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How am I bashing men on Reddit? I’m not a misandrist and if it looks like that I didn’t mean to come off that way. You’re the one coming onto an 18 day old post insulting me and telling me and other women that were lying about meeting men who we thought were creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:32 AM
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It literally is true. Some men are fucking creeps. The question was what is a creep and I gave an example of a creep I encountered. This is not common and doesn’t happen often. Also women can be creeps too. Maybe get out of your bubble and talk to people. And the fact some men get off on scaring women does not make me feel good at all. You sound naive and sheltered honestly. Some people are terrible and you have to look out for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:29 AM
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Yes. He bought knives every day if the same female cashier was there. He usually doesn’t check out with the males and when he does it’s not with knives. He’s probably bought hundreds of knives. That’s fucking creepy. He also makes sure there is almost no one in the store when he does it. Maybe you misunderstood and thought it was only once but no it was consistent buying of twenty knives for weeks whenever a female cashier was there. I don’t think he likes the cashier either he just wants to cre…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:21 AM
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Seems like you lost the plot. In relationships, it’s ideal that the man tries to make the woman happy and the woman tries to make the man happy. If they aren’t doing that, then it’s not gonna be a long relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 06:21 AM
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As a shy woman. No, this is not true. I’m trying to get into a relationship with a man and it’s one of the hardest things I’ve ever done.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:24 AM

No. Immediate breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:13 PM
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People who make people uncomfortable and don’t care. They keep doing what they’re doing even though it’s socially unacceptable or just straight weird. The man I’ve really only thought “Wow, he’s a creep!” was when he bent his neck to get a better look at my crotch and looked for several seconds wide eyed without blinking. Another one was a man who always stayed late at a store I was working at when there was a female cashier and buy like twenty knives. That guy was a creep. I’ve had unattractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:40 PM
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That is not how genetics work! A dominant personality trait is not solely found on the Y chromosome.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:33 AM
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Strong women are having a lot of children. They are not outliers. My mother and her friends are grandma age and all of the strong women I grew up with are having children. Most importantly though that is not how genetics work at all. I’m studying personality and inheritance in college right now and plan to go to more school to become a genetic counselor. That being said a child no matter the gender gets an equal amount of inheritance from mother and father. For example, my father is very opinion…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:30 AM
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Yeah. This guy is completely misguided on a lot of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:18 PM
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It was a cultural trend participated in by both men and women. Trying to blame a specific gender for it is weird. That’s just not how culture works.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:17 PM
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I know women who aren’t like so your point is immediately disproven. It’s quite easy to disprove that lol. You just need one woman who isn’t like that and it’s disproven.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:47 AM
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I do not feel bad for a woman who dates a man who says he will dump her after she turns 25. I feel disdain and disgust that they let themselves get used like that. Indeed, that’s even more ridiculous than getting with a person who wants you for your money. A man can keep money, but a woman will always turn 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:35 AM
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Lol. Guess I’m abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 09:31 PM
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They say men age like wine women age like milk. Women hit the wall at 30. Most men won’t even date women their age. Literally type in old women on twitter and Reddit and see what comes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:00 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:50 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:50 PM
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Yeah. The men won’t enjoy having sex with the woman though which is the point men get into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:51 AM
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I don’t want to believe this, but literally most men online say this is the truth. Its deeply embedded into every culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:50 AM
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No. I didn’t say that. They would just rather be with a women who is younger but will take what they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:47 AM
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That’s because the men can’t get anything better. If they could have a younger woman they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:45 AM
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Men are almost never attracted to women 35 and up though. Women can never stop time and for men it seems that it the most important thing in attraction for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:44 AM
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Men always say older women are unattractive though. Women aging like milk is a common saying. I never believed this until I heard what men say about older women when no one can hear what they’re saying. It’s across every part of the internet that men don’t like older women and prefer younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:37 AM
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Yeah. But men care a lot about youth. How does that change just because they’re married?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:27 AM
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What age do you prefer?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:05 AM
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Do you still find women your age attractive? So women should go after older men to look younger so their partner will still be attracted to them when they age?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:01 AM
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It means to be in a longterm relationship with the intention of staying together.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:57 AM
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How old are you willing to go for a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:57 AM
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Does this mean you would never marry a woman? What is an old woman to you? What women do you consider young?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:56 AM
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I have to admit I’m jealous of you not being worried lol. I’m so worried about aging and men not wanting to be with me. I’m 23 and only have a couple years left before men don’t find me attractive. I’m so worried about finding someone in the next few years or else no man will want me. All my life my looks were of paramount importance in my life as I’m sure all women can relate to this. To realize women only have 7 to 10 years of actually being attractive to men and men wanting to get into relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 04:49 AM
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How old are you? What do you consider young?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 04:26 AM

What is she jealous about?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:55 AM
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I don’t think you get what I was saying. I’m saying men and boys are getting taken more seriously in the past years and that’s why the women are getting in trouble. Before, then there was an attitude of well he’s a boy, he probably liked it. I care very much about protecting people from sexual assault. Honestly, I feel horrible that what I said can be in any way construed as saying I don’t care because that is the antithesis of who I am as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:05 AM
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I would look into it. I’m just not gonna brush anything off of that severity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:29 AM
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I don’t believe there has been an increase in females raping young boys. Sexual assault is just taken much more seriously nowadays which apparently upsets many of the men in this sub. Male victims benefit from this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:52 AM
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So you’re gonna imply that my Aunt lied to me about being raped by her brother? My own mother lied to me about being molested by her father? My sister lied to me about being raped? Yeah. I believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:36 AM
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Yeah. I believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:34 AM
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Dude. I know nothing about you or what happened. If the state presumed they’re innocent then so would I.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:18 AM
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I have no idea about your situation. I’ve said multiple times in this thread that I would look at the facts. It’s just that “oh, he’s such a good person,” is not very convincing. I’d look more into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:11 AM
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Yeah. We’re 100 percent identical.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:35 AM
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That not how that’s works lol. I have a clone (I’m a twin) and we are so different. Why are girls more fussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:33 AM
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Why wouldn’t you want a daughter?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:30 AM
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Would you believe your daughter if she told you she was sexually assaulted?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:21 AM
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I don’t believe that. People just aren’t as cruel to their daughters nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:07 AM
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Literally the majority of women I know have been raped and no man went to jail. Most didn’t even report it because they knew nothing would happen. Sorry, but I’m on the women’s side on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:03 AM
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They were dropped due to insignificant evidence. Mostly likely a he said she said situation. That doesn’t mean the woman lied about the rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:59 AM
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I agree. But all cases are very serious no matter what. I don’t care if my hypothetical son might have touched an unconscious drunk or might have physically forced a woman to have sex with him. If there’s proof he did it, I’m not supporting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:57 AM
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Most people want to believe the best in their children, but most time they are wrong. All these men in the sub saying I’d trust my son. Well, I’ve had this scenario happen in real life where I trusted someone and turned out to be wrong. Most rapists are people you trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:54 AM
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I like the implication that some cases of SA are not serious lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:48 AM
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Yeah. The question is extremely vague. Literally a thousand hypotheticals could apply to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:44 AM
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If there was reason to believe he did it? No, I wouldn’t represent him in court. When it comes to sexual assault I’m very cold. I’m no stranger to sexual assault in the family either. My Aunt was raped by her brother and my mom was molested by my grandfather. I’ve watched both of them struggle with what happened to them. I’ve also watched my sister spiral into heroin addiction after being raped at a party while intoxicated. I’ve had neighbors give birth to their Uncles rape baby. Of course, I wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:28 AM
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I don’t know. Really, depends on the case. If there was reason to believe he didn’t do it of course I would support him. If there was reason to believe he did, I would be very upset and conflicted and not support him. I’ve had family members that turned out to be rapists and honestly my heart turned cold toward them. I don’t love them anymore. It would probably be different with a child though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:14 AM
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That’s good to hear. I do know where OP is coming from honestly. Coming into contact with how many men see older women can be extremely upsetting and jarring, especially if you’re very sensitive and obsessive about topics such as myself. I don’t come into contact with men outside of my family much in my life and take what men say online at face value. Pretty stupid, I know lol. I understand emotions running high and saying stuff to insult women online. I feel myself wanting to do that to men, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 09:41 PM
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I know, men finding women more attractive at 40 does not mean they don’t find women attractive at older ages. This girl literally needs to look around at the world. There are literally dating apps just for older people with no younger people involved whatsoever. Most women my mom is friends with got divorced at 40 and 50 and are already partnered up with men their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:34 PM
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I don’t think people find fault with saying younger people look pretty lol. The problem comes when men start saying women hit the wall, an older woman is a used up car, women’s value goes down as she ages, and that she’s women ages like milk when men age like wine. Men’s value goes up as women’s go down. No one likes a woman over thirty. Women over thirty are bitter old hags. After women hit a certain age they wouldn’t be able to find a man because men find her unattractive. Men aren’t attracted…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:59 PM
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I don’t care at all about it. I only care if a man is threatening me which thankfully doesn’t happen often. I don’t really think it’s an advantage either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:50 PM
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This only applies to redpill men and men who care a lot about youth. Most men are attracted to women their age as well as younger women. At least I hope so. Men do keep telling me on this sub that old women are ugly and undesirable. Hopefully, that’s not true. I don’t know what men think, but I like to be positive about people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:08 PM

Apparently, man-hating is a very low bar. Looked at the first twenty posts and not one was hating on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:16 PM

She admits she from a culture with gender segregation. It has nothing to do with her personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:15 PM
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lol. Real funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:25 AM
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I don’t think that humans are children until 25. I’m not comfortable with 18 years old doing porn either. I remember being an 18 year old woman and I was extremely immature and I don’t think I was out of ordinary in that regard. Personally, I’m bisexual and I steer away from any sex involving what looks like teenagers of any gender. Too much risk that I’m watching something unethical or that these teenagers were manipulated or that they later regret the decision because they didn’t think it thro…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:51 AM
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She has boyfriends after.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:56 AM
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Ok. With that logic I’ll say it really says something about men that men in every culture rape children and women. Besides, famous good looking nice men get way more attention from women than men famous for committing crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:51 AM
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Ok? Those women aren’t sane?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:30 AM
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None.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:27 AM
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Why would some crazy ass woman make what I say as a woman bullshit? Does it make sense to automatically deny everything men say because some crazy ass man likes to kill and rape children? Let’s face it, if we looked at the worst men do because of their sexuality it is vastly more damaging and horrible than the worst women do because of their sexuality. Still, that is the minority of men and doesn’t change how most women look at men as a whole. It’s completely idiotic to choose a few lunatic wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:37 PM

I run 6 to 3 miles everyday and lift 3 times a week and I’m a woman. I also moisturize, wear makeup, do my hair, and make sure I have a nice outfit ready for the day. Women spend a lot of time on their looks. This whole conversation is ridiculous. Women spend more money on clothes, makeup, hair products, etc. than men do. Money is effort as well, not just the time spent in the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:11 PM
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And not one of them wanted to be with you long term?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:12 PM
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Let me guess? Someone women who have children in respectable marriages somehow avoid becoming a used worn down car when they have kids? Men like you make the entirety of men look bad, calling mothers old rusted cars. Have some respect for the bodies that give people life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:09 PM
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And turn in old rusted cars according to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:53 AM
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She is a woman. I’m sure she knows her body better than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:52 AM
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Don’t date single moms if you don’t want to. No need to insult every woman who has ever given birth. Life isn’t a strip club lol. I’d like to see a bunch of men get naked on stage and women rate their sexual attractiveness. What a disgusting thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:45 PM
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Yeah. I don’t carry any ill will toward single fathers, I just don’t date them and I certainly don’t call them a rusted old car that’s breaking down.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:45 PM
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I’m not dismissing what you said, but I’ve seen men use that data to say the worst possible interpretation. And yes, it can be scary to see men say that all men don’t like older women point blank. Men don’t just point that out to help women lol. Usually along with that graph they say women age like milk and that 30 year old women are “old” and hit the wall. It can be scary especially when a woman is having trouble finding a partner. That’s all I’m saying. Men do use that graph to try to upset wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 10:51 PM
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No. They aren’t. It would be pretty hard to be in a longterm relationship though if men started to dislike their wives because they aged. That is simply not true and men on here always try to say that older women are nasty and older men don’t like older women. That’s not the experience in real life and that graph is misleading when it comes to who men date because the majority of 40 year old men aren’t dating 20 year old women. Nor do some men want too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:48 PM
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Because men make it seem like they dislike older women with that information. That information is always used to say women age like milk and that older men simply settle with older women and would rather be having sex with a younger woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:02 PM
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Women are gonna age even in a longterm marriage so I would advise any women to stay away from men valuing youth too much. Even freshly turned 18 year olds are gonna be ugly in 12 years according to men like you. Don’t want a 45 year old husband telling his 30 year old wife she’s “too old.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 06:14 PM
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Every man on the sub literally says that doesn’t matter to them. That means nothing to most men. You’re just trying to dunk on her and say she doesn’t bring anything worthwhile to the table. I’ve even heard men say a woman having that is a detriment to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 10:25 PM

Partnering up before 30 does not stop a woman from aging. How do redpill men not take that into account. A thirty year old woman is still unattractive even if she married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:32 AM

I already addressed the short thing so I wouldn’t have to do it over and over in the comments. Don’t cut that part off and bitch about me not having no answer lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:29 AM

No need to get personal lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:25 AM

It’s depressing that for the majority of my life men won’t want to have sex with me, even if I marry nothing will stop men from finding me unattractive. Surely, you want to be considered attractive by your partner when you’re 30? That’s not how it works for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:20 AM

I don’t plan on divorcing my husband so nothing of what you said applies to me. I agree that I’m not entitled to a lifelong marriage. No where did I say I was. I’m just confused on how men deal with being with an unattractive women for the majority of their life. How is that sustainable in a long term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:18 AM

Yeah, but they still won’t be attracted to me. How does marriage work. Are married couples in their forties not having sex because the women is unattractive? Does the husband not like having sex with his older wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:13 AM

I agree it’s just a fact. Nowhere in my post am I disputing that. I’m just wondering how these men are going to marry a woman if she’s not gonna be attractive in ten years. Are they just gonna deal with unsatisfying sex from an old ugly woman for the rest of their lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:12 AM

This isn’t just dating. This applies to marriage and life long relationships. A woman could be the most perfect and beautiful and be useless to a man she’s with in ten years if his preference is youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:10 AM

So then men saying that older women are unattractive don’t mean it? I’m just taking them at their word.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:07 AM

Yeah, but I feel like saying all men are incapable of a satisfying lifelong sexual relationship with one women is a bit much don’t you think? You seem to be saying that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:05 AM
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Because they don’t have to give birth to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:43 PM
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Depends on the woman it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:55 PM
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He ain’t talking about a postwall women. They don’t like you or care what you think. You don’t count in their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 06:01 AM
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Wife goggles? Sounds very scientific lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:23 AM
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Why does getting married require any of that lol? Besides, women still age. Men don’t suddenly stop disliking older women, they just deal with them. Why the fuck would I want someone to deal with me if they found me ugly? I’ll be postwall in 7 years and I don’t like my value ticking down. Maybe when I’m valueless I’ll finally find peace in myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:15 AM
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Women can’t avoid hitting the wall. Why shouldn’t they look forward to something that is unavoidable? If women hit the wall at 30 and they live to 80, why be upset for 50+ years of their life? Really, women are only desirable for 10 years to men if you listen to this subreddit. Male attention isn’t something that should be put on a pedestal if it’s so fickle and waning.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:02 AM
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So you don’t agree with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:50 AM
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Why is it toxic? I’m listening to what you and other men are telling me. I don’t want to believe men think like this, but if men are telling me it’s the truth than it must be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:49 AM
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When does a woman‘s youth end to you? How long do I have before a man resents me for my age?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:33 AM
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I’m trying. Don’t insult my age. I’m trying and panicking as men don’t like older women. I’m 22 almost 23 and it seems men’s aren’t gonna like me in a few years. It’s just not happening and I’m upset about it. Is it too late for me? What about at age 25? How old were you when you got with your wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:58 AM
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I see that you’re married. Are you still attracted to your wife or are you gonna cheat on her when she turns 30? Is getting married just not worth it for women because men will never accept you as you are and will always want to be with another woman because you reached 30? You seem so pleased that I’m upset men will never like me because I will age.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 02:33 AM
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Why would a young woman want a man 40 and up to share her youth with? Money?? You’re literally being used for your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:01 AM
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Yeah. Don’t listen to redpill users on here. It will destroy your self-esteem. They don’t care about you at all and make assumptions because you’re a woman. I’m going through the same thing currently so I emphasize with you totally. And fertility goes off a cliff at 40 not 30. Majority of 38 year old having sex two times every week all year will get pregnant. https://www.createfertility.co.uk/blog/the-truth-about-getting-pregnant-at-37-like-meghan-markle
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:57 PM
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When I’m old and retired I’ll think about dating him. It would be pathetic of me to try to date younger men as an older woman and complain about the dating market lol. Just like redpill men do all the time. What do you mean a hot 20 year old doesn’t give me, a 35 year old man, the time of the day? It’s so unfair being a man lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:44 PM
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If you don’t find older women (women over 30) attractive you will not be able to have a fulfilling relationship in your life or a family. You’ll just be buying sugarbabies and prostitutes the rest of your life. And calling women post-wall, expired, and worthless over 30 as redpill men do in this sub all the time is misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:41 PM
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I mean if you insult someone they’re going to be upset. I don’t know what’s so confusing about that. Both women and men need to stop caring about what people think. It’s obviously effecting you in a very negative way that someone thinks you‘re a creep because you date younger women and it’s obviously upsetting OP that men don’t like older women. Both women and men do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:37 PM
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Redpill men are so morally corrupt in the way they view women. I’m just upset that OP in question is asking this question to redpill men because it means she has very little self esteem. I’ve been in her position and it’s not fun. Honestly, viewing this sort of content online will ruin her view of herself and the men around her. She needs to get off this sub and start valuing herself as a human being and not listening to the ramblings of misogynistic men online.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:35 PM
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When did I mention fertility? If the wall was fertility the wall would be 40. And I’m not arguing about fertility with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:32 PM
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I’ll be post wall soon lol. Men don’t give women much time. And I’m not talking about sperm donors. I mentioned adoption so what you said is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:25 PM
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I don’t now where you got that vibe. It’s certainly not what I want. I just feel bad for this woman. I used to think like her and base my worth on what men thought of me. I used to cry at my birthdays and all because of my lower “value.” I think just listening to redpill men is extremely damaging to young and seeing her go through the same thoughts I did upset me. It seems to me redpill men have no idea how much their views can damage young women who come across them. They’re truly abhorrent and…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:22 PM
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The tone he’s taking is disdain toward women lol. I can say his language is disgusting because it is. Off the internet it’s social suicide to speak like that. lol. Such a big man on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:06 PM
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Did I insult the senior citizen? Call him ugly, worthless, and insult his dignity as a human being. If I said, no, I would never date an ugly worthless man like that then yeah it would be demonizing him. I didn’t insult his value either. It’s seems redpill men just don’t respect women they don’t want to date and it’s pathetic. I don’t think any less of a man like that because he’s old and retired. I’m not gonna gloat over his loneliness like men do when they tell single woman over 30 to invest i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:49 PM
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The average guy doesn’t have a bad personality. Omg, that’s so misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:45 PM
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Listen I don’t know what you’re fighting with other people on the internet about. Personally, I’m offput on men who dislike women their age because typically they’re rude and crass towards women they don’t find attractive. If you’re saying women at 30 hit the wall of course people are going to be upset. Calling women over 30 unattractive doesn’t have anything to do with age gap relationships either. Learning not to care is a learned attribute you need if you’re 40 and daring a 20 year old becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:36 PM
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Calling someone damaged goods is disgusting. And I don’t associate morality with attractiveness and I don’t appreciated you saying I do because I was born a woman. If anything it’s redpill men who do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:29 PM
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No. lol. Why would you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:27 PM
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Yeah, I started to not listen to them. I’m just worried OP will start to think like me. A hell of my own making. Redpill men truly do not understand woman and listening to that stuff as a young woman yourself can be extremely damaging to a woman’s sense of worth as a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:34 PM
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Are you having trouble dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:32 PM
3

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:25 PM
3

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:23 PM
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Men like you confuse me. How is age a standard and boundary? Women age, even if you get with a 25 year old. In 5 years is she no longer your standard, preference and boundary. What does that even mean? I’m 22 and men like you feel I’m not good enough to get into a relationship because I’ll be thirty in 7 and a half years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:20 PM
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No, but saying they hit a wall and are damaged goods is indeed demonizing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:19 PM
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Honestly the redpill’s extreme rhetoric got to me to the point where I was starting to dislike men and decided to start a family when I was thirty by myself with IVF so I wouldn’t have to deal with a man disliking me for aging. I don’t want to be live like that though and looked around at the men around me to form my opinion. Listening to redpill men can be extremely damaging to young women who are starting to date and OP is in for a world of hurt if she keeps listening to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:13 PM
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Normal men date women their age. At least in the US. The ones professing their dislike for woman over 30 are the leftovers. They feel hurt that woman their age didn’t choose them and want some cosmic karma to come out and get them. In reality, most men above 30 are married or in relationships and not bitching about wrinkles online. I don’t know what country you’re in, but men are also being affected by the circumstances and want to start a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:08 PM
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I’m 22 almost 23 and am in the same boat as you caring about becoming old. Just calm down. Why do you care what these men think anyways? Have you ever been in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:47 PM
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I don’t believe you should demonize men for dating younger, but if you’re in your forties and call any woman over 25 old and “over the wall” then yeah your gonna get demonized lmao. Besides, the opinions of other people don’t matter if your happy in your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:45 PM
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OP, how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:36 PM
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Yeah. Most men date in their age range. It’s only a select few who will only date women significant younger than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:36 PM
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You might believe that, but it doesn’t matter what men think. I always wanted a family and children, but I am 23 and have never had a boyfriend. I have only a few years left before the men in this sub decide I’m unworthy and spit hatred in my face. Really, I always wanted children and am upset that it seems unlikely if I don’t find a man in a few years, but just remind yourself life is not all about men. And really who cares if men want to fuck you or not? You can have children by yourself if no…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:17 PM
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How old are you yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:15 PM
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That doesn’t mean they have to demonize them. Just don’t date them. It seems some of the men on this sub think women’s worthiness depends on if men want to fuck them or not. OP, you’re more than just your body and there’s more to life than men finding you attractive. Don’t become as bitter and hateful as the men in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:05 PM
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Are you really just gonna blackout say that women don’t get drugged? lol. It might be rare but it happens and I know people who’ve had it happen to them and I know that it did. Few drinks and no recreational drugs. I don’t think being careful with your drink is being hostile to men either. You wouldn’t leave your wallet on the table in front of a woman you don’t know. No one is gonna say you’re hostile to women because of it. Besides, if a woman did get drugged, redpill men would be the first pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:46 PM
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None of that is gonna stop me from watching my drink. I’ve had it happen to people I know so maybe I’m biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:27 PM
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Why would I lie about that lol? You just throw away any information that doesn’t fit your worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:21 PM
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I wasn’t talking about kids. I don’t know why redpill men think women don’t know their biological clock, but if a woman isn’t a mother by 40 it’s probably because of something unfortunate that happened to her or it isn’t very important to her. It’s not because she wanted to wait lol. And some men don’t want kids either or already have them with another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:09 AM
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Sounds like you’re completely fucked up. I’m not men’s enemy and neither are my friends (which is what you are saying because I am a woman).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:06 AM
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Sounds kinda fucked up to say women are men’s enemies. Misogynistic really. I just live my life. If that makes me an enemy because of my gender so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:55 AM
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Yeah, that does happen. Both are true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:54 AM
4

Everyone knows about monks lol. Many men have done this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:18 AM
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I’m still gonna be replaced with robots lol. And all my female friends too. How sad. To speak frankly, no men and women are not enemies. Indeed, majority of women want a husband or partner to start a family with. I do, my friends do, and the older women in my family have achieved this. It’s a common human need that is there and provides benefits for most people. Most men in the world are married and have children. I don’t think they would be pleased if their daughters or wife were turned into a …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:16 AM
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lol. Men don’t even like the women who are kissing ass backwards for them because they are unattractive for some reason or another. And women are the picky ones according to redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:13 AM
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Why would you want a woman who hates half the population? Does all women include your mother? Sisters? Is she gonna insult all the women you are around? Besides, hating random people for their gender is not a good trait. I would not date a man who proudly and sincerely said they hated men. It’s ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:10 AM
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Yikes. I don’t realize I was the enemy of men. Thought I was friends with some of them even.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:07 AM
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Yes, men either haven’t encountered it or isn’t aware what is happening. Don’t call me mentally ill for experiencing a not uncommon behavior among women. lol. Why does he, a man, know better than me, a woman, what relationships are like between women? It’s ridiculous and his view is clouded for some reason or another. If most men told me some men do this to other men I would believe it. Not say “are you sure? You could just be mentally ill?” I hate this term, but this is what women mean what the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:01 AM
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Yes I agree, but telling men all women prefer to date over 6 ft is not productive. Most men are under 6 ft and their wives didn’t settle for them and most likely finds them attractive. The two shortest men from my class are dating beautiful women and are working a normal job. These redpill spaces have a doom and gloom that isn’t reality. A 65 year old woman can get a boyfriend and 5’2 man can get a girlfriend. And shocker, they probably don’t view themselves as having settled. Some partners migh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:56 AM
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Lol. Some women put down other women to look better themselves. This is common knowledge off the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:23 AM
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Everyone is an outlier in something.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:19 AM
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Definitely, bitches don’t exist. Lol. My friend in high school totally didn’t use me to get to one of my sister’s male friends. I’m a woman. I’ve experienced this kind of behavior. Besides I thought redpill men thought females are always trying to one up another for men’s attention. That is pick me behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:10 AM
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I broke up with him because of his dental hygiene if you want to get really specific. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:06 AM
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I strongly agree with this. In addition, pick me behavior applies to women disliking their daughters as well. For example, a woman saying when I was your age I was this and that to her daughter is also pickme behavior. If a man wants their wife to be jealous of any interaction they have with their daughter then go at it. Women who do this to other women are not generally liked by most people as well and tend to be maladjusted in general. I don’t see a problem with women getting along with other …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:02 AM
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No. It means a bitch who puts other women down to look better in front of men. Like if a man compliments a woman and the woman next to her just has to chime in about how this and that is so much better about her. Having a person like that be around you is miserable. Besides, pickme’s generally don’t believe the shit they’re saying they just want your approval. Say you say you like video games they’ll chime in and say “Oh I love video games!” even if they hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:56 AM
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I have never meet a man who believes what the men say are posting here. Maybe somehow all my 8 uncles, dozen of male cousins, male classmates, male friends, and former romantic interests were hiding their secret disdain for me, I wouldn’t know. Most men have been supportive of me in my life. In education as well, which apparently men don’t care about. Indeed, my sister’s fiancé is actually working extra hours for money to help her go to school. My father helped pay for my college tuition and tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:33 AM
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Even here? This is a place full of the worst of men. The assholes literally congregate here. If I believed men thought this way about women in real life I would be celibate the rest of my life. Thankfully, they don’t and it’s pretty easy to find men who care about you as a person and not just as fertile pretty womb.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:25 AM
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Same, I dated a man and kept forgetting what job he had and I still don’t know his height. Wasn’t 6 feet by the way. Those were not things I was looking for when I was dating despite what the redpill thinks the female hivemind believes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:22 AM
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I mean I’m a woman and the majority of the general statements the redpill makes about women do not apply to me. I’m actually attracted most to men under 6ft and don’t care that much about their income. Something assuming that about me because of my gender is irritating. Treat people as individuals. In no way should men voting more conservative change how you view the men you come across in your daily life. Living life like that is missing out on the true reality. Everyone is against the grain on…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:19 AM
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They are not. You either live in Muslim majority country or are stuck online.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:15 AM
2

Most, but they are referring to women having equal rights when they say that. I would say that and my friends would, but we don’t believe in the stuff the redpill says feminism is about. We would be referring to the dictionary definition which according to Britannica is the belief in the social, economic, and political equality of the sexes. You be hard pressed to find a woman who is against that. Besides, there are many different kinds of feminism including radical feminism, liberal feminism, c…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:14 AM
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Then men better not bitch when women don’t go down on them because of their gross ass smelly dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:16 AM
1

Again, you proved my point perfectly. That is why henpeck is gendered because men acting that way is considered normal even good apparently to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:37 AM
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So you just agreed with me that men act similar to a henpecking wife, but it’s okay because women should just do what their man says? Seems like we’re on the same page, just that you think men henpecking their wives is acceptable while I don’t. You literally described my point perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:25 AM
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Not changing your opinion, but just look around. Men tell their girlfriends to do things all the time. This men in this sub always say they want agreeable and submissive women. It considered normal for a woman to do what a man says. Many men in this sub wouldn’t even want to be in a relationship with a woman who didn’t do what they say. If a woman was expecting a man to be submissive to her and do what she says and she gets angry that is henpecking. If a man got angry at his wife for not doing w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:18 AM
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No, but overall not much thought by society would be given if a man said these things to his wife. Many married couples act like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:13 AM
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No, the Oxford Dictionary is gender specific because men doing it to their wives is not given any special attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:12 AM
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Yes, I’m saying that when men tell a woman to do something and she does it without objection that is considered normal. That is not considered normal for a man to do, hence the term henpeck. The submissive thing is tailored to this sub. I don’t believe the majority of men want submissive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:09 AM
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That’s your opinion. I see it in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:32 PM
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I’m just saying the henpecked behavior is seen as normal for men to do it. When a woman does it, then it’s a problem. I’m not saying that that behavior is okay it’s just an explanation why men seem to think men could never henpeck. Hopefully, that disappears.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:58 PM
1

lol. Where do you live? Couples tell each other what to do all the time. Man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:40 PM
1

So the majority of women in relationships are henpecked? Because that is typical behavior for a man to say that to a woman. All men in this sub who want a submissive woman are just looking to henpeck their wives?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:37 PM
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I mean it’s just normal when men do it. Men are supposed to be the ones in charge traditionally. That just tells me you see that behavior as normal as in the husband telling the wife what to do in a stern voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:33 PM
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lol. Men never nag! How ridiculous!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:21 PM
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Nah, it’s just normal for men to do it. “Foods not cooked right, I like your hair better long, why didn’t you do the dishes, why can’t you put my socks in the drawer.” This is henpecking if a woman did it but completely normal for a man to say to his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:20 PM
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That’s pretty normal. Not even worthy of a second look in my opinion. People are just used to husbands treating wives like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:17 PM
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I don’t agree, women are just supposed to listen to their husbands. If a husband tells a wife to do something historically she did it or was in trouble. That was not the same thing with a wife tellling a husband what to do. She was supposed to be the submissive one and telling her husband what to do was unnatural. Also, I’ve seen men have fits over a penny left on the ground or the fact his wife bought a wrong kind of sausage. That in my opinion is a henpicked wife, but I’ve heard it explained a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:15 PM

I mean I work at thrift store in the book department and everyday books about birds come in. I know so many people who are into bird watching. Maybe it’s where you are, but it’s pretty popular where I am. Looking up how popular it is says that 35% of people aged 16 and over have gone to a park to look at birds. I wouldn’t call that unpopular.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:29 AM

No, it’s not. There are books upon books about birds at the thrift shop I work at. Very common among older people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:14 AM

I wouldn’t be adverse to adopting either. It’s just a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:58 AM

It’s actually not. Women can have kids in their 40‘s. I come from a family where the majority of women have children in their forties. I’m not denying that it gets harder, but most women have 10 years left of fertility after 30. That’s just a fact too even if you don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:19 AM

You just confirmed my fears. I don’t want to be a resort to being a single mom, but it’s clear as I get older that men don’t want to date older woman. I’m not ready for a relationship and I’m only getting more undesirable to men every day. It’s a good idea for woman in my situation to at least consider this possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:07 AM

This is about being a mother and raising a child. I feel like I would be able to raise a child well even by myself. I have a large loving family so it’s not like the child wouldn’t have a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:59 AM

Lol. Don’t try to introduce them to fact and logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:44 AM

Going to the sperm bank is literally what this post is about so I would take a hazard that is what she is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:43 AM

We? So you‘re speaking for all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:41 AM

Myself????
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:40 AM

I feel like that’s the gut reaction, but if the woman had a large supporting family I feel like the adverse effects won’t be as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:37 AM

I‘m not debating that at all. It’s quite clear men do not want women in their thirties. I’m not willing to forgo motherhood and a career because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:36 AM

I would never do this if I wasn’t sure I could support myself. Believe it or not women can get good jobs. Personally, I’m going to school to become a genetic counselor. That’s a good wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:33 AM

I mean yes that is ideal, but not everything in life goes to plan. I’d rather risk a miscarriage than never try to be a mother at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:32 AM

That has nothing to do with this situation at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:30 AM

So, women over thirty five should never get pregnant? That’s absolutely ridiculous. My mom gave birth to me at 35 and women have healthy pregnancies over 35 all the time. I’m not denying that women‘s chances of difficulties go up, but those are still in the minority. Besides, maybe woman will decide at 34 to become a mother to avoid the label of geriatric pregnancy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 01:29 AM
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