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If you ever had a church girl ( very active in church, not just someone that goes every Sunday), it should be very easy to accept what Archwinger is saying. Pretty good cover to be honest, but to the trained eye it's cliche.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 02:58 AM
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Had a girl go cold on me and told her to delete all my shit. Phone number, social media, everything. She said she's not doing it. Funny how these girls either want to see what you do, or what they do, without you. Always delete them. Always. It's all a game to them. Don't be their game. If you are in pain, they will never see it because you are now a ghost.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 12:31 AM
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I agree with you. Truth be told, every girl isn't attracted to a ripped dude. I think the point of the improvement process is that you can be more happy with yourself regardless of if a woman comes or goes. Improvement helps build confidence. A lot of men lack that self confidence. TRP is trying to fill that need which is fine with me.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 11:56 PM
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You have to pay a perfect game of chess just to cover your own ass. Thank you for this post Archwinger. Hope nothing happens. Stay strong, sir. You seem very sharp but I can only imagine how exhausting holding frame in a marriage can be.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 09:29 PM
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When I was younger my father used to have me lift bricks. Memories man. I appreciate the post, OP. And you're right. Everybody on here isn't doing well. Some of us don't have anything because of many factors throughout life. Making the best if what you have is very important.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 07:32 PM
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I understand that mindset completely but that doesn't apply to all things. I believe most male related things apply to this. Things like how to be confident, how to take charge, certain male mindsets, things like that. Some of them use it very frivolously and overdo it also just because most girls say it to hurt a man's pride when they're angry. I had to tell a girl that I didn't need a second mother. She said "act like it then". I never needed her for anything. No money. No shelter. Wasn't clin…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 01:34 PM
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I see where I misunderstood. I stand corrected. Reminds me of Rollo's post about women wanting men to "get it" without being told to. Once it's said by her, you may have already lost.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 12:29 PM
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The difference is she didn't start to treat him worse and worse until she cheated on him, she was able to directly tell him “I'm not attracted to you anymore” and even give him specifics about what he needed to change to become more attractive. .....That's ass backwards. I'm not gonna listen to a woman that cheats THEN tries to school me on how I need to be like some other guy she wants fuck. There's no coming back from that even if he tried. She already made up her mind. Hope he learned from th…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 11:04 AM
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Excellent alternate perspective! I kind of had one of those too. Took me so much strength to get away from her. Abundance mentality is so important for this reason. These are the ones that men can't let go of. They fluff you up and then turn cold in an attempt for you to give them something. By that time you should be addicted to them because they've done things here and there that "no other girl will ever do for you again". And of course men believe this. Its crazy how they can do all of this a…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 12:56 AM
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For in much wisdom is much grief: and he that increaseth knowledge increaseth sorrow. I've been saying this in my head for a long fucking time now. Please tell me you have a reference to the person who said this.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 12:42 AM
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I like your response. Its like lifting a weight off of yourself in thinking that you have to control your wife. You cant, so why worry about it? Its almost as if you don't care. You've seemed to detach yourself from your wife and shifted most of your love to your daughter, who needs it the most. I understand this type of thinking doesn't happen overnight. Bravo.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 12:34 AM
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Had a girl tell me she didn't fell like auditioning for me anymore. Felt like I was mystery. Felt like she was always on thin ice. Funny thing is...I was just being myself. Guess that grew too "familiar" also. What do you have to say to this? I fully agree with the post btw.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 11:53 PM
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I totally agree. Its countless examples of the differences. Most men in here that would go through a divorce wouldn't even care about shit like child support and alimony from a woman. Men would just want to see their kid. Wouldn't care about putting a women into debt, sabotaging her reputation, rape claims, and the list goes on.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 11:27 PM
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That may be true about the Redpill but it is not the majority of men whatsoever. Without out men "crying AWALT", how the hell would we be able to navigate better through the SMP? This entire subreddit wouldn't exist without it. Men didn't just grow up being Redpill and most men aren't. The Redpill is just a reaction to help protect ourselves against the damage of AWALT because we can be destroyed inside and out by "unicorns". And men should be more self-interested because some of us care for wom…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 11:21 PM
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I agree but only for a few as far as men are concerned. I believe most men don't act out of self interest. Men have a significantly higher proclivity to display magnanimity when it comes to sacrifice. Are women generally self-sacrificing?
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 10:51 PM
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Are you insinuating that men would make the same choices/act the same way that women would in similar situations? If that's the case, I have to strongly disagree. Our nature is very different from a woman's nature and the laws are different for us inside and out.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 10:15 PM
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Sometimes I still can't believe how real Briffault's Law is.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 06:09 AM
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Underrated comment. I used to discuss so much serious shit. Wasted a lot of breath.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 02:18 AM
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The only physical mate guarding I will do is when a man over exerts himself after the girl I'm with turned him down or if she's in physical trouble. Any other situation otherwise is a waste of energy. Sit back and look at what she does and enjoy the show. If she's stupid enough, you will see exactly what she acts like when she's not in your presence. And always set your boundaries. A girl I was with used to literally tell me when an ex was around or if she could say "hi" to an old buddy. After s…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 10:34 PM
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Based on your post, you've posted about this twice. I will assume you can't let it go. Why? Because you've finally saw your unicorn take off it's horn, and now she's just a regular horse. The problem is that you can't accept it so it will continue to eat at you. I've done the two year honeymoon phase shit. It ate me alive psychologically when I found out something was a little off and it shattered my frame bit by bit. You saw a red flag. You can't ignore it. Now your mind will race until you bec…
/r/askTRP15/05/16 06:54 PM
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Combine that with marriage ultimatums, farfetched wall induced complaints, shit testing she dubbed as having an "opinion" with no facts, and you see why I refused. She shifted into this roughly a day after hanging out. Light switch, anyone? She gained weight also but that wasn't my main issue. She completely changed into something else internally. She depreciated there first. I couldn't live with that. These guys can do what they want but you are taking a huge risk with women and things like coh…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/16 10:44 AM
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Longest LTR ended because I refuse cohabitation. It's a bigger step than people think. Women don't even know what it does to them. All they know is that it's "the next step" and my "friends are doing it".
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 10:05 PM
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And that's a gift in itself. One of the most fucked up AND best gifts a woman can give you is a few red flags upfront to snap you out of your own ignorance. I don't wish divorce-rape on anybody any man.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:32 PM
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Just about to say this. Doesn't fucking matter at all actually.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 07:39 PM
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You're talking millions of women. Good luck weeding them out. It's almost impossible. Even wives do this.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 05:37 AM
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Totally agree. These traits are not ingrained in them at all. They're utilized to keep men attracted to them.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 05:31 AM
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Not necessarily. They will always want more or something different. A lot of them leave their men because they don't want to stay an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 05:25 AM
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Caveat emptor: If she has these qualities, they are subject to change. They can have these qualities and then switch up at anytime.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 01:55 PM
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Keep deflecting I presume, but it gets very tiresome over time so you have to be resilient. It gets harder depending on the severity of your issue also. It was certain times that I would say I'm OK and have a fucked up look on my face. Sometimes she saw right through me. I didn't like how obvious I was. Being stoic is very difficult at times but if you want her to leave you alone you have to be convincing (body language, energy, tone of voice, facial expressions).
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 05:25 AM
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Social media changed a lot of shit for sure.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 02:08 AM
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You can't be serious. Women can find any reason. You can't control her urge to try a different flavor. You will never be the only guy she's attracted to. Never. You don't have to do anything wrong for her to branch swing. They take advantage of having no agency and blaming the man because most men are taught to take blame in this society. But you said here: A women branchwings when she cannot get when she wants out of you. Then you said... The women branchwing to a lower or higher smv male becau…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 12:34 AM
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Had a girl rage out on me because I didn't open up and talk about my problems enough. Go figure. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. I made it a priority not to need her assistance or emotional support. I tried it before but I felt intellectually deprived to an extent, so I became protective. All I was doing was telling her how weak I felt and she's just collecting data to shit on me in the future. She couldn't understand it from my point of view so I kept certain things to myself. I detest d…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/16 11:27 PM
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They will never know what they want. They change their feelings like the weather.
/r/ThankTRP07/05/16 08:21 PM
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Social proof and impressing their girl friends....and fulfilling the fantasy. Sure. Facebook is an excellent example. If a woman sees a pic of her friends with rings, she will eventually want to join the club also (or for competition purposes). That will likely take priority over the actual relationship.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/16 07:12 PM
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One of the largest factors is because women go with the herd. They are largely susceptible to groupthink and popular female opinion. Marriage is trendy, therefore marriage is the goal, not maintaining the relationship with the man.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/16 06:58 PM
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Seeing through a red lens, it shouldn't take this long unless she's a damn good actress. It also depends on your naivety which TRP greatly reduces.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/16 04:12 AM
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Had an LTR that cracked her facade after 2 years. I wanted to see what she was capable of. She ended up completely cracking enough for me to piece together the bullshit. I believe this is why they push so hard for things like cohabitation and marriage because sometimes they slip up and a red flag peeks at you, then you're on alert. It's similar to us slipping up and doing some beta shit. I remember asking her for honesty. Only got trickle truth after I saw a few things. I believe if they are dee…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 08:43 PM
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Tough decisions have to be made, sometimes. You seem to have caught the red flag before making a horrible choice. Bravo. If she cared, she would've done anything to stay out of trouble. ANYTHING. Sounds like she wants to be a free spirit but with a provider also. You destroyed her strategy by leaving.
/r/askTRP29/04/16 06:27 PM
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Thanks. Godspeed to you as well.
/r/ThankTRP29/04/16 03:57 PM
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Another insatiable bitch. Probably indulges in movies and romance novels like the rest, living vicariously through other women's fantasies.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 10:16 PM
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LDRs are said to covertly communicate to women that you're dealing with scarcity. When they see any sign of that, they will perceive as lesser. The probability of cheating is also very high. You know what you want, you're just used to the regular, that's all. Do what you want, but I would never be in an LDR. No invisible friends. LTRs are stressful enough.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 07:49 PM
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I'm right there with you, man. Mine wasn't as severe as yours or OP but the pain of how I acted at the end of the relationship was the source of my anger phase, about 80%. Her? About 20%. I went beta and I still detest that shit. I need to ease up on that actually, you do too. We didn't know any better. Just like OP. Gotta learn some way.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 10:46 AM
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Lol I'm tempted to be a dick and ask my ex for a wedding invitation so I can laugh at the next guy she's fooling.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 09:28 AM
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My story is similar to yours also but slightly different.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 09:12 AM
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Fully agreed about the "fear of dry spell" aspect. I'd rather go through a dry spell than to be disrespected, manipulated, and taken for granted. When it comes to relationships, we have way more to lose than they do but they don't care. So I have to do whatever I can to maintain peace and protect myself, and if that means a dry spell, then fuck it, dry spell it is.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 05:00 AM
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This reminds me if a time where I was with this girl one time and she had something in her hand. I smacked it out of of her hand for no reason. She was ready to be mad. Then I picked out up and kissed her. She started smiling pretty hard. You can damn near control their emotions if you know how you're perceived by them. They have to look up to you first in some sort of way. At some point in time they'll show you their emotion lock where you can unlock different emotions seemingly at will. Guess …
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 04:04 AM
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The last two are the most important. These rules won't let you keep her "forever" neither do they guarantee a "happily every after". There's no such thing. They just help you keep her a little longer (maybe). Respect and love yourself. This, as well as the Iron Rules of Tomassi, and illimitableMan's Fifty Shades of Red, are to help YOU. Not to help you "keep" her. All of your relationships are victims of time, opportunity and circumstance. And yes two people can still be physically together but …
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 03:43 AM
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Maybe they're linked, who knows. I didn't know shit about TRP but I just knew it was some bs going on. TRP gave it a name and a definition and voilà! Clarity and an anger phase to boot.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 03:04 AM
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That "top 5 percentile" still needs a top tier beta dumbass to ignore the younger women and save the day. I know a post wall cop in very good shape about 34/35. I saw her shift through like 5 men. She has a very good body but that doesn't change her lack of intellect as regards to her situation (game) neither her fertility probability. She has no kids, never married. She literally cried about it. Currently, she's dating another cop with a family already (can't date lower, only equal or across, d…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 02:35 AM
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When I first heard about this, I could help but say "WTF? This is fucking insane." Didn't even know something like this was even a factor. I literally had a girl forget what she said to me and certain events or actions just to justify her bs position. She hated me even more when I corrected her. I thought she was fucking faking it or lying and chalked it up to her not really caring about anything except what she wanted to "fit". Trippy shit to know that she probably wasn't faking and truly forgo…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 08:48 PM
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Quick question. It was my cousin's "girlfriend" birthday last weekend. We went out clubbing. 4 guys and 3 girls in all. Of course she was drunk. The whole night she was making her rounds to all of us when it came to "dancing". Out if the blue she would touch my face and chest, I saw it as moderate kino. She did the same thing with the two guys I was with. But... She never danced on me (grinding and all that shit), and she never reached for my dick, which I consider heavy kino. I was tipsy but lu…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 08:24 PM
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Whether she mentions it or not doesn't matter. They'll be there regardless of the information she provides to you. Don't expect full honesty. If she decides to disclose their advances, she will use orbiters (if she respects you enough) to shit test you. The Chads aren't talked about. They stay secret until you find out who he is and her connection to him. You have no choice but to deal with this dynamic. Attention is God to them. The only thing you can control is whether you're satisfied with he…
/r/askTRP04/04/16 05:39 AM
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She was just with Game in the studio after he said her pussy was tight in a drunk instagram post. Kehlani is taking advantage of her new realm of high SMV men. Hypergamy heaven.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 11:40 AM
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Agreed. Now I know what I'm working with, even if it's bullshit. Knowing trumps being oblivious everytime. Now you can dictate your next move.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 04:39 AM
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Sickening isn't it? Just little old you fighting against social constructs and female nature? It kinda feels like fighting multiple tanks with a slingshot.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 12:15 PM
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I started watching Black Phillip and being ultra attentive to my ex's human nature mid-relationship after she threw a curve ball at me and tried to hide it. Haven't been the same since. My personal awakening to "AWALT" as you will. I didn't manage that well because I didn't want to believe it and caused severe trust issues and loses of frame. Of course, the break up brought me here. As much as it sucked, she actually helped me after all.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 10:21 AM
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Knowledge of Game. You need to know exactly what's going on so you can maneuver at an optimum level. Mistakes and pain are inevitable and will make you better in the long run. Me personally, I prefer from learning from the anecdotes of other people. I don't have to burn myself to know the stove is hot.
/r/askTRP26/03/16 10:43 AM
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Men literally built the NBA and here go these broads once again ruining the fun, waiting at the top of the mountain, reaping benefits from the finished product, as usual. Edit: The one with Becky Hammon is so try hard and cringy. "Genderless"? Man shut the fuck up. It's also encouraging the 80/20 rule and marriage for the average women. Nice touch.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 10:25 AM
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You cleary have a problem with it so you should set boundaries with things you're not okay with instead of acting like you DGAF. Don't let her talk to you like one of her female friends or she will treat you like one.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 07:16 PM
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What were the arguments about? If it's something trivial she's probably looking for a reason to detach herself. Do not beg her to come back. Let her have her space. She's no longer LTR material. Get used to it. She might gaslight you and say everything's your fault. Don't fall for it. You've been together 2 years. I'm sure knows the program by now.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 04:32 PM
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Had a "religious" one. I used to be Christian with her. That changed. I told her I won't return to church with her ever again because I knew too much about it and didn't agree with it. Her father was a pastor. She was a "minister". I knew more than both of them about their own religion. I was fighting years of indoctrination planted by her father. Of course, she started to resent me. It later became a make or break for her. Oh and another thing: religion didn't stop her from going AWALT. It only…
/r/askTRP24/03/16 04:17 PM
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That first text is where you messed up. Never talk about the possibility of her hooking up with another guy. Ever. It would come off as being worried and she starts thinking she has you by the balls. You don't want that. She will act cocky and start shit testing you. And those answers she gave you are the ones she's supposed to give, true or not. Don't ever expect full honesty. Even if she means it now, that doesn't mean she'll mean it later.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 07:51 AM
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Sunk Cost Fallacy + Briffaults Law in a nutshell.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 11:37 AM
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This is the tip of the iceberg of how women follow each other and compete.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 04:21 AM
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IllimitableMen. Right there on the sidebar. Better yet. Read all of that shit on the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 11:05 AM
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Wait... Her: So I just wanted to get something off my chest, and can't bring myself to do it in person. I like you so far as a person, but I don't feel like we're feeling each other like we should at this point. I mean.. we haven't seen each other in two weeks and we barely talk. Sounds solipsistic. She should've contacted you then. Her Immediate response: I just don't understand why we went two weeks without seeing each other. Didn't she "go out of town"? That's the reason why, if so. Yea leave…
/r/askTRP18/03/16 02:38 PM
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You have a gift, just like Rollo and the rest of the other hardcore writers of the manosphere. Keep saving lives. I love reading shit like this. It's like improving my game of chess on a psychological and social level. I could use your writings and many others to manipulate but I'll try not to. That would be a simple want for selfish pleasures which is not a priority at the moment. I need these types of observations and theories to protect myself. It's not getting any better for men, and being p…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 07:18 PM
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Socratic method. Ease it in. Best chance you have. If they reject it and get personal or start regurgitating blue pills, abort mission and (maybe) try again later.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 06:58 PM
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Or even when she can't beat the game. You lose her either way.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 03:19 PM
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I posted something similar to this about 9 days ago. This cannot be avoided unless she doesn't care about social media. That's far and few in between. Even husbands have to compete with this. AWALT. Validation is her true love.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 07:28 PM
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How else will they inflate their SMV and reassure themselves that they haven't hit the wall? Her LTRs opinion doesn't count. She needs to hear it from other men to build her ever deteriorating self esteem.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 05:31 PM
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I had to take a break from mine. The white knights, feminism, and the narcissistic validation orgies started fucking with me too much. Females love it because it's like having an endless network of orbiters. Mark Zuckerberg and others like him, created monsters. They're making billions by feeding the lust that people have for "feeling important". It's also tearing normal human interacton to shreds. People feel uncomfortable talking. They choose typing and hiding behind screens instead. This is w…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 05:19 PM
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That's his scarcity mentality warping his reality right now. Don't try to help him too much or he will either lash out on you or drag you down with him. Avoid the stress and let him fight his battle. He needs it. The safest thing you can do to help him is using the Socratic method. Don't tell him what to do. Just don't. You will upset yourself because he won't listen to you. I used to have this problem. He won't learn at the same pace you will. Get this out of your head. You will become upset. A…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 04:22 PM
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He's acting that way because the last time wasn't drastic enough. Everybody has a breaking point. He hasn't reached it yet. Let him be. Let him learn. He'll eventually get it. Then he'll internalize it. It takes time.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 03:50 PM
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Men are supposed to flirt with your girl. It will happen whether you accept or or not. Don't react. Don't ignore it. Be patient. Stay calm and be ready to walk away, this is very important. Now, see how she reacts with them. If you don't like her reaction, then congratulations, you have a reason to next her. Women don't have male friends. They have orbiters for different purposes. Mostly attention and validation purposes. Some for fucking. Act accordingly once you see definite red flags.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 04:20 AM
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I really believe that some women marry the plan b guy and often resent that fact that they felt they had to make that choice just to get it over with (or last resort). It's sickening because plan b thinks he's the best, when he's really not.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 10:19 PM
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She blew her LTR chances completely, if there were any. She pulled the entitlement card too early. Her agenda is clear. How old is she? Sounds near/post wall to me.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 05:44 AM
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Case 1: There are still RP men that still want to have children.They're more reluctant to do because no one wants to deal with the bullshit laws that come with it and the power that it gives women, as vindictive and fickle as they are. Even if a woman somehow gets married to an "alpha", hypergamy still doesn't give a shit. And at any moment, she is able to take the kids away from him on a whim. It's almost like the government put the power of the family structure in the hands of a ticking time b…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 02:00 AM
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To her, he is the hot guy spinning his carousel while she got left after her time was up. She has known many stories like hers, especially when the males were TRP alphas. Naturally she comes to believe that AMALT, so she believes in having fun and moving on too, to protect herself. That's cool if that's what they want to do, but it doesn't fit their imperative or maximizes their benefits. Going blow for blow with men won't do much for them, except destroy their pair bonding and desirability. Ver…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 12:45 AM
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Beware how much they value you. If they value you enough, they will not be fully honest with you at all, at least not the way you want them to be, especially in the case of an LTR. They care about their image to you so they will protect that. It takes priority over the ideal "honesty" you desire from a woman.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 11:49 PM
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It is imperative that this be taken into extreme consideration. This is ultimately out of your control. Like he said, "enjoy the ride". This shit reminds me of the way I acted in past LTRs. Hate the realization but it's needed. God help the men that think marriages will stop this. That piece of metal, that sheet of paper you signed, and those fake ass vows she wrote will make it 100x more painful when they finally wake up, if ever.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 10:05 PM
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She couldn't accuse me. I had nude pics of her that she sent me. I simply just messed up the opportunity at that time.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 03:16 AM
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If you're ready for that a good rule is to have at least 2 years without a major conflict or disappointment by her before starting to plan to marry. Every time she breaks this the timer has to be reset. This is gold. I've done this before of course without her knowledge. She wasn't worthy in the end. She thought it was too much work. They ultimately want to relax and be shitty women. Marriage helps with that.
/r/askTRP12/03/16 01:47 AM
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One thing I've done in a drinking game was drink when I wanted to. Technically I didn't lie or tell the truth. I Just drank. If he doesn't want to tell the truth, he could be mysterious. Don't necessarily have to lie.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 01:19 AM
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That's what I was told, according to her. Till this day I don't know what really happened and not my job to convince you, sir. I hope your cancer clears up.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 12:44 AM
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Beautiful fucking response. Dammit this hit home man.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 09:58 PM
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Sounds like she wants to break you or figure you out. Don't let her. She'll stop caring. Right now you're in a good position of mystery it seems. Don't feed into her solipsism and idealism. That's all it is. She wants you to do all that to fit her needs, not yours. And even then, it still don't be enough. At the most, agree and amplify or use amused mastery.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 03:36 PM
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Reminds me of a girl that came from another state to see me many years ago. I only dated her for 2 weeks in high school. Said she missed me and thought about me while she was engaged. Get this: I never fucked her. She asked for commitment. I refused. Agreed to bang her but actually ended up not doing it. A month later I tried to get in contact with her to actually bang but she got engaged again. Biggest WTF moment ever. She totally ghosted me after that which was the right move cause I still wan…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 05:22 AM
2

"I don't know that she resents me though" I'm sure there are other things you don't know that she won't overtly show you either. Why? Because you're still useful to her. And she already tried to gaslight you too justify her behavior as if you caused it by bringing up your past. Then lie after lie. Red flag after Red flag. And for the record she knew it crosses boundaries, that's why she never told you in the first place. If you can mentally handle the possibility of her doing it again, with mult…
/r/askTRP11/03/16 04:31 AM
1

Don't recall if it's the worse or not but I had a a female tell me "let's refrain from sex for 3 weeks so it can be "special". I responded "OK. Then I don't want to talk to you for 3 weeks". She starting crying and I got so upset I unknowingly dreaded her for like an hour. When I came back she was still crying and asked me did I talk to someone else while I was gone. I just went for a walk. It actually felt better walking in the cold than being around her and her hamster at the time.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 01:00 AM
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I agree with your extra points also. That "read my mind" shit in particular is so horrible. That's shit goes right into the "you should know me by now" bs. It's all an excuse to cause unnecessary bs. It's makes me want to walk away and never come back, like seriously.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 12:17 AM
6

Nail on the head.
/r/askTRP10/03/16 08:01 PM
10

putting a brain-twisting spin on the facts This. Disregarding facts Shitting on other women's behavior then doing the same thing. (Hypocrisy) I absolutely detest this shit lol.
/r/askTRP10/03/16 07:45 PM
1

She had both parents. Her father seemed cool to me but she would always tell me about their arguments or disagreements with him over trivial shit and eventually gravitated to me of course. Don't get me wrong, it matters a lot, but it doesn't change that much unless their own personal awareness and resistance to external factors as well as their nature is higher than normal.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 06:52 PM
1

Your SO should be proud. I found it very misleading when my last LTR would say things like "I'd never do that to you". That statement was constantly proven wrong and ultimately effected my trust, which means she wasn't aware of herself. Seems like you care about him more than marriage itself. I didn't have that luxury from my last LTR. Best of luck to you and your SO.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 04:46 PM
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Pre TRP, I caught on to this behavior from an LTR. Before this instance, she was my "snow flake". It led to existing issues and a breakup eventually. It lingered in my mind for a while because I knew I gave her a pass for her behavior. Ultimately, I didn't let it go and it had a bad effect on me AND her. I think she resented me because I resented her from that point on. It effected my frame and my trust was badly damaged. Thought I could trick myself into trusting her again. Only one problem wit…
/r/askTRP10/03/16 10:57 AM
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I did too. It was kind of hilarious. Reminds me of Jim Carrey in the movie 23.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 12:32 AM
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I had an LTR like this. She stopped it eventually. I guess it was just a phase for her. Enjoy it while it lasts. She seems like decent catch.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 12:00 AM
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wouldn't you want a partner who understands that and wants to prepare for it? Hell yea. I'd have to sit on that statement for a while. It would seem to good to be true. I wouldn't say it's odd. Just rare. Your self awareness has to be very high in order to say that to your SO, especially for a woman. Even if a woman knows this, they would never tell a man because of their own solipsism. It could possibly hinder their "benefits" from that man. That level of understanding, honesty, and selflessnes…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 11:55 PM
1

I'm protecting him from a potential future 'me' in the event of divorce. I wouldn't even know what to say if a women says that to me. I'd just sit there in disbelief and think she's trying to deceive me. Haha
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 11:07 AM
1

The reason these principles are put in place on this site is to ultimately protect yourself because the women you will encounter and society won't have your back when they randomly decide it's You vs "her fantasy". Something to pay attention to is that if the story ends on a overly romanticized note, that doesn't mean the story "ends". It's just the last thing they want to show you in order to plant another seed of indoctrination. It's a business. An upside is to this for them, is that there is …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 11:49 AM
1

AWALT. Facebook, Snapchat, Insta, Tinder, OKC, cellphones with cameras, the "modern" world is tailor made for women's hypergamy. Get used to working with it, not against it. It's here to stay. You're right. Technology simply has a 95% chance of crushing your LTR/Marriage to bits. It gave them a safe haven for validation and attention, which I believe are a woman's only true loves, something she will always faithful too. Her cell phone is her boyfriend/husband. They don't even have to go outside …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 06:56 AM
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I have a buddy that thought like you. Just went out with him last night to the club. To each their own. Do what you truly want to do. Make your own choice, but in making that choice, try your best to emotionally prepared for those potential external factors so you'll be ready enough to handle them, if need be, on your own. If you see going out as a chore, then you shouldn't be doing it. Don't force it. Take a break then try again if you want to. Going out isn't feminine to me. Having a good time…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 06:04 AM
1

Thank you, sir. I needed this. Wrestling with bad thoughts is a motherfucker.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 09:37 PM
2

Doesn't matter what they have around them. They're insatiable.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 07:45 PM
2

It wasn't just his penis size. It was the general way he conducted himself which made him sexually attractive to me, plus his looks. He was just very self confident in the way he represented himself, he never had any doubts in himself and he completely took control sexually. His perception to her despite his size was attractive to her which made the sex better. Maybe her current bf isn't as manly or exudes manliness like her last partner. Maybe his Dark Triad-ish traits were subconsciously excit…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 01:54 AM
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