having a long term relationship if they actually followed what they believed in. That’s pathetic behavior and I am gonna judge that and …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:57 PM
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Because they don’t have to give birth to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:43 PM
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Depends on the woman it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:55 PM
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He ain’t talking about a postwall women. They don’t like you or care what you think. You don’t count in their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:01 AM
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Wife goggles? Sounds very scientific lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:23 AM
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Why does getting married require any of that lol? Besides, women still age. Men don’t suddenly stop disliking older women, they just deal with them. Why the fuck would I want someone to deal with me if they found me ugly? I’ll be postwall in 7 years and I don’t like my value ticking down. Maybe when I’m valueless I’ll finally find peace in myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:15 AM
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Women can’t avoid hitting the wall. Why shouldn’t they look forward to something that is unavoidable? If women hit the wall at 30 and they live to 80, why be upset for 50+ years of their life? Really, women are only desirable for 10 years to men if you listen to this subreddit. Male attention isn’t something that should be put on a pedestal if it’s so fickle and waning.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:02 AM
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I only came back because you were posting. You posted more on this thread than me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:07 PM
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At least I’m polite to men I don’t find attractive. I was upset at redpill men but talking to you made me feel better. Such a lunatic thing to say. Thanks for making me discover how ridiculous my fears are that all men secretly think like the redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:02 PM
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I bet you do to avoid an interaction with a woman. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:53 PM
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lol. You can’t even look a cashier in the eye because she’s over thirty. How antisocial. The internet must be a safe haven for someone that awkward and weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:50 PM
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What is the truth? Do you think I’ll be too old at 25?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:00 PM
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Do you think older women are undesirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:53 AM
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So you don’t agree with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:50 AM
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Why is it toxic? I’m listening to what you and other men are telling me. I don’t want to believe men think like this, but if men are telling me it’s the truth than it must be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:49 AM
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When does a woman‘s youth end to you? How long do I have before a man resents me for my age?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:33 AM
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I’m trying. Don’t insult my age. I’m trying and panicking as men don’t like older women. I’m 22 almost 23 and it seems men’s aren’t gonna like me in a few years. It’s just not happening and I’m upset about it. Is it too late for me? What about at age 25? How old were you when you got with your wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:58 AM
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I see that you’re married. Are you still attracted to your wife or are you gonna cheat on her when she turns 30? Is getting married just not worth it for women because men will never accept you as you are and will always want to be with another woman because you reached 30? You seem so pleased that I’m upset men will never like me because I will age.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:33 AM
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What’s another reason to only date younger women? I actually don’t understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:07 AM
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You can literally have kids at 40 years old lol. It’s less likely sure, but most women at 40 are still raising young children and most men find 40 year old woman attractive. Just not redpill men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:06 AM
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Mid 30‘s yeah I did forgot. Sorry lol. Better get looking for a woman or get richer lol. Most men your age already have a wife and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:02 AM
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Why would a young woman want a man 40 and up to share her youth with? Money?? You’re literally being used for your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:01 AM
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You must be real old if your not telling me your age. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:58 PM
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Yeah. Don’t listen to redpill users on here. It will destroy your self-esteem. They don’t care about you at all and make assumptions because you’re a woman. I’m going through the same thing currently so I emphasize with you totally. And fertility goes off a cliff at 40 not 30. Majority of 38 year old having sex two times every week all year will get pregnant. https://www.createfertility.co.uk/blog/the-truth-about-getting-pregnant-at-37-like-meghan-markle
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:57 PM
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So you won’t be attracted to your wife? How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:52 PM
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Real question, if you‘re only attracted to younger women (30 or younger) how are you going to be married? It seems like you’re unfit for a long term relationship. How old are you by the way?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:49 PM
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Real question, if you‘re only attracted to younger women (30 or younger) how are you going to be married? It seems like you’re unfit for a long term relationship. How old are you by the way?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:49 PM
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When I’m old and retired I’ll think about dating him. It would be pathetic of me to try to date younger men as an older woman and complain about the dating market lol. Just like redpill men do all the time. What do you mean a hot 20 year old doesn’t give me, a 35 year old man, the time of the day? It’s so unfair being a man lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:44 PM
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If you don’t find older women (women over 30) attractive you will not be able to have a fulfilling relationship in your life or a family. You’ll just be buying sugarbabies and prostitutes the rest of your life. And calling women post-wall, expired, and worthless over 30 as redpill men do in this sub all the time is misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:41 PM
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I mean if you insult someone they’re going to be upset. I don’t know what’s so confusing about that. Both women and men need to stop caring about what people think. It’s obviously effecting you in a very negative way that someone thinks you‘re a creep because you date younger women and it’s obviously upsetting OP that men don’t like older women. Both women and men do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:37 PM
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Redpill men are so morally corrupt in the way they view women. I’m just upset that OP in question is asking this question to redpill men because it means she has very little self esteem. I’ve been in her position and it’s not fun. Honestly, viewing this sort of content online will ruin her view of herself and the men around her. She needs to get off this sub and start valuing herself as a human being and not listening to the ramblings of misogynistic men online.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:35 PM
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When did I mention fertility? If the wall was fertility the wall would be 40. And I’m not arguing about fertility with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:32 PM
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I’ll be post wall soon lol. Men don’t give women much time. And I’m not talking about sperm donors. I mentioned adoption so what you said is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:25 PM
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I don’t now where you got that vibe. It’s certainly not what I want. I just feel bad for this woman. I used to think like her and base my worth on what men thought of me. I used to cry at my birthdays and all because of my lower “value.” I think just listening to redpill men is extremely damaging to young and seeing her go through the same thoughts I did upset me. It seems to me redpill men have no idea how much their views can damage young women who come across them. They’re truly abhorrent and…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:22 PM
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The tone he’s taking is disdain toward women lol. I can say his language is disgusting because it is. Off the internet it’s social suicide to speak like that. lol. Such a big man on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:06 PM
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Did I insult the senior citizen? Call him ugly, worthless, and insult his dignity as a human being. If I said, no, I would never date an ugly worthless man like that then yeah it would be demonizing him. I didn’t insult his value either. It’s seems redpill men just don’t respect women they don’t want to date and it’s pathetic. I don’t think any less of a man like that because he’s old and retired. I’m not gonna gloat over his loneliness like men do when they tell single woman over 30 to invest i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:49 PM
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The average guy doesn’t have a bad personality. Omg, that’s so misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:45 PM
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Listen I don’t know what you’re fighting with other people on the internet about. Personally, I’m offput on men who dislike women their age because typically they’re rude and crass towards women they don’t find attractive. If you’re saying women at 30 hit the wall of course people are going to be upset. Calling women over 30 unattractive doesn’t have anything to do with age gap relationships either. Learning not to care is a learned attribute you need if you’re 40 and daring a 20 year old becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:36 PM
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Calling someone damaged goods is disgusting. And I don’t associate morality with attractiveness and I don’t appreciated you saying I do because I was born a woman. If anything it’s redpill men who do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:29 PM
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No. lol. Why would you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:27 PM
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Yeah, I started to not listen to them. I’m just worried OP will start to think like me. A hell of my own making. Redpill men truly do not understand woman and listening to that stuff as a young woman yourself can be extremely damaging to a woman’s sense of worth as a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:34 PM
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Are you having trouble dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:32 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:25 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:23 PM
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Men like you confuse me. How is age a standard and boundary? Women age, even if you get with a 25 year old. In 5 years is she no longer your standard, preference and boundary. What does that even mean? I’m 22 and men like you feel I’m not good enough to get into a relationship because I’ll be thirty in 7 and a half years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:20 PM
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No, but saying they hit a wall and are damaged goods is indeed demonizing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:19 PM
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Honestly the redpill’s extreme rhetoric got to me to the point where I was starting to dislike men and decided to start a family when I was thirty by myself with IVF so I wouldn’t have to deal with a man disliking me for aging. I don’t want to be live like that though and looked around at the men around me to form my opinion. Listening to redpill men can be extremely damaging to young women who are starting to date and OP is in for a world of hurt if she keeps listening to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:13 PM
0

Normal men date women their age. At least in the US. The ones professing their dislike for woman over 30 are the leftovers. They feel hurt that woman their age didn’t choose them and want some cosmic karma to come out and get them. In reality, most men above 30 are married or in relationships and not bitching about wrinkles online. I don’t know what country you’re in, but men are also being affected by the circumstances and want to start a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:08 PM
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I’m 22 almost 23 and am in the same boat as you caring about becoming old. Just calm down. Why do you care what these men think anyways? Have you ever been in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:47 PM
2

I don’t believe you should demonize men for dating younger, but if you’re in your forties and call any woman over 25 old and “over the wall” then yeah your gonna get demonized lmao. Besides, the opinions of other people don’t matter if your happy in your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:45 PM
1

OP, how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:36 PM
1

Yeah. Most men date in their age range. It’s only a select few who will only date women significant younger than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:36 PM
3

You might believe that, but it doesn’t matter what men think. I always wanted a family and children, but I am 23 and have never had a boyfriend. I have only a few years left before the men in this sub decide I’m unworthy and spit hatred in my face. Really, I always wanted children and am upset that it seems unlikely if I don’t find a man in a few years, but just remind yourself life is not all about men. And really who cares if men want to fuck you or not? You can have children by yourself if no…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:17 PM
4

How old are you yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:15 PM
4

That doesn’t mean they have to demonize them. Just don’t date them. It seems some of the men on this sub think women’s worthiness depends on if men want to fuck them or not. OP, you’re more than just your body and there’s more to life than men finding you attractive. Don’t become as bitter and hateful as the men in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:05 PM
2

What’s your dating range?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:24 AM
4

They certainly tell me that is reality. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:17 PM
3

I wish you luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:34 PM
2

lol. Why do you think I’m lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:03 PM
2

What’s the age range you’re going after?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:03 PM
1

Well. This is my empirical evidence, I’m 23 and have never had sex. Neither have my sister and close friends. Most of my other female friends that are older and married only have 1 - 2 ex’s. One of my close friends just had a child with her first boyfriend turned husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:51 PM
3

How old are you? Are you having trouble dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:43 PM
0

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:42 PM
1

It’s no where that risk. That’s why they’re changing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:41 PM
4

For the vast majority of people they are still immature at 17 and 19. Age is definitely an indicator of immaturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:05 PM
12

Male issues is almost half the reason why couples try IVF.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 02:23 PM
3

No, it’s because women have healthy and safe pregnancies over 35 all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 02:22 PM
1

lol. Why did I trigger you so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 02:15 PM
3

What? What does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:11 AM
4

So a 30 plus women can get 1000 plus likes on dating app?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:55 AM
1

Where did I say to plan one trip to a historically significant location every year? And he doesn’t have to go to the RenFair as long as he cares about other interests. And you’re right I wouldn’t want a man who doesn’t like my humor. I’m not gonna ignore a man if he doesn’t like the RenFair lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:46 AM
3

So, you would never date a woman your age because you think she can’t have true attraction to you? Honestly, that just seems like low self esteem. If women over thirty are incapable of being attracted to you want makes you think women under thirty are attracted to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:41 AM
4

Why are average men invisible to me? Why do redpill men have such a victim complex? Majority of women marry average men lol. And men do want to fuck around when younger, doesn’t matter if they can or not. They insert that desire onto women it seems because women can. Majority of women don’t though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:40 AM
4

Most women want to be with men around their age though. It’s a specific demographic of women who are looking to date older and it likely isn’t to average run of the mill men. I don’t know why you think women over thirty are incapable of forming romantic connections and finding men attractive, but they are. How old are you by the way?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:30 AM
1

Trips, I suppose (Doesn’t have to be expensive either. I can pay for goddamn trip myself). Conversations and just him getting my sense of humor and love of history. I don’t want him to complain about me wanting to drive to the renfair so I can look at all the costumes either. I would do this stuff without a man just so you know, I just want someone to enjoy it with. To understand my love for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:28 AM
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Majority of single women are single after 30 because of failed long term relationships. There is no reason to assume someone fucked around with everyone until they reached when they wanted to find a long term partner. Really, that seems like something men do, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:25 AM
3

When did I say that? And likely the partner isn’t that much different from the men she was dating earlier. You made them complete opposites.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:23 AM
1

You’re missing the point that an average man with an average salary is able to meet these so called needs. And having similar interest is important to me in a relationship. Much more than any salary that he brings home.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:20 AM
5

Are you having trouble dating or finding women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:18 AM
4

In porn maybe lol. I haven’t come across it in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:15 AM
3

In that analysis you’re assuming that the woman knew the man in her twenties which is most likely not the case. Besides, there is no reason why a thirty year old couldn’t form a loving relationship with a man even if she dated different men when younger. That’s like saying a man who screwed around with promiscuous women in college doesn’t want another woman for a wife because that’s not who he was dating when he was younger. That’s completely ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:13 AM
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I mean only a select number of women do that. It seems like men love the younger women who fuck around though lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:09 AM
1

Is that the same for a woman 12 years younger?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:08 AM
1

A close loving relationship with a man who cares about me. I want kids. I would never date a man who didn’t want kids. I don’t want to take care of a man either so he has to have a job ideally one that helps us raise a family together. I’d have a job and help with expenses for the family as well. I want a house as I get older to raise my kids (I’m not waiting for a man to buy me a house either and I’m getting a job and saving up money to better me life). I feel like the average man would be able…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:06 AM
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Didn’t realize I was the complete arbitrator of what women thought. I’ll be more careful next time with my words before I make women as a whole look bad. That being said I don’t mean to say that the women want nothing else besides kids. Just that at 30 single women are more serious about finding a good man than at say 22. That doesn’t mean they aren’t looking for other things and they want a loving relationship with their partner just as much as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:01 AM
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Pretty bold statement to say Western women aren’t a good candidate for motherhood lol. I know a lot of good Western mothers. And of course age is an indicator of maturity. Unless you’re at the same maturity level you were at at 19? I’m a lot more mature and I’m still 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:57 AM
1

I mean no ones completely average at everything. At least I hope so. I’d be more attracted to a man with a fascination for history, but most men don’t have that so I guess I don’t like average men lol. That doesn’t even make sense. I love running and would love to date a man who lives to run, but most men don’t run so that can’t be an average man right. So you think an average man is just a clone of other people. They’re still individuals with different hobbies and interests that mesh differentl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:53 AM
1

They took that question way too literally lol. They’re talking about all men being the same, not all men being average.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:36 AM
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Oh, she’s older than you. Doesn’t seem very redpill of you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:14 AM
1

I’m an average woman what’s wrong with an average man lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:14 AM
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Good. Guess I don’t have to worry about getting older if 80 percent of men would still want to date me. Redpill men had me panicking making me think I would become invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:10 AM
1

So, older women would not have trouble dating if focused on the 80 percent of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:08 AM
2

So you disagree that men have problems dating? Because if they’re ignoring women left and right it seems like that’s not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:06 AM
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Most likely. I don’t see why not. The men she had fun with in her earlier years aren’t the ones she wants to have a family with lol. Not that all women do that, it’s just a common sentiment for the redpill that women do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:04 AM
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Married women are used goods? Yikes… I’ll get past that. So, what about actually dating with the intention of starting a family since the young women you seem to be around are only good for holdups. Do you not want one?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:01 AM
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Most relationships are between couples the same age though? So, are you saying men don’t have trouble dating? If they can date someone 10 plus years younger which it seems what you plan on doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:59 AM
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Do you worry that women won’t settle down with an older man? It’s quite uncommon according to statistics. How long do you plan on waiting? What if you get a 26 year old girlfriend now?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:55 AM
1

How old are you if you don’t mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:54 AM
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It’s a common sentiment on this sub that men over 30 don’t want women their age. I’ve seen men gloat over the fact that there are single 30 year old women that desperately want to start families and no man wants them because they’re too old. That doesn’t make sense with the sentiment that men can’t find women to date. So you disagree with the concept of the Wall?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:53 AM
1

Would you marry a 30 year old when your ready to settle down?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:48 AM
1

I suppose that not too much of an age gap. Still, how is your dating situation? Are you having trouble? FYI: you do not need to answer this if you don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:35 AM
1

But a healthy BMI is till 24!!? Maybe I’m being sensitive, but when I was younger I tried to get to lowest healthy BMI possible and went into the hospital because my heart was shutting down. Still had a 20 BMI. I’m at 24 now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 03:11 AM
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Are you really just gonna blackout say that women don’t get drugged? lol. It might be rare but it happens and I know people who’ve had it happen to them and I know that it did. Few drinks and no recreational drugs. I don’t think being careful with your drink is being hostile to men either. You wouldn’t leave your wallet on the table in front of a woman you don’t know. No one is gonna say you’re hostile to women because of it. Besides, if a woman did get drugged, redpill men would be the first pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:46 PM
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None of that is gonna stop me from watching my drink. I’ve had it happen to people I know so maybe I’m biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:27 PM
1

I guess she’s right then. Men suck and women shouldn’t trust them. lol. I’ll go hit the wall and buy a cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:35 PM
1

Why would I lie about that lol? You just throw away any information that doesn’t fit your worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:21 PM
1

I wasn’t talking about kids. I don’t know why redpill men think women don’t know their biological clock, but if a woman isn’t a mother by 40 it’s probably because of something unfortunate that happened to her or it isn’t very important to her. It’s not because she wanted to wait lol. And some men don’t want kids either or already have them with another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:09 AM
3

Sounds like you’re completely fucked up. I’m not men’s enemy and neither are my friends (which is what you are saying because I am a woman).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:06 AM
1

Sounds kinda fucked up to say women are men’s enemies. Misogynistic really. I just live my life. If that makes me an enemy because of my gender so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:55 AM
4

Yeah, that does happen. Both are true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:54 AM
4

Everyone knows about monks lol. Many men have done this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:18 AM
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I’m still gonna be replaced with robots lol. And all my female friends too. How sad. To speak frankly, no men and women are not enemies. Indeed, majority of women want a husband or partner to start a family with. I do, my friends do, and the older women in my family have achieved this. It’s a common human need that is there and provides benefits for most people. Most men in the world are married and have children. I don’t think they would be pleased if their daughters or wife were turned into a …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:16 AM
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lol. Men don’t even like the women who are kissing ass backwards for them because they are unattractive for some reason or another. And women are the picky ones according to redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:13 AM
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Why would you want a woman who hates half the population? Does all women include your mother? Sisters? Is she gonna insult all the women you are around? Besides, hating random people for their gender is not a good trait. I would not date a man who proudly and sincerely said they hated men. It’s ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:10 AM
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Yikes. I don’t realize I was the enemy of men. Thought I was friends with some of them even.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:07 AM
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Yes, men either haven’t encountered it or isn’t aware what is happening. Don’t call me mentally ill for experiencing a not uncommon behavior among women. lol. Why does he, a man, know better than me, a woman, what relationships are like between women? It’s ridiculous and his view is clouded for some reason or another. If most men told me some men do this to other men I would believe it. Not say “are you sure? You could just be mentally ill?” I hate this term, but this is what women mean what the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:01 AM
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Yes I agree, but telling men all women prefer to date over 6 ft is not productive. Most men are under 6 ft and their wives didn’t settle for them and most likely finds them attractive. The two shortest men from my class are dating beautiful women and are working a normal job. These redpill spaces have a doom and gloom that isn’t reality. A 65 year old woman can get a boyfriend and 5’2 man can get a girlfriend. And shocker, they probably don’t view themselves as having settled. Some partners migh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:56 AM
2

Lol. Some women put down other women to look better themselves. This is common knowledge off the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:23 AM
2

Yeah, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:22 AM
2

Everyone is an outlier in something.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:19 AM
2

Look. Be miserable and a bigot. Just don’t complain when men don’t like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:15 AM
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Definitely, bitches don’t exist. Lol. My friend in high school totally didn’t use me to get to one of my sister’s male friends. I’m a woman. I’ve experienced this kind of behavior. Besides I thought redpill men thought females are always trying to one up another for men’s attention. That is pick me behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:10 AM
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What are some of these positions exactly? Like against no fault divorce? Calling women over 30 plus over the wall when they themselves are over 30? Not caring about the education of your wife? lol, a male teacher isn’t going to be adverse to getting together with a woman who makes more then him. If anything that’s a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:10 AM
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It’s obvious then that your father sucks and you have issues with men because of it. It’s not other men’s fault that the men in your life suck. You sound like the reverse of a redpill man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:07 AM
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I broke up with him because of his dental hygiene if you want to get really specific. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:06 AM
1

Then just stay away from them if they judge you for something like that. lol. A women with a high body count can still get a partner. She’s not ruined forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:05 AM
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I strongly agree with this. In addition, pick me behavior applies to women disliking their daughters as well. For example, a woman saying when I was your age I was this and that to her daughter is also pickme behavior. If a man wants their wife to be jealous of any interaction they have with their daughter then go at it. Women who do this to other women are not generally liked by most people as well and tend to be maladjusted in general. I don’t see a problem with women getting along with other …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:02 AM
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No. It means a bitch who puts other women down to look better in front of men. Like if a man compliments a woman and the woman next to her just has to chime in about how this and that is so much better about her. Having a person like that be around you is miserable. Besides, pickme’s generally don’t believe the shit they’re saying they just want your approval. Say you say you like video games they’ll chime in and say “Oh I love video games!” even if they hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:56 AM
1

So your father, brother, cousins, ever had a male friend are all conspiring against you to not be successful?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:51 AM
5

I have never meet a man who believes what the men say are posting here. Maybe somehow all my 8 uncles, dozen of male cousins, male classmates, male friends, and former romantic interests were hiding their secret disdain for me, I wouldn’t know. Most men have been supportive of me in my life. In education as well, which apparently men don’t care about. Indeed, my sister’s fiancé is actually working extra hours for money to help her go to school. My father helped pay for my college tuition and tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:33 AM
7

Even here? This is a place full of the worst of men. The assholes literally congregate here. If I believed men thought this way about women in real life I would be celibate the rest of my life. Thankfully, they don’t and it’s pretty easy to find men who care about you as a person and not just as fertile pretty womb.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:25 AM
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Same, I dated a man and kept forgetting what job he had and I still don’t know his height. Wasn’t 6 feet by the way. Those were not things I was looking for when I was dating despite what the redpill thinks the female hivemind believes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:22 AM
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I mean I’m a woman and the majority of the general statements the redpill makes about women do not apply to me. I’m actually attracted most to men under 6ft and don’t care that much about their income. Something assuming that about me because of my gender is irritating. Treat people as individuals. In no way should men voting more conservative change how you view the men you come across in your daily life. Living life like that is missing out on the true reality. Everyone is against the grain on…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:19 AM
4

They are not. You either live in Muslim majority country or are stuck online.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:15 AM
2

Most, but they are referring to women having equal rights when they say that. I would say that and my friends would, but we don’t believe in the stuff the redpill says feminism is about. We would be referring to the dictionary definition which according to Britannica is the belief in the social, economic, and political equality of the sexes. You be hard pressed to find a woman who is against that. Besides, there are many different kinds of feminism including radical feminism, liberal feminism, c…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:14 AM
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Then men better not bitch when women don’t go down on them because of their gross ass smelly dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:16 AM
1

Again, you proved my point perfectly. That is why henpeck is gendered because men acting that way is considered normal even good apparently to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:37 AM
1

So you just agreed with me that men act similar to a henpecking wife, but it’s okay because women should just do what their man says? Seems like we’re on the same page, just that you think men henpecking their wives is acceptable while I don’t. You literally described my point perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:25 AM
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Not changing your opinion, but just look around. Men tell their girlfriends to do things all the time. This men in this sub always say they want agreeable and submissive women. It considered normal for a woman to do what a man says. Many men in this sub wouldn’t even want to be in a relationship with a woman who didn’t do what they say. If a woman was expecting a man to be submissive to her and do what she says and she gets angry that is henpecking. If a man got angry at his wife for not doing w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:18 AM
2

No, but overall not much thought by society would be given if a man said these things to his wife. Many married couples act like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:13 AM
1

No, the Oxford Dictionary is gender specific because men doing it to their wives is not given any special attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:12 AM
1

Yes, I’m saying that when men tell a woman to do something and she does it without objection that is considered normal. That is not considered normal for a man to do, hence the term henpeck. The submissive thing is tailored to this sub. I don’t believe the majority of men want submissive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:09 AM
2

What a weird analogy. Like men also don’t struggle to pick out food at a restaurant. I’ve never noticed any differences
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:32 PM
1

How are you saying you know the relationships around me better than I do? The audacity lol. 😝
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:18 PM
1

No, you assumed wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:09 PM
-3

So you expect to settle down in your forties? Someone fucking around in their thirties and acting like an immature college student is pathetic for both men and women. It really doesn’t go much farther than that for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:43 PM
2

That’s your opinion. I see it in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:32 PM
2

I’m just saying the henpecked behavior is seen as normal for men to do it. When a woman does it, then it’s a problem. I’m not saying that that behavior is okay it’s just an explanation why men seem to think men could never henpeck. Hopefully, that disappears.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:58 PM
1

lol. Where do you live? Couples tell each other what to do all the time. Man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:40 PM
1

So the majority of women in relationships are henpecked? Because that is typical behavior for a man to say that to a woman. All men in this sub who want a submissive woman are just looking to henpeck their wives?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:37 PM
3

I mean it’s just normal when men do it. Men are supposed to be the ones in charge traditionally. That just tells me you see that behavior as normal as in the husband telling the wife what to do in a stern voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:33 PM
1

lol. Men never nag! How ridiculous!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:21 PM
1

Nah, it’s just normal for men to do it. “Foods not cooked right, I like your hair better long, why didn’t you do the dishes, why can’t you put my socks in the drawer.” This is henpecking if a woman did it but completely normal for a man to say to his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:20 PM
2

That’s pretty normal. Not even worthy of a second look in my opinion. People are just used to husbands treating wives like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:17 PM
3

I don’t agree, women are just supposed to listen to their husbands. If a husband tells a wife to do something historically she did it or was in trouble. That was not the same thing with a wife tellling a husband what to do. She was supposed to be the submissive one and telling her husband what to do was unnatural. Also, I’ve seen men have fits over a penny left on the ground or the fact his wife bought a wrong kind of sausage. That in my opinion is a henpicked wife, but I’ve heard it explained a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:15 PM
1

So, you’re just an asshole? I suppose that’s your prerogative, but if you’re constantly disrespectful then most people will not welcome you into their life. I’ve known people to be ostracized from their families because of how disgustingly disrespectful they are for no reason other than that they are an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 03:22 AM
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I mean I work at thrift store in the book department and everyday books about birds come in. I know so many people who are into bird watching. Maybe it’s where you are, but it’s pretty popular where I am. Looking up how popular it is says that 35% of people aged 16 and over have gone to a park to look at birds. I wouldn’t call that unpopular.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:29 AM
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No, it’s not. There are books upon books about birds at the thrift shop I work at. Very common among older people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:14 AM
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I wouldn’t be adverse to adopting either. It’s just a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:58 AM
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It’s actually not. Women can have kids in their 40‘s. I come from a family where the majority of women have children in their forties. I’m not denying that it gets harder, but most women have 10 years left of fertility after 30. That’s just a fact too even if you don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:19 AM
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You just confirmed my fears. I don’t want to be a resort to being a single mom, but it’s clear as I get older that men don’t want to date older woman. I’m not ready for a relationship and I’m only getting more undesirable to men every day. It’s a good idea for woman in my situation to at least consider this possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:07 AM
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This is about being a mother and raising a child. I feel like I would be able to raise a child well even by myself. I have a large loving family so it’s not like the child wouldn’t have a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:59 AM
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Lol. Don’t try to introduce them to fact and logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:44 AM
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Going to the sperm bank is literally what this post is about so I would take a hazard that is what she is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:43 AM
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We? So you‘re speaking for all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:41 AM
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Myself????
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:40 AM
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I feel like that’s the gut reaction, but if the woman had a large supporting family I feel like the adverse effects won’t be as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:37 AM
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I‘m not debating that at all. It’s quite clear men do not want women in their thirties. I’m not willing to forgo motherhood and a career because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:36 AM
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I would never do this if I wasn’t sure I could support myself. Believe it or not women can get good jobs. Personally, I’m going to school to become a genetic counselor. That’s a good wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:33 AM
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I mean yes that is ideal, but not everything in life goes to plan. I’d rather risk a miscarriage than never try to be a mother at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:32 AM
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That has nothing to do with this situation at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:30 AM
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So, women over thirty five should never get pregnant? That’s absolutely ridiculous. My mom gave birth to me at 35 and women have healthy pregnancies over 35 all the time. I’m not denying that women‘s chances of difficulties go up, but those are still in the minority. Besides, maybe woman will decide at 34 to become a mother to avoid the label of geriatric pregnancy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:29 AM
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The ladies are the incentive. They have free ladies nights because men show up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 05:52 PM
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