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Post for ModsApart_Pomegranate_63/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 09:27 PM
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you can believe that you don't need oxygen to exist, or be intoxicated to the point where you're unable to breath. but you'll still need oxygen to survive. conversely, you can suffer from schizophrenia and lash out because of your hallucinations; but even though they're real based on your perceptions, they're not actually real.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:29 PM
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i think we need to be cautious of selection bias when it comes to drawing conclusions from sampling reddit, since reddit tends to skew more towards people who are introverted, socially/romantically anxious and inexperienced/confused/frustrated compared to the general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:21 PM
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that's your job :P
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:12 PM
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if by "reality," you mean more disenchanted men are becoming full-blown nihilists, i don't disagree. but if by "reality," you mean that the dogma which they're perpetuating is reality and they're just spreading the truth and opening people's eyes, then i don't think that's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:10 PM
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i think maladjusted men are just more likely to be reading/posting in that thread than out socializing irl, leaving them more vulnerable to radicalization by TRP/incels
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 10:03 PM
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when did this sub become an incel woe-is-me hub? that used to be against the rules but looks like almost every new thread is some variation of "women bad!" or "life is so hard for 'average' men!"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:59 PM
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i think the issue is that this sub tends to be overrepresented by the guys who are waaay below those minimum requirements. they suffer from extreme depression, anxiety, resentment towards women, self-hatred, abusive upbringings, etc. expecting them to "get it" at this point in their lives is absurd. but nobody's really enforcing the "no woe-is-me" rule here so looks like they're all here to stay (and unable/unwilling to change).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:31 PM
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yeah i know that feel bro. i spent most of my 20s unsuccessfully trying to flirt with women, feeling like they were these asexual creatures that wanted nothing to do with me sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:25 PM
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are you consciously making progress towards any of those pursuits for their own sake?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:22 PM
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ty ty if you dm me within the next hour, you'll get 50% off my new ebook Get Confident, Stupid! I'll even through in a free 30-minute zoom consultation but act quick! there's limited slots available!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:20 PM
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do you feel like dating is a zero-sum game? where if you're not getting laid, you're losing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:19 PM
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lol you remind me so much of myself when i was younger and deep into all that pua stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:17 PM
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that's generally a losing strategy. or at least, that was my experience when i was younger and i thought that's what flirting was. i'm assuming you haven't had much success with that approach either?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:15 PM
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i mean, you're not wrong. but on the flipside, (ba dum tss!) in my experience, it was deeply fulfilling developing all those skills you listed. in other words: women aside, my quality of life increased dramatically after developing all those skills. everyone treats you better, life is just easier in general, and you feel better about yourself when you develop all those traits. so even if you're one of those full-blown "i hate women, im throwing in the towel, taking my ball, and going home" types…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:10 PM
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i can tell from the responses you're getting that most of the men here never learned how to flirt. they seem to think that flirting means being an unironic asshole to women, and that it's always going to be a one-sided affair. i can sorta relate since i felt similarly when i was younger and inexperienced though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:07 PM
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flirting's supposed to be mutual. if you're trying to flirt with someone and they're not reciprocating, you politely cut your losses and go look for someone who's interested in you and wants to flirt back
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 09:05 PM
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Pretending to be some James bond asshole why do you think that's what flirting is?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:52 PM
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i think you and /u/LowCreddit both have valid points. i once asked my improv teacher how he knows when to cut in and out of a scene. normally he's got an answer for things like that, but this time he told me, "sadly that's not something i can really teach you-- you'd have to ask somebody who had to learn how to do that. that's one of the few things that i've just been naturally good at." i think learning how to be a friend and learning how to flirt are similar. when i was in college, i didn't kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:47 PM
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the more attractive your personality, and the more time you've spent with her, the less important your looks are. in other words: you're average-looking but have a fun personality and you see her frequently through your mutual friends or through your weekly meetup groups? easy long-term chemistry! you're average-looking but your only interaction with her is via online dating? much harder!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:41 PM
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if you're not having fun flirting with women you find sexy, you're doing something wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 08:38 PM
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