Apexander1 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	When will the MGTOW website be finished?		Apexander1	/r/MGTOW2	09/09/18 07:37 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Dating women as a woman has made me more sympathetic to the dating woes of men. You made me lol in real life hahaha	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/06/22 12:11 PM
8	I'm so broken Get used to it. Get comfortable in your own skin, the fact that you're upset about getting 1 message a day is a little silly to me. You're so much stronger than you realise, you are not broken. Your worth is not defined by if you can get a girlfriend or if you can get laid or how many people message you.	/r/MenSupportMen	25/09/21 11:22 AM
6	if Femsplaining were a person it would be @emrazz. Holy shit! My advice to you is stay off Twitter. There's a lot of crazies on there, the sooner you ignore them the better off you'll be	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/09/21 08:08 AM
21	Is it possible that hypergamous selection patterns are at least partly responsible for why so many feminists believe in the patriarchy theory? Yeah they dont seem to realise that most people are under the thumb. When they complain that women were forced to stay in the home, they rarely complain that men were forced to give up their lives to figh tin wars and do other dangerous jobs. I don't think coal miners and peasants are really in any postions of power to exploit the downtrotten.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/09/21 07:05 AM
39	Do you think that women largely underestimate the amount of social and relational power they hold? Nothing wrong with avoiding relationships, you take care of yourself. Sorry that this happened to you	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/08/21 07:13 AM
4	How do you avoid being a doomer? Someone has essentially given up on life but is not suicidal. They think the human race is doomed, the climate and environment are fucked, everyone is either selfish or stupid, and that there is no hope.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/08/21 12:20 PM
3	How do you avoid being a doomer? If you find the answer, let me know. Currently my goal in life is to earn around 30-40k a year so I can live comfortably, play video games in my free time and give a fuck about no one else.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/08/21 12:17 PM
2	Go ahead: Ask a Woman anything Any chance you can provide some examples? I genuinely believe you are wrong, but am open to changing my mind.	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 03:30 PM
-2	Go ahead: Ask a Woman anything Why are you doing an ama, usually amas are done by famous people or people who are very knowledgeable about a certain topic pertaining to the interests of the sub. Why should anyone ask you anything?	/r/ExRedPill	21/08/21 02:32 PM
1	Sounds like equality to me I agree that they are taking a chance, but they way you frased it sounds odd to me, and maybe this is just something that I don't understand, but here goes. The way you frased it, you made it seem that if person A asks out person B, person B is going out of their way for person A. As if person B doesn't really want to go, as if they're not really up for it, and they are essentially doing person A a favour by spending time with them. That's the feeling that I get, because I don'tunderstand how pe…	/r/PussyPassDenied	15/08/21 07:31 PM
1	Sounds like equality to me Maybe I'm missing something but it seems wierd to accept dates from people you're not into. Why go on a date with someone if you are not attracted to them or are interested? Seems like a waste of time to me. I guess that's the difference in persepctive, I see a date as a chance to get to know someone, not as an opportunity to buy someones time. "You're going out of your way and taking a chance", yeah so is the other person? Also the way you say it makes it sound like it's a massive hassle. If yo…	/r/PussyPassDenied	15/08/21 06:58 PM
1	Sounds like equality to me ?? If I ask a friend, "hey, you wanna go to the cinema to see this movie?" Am I now obligated to pay for them? I would say no, so what is the difference between this and a date? Someone has asked you if you want to go to some event to spend time with them. If you don't wanna go, or can't afford a ticket, then say so. Don't expect other people to pay for you "just because they asked", and IMO, you shouldn't be financially responsible for someone just because you want to spend time with them. If s…	/r/PussyPassDenied	15/08/21 05:22 PM
1	Sounds like equality to me If you can't afford to go, then maybe just say no? Just cause someone asks you out, doesn't mean you are now their responsibility. You are an adult, act like one.	/r/PussyPassDenied	15/08/21 11:08 AM
2	Sounds like equality to me So?	/r/PussyPassDenied	15/08/21 11:07 AM
2	Unattractive Men Have it Better Than Unattractive Women I empathise with you about feeling unheard. I guess your particular situations is more in line with the experience of men. The claim that unnatractive women get enough emotional support I suppose is silly, and it is true that we need to do better as a society to listen to the people in the more disadvantaged positions. But I would say the reason you get a lot of pushback from people on here is because society views women more favourably than men in general. That's why we can have people unironic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 10:40 PM
1	Unattractive Men Have it Better Than Unattractive Women just because it doesn't apply in your exact situation doesn't mean it isn't true. If someone were to make the claim "black people experience racism in western society", do you think it would be helpful for a black person to be like "bullshit, I don't experience racism".	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 09:55 PM
2	#IfAllMenDisappearedForaDay TBH looking through the hashtag, seems like most people responding to it also think its stupid.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/08/21 02:05 PM
1	Can we agree that it is over for some? Not blaming anyone for this It may well be over for you. If that's the case, the sooner you get out of the mindset of trying to find a romantic partner, the better off you'll be. Focus on self improvement, your health, your career, charity or community work, there's lots you can do. You can live an extremely fulfilling life without a romantic partner, you just need to take the time to seriously figure out how	/r/ExRedPill	05/08/21 07:41 AM
5	We Don't Recruit... Exactly. Why are people so desparate that they'll fuck any dumb ass employee they have	/r/MGTOW2	03/07/21 05:03 AM
18	Chronic Avoidance of Potential Conflict is an understated part of why modern dating sucks Yeah a lot of women don't get it. They see the few men who don't give a fuck and assume all men are like this, when in reality most men are aware of the changing climate and don't want to be seen as predators, so they just stop trying	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/21 07:23 AM
3	This is degeneracy at it's peak Pretty sure this came from a femcel subreddit. Please bare in mind these people are basically insane. Let's not give them more attention than they deserve.	/r/MensRights	02/06/21 09:14 PM
1	Having a terrible day because I'm not acting "like a true man" A little bit of both to be honest. At some point, I just stop caring if other people would be offended by my anger and decided to stop supressing it. The way I see it is if someone is frustrating you, then they should know it. And if they get offended by the fact that I'm frustrated, then they should put more effort into the interaction/do a better job of holding up their end. I also realise that a lot of people aren't as aware as I thought they were, and don't realise how much of an ass they're…	/r/MensRights	31/05/21 02:34 PM
2	Having a terrible day because I'm not acting "like a true man" If it makes you feel better, I had a hard time standing up for myself for a long time. I'm 27 now, and until recently I had similar problems to yourself. Whenever I tried to confront someone, I would get really apprehensive and feel like something was stuck in my throat, I'd be worried I'm going to offend them and have someone who now hates me, but as I've gotten older I've learnt to care about these things less and less. Anger can be a very useful tool when used properly, you say you never had …	/r/MensRights	31/05/21 02:15 PM
3	Having a terrible day because I'm not acting "like a true man" Can I ask how old you are? I'm currently 27, and I never used to get angry at anyone. Howver over the last few months, somenthing in me changed, and now instead of focusing on how other people mught feel, I can focus on trying to get whats best for myself. As sad as it is, I realise no one is going to look out for me, so I need to make sure my needs are met. And if that involves shouting or being rude to people, so be it. I think maybe sometimes people need to see that you're angry in order for …	/r/MensRights	31/05/21 01:55 PM
12	Having a terrible day because I'm not acting "like a true man" Yeah honestly it feels like society are always telling men to not be aggresive and toxic, but at the same time no one listens to you unless you are! I'll give you an example from my own life: A while ago I was trying to close my bank account. Every time I called the bank I would be put on hold for over an hour and no one would pick up. This was also not a service which could be done via online banking. I go frustrated and sent a very rude complaint in which I swore at them, called them fucking p…	/r/MensRights	31/05/21 01:28 PM
1	Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it? I agree that there are toxic men out there, and I don't intend to defend them. But you haven't really addressed the fact that when it comes to messages of positivity, men get nothing, while being told it is their fault for the problems of the world. You say that you can address the problems with the group without it meaning each individual is toxic, yet you say I need to "listen to those with less institutional power". What institutional power do I have that other's don't? Also, is it really bei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 12:03 PM
2	Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it? I'm not saying sex=value, my commentary is on the lack of poisitive feedback men get. And I'm not really talking about praise either, it's bout acceptance. There are some many positivity movements for women. Women are told they don't need men, they are strong and independent and can do whatever they want. Sexual liberation means that women can sleep around with being called whores and sluts (I think this is a good thing) Whereas if you look at the messages men get (maybe this is just my interpre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 11:12 AM
1	How do BP/RP/PP women and men feel about who pays on dates in the pre-relationship phase? How does that decision impact you? i dont really use dating apps, but i looked it up and you must be thinking of Bumble. i guess i might give it a shot	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 10:26 AM
2	How do BP/RP/PP women and men feel about who pays on dates in the pre-relationship phase? How does that decision impact you? i've never met a women who has asked out a man or felt comfortable doing so. may i ask how old you are? are you at uni or do you work full time?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 10:12 AM
1	How do BP/RP/PP women and men feel about who pays on dates in the pre-relationship phase? How does that decision impact you? women ask you out? where are you from?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 09:40 AM
8	Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it? It's not about rights being lost, it's about how we perceive (rightly or wrongly) how society views men. Let me try and explain my perspective. I'm a 27 year old guy. All my life I was taught to be kind to women and treat them with respect. I was taught about the sturggles women went through in the past and that it is important to treat them with respect. I was taught about toxic masculinty, how men should be aware of how they interact with people, how a lot of behaviours we thought were intrins…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 09:03 AM
3	Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it? I don't think it's necessarily the sex, it's the feeling valued in some way. i'm guessing you're a woman. May I make an assumption, I'm going to assume that you have had men proposition you, or approach you and try to start romantic relationships. I am going to assume that whne you're out and about, you get some creeps coming up to you and being weird, but you also get people who maybe wish you a nice day, maybe some random person says you have nice hair, maybe they say you have a nice smile or …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 08:40 AM
7	Q4all Is it true that women are not "biologically hardwired for long term monogamy" ? You could make this claim about men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/18 06:42 AM
1	Feminist beta ingratiating himself to women I reckon that guys a troll, there's no way he's being serious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/18 08:14 PM
1	Let's not make this sub a sanitary napkin for the other sub. I don't think Morgan Freeman was saying that all racism will go away if we stop talking about it, I think Morgan Freeman was talking about instances where people ask 'what's it like being a black person in x?' and how that doesn't actually help to stop prejudicial thinking as it makes it seem odd that a black person is doing x. Obviously serious racism can't be ignored, if you see it happening you call it out and deal with it there and then, but in general, race shouldn't be something that we sh…	/r/MGTOW2	09/09/18 09:21 PM
1	When will the MGTOW website be finished? Yes I was, I guess I'll just stick to reddit.	/r/MGTOW2	09/09/18 08:53 PM
1	The Last Question -- Isaac Asimov That was an awesome story	/r/MGTOW2	09/09/18 08:45 PM
1	Where are all the good men! LOL The man desert may well be real: women don't like to date down, they want a man who is of equal standing or higher than them educationally and financially. There are more college educated women then men: more and more men are choosing not to go to University, or dropping out after sometime. This trend has been going on for a while and it looks like it will continue to go on, so the list of eligible men for these educated women is dwindelling.	/r/MGTOW2	09/09/18 08:27 PM
1	Who is to blame? As the saying goes, it's six of one, and half a dozen of the other. Women have been told that in order to have any worth that they must be able to compete with men in all areas, and men are being told that they have 'toxic masculinity' and damn near everything they do is wrong. I think the main problem is the crap that we get fed by the media. With their incessant desire to attract more readers they write articles that are full of rubbish and only work to increase the divide between men and wome…	/r/MGTOW2	09/09/18 08:14 PM
1	How were your relationships with woman in general, regarding sex (LTR, mostly promiscuous, FWB...). How is it today? That;s the thing isn't it, no intimacy, no trust. The problem is the media is pushing the 'men vs women' narrative which means all people are trying to do is 'win' in this ridiculous war. Men and women should be working with each other, not against each other.	/r/MGTOW2	09/09/18 08:04 PM
1	Should MGTOW be vocal towards real rape and Sexual assault You should do something if you can, otherwise it'll play on your conscience. Being silent about things like this will make you almost as guilty as them.	/r/MGTOW2	09/09/18 07:34 PM