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DiscriminationApatheticBedDweller/r/MensRights14/10/14 09:32 PM
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How utterly depressing.
/r/MensRights30/12/16 06:27 AM
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Neither had I, this is a phenomenal article. Thank you OP.
/r/MensRights01/08/16 06:00 AM
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I can hardly fathom the irony in you calling me blind, and "just as bad as the feminazis". Like I said, there's no reasoning with radicals.
/r/MensRights05/02/16 12:02 AM
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Yeah, my evidence is only anecdotal. I'd like to see the data you speak of though, rather than this shoddily created image
/r/MensRights04/02/16 09:43 PM
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Yeah, I can't argue that my evidence isn't anecdotal. I've also never struggled with obesity, so my opinion is likely biased.
/r/MensRights04/02/16 09:32 PM
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Or, you know, people are different and not all people believe the same thing and act the same way.
/r/MensRights04/02/16 08:19 PM
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Yes, false rape accusations and domestic violence charges do ruin the lives of some men in our society today. Alternatively, minorities are statistically far more likely to be the perpetrators of violent crime than caucasians. I do not fear for my safety every time I see a black or Hispanic person. I also do not view every single woman I know and meet as suspicious purely based on the fact that some women have done some terrible things to some men. See how in my analogy applying your logic about…
/r/MensRights04/02/16 07:36 PM
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I'm judging you because of your anti-female views on a subreddit that is supposed to be "pro-equality". Most of the girls and women I know in my life are great people. I do not believe it is a lie to say that the world is filled with wonderful women, based on my experience interacting with real people in real life. It also seems like you believe feminism is just a blanket organization out to squash men's rights. You are obviously unfamiliar with the contrast of gender feminism vs equity feminism…
/r/MensRights04/02/16 01:41 PM
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I definitely get the feminist vibe. The word "patriarchy" popped up at least once. We spent almost four hours just talking, so I was definitely able to make some deductions.
/r/MensRights04/02/16 01:34 PM
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First date was coffee so there wasn't a bill to split. Possible day trip this weekend to the city though, I can waive my litmus strips around then hahaha.
/r/MensRights04/02/16 01:13 PM
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Yeah, the plan as of now is to get a little bit more of a grasp as to her actual opinions, when it comes time for the discussion, I'll ask that she stay open minded and listen to what I have to say with rationality, and then I'll address all the points that I feel are necessary. I'll ask that she hear me through, and not interrupt and go off on a tangent. Once I'm finished, if she wants to take some time to digest, do some research, whatever, she can. Or if she wants to continue the discussion t…
/r/MensRights04/02/16 12:55 PM
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Lol. No wonder MRA's get such a bad wrap. You're like the male version of the girl I'm describing. Except you probably aren't as intelligent or open minded as she is.
/r/MensRights04/02/16 12:16 PM
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Considering the alternative would be to suppress my egalitarian opinions and forever hold resentment towards her for her anti-male opinions, I'm going to take my chances with rational discussion. If it blows up in my face, oh well, life goes on. I'm young, the world is filled with wonderful women.
/r/MensRights04/02/16 09:59 AM
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Yeah, it's very logical that those people would feel comfortable in communities like that. If you spend your life neglected, depressed, isolated, perhaps even abused, you are going to be so much more likely to join a community where most of the other members are dealing with the exact same things. I'd argue that the communal aspect of these communities is more powerful in bringing new members into the community than whatever the actual thing the community surrounds is, so much so that it may eve…
/r/MensRights04/02/16 09:55 AM
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Yes, I know what you mean. Fingers crossed. She's a hell of a girl, I'd hate to have to pass her up.
/r/MensRights04/02/16 09:45 AM
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In most cases? Probably. I have hope for this situation though. This is an intelligent, open minded individual. I'm hoping she'll be able to listen to what I have to say rationally.
/r/MensRights04/02/16 09:37 AM
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Okay, then I'll eat my words there. That doesn't affect the point though. Yeah, I really should have phrased it better. It would be unfair and hypocritical of me to generalize like that. I did not realize that such a large percentage of that population fit the stereotype due largely to personal issues like you mentioned though, so thank you for sharing your experiences with me. It does make sense though. I know that depression and neglect can cause lots of issues and turmoil in the lives of thos…
/r/MensRights04/02/16 09:35 AM
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Did you discuss those personal issues with many other people that you would consider to be "that guy"? If yes, and you found that most of those other people were also "that guy" because of similar or equally debilitating personal issues? If yes, then I'll eat my words here. If not though, then you can't say that all, or even most guys who fit that stereotype are the way they are because of personal/psychological issues. That's still generalizing. And yes, it is equally generalizing for me to say…
/r/MensRights04/02/16 09:16 AM
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Sure, I definitely cannot generalize. I'm sure the abuse you suffered was very difficult, and I apologize that it happened to you. I was referring to the situation presented in the picture however. The person in that picture is a stereotype of men who are lazy, unhygienic, unhealthy, and lack personal discipline. That stereotype is not representative of the entire overweight male population, nor is it likely representative of a significantly large portion of that population. It is a very specifi…
/r/MensRights04/02/16 08:59 AM
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Thank you very much.
/r/MensRights04/02/16 08:49 AM
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Yeah, this post is pretty ridiculous. I've never seen women actively shame men for being fat, and praise women for being fat. The guy in this situation is being shamed because the fact that he does not have any interest in his hygiene, health, or even image reflects his character. He is not being shamed purely for being overweight.
/r/MensRights04/02/16 08:27 AM
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There's far too many generalizations in this to be taken seriously. This is the equivalent of feminist propaganda.
/r/MensRights04/02/16 08:17 AM
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Beautiful analysis, and in all instances correct. I just thought that maybe we should hold ourselves to a higher standard than some of those other subreddits. But if everyone is fine with stooping to their level then that's fine too. I do not have the time or energy to go around policing subreddits demanding for evidence behind every claim. In some of those other subreddits, I would likely be banned very quickly for asking for proof to establish credibility. I just noticed this comment here on t…
/r/MensRights25/12/15 03:26 AM
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No, that's how real life works lol. See my real life example.
/r/MensRights24/12/15 10:14 AM
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I did not dismiss his experiences, I asked him to provide them to validate his opinion. He never provided his experiences, how could I have dismissed him? Yeah I'm 17 so not really claiming to be Mr. Maturity over here, just thought it would help my argument in this thread to highlight how immature and pathetic this guy was acting.
/r/MensRights24/12/15 10:12 AM
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I called the guy out on his stupid comment. Sorry for defending myself. Jesus Christ.
/r/MensRights24/12/15 09:47 AM
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There's a difference between being a sexist and making a sexist comment. I never called you a sexist, I called your opinion sexist. You probably ride a bike every now and again. That doesn't make you a goddamn professional cyclist. I didn't originally believe your comment was overtly sexist but after my conversation with you and this previous commenter's experience and some thought about it, I've changed my opinion about your opinion.
/r/MensRights24/12/15 09:43 AM
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Thank you for providing us with you experience. It's great to see a different perspective on the matter. Just goes to show even more that the original commenter's statement is unnecessarily sexist.
/r/MensRights24/12/15 07:50 AM
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Lol, it's not about what I think is best. It's what is best. If you had any rationality then you would see that. There's a reason my first comment isn't down voted to shit. I might just have to do that.
/r/MensRights24/12/15 07:20 AM
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You really aren't getting it are you? It's not about what I want. It's about what's good for the fucking community. If you cared about the advancement of Men's Rights then you'd care about how our community is viewed by the outside world, since the way they PERCEIVE us determines the way they interact with us, and whether or not they are going to listen to us and our goals and take us seriously. If we keep putting out the example that we are all sexist misogynists, then nobody is really going to…
/r/MensRights24/12/15 06:57 AM
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Fuck, I forgot that there are people out there who don't care about anybody but themselves and their free speech. Just because you can say anything that you like doesn't mean you should, especially when you represent something that is bigger than you are. You probably wouldn't be able to comprehend that with your massive ego though.
/r/MensRights24/12/15 06:45 AM
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I completely agree with you. The plight of Men's Rights should not be the only plight we endorse if we are expected to be viewed as a legitimate movement, especially if we say we support freedom and equality for all. Also, some of the comments in this thread are really making me rethink my affiliation to this sub. Men's Rights is a noble cause, but there are some serious bad apples here. Are all famous women massive cunts? Are you fucking serious? The amount of ignorance there is astonishing, as…
/r/MensRights24/12/15 06:18 AM
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This argument was clearly about the perception of our community and how we should present ourselves. That's the whole reason I commented in the first place. Your comment is a great candidate for the "Most irrelevant comment that added nothing to the discussion" award.
/r/MensRights24/12/15 05:30 AM
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Thank you very much. I think a lot of people in this sub tend to forget that MRA's are not the only people that come to this sub, and that the things we say here affect the way other people perceive our community. If we want people to stop thinking this is a sexist community, we have to stop saying things that could be perceived as sexist, or at least back up those statements with experiences or statistics to show that they are credible, if they are credible at all.
/r/MensRights24/12/15 05:29 AM
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I'm not telling you to do anything. I'm telling you that maybe you should consider the fact that regardless of whether or not you want to be an "ambassador of MRA", you are a member of this community and anything you say here that gains support of the community will be perceived as a reflection of the community's opinion as a whole by those who are not members. Men's Rights Activism is classically smeared as a sexist community, and I don't know about you, but I'd like to do what I can to squash …
/r/MensRights24/12/15 05:19 AM
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Woah Woah Woah. Nobody said anything about censorship, or feminists, or anything. There's no need to get all defensive. We're on the same side here. If your opinion falls in line with the average, then fine, I'm in the wrong here. But what if it doesn't? What if only people who have had the same experiences as you and I can empathize with that opinion? Well then that opinion may give the wrong impression to potential MRA's, who may then be turned off from the movement completely. I don't think e…
/r/MensRights24/12/15 05:10 AM
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I'm not labeling you sexist, as I said, I've got my own personal experience supporting it. All I'm saying is I could see it being interpreted that way by someone who hasn't had any experience to support it. You certainly aren't obligated to explain but statements that could have a perceived negative connotation like that could be potentially harmful to the image of our community, which I thought was something that we cared about.
/r/MensRights24/12/15 04:46 AM
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What sources or experiences do you have to back up that claim besides your own opinion? I'm not disagreeing, and I literally have personal experience with my own mother to back up that claim, but I could see it coming off as pretty sexist to someone who doesn't frequent this sub without any back up. Edit: I'm just going to hijack my own top comment real quick to illustrate the immaturity of the commenter I replied to. He is stalking my post history, making fun of all my posts, and insulting me, …
/r/MensRights24/12/15 04:33 AM
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I laughed out loud after reading the title. Not because the situation is funny, but because of the sheer ludicrousness of this.
/r/MensRights13/12/15 07:35 AM
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Really? Being a nice guy has gotten me pretty damn far in life so far. Beautiful girlfriend and great friends who love my company. Maybe our definitions of Nice Guy are different.
/r/MensRights17/09/15 01:14 PM
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Can we raid this page?
/r/MensRights29/04/15 02:45 PM
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Funny, the last bullet on the left side which got cut out said "No matter what, no one has the right to hurt you in any way under any circumstances".
/r/MensRights15/10/14 03:12 PM
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Unfortunately it's not, this is in California.
/r/MensRights14/10/14 10:29 PM
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While there isn't any doubt that this was a contributing factor to his depression and lack of overall being, trying to say that he killed himself as a direct result of his alimony payments is just disrespectful to him. There were so many factors that came into play with this, and this isn't just an MRA issue, it's an issue with how depression is viewed and handled as a whole. I may get down voted but this is my opinion, and this is a place for discussion.
/r/MensRights13/08/14 08:12 AM
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Don't even get me started on the school policies. Friend of mine was expelled in 6th grade for having a butter knife at school. Absolutely ridiculous
/r/MensRights07/11/13 03:08 PM
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In my opinion, the California Juvenile Justice System is entirely fucked up. The fact that the minors are treated as if they are guilty until proven innocent and the case is not witnessed by a jury is atrocious. These kids are the future of our society, they should be treated with respect and have the rights of a normal trial. This is one case with this trial though, that would have not mattered if it had been a normal trial. The child in this situation has had a terrible terrible childhood, and…
/r/MensRights06/11/13 08:15 PM
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