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AnyHead/r/askMRP24/10/19 05:50 PM
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Red Pill TheoryAnyHead/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 10:04 PM
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You mentioned the affair was a source of external validation you weren’t getting at home. Did this motivation come up at all in your discussion with your wife about it?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/23 07:53 PM
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But… she was the one who told her friend about all the stuff you were doing… If she was trying to discredit you, why wouldn’t she just… not supply that info?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/21 12:56 AM
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This was very well done. Good work getting to where you are now. You make great points about covert contracts, and the need to find where else in your life they exist outside relationships.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/21 11:50 PM
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Why not keep taking the dread “from 3 to 11” with the direct route? If she asks those divorce questions then fog/flip whatever comes. At least then you’ll have a small chance or finding out what the real issues are. Personally, I’d probably go with something like, “huh, now that you mention it... there ARE some really hot girls there!” And walk away.
/r/askMRP07/05/21 02:42 AM
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Here for the lifts discussion. 192lbs with working sets of 215 on squat?
/r/askMRP08/11/20 11:47 PM
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I know divorce is an option here ... and the others are?
/r/askMRP28/10/20 08:22 PM
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Is this all a joke?
/r/askMRP16/10/20 08:03 PM
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be entirely irresistible to women be a man worth emulating for my son a force to be reckoned with by future boyfriends of my daughter You haven't even begun to unfuck yourself until you root out the thing these all have in common.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/20 03:06 PM
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You say you were “at dread level 10” with your wife, but also “couldn’t break away from my beta past.” How exactly does that work?
/r/askMRP07/06/20 09:53 PM
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Gotta admit, I was basically just skimming this and assuming it was like any other “how to finally get serious about life” post, until this part: “...maybe you’re not meant for success, that maybe your genes or other things outside of your control are the reasons you can’t change.” While the “genes” part likely alludes to self-doubt around genetic potential for muscle growth, height, bone structure, etc. often lamented in blackpill type communities. But on a broader level, this line of thinking …
/r/TheRedPill25/05/20 02:41 AM
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You’ve been married for less than a year? And just recently moved in together and quit being “long distance”? The scene you describe sounds like trying to work out expectations with a new roommate, versus dialogue with a spouse. You sound to be giving her a ton of benefit of the doubt about her emotional reactions being circumstantial, when it seems you don’t exactly have a long history with her. Your examples of “alpha game” and all speak toward stoicism on some level, but I’d caution conflatin…
/r/askMRP11/05/20 04:19 AM
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NT firing drives the species to achieve the goal of survival, without anybody having to think twice about it. "Love feels good, so chase it" leverages the mechanism to completely eliminate the need for something like: it is imperative for humans to eugenically create the most fit and healthy offspring
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 06:38 PM
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And yet, if you were to mention that it exists due to the pragmatism of our survival, you would be seen as a weirdo. Pretty sure you highlighted life's work-around with one of your earlier lines: love in of itself is just the manifestation of neurotransmitters firing so that copulation and the rearing of children can take place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 06:03 PM
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I listened to the audio book of MMSLP... I need to actually read the book ​ MMSLP is really sticking with me, but I am reading not listening to it. Within the same comment. Not sure if you are just a habitual liar or honestly confused, but either way - you should work on that.
/r/askMRP01/04/20 07:51 PM
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I’d be curious about the other attributes you mentioned, if you’d be willing to share. I think OP is driving at the more objective stuff you find on female dating profiles that “screen out” guys well before reaching any kind of subjective attributes your ex listed, which can only come about after starting a relationship. My point is, no guy is out there saying, “my ex thought I was rich,” or “my ex said I was over 6 feet tall,” as selling points to address a list of demands on Tinder. It’s binar…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 01:55 AM
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Is flying this girl out across the country the same as “commitment” in your mind? Couldn’t help but notice the lack of words like “LTR” or “Marry” in your nostalgic reminiscing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 02:24 AM
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This divorce case number? You mean that silly little thing? Plenty big of a deal for me. I’d be asking where to sign and making sure she filled out all the fields correctly, since she’s prone to typos.
/r/askMRP07/03/20 02:16 AM
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It is also very “struggle”-dependent. If a guy has a lot otherwise going for him, some women may stick around through a job loss, health issues, money problems, substance abuse, etc. But mental health? Suicidal thoughts? Generalized anxiety? From what I’ve seen, that kind of support is much more limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 01:50 PM
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Going back to the 80’s, the annual magazine issue highlighting the “sexiest man alive” has featured a man with an average age of 40. It’s obviously tough to get such a proxy for women, but wouldn’t “peak SMV” probably hover somewhere around SI Swimsuit, VS fashion show, breakout celebrities/athletes/musician types? If so, hard to find many 40 year olds in those groups, unless they’re included purely for the novelty of them being an exception (Christie Brinkley, Tyra Banks, Halle Berry, J. Lo., e…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 07:17 PM
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I just want to talk to him and hear his voice, and have him forgive me for being so stupid... "The only thing I want is to be absolved of all blame and suffer zero consequences. Is that too much to ask?!"
/r/MGTOW07/01/20 08:05 PM
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“you’ve taken it as a personal slight against you, even though she did this to try and make you happy.” Eh... that’s pretty generous. If she knows as much as he told us (“I am very frugal and this goes against what I stand for in multiple ways”) then it reads much closer to some kind of cry for help or shit test
/r/askMRP14/12/19 03:52 PM
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How old is your LTR? What is your/her career trajectory? I'm curious about her biological clock and where you are both at with your education, career, finances, etc. If she's younger than you, there's no need to rush regardless of what she's "made clear," especially if one of you is in grad school, deep in student debt, a candidate for job relocation, or something else like that. My personal answers (expect a wide range of responses) would be: The latter for me. I "did the right thing" after kno…
/r/askMRP13/12/19 04:07 PM
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I guess I'm old fashioned because I don't consider watching a girl on a webcam to be anywhere close to the same experience I would get with a lap dance. Obviously the former channel is way more attractive to the "suppliers" (for the safety, capital, labor, etc. considerations mentioned) but damn... I guess we as the "demanders" are being less and less demanding.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/19 03:30 PM
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Sure, I definitely get your point. Tone and expressions obviously doesn't come across via posting like this, (and you have no reason to take my word for it and instead assume that I obliviously convey butthurt-edness) but my response is that of sarcastic humor that gets a giggle out of her. It's clear for a split second she's thinking, "oh! yeah... that was kinda silly of me." Meanwhile I'm already out the door or whatever. It's not any kind of hangup for me. I'm just interested in talking about…
/r/askMRP25/10/19 02:05 PM
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Thanks for this, looking at this stuff with female solipsism in mind helps me piece a lot of these concepts together.
/r/askMRP24/10/19 09:08 PM
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Her favorite: “it’s your decision” which is almost like her giving me permission to make the decision. Oh for sure. "I'll let you pick." And your standard reply is great, sounds like you've had success on the nonverbal front.
/r/askMRP24/10/19 06:41 PM
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Appreciate the response. I could definitely be overanalyzing here. But to reiterate - I just recently began noticing it, and that's likely because I've been in the weeds of sidebar material which is designed to draw newbies' attention to this kind of stuff. Not some kind of long-running issue for me. And I appreciate the AA example, which is an extended version of what I've been doing. But I'm wondering how putting even more effort into my AA is a way to stop caring "too fucking much" about "jus…
/r/askMRP24/10/19 06:34 PM
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Thanks for this. You're right, each instance is it's own thing to be addressed. Letting them accumulate makes it more likely that the eventual encounter comes across (through my tone and body language, for instance) as me lashing out from my own insecurities, not as me focusing on a distinct issue. As I reflect, that's exactly what happened here.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/19 06:56 PM
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OYS #2 Age 28, married 5 years, together 6. Wife is 34. We have a 4 year old son. 5'9" 150 @ 17% (BIA scale) Maybe I'm just too new to the process and need to spend more time reading the posts and responses, but I'm confused about what types of content best fit this thread (is that validation seeking?) and what will/won't get me banned. For instance, I'll see posts about "just get started! find your morpheus!" or others lamenting the lack of regular participants. My instinct tells me that contex…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/19 12:10 AM
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I appreciate the insight here. You're right, I've probably deferred too much to the stigma around mental health issues to this point. I always just STFU in the past when my wife gave me shit over it, so now I've adopted the strategy of not disclosing any of it to anyone and just figuring out what I need to do on my own, but with only myself to consult with, I frequently wonder if I'm using meds as a crutch. Your perspective about anchoring it to a more objective data point (impairment at work) h…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/19 03:30 PM
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Thank you for the response. My intent was to wrap up each section with a plan to move forward, but I realize that all of these weren't clear or strong. I'll categorize this first one as the brain dump method and be more explicit about my agenda in future posts in order to make myself accountable. For now, I spent some time since you asked this to formulate a couple answers for the most immediately actionable items: Eat at or slightly below maintenance until BF% (BIA scale) falls below 15%. Shoul…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/19 03:20 PM
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Stop thinking you're an exception. Bite the bullet, and make something happen with your short life. This is spot on. We will rationalize why K.I.S.S. "doesn't apply" to "this situation" if we let ourselves go there. 99% of the time, it actually does. And the other 1% of the time will still benefit from it for a while. because girls date down, and then the girls will get hotter. Girls actually date across and up. So the girls will get hotter, but it's because you've gotten even higher
/r/TheRedPill16/10/19 02:58 PM
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OYS #1 Been lurking for over 12 months, got a ton of value out of MRP until my attitude would shift toward divorce and MGTOW, and back and forth over the months. Realized that either way, internalizing "the stay plan is the go plan" involves committing to the process. This is my fresh start, and here's my first go 'round with OYS. Stats: 28 years old, married 5 years. She's 34. We have a 4 year old son. 5'9" 150lb, 17% BF Readings: NMMNG and WISNIFG and all of jacktenofhearts posts, which I find…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/19 05:30 PM
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Recently read Matthew Crawford's "Shop Class as Soulcraft." I think the UK version was called something like, "The Case for Working With Your Hands." Author was a dude who worked in a Washington DC think tank until getting tired of all the bullshit and leaving to open a motorcycle repair shop. Highly recommend. Beyond the psychological benefits and personal growth that comes from manual work, he gets into how educational systems pivoting to set children up for the "knowledge economy" has only ma…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 09:08 PM
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Oh, absolutely. Just a startling transition from OP's "my employees come to me for insight" to "another thing I saw in a message" lol
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/18 03:16 PM
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Good observations, but are you seriously spying on your employees' personal messages?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/18 02:48 PM
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