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| – | What is Your Opinion of Myron Gaines, aka Amrou Fudl?Lol if that's true, that's peak hypocricy. The fans of those types of podcasts often claim they hate OF women and guys "simping" for them and all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 07:59 AM |
| – | What is Your Opinion of Myron Gaines, aka Amrou Fudl?I'd watch immediately. I never understood everybody's obsession with labeling basically everything, putting people in a box. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 07:52 AM |
| – | If you want your moral character to matter in dating, you have to also care about character in others."So why not just become a bitchy gold digger as they seem the happiest." Because you're better than that, even if the world at large doesn't see it. Even if it doesn't get you a relationship. Even if it doesn't make you rich. You're staying true to yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 07:19 AM |
| – | The core of our problems might be a matter of TrustWhat in the Stockholm Syndrome type of mentality is this? Never be grateful to your abusers. NEVER. You can be grateful yes for what the universe does provide for you. But never to your abuser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 04:39 AM |
| – | A lot of guys think they should be adored simply because they are not abusers, then wonder why women (and men) dont like them.Since you clearly do not like long replies and it's no use to make any effort here, I'll keep this extremely short. "This is not normal" If that is your reply to behavior another person displays that you don't like, I would examine that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 03:28 AM |
| – | Most of the women who have difficulties dating are just low value as sexual partners.Have you heard of the term "pump and dump"? You must have, since you're red pill, and that is where the term originates from. They do that no problem. They don't even care if the woman would be a good match or not. They've simply decided to screw women over any chance they have. To only get sex from them and leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/26 03:15 AM |
| – | the birth rate topic is sillyHas it ever occured to anyone that the declining birth rates are a necessary thing? That it is highlighting that something is very fundamentally wrong with the way we have been living for so long? And that drastic change is needed? But no, many people love to just blame one another instead of asking the uncomfortable questions. Or make birthing seem like it is something that is owed to society and men by women. It is not. Even if women would be begged to have babies, it won't change a thing in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 11:50 AM |
| – | A lot of guys think they should be adored simply because they are not abusers, then wonder why women (and men) dont like them.If they "recoil like they're under threat" that means they have been through serious abuse and it is an automatic response, a survival mechanism. It is not personal. And some men see 'being kind' as an entirely different thing than true kindness. I am not saying you do, but I have had plenty of experiences where men believed themselves to be 'kind' when they were anything but. Where that so-called kindness was the exact type of threat - or the trap leading into it - I spent my entire life avoidi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 11:35 AM |
| – | There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test.People replying to me here are constantly seeming to be under the impression that I ever stated it shouldn't be discussed beforehand. But I literally said I agreed with that... I can see why it could feel as a punch to the gut. I may not fully understand, you're right, but I have more than enough empathy to put myself in the shoes of someone else. But it is that same empathy that makes me wish women would also try to look at it from men's perspective. A man using it as an exuse to hurt their par… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 10:33 AM |
| – | There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test.I never said it was wrong, I simply said I don't understand the big deal about it personally. I do think it's wrong, however, to then label those men a certain way just because they want certainty. I don't personally see wanting that certainty as something unreasonable. I agree that women don't have certainty with a partner cheating either, but they do wish to know if it's happening. And plenty of women are actually very quick to be uncertain about it. Does that make them a bad person? Or overly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 10:09 AM |
| – | There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test.Well okay, that's your own choice. And OPs choice too. But that doesn't make them bad, lunatic or delusional people. It's not your choice at all that's bothering me. You do you. But it's how quick you both are to label those men a certain way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 09:55 AM |
| – | A lot of guys think they should be adored simply because they are not abusers, then wonder why women (and men) dont like them.Nobody is perfect and I never claimed to be. Far from it, actually. But I speak my truth for those who resonate with it. And while I am learning to step out of the savior blueprint, I guess part of me still tends to advice things in the hope it might ignite something within. But even if I advice something, it is then up to the person reading whether to put any importance on that advice or not. I try to look at both sides as best as I possibly can but as a woman, I of course tend to understand th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 09:10 AM |
| 5 | There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test.Read my first reply again, I agreed with you that it was best to communicate beforehand. I also just used the word 'precaution' to give examples of how women want men to understand us. You are getting worked up and it is almost 4 am for me so I'll leave the conversation here. Believe it or not, I didn't mean to upset you. Just sharing my own personal thoughts on this topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 01:43 AM |
| -1 | There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test.It seems more effective to just ask "Are you cheating on me?" but okay, yes, that would indeed seem like an accusation. That's not the exact same though. The men that ask for a paternity test aren't necessarily accusing the woman of cheating. Wanting peace of mind is not the same as accusing someone of cheating. Are men not allowed to have any type of anxiety? Are they not allowed to be insecure in any way? Because that would be ridiculous. I'm not saying there aren't men who do accuse the woman… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 01:37 AM |
| 1 | There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test.I don't agree with you at all. If someone is that against it, that's fishy, I'm sorry. And the man is only legally responsible if the child is actually his. And in this day and age, I really can't blame them for wanting certainty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 01:23 AM |
| 9 | There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test.You can't blame men for being uncertain about it when they read or hear about it happening regularly. We want men to learn to understand why we are wary of them. Why women take all of the precautions they do. But then won't extend the same courtesy with just giving them some peace of mind regarding this? I don't do double standards. Btw, and if she is? If she was unfaithful and the child isn't his? Doesn't the man have the right to know? In that case, the woman is a " bad and dishonest" person, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 01:14 AM |
| -2 | A lot of guys think they should be adored simply because they are not abusers, then wonder why women (and men) dont like them.Because we don't know who of you are those bad men! That's what you don't seem to understand. Or maybe don't want to understand. If we cross paths with the wrong man, it could very quickly turn very harmful or fatal for us. Someone in a video I saw recently said it perfectly. Why are we as humans afraid of sharks and avoid them if we see them? Even if out of 10 sharks, only one might actually attack. We still avoid all of them and are scared of them in general because of the risk. Or to give a m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 01:03 AM |
| 7 | There is no excuse for a man to wait until after a woman is pregnant to tell her that he wants a paternity test.Speaking to any woman reading this: I've personally never understood why a paternity test is such a big issue to some women. Sure, I have no children myself and am not planning on having any. But... I just don't get the problem about it. If we women want men to understand our problems, then we should attempt to understand theirs in turn too. Nobody can deny that there are unfortunately many cases in which a father finds out years down the road that who they believed to be their children actually… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 12:28 AM |
| 9 | It is biologically optimal for men to die before their partner reaches menopause... what O.o' Well, good thing we're very far from just biological beings then. Though, I wonder what an actual biologist would think of this take of yours. Something tells me that even they wouldn't agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/26 12:04 AM |
| – | Most of the women who have difficulties dating are just low value as sexual partners.She's amazing. Only discovered her very recently but WOW what an impact those songs have. It's like she's channeling the collective trauma of women throughout history in her songs and turning it cathartic. It's incredible. She's very gifted. That 'Good boy' one for men is very telling too but of course most men just see that as her humiliating men rather than the true message in it. I read that other message you left here on OP's post too. And relate to it a lot. I fear I'm not as far as you are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/26 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Most of the women who have difficulties dating are just low value as sexual partners.I never said that YOU specifically said anything about sex. Geeze. But I suggest you read OP's message again - it's basically the topic of this entire thread. I was simply pointing out a probable underlying reason what makes it so that those women "fail" in your eyes. And good. I am all for men going their own way and focusing on themselves. That's the first step to healing. I also didn't say the word "hate" anywhere. Not caring about how men see us doesn't mean we actually hate men. We (those w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/26 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Most of the women who have difficulties dating are just low value as sexual partners.Okay, fair enough. But on that second point, it's unclear whether you are talking about the men or the women here. A healthy active lifestyle is good to have for both men and women, but I don't see how this relates to the topic of sex... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/26 10:27 PM |
| 12 | Most of the women who have difficulties dating are just low value as sexual partners.You may not have that opinion, and that's good, but plenty of men do (have both. their words say one thing but their actions speak otherwise) and shame them for it. So you need to take into account that women have to deal with that double edged sword bs if you want to come anywhere close to truly understanding women. I have the right to answer if I want to. I'm on this sub mostly to stand up for women in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/26 10:25 PM |
| 62 | Most of the women who have difficulties dating are just low value as sexual partners.You know, it always astounds me how men complain that modern women have too high of a body count, that they've become "too easy" and promiscuous and what not. While at the same time also complaining then when a woman is hesitant and doesn't want to immediately have sex with a guy, that she wants to get to know him first before taking such a huge step..., That she's then seen as "sex negative". And oh, I personally am very "sex negative". Not ashamed of it either. I'm not talking about me here, I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/26 09:55 PM |
| 6 | Most of the women who have difficulties dating are just low value as sexual partners.Born with cheat codes? You're delusional. A lot of women aren't interested in just sex. A lot of men are interested in only sex. It's not a fail if a woman says no thank you to that. Nothing "low value" about that. Maybe in men's perspective. But a lot of us are increasingly not caring at all how men view us anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/26 09:33 PM |
| 13 | Most of the women who have difficulties dating are just low value as sexual partners.What are YOU discussing for then. That those uninterested women should become interested? Even if sex repulses them? Never happening. I agree with the person that said to just go to sex workers then. If they pay for it, they can have all the sex they want. Problem solved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/26 09:29 PM |
| 1 | I didn't realize how bad double standards are til I had to call the cops.This! It's true that abuse happens more to women by men than vice versa BUT that still doesn't make it in any way okay for a woman to abuse a man! Even if he is physically stronger than her because the man basically can't retaliate because then he's supposedly in the wrong. No matter the context! One of my brothers, although physically strong, is dealing with a crazy woman right now. She attacked him multiple times already. Physically. And he once nearly hit her back because he's getting so tire… | /r/MensRights | 28/07/26 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Why is relationship a womans job?"Inherent" to those who haven't broken through all of that conditioning yet perhaps. More and more people will keep breaking out of it though. I truly hope you and others like you will get there one day too. Its great to just see people for who they are rather than what they can do for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Why is relationship a womans job?It shouldn't be transactional and rational. It's only that way because you and others like you that think that way make it like that. People should learn to truly love themselves first, then they wouldn't be needing anything "transactional" from someone else.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 12:39 PM |
| 7 | What do you think about this quote from Bell Hooks?A lot harder, but not impossible. I managed to do it. And it's not easy, I'm never going to say it is, it took me until half a year ago to finally accept and love myself. I'm 35. But that black hole that I felt throughout my life? Gone now. And sadly, no one else can do that for you. You have to do that yourself. The thing with people in this position is that they so strongly believe that if they had a romantic partner, someone who truly cared about them, it would fix everything. That they would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 11:58 AM |
| 5 | What do you think about this quote from Bell Hooks?THIS! I used to absolutely HATE myself, believed I was fundamentally defect and broken because I couldn't fulfil my "duty" as a woman (I had a lot of internalized misogyny unfortunately, now I know there's no such duty and feel embarrassed I ever even believed that -_-' ) and because I couldn't function normally within society, not made for this world etc. I had a very traumatic childhood and serious hardships kept happening throughout my early adulthood as well. I was diagnosed with an entire s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 11:41 AM |
| 4 | What do you think about this quote from Bell Hooks?Used to be true, yes and still is the reality for many women, unfortunately. Oh and not just birth and raising, but being the source of men's pleasure. Which I personally hate even more. When I walk on the street, I don't want to be looked at as a potential sex doll. The thought of sex repulses me. Personal feelings aside, these men don't seem to understand that what happened to women throughout history - and still happens to a large portion to this day - has consequences for everyone today. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 09:10 AM |
| 1 | male or neutral-targeted media criticized harder than female-targeted mediaSo? Kishimoto was well aware of how some girls would be interpreting that. Sasunaru was widely known as one of the favorite ships in the fandom. So yes, it is gay-coded fanservice, doesn't matter if it was canon or not. He was trying to appeal to that audience. "as canon proof" please read what I said again. It's you that doesn't seem to understand what I'm trying to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 05:37 PM |
| 2 | male or neutral-targeted media criticized harder than female-targeted mediaTell that to Kishimoto who made promo images for a movie that had both of them wearing a necklace of one another... Here, if you don't believe it: https://i.pinimg.com/736x/03/09/29/030929abc665db85822b8d8ab0fbab03.jpg Also, when you literally have a moment where they kiss in one of the first mangas - doesn't matter if it was accidental - you can't blame shippers for doing what they tend to do; ship. Kishimoto knew very well what he was doing by doing all of that. Anyway, there's nothing wrong w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 03:57 PM |
| 2 | male or neutral-targeted media criticized harder than female-targeted mediaI actually tried to read 50 shades of grey back then when it came out. I have no idea how that even managed to become a thing. The writing style was atrocious. Couldn't even get past the first few chapters. And as a fanfiction reader since I was 13, there are many fanfictions that are a million times better than that. I know that it started out as a fanfiction - which is honestly what made me curious enough to attempt reading it, but damn, I've rarely read anything worse than that. Also, it pain… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 03:45 PM |
| 1 | male or neutral-targeted media criticized harder than female-targeted mediaOh boy... you really think female slash fanfiction doesn't exist at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 03:39 PM |
| -1 | male or neutral-targeted media criticized harder than female-targeted mediaI'm an SA survivor, and YES, it is coping. And have you actually even read a story like that? I've never read dark romance fiction. But I've read fanfictions with non-con elements which is probably basically the same thing. You really think it's an entire book where a person gets SAd constantly? There's an actual story to it. With fanfiction, there is the tag 'PWP' which stands for 'porn without plot' but I am never interested in that. I need a story to go along with it. Emotions. Most of the ti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 03:33 PM |
| 1 | male or neutral-targeted media criticized harder than female-targeted mediaThis. I have read non con fanfiction in the past because it was somehow cathartic for me. However, it had to have one very important component. The perpetrator had to be getting destroyed inwardly by guilt afterwards. Even if the protagonist somehow forgave him eventually, I needed the bastard to feel an ever consuming guilt that kept tearing him apart. Until the end of his days. And I also couldn't actually read it with a woman involved. I related mentally and emotionally with the victim, but c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 03:29 PM |
| 3 | male or neutral-targeted media criticized harder than female-targeted mediaLol, Naruto had a lot of fanservice for Sasuke x Naruto fans. And it's one of the OG shonen mangas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many women end up choosing the guy who was simply more present?How would YOU know what he has demonstrated to her? How would YOU know what goes on in his mind? How would YOU know that's the primary goal of ALL men?! There are actually decent men out there you know. Who don't look at that woman and just see someone to get into bed! Who don't go around overanalyzing her choices like this. jfc... is everything about sex for men like you?! Is that all there is to life for you people?! And then you start to wonder why more and more women are saying no to dealing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 03:09 PM |
| 7 | Most men give their attention so freely to women that it doesn't mean anything to them anymore.I think there is something a lot of you really do not get. If you are just being nice and respectful to a woman in order to GAIN something from her, that's never going to work. Especially not if you are not physically attractive. And I am saying this as a physically unattractive woman myself. Very attractive guys may get away with it, you're right about that and honestly, I don't understand it either. I don't care what someone looks like, if they treat me like a potential sex doll, f the hell of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 02:59 PM |
| – | What do you think of declining birthrates?That's the problem Those women can do abortion too though so what's even the point of them raping those poor women? Just a few minutes of gratification? For that, those types of men destroy women's lives... this is why they disgust me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Even men think men are the problemExcept they forget that even if that were miraculously going to happen, we would never just take that lying down. Any man that dares to cage a former free woman, will never have any peace of mind again. You force her to cook for you? Well, better make sure you stayed by her side the entire time of it or she might have spit in your food or worse. Men were able to do their power fantasy throughout history because the women didn't know any better and felt like they had to pretend to want to please … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 05:16 PM |
| – | Women should not have friends (man, woman, child, or animal).I'm so sorry that you are aware of it. As someone with a dog I love and care about very much, and who cares a lot about the well being of animals in general, it was sickening to have to discover that this type of belief even exists. Of course, unfortunately sick fs exist who do that - both men and women - but it is seen as disgusting, illegal and inhumane by society at large for a reason. To have seen that group of men talk about it like it's a natural default for women in general was honestly h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 10:40 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.Clear communication is important on both sides, I agree with that. And I do understand that a man might change his mind too after sex but depending on the woman that really does suck. Not all women like to give their bodies away just like that. Nothing wrong with those who do, everybody makes their own choices, but I personally would not be able to do it. And while the man may not have deliberately tried to deceive the woman, she will perceive it that way. It does not make him a liar but at the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 10:22 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.Then simply say that sex is the only thing you are interested in. Make that clear beforehand. It really isn't that hard. Then those women that still want to have sex after knowing the truth can't complain about it afterwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 08:58 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.You can't blame women for jumping to that when that is what a lot of them experience. You should have made it clear then that you are talking about the men that aren't lying. I tell myself nothing because I don't date at all. But I will say that one of the reasons I have never even attempted dating before is because I was afraid that a man would lie to me just to get my virginity and then leave me a broken mess. Because once upon a time I did actually still long for a relationship. Not anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 08:43 AM |
| – | Women should not have friends (man, woman, child, or animal).Not to sound mean in any way at all ... if you're not in therapy yet, I would consider it. Or to at least have someone to talk to about this. I'm stuck between wondering if you are just a troll or if you genuinely need help. And again, that's not being mean. I've been in therapy myself for numerous things. And while therapy isn't the solution for everything, it really helps to have a different perspective on things. A good therapist doesn't tell you what to do or feel, they do offer a non-judgem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 08:23 AM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.Well, if the man gets her to have sex with him under false pretenses. That he really likes her, that something more can grow out of it etc, then yes, she has been used if sex was the only thing he ever wanted from her. There is a whole 'pump and dump' thing men have. I've seen enough red pill channels talk about it. It's already been a thing since over a decade ago. They make a game out of it, because many of them aren't upfront about it at all. There would be no problem whatsoever if they were … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 08:15 AM |
| 1 | If you dont like women, don’t date them.They wouldn't have a dating app. If they really do, then I agree that it's not truly being what they claim to be and then I wonder if they are simply trying to make themselves seem more interesting... Either way, they'd STILL be seeking validation from men that way. At least, if they are still listed as looking for a man on there. They can do whatever the hell they want of course, but then the whole "4B" thing becomesx pretty much pointless. I don't call myself 4B personally. Why should everythi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 08:07 AM |
| 1 | If you dont like women, don’t date them.How we act differently? We don't care about getting validation from men. And in my personal case, if anyone is showing any type of sexual interest, Or try to guise that interest up with saying things like "You seem like a nice girl" I tell them flat out that I'm still a virgin and plan to keep it that way for the rest of my life. I'm not interested in sex or a relationship so if that is what that man is looking for, he's talking to the wrong person. Some men understand that, are appreciative of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 07:52 AM |
| 2 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsWell a lot of us "uggos" aren't interested at all either, so... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 11:17 PM |
| – | Women should not have friends (man, woman, child, or animal)."Explain it in words please" You don't want that, trust me. I'll just say this, on the incel forum (yes, I used to study inels behavior, old silly naive me felt too much compassion for them and wanted to understand why they are the way they are) they have this sub section of the blackpill called 'dogpill' and it's too disgusting for words. Could be one of their most insane takes, although they have a lot of insane takes, not going to lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 11:10 PM |
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