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People who would think of buying them already have no skin to skin contact with anybody
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 07:56 AM
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Just out of curiosity, would you have the same thoughts on the matter it you were to approach it with the assumption that being better won't change the end result?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 07:55 AM
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What if he said yes at first but then later on changed his mind or vice versa? He'd have a time limit to make his decision before it's set in stone. Better than having no options at all. What if the woman didn’t know she’s pregnant until it was too late. Too late as in too late to get an abortion? I feel like she'd know at one point or another. Has to be a skill to go on for that long not knowing you're pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:00 PM
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I am not saying that abortion should be banned for women, I am saying financial abortion should be an option for men. Depending on a decision given by a man in a timely order, a woman can decide herself if she wants to still carry the burden and responsibility of being a single mother. And if she doesn't, great, she wouldn't have to! And yes, I do very much think being raised without a father would be a much better choice for a kid than to be raised with a father that never wanted to be a father…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:42 PM
2

Cool. So the child support can at least be lowered to 9 months and called "pregnancy support" if the man doesn't want to be a parent, and the woman will be compensated for her pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:22 PM
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If it was consensual on both sides then so do the women lol?? And it's not even always consensual, men are still are forced to pay child support for babies born as a result of him getting raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:20 PM
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Yeah I remember when women's ability to lie was removed so they can't do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:18 PM
1

Collective bullying, also not knowing hygiene as well as the other stuff you listed. Girls also tend to do similar disgusting things, only to a lower percentage of guys and they also do not get taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:12 PM
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Lol I won't even try to argue on the romance or shut or whatever the heck book part. Anyone curious can go and check them out for themselves. I do love the holier-than-thou mindset a lot of women have because of it though. First of all, no. Modern day and age porn stars are very visibly adults also running their own pages. Assuming the men consuming those media do so on more of the well known websites, it's also not surprising that they wouldn't be aware of the existence of underage material as …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:44 PM
2

Which... women also have? Porn Romance books are very popular among women, aren't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:26 PM
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Yup both genders have that sort. I did say though the bunch that make sorta arguments are usually the immature ones themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 02:25 PM
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That.. that wasn't my point. I was trying to show how absurd your argument is by reversing the gender. You're literally mocking your own logic right now lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:27 PM
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Yeah that's why I said most men do not career. Career is not an option if you're looking for a long term relationship as a man. It's a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:26 PM
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Hmm, all societal problems being reduced to personal ones. It almost sounds as if the system is kind of broken. But nah, it must be that those little men are too stupid and incompetent lol. I guess you could also say that for the women in the past since they also had lower education and jobs. Ohh right actually sorry my bad, I will return to taking fourth showers a day. Maybe I will eventually catch up to the tall handsome guys who can't bother to wash their hands after getting out of the toilet…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:02 AM
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I haven't been into the girls bathroom myself (duh) but I haven't heard any more pleasant stories from there either. That being said, it only takes one guy to do that. It doesn't matter if there are a hundred decent guys for each, just one guy is enough to mess up a bathroom. Placing something like that on the whole male population of a school is wild lol. Same as "acting as if jacking off". Sure I have also met that sorta guys. There were one or two in multiple classes that I knew. There were a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:58 AM
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I am not looking for any relationships myself anymore. But if I was, I wouldn't care if a man has a career or not. A crushing majority of guys won't care about a woman's career, assuming that he isn't financially struggling and the house chores and that she won't just do nothing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:50 AM
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There are two things I want to say here. First is I love how a bunch of women act as if they are grown up, enlightened adults while men are stupid little dorks that can't do anything and need to be trained like puppies. It's like middle school girls talking about how guys their age are so immature as if they are better. Acting as if the other sex is just children is one of the best ways to see thag somebody is not mature themselves. Second, sure you can have your fun and wait at the finish line.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:12 AM
2

If somebody is convinced of Red or Black Pill, chances are most of that is because of their own life experience rather than statistics. The latter is only further solidification onto an already existing basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:57 PM
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I mean the whole "oppressed" victimization thing aside, people won't show sympathy to those who haven't shown sympathy for themselves. This doesn't really have much to do with oppression or whatever. If you dislike somebody, chances are they will dislike you back. And that's a two way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:53 PM
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That would also carry impacts to your own land considering the globalization of our age. That's like developing and spreading a new disease as if it can't ever bite you in the leg.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:50 PM
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I'd say the "reasonable" feminists actively defend the extremists when it comes down to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:42 PM
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I don't want to sound like an edgy teenager, but somebody can be kind for only so long if they get shit on the face for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:41 PM
1

I mean, I did socialize with them as a kid. That really didn't do much since high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 05:13 PM
2

People tend to not talk to the friends they had as 3 year olds after two decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:51 AM
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It's always two paths. Either a wife, two kids with a well-off income; or drug addict already having health problems and barely able to function.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:28 AM
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Wanting or not wanting to have children doesn't really cause much of a difference in attraction, though. The body considers it the default option to have children, whether or not a person wants them or not isn't a part of the calculation for the brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 08:55 AM
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Brother look, I have seen my parents, their parents, siblings, friend's parents, a heck ton of older people. Now to admit I don't live in a western country, and I know the shift happened much sooner there. That being said I have seen many times that most marriages weren't built on love or attraction. Were there exceptions? Absolutely. And those were only that and nothing more, exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:54 PM
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dang sis is writing from the medieval ages
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:51 PM
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I don't necessarily disagree but I also don't think moving to visual is what caused all this. That just made the process much faster. Women are naturally less attracted to the average men than vice versa. Which makes sense considering our biology. Despite this women kind of didn't have much of a choice for ages, as being a single woman meant living life on hell mode. That's not the case anymore today and for many women, being single is preferable to settling with what they would consider an aver…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:39 PM
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It is relevant, because I am saying that if you have to walk on eggshells and appeal to someone's ego, then maybe the stuff you're saying aren't things that you should be saying in the first place. How do you not see the relevancy in that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:38 AM
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I am saying that if you're having problrm getting along with good people, maybe you're not a good person instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:32 AM
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Good news is that the study linked by OP is a horrible one in any scientific basis and hasn't been uses by anyone but misandrists to make it seem as if men at large are rapist monsters. It has been linked so many times that I almost memorized all the faults of the study. First of all, the study is conducted on 76 college students in South Dakota University. Not only is 76 a terribly low number for any study, let alone one that's supposed to make a comment for "30% of all men", no further informa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:21 AM
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Or OP is the problematic one who makes very rude comments and think he should be just able to think it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:12 AM
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A 6/10 in modern age will NOT be looking for any guy below 8. You're way too optimistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:39 PM
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I used to. Nowadays I just don't think about women much but I did quite a bit back when I was still imaginative.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 01:37 PM
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I qgree you should decorate your house according to your tastes, but that how the heck is that gonna help anything when you don't have any girls stepping into your house in the first place?? Oh and as I have said, the attractiveness itself comes from genes for men. Aesthetics after that only help you focus on a certain type of girl that you like. If you don't meet a basic level of genetic attractiveness, aesthetics won't get you anything. Adding spices onto poop won't make it taste good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 09:49 AM
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I hate that you're right lol. There was that one time a girl told me I was handsome. And like, pretty direct too. She just straight up said it to my face. My first reaction was "I am either asleep right now, or I am getting scammed", so that's saying something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:28 AM
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Girl you will not be putting any guy off with those comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:25 AM
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I don't exactly understand what you mean by making our surroundings more visually aesthetic. But personally for the other part of your question, I do not think there's much I could do about my looks when most of the attractive features on men are purely genetic. Height, face, jawline, shoulders, hell even ethnicity as much as it might make people uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:23 AM
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Meh I disagree with the premise that what pill you subscribe to has any innate outcome on your dating life. An attractive guy will get the girls, blue or red pilled. An unattractive guy won't get the girls, blue or red pilled. The level of how attractive someone is the main determinant of what pill they will go with. A guy who is attractive enough to not require any extra effort, or has been putting in the effort without noticing, will probably be blue pill as they wouldn't understand the concep…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:13 AM
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First of all, even assuming most women only want men taller than themselves (which also isn't true, almost all women want a guy at least 3-4 inches taller at best) that still leaves a 5' guy with extremely few options. The said options also have much better choices than going for a 5ft guy. No matter how much he "improves himself", there will be a better option. His improvements won't be anything but a compensation for his height, while a taller guy could far surpass him in any romantic aspect w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:56 AM
1

Sure, but it's you who's calling basic complaints "whining". It's sure is easy to describe any comment as whining when you want to shut it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:49 AM
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If you're going to describe people's commentary and complaints on the dating market as whining then its your fault in the first place being in literally a subreddit created for that lol. Also try doing the same for the job market too. Whenever a person struggling to find a job has a complaint about it, tell them that there are employers who would take them and they are just whining instead of putting in effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 04:09 AM
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The only way of working on your height is a leg lengthening surgery, if you're talking about that for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:36 PM
1

There's a guy in my dorms who doesn't wash his hands after exiting the toilet. Also out of 5 people in my dorm room, guess who might be the only one with a girlfriend? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:35 PM
1

Sure I could also point to some people who have won the lottery and tell everyone to join any and all lotteries they can find.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:33 PM
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Sure they like them. But they only like handsome dark bad boys, handsome nerds and handsome lumberjacks. Literally no girl, when thinking about a dark bay boy thinks of a 5'3 guys. When they think about nerds, they don't think about an average guy collecting video game figures. When they think of a lumberjack, they don't think of an ethnic balding guy. None of those guys that I gave as examples are hideous, but they will never be what a girl finds attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:22 PM
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Women want to be chosen by a man that's popular among other women. Being a virgin doesn't help that case at all. No woman wants to be chosen by an unwanted man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:10 PM
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Can't you say that for anything else that won't kill you though? Love isn't a need. And I don't mean like just romantic love. I mean family, friends, people you look up to, people you inspire and all. A lack of all that won't strictly kill you. You won't just fall flat and die all of a sudden if you don't have those. Education isn't a need. A lack of education can cause problems in your life sure, but it won't directly kill you. Just going to make things kind of harder maybe. Housing isn't a nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:07 PM
4

Have you not heard? The devil curses you with his evil if you happen to be born with a dick
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:19 AM
4

4b was just exactly that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:17 AM
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That and on top of the fact that most men don't get objectified anyways so don't really have much of an opinion on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:09 AM
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I can sense no misandry from OP at all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:03 AM
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Yup but a very large majority of men don't really care
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:00 AM
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I don't cause those problems. I guess you can expect help from sympathy from men as a collective if you think men as a collective are responsible of it, but on a personal level, I have no need to care. Nor does any men that will look at this issue on a personal level. You don't get to pick and choose when you get a "everyone is out for themselves" mindset. People whom you don't care about have no reason to cate about you, neither are you entitled their care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 01:15 PM
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Most Koreans have no idea what 4B is, let alone participate in it. The movement just originated from there and only has a handful of followers. Korea is on a way to collapse because of their toxic culture, extreme working conditions and upbringing, equally from men and women as either side doesn't want to deal with children. 4B doesn't have any meaningful impact on the Korean society, or any society for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 01:11 PM
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It definitely does on a societal level and could push a collapse. But not so much on a personal level I guess, except for cases like suicide. But then again, if a tree falls in a forest with nobody to hear it, did the tree actually ever fall?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 01:08 PM
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Nah he was an angrier dude that really had the idea that the ideal genetics for a man was to be a tall blonde guy with blue eyes. Not many people liked him but it's interesting how much your thought process reminds me of that 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:27 AM
1

the nice guy we want also needs to come with a personality that makes us desire a sexual relationship it just doesn't even register to most women. And what kind of personality would that be? Do you think any guy can achieve that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:22 AM
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Because you're not talking about people who have been friends for 9 months or over and then lost their friendship after developing attraction. A person who's already attractive can go from being a friend to a relationship partner. Being friends does not remove them from being in the category of possible future love interests. An unattractive person can still be a friend, but they won't proceed further and any attempts will more than likely trash the friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:15 AM
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Plenty do that when they aren't directly arguing with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 08:05 AM
3

Reminds me of a certain German guy who had very similar ideas about genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:03 PM
10

Being in a relationship doesn't mean you're desired, unfortunately. That's a lesson you learn once you actually see people's relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:02 PM
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It's not exactly a pill, I just use it as a way of describing my stance. I guess you can call it a warmer version of black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 02:16 PM
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I wouldn't say they can't, rather they don't. In group bias of women extending much further than just arguing against men, but also to carry the impression that women in general are higher value than men. One of the man reasons why so many women talk about how they constantly see ugly men with beautiful women. They don't, the man and the woman are the same level of attractiveness but women will inflate other women's as a way of keeping social power. For a more solid example you can take the two …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 02:00 PM
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You're talking about men who wouldn't be able to participate in "real sex" even if they weren't watching porn. Addiction is one thing, but porn in on itself isn't something harmful to the watcher.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:43 AM
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I wouldn't say that women are disgusted of male sexuality in general. That would depend on the man himself. His status, attractiveness, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:30 AM
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I wouldn't say being happy as a single person or not has an actual effect on other people's actions towards you. A low value man is going to be viewed as a loser whether he is happy or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:56 AM
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None. There isn't a point to any of it. Don't do it if you don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 05:55 PM
1

Meh, it just is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 05:15 PM
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Lol I love how you threw all the arguments at the wall and then seeing how none of them actually hold, you just reverted to incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:00 PM
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That wasn't what I was saying, but yeah sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 01:46 PM
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I am not saying women can't get horny. Sure they can. But the horniness won't be towards their non-chad husband. In that case, the husband could only be a way of relieving existing horniness (assuming she won't just go for toys anyways)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 11:34 AM
-4

Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 11:28 AM
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And how do you get to that point? For a girl to be that enthusiastic, a guy either needs to initiate in one form or another, or be extremely attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 09:39 AM
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No. My comment is about the contradiction of the "the bar is in hell" idea that most women seem to have and their efforts of bringing down the good qualities of guys that they aren't attracted to as a way of falsely supporting that idea. The bar is not in hell. That's just what women would like to think as a way of coping with the fact that of being single, either because of their own personal value or unrealistic standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:14 PM
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How is that an argument against what I said? Yes, they might all individually say that the bar is in hell and also minimize any good qualities coming from a guy. What's your point here again?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:07 PM
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Nothing. Because I find the idea that there should be an invisible bar that you need to pass before you gain some right of passage into relationships mildly stupid. And that's not the only bad thing about this mindset, it's also the fact that you constantly keep bringing down positive things about people. "Hey, they helped that old lady cross the road." "That's the bare minimum! Anybody who respects their elders would do the same!" "He helped that cat get off the tree that it was stuck on." "Wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:51 PM
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I love how women will be talking about how the bar is in hell and being a decent guy alone should be able to land you with at least a handful of women but at the same time anything you do is the bare minimum and you shouldn't be thinking of them as good actions. Truly, the Schrödinger's good guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:39 PM
1

I'd say I am close to a blackpill ideology and even still this sounds wacky to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:05 AM
1

Yeah and no. I wouldn't say they wouldn't bat an eye. Their sons, husbands, fathers etc would also be dead so you know. It is true however that women have an in group bias in a much larger scale and societally will always hold the benefit of women overall on men, as long as these benefits do not carry negative effects directly and visibly to their close men without plausible deniabilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 08:55 PM
0

All form of relationships are transactional. Even the "purest" of relationships are built on a mutual exchange of positive pheromones.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 08:35 PM
1

Nah this is far too obvious to be "better"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 08:33 PM
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1/3 is underestimating when you're specifically talking about those fandoms lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:45 PM
1

I agree with your point of women primarily showing attraction to masculine attributes in a man but I don't find your body to be exactly related to the title.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:34 PM
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Meh I am not 100% black pill. I do think attraction is heavily mostly based on genetics but it can have some nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:56 PM
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So you consider it disregarding a woman's feelings to approach them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:22 AM
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Okay honestly my bad. Should have realized you're a troll much sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 10:43 AM
4

... and she shat on his bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 10:22 AM
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Well this is one of the responses of all times.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:31 PM
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No, because that's not real and also not the equivalent of the comparison you're making with men. What I am talking about is making a choice between sharing a high value male or settling for an average guy, so both paths still feasible. Oh and also, in a fantasy universe, if every male was high value, then none of them would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:01 PM
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In our current day, monogamy is normalized and therefore what's expected from a relationship. The complaint that women have about non-monogamous relationships isn't often to share the guy, but losing the guy alltogether as a poly relationship isn't seen as an option in the first place. If that was not the case, then women would highly prefer sharing a high value male to having to settle for an average or below average one. Again, social pressure has the same effect on women, just in a different …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 02:52 PM
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Women in current and past ages have also tended to show attraction to a select small number of men at a time, like in many other species where the biological effort of child bearing is higher on the female - hence why the male love interests in female targeting romantic and sexual media material. Usually in form of mafia stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 02:28 PM
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Can't you say the same about women? By a similar logic, it can be said that most women would rather have access to a small percentage of higher value men even if it meant sharing the man, if not for societal pressures?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 09:42 AM
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I wouldn't have been able to find a partner even if I did want to, regardless of my philosophy. As much as it might bother you to accept it, millions of people die without having a single relationship. You're welcome though, I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:49 AM
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Because I don't want to
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:30 AM
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Okay? I am just pointing out how things work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 07:00 PM
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Okay I suppose I needed a longer explanation afterall. The comparison here is NOT about how mucu straight women desire other women compared to how much desire men. This was never part of the topic. You just came up with this out of nowhere. The comparison here is about how much straight women desire men in comparison to how much straight men desire women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:07 PM
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And this sub is for talking about relationships in heterosexual dating space. A woman is a lot more desirable to a straight man than a man to a straight woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 04:23 PM
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That's wishful thinking. People have varying levels of value, whether because of societal or biological reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:56 PM
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I can guarantee that a majority of those guys didn't send dick pics, even though that's the narrative most women would love to run with. Hope that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:11 PM
4

But if a guy wants to be with a girl who is attracted to him, why would he date a girl who is not attracted to him? Just sex? I mean, plenty of guys would do that, don't get me wrong. But a guy has every justification to not do it, and the guys avoiding it are also increasing in number.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 02:12 PM
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Lol. There was a Forever Alone Women sub on Reddit. The women on there would complain that they never receive romantic attention and are invisible to men. Anyway, as far I remember, the mods made that sub private because the women there were getting too many DMs from men who were interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 02:01 PM
3

I mean sure, nobody says you're obligated to feel sorry for those who are ghosted just as we aren't obligated to feel sorry for the women in question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 08:04 PM
3

And?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 05:50 PM
5

Just no
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 05:49 PM
5

No, that's you reversing the reason and the cause that she gave. Her argument was that if a guy hates women, the conclusion must be that he's secretly gay. "Trauma" isn't a one sided street and there exists many forms of it. The fact that it might not manifest as fear doesn't mean the person experiencing is secretly gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 09:53 AM
1

Okay, that's great! I am all for that. Though I still don't understand why they can't just become lesbians instead of waiting longer and stuff. Seems like unnecessary effort to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 08:02 AM
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I mean, the majority of violence against women by men I'd committed by their spouse, partner, etc. so it's mostly the man that the said woman actively chooses to be together with. So if a woman is so scared of men, then just simply being a lesbian will drastically lower her chances of receiving violence from men, using simple logic 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:52 AM
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Would you be saying the same thing about women who complain about men? If they are feeling so unsafe around men and are scared or abuse, then there's no reason to listen to them right? Since they can apparently just become lesbians considering how much they seem to dread being with men 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:37 AM
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Gay dudes are having a blast I hear do you can also make of that what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:17 AM
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From my experience those guys tend to act as jesters more than comedians.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 04:04 AM
1

If they want a relationship there are a ton of single men Do you mean straight men here or..?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:25 AM
1

So your advice to people is to inject themselves with venom?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 08:02 AM
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Because for women, it's a beneficial thing that the unwanted guy stays unwanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:57 AM
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Interesting how when men to be worried about megative possibilities, it's something wrong and they should try to change their beliefs because the possibility is low. But at the same time, women are allowed to prefer being near literal bears rather than aan because there is like, less than one in a thousand chance that they guy will be a total psychopath who will kidnap them or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:50 AM
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No, I just don't carry the belief that personality isn't something that's meaningful enough to carry impact for a man in the dating scene. First and primary factors for dating would be looks. Height, bone structure, face, whatever else. Research has been conducted on the subject too showing that humor isn't about what you do or say but your attractiveness. And I am fun, for myself. Somebody else probably wouldn't find the stuff I do as anything fun. It's niche things. But they wouldn't change an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 03:23 PM
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Most women, like most men, want to be loved by a partner she loves back. That's true. However when we are talking about "a partner she loves back", that likely won't be an average man. An average man can get into a relationship with her through providing benefits. Losing those benefits, or trying to put limitations will quickly kick him out of that zone and make space for another man that can do so instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 03:13 PM
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Why would I bother saving the world or whatever (lol) when I have long stopped caring about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 04:48 PM
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I am not interested in dating in the first place. But if I was, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:42 PM
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Bro who the fuck is talking about which girl has the biggest boobs or ass in the locker room 😭 Like where do you all get these ideas from I mean sure I guess there are some weirdos who do that but most guys would be uncomfortable with it anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:35 PM
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Man people's insistence of not reading literally 5 more words is killing me. Sometimes it's a nice reminder of not taking everybody on this sub seriously though. Some people just like being hyperbolic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 01:30 PM
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Not everybody can catch up like that. Some aren't popular and don't have many friends so they don't learn about those dynamics early on. Some just get caught up with the constant false advice on media. And don't even get me started on autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:30 PM
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That sorta advice multiplied in large amounts with media. Even during the childhood years of many guys, similar narrative of "Just be nice" is being fed to them through things like cartoons. A similar thing also applies to social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:19 PM
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The type that drinks water?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:13 PM
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More so from women in general than just their mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:12 PM
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I wouldn't say they aren't happy. They just don't realize that their partner isn't really attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:10 PM
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I see where you're coming from but I don't really agree. Attractive men will have prospects one way or another. What an unattractive man does wouldn't carry a meaningful impact towards the attractive man's chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:10 PM
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I do think those people would be happier just accepting the truth, but that doesn't mean they need to blame themselves for it either. Some people are just born with it and some people aren't. Being mad about it will be just a waste of time but constantly blaming yourself because of things out of your control isn't gonna help either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:05 PM
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Relationships should be illegal. If we ban relationships, abuse rate from partners would drop to zero. WDYT?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 03:19 PM
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We aren't talking about whether or not if girls will date the guy in question. The topic is the guy being called a creep despite showing no actions to hurt anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:55 PM
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I do think almost all of the factors for men are decided by genetics, however that doesn't mean social status has no effect. Not that either of those can be changed though for most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:37 PM
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And..? What part of the topic does this relate to?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:35 PM
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The experience gap can make it obvious, or so people say.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:32 PM
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Yup there's also that. I have seen plenty of feminists who have relatively normal ideals. But unfortunately when it comes down to it they also don't hold back from protecting the insane ones which kinda puts them in the same bag for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:30 PM
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Ohhh. Well you see, there's a line below the paragraph that reads "-Hillary Clinton". As most people have been taught in middle school, that extra line signifies a quote. Hope this could help.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:26 PM
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He gave you a quote. That's the proof. Thats what she had said. Like what? Is he supposed to link you a scientific paper researching whether or not Hillary Clinton actually said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:20 PM
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Man I remember back then when I used to take all those people seriously. Not long before too, maybe just a year ago. I would constantly blame myself for simply being born a guy. Like, I would feel bad because I felt like walking down the street made women around feel more threatened than if they met a bear lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:12 PM
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I don't think it's "being turned into an insult" but rather people really disliking feminism in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 07:08 PM
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Those things only matter once you pass the check for looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:16 PM
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https://www.psypost.org/interactions-between-height-and-shoulder%e2%80%91to%e2%80%91hip-ratio-influence-womens-perceptions-of-mens-attractiveness-and-masculinity/
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 03:09 PM
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Well it gets worse the shorter you are of course. Exponentially so. Though the research was conducted ranging from 5'3 men to 6'3 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:24 AM
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Most of the qualities in men that can make them attractive are purely genetic. There was a research done that shows bring fit doesn't increase attractiveness for short guys as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:20 AM
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Holy sexism
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 01:52 AM
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Damn, no way I just recognized who you are from how hyperbolic and twisted your reply is lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:12 PM
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Yeah there's a reason that "Don't shit where you eat" is a common saying. This could end up much worse for you OP but glad that it didn't go down that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:07 PM
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When did I say you should date anybody?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 06:58 PM
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Unfortunately, women aren't owed being liked by guys. This seems to be your entitlement talking. You need to check what makes you feel as if you're owed being liked by guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:48 AM
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One of those groups is literally perceived to be more dangerous than a bear for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:38 AM
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Oh poor you, had to be in the vicinity of a guy that's not above 6 ft for 5 minutes? The horror! You don't get to decide what men do with their bodies. If anything this shows your entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:29 AM
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No, it's about the validity of this concern and how a man is ridiculed for it. Maybe follow your own advice next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:09 AM
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I mean that part is understandable. But the herbivore wolf in question also isn't at fault if it decides not to interact with the sheep, which seems to be the main topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:03 PM
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Yeah and I am not gonna lose time trying to get to know someone who is more threatened by me than they are of a bear. And what is?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:17 AM
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Hm yes but that very reason is exactly why they see you as a monster your lack of care, compassion, and empathy. Never have I seen a man who empathizes and supports women shamed for it. No it's not. You could be the most empathetic, most understanding, kind and helpful man on the surface of the planet. You're still a random man. When you're walking down the street, the women that pass by you would still prefer to be near a bear. Oh also from what I have seen in most feminist subs, the general op…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:59 AM
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That's true. And it's also true that a given female would likely prefer to be with a bear than me. I won't really waste my time trying to appease myself to people who see me as some sort of monster or care about their political values.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:35 PM
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Because "bar is in hell for men" is not only a misleading sentence for most guys out there, it's also used as a passive-aggressive insult against men to blame their actions for failing at dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:31 AM
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Attraction is subjective on a limited level. Some women might be into attractive guys with a beard, some women might be into attractive guys without a beard, some women might be attracted to attractive guys with hair and some women might be attracted to attractive guys who are bald. Nobody will be attracted to an unattractive guy whether he has hair, is bald, has a beard, or doesn't. Some people's favorite drink might be lemonade. Some might like soda more and some might just prefer water. Nobod…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:30 AM
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"Chad" doesn't refer to assholes, it just refers to attractive guys. Chad could be nice, he could be an asshole, he could be anything and he'd still not struggle to get with a girl, whether with you or someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:21 AM
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That would be a lot easier if media in general didn't push the narrative that being nice is all you need as a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:15 AM
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Almost every thing that women say about men are divided into two groups. They are either talking about men they find attractive or men that they don't find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:12 AM
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Most things that women say will start making a lot more sense once you understand that when they are talking about men, they are talking about one of the two types of men: those who are attractive, and those who aren't. The bar is actually on the floor for men that they are already attracted to do. Those guys could do anything, even stuff below their supposed bar, and still get with most girls out there. The other guys weren't even in the radar in the first place and won't ever be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 10:11 AM
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Yep, most therapy can do is to either learn to cope or gaslight yourself. It's no different than manosphere scammers, only from (most probably) a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:05 PM
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Oh yeah, a very common thing happening in western countries. I always hear about the rituals in America where the church puts a target on at least three women every week and the whole town comes together to beat them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:59 PM
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Nah for girls what matters is your height compared to other men, not themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:39 PM
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Says what about me exactly? That I am not someone who's going to feel sorry about people's own decisions?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:40 AM
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Yeah no lmao. I mean don't get me wrong, it sucks they were born into poor countries and all. I myself am in a similar position. But I am not going to feel sad for anyone, guy or girl, making a decision with their own body, of course assuming the person in question wasn't forced into it in which case this would be a whole another topic. You don't get to have sympathy points for decisions that you have made and actively keep making.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:51 AM
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You know, the women who are fucking men who are throwing themselves at her out of desperation to better his life. And they knew this beforehand and chose to date him specifically for material gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:41 AM
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Same tbh. It sucks what women go through and I feel sorry for them but wouldn't actually go out of my way to help anyone that doesn't concern me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:35 AM
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Which also makes those women just as pathetic by your definition..?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:28 AM
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Tell that to a 5'6 or below guy. I am sure they would know how low women's physical standards are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 07:15 AM
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No, I am not saying that. I am saying that the intent in on itself isn't something unethical. It's their own decision to support or not to support anything they would like. You not liking the decision that they made doesn't make them unethical.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:50 PM
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You can have your own ethics. Somebody else can have theirs. The point is that your ethics doesn't make people owe stuff to you. You're also free to feel as if men are some sort of monster because they aren't supporting you, but you weren't owed their support in the first place. "Threatening" doesn't quite work to describe the situation when its just them not giving you what you want, rather than take something away you had.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:40 PM
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You can have your own ethics. Somebody else can have theirs. The point is that your ethics doesn't make people owe stuff to you. You're also free to feel as if men are some sort of monster because they aren't supporting you, but you weren't owed their support in the first place. "Threatening" doesn't quite work to describe the situation when its just them not giving you what you want, rather than take something away you had.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:40 PM
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You can do whatever you'd like. However nobody can come and force you to go to some Black Lives Matter event or anything. And you wouldn't be an asshole for not going to one or going out to protest stuff. Or you can do it only if black men are willing to fuck you, if you're into that I guess. At the end of the day black people also aren't entitled to your support as long as you're not doing something to harm them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:29 PM
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That rather means you're feeling entitled to men's support. It's your own responsibility to deal with such problems rather than to trouble others about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:23 PM
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It's not about being equal for me. The basis is simple, nobody is owed anything. That includes getting sex and getting support or healthcare, regardless of their "importance".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:53 AM
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Meh, constantly heard the same "advice" over and over again both given to me and other guys, that they aren't "owed" empathy, companionship or whatever else. I just eventually learned to take the advice. So I don't think anyone owes anyone else anything anymore. That also happens to include abortions. So sorry to say, but you aren't owed support from men and they have all the rights to base their support on whatever they would like 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:51 AM
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Yep. Listening to advice given above is how you become a doormat. Being nice, liberal or pro-choice as a guy won't change women's attraction or empathy towards you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:46 AM
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Man feminists really love patriarchy, don't they? Imagine having a concept that explains why you can actually do nothing wrong and anything bad that you do is because of this made up concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:45 AM
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Yep, and men also die earlier than women on avarage. Things like murder, wars, workplace accidents, traffic crashes, etc. tend to cause deaths for young men more than anyone, who are also likely to not have a partner as much as their older counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:12 PM
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THEY DONT. This is just one of the biggest examples of causation fallacy. Single men don't die younger. Men tend to die younger than women do, and a younger guy is much more likely to be single, which skews the statistics and then leads everyone to think that women are this magical force that keep men alive somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:10 PM
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You know I actually really don't feel like arguing anymore I think I used up all my energy today. My favorite color is cyan, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:05 PM
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.... okay? Thanks for letting me know?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:36 AM
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It's not. The car is only an example and you're trying to dodge the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:15 AM
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Interesting how people like Wase Wilson receive over 4000 fan mail in prison from women, an amount of attention that pretty much no average man receive, after murdering two women himself. But that couldn't be about him being handsome and tall. Womens detectors must have just given an error. How unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:15 AM
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Not many. I never said there would be handouts. Nobody is expecting a handout, but you're basically telling a starving person to be picky about what food they eat. Like it or not, competence isn't nearly enough for most guys to be attractive, in any shape or form.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:02 AM
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These women don’t have anxiety, depression or OCD. No they do. It's a known thing that things like autism could basically kill a guys dating life, meanwhile women effected by the same condition aren't affected all too much from neurotypical women. If anything most autistic women don't even want to date autistic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:00 AM
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Holy cope. Just say that you aren't attracted to guys without a car and move on, you don't need to make yourself into a laughing stock about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:56 AM
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Man it's such a great thing that women can predict and see through such stuff with every guy that they meet! Otherwise there sure would be a lot of women dating irresponsible or abusive men who don't give a damn about them. Good thing that never happens!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:54 AM
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What percentage of guys do you think there are that have a list of women with jobs and a decent life that would be actually attracted to them??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:51 AM
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being confident that you deserve to have a partner Okay holy shits that's one of the worst advices I have heard about dating so far. It's literally what women accuse all incels of. To think that you deserve a partner is nothing but entitlement. If anything, I don't think anyone deserves anything. Nor would it matter if they did deserve something. Countless people die in hospitals because insurance companies want to make money. Countless children starve in the streets because rich assholes want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:37 AM
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In our current day, incel is basically whatever you want it to mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 09:23 AM
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The fact that I don't have experience on dating area exclusively doesn't mean I don't have any social experience. I have enough experience of being made fun of and getting called nicknames ever since kindergarten. I am sorry to say, but trying to date in this position would just be beating myself in the head with a stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:55 AM
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Last time I had feelings for someone is when I was 12, almost a decade ago. Make of that what you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:31 AM
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Tried dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:20 AM
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I do have confidence in some stuff I do. And guess what? Nobody gives a damn. The level of confidence you have only matters when you have the chance to step your foot in. Literally no woman is going to care about some 5'2 balding guy because he had confidence in some niche thing that he does lmao. "Confidence" is just a way for the men who were born with what it takes to claim that they did anything. That the reason they are chosen is not something shallow but has anything to do with them as a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:52 AM
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The last 100 years or so are extremely different to the human life that has existed for the thousands of years that were prior to it. Individualization and a system where women didn't need to depend on these low value men have also been growing. Internet and dating apps just contributed majorly to this fact by removing many limits. The situation was going to come to this eventually. It just happened much faster than it would have been with dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:45 PM
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That was just an example but it applies to shorter guys too. I know a 5’7 dude who did pretty well in out frat I never understood the point of giving examples like these. Pointing out an exception only reinforces the belief that there is a rule. It's not as if you knew only one 5'7 dude and he was good with women. I am sure you must have known plenty of 5'7 and shorter guys. You are giving me that example because he probably stood out as the only one to have success in that regard. And you said …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 05:07 PM
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Most men who are incels today would end up dying either from some disease, being overworked in the field or being thrown into the meat grinder of a war. There haven't been any other part of the history where so many "low value" men existed, let alone have the internet that could show them the true face of the world rather than the opinions and ideas of their immediate surroundings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 04:48 PM
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I have seen guys who couldn't be any more wasteful with their lives have girlfriends with ease lmao. All they had to do was being born tall and/or handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 04:45 PM
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Oh boy I can't wait to turn 40 so that I can finally be settled on by a divorced mother of three!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 04:44 PM
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A 5’5 woman will filter for 6’0, but if you’re 5’10 and she likes your vibe it won’t matter in real life. So you still need to be over average, which already eliminates half the population of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 04:42 PM
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If you're a guy who wasn't going to see at least some success in dating apps anyways, then chances are having "confidence" for you will just be being obnoxious for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 04:40 PM
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No. Just that a job, housing, healthcare and etc. shouldn't be things that anyone is owed either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:31 AM
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Man I just held in a loud ass laughter from how stupid that comment was. Like jesus, holy diabolical.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:24 AM
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Yep. The conversation changes when you start talking about things like insurance where the person has been paying years for the service. That should make them entitled to the thing that they had been paying for.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:17 AM
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It's not so much as the society entitling you to them, rather the people who make arguments such as "Nobody is owed relationships/companionship, you can't force someone to give you that" also tend to turn around and contradict themselves when things come to healthcare or housing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:15 AM
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Compensating everyone how?? Is the government going to pay them? Doesn't that make it so everyone else has to pay more taxes to build those houses that they didn't want take part in? That infringes their anatomy. Or are you going to find a bunch of volunteers who are also somehow willing to pay for the costs of all the building materials besides working unpaid labor? Well good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:04 AM
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Because Invincible?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 07:05 PM
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Lmao. I am yet to see a man going on about how he'd rather be stuck with a bear than a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:39 AM
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Avarage blue pill man. "How dare you not be a feminist? Don't you see that I am being such a nice guy and protecting women? Why are you such a horrible person?" Low key one of them was trying to tell me how being sexually attracted to someone makes you a rapist the other day.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:02 AM
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Yes, still the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:00 AM
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Most women killed were by their own husbands or families. Which means then that most women should spend their times with stranger men than those people. For their own safety of course 😃
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 04:56 AM
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Lol. There are convicted rapists and murderers receiving more nudes and texts from women than many guys could only dream of receiving in their total life time, just because they are tall and handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:03 AM
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Autism in women is seen as a cute trait. Not so much for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 07:32 AM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:45 PM
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Well I sure as hell would love to become a billionaire with three different mansions, a garage full of sport cars and a personal shopping mall. Can I achieve that? Maybe. Perhaps I can keep trying my luck in lotteries. Or maybe slave away my life working two full time jobs at once, hoping they will pay off. I can't know if I can get there without trying or persevering. So, should I start those two different full time jobs now or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:46 AM
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Sex is neither beautiful nor sacred. It's just a simple urge created by the body to reproduce through chemicals and pheromones. It's not different than being hungry or sleepy. It's just what animals do. From insects to pigs to humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:44 AM
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Yeah that's the point. You don't need to waste your life chasing after something that you probably won't ever achieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:40 AM
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That has its limitations. Prostitution won't ever reach a large number on men in our current day because of its ethical concerns.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:22 AM
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"Money seems like a big deal until you become rich!" -Rich people
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 05:57 AM
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Yes because these guys are absolutely insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:18 AM
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Okay you know what? Let's play it your way. The thing is, by your own outlook, you're just as much of a rapist as you're calling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:50 AM
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No, that's not me "ceasing" my attraction. Neither is me "not ceasing" my attraction to her. Feelings don't get enabled or disabled by some secret switch on your body. People don't get judged on what they think or feel, they get judged on what they do. Like Jesus, go outside. Your brain is fried.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 05:12 PM
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Yeah, I wouldn't until she washes up. Nor after she washes up since I am not looking to hook up with anyone for that matter. What's even supposed to be your point here?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:56 PM
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... read your post again..?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:24 PM
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Then it doesn't invalidate anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:17 PM
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Yep. It's one of the Blue Pill messages fed into men since their childhood. Stuff like "Just be yourself" or "Show vulnerability" which sets them up for failure from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:16 PM
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Yeah, us humans on this planet call that feeling "Physical Attraction". I know, it might sound alien to you after being chronically online for so long. Men go through that, women go through that, gay people go through that, trans people go through that. Most people go through that. I have doubts that most people are rapists though for some reason. Jokes aside, not only are you trying to claim some weird moral high ground by blaming people for a natural function of their body, you're also minimiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:14 PM
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I haven't really seen many Red Pill men do all that and claim moral high ground before. It was either one or the other. However I have seen MANY women excusing their terrible behavior with "Oh she must have been so oppressed 🥺 Patriarchy made her do it 🥺" I do agree with it being quite pathetic though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:57 AM
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Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 08:08 PM
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Wait so your whole argument is that women would go for mid guys but they are oh so societally pressured? Okay I wasn't expecting to have a laugh in this thread. You're calling the guys mid yourself but think women would actually swoon over them if not what old men were talking about them? Sure lmao. Women know they are unlikely to marry their first boyfriend. Women know that most guys aren’t vaguely interested in marrying in their early or mid twenties. No, most guys are pretty interested in a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:26 PM
0

Sure that's all your response.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 11:48 AM
3

Cuz "false" is a better one for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 11:21 AM
2

Nuh-uh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:16 AM
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I mean, yeah you mostly got it down it seems. The only part you're missing is that applying the same criteria on men and women is not exactly making them equal, as most men aren't seen to ne attractive unlike most women. Many men wouldn't even be able to reach what's considered "avarage" by women without stuff like plastic or lengthening surgeries. Without reaching that criteria, what you do as a person or your actions do not matter much. The things you listed later, being attentive and agreeabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:01 AM
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"Kinda cute" is far above what many guys could achieve. Without surgeries anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:37 AM
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Right, complaining that a creepy stranger has went through your private info that was uploaded on a website by other creepy strangers is whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:22 AM
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The dregs of society also happen to be the population where a bunch of popular stuff start off. Anime and video games used to be only consumed by a small portion of society and they were basically known as losers, while both of those are much more main stream nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 02:02 PM
2

It doesn't always have to come from parents. School, media, etc. can also play the role of a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 07:58 AM
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Get cheesed I am sleepy nugget head
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:31 PM
3

Oh no! Anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:14 PM
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Good luck then because you'll struggle finding them even in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 01:41 PM
2

I really don't care about Facebook so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:25 AM
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Yeah but we don't make public lists of random people that we met
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 07:03 AM
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Those weirdos are like 0.01% of the population. No one has the energy to care that much about strangers that make up half the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 06:46 AM
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I am not an American.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 06:06 PM
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Guy explains he doesn't want to be seen as a creep so he won't approach women Gets blamed for being a creep for not approaching women after being called a liar for sharing hid experience. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:10 PM
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The first assumption you made about the guy is that he's secretly following women around the place despite not knowing anything about him and then you're talking about how you don't understand why men wouldn't want to approach women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:07 PM
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If we are following what's "normal", most guys should have already died either right after being born to some disease, died to starvation while working in some fields or get thrown into the meat grinder with a war. That's what was "normal" for the majority of history and by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:57 PM
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Not smoking, not unhealthy levels of fat and preferably no tattoos. Damn, I sure do have some high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 06:07 AM
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Nope. It's not the first time where a girl would be saying how much she likes nerdy guys and mean Henry Cavill.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:08 PM
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Sure sounds like a hell ton of unnecessary effort for someone who will describe you as a fun NPC. Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 04:33 PM
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That's not you being into a guy playing DnD. That's a guy that you're already attracted to just happening to play DnD.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 04:27 PM
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This "I am eliminating competition" thing is just a false premise. Most of those guys weren't going to be able to find a girl anyways. Them pulling out of the dating scene doesn't change anything for men who were already able to attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:44 AM
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Not only is this unreliable, it's basically delusional to think that women who don't fit that criteria don't get approached anywaye.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:37 AM
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No you're just the weirdo who got triggered by that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:32 PM
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If you just want sex or a gold digger, yeah you can get that with money. Otherwise nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:25 PM
1

As much as pizza?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 03:03 AM
1

You realize Red Pill is formed because people kept pushing societal norms on those men right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:22 PM
1

I'd still rather something I'd like rather than something I expect to not like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:52 PM
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I am good thanks. I'd rather have pizza.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:26 PM
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No. Rather they go after popular, attractive guys who carry toxic traits and hope that the guy will change his ways. So a better way to put it would be they invest in toxic high value men and hope they will become decent high value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:44 AM
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You just kinda answered it yourself. Yeah, the chances of finding a relationship for an avarage guy is low, let alone casual sex. Meanwhile top guys don't struggle with similar problems. They have much easier access to relationships and sex. So they don't want to commit. Those are also the guys who most women are chasing after. So when women say "Guys only want sex" they aren't talking about avarage guys. They mean the guys that they are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:34 AM
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Also heard of a bunch of stories who were trying to be decent and not pushy, only to be dumped because the girl didn't feel like he was attracted to her so...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:31 AM
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https://nationalpost.com/health/being-attractive-makes-you-funnier-and-more-flirty-not-the-other-way-around-u-k-humour-study
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 03:27 AM
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It just means when an attractive guy makes a joke people are a lot more likely to find it funny than if an ugly guy did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:51 AM
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You see, they had two rounds of guys making the same jokes to an audience. With the first audience, their faces were hidden. So looks weren't a part of the rating. That was their real score. And then on the second round they did the same jokes but the audience could see their faces. On that round, the guys who were more physically attractive were rated to be funnier, while the less attractive guys were rated to be less funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 02:50 AM
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I love how this question generally gets answered with humor, despite this not being the case. Some tests showed before that funny guys aren't found to be attractive. Rather attractive guys are perceived to be funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:34 PM
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Lmao k bud
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 10:37 AM
2

Then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 10:09 AM
2

hold girls accountable for causing this. The heck do you expect those guys to do exactly? Start riots?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:42 AM
1

Eh? Most dudes wouldn't mind that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:39 AM
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No you just don't seem to understand what decentering means
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 09:17 PM
0

Yikes that whole thread
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:51 AM
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"I wish I was gay" is one of the most closeted things ever lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:49 PM
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Meh, most "progressive" people instantly turn conservative whenever it suits them. Nothing new :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 06:51 AM
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In my personal experience there is virtually nothing in life more satisfying than romantic relationships, and I was at my most miserable when I was trying to convince myself that trivial bullshit like hobbies was enough to fulfill me instead of a relationship That should be enough to explain it all tbh. Not every man is the same as you. Most guys could easily live their lives happily without needing a relationship. Most would even benefit from using their time more efficiently than chasing women…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 06:47 AM
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The majority do share it. Just not outright tell the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 06:32 AM
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haha very funni.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 06:30 AM
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Well that's one way to say that you don't know anything about monks. A lot of monks are guys who weren't able to find any sexual action so chose to be monks. Funnily enough, one of the primary requirements of being a monk is that you can't be a monks at your lowest. So those guys first need to reach a point where they are actually able to attract at least some women and then make the decision to be a monk once again. They aren't people who were magically born without any form of sexual urges.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:53 PM
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Every man has the capability of decentering women. Do you think all those monks just happen to be guys who are able to decenter women by luck?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:48 PM
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The whole thing is supposed to be so that they don't require women. Not having something that they don't need isn't disadvantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:55 PM
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What exactly counts as a "one shot" here?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 05:54 PM
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That means you probably had an ideal image of them in mind, not that you didn't care about their looks. Once you met you just learned about their looks but you had them in a long while ago anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:29 PM
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Well I was thinking I am too sleepy for a big laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:55 PM
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And you are talking about him right now because he was a 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 07:03 AM
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I think you completely misunderstood the point here. They aren't saying that attractive guys don't need confidence. Yes, even most attractive guys need to be able to approach women if they want hook ups or relationships. The point is confidence doesn't matter if you're an unattractive guy. There's no meaning in running in a race if you have been disqualified before the race even began. You can still be settled for if you just want a long term relationship for children or whatever though so there…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 07:01 AM
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They basically don't socialize, they don't work hard, they don't self improve, they don't do anything with their lives but be passive towards life and take away the resource of others. So it's bad that they aren't wasting themselves in a rat race? I also don't know what you mean with taking resources of others. Like those people still do have jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:25 AM
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Oh shut up. You know very well both parties are equally responsible with consensual sex. Stop trying to make this into some weird sub and dom logic where only the dom person is responsible for some reason. Because by your own rules, if the woman was ontop and took the guy's penis inside her vagina by herself while the guy just 'let' her do it then all the responsibility should fall onto the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 05:27 AM
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Bro I love how they just keep throwing the same shitty arguments that you can just apply to the other gender
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 05:24 AM
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Cool for your dad. A lot of good people I know were used and kicked to a curb so that equalizes it I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:12 PM
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Oh no, how dare I not grind my life away for people who wouldn't look at my face when it came down to it? Also feeling very sad for the daughters you just made up in your mind rn 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:37 AM
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Yeah as I said, different communities of the red pill have different perspectives. That's like telling a protestant Christian that the catholic Christians are doing something different. Well duh. Most non autistic people don't refer to advice as 'pills' Walks into pill discussion sub Looks inside Pills 😱 I'm saying this isn't how attraction works. I said chasing friendships to turn into a relationship is a waste of time if you're unattractive, not that women aren't attracted to any men. I am con…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:03 AM
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The most simple and consistent stone of TRP is self improvement. What comes after that changes from person to person. That doesn't change the fact that self-improving yourself to increase your dating market value is inherently a Red Pill belief, not a Blue Pill one. Nope, because I'm a woman who's actually experienced attraction to men Okay..? I don't remember saying that women aren't attracted to any men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:03 AM
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No they aren't, that's just basic self improvement advice without all the abuse and manipulation Well that's one way to say that you don't know what Red Pill is. Also the 3rd point still stands whether you like it or not. A woman will likely categorize a man the first time they meet. If you're deemed unattractive from the start best you can reach is being a best friend (yay.)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:39 AM
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Your first two points ARE TRP. 3 is just a one way ticket to the friend zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:35 AM
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I see the things thread OP listed - positive masculinity, healthy friendships, allowing vulnerability, social skills - as intrinsically rewarding. In other words, if I was a man (and honestly, even as a woman), I would see those things as positive, regardless of any ideas about 'desirability'. No you wouldn't. This is just easier got you to say because you haven't had the experience yourself before.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:24 AM
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I'd say that's more so a black pill idea. Blue pill would be more like "Oh that's not true just take a shower and keep grinding until you hit the bucket"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:21 AM
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I'd say being a doormat in general
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:17 AM
3

I mean... From what I can see the usage rates are increasing by the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:02 PM
2

And?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 07:39 AM
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Sure yeah obviously I am not going to support trafficking. But most of the popularly watched stuff are from people either willingly working in that industry or even running their own stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:46 PM
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Yeah well the main thing with that is the woman also needs to desire you the same way that you desire the women in your stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:01 AM
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Most women do show interest in male bodies. It's just not towards most male bodies but like the top 1%. Actors, starts and that sorta stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:54 AM
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"Men have the same rights with what do with their pregnancies" is literally the same thing as "Gay people have the same rights to marry a woman"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:28 AM
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Yeah so if the women didn't want a child she shouldn't have had sex either 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:24 AM
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There are plenty of women who argue that their "romance" books aren't as bad as porn and are "literature" so they should be allowed to judge men for porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:21 AM
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Right? Literally the first comment I have seen is about how OP is apparently bothered that women watch porn or have bodily anatomy. It's clear as day to anyone with more than three braincells that OP is bothered by women judging men who attempt to have similar rights while not extending the same judgment to women. It's so obvious that they don't have a single argument against that which is why they are trying to twist OP's words.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:20 AM
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Hm.. That's interesting. You're saying you're blue pill but also have a conservative view. Those are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:18 AM
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My chest hurts but I don't know if it's my heart, lung, veins or delusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:06 AM
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It seems like you are approaching the whole thing wrong to me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:04 AM
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I love the ironic effort of trying to seem like a knowledgeable happy man while you appear just as desperate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:40 AM
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Nobody is punishing women. It's not as if they are owed the attention, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:22 AM
1

That's a very long way of saying you shouldn't have kids anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:44 AM
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Cool bro, good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 10:30 AM
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No, quite a lot of people are in marriages that are not constructed on love or whatever. Most marriages are done for convenience, culture/religion and stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 10:27 AM
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Stability, children, splitting household tasks etc. So basically what he brings rather than what he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 10:21 AM
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No one is saying women should settle for men that they aren't attracted to. Just that they shouldn't be lying about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:29 PM
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They often really love them for who they are: truly enjoy their company, understand them, support them, wish them to be happy and wish to make them happy - they just don't want to fuck them. So you would be happy with a husband who says that he finds you kinda ugly (or more than just kinda) but he still enjoys your company and personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 09:44 AM
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I might be a weirdo to like short hair then
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:18 AM
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I imagine that's on the 2nd element
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:54 AM
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Then what purpose does pursuing women who aren’t attracted serve? I just told you, it doesn't serve anything. That's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:10 AM
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Are you even reading your own comment? Unattractive men DON'T HAVE women attracted to them from the start. Mutual attraction isn't a thing for them. You can't approach people who are already attracted to you when you know that no one is attracted to you. This feels like a rich person just telling a homeless person to buy a house.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:00 AM
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You have it the other way around. Attractive toxic guys get rewarded for sexual advances, so they keep doing exactly that. Unattractive guys get punished for sexual or romantic advances, so over time they learn that it won't be worth the trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:46 AM
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For women, the bar is quite low when it comes to "perfect" men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:32 PM
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How did I miss this gem lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:59 AM
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And they are adults who can make their own choices. The fact that you don't like their choices doesn't make you entitled to what they do or decide for them if they are a victim. Stop infantilazing women. You're just being sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:05 AM
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Unfortunately guys also want to be with people who are attracted to them. Some might settle for less, but for those who don't, there's not much of a meaning in staying around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:02 AM
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I would argue the uncomfortable side of children using red pill speech isn't about the rep pill itself. Children just shouldn't have business talking about dating strategies at all. Like you're 12 years old bro, go play minecraft or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:34 AM
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I mean, I am a heterosexual male but the last time I felt attracted to a girl I know was probably in middle school lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:18 PM
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I am not even interested in a relationship lol. I am just really surprised by people who think they know what they are talking about while sounding extremely dumb. You don't need to believe me, go ask any women predominant sub whether or not a smile is a sign of flirting invite and see for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 12:52 PM
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A woman is free to choose to hang out with a bear over a stranger man because she can't know if he's safe or not, but a man is at fault if he decides not to approach women because he can't know if she's safe or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:13 AM
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Most women will also make it clear that smiling isn't an invite for flirting. Trying to sugar coat this is just not helping anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 11:12 AM
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Ah yes, because women respond to such posts with "Well that sucks" and not calling OP an entitled incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:51 AM
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Least sexist AITA thread. Wish I was saying that jokingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:42 AM
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Normally your replies aren't this disjointed and illogical You sure you've ever seen Lilith in this sub before?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:38 AM
0

Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 11:33 AM
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I was the exact opposite tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 09:20 AM
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Guess I am a woman now
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 05:23 PM
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A girl being alone doesn't mean she wants to be with me. That's like saying someone hungry should be willing to eat anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 04:33 PM
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I am not even looking for a relationship. Tbh it doesn't sound all too exciting to me at all. I just don't think most people can truly be attractive, mostly guys. They can make up for their flaws and find someone to settle for them but that's basically it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:41 AM
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Be yourself only applies if yourself is an attractive person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:19 AM
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Bro why you need to bash him? First time I have seen someone have beef with Stepher Hawking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 07:09 AM
1

You don't need to lock yourself in a room and spend your time in there. The only times when I felt desperate for relationships was when I lacked any friends. When I had close friends then relationships didn't even slip by my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 07:54 PM
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I don't wanna go into any sorta "You just gotta change the people around you" sorta things but my friend group never had any such discussions. Granted we were all virgins afaik but bringing up sexual stuff that often still would feel weird. I don't think it would ever happen. Your friends sound like they come from the 17th century.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 07:52 PM
1

Well that's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 07:42 PM
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I don't know what to tell you or what you think projecting is but if it'd going to satisfy you, no living your life being bitter isn't a healthy thing. That being said most guys aren't bitter about anything, they just learn a lesson and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:56 PM
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They give an answer like that because the way you ask the question highly suggests that you have a guy you rejected back in the day and now feel entitled to his attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:47 PM
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Because you are not accepting the answers you get. Multiple guys already gave you answers but you seem to dismiss them because the answer isn't just black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:33 PM
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Reading your comments, I would say so yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:28 PM
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Yikes. The comments are even more crazy. You really better see a therapist OP, the only one who seems to be holding grudges is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 09:50 AM
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Yeah? No one is obliged to interact with people they don't want to. It doesn't make them a weirdo or bitter just because they don't want to interact with someone who mistreated them in the past. It's true we all make mistakes in our pasts. And those mistakes are still our responsibility. We aren't owed forgiveness, and not being forgiven isn't the fault of whomever we wronged.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 09:47 AM
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You know what? Sure let's go with that. Though I do think we better give the same treatment to women when it comes to cat calling. Might be annoying for them but it's just words at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:47 AM
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I mean if a woman was just groped by a stranger in public is it rape anyways? Like she wasn't forced to get naked, she didn't suffer physical injuries, she isn't forcefully penetrated, she wasn't kidnapped or anything. Can you call that rape? Surely if a woman complains about that, she must be just attention seeking and whining. That's what you sound like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:17 AM
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I mean that's true. It's also true that you will need to go through a lot of effort and rejection that might put you in an even worse situation than before if you make that decision. The squeeze doesn't guarantee the juice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:03 AM
1

The ED
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:03 AM
1

What how?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:03 AM
1

Meh not the end of the world. One of them doesn't matter anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:50 AM
2

I don't know if I have low testosterone or whatever since I am kind of in a similar position. But what exactly is the downside to that again?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 05:40 AM
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The heck do you exactly want me to do here? Should I just go "Woah that sounds horrible. Sucks to be them!"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:06 PM
3

That's interesting because apparently the whole point of the question was "Men should understand why women feel that way and find a way to do something about it" but oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:00 PM
2

They were. The question asks about a stranger man. I am a stranger man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:53 PM
5

Yikes. Touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:21 AM
2

I don't know what to tell you but I won't sit and try to get validation from people who prefer to be with a wild bear more than me despite not knowing anything about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:19 AM
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I mean they are very commonly accepted things when women do them against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:17 AM
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The looks is what places you on a date or best friend sorta category after you do the "thing", whatever that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:56 AM
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Assuming there isn't anything physical going on, then I wouldn't even mind it tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:00 AM
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I would assume the point isn't the amount if sex anybody has but the amount of past partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:19 PM
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yea I don't like those either
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 11:12 AM
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So you do agree that women need to keep their legs crossed and take responsibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:10 AM
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Boohoo feel bad for me because taking accountability for my actions is so difficult and it's easier to blame men for shit I did to myself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:07 AM
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I am not the one saying those lol. I am fully on board with abortions. That's the argument you have been using against me. You're the conservative here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:06 AM
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And while the woman has her second opportunity, the man should have the option to leave with notice. Then she can make an educated decision on whether she wants to be a single parent. If not, she always has the option to just not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 05:55 AM
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You also can not force financial procedures on people for something they didn't consent to. How sad 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 05:53 AM
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I am not demanding equality lol. That's you. I am demanding a fair system, not an equal one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 05:34 AM
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Oh like a man opting out of pregnancies that they didn't want. Thanks for finally understanding my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 05:26 AM
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Nope, you said who's responsible of the kid's existence. The mother had full choice on that and proceeded. You silly bird.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 05:26 AM
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Got it, so the mother who gives the birth is responsible of the kid 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 05:24 AM
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Oh so you're against abortions, my bad bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 05:21 AM
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Sigh. Okay you know what? I just wanna ask, who decides that the parents are the ones who need to assume responsibility? You're just saying they assume responsibility because the child exists. But I can say that YOU need to assume responsibility as well. For every child who doesn't have a parent. Because they exist and they deserve love. So you better go and give it to them since that's their right. Or do you think the person needs to have blood relation? Who is responsible of a kid if both thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 05:20 AM
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It's scary how many people apparently think a man is the only one responsible of pregnancies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 05:15 AM
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Oh the good ol' conservative argument. Ahem ahem- If she didn't want to take the responsibility then she should have kept her legs closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 05:14 AM
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The person responsible from the child's existence then naturally would be responsible from the child's existence. Pregnancy requires two people. Birth doesn't. A woman who has the option of ending the birth should also claim the responsibility of the birth. Arguing that you should have the decision of whether the child exists or not but with no responsibility is just entitlement no matter how you look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 05:11 AM
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The child indeed has rights. And a woman who, despite having the option to abort along with the knowledge that the other person has no wish to be a parent, gives birth to the kid needs to assume the responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 05:06 AM
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Ah here we go, full circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 08:26 PM
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I did actually think about that before. I agree that most guys probably also don't think much about women who they find below avarage. But I do think guys are far less likely to fund a girl below avarage. I did test that out of curiosity once. I just watched some girls in my college campus while they were passing by and the worst thing I thought was probably "She's good" lol. Maybe I am just not picky. Or maybe my sample size is small. I wouldn't want to repeat that experience because it was alr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:55 PM
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Okay and?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:26 AM
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It's mostly brought up by men because it's them who are going through feelings of being unattractive. You wouldn't expect women to talk about guys that they find below avarage for some reason. It's much more likely the guy will talk about that since they have an experience of being below avarage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:42 PM
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I love how like 80% of men are apparently 25% of men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:39 PM
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it's a trap to lure you in
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:29 PM
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See what?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:18 AM
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I far prefer that to being around you thankfully
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:13 AM
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A bunch of progressives are surprisingly conservative if you take a step back.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:15 PM
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Not just basic, don't forget that we are also told that this is supposed to be an example of the good feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:12 PM
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Oh no, whatever will we do now?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:09 PM
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I literally took a look there and one of the current highest posts today is talking about how left wing men are also sexist trash because that watch porn. And this is the example you're giving to show the "good' side of feminism lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:08 PM
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You really should reconsider yourself then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:36 PM
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Because whenever I see someone listing over a bulky guy, it's not a woman but instead a gay guy. Though then again that goes for most male body types lol. It's a really small subset of men (usually celebrities) whom I have seen have women actually lusting after them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:25 PM
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You really don't know what's the avarage life for a dude is if you're shocked that a guy might have never had someone into them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:18 PM
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Doctor note on what? What the fuck is the doctor gonna do? Are they supposed to buy a wife from their closest pharmacy??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:16 AM
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And the ones who don't want to date..?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:13 AM
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Did you know that building muscles and then stopping work outs leads to an increased heart attack rate because your heart will be used to supporting a larger body? Yeah well, forcing every guy to build muscles in highschool would lead to a bunch of heart attacks once they graduate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:11 AM
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Cool and how about the dudes who don't want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 06:07 AM
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"just stop getting abused bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:06 PM
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I love how the replies to this comment alone are great examples why most men don't even bother anymore. One of the ones I remember is when a university canceled their event for Men's Mental Health day because a bunch of feminists in the town began a protest against it with the reasoning that it could take away from women's right movements. I don't remember the university name but it was on 2015, a day right after one of the male students there took his own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:54 AM
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No, I just think you really need to take a break from the internet. Are you feeling alright? I am not asking this in some degrading way. I am serious, are you doing okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:51 PM
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yikes dude
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:39 PM
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Hey, I guess I could talk about my problems even if I don't think they match up to OP's. Though my problems aren't even about dating or anything. The thought of interacting with a woman alone makes me uneasy. Again, I don't even have any interest in dating or sex. Nor would I classify myself as a misogynist. Nor do I put any of the blame on women. I simply don't want to bother them is all. I think it did get especially higher during the whole man vs bear debate. Since then the though of making s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 10:15 AM
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Jesus, dude. Like come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:59 PM
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Lesbian women generally complain about homophobia and being sexualized by men. As far as I could see. Of course also the hardship of finding a date, but most of them seem happier than straight women in relationships once they get into one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:51 PM
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Afaik lesbians struggle more to get relationships but are generally happier in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:47 PM
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