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You know you don't have to keep engaging with someone who is being abusive. This brother is hurt but he can't be helped right now until he processes what he's going through in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 12:06 AM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 06:15 PM
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These books are fucking stupid and he shouldn't read them unless he wants to hate himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 05:45 PM
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Male advocacy is best done without subscribing to feminism's patriarchy theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:53 AM
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Don't keep changing the definition of patriarchy hon. You keep moving the goalposts back the more we argue with you hon. You said the patriarchy means when power and wealth are passed through men. So admit it, patriarchy is about men? Feminism is the main force of advocacy that has pushed us progressively forward as a society You have no substantial argument left to make so now you've fallen back into parroting your programming. Feminist's brains break when they encounter logic. This is why you …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:52 AM
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The patriarchy does not exist. Notice how your definition of the patriarchy is different than his? There are hundreds of definitions of patriarchy. This is done for the purpose of deception. Gender roles are why women can't be strong and men can't be sensitive. Feminism is not about equal rights for all. Feminism does not place men's interests at the same priority as women's interests. Feminists believe men should form their own movement to solve their own problems, because feminism is for women…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:43 AM
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Please shout this louder to all these feminists that try to recruit men to be allies with the false promise that if they advocate for feminism enough, then misandry would be solved because "the patriarchy hurts men too!" It's manipulative and dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 09:38 AM
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I could say the same about a lot of women's issues. Imagine complaining that men catcalled you in public when there are people starving to death or dying in wars as we speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 06:21 AM
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No it's not. Do you understand what an analogy is?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 06:03 AM
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To be a feminist means you think patriarchy exists. If you believe patriarchy exists, then men are oppressors and women are oppressed. If you believe men are oppressors, then they must be evil. If men are evil, then you are morally superior and none of their suffering matters. Feminism is cancerous. I know not every feminist will agree that y’all get the short end of the stick too From my experience, feminists will diminish and deny men's issues but if this is not possible, then they'll blame th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:57 AM
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You could also survive in solitary confinement for a very long time. That doesn't mean that social interaction isn't a need. It absolutely is a need for human beings as we are very social animals. Also, I wasn't talking about sex I was talking about any touch like hugs or handshakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:36 AM
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I don't agree with that. Could you explain why you think so? I think humans need touch because it connects us with others and releases hormones that make us happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 05:28 AM
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Well maybe you're one of the good ones! See how I said one of the good ones? Similar to how many feminists will say all men are trash except their husbands/brothers/fathers as one of the good ones which they got from racists that call black people one of the good ones. The way you phrased your comment goes against the ideology of feminism. It ignores the position of men as the oppressors and women as oppressed. Men can't have issues because they're oppressors but if they do, well they built the …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 01:50 AM
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Does the issue of men being generally touch starved fall under "men just want to get their dicks wet" or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 01:32 AM
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I appreciate how you phrased this that doesn't turn men away. This is how a feminist would have sounded: "Toxic masculinity holds men to unreasonable standards under the patriarchy. The patriarchy hurts men too!"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 01:30 AM
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It makes you okay with harming pixels, not people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 01:25 AM
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Yes I've known that for a long time but thank you for assuming my ignorance because I'm a man. 🙄 A year is a small period of time in all the parenting a child needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:57 AM
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I think both parents deserve to have time with their children and I see no reason for women to be defaulted to have more of that time than in the very small period of breastfeeding. I'll never have kids with a woman that makes less money than me so she force me to provide for her while she parents my kids. I suspect that 90% of women are hypergamous and would never purposefully have kids with a man that makes as much money as them so I understand most women can't meet my standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:06 AM
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I wouldn't want to be a stay at home father. I would resent having to work more hours to provide for someone to parent my own child that I barely ever get to see. Parenting is hard and even though I've never been one, I believe it has to be the most rewarding experience someone could have.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:10 PM
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Physical power means nothing in civilized society. Women have more social power than men. That's the only power that matters for us. Therefore, women are more powerful right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:30 AM
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Friend, seriously, where the fuck do women get off constantly criticizing men how they should be act and be for women? Your post was full of positivity until that last sentence ruined it. It's such a backhanded thing to say. If only men could just be good enough for women. I've noticed this behavior in almost all women and you're no exception. They walk with a certain smugness that they're so superior to men. Flip the genders and you'd see what's so fucked up about it. I wanted and found a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:47 AM
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If I have a baby I want my attention to be on them and to give them all of my time and love. I feel the same way as a man. I can't imagine ever being the sole provider and I would probably resent or envy her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:43 AM
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If only us men could ever be as morally superior as you women. We just don't get it. We're too misogynistic! Why do you think males are like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:23 AM
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Likewise, men prioritize status because women are hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:01 PM
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Honesty is good but that doesn't mean people have to like what you're honest about. I can honest that I think you're a dumbass but you wouldn't be wrong to be mad about that would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:57 PM
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I 100% believe you that this is your preference but you do understand that you are in the very minuscule exception of women right? Even the most feminism women hold severe gender role expectations for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:55 PM
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The woman in the post admits that average woman are not attracted to average men. We can talk about how the average man is disgusting while the woman is heavenly, but that's beside the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:53 PM
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Men aren't disposable but society sure treats them as such. Now you can go ahead and prove my point by saying men built society and patriarchy and blah blah. I don't understand what your argument is? That if you were targeted first for being the biggest woman, then misandry doesn't exist? The biggest person is usually a man so the end result is the same. The man is the one targeted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 09:39 PM
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You don't pose the same physical threat because he's a man. You're so close to getting it. You could be a man or a woman acting the exact same way in society and the man is at much higher risk of violence simply because he's a man. Women take advantage of when they exist out in the world with a man. You have a disposable meat shield. There's nothing you can do about it but just recognize your privilege at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:39 PM
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So it's inconsiderate to force her to adapt to how men deal with problems but you think men should adapt to how women handle problems? Your misandry is showing. This reminds of me how women tell men to just go to therapy as a way to diminish men's issues. They ignore that the majority of therapists are women who studied textbooks that centered around women and now treat primarily women. It's delusional to think therapy isn't biased against men and properly addresses their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:30 PM
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You're safer because of him. He's not safer because of you. If someone wanted to assault both of you, they're targeting him first because he made the mortal sin of being born a man. Misandry and male disposability is what keeps you safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:28 PM
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Any woman who expects her man to be her protection is perpetuating male disposability. End of.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:24 PM
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Nah, go for boyish or normal. She'll look curvy after pregnancy. Think about the long term. Curvy becomes fat after pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:20 PM
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I feel sexually assaulted when a fat woman approaches me. Why do fat women approach fit men? What gave them the audacity to think we're equals?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:07 PM
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Funny because I see it the other way around. Fat women think they deserve fit men for some reason. Female entitlement is crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:04 PM
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Just because he lifts doesn't mean he can fight. Even for people who can fight, the best move is to run. Training for a marathon is the best physical training you can do to protect yourself. Also, ew not the misandry of seeing your partner as disposable and needing him to save you in an emergency.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:02 PM
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The red pill and MRA are both fringe corners of the internet. They are irrelevant in real life except to give feminists another scapegoat next to patriarchy and maintain their delusion that feminism is some niche underground movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 05:49 AM
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Okay so what's wrong with a birthing draft then? It's not like we would ever use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:18 PM
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I couldn't give less of a fuck about this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:34 PM
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A is normal. B ain't even a hoe yet but she's working her way towards certification.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:29 PM
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Nah fuck them bitches. Goofy ahh market. I am the market. I'll set their expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:15 PM
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Browse for r/askfeminists and this is the message you'd pick up. I've never watched right wing content but it is interesting how you view any dissent to your feminist ideology as evil right wing content. How is my opinion any different than the way feminists talk about men as an undefined "they" and ascribe bad motives onto?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 07:45 PM
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That seems messed up to not just be honest and say you don't want to go out on a date, but we live in a misandrist society where obviously he was going to viscerally rape her in the middle of the mall surrounded by people if she had said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 07:01 PM
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Correct She should leave. I don't shame women for leaving horrible men. I shame women who expect perfectionism out of relationships. Nothing in this world worth having comes easy. That includes a loving relationship. You'll need adversity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:55 PM
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Isn't that what women already do? Remember, only your happiness matters nothing else. Fuck them kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:18 PM
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The difference is feminist views men as oppressors therefore they view benevolent sexism as privilege as part of their tactic to demonize men. This is actually the greatest example of benevolent sexism there is, the belief that men are almighty gods of the world and have full control. This is called hyper agency. Meanwhile, women are treated with hypo-agency. This is actually the root cause of all misogyny is hypo-agency and even feminists perpetuate this with their ideology of the patriarchy th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:57 PM
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Internalized misandry is why men commit much more crime. It's the same reason why black on black crime is so high. There are many factors as to why men commit more crime and why black men commit the most crime but none of them have to do with men or black men being inherently worse people than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:52 PM
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Our culture is no different. Our women benefit from benevolent sexism just as much as Ukrainian women. Women don't think like that so why should men? Why must you die for your country instead of fucking off and partying in Europe?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:50 PM
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Then women also have privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:48 PM
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I appreciate your egalitarian view. It's both a privilege and benevolent sexism. I argue just to get people to view men and women as equal but you're already there. This is weird because I don't usually get to this point in a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:43 PM
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No birthing draft = no oppression. I'm sorry but I refuse to place women as being as oppressed as men until your bodily autonomy is actually taken away from you the same as it is for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:37 PM
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I agree with you but this isn't relevant. This woman is saying this situation is not an example of benevolent sexism and women are looked at as tools the same way as men are. This is not true because there is no birthing draft for women. There is an actual draft for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:36 PM
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Okay well you just decided that you are better qualified to decide something over me just because I'm a man. Why are you being sexist right now? We can play this game all day long. I'm well versed in feminist conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:33 PM
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That would be internalized misandry. It comes from believing men are lesser than and unworthy of recognization as human beings but rather tools to provide resources and when we step out of that role, we must whip each other back into it through violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:32 PM
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No but feminists incorrectly believe men have privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:31 PM
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For a specific example, in domestic abuse, police procedures are biased to default to males as perpetrators. Women's cultural power means their opinion matters more. For a general example, look at how feminism dominates academia, politics, and the zeitgeist. There is no space for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:30 PM
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To each other? Yes we are. In general? No men aren't horrible. If you think internalized misogyny is bad, internalized misandry is 10x worse. Women have an extreme in-group bias towards women. Men have an in-group bias towards women. There is no other explanation besides men hate each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:28 PM
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Do women do chivalry? Do women signal to men they are safe or an upstanding woman? No they don't. If men do things and women don't then I don't know a better example of sucking up. Yes, I'm a gender abolitionist. Most of the ways we treat women better comes from their cultural position, it's not inherent to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:26 PM
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Do you think if the draft was ever initiated, it would be any different than in Ukraine? Do you think our culture is so different where men are respected as human beings on the same level as women and wouldn't be shipped off simply for having superior physical strength?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:23 PM
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Yes women's sexuality is so divine and sophisticated compared to men's. Totally not misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:17 PM
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It inherently is. Chivalry is sucking up to women literally just because they have a vagina. There is nothing more sexist than treating someone differently based off what they have in their pants. Don't give me that physical strength argument. Women are more than capable of opening doors.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:16 PM
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Why do women get to choose between themselves who gives birth and who doesn't? The government should get to choose the most fertile ones to do so. It's not like men get to choose who goes off to war and who doesn't. The government gets to choose the most fit ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:15 PM
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It could happen any time. Let's look at Ukraine. All the men stayed and died while all the women got to run off to Europe and party. So if the draft is pointless, then why are you arguing women are being discriminated against by not being a part of it because their personal merit is being written off? Do you honestly think women today are looking at not being a part of the draft and feeling sad about it? They have an endless supply of feminism to uplift their egos. The draft looking down on them…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:14 PM
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It's not a threat. I wouldn't want you to live as a man. You being threatened by it shows to me that you fear if this was your reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:12 PM
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This is the biggest privilege of all. It has just enough plausible deniability to not be recognized. That's why it's my main gripe. It's hard to remove it because women have spent millennia placing themselves into this position and you can't undue it in a weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:11 PM
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So that means men have no privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:09 PM
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Chivalry is sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:08 PM
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If privilege cannot exist unless there is no downsides, then men have no privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:07 PM
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For me, my main gripe is the social power that women have. Women dictate our cultural norms. Men are just the outsiders. I feel like it's their world and we're just living in it. Women's opinions carry a lot more consideration in social dynamics than men's. I'm sick of having to tip toe around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:04 PM
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Women aren't seen as tools like men are. There is no birthing draft where the government decides that you must have a child. If you view sending men off to war as acceptable because they are born with enhanced physical strength, then you must view forcing pregnancy on women because they have the tools to do so. The latter is not a thing that happens. Please stop diminishing institutional male oppression with a both sides suffer argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:01 PM
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Feminists worldview is that we live in a patriarchy, men are oppressors, and women are oppressed. Their ideology is gynocentric, where all problems are viewed as to how women are affected. This is why they talk about toxic masculinity and not internalized misandry or benevolent sexism and not female privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:56 PM
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Okay so let's examine the sexism. Women are having their personal merit easily written off. Men are literally being shipped off and fucking dying. Which is worse? Benevolent sexism is a joke compared to hostile sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:54 PM
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I doubt you're ready. You have no idea how men treat each other. A woman who is treated equally would be fucked. Internalized misandry runs so deep it's not even funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:52 PM
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What?? I did not threaten you. What a fucking leap. The point was that men experience hostile sexism. Women experience benevolent sexism. Men are getting the far worse treatment because hostile sexism is worse. Why don't YOU stop being sexist? Is it so hard? Benevolent sexism exists as just a way for feminists to maintain that all problems are really infractions against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:51 PM
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Women do both. There are lots of women that treat sex as a transactional thing to get men to do what they want. You want to live in lalala land and pretend this doesn't happen often.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:49 PM
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They fly too close to the sun and purposely fuck up their lives because they've already achieved everything a human can achieve and realize it's all meaningless anyway. An average man will spend his whole life with the goal of status and love. A celebrity man achieves that in their early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:15 PM
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Isn't this what women already do? Literally the first thing a man is asked on this site when he complains his wife doesn't show attraction towards him is if he's doing enough dishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:11 PM
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People only use it to undermine *sexism against men*. You will never hear benevolent sexism as a phrase used for men. What feminists fail to understand through their gynocentric ideology is that the flip side of all benevolent sexism is hostile sexism. For every example of benevolent sexism towards women, exists hostile sexism towards men. Hostile sexism is much worse than benevolent sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:08 PM
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Now look at their equivalent women. Women carry fat a lot better than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:09 AM
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Yes conveniently, the solution is always for men to change. Never is the solution to a problem for women to change. It's always the patriarchy/men/society.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:55 PM
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You're so eager to label me a misogynist. I never even insinuated that there is something wrong with women. Also, I believe men's attraction towards women is more than just a higher sex drive. You're trying to diminish it for some reason. There is no solution to this problem. We can only accept that dating is a lot harder for men due to this imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:54 PM
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My female relatives don't have the internalized misogyny to teach me that. Their misandry prevents them from looking out for my safety over their groupthink with other women. Most women are manipulative. This is why women have a drastic in-group bias towards other women. It's in their best interest to oppress men for their own gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:50 PM
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Damn I feel for you bro. I'm not even going to give you that blue pill bullshit that's like just be yourself and make friends cause the reality is even friends will mistreat you for being ugly. The only positive you have is from being an outsider, you have no obligations to no one and full freedom to live however the fuck you want. If you want to be scary, that's all you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:48 PM
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That's funny because the world I was raised in, men are treated with the hyperagency bias while women are treated with hypo agency bias. Men are considered masters of the world and all their problems can be solved by themselves. Women are told all problems are the fault of society/men/patriarchy and there is nothing they can do to improve themselves beside dismantle patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:43 PM
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I disagree. I think fatness harms men a lot more than women. Fat women are still flattering to look at. The fat accentuates their softness. Fat men have the main qualities in the attractiveness of a man taken away from them. The fat hides their jawline, sharp shoulders, and chest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:42 PM
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Feminists try not to blame every single problem in the world on patriarchy challenge (IMPOSSIBLE!)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:38 PM
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Wow the solution to a dating problem is men changing their behavior. Why am I not shocked?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:37 PM
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I believe all women are threats to men and have the capacity to ruin the lives of men whenever they so please through their manipulative conniving ways. Does that make a misogynist? Your logic would say it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:30 PM
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I believe they were trying to protect you too but also that they were spreading harmful misandrist ideas. The majority of men are dealing with internalized misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:24 PM
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Yes there is. The entirety of human history and interactions prove mine. I've never met a single woman that wasn't a misandrist. Some are more explicit in it while the least misandrist ones still are subconsciously.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:22 PM
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So you believe misogynists? That's an L
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:56 PM
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The misandrist insinuated women are too weak to commit violence against men. You responded to them that this is why female-on-male violence will never be taken seriously. I've noticed a lot of women think it's perfectly fine to dismiss violence against men because some men with internalized misandry are dismissive of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:56 PM
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So is feminism. Two sides of the same coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:42 PM
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Nah I responded to you. A lot of women see men with internalized misandry dismiss men's issues like domestic violence from women and see it as an excuse to not self reflect their attitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:38 PM
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All women are bitter, diminishing, manipulative misandrists to some degree. Men sell their bodies for labor all for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:36 PM
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Could say the same about feminism. There are thousands of different definitions for feminism and patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:31 PM
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Red pill for men is giving them the truth about women and they are free to do with that information as they please whether it's going their own way, spinning plates, or accepting the drawbacks and deciding that monogamy is worth it even if they have to constantly pass tests and hold frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:31 PM
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Noble masculinity is a scam. It's servitude. Can you think of an example of noble/positive masculinity that is not men providing for women in some way? If you can't, that shows what a scam it is. It's all just about the exploitation of men for the benefit of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:28 PM
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Nah men get salty when they realize they have to work 10x harder to get to the same place in dating value they would if they were a woman. Not fair but it is what it is. It means men are generally better people since they battle through adversity while women are just placed there. You guys have no character arc. Couldn't be me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:16 PM
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I wish I had a vagina. I would be worth so much more as a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:15 PM
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Yes they are. It's just that their vagina severely raises their value. The value of a penis is very low. A fit man and a fat woman are equal in value.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:14 PM
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Nope but if all you can pull is fat bitches or stay lonely, that's a sad realization for a lot of straight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:13 PM
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I love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:12 PM
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Men's clothing is boxy because men are shaped boxy. It's not some grand conspiracy to hide fatness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:11 PM
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All men are disgusting and hurtful. Women are wonderful. Great point!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:07 PM
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It would be nice for everyone to tremble in my terrifying presence but it'd get old and lonely quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:07 PM
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The only incentive women still have with men is that the majority of women want children and a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:05 PM
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This is just internalized misandry. I forgive them for it because they are men in pain. I'm a lot less sympathetic to misandrists since they come from a place of privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:03 PM
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This ain't it. Being a man is a big part of our identity. We need to stand together and have the same in-group bias for each other that women have between themselves. This is the only way we can ever be respected in society. Your method is simply pulling the ladder out from under you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:01 PM
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Bro is fearmaxxing lol, but why?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:59 PM
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Mfers see one misandrist and then use that to justify their own misandrist world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:53 PM
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Why does that matter? Will the bullet hurt less if the trigger is pulled by a woman and not a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:51 PM
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Also when men's behavior is policed for the comfort of women. Women are entitled to feel anyway they want to feel. They can feel a guy is creepy for daring to exist in the same sidewalk as them. My problem is expecting that guy to cross the street, keep his head down, maybe fake being in a call, all to make himself seem as small as possible so he can be one of the good ones. If a man isn't doing anything wrong, he shouldn't feel bad for not catering to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:48 PM
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Compared to women? When is the last time a woman is told to self improve? Women are told all their problems is because men are disgusting pigs and men are just not good enough anymore. That's literally the epitome of externalizing your dating issues. The assumption that you're perfect and need to change nothing about yourself except vetting better is toxic to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:02 PM
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Do you think this is more common in men or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:01 PM
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I think it's really strange we think men aren't doing these things. You have to remember that we simply assume men don't do these things when they ask for advice. Society has a women are beautiful bias and demonizes men so we assume men are disgusting until proven otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:00 PM
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You actually think men have learned helplessness while women are taught they have full agency of their lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:59 PM
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The answer is simple. Men are attracted to women much more than women are attracted to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:56 PM
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So if we have no choice but to accept this to be true, then I'll also add this for thought. Since men have to grind so much harder than women just to get to the same place, men are simply better human beings. Adversity makes someone a better person because they can easily emphasize with those with struggles. Straight women don't have character arcs like straight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:55 PM
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Men raising their standards isn't going to cause women to suddenly desire men as much as men desire women. Women's attraction to men is simply nonexistent comparative to men's for women. No behavioral changes from men can undue how women experience attraction. Attraction isn't negotiable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:52 PM
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Straight men have the least mutual attraction between any two groups. Gay men love each other. Gay women love each other. Straight men love women. Straight women's attraction to straight men is nothing comparatively. I'm not blaming women. That's just the way they're born. It does mean that straight men have the hardest path to attraction and have to work three times as hard as any other group in relationships to maintain attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:49 PM
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Lmfao like did I wake up in an alternate reality? One where women are the ones attributed a sense of hyper agency? It's men who are told they are gods of their environment. Women are taught learned helplessness, not men. I don't understand how women don't see this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:46 PM
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Lmfao you think I verbally abused you because I dared suggest that women can't womansplain the male experience. This is the entitlement of going your whole life thinking you're part of the morally superior gender. He found her attractive to some degree. Probably not attractive enough for him to marry but he's not fucking just because. Why waste all that energy for nothing? What he's getting out of it is a nut. Yes duh men have a higher standard for physical attractiveness for relationships. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:50 PM
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Yeah it does. How the fuck would you know you're just a woman you don't know jack shit about the male experience or how men think. I'm telling you as a man if he's sleeping with a woman then he finds her attractive. The problem is you think that just because he finds her attractive it means he also respects her. That's why they'll fuck women they find attractive while thinking she's a whore or a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:34 PM
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You're right. I can see how people can live completely privileged easy lives and still be good parents. I just gotta give credit to my people who start from the bottom and now they're here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:24 PM
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But do you endorse men doing that like you endorsed that woman for doing so?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:19 PM
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This is bull. Most women are in relationships with men they don't find attractive. Women will enter these relationships and then wonder why they're not satisfied. I've never heard of a man willfully entering a relationship with a woman he isn't attracted to because of other factors while not recognizing that it's a transactional relationship. These women are full on delusional thinking they'll grow attraction or something. We need to stop feeding women these ideas that their attraction is much m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:13 PM
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You can shit on those men without endorsing women to shun out men. If you weren't a misandrist, you would've brought up that the vast majority of men are not sex pests. You ignored me by the way so is it okay for a man to shun women if he meets one shitty women and then thinks all women are like that? If you answer no, you're a hypocrite since you said it's okay for her to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:58 PM
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That's what makes her more likely to be a good parent but the hotness hurts that chance since it means she's had an easier life. On the other hand, hotter wife means hotter kids which means they'll have an easier life. So maybe the optimal is pick a hot wife and parent the kid yourself. Can't be entrusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:41 PM
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I wasn't talking to you. I'm interested in the mental gymnastics of simp feminist men who shit on men and act like it's so noble for women to shun men out completely because a few men are bad people. Notice how you have a problem with what I said but not what he said even though I just reiterated what he said? The in-group bias that women have is evident.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:20 PM
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Yeah and I'm saying that's wrong too. We gotta stop giving these mfers a break just because they're hot. A hot woman is probably more likely to be a bad parent since they had it so much easier than life and won't have the adversity to handle parenthood. Duh!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:16 PM
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You're being too gracious to assume people aren't being malicious. People intentionally ignore stats that don't fit their narrative. We have a point to make and look for research that supports our preconceived opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:32 PM
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This is actually good advice for men to start caring more about the ambitions of women. No more of this "I don't care if she's a barista" talk. If she's going nowhere in life, she likely won't be a good parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 06:29 PM
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Would you blame men who shun women as a whole out completely because women can be insufferable?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:56 PM
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Shitty people exist. I got lucky to make friends with good women so that I'm turned off from all women when I meet shitty women. Looks like you don't have good men in your lives and that's sad for you. Men can be amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:55 PM
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Couldn't they simply say that more women work now because of feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 01:10 PM
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The only time feminists are willing to delve into the why behind the statistics in studies is when the perception is negative towards women. They'll approach these findings with countless excuses. Meanwhile, they'll happily hold over the heads of men that men are the perpetuators of the majority of violence while ignoring all the societal reasons why that is. Meanwhile, they're outspoken when racists use the 13/50 statistic. This is the problem with the views of feminism that we live in a patria…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:27 PM
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Feminism IS misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:20 PM
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The total doesn't matter to a discussion about which relationship is most likely to be abusive. Of course heterosexual relationships have the highest total of abuse, that's what you expect when the vast majority of people are heterosexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:20 PM
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Benevolent sexism is less harmful than aggressive sexism TO WOMEN!!!!! The flip side of all benevolent sexism is hostile sexism to men. When we treat women as better people because of their sex, we are treating men as worse people because of their sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:17 PM
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I agree with you but this also means women shouldn't complain about housework if the man has to provide for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:10 PM
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*gasp* men are human beings?? revolutionary discovery.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:08 PM
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But but but feminists said feminism is about equality!!! To give the male population a little grace, it's disgusting how early feminists can suck in boys into hating themselves but any self respecting man should figure it out by the 18-24 range.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:08 PM
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A wife would never be ridiculed for abandoning her husband to escape from an avalanche. Women expect men to sacrifice their lives for them. Where is the equality? Male disposability is not a joke!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:04 PM
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I don't think at a higher rate but do you have any evidence that childfree women are the bastions of equality and would give up the benevolent sexism benefits of their counterparts just for the benefit of men? I don't see why they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:00 PM
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Women aren't outright demanding these things. Men feel the societal pressure to do these things. This is wrong and sexism is wrong! Also, most men feel they would be resented if they didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:57 AM
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You can't hand wave all sexism/misandry that women contribute towards by saying we live in a society or patriarchy or whatever. This is just the feminist excuse of absolving women of all responsibility in the society we live in. Their hypocrisy is that all women's problems are society's and all men's problems are their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:56 AM
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It's illogical to expect a man to be protective and provide security without being patronizing or resentful over it if it's not established in their relationship that the woman has to make up for what she's being provided in other ways. If she holds this expectation but also goes around 24/7 yelling about equality and 50/50 relationships, she is a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:54 AM
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Do you think it's okay that women expect benevolent sexism and chivalry out of men? Do you think men should accept this without feeling resentment?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:48 AM
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