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3x divorced? Ouch. Maybe you need to stop getting married. Every situation was different but there was one common denominator: you. Look inward. I wish you the best.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/26 05:13 PM
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I’m going to state the obvious: your relationship is O-V-E-R. She has zero respect for you and your relationship and considers you nothing more than a friend and roommate. Kids? Purge that thought out of your head as long as she’s within 500 miles of you. Get out. Now. Not in a month. Not after exploring reconciliation. Now. She DOES NOT want you. And hasn’t for at least six years. I wish you the best.
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/26 03:48 PM
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Amen.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/26 04:54 PM
15

You need counseling ASAP. Just my gut talking here but I’d go back to no contact with your EX-wife (emphasis added) because I’d betting she’s having some regrets but that doesn’t mean she wants you, it could mean she misses the comfort of her old life. Huge difference. Right now, she’s unwittingly (giving her grace on this) playing with your emotions. She rejected you and is capable of DOJ g it again. Get help. Sort yourself out, quit drinking, and searching for meaningless hookups, and then pre…
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/26 04:54 PM
9

Which do you want to be more: married and celibate or single with a chance not to be?
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/25 11:32 PM
4

Her so-called friends seem hellbent on ruining your marriage. And if your wife keeps hanging out with them, it sounds like she’ll follow their lead. You probably need to have some hard conversations about how she feels about your massive if, as you say, she becomes distant and short-fused after spending time with the Divorce Squad.
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/25 01:05 AM
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Well, when we separated for a year but said we’d try to work on our marriage, we didn’t have sex but I’m pretty sure she did. We did reconcile and had two kids, but that’s been about the extent of our sex life for the past 20 years. I’d have divorced her if our youngest wasn’t disabled and needs our care. So, we’re coparenting roommates and I married a cheater. Yay, me.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/25 10:32 PM
13

I’m sorry you’re feeling this. But when you filed for divorce, you began the steps for letting her go. Slowly but surely you will. She’s just giving you more proof of how you were right to rid yourself of her. She’s showing who she wants to be and the person you mourn the loss over is no longer available. Cherish your freedom to find someone who deserves you. I wish you the best.
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/25 01:19 PM
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I didn’t.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/25 11:42 PM
2

I’m stealing that ‘Alabama fuck knuckles’ line. LOL
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/25 06:13 PM
8

My wife cheating then ‘accidentally’ getting pregnant after saying she was on birth control that she preferred to condoms. She also says our marriage problems are my fault for not being ‘emotionally available or safe’ so we never had sex until suddenly I became a stud and ‘oops’ she got pregnant.
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/25 11:30 PM
8

You are headed for round two of relationship disaster. Break up. All you’re showing in this post is a pathway to heartbreak once the excitement dies down. Either leave or adjust your mindset to look at her as a FWB who may leave at any time. Do not make or expect a LTR. I wish you the best.
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/25 03:37 AM
5

Dump her.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/25 03:07 AM
8

I hear you, buddy, but I think it would be best to complete a divorce before you start dating.
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/25 04:32 AM
2

She’s not interested in reconciling unless it’s to keep what’s comfortable while she continues with her boyfriend. Best of luck to you.
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/25 03:00 AM
13

I think you should really think hard about this. If you can’t stand to live celibate for the rest of your life, divorce is your option. Otherwise, you’ll grow more and more resentful and will look back and wonder how you wasted so much time. Best of luck to you.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/25 11:36 PM
3

I think you’ve proven that you don’t work for each other. Let her go, IMO.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/25 04:07 AM
5

Concur. There’s no saving this relationship as she is permanently checked out and looking for someone else if she hasn’t found him already.
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/25 04:06 AM
1

I thought we could reconcile. Then, we had our second child who is disabled and needs our care. I wish I never agreed to #2 but felt our first should have a sibling. And I trusted her. Dumb. We may be the best married friends but I did t marry her to be pals.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/25 01:09 AM
0

That must be true. I think my wife had several affairs but I’m still around like a dope.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/25 04:48 AM
2

I’m guessing she’s only sorry. Scalise she got caught unless she was so wracked by guilt that she came to you to confess and you had no idea. My wife has several affairs. I stupidly forgave her in the hope that we could rekindle. In the end, I’m sure she lost respect for me as man but not a friend. And we have two kids, one of whom is non verbal autistic who needs our care. If you’re having issues, she now is an experienced cheater and may learn from any mistakes by got her caught. Think careful…
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/25 03:59 AM
6

RUN!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/25 05:53 AM
11

I think the ‘gym rat’ transformation means she’s getting herself into dating shape. I saw similar actions by my wife twice in our marriage and both times I later found she was having affairs.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/25 04:53 AM
13

Get divorced.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/25 01:36 AM
3

No, my marriage was in free fall well before Covid.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/25 03:44 AM
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