ApartmentWeak1953 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Iam so thankful I found FDS! Reading these posts on arranged marriages makes me have a panic attack from surveying how patriarchal society is and how it is harder for women from Third world countries to find a decent man	CULTURAL MISOGYNY	ApartmentWeak1953	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/22 02:35 PM

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42	The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 65 -HerHax Cybersecurity Researchers Dispel Myths About AirTag Stalking Yaay FDS is back ! Was missing it too much	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/22 12:55 PM
21	Pick female doctors whenever possible I’m a doctor and I have seen batchmates look at the bodies of female patients of road accidents in emergency rooms while doing ECG .... Girls beware of male doctors ... not all of them , but most of them are like this mentally . They either will patronise ur issues , minimise your pain , make u feel like shit for being too much trouble , dismiss your fears as a woman or hit on u . Most of them do check u out and think of u .	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/04/22 10:56 AM
10	Straight from the horses mouth. NEVER share your past relationship trauma/problems with men because they will hold it against you. How poorly you were treated by men in the past will either make him resent you or he will use it as a bar for how much you are willing to put up with. Gosh ! So much judgement ! She probably thought it was safe to share with him and he goes on and thinks this of her ! She would never in her life imagine this reaction . He would probably give her the silent treatment or anything as such over the next few days and shame her about this forever , bring it up when she annoys him probably . The reason he is angry coz of the age old notion of men that they feel they “own” the woman in question ! How dare she be with anyone even before me ! (Must she …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/22 02:41 PM
80	Love Is Blind- What Did Shake Say Behind Deeptis Back? I didn’t watch the show but the way shake meets Deepti at first face to face made me feel uneasy by the way he touches her and grabs her ass . It isn’t unusual for couples to do this , but I guess they are long term couples . I maybe reading too much here , but FDS has taught me to not ignore slightest signs of discomfort and just watching that was uneasy for me . Also maybe iam biased but Asian couples do not usually do that in public . It was uneasy to watch that . Shake gave me not so good vi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/22 01:08 PM
34	Am I the only one who's starting to believe I'll never be loved? I’m at same place in life . 27 now and feeling this way . Had a relationship , don’t know where it’s headed now, friends getting married and cutting me off now that Iam no longer needed... I live in South Asia where marriage below 30 is norm , if u cross 30 then people look at unmarried women like having a third eye or a fifth limb 😹 But I want out of this situation . Iam working actively on leaving my country and trying to settle at a place where I will be comparatively less harassed for being …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/22 03:29 PM
71	Abusers wait to reveal his true colours until you’re baby trapped. Vet ruthlessly by enforcing your boundaries during courtship. It’s popular in Indian culture to live with in-laws for rest of the life . As if a husband isn’t enough .... I refuse to live with anyone’s parents after marriage and I haven’t yet had the guts to put this out as I know I would be getting a lot of outbursts from Indian men and preconditioned women to follow what’s been going on since centuries here .	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/22 06:40 AM
12	More straight people than gay / bisexual people being diagnosed with HIV for first time in a decade according to U.K. health secretary. We’ve been telling you these men are doing too much. Protect your cooch! HIV spreads most commonly under sexual category from 1 - Male to male via anal route as anal injuries are common in homosexual sex . AND 2 - MALE to FEMALE >> FEMALE TO MALE as semen remains in contact with vagina and cervix for a prolonged time period . So ladies , you are at the highest risk to contract HIV after homosexual men and hence DO NOT TRUST HIM WHEN HE SAYS HE DOESNT SLEEP WITH SUCH WOMEN AS YOU ARE AUTOMATICALLY AT A HIGHER RISK TO GET IT AND IT CAN HURT YOUR CHANCES EVEN MORE IN A …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/22 09:05 AM
11	How'd You Find FDS? I found it coz of FLUS . Was searching on reddit hacks and someone had probably pinned FLUS in comments and I went through and it discovered it was a safe space for female workplace issues and such and the comments were so non toxic and non competitive for once . Then after some days found that FDS exists and lurked on it for a while , read the handbook and felt like I got an older sister who I never had and wanted always , who would tell me to put myself first and all the grey areas of life whi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/02/22 08:57 AM
9	I don’t understand why men are so cruel. Rant. Omg that’s supermodel weight ! I’m 5’7 and weigh 126 lbs and that’s hard to maintain itself for me ! Whoever told you that you are fat needs to go to the ophthalmologist	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/22 08:10 AM
16	I don’t understand why men are so cruel. Rant. Yeah ! Men be like “Your just perrrrfect except for that slight stomach bulge “ or “ you don’t have a completely fLaT sTOmach “ etc when they themselves are laden with flab and stretchmarks ( no way demeaning it as it is not in control of anyone ) . They will compare you to that Instagram professional bikini model whose job is to be that way meanwhile we are working overtime and making time for that gym/yoga/Pilates class at 5 am to maintain ourselves. Just Pay zero heed to such scrotes . You ar…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/02/22 08:04 AM
3	Harbouring resentment in future relationships I’m in the Same boat sis ! I’m turning 28 soon and was in a committed relationship since 19 . He was not a lvm person but he told me he would be financially in a better position soon and that he was willing to wait . He didn’t change is actions even though I kept telling him to , and he and I both were in no hurry for marriage . I was willing to have sex with him earlier as I was immature and thought that I didn’t want marriage and kids and was into the libfem culture. But as time passed , I mat…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/01/22 03:20 PM
6	Steve from Sex and the City is what happens when you settle I was hoping someone posts this here , and iam glad you did .Miranda’s storyline touches a nerve in me as she was my favourite character . I say was because the makers have completely twisted her now and she is a rambling idiot who doesn’t know how to talk to people, the same Miranda who was a successful lawyer and actually made a life for herself , balancing work and keeping in touch with her friends. I wanted really for her to win at some point and get with a nice person like Harry who may not…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/22 06:22 AM
12	Part 2. I blocked him, but he used someone else's phone to have the last word. Like I was going to let him 😘 Wow that’s some Queen 👸 !	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/22 05:13 PM
13	I Regret my Plastic Surgery: The Impact of the Patriarchy & LVM Fathers I too thought of getting a nose job due to bullying in med school .	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/22 01:25 PM
44	A story from a recovering pickme & libfem. Embarrassed to tell my friends what happened to me and do not have family I can talk about this with. Hoping to find support here. Be kind to yourself please . It was not your fault . You were the victim even before u met this man . You were victim of society and libfem culture which is a trap laid by men to exploit women who are young and naive . Women rarely get anything out of it . We don’t realise how much society is against women from the start. Women are shamed and judged 10 times more than any man for this . They are even judged by partners who got with them after knowing them . That man was a predator who used sympa…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/22 08:46 AM