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| 1 | Do compare against the actual past or the imagined past?hahaha ok, ok, I'll answer. Yes, I would let my daughter date a convicted felon. In fact, I'd throw them a grand dinner and invite all my friends, including world renowned character actress Margo Martindale. I'd even let the man spend the night at our house cause the next day I'd take them all parasailing on my bajillion dollar yacht. Satisfied? Or you got any more absurd hypotheticals? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Do compare against the actual past or the imagined past?I was just about to say, what an extreme example 😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:53 AM |
| 6 | why won't women engage with men?"Women: our attraction works differently, we need to get to know the person and see their personality Also Women: I won't get to know anyone who isn't instantly physically attractive." hmm let's see....I'm trying to find the part where you specify that you're not talking about all women. Maybe it's in the first part. "Women: our attraction works differently, we need to get to know the person and see their personality"... hmm no, that can't be it because you say "our". That would imply a collecti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 12:01 AM |
| 6 | why won't women engage with men?I mean, you're the one who did the whole "women, also women" thing. If it's annoying, stop using quirky "X. Also X" meme-speak to lump a whole gender together to make a point and you'll stop having people point it out. If it's annoying, it sounds to me like you've been hit with that plenty of times, which tells me that you're just mad the world doesn't operate the way you want it to. You'll shift through pages and pages of data, polls, and information to make yourself feel like you're not crazy.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 11:55 PM |
| 3 | why won't women engage with men?I mean, I'm sure there are plenty of women who go solely for top tier men. How can we prove that those same women are the ones on social media claiming it's crap? What if the women claiming its crap are the ones who aren't going solely for top tier men? Like, if 80% of women go solely for top tier men, wouldn't that mean there are 20% of women who don't live up to that? That's 800 million women (there's 168.6 million total women in the US, for reference). 800 million women who are sick of hearin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 11:24 PM |
| 13 | why won't women engage with men?People want what they want? 🤷♂️ I also see a lot of happy women in healthy relationships. If you look hard enough, you'll find a little bit of everything. Shallow men, shallow women, humble men, humble women, etc etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 11:10 PM |
| 4 | why won't women engage with men?Yeah? What's your point? That there's seemingly a contridiction? What if I told you there are many different types of women and if you look, you'll find women who fit both those examples you provided? 😐 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 11:06 PM |
| 3 | Do compare against the actual past or the imagined past?Neither. The past is the past, so imo, it isn't relevant in the present moving forward into the future. I love my wife and I don't judge her for her past. It made her who she is today and any changes, big or small, could have resulted in her being someone different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 11:02 PM |
| 1 | How true is the myth that conservative women cheat less than their liberal counterparts ?I've only ever known two cheaters. A liberal from California and a conservative from Montana. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 09:30 PM |
| 7 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childCause I'd still know about it. I have a conscious 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 05:49 PM |
| 2 | “Love” will be considered a scam 150 years from nowHis response sounds like a normal response to the conversation. It seems to me like youre the one who took the response as hostile. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 05:44 PM |
| 6 | Unless you do a paternity test you can only ever be about 90% sure that you actually fathered a childI'm willing to take that 5% chance to prevent the 100% awkwardness that would follow when the baby is indeed mine and that the woman I married did in fact remain faithful as she promised after carrying and deliverying the baby she carried for nine months. You do you, buddy 🙂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 05:41 PM |
| 1 | The lack of shame is causing a destruction of the traditional dating structure and people have no idea how to move forwardhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=naleynXS7yo&pp=ygUVa2V5IGFuZCBwZWVsZSB0ZXh0aW5n | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 12:59 AM |
| 2 | The lack of shame is causing a destruction of the traditional dating structure and people have no idea how to move forwardMaybe that's the way you're interpreting the tone and if we were having this conversation in person, you wouldn't see it that way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 12:58 AM |
| 4 | The lack of shame is causing a destruction of the traditional dating structure and people have no idea how to move forwardI provided my experience and explained why I disagree with the post. Would it be better if I just agreed? Cause you're absolutely right, I agree with this post, I believe we should start shaming people for promiscuity and infidelity, it makes me very upset and this is very very bad. It's no good and I do not like it. I do not like it one bit, I do not like it when I sit. I do not like it when I see it at the bar, i do not like it here or far. Bring back shame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 12:45 AM |
| 5 | The lack of shame is causing a destruction of the traditional dating structure and people have no idea how to move forwardI mentioned it so that peeps know I'm not coming at it from a pro-promiscuous angle because I'm not promiscuous. I'm a simple man. No hook ups. No situationships. Marriage was my goal from day one. Just because she was my first gf doesn't mean I didn't date and have zero experience. I went on a lot of coffee dates that didn't become anything more. There was no chemistry, no spark, so we'd go separate ways after an afternoon chat. M wife was my first gf because we clicked and that's how the relat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/25 12:03 AM |
| 9 | The lack of shame is causing a destruction of the traditional dating structure and people have no idea how to move forwardI believe in staying in your lane. If you don't want to be promiscuous, don't be promiscuous. If you don't want to be with someone who was promiscuous, don't be with someone who was promiscuous. What others do has zero effect on me. I work. My wife works. I have my past. She has hers. It literally doesn't matter. We have a home. We have enough to eat. We are good. Shaming others for living their life is insanely obsessive, imo. Society isn't going to collapse. The government isn't going away bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Everyone is wrong about the reason for declining fertility rates.I use contraceptives....because of money, economics, inflation 😐 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Sexual double standard is irrationalI always felt that promiscuous women are shamed because subconsciously, men are upset that it wasn't them she slept with. Cause the logicial thing to do would be to just not be with them if them having past partners upsets the guy so much. A casual "oh ok". But no, "for the streets", jeers, sneers. Often times from men she was never gonna sleep with anyways. Thats why I find men pathetic (and I say this as a man). For such a "superior" gender, my kind have spent so much time and energy superfici… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 04:50 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most people are boring and things like hobbies doesn't matter when it comes to datingJust by saying "Most", this debate is over 😂 If anyone provides examples that negate the statement, OP can just say "there are exceptions". Like, how's anyone 'spose to provide a counter argument? 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 01:07 AM |
| 2 | (Traditional) marriage is outdated and should dieAs a married man with authentic love and passion, i think maybe you just need to find the right person instead of calling for society to shift. Perhaps you and some others are incompatible with traditional marriage 🤷♂️ But it doesn't mean authentic love and passion is incompatible with "till death do us part". Perhaps authentic love and passion is what makes one want to be together for life. If you do not know what that feels like, I'm sorry to hear that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 06:25 AM |
| 2 | The Provider Man Model No Longer Works in Modern Western Relationships. It's a scam.Its hard to have a constructive debate over a model that can be addressed with "then just don't" 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 08:50 PM |
| 10 | The Provider Man Model No Longer Works in Modern Western Relationships. It's a scam.Or you could like, save your money and not be a provider? Find a woman who will go 50/50? Like, I get that "many women still expect men to the be the provider". Ok? And I expect a mansion. Does that mean I'm gonna get one cause I expect it? No 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 06:58 PM |
| 5 | Womens behavior results in the spread of STDsOh, this is rage bait 1 hundo 😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 08:24 AM |
| – | Your survival rate during life-threatening emergencies or critical incidents directly correlates to the number of biological men on the scene.Buddy, who do you think popped those men out? We literally need women to exist. How is that for survivability? 😂😂 I believe women are the superior gender solely on the fact that whatever pros men have, it literally would be impossible without the woman who bore him. How is that for a pro skill? Once men aquire the ability to produce men without women, then we can talk, m'kay? Until then, consider all that heavy work payback for being carried for 9 month and being given literal life. Oh I'm sorry… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 12:45 AM |
| – | Generally speaking, women are more empathetic than men.I agree. My wife is taking business classes and a section on managers talked about a study that revealed that women are more emotional than men. But that included positive emotions like being more sympathetic, compassionate, and considerate than men. The only emotion that men outranked women in? Hold on to your seat cause its gonna blow your mind... Anger. The only emotion that men exhibited more than women was anger. 😂😂😂 So yeah, I agree, women in general are more empathetic. Women who aren't, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 06:47 PM |
| 3 | Generally speaking, women are more empathetic than men.Men also got a bigger ego 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 06:43 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women have no issue with the ''right;; objectification"women complain" "his reward will be women" "Women desire to be seen as the trophies" Lmao 😂 This is why I love this sub. It's like, life would be so much more boring without all this stuff that's posted on the internet 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 06:42 PM |
| – | Subtle misandry is rampant in feminism and it really does contribute to gender divide.As often as it comes up like any other relevant event in our lives? 🤷♂️ Often-ish? I guess? As for the example, you'd have to ask them. How would I know? I ain't them. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 06:38 PM |
| – | Subtle misandry is rampant in feminism and it really does contribute to gender divide.I'd be more inclined to take a post like this seriously if I ever met someone in the real world who felt or said these things. But as of now, any of the stuff I read in this post, I have only ever seen on tik tok, twitter, or the internet. As a man, I've yet to experience any misandry and I'd say my life has only benefitted from feminism. My wife makes more than I do, we just bought a property together, and our kid is doing great. I legitimately feel like I'm living the american dream. Not as lu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Most marital problems happen because men love their wives.As a married man, I read this and will have to say...nah 😂 Cause this reads like the both the most generic married couple (Man is the provider and leader of the household) and a very specific married couple (like this is talking about a very specific type of married couple where the man is stressed because he's catering to his wife). I love my wife. No marital problems here. The only way you can "nuh uh" me is to assume I'm lying, in which case, what's there to debate? 🤣 If anything I say will b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 06:20 PM |
| 1 | The primary consequence of toxic masculinity is crimeBecause men neeeeever used their physical strength to keep women down. Mhmmm 😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 07:54 AM |
| – | Saying the average man isn't struggling with dating is like saying the average woman doesn't get rapedMy congressman said they took note of what I said, so hopefully this injustice will be addressed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 07:49 AM |
| 1 | What kind of porn would make you uncomfartable knowing your partner is watching them?Porn featuring Grimace from McDonalds | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 06:28 AM |
| 6 | Generally speaking, women are bad at taking initiative.Generally speaking, men are bad at understanding women 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 09:43 PM |
| 1 | The promotion of gender wage parity should have been followed by a campaign to upend the importance of the primary male breadwinner roleI mean, my wife is a feminist. As gung-ho as they come. She takes pride in earning more than I do and we have a friendly competition of who can earn more. Life has been good because of it because we are greater than the sum of our parts. So either I'm a lucky duck and found a unicorn of a feminist (lmao just...no) or you're just focusing on the a select number of women who want to earn as much as men and still have a breadwinner man (the boogeywomen feminist of twitter oOoOoO, she gon put men in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 09:04 PM |
| 3 | Dating is 50% biology 50%social conditioning, and they mix together:I'm fully aware that anyone can claim to be a biologist on the internet with no way to prove it. That said, the lengths and back and forths of these responses are hilarious considering you are claiming to be a literal a biologist 😂 People were like: "The Internet will help society learn and grow! Society will become smarter!" And in practice, when encountering an expert, hit em with the ol' "NUH UH" 🤣 Like, I'm no biology expert. If youre claiming to be one, ay, I'll take your word for it. I ain… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Dating is 50% biology 50%social conditioning, and they mix together:No, dating is 35% biology, 26% social conditioning, 12% looks, 17% personality, and 10% humor. It's basic thuganomics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 08:51 PM |
| – | The problem with standardsMy only standard is, do she make me laugh? She do. I love my wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 04:46 PM |
| 6 | All long-term relationships require the man to do whatever the woman wantsGo ask him, idfk 😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 03:51 AM |
| 2 | Younger generations feel entitled to what their parents took for granted when it comes to relationships, much like buying a house, and they need to lower expectationsLmao yes, please project your misery and hope it manifests unto my family 🤣 Cmon, type another | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 03:51 AM |
| 13 | What's wrong with taking care of your kid?Considering how you talk shit about people, I don't believe you. Never met a happy person who felt such way about others. Screams "I'm toxic", ya know? 😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 03:49 AM |
| 14 | What's wrong with taking care of your kid?"I talk shit about single mothers and I will be a great dad." My brothers also talk shit about single moms and claim they'd be great fathers. They resemble my dad's behaviors and attitudes towards single mothers. He was not a great dad. He was emotionally abusive and emotionally immature. But I'm sure this is just a HUGE coincidence and you'd TOTALLY be a great dad. You rock, you. 😊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 01:49 AM |
| 52 | All long-term relationships require the man to do whatever the woman wantsMy relationship is 8 years currently. I'd say the shots called are 50/50. Sometimes we do what I want. Sometimes we do what she wants. She wanted feminine bathroom decour. I wanted a ninja turtles arcade machine in the living room. The only people who claim that my wife bosses me around are my brothers who have since cut ties with me due to not liking my wife. One of them speaks terribly about his own girlfriend (in the Boomer "I hate my wife, all she does is nag" kind of way) and the other refu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 01:44 AM |
| 7 | Q4M: Are you okay with your gf/wife watching porn?This 👆👆👆👆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 01:29 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: Are you okay with your gf/wife watching porn?"Got anymore dumb analogies." Oh, the irony of this guy calling someone else's analogies dumb 😂😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 01:28 AM |
| 29 | Q4M: Are you okay with your gf/wife watching porn?Porn is as real as professional wrestling 😂 Everything that goes on in porn is for the viewer. The angles, action, pacing, sounds, everything is calculated by the director for the viewer, not for the actor's pleasure or enjoyment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 01:27 AM |
| 2 | I sincerely believe that every average woman(6/10 and above)has the ability to become a millionaire by their 30s(in the west)"I dont understand how most women arent millionaires" That's not all you don't understand, seriously wtf is this post? 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Many in the manosphere believe women should not have the right to ever leave a relationshipIts the internet. If there's an extreme take, you'll almost definitely find a considerable amount of people who believe it. There's many who believe women should have the right to leave a relationship whenever they feel is right. It's just not as scary so it slips from our conscious. My recommendation would be to get off Twitter. Cause while ignoring it doesnt mean it isn't there, the internet definitely makes it seem more prevalent than one would encounter in real life. Do it for your mental he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Younger generations feel entitled to what their parents took for granted when it comes to relationships, much like buying a house, and they need to lower expectationsThat sucks 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 10:58 PM |
| 6 | Younger generations feel entitled to what their parents took for granted when it comes to relationships, much like buying a house, and they need to lower expectationsPeople always blame "society" when it comes to our socializing woes. I say, blame your parents. I have a kid and I've made a conscious effort for them NOT to be like I was growing up (anti-social, chronically online weirdo) and so far, they show good signs. They know how to crack jokes, confident ordering their own food, making/taking phone calls, etc. I encourage them to not be afraid and to embrace their awkwardness. That it's ok to feel overwhelmed and "socially anxious" but we make sure to t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 10:35 PM |
| 5 | So how do you build social skills from zero?I'd recommend therapy. Cause all my advice would be advice that worked for me. And if r/foreveralone is anything to go off on, the moment the advice doesn't work, there'd be temper tantrum posts about how "normies give useless advice, it doesn't actually work, waaah". So its like, if you have zero social skills as an adult, you either figure it out yourself or have a professional assist you. I'm just one man. I got a wife and kid. A full time job. How on earth would I ever be able to assist a 25… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Saying the average man isn't struggling with dating is like saying the average woman doesn't get rapedLet's band together as men to address this issue. One for all and all for one. 🙆♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 05:36 PM |
| -2 | Saying the average man isn't struggling with dating is like saying the average woman doesn't get rapedI hear you. I am going to call my congressman to propose a government program that pairs people up. If rape is bad enough to be punishable with prison, average men struggling to date should be assisted with the same intensity. Cause if struggling with rape isn't infinitely worse than struggling to date, then struggling to date for the average man must be much closer in terms of horribleness. We need funding on this asap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 07:52 AM |
| 7 | Saying the average man isn't struggling with dating is like saying the average woman doesn't get rapedOk? So men should band together and resolve an issue that affects men. When men start banding together the same way women band together, to combat this issue, DM me, k? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 07:18 AM |
| 4 | What kind of stalker is more disturbing, male or female stalkers?Stalking is stalking. With weapons, the danger is present, regardless of gender. Also, you didn't need to say you're not a woman, this post gave it away 100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 07:15 AM |
| – | Post Walls are causing men to be depressed by being unattractive. Seeing post walls lowers men’s testosterone levels, which in turn causes depression.As a man, I gotta say, stop expecting women to fix things for us. If women want to celebrate fat-positivity, that's their right. If it makes our testosterone drop, boo hoo? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 06:58 AM |
| 11 | Saying the average man isn't struggling with dating is like saying the average woman doesn't get rapedI mean, struggling with rape is infinitely worse than struggling to date soooooo....wtf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 06:56 AM |
| – | CMV: A romantic relationship between a very rich woman and a man with an average salary is not only unfeasible, but also un-natural.My wife makes more than I do so.... sure? 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 01:08 AM |
| 3 | Women who get abortions should be labelled as "deadbeat mothers".Yeaaaa.... I'm not gonna do that 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 01:04 AM |
| 4 | One of the main reasons why single men disdain single womenWhat I find hilarious about men who get butthurt that women don't acknowledge that women can easily find sex, is they are just projecting their own desire for sex onto women 🤣 Like, just because men want sex as badly as we do, they just assume it makes women just as happy therefore they can't complain. Idk, men on the internet just make me laugh all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 01:03 AM |
| 2 | There is a double standard with how society tolerates women talking about men's bodies vs how society tolerates men talking about women's bodiesUS a big place, my dude 😂 Our states are spread so far and apart, saying "I'm from the US" is like saying "I'm from Europe". We talkin' Italy, Spain, France? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 09:16 AM |
| 1 | I'm starting to think that finding a relationship is dependent only on your luckThe fact any of us exist at all is luck. The problem starts when one doesn't bother trying at all because it's all luck based. I don't believe in Winners and Losers. I believe its a spectrum. Like when I see american men complain that life is so unfair cause they can't get laid, its like, brother, you are living in a country where if you beg and make $2/hr, in 8 hours, you made more than a worker in some 3rd world country. Its all perspective and more people are luckier than they're willing to a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 11:05 PM |
| 1 | This subreddit seems to think women must choose between horny sociopaths and asexual men.This subreddit also gets posts with hundreds of comments as if someone is actually gonna read through each one. The point is, taking anything on this sub seriously is ridiculous in itself 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 07:46 PM |
| 4 | Women outpacing men in college education is good for men.And some men will find a reason to blame women anyway. Someway, somehow. Men on the internet legit make me laugh hard 😂 And I say this as a man. Like, come on, bro, it looks pathetic af. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 07:43 PM |
| 3 | There is a double standard with how society tolerates women talking about men's bodies vs how society tolerates men talking about women's bodiesIn my 30+ years of being alive as a man, I have never been around any of this. Like, I legit wonder where OP is from cause literally none of this sounds familiar or relevant to my society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 07:38 PM |
| 1 | The main problem with many modern men is their need for approval from womenI wouldn't say its a modern man problem, cause there's plenty of guys who hold modern male stereotype values that don't depend on women for validation. Same way as there are men who hold stereotypical traditional male values that seeth to the point of a tantrum that they can't get laid. Modern men, traditional men, any man can be suceptible to the pathetic and self-defeating desire for approval from women 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Modern feminism has caused damage to the healthy romantic dynamic between men and women.My romantic dynamic with my SO is fine, so I'll have to take your word for it 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Liberal/Progressive women do not actually want feminine men....or maybe you're incorrect and you can have sex, food, sleep and adulation and have morals? 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Men are not more honest when they lie to themselves.I believe all men and women are equal, therefore I believe men and women are both equally capable of being selfless and selfish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Many women want to be liberated feminists and trad conservatives at the same timeI can't take any post that says "many" or "most" in their titles 😂 I could say "most men do X, Y, Z" and base it off 1,000 men I saw on reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 11:33 PM |
| 6 | Most women do not "learn to be misandrist" from their fathers"My man literally made a statement using 'most' and literally only used Reddit conversations from one hyper specific subreddit to prove his point". Reddit in a nutshell lol I got flagged by a mod for "no contentless rhetoric" even though the majority of posts are just that; long essays with academic words that aren't actually saying anything meaningful other than looking for an argument/venting about their own experience and passing it off as factual, universal phenomenom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Liberal/Progressive women do not actually want feminine men.I haven't had to break my morals to find success, so... sure? 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 11:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV: it's wrong to track how often your wife denies you sexImo, no. But I personally wouldn't cause I find the idea of keeping track weird and funny 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Liberal/Progressive women do not actually want feminine men.I can't have sex, food, sleep and adulation and have morals? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 09:40 PM |
| 12 | Feminists are the biggest propagators of "toxic masculinity"I've never physically met a feminist who lived up to the boogeywoman version I see exist only online. But I was raised with "boys dont cry", "suck it up", and "be a man". In the flesh. In person. In real life. Toxic Masculinity: 1 Toxic Feminism: 0 That's my score card. Results will vary by individual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 05:26 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Men Should Stop Taking Social Advice from Women, Especially on Social MediaI think people should avoid taking social advice from social media in general 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 06:56 AM |
| 0 | Expecting the man to pay is abusing outdated gender normsOh shoot, I'm a criminal for paying for my dates, nooooo 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 04:59 AM |
| 3 | Expecting the man to pay is abusing outdated gender norms"Cultural abuse" Men can say no 🤣 If she walks and finds a man who is willing to pay, how is that her fault? If she wants to split the bill, she'll offer. And if no, then find a woman who will. And if you can't, what do you want anyone to do about it? Blame the men willing to pay for setting the norm, not the woman for accepting the offer. I paid for my dates because I believe the one who invites should pay. That's my belief. If it isn't yours, that's fine, don't offer to pay/agree before the da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 09:33 PM |
| 1 | I Don’t Consider A Spouse As A Member of My Family.I see the debate flair so here's my counterpoint. I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 10:50 PM |
| 1 | It's pure BS that some Feminists make it a big deal when it comes to men trying to interact with women less because of false allegations.I've never personally met anyone in real life who had to deal with anything mentioned in this post. I think you need to get off the internet, dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 10:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: love is a weapon of the patriarchyI think people say the darnest things 😅 It's Tik Tok. I'm sure there's someone out there who will argue that love is the greatest weapon AGAINST the patriarchy. Both takes have their base and both sides would argue until the very end. I know my wife love me. Whether it's biological or instilled, all I can do is communicate, be patient, and never take her for granted. Cause at the end of the day, even if she cant help it, I can still choose not to take advantage of it. I can still choose to be a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 04:26 PM |
| 2 | A relationship is most likely to be successfull in the long time if the man is older and uglier than the womanThe gap between my wife and I is a couple months. I find her attractive, she finds me attractive. 8 years, still going strong. That's all I can offer to the debate 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Would you date someone from the purple pill debate reddit ?Heeeeell nah 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Doing things for women makes them less attracted to you.Doing things for my girlfriend-now-wife for the past 8 years hasn't seemed to have any negative side effects 🤷♂️ So all I can say to this "debate" is "geez, that sucks, man". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 08:30 PM |
| – | Money & status is outdated advice in 2025"I wouln't go so far as to use one personal anecdote to indict an entire population of people." Never did. I am using one personal anecdote to say why I understand why SOME women want an educated man based on personal experience. Nothing more, nothing less. To each their own. If someone wants someone who didn't go to college, by all means. Both my wife and I are college graduates. That was my choice based on my experience. Nothing more, nothing less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 06:49 PM |
| – | Money & status is outdated advice in 2025Who said its about stuff happening outside my country? Local elections. Local propositions. Local issues. Plenty of stuff goes on in the community that I live in that has immediate impacts on my cost of living (taxes, regulations, ordinances, etc.). Conversations about the world can include history, contextualizing how other nations have approached similar issues. This is legit how it feels breaking things down for my brother who didn't go to college lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 05:42 PM |
| – | Money & status is outdated advice in 2025In my experience (prefacing with that because then people get butthurt as if I'm speaking for everyone), but in my experience, between my brothers and I, the one who didnt go to college tends to have surface level, conspiracy theory beliefs and cant hold a conversation. The one who did, even if we dont agree, can debate, philosophize and in general have deeper conversations about the world. Money is good, but I can see why some women want an educated man, even if it doesnt bring in more money, f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Dating for breakup is perfectly reasonable nowadaysYou forgot to say "most women" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Dating for breakup is perfectly reasonable nowadays"Most" 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 03:40 AM |
| 19 | Dating for breakup is perfectly reasonable nowadaysThe almighty "most" safety. As long as you say "most", you can make the most outlandish claim and when someone contradicts it "well, I didn't say all!" 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 03:40 AM |
| 6 | Dating for breakup is perfectly reasonable nowadaysAs a married man, I gotta disagree. Communication, boundaries, and shared life goals have been key to helping us grow as two souls. Its a team and there is no I in team. The problem with this post is that there's no way to debate it. What I see as compromise, you may see as settling. What I see as stubbornness, you may see as personal boundaries. I could say I'm happy, and you could say I'm in denial. All I can realistically say to this post is "if you say so". To debate it, you'd have to person… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/24 03:38 AM |
| 3 | Men Should Use a Filtering System for Commitment Like Women Do for SexI just chose the woman who made me laugh really hard cause she squished a bag of dog food to make the woman on the bag look like she had no nose. Some guy turned around and jokingly said "grocery shopping shouldnt be this much fun". My wife really do be my best friend. But yeah, if these mindsets work for people, more power to them 😀👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 11:47 PM |
| – | Men are so hypocritical when it comes to sex (or not having it)My hand was always enough to keep me from going cray cray. I wasnt aware this was a thing 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 11:43 PM |
| -2 | Expecting for men to pay for your first date sets a bad precedent for the relationshipIf i invite, I pay. If I can't pay, I don't invite. If I don't want to pay too much, coffee date (which is why it was always my suggested first date) I never felt the need to explain this to anyone cause I didn't care what women thought. I did my own thing and figured the right person would come along eventually. If i felt there was a genuine connection, follow up dinner date. If there was no spark, I could afford the $5-8 the coffee date cost. Easy, simple, stress-free. I'm married now, togethe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 06:45 PM |
| – | How Women Have Devalued the Role of Boyfriend in Modern DatingMy girlfriend (now-wife) treated me really nice and made me feel admired, loved, and valued so idk 🤷♂️ If yall say so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 05:28 AM |
| – | Feminists are only interested in the idea of choice when it comes to womenI personally know way too many deadbeat dads that left to agree with this post. And I'm a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 09:33 PM |
| 5 | Redpill or any other similar content is pure griftMe neither but judging some of the things entitled men haved complained about women and dating, it almost feels like they convinced themselves their love life should play out like a disney movie or Shrek. Like "just being nice" should be enough to have a happily ever after and not acknowledging they have an insufferable personality. Ironically, my now-wife got interested in me because i referenced Aladdin's A Whole New World 😂 Granted, she was initially trolling me cause I was "just another guy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 07:41 PM |
| 12 | Society can actually fix dating. And this can happen voluntarily and does not require violenceBut like, how would any of this even be implemented? 😂 "ideological propaganda concerning appearance" So like, are we forcing movies to cast certain people? How would you even go about it? Who is enforcing any of this? Society? Society already decides. Its called ticket sales. We choose every day what we want and propaganda has to actively be enforced for it to be propaganda. This whole post has the vibe of "I dont like the way things are and I'm gonna post a fantasy about a major shake up" caus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/24 07:14 PM |
| 4 | Has Mandatory Use of Dating Apps Changed the Game?Any form of technological advancement changes the game. The same way books were criticized because now people could just look up information instead having to remember things, technology has always brought in new winners and created new losers. Skill relevance comes and goes with the times. Masters of approaching in real life were suddenly competing with shy and quiet types. I met my wife on a dating app. As a socially awkward dork, who knows where I would be without that technological advanceme… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 08:03 PM |
| 6 | Cultural changes that might help the current gender issuesThis isn't a peer reviewed scholarly article. If a college professor wouldn't accept it as a source, i don't count it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 07:38 AM |
| 1 | There are too many paradoxes when it comes to how society expects men to act."men must have a certain level of friendliness towards women." Ixve never bothered to keep up with what society expects or what is "normalized". If someone touches me and I dont want that, I say stop. If someone asks me a personal question I don't want to answer, I tell them thats none of their business. If they react a negative way, thats their problem, not mine. I'm not living my life to appeal to society's standards. You can if you want, but that's your problem, not mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 07:16 PM |
| 0 | There are too many paradoxes when it comes to how society expects men to act.Like i said, you either get it or you don't 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 06:57 PM |
| – | Women generally prefer older men, but at the same time a man who's in his 30s and still single is seen as a red flag.I've heard a lot of men in their 30s say that they prefer dating younger women (anywhere from 3-10 years younger). I've also heard those same men say that an attractive woman who's been with a handful of guys in her 20s must have something wrong with her, otherwise she'd have a lower body count. So how do men reconcile those two contradictory opinions? Either younger women are highly desirable and in their prime, or they're red flags because they've been with a handful guys. You can't have it bo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 06:55 PM |
| -4 | There are too many paradoxes when it comes to how society expects men to act.For as long as this post is, my only retort is "you either get it or you don't" . I'm a scrawny, socially anxious nerd. I like retro video games and making youtube videos. I have never second guessed how I dress, speak, or behave. I try to be nice to everyone. I am far from being a traditionally masculine man. I enjoyed watching that one my little pony show from 2010, ffs 😂 My wife said she fell in love with me because of my genuine personality. That I was unlike any guy she had been with before… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 06:48 PM |
| – | No one owes you attraction, attention, or affection. If you want better outcomes, you must earn them. Period.OP kinda right. Like, I understand there is a rise in reported male lonliness but what are any of us realistically supposed to do? If even our own families can turn their backs on us, why would a stranger stop everything their doing because SchlongBong69 on Discord can't get a girlfriend? Like, idk, go outside, socialize, workout, work on your personality, get therapy, and if youre still lonely, what else can anyone do? The only thing left to do at that point is to force a woman to be with them.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Women have degrade young men and that’s why they are starting to date older"as well as talking to my own female friends" There it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Women have degrade young men and that’s why they are starting to date olderWhenever i see claims like this, it makes me laugh because the source is always "what ive seen on the internet" aka people they've never even met. Or just as ridiculous "I've met people who match [whatever the claim is]" as if our individual pools of known people could even begin to represent the 8 billion people on the planet. Who here has met and gotten to personally know at the very least 100 individual women? I dont even know 50 people, men and women, personally in general 😂 But it just goes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 12:42 AM |
| 2 | "Exploiting" Single Mothers or Post-Walls with Baby Rabies is the most effective and morally righteous option for quick sex.😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 09:21 PM |
| 1 | "Exploiting" Single Mothers or Post-Walls with Baby Rabies is the most effective and morally righteous option for quick sex.I'm good, dawgs. I'm just.... you do you... 😬 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 09:21 PM |
| 7 | "Exploiting" Single Mothers or Post-Walls with Baby Rabies is the most effective and morally righteous option for quick sex.Yikes... 😬 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Marriage is a substitute for love.You're right, there is no point in marriage but thats what makes the act that much more special. Were celebrated the fact that we are promising to each other the fact that we no longer have to deal with the anxiety and stress so many of yall post on reddit. Its not a tool to preserve a relationship. Its a capstone to celebrate that we found each other in a world that is full of heartbreak. Never say never, I know. Some guys hear my opinion and seeth "well just you wait until youre divorced", "50… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 07:29 PM |
| 14 | Online dating for men is really now not much worse than in person - you can be a desirable guy and still only match with hèffers"Out of desperation I liked them back" .... 😬 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Too many men destroy their own confidence. They’re too convinced that everything is against them, and it hurts their dating chances.Pass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 06:04 PM |
| 4 | Liberal/Progressive women do not actually want feminine men.Same for men. They say they want love and intimacy but their actions show they just wanted sex. Both men and women say a lot but do the opposite and likewise a lot of men and women go for what they say. The world is a rich tapestry. Anyone who wants to prove men and women act certain ways will have no shortage of evidence. Everyone is right and no one is wrong. It comes with having 8 billion people on the planet. Who among us personally know 100 people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Too many men destroy their own confidence. They’re too convinced that everything is against them, and it hurts their dating chances.I personally wouldnt retaliate against bullies cause words are just that. My own brothers have said some vulgar stuff against my wife because she had a kid before we met. And its like, ok? I'm happy so what does it matter what anyone else says to me? Thats just my own opinion for my own life tho. I aint saying anyone needs to brush it off, to each their own, but i also don't care to make them hurt cause odds are, something is already lacking so why pile on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Attraction May Lead People to Appear Funnier, Research ShowsYou mean I'm not actually funny...? ☹️ ...wait that means I'm attractive?? Yoooo, lets gooo 😁 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 11:55 PM |
| 2 | A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're averageI'm confused. I see the debate flair, but like, my only answer to this is "if thats what you like, more power to you" 🙂 Like, yeah, I would think the person who treats their SO like a king would be better than the one thats treats you average, promiscous or traditional. Unless one isnt into that, in which case, if thats what they're into, more power to them 🙂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 11:53 PM |
| – | Are women actually turned off by Men who have feeling for them?Well, when I asked my now-wife if she wanted to marry me, she said yes. So at least one woman didnt get turned off 🤷♂️ And I see other people announcing marriages too, so it seems like the answer is a no? Maybe? Depends on the individual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 10:38 PM |
| 11 | Too many men destroy their own confidence. They’re too convinced that everything is against them, and it hurts their dating chances.Dang. Real talk, how miserable must that person have been to yell that? Like, I get that bullies arent always "struggling at home". But also, happy people dont do that. Who goes home to a house full of love and acceptance, and then feels its fine yelling that to strangers? At the very least, its jealousy. At best, jealousy that they cant find unconditional love. At worst, jealousy for being poor. But regardless, damn, to feel THAT much jealousy? I genuinely feel more bad for the guy who yelled t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: What are you looking for in a partner?I was looking for a woman who was kind, hardworking, and compatible with me. And my wife is that. She is my best friend 🙂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 04:24 PM |
| – | More men need to encourage women to wear makeup up less.As a man, i don't care what others choose to put or not put on their face. I would feel like a weirdo caring that much 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 03:39 AM |
| 0 | Men need to work actively against women's rights for their issues to be take seriously.I won't say its not happening. I won't say you're incorrect. All I can say is.... ...I don't feel like my power is any less than my dad's. I got a job that i love. A marriage that I'm happy in. And we just bought a home. My life is currently going better than my dad's and even better than my grandpa's. Just my experience. If youre right, ooo wee, I'm a lucky boy 😊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 03:36 AM |
| 1 | There needs to be a movement of men that advocate for freedom for men in society."Great granddaddy, what was it like when the Men Movement started?" "Oh sonny, you wouldn't believe your eyes. Someone just posted on reddit that things should change. It was inspiring times" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 03:27 AM |
| 3 | Progressivism has failed men by treating them as scapegoats rather than partners in the pursuit of equalityI got downvoted cause people are salty that a stranger, that they will never meet, says their life is good under a system they dislike 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Progressivism has failed men by treating them as scapegoats rather than partners in the pursuit of equalityTo post for the sake of posting? Its reddit. Not like any of us are gonna interact in real life 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Progressivism has failed men by treating them as scapegoats rather than partners in the pursuit of equalityReread my message, buddy. I specifically said "Im not saying it isn't happening" because i knew that would be people's first response. If a black man hasn't had problems with police, and others have, it still doesnt negate the fact that HE hasnt had problems with police. The same way I personally havent had a problem with progressivism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 06:13 PM |
| – | Attractive man have lots of situationshipI'm an average man who got married 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 09:51 PM |
| -3 | Progressivism has failed men by treating them as scapegoats rather than partners in the pursuit of equalityAs a man (in my 30s), i have never felt left behind. Im not saying it isn't happening, but I went to school, learned my craft, got a job, met my now-wife who makes as much as I do (which I'll thank feminism for) , and we just bought a property. Life has been good and i can't say I've felt anything negative from Progressivism as a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 09:37 PM |
| 0 | women dont love the man, they love themselves throught their manNice impression. You even got the pathetic misogyny down, that's impressive 😄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 10:58 PM |
| 0 | women dont love the man, they love themselves throught their manOh shoot, is that you, brother? Are we ever gonna patch things up or are you just gonna stay distant? 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 09:58 PM |
| 7 | Being called "sweet", "nice" or "gentleman" means they are not attracted to youFrom the start | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 09:52 PM |
| – | Romantic movies and TV are worse culprits of dating struggles than dating appsI remember when Mortal Kombat was blamed for "making kids violent". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 07:50 PM |
| 2 | women dont love the man, they love themselves throught their man"man love things for the thing itself. they go to war and die for random stuff whatever it is. theyd die for their family, for their wife, for some random kid in some war crisis. they dont have to coat things in fashion or appearance to love them." Lmfao, my brothers wont talk to me cause I married someone who had a kid and have said some very, VERY messed up things about my wife. We've been together 8 years and my step daughter calls me dad. My life is better than ever. My brothers have since d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 07:45 PM |
| 46 | Being called "sweet", "nice" or "gentleman" means they are not attracted to youMy wife says I'm nice and she's attracted to me. People at work say I'm one of the nicest guys they've worked with, and no one at work is attracted to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 07:30 PM |
| -1 | Women should not have to threaten to break up to get her boyfriend/husband to care about what she says.People also shouldnt drive drunk but they do. All you can do is drive safe and not drink and drive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 12:42 AM |
| 1 | No one is obligated to stay celibate.I love how this thread is two people who will never meet each other debating the ethics and philosophical nature of marriage. 😂 How about, each of yall marry (or don't) people who align with what each y'all believe in. Bam. Problem solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 12:17 AM |
| 3 | No one is obligated to stay celibate.If you think its unfair, marry someone who agrees. Bam. Problem solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Feminists promote unhygienic behaviour to "stick it to men"I'm confused. Is OP being told not to shave or what? I read the post twice but I still feel like I'm missing something cause my only reaction to this post is "ok?", but i swear with a post this long, it must be me who is not understanding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Men becoming even better, as women suggest, won't solve muchThen don't improve. Bam. Your problem is solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 12:02 AM |
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