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I am so sorry this happened to you, it is totally understandable if you decide not to date ever again after something like that but I must say it would be a shame if a nice person could be a good partner to you but you push them away because of this really bad experience. That means this woman robbed you of your future happiness (assuming you do want a relationship in the future). How did you meet this woman? Was your relationship always like this or did things start to go downhill at some point…
/r/MensRights17/10/21 10:06 AM
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Where is he acting obsessed with young girls exactly? Also, I ain't snooping at all. I support men's rights and find the different pills interesting, I don't attempt to hide that so what am I even posing as. I am just saying you should maybe watch his videos before you judge him, it isn't a big ask.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/21 01:01 PM
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Also the two women are paid subscribers, they obviously have their subscription lists private. Alexander is not a dangerous person to talk to so I get your worries but you are mistaken.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/21 06:19 AM
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Alexander is lovely and he is just talking about his personal experience to show other men that people sometimes go for people who aren't a good fit for them and he harbors no resentment to "Julia". I am not sure why it has been taken the wrong way and also you shouldn't be posting the other 2 women on his Patreon like this. Respect their privacy.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/21 06:02 AM
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Women here! I think all pills have a bit of truth an utility to them so I wouldn't say I am red pill per say. I think that many men will argue that it is blue pill to get the woman's perspective on dating and attraction as women do not self-report accurately, lack self-awareness and more prone to virtual signalling to look like a good person (not my thoughts although there is debate among the accuracy of self-reporting). They will probably tell you to not ask the fish how it is caught but to ask…
/r/ExRedPill08/09/21 02:39 PM
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Wow that is quite the citation. The researchers must have put a lot of effort into that research paper lol. But seriously, with gold diggers, the fact they are called that should really tell you that it isn't normal behaviour because if all women viewed men as ATMs then there would be no use for the insult "golddigger".
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 08:15 PM
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Yeah I totally see men as walking ATM's, sometimes when I can't be bothered walking to an ATM I stop random men in the street, tell them to close their eyes and open their mouths, then I slot my bank card right in there. For some reason I can't seem to see my bank balance or withdraw money... USELESS! Nah but in all seriousness, no, women do not see men that way, there might be the rare woman who does but I know some men who do that to women too, however I would say it is more common in women, m…
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 08:07 PM
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Yeah, that helps, thank you for sharing, I am sorry you didn't feel welcome in whatever country it was. It must have been a lot. Hope things are much better for ya now!
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/21 12:15 PM
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Wow, that sounds like it makes for an interesting story! What do you mean downhill if you don't mind sharing? I know a few people with similar experiences tbh
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/21 11:09 AM
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Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability, I was thinking the same thing, I don't believe lots of guys go out with the mentality of hurting women for the sake of it. He most likely feels freaked out things are going too fast. Like one of you guys would have to move country to be together and that is a lot of pressure. If you move to his he will feel the need to entertain you as you have nothing in that country, no family or friends, it could lead to resentment. If he moves to your country he …
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/21 10:55 AM
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I totally agree with this, I don't think they should have any choice in abortion (as sad as the topic is) but they should have the right to renounce fatherhood. I totally agree with that and think it is awful that some men are jailed for not being able to pay child benefits!
/r/MensRights28/08/21 09:51 AM
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Signed and shared on Facebook
/r/MensRights22/08/21 01:11 PM
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Yeah exactly, plus he hadn't finished his 3 months at the start meaning he could be let go at the end of the 3 months if they see him as a "troublemaker". It is very sad indeed. But the staff all supported him at least and we had his back.
/r/MensRights21/08/21 12:44 PM
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That poor man, hope he is doing okay, I am so happy he won his case. Something similar happened in the Tesco I worked in a few years ago where a male colleague and female colleague were at the fridges and he was 5 minutes late back from his break because he was at the toilet and she attacked him in front of the customers and another female colleague actually pulled her off him because the guy felt he couldn't fight back. She didn't get fired, just a warning and they were supposed to keep them se…
/r/MensRights21/08/21 01:17 AM
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Also yes in value I meant overall, not SMV. It will be a bit more difficult to find a partner being a sex worker. I agree with the advice, if a man isn't into it, cut your losses, don't lie, you will only feel guilty and carry it with you. There will be men out there who don't mind, they will just be a minority.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/21 12:00 PM
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Tbh her question was a little complicated as her question was on if she could be red-pill and in the sex industry to which I agreed she can. I get lots of men (especially red pill men) are not into women who are sex workers as it can lower SMV. So I guess it depends on if she is wanting to attract someone who is specifically red pill. I get what you are saying though, I guess what I am saying could be bad advice in terms of dating, you are right.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/21 11:55 AM
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This is so wholesome! I love it, there will always be someone who will love and appreciate you even if you find it hard. You are not less valuable because you do sex work and don't let anyone tell you that you are not!
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/21 11:21 AM
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Anyone can be red pill, don't let anyone else gatekeep the red pill and tell you otherwise. I understand that must be very hard wherever you are to find a job and sometimes it requires desperate measures but even then you can still be sex-positive and be red pill even if you loved doing sex work. If your philosophy aligns with the red pill then you can be part of the red pill if that is what you want.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/21 11:19 AM
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Well black and white is an appearance. Scottish and English is about countries you identify with and someone who was born in England but moved to Scotland and spent their whole life in Scotland can identify as Scottish.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:37 PM
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Well she is in Scotland, my partner was born in England but lives in Scotland and identifies as half Scottish/half English.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 11:30 PM
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Haha I see, I do like those kinds of books, I am a sucker for self-improvement
/r/ExRedPill15/08/21 07:31 PM
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I might look into that, I love freedom but it is annoying that it doesn't work on Apple devices... not that I use Apple products but I can't recommend it to Apple users because apparently, apple made it so that certain apps don't work.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/21 06:36 PM
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I know it is a good book though. I have heard it has lots of copies sold.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/21 06:25 PM
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Is that a red pill detox book?
/r/ExRedPill15/08/21 06:22 PM
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Also I am somewhere in the middle pill wise. I think the truth is complex and there ìs not just one solid truth
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:09 PM
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-17. I would say I am a moderate left-winger.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:52 PM
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Maybe once I take up yoga and some sports I will be very fit and a extra flexible 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:35 PM
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There are many reasons but I would say they were linked tbh. I noticed I became less neurotic the more comfortable I was expressing my sexual needs. I was not very sexual for a bit because of depression. There are many ways I changed it. I got into kink and asked my partner to dom me and suddenly I felt chilled after that. I also communicate my needs much better (sexual and non sexual) as I have become more secure and assertive. I had a whole mindset shift. I became a cuckquean and submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:34 PM
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1998, you are safe
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:07 PM
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That is fair enough, ahh fight club... red-pilling men since whatever year it came out haha 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:55 PM
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Yeah what would you mean by bad at sex? Like I am not the most fit so I am not good in taking over but I am enthusiastic, kinky, open, submissive and decent flexibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:46 PM
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What brought you to the purple pill stuff when you have a lady and child?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:43 PM
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Thank you! You too my friend ✌
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:40 PM
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Yeah I do, it is a pretty fair assessment tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:28 PM
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Right next to me! I am near Stirling! Yeah what a small world!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:04 PM
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Oh I also used to be quite neurotic and not very sexual but that changed too. In the past my brain would exaggerate scenarios and cause me misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:02 PM
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I agree, making taxes higher is not a good idea! Ah another Scottish girl, I feel less alone? I am central, where are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:59 PM
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I can forget to communicate where I am going a lot. I can be too much of a chatterbox. I chew loudly with my mouth open and apparently I make weird noises when I eat. I like the man to be desisive and it stresses me out if he refuses to make decisions. I am too invested in helping my family (my mum, dad and siblings). When I am upset I go silent (not silent treatment though, that is abusive, I just go silent when I am overwhelmed) I overeat and have a bit of weight. I am not very fit either. I s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:56 PM
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What country are you in? I am Scottish, noticed you mentioned you voted Tory. Why if you don't mind me asking? No judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:46 PM
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I wish I could do a detox but I have duties that require certain apps. What kind of phone do you have? If you have android you can use an app called freedom that you can use to block certain apps at specific times. You need to pay for it but it is well worth it!
/r/ExRedPill15/08/21 12:40 PM
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Me and a couple of other folk are making a place where men and anyone can go for mental health. It isn't quite red or black pill but it is a place to vent safely and be vulnerable without judgement. It is caller r/anotherway
/r/MensRights15/08/21 09:59 AM
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What inappropriate conversation was that?
/r/MensRights15/08/21 09:58 AM
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I feel like the fixation on looks is part of the problem.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 12:04 AM
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It is so sad, we need to do better! You are so right! Time to start making some positive changes!
/r/ExRedPill13/08/21 11:19 PM
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I've been with my man for 8 years (since I was 14) and I am happy with my choice. It is completely up to you, if you want to discover yourself and have some freedom then do what you want! Enjoy life.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/21 09:16 PM
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Female, 22. Category 4. I would day I have a strong distate for casual sex, I am just not enticed by it but I have been in one ltr for 8 years and I get sex regularly so maybe if I was desperate... who knows. If other people are into casual sex then that is totally cool, just not my cuppa.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:07 PM
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Fair enough, so is this your first run in with the red pill? Through reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:25 PM
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Nice! What is the God pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:24 PM
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She is a psycho and should be locked behind bars to protect the public, she is obviously too dangerous to be out. Beast. I wonder if the laws will ever change?
/r/MensRights11/08/21 09:23 PM
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What would she even be charged for? That is so awful!
/r/MensRights11/08/21 09:07 PM
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So are you treated better now that you lost weight? So do you feel you treat prettier people better too or not all? Or do you think the halo effect is present but you try to think critically and move past it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 09:07 PM
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Yeah you are the only woman ENTJ, so why are you on the subreddit? What has your pill journey been like?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 08:44 PM
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Oh my God that poor man, 4 years isn't enough for that disgusting woman... if you can even call her that. I hope he gets justice!
/r/MensRights11/08/21 07:52 PM
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But yeah there are a lot of INFP's here!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 07:47 PM
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Will do, thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 07:46 PM
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Awesome! Did you get inspiration from anyone? What sparked your change?
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/21 07:45 PM
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I get that, there is definitely pretty privilege out there. So what was your journey to the black pill like? Did you go to red then black or straight from blue to black or something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 07:20 PM
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That is amazing, where can I get fashion tips from you, I need a new wardrobe too, I am too plain!
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/21 07:00 PM
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Awesome! Why do you choose the black pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:50 PM
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Maybe I should find out if there is a way to test for that! Why do you feel being an INTP correlates with virginity?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:37 PM
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That is an interesting idea, that is exactly what I will do and I will comment here with the results!
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 06:33 PM
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What is is like being an S over an N. I am like so close to the middle of I-E F-T and J-P but I am 80/20 N-S so I don't really understand what it is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:18 PM
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Wow that is beautiful, so you are quite happy then, when did you find the red pill and what was it like? I only discovered it 3 or 4 years ago on YouTube. Do you think your optimistic attitude helps with dating and stuff? I love your internal locus of control, it is very admirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 06:17 PM
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Thank you for supporting it. I think I usually get type 4 wing 3 or 5 depending on the test.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 06:13 PM
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Yeah I wonder but at the same time I think it might be red pill related. I wonder. I suppose reddit probably does attract introverted people as it is online though. I feel enneagram changes everything I take the test but at least my myers briggs stays the exact same every time.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 06:12 PM
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One of the only two ES types I have had out of almost 100 folk. So tell me a breakdown of your personality and why you went from blue to red pill! Very fascinating. You are a very rare personality in this sub reddit!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:48 PM
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INFJ-A
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:46 PM
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You are not only my first ESTJ but my first ESxx in general. You are quite an outlier here so I want to know what your personality is like. Do you know much about mbti? If so can you tell me why you are ESTJ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 04:20 PM
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I edited my post a while back and it deleted chunks of text, not sure why that happened to a few of my posts on Reddit. Apologies, hopefully, it is showing up now and the text doesn't disappear.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 04:03 PM
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I asked people a few days ago on a reddit post. For some reason when I edited this current post it deleted lots of my paragraphs explaining that and I don't know how to add it all back. Very interesting, you are the first ESTJ, what pill are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:57 PM
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Why would you say that is your pill if you don't mind me asking. Think I am like a smack bang in the middle purple haha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:23 PM
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Is that more of an enneagram result?
/r/MensRights11/08/21 03:21 PM
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I would do but last time I edited it, the post was frozen by the mods, think they must have some weird security feature. What pill are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:21 PM
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Links to what?
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 03:20 PM
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I get that, I was just having a bit of fun, noticed me and my red pill/mra friends are similar myers briggs personalities so thought I'd ask other folks and it appears there is a common type. I get mostly INxx's. Very fascinating. I am also INFJ!
/r/MensRights11/08/21 03:16 PM
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I edited it but it hasn't been removed has it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:13 PM
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What do you mean? I was just doing this for fun, just wondering if anyone can speculate and come up with their own theories from the results.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 02:50 PM
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Interesting, are you red pill then, judging by your name? Why are you reluctantly red?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:48 PM
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What do you mean by n-count? Notch count?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:46 PM
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Hey, I am an introvert too, I just thought that the purple pill/red pill attracts more introverted folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:45 PM
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I will add you to the new edit! Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:31 PM
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How do you think INTP's could learn to balance Ti-Fe?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:23 PM
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Haha I know lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:22 PM
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Thank you for the resources! I am not looking at differences between men and women, I only added that as a little bit of extra data. I was looking at the rough personality type of people who are attracted to this sub-editor. I should have clarified that.
/r/MensRights11/08/21 01:58 PM
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Very interesting! Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 01:56 PM
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Yeah I definitely think you are right in that environment and circumstances can affect personality. Maybe that is what the results suggest. Yeah and I did 3 of these myers briggs things and not a single person in any of them were in the last category or ESxx's.
/r/MensRights11/08/21 01:46 PM
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Charming
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 01:43 PM
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How come?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 01:12 PM
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I wasn't surprised but the reason I decided to do the bit of fun research was because I went down the red pill rabbit hole and I ended up on sigma male videos and then lots of men were commenting they were infj/intp/intj so I thought... hmm interesting so many red pill men have similar personal test results.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 01:11 PM
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Yeah it is really cool! The rarest personalities are all here!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 01:06 PM
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Ah I see, that is rare having friends introducing you to the red pill l. Were these in real life or online friends? I am so sorry about your family and for you, you sound like you've had it really hard. How old are you? I don't know exactly how I found it but I think it was maybe a mix of my rebellious anti-feminist phase and my hustle culture phase. I was stuck in a miserable low paying job and wanted to do social media marketing and eventually somehow I ended up on Entrepreneurs in cars (Richa…
/r/ExRedPill10/08/21 08:46 PM
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I am really sorry that happened to you, it doesn't sound like the most common way to be red pilled. So how exactly did you come across it, were you looking up certain content? How are you doing now with your mum and dad? I have found a few really great therapy YouTubers who I could recommend that help people with bad parents. I am also sorry to hear about the friend situation, what happened with them if you don't mind me asking? Also what is the situation with your parents?
/r/ExRedPill10/08/21 07:24 PM
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So for you it was more of a mix of looking for good dating advice and nofap linking you to the red pill? Was the nofap content mostly about porn addiction, or trying to attract a girl? Thank you for your honestly. It is interesting how a lot of us ended up here in the redpill.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/21 07:21 PM
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Interesting, did you date them both for a while?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:02 PM
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Awesome, INFJ-A like me!
/r/ExRedPill10/08/21 12:08 PM
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If he is red pilled then he is maybe cynical with women or has been used before to pay for womens meals, he could just be being cautious. How do you feel the relationship is progressing. Has he ever surprised you or done anything thoughtful even if it doesn't require money?
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/21 12:01 AM
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I think it is complicated. Me and my man split all bills 50/50 but when we moved out at 18 and split those bills he refused to clean and was so messy, it was like I was looking after him. I told him to clean and he would do a tiny bit and that was it. So because he wouldn't do it I thought I'd ask him to make up for his lack of cleaning/cooking/grocery shopping and dealing with things (like phoning up council tax and energy bills as he doesn't do phone calls) by paying for meals out and takeaway…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 11:56 PM
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I liked some of her content years ago, I think she was a bit of a gateway for me too. I think she is a decent person but I don't know much about her.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/21 10:33 PM
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His daughter is the same age as me and oh my God my heart breaks for her, such a toxic environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 09:48 PM
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I wrote on the post it was just a bit of fun...
/r/MensRights09/08/21 08:19 PM
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Wait you became more dark red pill when women gave you attention, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 01:18 AM
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Interesting! What do you mean by pink exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 09:37 PM
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I see your point but I think you are forgetting that you are a man and I am a woman and our minds are different. I do notice that with men for instance when they watch porn they get more into it and they become more narrow like you say but I don't feel that happens to me. I enjoy a quickie that is vanilla most of the time and sometimes I enjoy something more elaborate. I don't find my kinks doing any of the things you think they would do. I don't view it as an upgrade, if it was an upgrade the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 09:36 PM
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Yes, it is exactly that, like I am a cuckquean so I don't mind my man sleeping around if he is honest and makes it fun for me but the fact this guy thinks it is okay to cheat and lie and that it is impossible for men to cheat sexually is outrageous and violates the unspoken agreement of exclusivity that most relationships have by default. I think he is guilty and trying to not take responsibility for his bad behavior. The sad thing is that some women out there will probably accept that from him.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 09:24 PM
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I am bisexual but also a cuckquean, I prefer to just watch women so my kink does kinda fall into voyeurism but I do enjoy the humiliation aspect of it too. I am also open to polyamory although my man said he isn't into the idea of having other girlfriends which I get but he knows that if he changes his mind that I am open to a conversation and I am chill about it. Yeah, gender issues are interesting, I wish there were men's studies, it would be very interesting, I don't really know what they tea…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 09:10 PM
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So how did you come across the red pill online then? Was your experience abroad causing you to google things? Obviously, because the purple pill is somewhere between the blue and red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 09:06 PM
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Holy shi* that is shocking, yeah anyone would have ptsd from such an experience, what country did this happen in? I think you should find a better lawyer and I hope you ex suffers, I hate girls like her, does she actually know what happened to you because of her disgusting actions!? I am so angry! If you were my son I would kick that girls as$!
/r/MensRights08/08/21 09:03 PM
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Is that what you study, why are you so interested in it? (I find it fascinating too) Yeah, I am bisexual so that makes sense, I think resentment could come about if the person who isn't getting sex with someone else in the one-sided monogamy deal feels taken advantage of. I don't really know how this all came about, I always feared being cheated on and I think it could be a weird coping strategy however, I feel really secure after opening up about it with my man. I personally think swinging does…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 08:44 PM
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Isn't MGTOW meant to be red pill though? I think there are a few red pill teachings that teach hatred to women. Although, that isn't the purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 08:39 PM
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I wonder why it is different for men and women, is it because women are pickier so men who can get women must be "high value"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 08:37 PM
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Why does that suck?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 08:36 PM
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Also what age would you say the insecurity started to go away at?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 08:21 PM
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Haha so have you changed to the second camp, I had a friend that told me that was his mindset too, I thought it was brilliant! So is it an experience that stops you from being insecure then? But then people who don't get experience become more insecure, it is a tough one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 08:21 PM
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I find hotwifing very interesting, I have the opposite with my man as I am a cuckquean (new to it) and it is harder to get women involved in these things, especially when you live rural but I think it is the same thing for me as it makes the sexual experience more intense, like you need to claim your man back and the competition feels great!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 08:18 PM
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Twins!
/r/MensRights08/08/21 08:15 PM
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Fair enough, I mean if no strings attached is your cup of tea then you do your thing, have fun. I like a long-term intimate relationship, you reach depths you never thought you would, it is lovely but that is just my experience. I get that commitment is risky for men so no wonder they hesitate or refuse to commit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 08:15 PM
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Wow this is a very detailed answer, thank you! I definitely agree with what you have said. It is hard to figure out what is nature vs nurture with these things. I wonder where society will go with technology. Also, the thing about not putting all eggs in one basket does make sense too. I wonder if our ancestors were envious and felt pride if a woman had sex with another man. I wonder what the most animalistic versions of us would be like at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 08:00 PM
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Oh yeah, that is true, I have many male friends/family members I have wanted to shake some sense into when their brain goes to putty over a beautiful woman haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 07:55 PM
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An interesting perspective, I wonder why that is, is it because men offer resources as a show of investment whereas women offer sex and loyalty to show investment?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 07:54 PM
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I love the humour, I can see why people like you tbh. I wasn't around on reddit at those times but why was it so strict? I feel that is sad, what about yourself? I know men who have went on to develop ED with that mindset so I would be wary but maybe there are a lot more factors, sex should be a gift for you! What kind of sex do you do then, I am wondering what separates you from someone who is worried about not being able to impress a woman in bed. I am interested in being a sex therapist in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 07:52 PM
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Thank you for the lovely comment, I think that is very wholesome, we should treat each other how we would want someone to treat our future children.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 07:47 PM
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Definitely but I wouldn't tar all men with the same brush, he obviously sees sex as transactional which is very strange for a guy who thinks he is "alpha".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 07:45 PM
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Yeah, it was all over youtube, folk on youtube were making videos about it! It was quite a scandal and a half.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 07:37 PM
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Weird question but can you give me an example on how you would do that because I don't know if I really do that? I mean I am a bit rusty on the S vs N part of the MBTI, I will need to probably do a bit more research on it! Nah don't worry about it my friend!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 07:36 PM
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Yeah, that is exactly what I am saying, so overall, both genders are potentially polyamorous. But some red pill men would say that the afbb theory is true but then say women shouldn't be polyamorous or promiscuous. It is like... pick one camp and stick with it. They talk about these women as if they are biologically defective yet say biology and evolution makes women have a dual mating strategy but that it is unattractive to men. So they will argue that women should reject biological instincts t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 07:34 PM
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Yeah, that man sure is something, I don't know if it is true but apparently, a woman on Instagram messaged him to be on the podcast and he was basically saying he would only let her if she slept with him. Obviously, people can ask for what they want and say no but obviously it is a bit strange to only allow women who would sleep with you onto your podcast... it is almost as if that would attract one category of woman... hmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 07:28 PM
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Good for you, so how did you actually get to the point you stumbled on the red pill online? Also very interesting about the sex stuff, a lot guys (I think) are socialised to believe that sex is a performance and put a lot of their self worth into how to please women. What is your mindset on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:52 PM
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So you would say you are satisfied in your academic/job life? Also 5'10" is really good, my man is 5'9" and he feels so tall to me and I am 5'4" so I don't think height is a big problem. Have you ever considered you might have body dysmorphia? Have you always felt unattractive? Why do you fear rejection, does it feel that bad to you? I get it can be upsetting but if you never try then you never know. Fair enough about the similar interests thing but even some online folks who like the same stuff…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 06:01 PM
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So basically you became more red pill leaning because you were the other guy and that gave you an awareness of female nature? Please correct me if I am wrong? How do you seduce women? What do you think they are drawn to in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:49 PM
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I think it is interesting that when you take the test you get intp or intj because the answers I am looking for in research are mostly about your self-perception. So do you feel like you are more of a structured person or a spontaneous person? Also, point me to anyone on this who is knowledgeable about mbti if you can? So how sure do you think you are an S and how do you use Si?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:43 PM
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Thank you, that is much easier to understand. So do you think this is because of women wanting the top 20% or 10/5% depending on who you ask? I think the tinder thing is more complicated as there are almost 4 times more men on tinder than women and it is even worse here in the UK apparently. I guess it could be because tinder is for sex and sex has more of a cost to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:23 PM
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I don't have many extroverts here, so do you enjoy spending time with people and socialising? Also what do you mean by fuckboi? Also are you quite structured since you are a J over P? Yeah, I think a lot of guys go through phases like that, it is normal nowadays. So tell me about what you mean by hopeless romantic who makes bad choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:20 PM
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Thank you for your honesty, so would you feel very distressed if you broke routines for an entire day. Let's say someone appeared at your home and changed your plans entirely? How would that make you feel and what would you do? Also, do you enjoy being a medical student or was it pushed upon you? Do you feel like you love it? Yeah, your pill history is quite a common black pill story. I am sorry that you have been through all that, so why do you feel like you struggle with women? Are you nervous…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:16 PM
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Interesting perspective, so you don't think women can really love multiple men? So what are your thoughts on polyamorous women? So do women with children chose a favourite they love more too or is it just with men? I think your statement about submission is interesting though because someone does need to ultimately chose who they would be more likely to submit to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 05:09 PM
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Yeah, that is very true but obviously, there are downsides like obsessive self-improvement, bad views on women (not just harsh truths but actual bad views). I do think the abundance mindset can be a helpful tool for some although I know many black pill folks would disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:56 PM
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Yeah I have heard about that and it is very interesting, the creation of property and marriage etc has caused a shift!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:53 PM
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Interesting, do you know much about myers briggs, why do you think you are an S and J (The I and T I don't need much info on). Thank you for realizing some of the red pill is immoral, I understand how hard the temptation can be when a person feels let down and angry, you have a lot of character.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:50 PM
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Wow, you are very structured! So what would happen if you were to break that structure or just not be able to do it and why do you follow such a strict structure? Were you always like that or is it a result of red pill/black pill? Sorry I am a J and I have OCD so I was just checking, low on the autism scale could make sense although my sister has mild autism and has no structure at all, everyone is different! So you feel like you aren't like other people, like you are too imaginative and enthusi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:47 PM
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Interesting information. I don't know much about mate-guarding but what you say makes sense. I don't understand how commitment and loyalty are opposites though, maybe it is just going above my head?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:38 PM
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Tbh I would say it is in the more toxic areas of the red pill. I think you must only consume the nicer stuff like seduction tips and biological/evolutionary psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:35 PM
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Interesting! Do you know why you are a J over a P? J's are meant to be more structured whereas P's are more spontaneous. Also, do you have autism or OCD or any other mental health conditions that could correlate with being a J? I understand if you don't want to answer though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:32 PM
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Just a few content creators saying women are designed to find one high-value man because of hypergamy. There was a video from fresh and fit where Myron Gaines was talking about how if a man sleeps with another woman when he is in a relationship already, he didn't cheat because there is no emotional attachment. There were comments agreeing with him as apparently he "wrecked" this woman with his comeback. It just seems lots of the men who agree want to cheat without the guilt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:28 PM
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Yeah, I 100% agree but just wanted to know if anyone else shared my opinion as I don't know many people in real life exposed to the red pill. Yeah, nature cares about survival, not happiness. The red pill is full of pseudoscience or cherry-picked science to confirm their beliefs, they don't look at any evidence against their views. There is a study that suggests men are much more likely to leave an ill/dying partner than women yet the red pill has men believing that women are not loyal at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:24 PM
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You seem to know a lot more than me, yeah we should DM!
/r/MensRights08/08/21 04:13 PM
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Yeah exactly, although I am sure some people will argue that men are more likely to die in war or some sort of dangerous situation so one male can impregnate many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:09 PM
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Awesome! Yeah it is very interesting, it is a bit of fun and some people feel the need to tell me it is pretty much astrology but I still think there is a little bit of utility in the myers briggs test. Where are you watching the lecture? I saw a Jordan Peterson one talking about left-wing people being higher in openness and right-wing people being more conscientious (Big 5) I think he also said something about them having more disgust at some point although that isn't in the big 5. Please tell …
/r/MensRights08/08/21 04:01 PM
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Yes, many of the red pill men are INTP, I wonder why? I get the cleanliness thing, I am the cleaner/minimalist in my relationship too. My man is luckily quite good emotionally and mature but I do see the selfishness. It did bother me in the past when I was a people-pleaser but now I take a leaf out of his book and out myself first although I still help others when I can. So is your INFJ husband much better for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 03:57 PM
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Yeah, I probably have tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 03:53 PM
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Strange, I am infj and my partner is intp and we are very compatible. Why didn't it work? Surely it was something else outside of personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 03:41 PM
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Thanks for your input. Also, I love the "whole gotta-catch-em-all-pokemon" approach, it is hilarious. I wonder if that is why pokemon and other games where you obtain lots of things or invade appeal to men so much? Although I do love Pokemon myself. You have given me some food for thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 03:15 PM
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Mate guarding I think you mean although I am sure many men wouldn't object to a mate garden! Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 02:54 PM
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Sorry I assumed you were ex-red pill because I have another post on the ex red pill reddit. But you seem to know the red pill lingo so I thought you had an awareness. I do realise that just because someone supports men's rights does not mean they are automatically red pill. Also good luck with your marriage! Exciting news. Thank you for your comments, you have given a lot of information and if you think of anything else please let me know!
/r/MensRights07/08/21 11:44 PM
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Yeah that is university and colleges for you. I get people have their own views but it does seem that many of the lecturers have the same views and if your face doesn't fit then... you struggle. They are nice people, they just have their views and I try to not let it get to me. I am in Scotland thoPhD! I am a bit left wing but I support Mens rights too, I don't know why some people see these things as mutually exclusive. Yeah your father will know all about that, he must have had a brain if he h…
/r/MensRights07/08/21 11:40 PM
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Is this his version of the big 5, I did his test twice. Very interesting and I love Jordan Peterson.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 11:36 PM
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Nah, I mean one of them has a bit of a dark misogynistic sense of humour but he is nice, they are more ex red pill tbh but they still hold some of the philosophy
/r/ExRedPill07/08/21 08:01 PM
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Awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 07:55 PM
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Yeah it is good, we have a lot to talk about, some are more PUA and some are ex MGTOW
/r/ExRedPill07/08/21 07:55 PM
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Wow that is amazing, so you are quite a romantic along with being a realist? Good for you with your new woman, I wish you both much happiness! So why are you ex red pill or why are you here on this reddit when you are not red pill? Yeah I get the typical dysfunctional INFJ stuff, I have been there my friend!
/r/MensRights07/08/21 07:13 PM
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Thank you for such a detailed response. Yeah, that is a big theory saying that myers briggs types can be coping mechanisms. I get what you are saying though. I have actually been doing lots of research on why men flock to certain philosophies although it is all qualitative and I thought that I would experiment with something slightly more quantitative for once although I still prefer rich answers like what you have written. How would you change the support system (part of my book is going to dis…
/r/MensRights07/08/21 07:06 PM
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Thank you so much!
/r/MensRights07/08/21 06:56 PM
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Yeah, very interesting, I have lots of intp friends in real life who are red pill too!
/r/ExRedPill07/08/21 06:50 PM
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That is kinda what my research was trying to figure out hence why I asked for lots of detail because personality does change through experience and I have a couple of friends who are MRA's who are INTP and another 2 MRA's who are INTJ and the I am INFJ so I thought there was a correlation there with the IN part, have had a few IS's and one extrovert so far though.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 06:41 PM
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Yeah it is a bit weird but it is used more in psychology than myers briggs. See my myers briggs has been the same result for 8 years but. Y big 5 constantly changes despite the fact most people swear by it.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 06:38 PM
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Yeah anyone is welcome, INFJ like me!
/r/MensRights07/08/21 06:36 PM
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It just stands for introvert, intuition, thinking and perceiving. If you go on 16 personalities there will be a profile on it.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 06:35 PM
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Thank you for sharing, I find female T's to be interesting as I am an F? Do you know if you are quite high in logic?
/r/ExRedPill07/08/21 06:21 PM
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That is part of what I was thinking. Not so much abuse but certain experiences and how they influence personality.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 06:20 PM
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I wouldn't think much of it tbh, why? I am not a feminist but I don't hate feminism as I believe it is a massive thing so I try to evaluate people on an individual basis.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 06:18 PM
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Interesting take on it. I think you are right. So what you are saying is that certain personality types don't choose this path, the path shapes their personality? You seem to be on to something. Also I wouldn't say there were any bad personality types so I don't know if anyone could view this question as having bad intentions but maybe I am missing something? Thank you for your thoughts.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 06:16 PM
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Yeah true, leaving has been the best choice I have made in a while. I felt like there were too many limits on what I wanted to do any anyone who didn't have the "right opinion" wasn't treated with respect. Yeah I didn't think they would be surprising although, mostly introverted and intuitive people but the T/F vs J/P is quite mixed. Thank you so much, you are too kind!
/r/MensRights07/08/21 05:12 PM
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Interesting perspective. I have always been an atheist myself but I do find religious people to be interesting and I love watching YouTube channels that take the more skeptical view on religion. I really like TheMagicSkeptic.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 05:07 PM
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Awesome!
/r/MensRights07/08/21 04:51 PM
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Nice! What has been your worldview changes in the 15 years, as much detail as you can possibly give! Were your parents conservative?
/r/ExRedPill07/08/21 04:44 PM
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I have never heard of that test before but it sounds really interesting. It is a shame it is forbidden to talk about. You definitely seem very intelligent! So your perspective is that too many men are nice guys and too many women are entitled. So are you quite red pill on top of being and MRA. I do agree with you although I am sure we can agree that there is lots or more problems in society too.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 04:41 PM
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Nice! How do you view religion and other people's beliefs then? I am the cusp of a A-T but slightly more A.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 04:35 PM
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You are probably right but I am more into qualitative research over quantitative although I might try that too at some point, thanks for the recommendation, I am new to posting on reddit so I didn't know how to do that.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 04:32 PM
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So did you get INFJ on that one? Or were you just researching, yeah the wording can change the meaning of a sentence so much.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 04:30 PM
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Thank you, you are the first Extrovert I have had comment!
/r/MensRights07/08/21 04:25 PM
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I am not using my findings to confirm any malicious suspicions about MRA's. I am genuinely curious and I am writing a book about the manosphere and the positive things about it. I left uni because I was doing a dissertation on the manosphere and the lectures were just not into it (and because of covid too). Nice people but they just didn't seem supportive of mens rights. The research is just me being curious.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 04:24 PM
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Thank you, you are the 1st S type I have had apart from one person who is on the cusp!
/r/MensRights07/08/21 04:01 PM
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I totally agree, like I said, it is just a bit of fun. Do you know what you are. I think as long as people don't fixate and place too much of their identity in it.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 03:58 PM
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That is fair enough, I am torn about the whole thing but I have posted Myers Briggs questions on multiple reddits and all of them are starting with IFxx apart from yourself who is on the cusp of IF/IS
/r/MensRights07/08/21 03:57 PM
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Also, what are your thoughts on the big 5?
/r/MensRights07/08/21 03:45 PM
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Thank you for you comment!
/r/MensRights07/08/21 03:44 PM
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Yeah I said in the post it is just a bit of fun but thank you for contributing!
/r/MensRights07/08/21 03:40 PM
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*could be vulnerable
/r/MensRights07/08/21 03:27 PM
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Ahh an INFJ too, this is confirming my thoughts, I was drawn to the manosphere MRA's, PUA's, MGTOW and Incels. My guess is that many of them are close to my personality type and hence why I am fascinated or they might be close to my type. Thank you for the detail! I have never heard of that mental maturity test but what do you mean by abstract thinking? Congratulations on being in the 98th percentile, that is very exceptional. Also what brought you to this reddit? I'd love to hear your story if …
/r/MensRights07/08/21 03:25 PM
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Hi, I apologise for my comment, I was just thinking that some of the men here like to feel safe in this space but I will remove that comment. Thank you for pointing that out!
/r/MensRights07/08/21 03:20 PM
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That is true, this research isn't for university, it is just for myself. But thank you for the recommendation, I will do what you said! I appreciate that many of the men here are vulnerable so I should take extra care.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 03:14 PM
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Same as me, thank you!
/r/ExRedPill07/08/21 03:08 PM
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Thank you and also I can't disagree with you, I am a big nerd. It is just a bit of fun, I believe the Myers Briggs is accurate as a self report but not personality. However the perception of the self is still important!
/r/ExRedPill07/08/21 03:07 PM
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I am following this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 10:06 AM
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Yeah I guess but I think when it comes to relationship roles women who want a dominant male tend to screen for that and if they are not a good captain then they can leave. Otherwise it is domestic abuse which is a whole other kettle of fish xxx
/r/ExRedPill30/07/21 11:38 PM
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Awww I see, I wasn't sure what you meant. But isn't the milgram experiment about people abandoning their own personal responsibility and morals when pressured by an authority figure. So it is more about (in the context of red pill) a woman hurting someone else because the dominant man said so xxx
/r/ExRedPill30/07/21 11:19 PM
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So is it the dominance that freaks you out?
/r/ExRedPill30/07/21 11:12 PM
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This was very interesting to read, thank you for sharing, wish you the best of luck xxx
/r/ExRedPill29/07/21 08:43 AM
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Wow that was a lot. Hope you are doing okay now. I also got sucked into that rabbit hole because of curiosity and you know what they say... curiosity killed the cat. You are mature for realising what was cringe though but the language these people use does start to get picked up by those consuming the content so don't be too harsh on yourself 😊
/r/ExRedPill25/05/21 10:20 PM
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I can tell you are really confused right now and high school really is a bad time but honestly you seem really mature that you are trying to break free from ideological thinking at such a young age. I am a woman and when I was your age I felt the same way for a bit but you need to look into why you want a gf. Is it loneliness? Is it pride? Is it horniness (which you shouldn't shame yourself for)? Just really think about it and the answer will always be complex and a mixture of many things. If lo…
/r/ExRedPill06/05/21 09:32 AM
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You need to forgive yourself. PUA is a massive thing full of so much information and for many men who struggle with attracting women it is so easy to get lost in it all. These communities have extreme people who can brainwash and make you dehumanise women so that your sketchy practices don't cause you to feel empathy at the time. You have miraculously broken free from that and that takes a lot of character and growth to do. The truth will set you free, guilt weighs you down, just laugh it off, i…
/r/ExRedPill21/04/21 02:21 PM
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Wise words. Most of the pain I have caused isn't really a hitting people type of thing. Mostly a lack if empathy and I am not sure why but I always had a bit of a fear of men that may have affected my interactions. A fear because they are different and I don't understand their wiring. It stressed me out and made me keep my guard up which probably resulted in me not being there for some people as much as I should have because I was waiting for them to hurt me or use me. I am over it now though an…
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 08:30 PM
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I never got that vibe from them tbh but yeah. Nah you are totally right though, I have definitely done some bad things that I regret to men. I am trying to be better and even apologise to any men I have affected in the hopes that any pain I may have caused is addressed xxx
/r/ExRedPill19/04/21 10:24 AM
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You are really attractive, maybe it is one of those "she is so attractive, I am not good enough for her" type of things. Or maybe it is the vibe of wanting commitment and that scares people away. I think in relationships you should enjoy each stage as it comes. Maybe try a "let's keep it casual but if I like you I am open to making the relationship something more if you are" that way you take the pressure of the guy and he feels like he has control (which he should at least have some of). But th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 10:03 AM
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Is Cassie Jaye and Warren Farrell toxic, I thought they were tame but don't know much about them?
/r/ExRedPill16/04/21 09:40 PM
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