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It's definitely been around for the past 12 years. I'd imagine even longer, just with different names
/r/ExRedPill29/07/26 08:07 PM
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He's red pilled because of PEER PRESSURE??? Unfortunately, it seems you no longer have a boyfriend.... you now have a girlfriend in a male body.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/26 10:00 PM
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Listen to me... you're still mad young. It's not too late to change all that, especially because you're now very self aware. Reading the comments, you said you were 20... you're barely 1/4 of your entire life span, there's always room and time to grow. Be kinder to yourself too. You said you're spineless... but the fact that you admitted all of this, on the Internet of all places, shows that you are NOT a wimp. You're a lot braver than you think.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/26 05:47 PM
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Here's my criticism of Tom Leykis... he's crass, abrasive, and very jaded. Yes, the man married and divorced four times... but in retrospect, it doesn't seem indicative of dating and marriage, and more indicating that he married shallow women to begin with. That said, there were some things he did say that I felt should actually be followed, mostly the financial aspects, i.e., don't spend beyond your means. But these are kinda common sense when you really think about it.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 09:17 PM
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You didn't make any good counter points at all, you're just going in circles. Nothing you said is addressing my talking points, it's all a nonsensical word salad. So I'm going to ask you again...how do you expect to hold women to an unrealistic double standard that you yourself don't even hold to yourself? And what exactly makes you so sure that a woman that fits your unrealistically high standard will even want you to begin with?
/r/ExRedPill06/07/26 12:30 AM
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Why is experience a different case? Because you can't control your height, and women saying they prefer men six feet =\= Women exclusively dating men six feet. I can understand if you said you prefer women to have little experience, but you can't expect me to take you seriously when you say that you demand her to be a virgin when you yourself aren't. Oh, and you're forgetting something... attraction is a two way street. What makes you think a woman with no experience is going to want you, especi…
/r/ExRedPill05/07/26 03:34 PM
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You don't see that as hypocritical though? You expect and demand that she has absolutely no experience, yet, you yourself aren't a virgin. You are holding her to unreasonably high standards that you don't even hold for yourself, do you understand that? If so, why?
/r/ExRedPill05/07/26 09:06 AM
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I don't really have anything to contribute or counter with. I agree with many of your talking points, in fact. And as for preferences, yes, I prefer women in general who are modest, reserved, and drama free, because I too grew up in a volatile environment. If there's anything I have to counter with it's this...how high is "too high"? Because I feel like body count is extremely subjective. "High body count", for me, is anything that's more than twenties or thirties.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/26 07:20 PM
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Dump him. It's only gonna get worse from there. Also, as a guy in my thirties, my brief red pill consumption happened when I was still in my early twenties, and it ended just as fast as I got suckered in. If you're damn near hitting your thirties and you are getting suckered into some red pill shit, especially when you have a decent girlfriend that's willing to ride with you, you're seriously an idiot.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/26 01:25 PM
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Yeah, you're right, that's a valid point.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/26 03:46 AM
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Yes, but, simultaneously, it also means that she really is NOT the type of woman you otherwise should be with long term. I'll give the red pill some credit, because it does bring awareness to bad behavior exhibited by toxic women. The problem is, it overcorrects itself as a justification to shit on ALL women as a grift to insert radical right wing beliefs into red pill consumers. And as a man that believes in freedom and justice for ALL, fairness, and egalitarianism, I cannot stand behind that.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/26 10:00 PM
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Look, I'm going to give this to you straight...yes, there are A LOT of women that are selfish and manipulative... but there are also a lot of men that are too, and you know that shit is true. But there are about eight billion people on this planet, half of which are female... that's 4 billion...even if, hypothetically, there were 5% of those 4 billion that weren't selfish and manipulative, that number is still hundreds of millions. Hundreds of millions of women that are genuinely sweet, loving, …
/r/ExRedPill04/06/26 02:13 PM
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He's 100% consuming red pill content, and I assure you, it'll get much worse the more it drags on, especially since he's already right leaning.
/r/ExRedPill27/05/26 06:40 PM
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Your fears are valid, but understand that it isn't most men still, merely, a sizeable minority.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/26 10:54 PM
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Yes, and he's full of shit. He's saying that to you as a gaslight attempt. I'm glad you dropped that fucking loser. Please take time for yourself that you need. 🫶🏼
/r/ExRedPill03/05/26 10:52 PM
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" Traditional gender roles also include men who protect and provide. He believes in gender roles when they benefit him, not when he needs to step up." THAT. I CAN'T STRESS THAT ENOUGH. Holy hell, thank you for putting that so eloquently!
/r/ExRedPill29/04/26 07:28 PM
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Why should you feel guilty for leaving someone who literally sees you as a personal sex slave???
/r/ExRedPill29/04/26 06:47 PM
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I will say that my brief rabbit hole of red pill content wasn't really rooted in toxic machismo, it was more so rooted at growing frustration with American socio-politics of my own peers, as well as with then frustration in my sex and love life. What pulled me out was realizing it's a crock of shit for promoting racist, sexist far right talking points.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/26 02:09 AM
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I'm not going to type it all out again when I've given my experience multiple times, so I'll just directly link you to one of my comments instead. 🫶🏼 https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/1s0he03/comment/obuen2k/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/ExRedPill23/04/26 02:05 AM
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I think you should go to the Ask Latin America subreddit and see what comes up there, in case you don't get any answers here. I'm latino too, but I'm stateside US born. So I couldn't tell you at all how manosphere is presented in LATAM.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/26 08:53 AM
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The Red Pill Hook-up Community: "Society is fucked up. Women have equal rights, but with ZERO of the equal lefts of men! They are lying, money grubbing, manipulative whores, even if they seem like they aren't, because unicorns don't exist. Men are often victims of their games, and the ones that aren't have them all figured out...THESE are the top 20% men, the chads. The alphas. The rizzlers. You are NOT that guy though. What you need to do is get your bread up, hit the gym, and devalue them a li…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/26 07:17 PM
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1.) Recognize that the only "problem" with you is your self esteem and your mental framework you have when it comes to dating. You are still very young, you are still learning how to truly live like an adult man. Be kinder to yourself and realize that you are a man who deserves love and you deserve to give love to others. 2.) Understand that women are individuals with their own lives, wants, and fears, and that their own individualities are contradictions of red pill content from the jump. Under…
/r/ExRedPill16/04/26 02:04 AM
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You're very welcome! Yes, you hit the nail on the head in one shot! That's exactly how it is, or at least, for me personally. Take care! 🫶🏼
/r/ExRedPill08/04/26 09:46 PM
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Have you ever considered the possibility that maybe you should stop trying to chase shallow and materialistic women, and that you should just get some standards instead? I'm not trying to be contentious with that, I'm actually being serious.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/26 02:30 PM
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Good job getting away from that trash. Now, back to your question. What's the right way to go about dating? Gotta understand, many women are at a point in their lives where they're too traumatized to even wanna start anything new. There's a reason they kept "choosing the bear", after all. So, unfortunately, cards are even now further stacked against you. BUT...when there's a will, there's a way, and the way may very well be...to just go out, meet women, and have no preconceptions of it leading t…
/r/ExRedPill01/04/26 02:10 AM
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Couldn't tell you, because I was only consuming red pill content in 2015-2017ish. I honestly don't believe that the book you read was the norm and that red pill has always been misogynistic from the jump, even covertly.
/r/ExRedPill28/03/26 06:46 PM
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How did you first come across red pill ideas? I honestly don't remember how exactly I came in contact with red pill ideas. I just know that I got out of a bad long term on and off relationship, had a lot of potential flings that went nowhere, and was angry and frustrated. I was not in a good mindset. • What initially made those ideas appealing or convincing? It validated my frustration, at myself, my frustration with relationships, and my then growing resentment with other politically left leani…
/r/ExRedPill22/03/26 02:37 PM
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What made me question it? Several. 1.) The fact that almost every other red pilled man didn't seem to actually do much other than complain about women 24/7. It's one thing to advise men to go chase personal happiness after heart break and loss, it's a completely nother thing when the content creators themselves don't seem to do much other than talk shit about women. 2.) The fact that red pill content creators start off by giving men when they feel heartbroken or at their worst validation that th…
/r/ExRedPill18/03/26 02:48 AM
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I'm going to be very frank with you... he's far too gone, and if you stay, it will be a much bigger problem for you.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/26 02:53 PM
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Ok, real talk, a lot of people on here are saying it stems from deep rooted misogyny, which, isn't untrue most of the time, it's very true in many cases. But for some guys, like myself, we got red pilled because we experienced genuinely horrible situations with women while still doing our best to be supportive and assuring, and we may have dealt with it so much that it left us jaded. Either way, it stems from feelings of insecurity and bitterness that aren't properly channelled positively.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/26 04:00 PM
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Best years are 30+ as a man because you usually mature and mentally grow tf up. USUALLY, because a lot of older dudes in the red pill community missed the memo.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/26 03:51 PM
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Self awareness is the first step, my guy.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/26 06:43 PM
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He's trash, just like the vast majority of red pill content
/r/ExRedPill06/02/26 06:06 PM
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🤨🤨🤨 YOU are the dating coach. It's YOUR job to give US advice
/r/ExRedPill06/02/26 06:06 PM
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"This is me, a normal guy, nothing out of the ordinary" Bruh... you literally just admitted to having incest sexual fantasies of your older sister. That's NOT normal at all. Please, go see a therapist.
/r/ExRedPill04/02/26 01:22 AM
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Baby, hold on a second, slow it down. I'm a wine and dine kinda man, what do you take me for??? 😂
/r/ExRedPill31/01/26 05:36 AM
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It's not, but it gets easier once you put the effort in. Do forgive me, I'm NOT very socially anxious, so I'm not going to pretend that I understand that mental struggle when it comes to meeting people. But really, what I'm saying is that the only way to get over it is to find courage and actually go out and be more social.
/r/ExRedPill30/01/26 10:14 PM
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Get better then. Start small, go to places where you're more familiar, start talking with everyone around you.
/r/ExRedPill30/01/26 09:11 PM
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Ashamed of what? Are you relapsing?
/r/ExRedPill30/01/26 07:08 PM
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☝🏼☝🏼☝🏼
/r/ExRedPill30/01/26 07:07 PM
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Why are YOU acting like this??? "What do you think about hypergamy? I asked AI to think for me, because I'm too lazy to go out and experiment for myself". Bro, just, STOP. Fuck "red pill philosophy". Fuck "hypergamy", "monkey branching", "MGTOW", Andrew Tate, whatever the hell that's poisoning your mind. Go the hell out there and just talk to some women, it's THAT simple. Some of them will like you, others won't, expect a lot of failure. THERE. There's your "red pill truth".
/r/ExRedPill30/01/26 07:05 PM
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I'm implying that you maybe a guy with low self esteem and already operating off of a toxic mindset rooted in counterproductive social expectations, even if you know that it is. It's counterproductive inherently because it makes you feel like you're less of a man if you aren't bagging any and every woman or if you don't settle down and have a wife, while simultaneously looking at women as soulless objects with no personalities or individual wants. It's not your fault, because that's what society…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/26 04:16 PM
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You ever consider the possibility that you're drawn to that way of thinking because you have low self esteem and derive your idea of masculinity as inherently needing a woman's approval and attention? Because that methodology is counter productive and exactly why you are having no luck.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/26 02:50 PM
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That's the thing about MGTOW and TRP, they specifically target younger and confused men with bad luck in dating, and playing on their vulnerabilities. Instead of saying, "hey, these types of women are red flags to look out for", they paint it as ALL women being like that. It's the laziest, most predatory viewpoint.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/26 11:04 PM
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That's what turned me away too
/r/ExRedPill09/01/26 10:59 PM
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I'm in!
/r/ExRedPill17/12/25 01:35 AM
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