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Means hypergamy that was once naturally checked by pregnancy and the hymen, and then by legal and social structures of marriage and shame, is now totally unchecked. Yes, exactly! Marrying a young virgin won't save you. (good luck finding one anyway) Relying on women in general to be consistent is a poor strategy. A man has to look at the world for what it is. In our world marriage/divorce is too high a risk with too little reward. You cannot "choose the right one". You can choose the better of m…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 05:42 AM
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I'll offer a different theory that seems to mesh with the stats; People in general, and in this case women, respond to incentives and disincentives. In 1960's the divorce rate was a mere 10% - can you believe that! Why? Divorce was shamed by every institution in society. Women now fuck freely and divorce more often because they can with little repercussions (especially if they are young). There is no family shame anymore The is no shame at church anymore There is no shame in the workplace anymor…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 05:21 AM
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Once again always-be-closing, you are reaching for a conclusion not supported by evidence NOR the studies you cite. First off, 3 of the 4 studies you cite concern cohabitation before marriage. They do not reference partner count what-so-ever (the last article has only it's abstract available and nothing in that seems to support a partner count link). You seem to be the only one making the logical leap in equating the two. Secondly, the link between cohabitation and subsequent divorce has been re…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 04:41 AM
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That's a great explanation and one that I had assumed in the past myself. However there are a couple of conflicting counterpoints to the theory that make me rethink that conclusion. The highest risk group for divorce are couples who have married young. I'll link the sources later. However they are easy to find. The lowest risk group are couples who have married later in life, around age 30, and college educated. While those factual statistics do not address partner count they indirectly imply th…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 12:15 AM
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My Bad: "Stop Hating" wasn't directed at you. Some posters get down on men who are or aspire to be successful. To those; "stop hating".
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 03:28 PM
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You have to be prepared to overcome a lot to succeed, least of all women. That's why the successful are so respected. Success - an admittedly nebulous term - is the most competitive arena on the planet.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 01:54 PM
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“I know a lot of millionaires " I doubt that "And their wives are.......... Guess what these two gentlemen complain about the most? Lack of sex. So, the way I see it, there is a strong negative correlation between wealth and sex." These guys are married. The correlation is with Marriage and lack of sex - ask any dude married more than a couple of years. Success and the money, privilege, respect, women and status it brings is a man's highest endeavor. Stop Hating
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 01:43 PM
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Straw man argument. The post you're referring to merely explains a well-known maxim: "Make your mission, not your woman, your priority in life." The post is dead on. Chase success and all other things will fall into place.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 01:23 PM
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OP: I don't mean to be a concern "troll" but.......[proceeds to voice undue concern for they way other describe themselves]. I'll bet this guy has met exactly ZERO of the posters he alludes to yet already has identified a pressing need to police their descriptions of themselves?? Meh, buzz off.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 12:53 AM
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Yeah, that's called a Kamakazi. Don't do that. Tease, chat, make conversation. Can you initiate an carry a fun breezy conversation for 10 minutes without much more than a laugh or nod by the girl? If not, start there.
/r/seduction11/12/15 08:01 PM
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No, not at all. Women in your life.must earn their relationship status. You are treating her as worthy of exclusivity and an LTR as opposed to dating non exclusively (a 'plate'). Most communication is non verbal. She is communicating that she wants to be nonexclusive. Act accordingly. There's no need for discussion or concurrence from her, just do it. Let her anguish over the relationship. She can change things only by changing her grey area BS. If she balks, tell herror you assumed she wouldn't…
/r/seduction11/12/15 07:32 PM
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Love all the Cuck advice you've received so far. Yeah just let your girl nuzzle up to Chad.... She'll come home to you..... heck, she brushes her teeth so what are you so worried about?? LMAO. What a sad state of feminization men have slipped into. NOW HEAR THIS: For all of history true Alpha men (not the paper Alpha's here) have punished ruthlessly any male interlopers making moves on their women. Some men were killed for even gazing too long at their Wife/Mistress/Harem. If you have to tolerat…
/r/seduction11/12/15 12:20 AM
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Listen up fella's, people follow leaders. Women fk leaders. Many guys want to be the leader and will verbally joust to try and establish themselves as the focal point. Don't try too hard with words. You can distinguish yourself by leading - by actions. In order to lead you must organize, plan and execute. Nothing weird, just have a plan - pretty basic stuff. Going to a movie? Think ahead and plan a much better experience for the group. 1) bring a flask 2) bar/music venue to hit after the movie 3…
/r/seduction10/12/15 11:41 PM
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OP: Gentlemen, it may come as a surprise to some of you but...turns out centuries of male scholarship was right. ??? Right about what? Are they "right" about how monogamy emerged or "right" that monogamy is the best of all mating strategies today or "right" about something else?? State your claim please.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 10:12 PM
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Ease up dude, you're getting emotional. The legality of hidden (nanny) cams are entirely relevant to the discussion at hand. Own it and move on.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 07:06 PM
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Annnd now your grasping. You got it wrong. Just own it and quit embarrassing yourself.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 06:26 PM
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You've lost all credibility. Your post advocates NOT using video and instead rely on a next day text - bad advice as stated from the beginning and throughout.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 06:24 PM
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You've lost all credibility. I stand behind my words.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 06:23 PM
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Side notes on the ability of Video to exonerate in the case of a false accusation; As you peruse the plethora of cases where Video has saved some poor chump(s) from jail you will notice some things. First the video need not so show the actual activity. Many of the cases show the accuser hugging, kissing, walking arm in arm or otherwise showing satisfaction with the accused and/or the interaction. So your camera need not even capture the act to be effective, nor even be in the same room as where …
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 01:11 PM
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Faulty claim. I cite numerous cases above that show video collected in every sort of way, has been used to successfully exonerate.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 11:57 PM
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Yes. Can and did. See other references in my replies including the one from the American Bar Association.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 11:54 PM
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You have yet to show where any court anywhere has failed to exonerate a rape defendant where video evidence clearly shows the contrary. Prove your point or GTFO
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 11:02 PM
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OP: You're telling guys here its OK to COMMIT A FELONY in some places because you read some fucking link some douchebag who isnt a lawyer wrote on the internet about babysitters. You my friend, are an idyet. Please show me one single instance where a court refused to exonerate a guy in the face of video evidence showing the contrary. Please, just one single case supporting your misinformed view. Anything?? I have no doubt you will reply with something. But that something will not be a case-law I…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 10:16 PM
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You do not need consent when videoing in you own home. The OP appears to be unaware of this. see below
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 07:19 PM
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You link does not address recording in one's own home - the most logical place. Get smart, see my reply below.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 06:30 PM
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It's not a "no go" if you record in your own home. See my reply above.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 06:08 PM
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BAD ADVICE from OP, do not heed!! OP: "If you are in a two party consent state and you can't legally make a recording, focus your efforts instead on...." The article DOESN'T address the most common and practical defensive use of recordings. i.e. is it legal and admissible to record video/audio in my own home without obtaining permission from persons being recorded? The examples cited in your articles concern recording in public or on private property not of the recorder. I recommend anyone inter…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 06:05 PM
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Wow, very well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/15 10:02 PM
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17 is average and nothing to worry (actually pretty good) about for a 29 yo woman. I could understand if it were a lot more but for 29.... I think he's probably bothered that it's higher than his, lol. Other than that I don't know what the problem is honestly.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 11:31 PM
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Ahhh, you're butthurt at the implication that attorneys have culpability. I know two attorneys in family law and hear often of the dirty tricks employed. Such as the classic, claim DV, get a temporary protection order, then seek to have it enforced for 5 years (where dude has to pay someone to supervise his visits with the kids who may be 10 states away by now) . Hubby is fully removed from the extracted from his family and pays the maximum in support. Cool eh? "but they didn't cause it " = weak…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 07:38 PM
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"Divorce costs more than that it's because you'd rather pay to fight than accept what the other side is offering." Duh, well of course! The family court system incentives conflict by putting a dollar amount on kids. Child support spending is completely monitored, visitation orders is loosely enforced and mothers are highly favored. Oh yeah, don't forget the tricky little strategy of claiming DV, get a protection order and try to have it enforced for 5 years because the formally non-violent daddy…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 10:38 PM
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Dude, I like your book report on the Charisma Myth, but Charisma =/= Alpha. Don't worry, most other people don't know what it means either.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 05:12 AM
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Hot women (8-9+) are despised by average girls everywhere. Average girls see the disposition shift that occurs in both guys and other women when a hot woman enters the scene and they resent it. They see the normal guys act giddy and stupid. They catch their BF's sneaking glances. They see married men fixate. This is why hot women have hot friends. They don't have to feel bad that their drawing all the attention away from lesser looking women. Hot friends understand the unique challenges, stereot…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 02:58 PM
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he funny thing is my wife wanted to have a better sex life and feel really guilty and horrible we did not. I said before. Keep in mind oh Jeanie.... the biggest predictor of a cheating man is a sexless marriage. Girl ain't stupid, she probably has already accepted it. Hell many women are OK with it anyway.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 11:20 PM
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Yep. It should be pinned. Fortunately/Unfortunately I have lots of experience in this area. This is such a common phenomenon that mastering "Guy Friends" and "Green Lighting" is essential to your sanity.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 09:30 PM
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I asked her why she has more guy friends than girl friends Sounds like she's still "playing the field". I don't know how old she is but you either have to get to where you are unaffected by it or walk. The only way to do that is to lower her priority in your life. The only way to do that is to have other, competing love interests (plates) in the picture. This has the added benefit of being able to let her know that her actions produce equal and opposite reactions. Namely her actions define how s…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 09:23 PM
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Women are social creatures and they will actively foster friendships with both sexes - often naively. That in and of itself is not a red flag. You question is whether or not this girl is actively encouraging sexual interest from her male friends as opposed to genuine platonic male relationships (rare). This is also know as "Green-lighting" (at least by me) and is a big Red Flag. Signs of Green Lighting Her Guy Friends are single They are eligible i.e. they are age & SMV worthy She meets up with …
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 07:38 PM
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Sure - - - high SMV women will want nothing to do with a man who has lots of casual sex, and even more so than high SMV men, have their pick of the market. I would argue vigorously against that. I am curious why you think I disagree. Again, not specifically addressing you, I nonetheless see you repeat the same assumptions others make. Namely, (paraphrasing) a woman's fitness as a mother and in marriage or LTR is predicated on her sexual history, i.e her notch count. To quote: Will she make a goo…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 09:03 PM
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We're all here trying to improve and move towards betterment. Why hold women to a different standard? Men and women are not the same They are complementary and have different roles. Women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men, of commitment. ... So then, are you also saying that men, if held to this standard, are "damaged goods" if they are spinning their commitment (aka plates) among several women? Oh wait, let me guess... you tell all of them plates exactly what's going on and if they don't like it …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 06:13 PM
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Tinder is almost like a Domino's app. A few swipes and texts while I'm taking a shit on the toilet and within 30 to 45 mins there's a fresh pussy delivered to my door. lolz But seriously dude... what's the fascination with her nasty pooper?
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 09:32 PM
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Using uber is equivalent to saying that you're poor.... Same thing with AirBnb - its incongruent that one has a nice pad but cant afford a car. Uber - Na, the OP is on to something. It works much better than driving back from a bar. The biggest benefits are you keep the party going and she stays in state the whole way back, esp if you have a flask, the driver has beats and you're heading to a pimp hotel (see below). Plus she doesn't have to struggle with the idea of jumping in a strangers car. A…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 08:43 PM
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Well said. The best way to achieve an average and mediocre life is to have everyone like you. Everyone needs more haters. Chances are you don't have nearly enough.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 06:37 PM
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How do you put an emotional wall? Keep thy commandments: "Always have two in the kitty." -CH If your #1 always seems to find herself in suspect situations, you'd better have a #2 nearby to keep your head right. If you don't have a #2 she's telling you, by virtue of her actions, you'd better get one quick.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 06:26 PM
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^ ^ Gold ^ ^ The only way to approach dating with a modern, emplowered, independent woman. They define their relationshit potential through their actions. Girls night out dressed to kill again? Good idea, I love meeting new people too! Oh, you used to date that "guy friend" you're texting/emailing/meeting for lunch? Fantastic, I keep in touch with my "friends" too. You gave him your number because you were just networking? (at the bar at 11pm) Smart girl! Move in together someday you say? Awe, y…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 05:34 PM
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A POTENTIAL HUSBAND DOMESTIC SERVANT SHOULD BE ....there, fixed it. After-all, that is what BB's are signing up for.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 03:53 PM
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Why be a sheep run of the mill business owner trading peanuts when I can pump black gold for 40 hours a week. Because YOU are not pumping "black gold". You are an employee for a business owner(s) who are pumping oil and bringing it to market. Through some combination of financing, business savvy and wage slaves your EMPLOYER is able to turn that oil into black gold for THEM while giving you peanuts. And for the record I agree, you shouldn't be a "run of the mill" business owner. You should find …
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 03:12 PM
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"... Engineering, medicine, STEM and Business degrees." You do know what the "E" in STEM stands for right? Anyway, you'll make what ... $90-120k/yr as an engineer until they outsource it? Peanut's kid. Just about any old self employed trade business owner will crush that pittance. Spend $100k and 4 years on your own hustle ....unless you want to be some corporate sheep. Colleges used to be the bastions of exclusive knowledge. Now there is NOTHING that you've learned in college that can't simply …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 11:12 PM
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A bunch of butt-hurt little bitches in the comments. Good on you OP. Traditional masculinity (aka RP) works wonders.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 07:21 PM
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"Never cook for women. I don't care if your a Michelin chef don't cook for them." A man who alters his behavior for someone else is weak. Cook if you want to. NEVER, I repeat NEVER compromise your likes and dislikes for the sake of someone else. = WEAKNESS.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 04:57 PM
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You should make this it's own post.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 06:58 PM
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Tell them. While not a bragging rite, sex is more of an achievement for a man. For a woman it's an indicator of a lack of self control and judgement. From time eternal there have always been two types of women with class and skanks. Most women today fall into the skank column. Wanna-be alfa's cope with this by claiming it doesn't matter. lolz
/r/TheRedPill19/07/15 06:52 PM
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Jeeze dude, nit pick much? OK, Ok..... yes..... not EVERYTHING listed is ALWAYS true, ALL of the time with EVERYONE, EVERYWHERE.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 08:53 PM
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You're over thinking it....because you're a bit needy about it. She is cavalier about exercising her options because she knows she can be. She knows you are always an option to pick up or drop at her whim. What an ideal circumstance for her to exercise her hypergamy apologetically. If she's just a plate to you who cares? Treat her like a plate and little shittier than you have been without being a bitch about it. Actively pursue other women, bring them around and don't make special arrangements …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 10:44 PM
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