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ApexmanRP/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 11:36 AM
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"It will be good if there's a post on just how men above 50 spend their lives in the West - just to raise awareness of the truth behind the realities of old age." There's the problem right there. I am 50, how do i spend my life? On my mission, my business, driving a fats car and fucking a beautiful woman.. WTF do you think i am doing? Dribbling and lying in my own piss? ;-) If you look after yourself and have a mission and a life you want, 50 is not old.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 08:49 AM
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This. My LTR threw a fit the other day because I had arranged a lads weekend away (amongst other things heh) So, I ignored her did something in the kitchen and literally 1 minute later she was all smiles and kissing me. Job done. We laughed.. and then fucked.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 08:29 PM
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Women want to feel emotions, as you say, good or bad. They don't talk to Alphas about their emotions, because they are experiencing them. I believe if a woman is talking to you about her emotions either you are already friend-zoned or she is trying to betasize you.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 04:13 PM
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Nice post. I have been doing something similar with my LTR, just haven't formalized it, in the way you have. A couple of questions, you say 6 women, were these concurrent plates or LTR's that have dropped off? Did the approach wear off in the end?
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 04:09 PM
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"For every imaginary hotter bitch waiting at home naked on your bed, there is a guy out there who is sick of her shit." Yeah, because he doesn't have an abundance mentality and so it putting up with it instead of correcting or nexting her.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 12:21 PM
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Yeah, and the number of women that love to watch themselves being fucked... ridiculous..
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 11:54 AM
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"I had spent a lifetime raging and raving but have undoubtedly found peace in self restraint and self control." Agreed, of course, self restraint and control are very important, as is sticking to your mission. I like to balance that off with some fun and antics.. and driving fast occasionally!
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 11:52 AM
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Hey more power to you in terms of how you want to live your life. but.. you might want to check your understanding of stoicism.. Stoics viewed pleasure as neither good nor bad in and of itself, as long as it doesn't control you.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 04:38 PM
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I get what you are trying to say here, but I think you have it about face a bit. That isn't really respect its just someone smaller than you being a bit wary of you and being a total beta. I am not as big as you (6'1 200lbs bf 16%) but often get bigger guys talking to me in a respectful way, mainly I think because I am generally much older and they cast believe someone my age is in good shape. But also because when I am in a bar or where ever, I will actively engage these guys in a friendly fun …
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 12:52 PM
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Great post! I would say, if you did publish it elsewhere, don't change the language. You are a man, you use the language you use, its how men write. Own it.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 10:53 AM
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"same taboo with men and a love for excitement and drama" Stoicism isn't just about maintaining control of your emotions, its about accepting the world as it is. There is room for delight, excitement and fun and a deep connection within that. Women dont want robots.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 10:49 AM
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"AWALT is affected by confirmation bias in this community" I get your question but with this statement, you miss the point. The point is that all women ARE CAPABLE of the actions and behaviours we talk about. And TRP focuses on these because like beta behaviours, most men have a block for accepting anything different.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 10:47 AM
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"Oh it's a lot more than symbolic" I think its like the roller-coaster ride they want it to FEEL dangerous but BE safe..
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 10:08 AM
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I had a plate who was a millionaire business woman. We had loads of discussions about rape culture and mens aggression etc etc. She wasn't a feminist per se but an "empowered woman", and she believed that rape culture was a thing and men were all potential rapists. Anyway one evening we were in her kitchen messing around and I went out of the room, came back in, put my hand round her throat from behind, and me other hand up her dress and grabbed her pussy. INSTANTLY she gasped, "I coming" and th…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 09:56 AM
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I am glad that there are still some real fucking journalists out there.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 08:49 AM
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I don't disagree with you. But its about how you approach it. Doing it calmly in a no bullshit manner, will get you much further than sounding angry. As we know, anger is a loss of frame. Why are you talking about marriage? That's a no no for a RP man.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 08:27 AM
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Do you? i am glad I made you LOL.. I like bringing joy to people. I am not angry, my point was, he sounded angry.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 08:25 AM
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Yes, true.. but of course she wouldn't have that problem with me.. ;-) But yes, man who lets woman dress him = child
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 08:24 AM
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"utter disinterest and anger" You can't have both of these at the same time. Anger demonstrates that you do give a fuck. Why didn't you just leave her there and go do something else? "give her the OPPORTUNITY" You think this sounds alpha but is really just a bit butt hurt. "My woman Just went from safe, to almost nexted in a day." I am not sure she cares bro.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 02:08 PM
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This is so fucking true.. My LTR saysd things like; "You cant go out in those jeans, everyone (read women) will see your cock!" "I am glad people (women) cant see your body with what you normally wear" "You cant go out in the T Shirt, you can only wear it with me!" Of course, I she knows she cant tell me what to do, but its endearing. Women know women.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 12:40 PM
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"You know how many ripped 50yo's are out there? Not a lot." And I have said this before, if you are ripped, and 40's 50's, you are in the top, 2% maybe, for women quite a bit younger than you. And most younger ripped guys know shit about women..
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 12:37 PM
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This is a great point and I think is deserving of a post. Single moms that I have banged, generally ditch me for a beta, because I won't commit, but invariably come back round again 12-18 months later when that relationship crashes and burns. Once they have brought a man into a relationship with thier kids, and it all goes south, they are now very reluctant to do that again, "cos the chilren" - and that suits me!
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 11:17 AM
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Wow! Nothing you said is surprising to us, but for a BP chump, you literally blew his world to pieces! I have tried unplugging a few guys, some buy into it, some buy into it a little, to fit their own narrative and some react against it.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 10:59 AM
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This guy sounds legit to me. "To my granddaughters who are just entering the workforce, and to the many wonderful women who long ago learned to ignore male clumsiness and just get the job done" A bit bluepill, but basically, like most men, he has nothing against women and yes even has some female relatives! "They are dragging you into a conflict which will leave you burned and the men in your lives burned." There will be many thousands, hundreds of thousand employers who never gave a persons gen…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 10:24 AM
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Did you mean to post this on Red Pill Women?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 08:25 AM
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"wearing a suit shouldn't matter and that they wouldn't pick a candidate based on whether they had a suit or not" Put it this way, when competition is fierce, every little thing helps. Wearing a suit to an interview says that you are serious and business like, and yes, it could make the difference. So, wear a suit. if you dont think you look good in it, its probably because it doesn't fit you well. Virtually any man looks better in a well fitting suit. Google proper suit fit, look at the picture…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 08:24 AM
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That all sounds like pretty generic and shitty advice to be honest. Can you go back to your placement people and ask them to get honest and specific feedback form the companies that saw you? I would go back to your friends and pick the one you know or trust the most, who has got a placement and sit them down with a beer and ask then to take you through thier interview what questions were asked and how they answered them, to see if this throws up any clues or even just ideas you can use for futur…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 10:42 AM
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"the problem is that they raise the price so much for betas" The reason they raise the price for Betas, is because Beta's pay with a currency (attraction) that is worth far less than Alphas currency (arousal).
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 12:41 PM
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"I couldn't find an internship for my year in industry placement" "I've applied for an industry placement program for my masters as well and have had even worse luck this time than last time." I doubt you have screwed up hard. but there is clearly something about you and your applications that are turning people off. Is there anyone you can ask for feedback from? Start there.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 11:38 AM
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Sure, it sounds like its more than honour at work there.. I do believe in honour, but that isn't blind honour. It starts with honouring oneself.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 08:45 AM
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"we stupid Western males have turned the tables so much in favor of women" "Moreover both these groups artificially lower the offer of their product to jack up the price to incredible levels." Well actually feminism has allowed women to LOWER the price of pussy for the right men (Alphas), and RAISE the price for the wrong men (Betas). In the old days someone else set the price (the Father, family, society).
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 08:34 AM
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I see what you are saying... However, I wouldn't take the argument that far.. in my head there is enough sex for me, available at a reasonable cost (time, attention etc) and pas that I dont need to think about it, I have other things to think about. Of course, if I wasn't getting enough or any, then I might view it as a zero sum game, because I would be on zero at that moment. And I am sure I would be the same with money. At the moment I have enough for various things, present and future and so …
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 08:28 AM
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Agree with most of what you have said, especially working past retirement in something you love.. full stop retirement is a trap, it can lead to degradation of the mind and onset of old age diseases. That said, and its a big one, what if you cant work due to some illness or injury? You need a plan B.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 07:54 AM
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"While it may not seem so because there is no (achievable) limit to the amount of sex to be had, it illustrates how sex can be and is still a zero sum game." Isn't that the perfect illustration of abundance (no limit) and vs a scarcity (zero sum game) mentality?
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 08:37 AM
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"Are you buying or selling?" I like that. I am selling. I have a product that's worth buying and I differentiate myself as much as possible through personal growth. There others like me, but they are rare. Rare enough that I can set my price in the market where I am.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 08:36 AM
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You are looking at this conversation from the perspective of a man - as a simple exchange of information and discussion of your values... wrong! I would research overcoming shit tests and pretty much use those tools in any conversation with a woman..
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 12:41 PM
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If I can offer any value from my own experience it would be this. When my ex moved away with the kids, I put a shit tonne of effort into seeing them every week (I had every other weekend with them), trying to go to every school event etc. The result was 2 fold - it wore me out mentally and physically and my ex could sense my desperation to be part of my kids life, and she used that to squeeze stuff from me. I got to a point where I had had enough and just said "no". After the initial bribing and…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 12:09 PM
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What this story so vividly illustrates is the depth of a woman's duplicity. The whole "texting friends" and then "Spa weekend with friends" while PROMISING to start working on THEIR relationship afterwards! While telling him that she "LOVED" him, as she goes off to suck another guys dick.. its amazing when you think about it. This man was lucky to have seen her nature in realtime, otherwise the outcome could have been so different. The take away - women treating you like shit? Watch out! Women t…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 08:44 AM
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"TRP will have to push forward with a view of how men should get into and exit families and that's in our future." This is a really good point. I am older and so the scenario of exiting a family is in my past. I was Blue Pill (as most men are) when I started a family and I can tell you when it detonated it nearly killed me. Younger RP guys have the benefit, but also the burden of knowing how it can (and most likely will) play out.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 08:33 AM
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Yes, it may have been his rock solid IDGAF attitude in the face of destruction in court was enough to make the OP's mom think "Can I get better than this man?"
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 07:41 AM
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Go to his blog and check it out. There is also a great 21 Convention Presentation he did on this. From memory the Noble ideal includes things like abundance, setting your own values and life course, and deciding for yourself what is right and wrong morally (obviously acting within the law).
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 07:29 AM
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I would leave your money that you have in there, but start diversifying your future additional money into other things..
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 07:24 AM
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"Honor is about to get me killed." Really? Tell me more...
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 07:23 AM
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Hands up, I read your comment incorrectly. To follow through on what you said, this is in fact, the way I have gone, I use my business to generate cash to put into other more diversified things. The risk of course with putting everything into starting a business is that it can crash and burn and zero you out. So, once you have a successful business, start diversifying into other things.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 02:33 PM
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This sounds very risky. beating a rate of 10.9% over the length of the loan sounds like a tall order. And I don't know whether (depending on where you are) there is tax to pay on any gains? I don't think you should be pumping 10% into this ETF myself, this sounds like the kind of thing you put 5% of your portfolio in.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 02:31 PM
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You are talking about the investment portfolio management that sits alongside diversification. However, the flip of that is focus, which you have to apply (usually) if you start a business. When I started my business I put everything I had into it and quite a lot of what I didn't! (focus). Now, my business is a cash machine that I take out to put into other things (diversification).
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 09:16 AM
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Your comment doesn't make sense - 3 rental properties isn't 3 income streams, its one business with 3 assets. the 3 assets are all subject to the same market conditions. You want a good profitable business AND 3 rental properties, assuming the business isn't in real estate, you have 2 diversified incomes.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 09:09 AM
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"The AlfAlpha gang screamed next her! Um? And do what? Find another chick who doesn’t feel the need to stay on top of her game for your lame ass? How about trying to lead by example. " Yeah, "Next!" becomes a buffer against looking at yourself and how you contributed to whatever situation you are in. You got the girl, but you can't keep her or lead her, so I guess "Next!".. I think more guy should keep her, do the work, play it through and will probably learn more about themselves than if they j…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 09:06 AM
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Yes, I get all that. The tools are amoral. How you chose to play the game is up to you. However, one of the differences we like to espouse is that men are more idealistic than women - this can be a weakness but also a strength. Its why most things of worth have been created by men, and conversely why more men kill themselves after divorce. I like Jack Donovans take on Honour and the Noble ideal.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 08:55 AM
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Anyway, you didn't answer my question - is Red Pill necessarily without honour?
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 08:48 AM
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Yes, I love leading questions.. Do I take it that you don't? ;-)
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 04:31 PM
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Are you suggesting that to live as a Red Pilled man, you must live without honour?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 12:20 PM
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"Honour is a BP concept." I think honour in relation to women is BP. Between men (not Beta's) honour is a very real and important cohesive. That said, if you can find a handful of men in your life that this applies to, you are doing well.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 10:05 AM
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Of course the woman doesn't actually have to prove that the man was staring at her for more that 5 seconds - listen and believe! So now women (or women) can actually fuck a mans career when he hasn't done anything, not looked at her, spoken to her, been near her.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 09:00 AM
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No there isn't. However, you should at least do it from a RP perspective and that is that "its just your turn", and expect the woman to crash and burn the relationship (never marry) at some point. Plan accordingly, both financially and emotionally. If I was to do it again but red pilled, I would write out a separation plan for myself ie what i would do in the event of.. from both a financial and parenthood point of view.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 08:41 AM
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"Are so many women left unattended sexually by their husbands?" Maybe. But its more likely that the wife isn't giving it to her husband. Women are more likely to lose interest in their husband faster, given that most husbands are betas. The women are frustrated a swell, but just cant stand to fuck their husbands anymore
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 08:31 AM
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" I have been vocalizing that we need more sex in our life for the past few months." Stop this for starters. It never works. She knows she owns you. "Wife: paraphrasing 'So after we do all this shit all day, work etc, and get the kids in bed, let's have sex." (She is using the carrot of sex to get her work done) If she says the above try "Well, we will see, I might have a headache.." or "well maybe, if you are a good girl" and smile and slap her ass. And then go do something else, like head to t…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 10:37 AM
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It sounds a bit shadey, but that's women for you. "We had a fight" = You broke frame and now; "she will be making decisions on her own" = She is seeing or going to see other men. "We agreed some time ago we tell each other when we meet up with people of opossite sex" = You agreed, she agreed at that moment in time. I would soft next, find other women and see what happens, maybe plate her.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 10:17 AM
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"because we fucking want one. Not because we are desperate to become a plow horse for a domineering woman.." No, but be careful, wanting a family can lead to becoming a plough horse.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 08:10 AM
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I get where you are coming from and your thought process. However, you first need to revisit Rollo's chart and his commentary. Men peak mid to late 30's and so, you shouldn't think about a live in LTR or whatever until then. You are young and cant see past 30. I didn't settle down until I was 35, and had kids then. It still turned into a shit show. I am now 49, and life has never been sweeter. I am in good shape, I am successful and have an non live in LTR, who is 15 yeasrs younger than me. Pati…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 08:08 AM
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Its a good question... I wonder if it actually flips.. the 9 and 10's don't need sex for validation, so can afford to be picky.. its probably the 5, 6 and 7's sleeping with the most men..
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 04:19 PM
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I would add that its not actually failure thats the indicator, its working through failure successfully. Any idiot can fail. Also failure takes on different forms.. failure in lifting is one thing, a business failure, now that's something else.. I fail in the gym all the time, but I would rather not go through a business failure again.. that shit really hurts.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 12:29 PM
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"It sells better because it aligns with majorities worldview." In the short term yes, but what it does is alienates its core audience, who get pissed off and disengage - Stars Wars. "True masculinity is the minority now." Yeah, but I like it! Being in the top 20% has never been easier.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 08:10 AM
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"Instagram and Twitter have probably made an impact on our culture in this way." I think its a given at this point. "Once a man has made himself into what he wants to be" I agree, and this is what i have done. I can confirm, it is really the only way to go, for long term happiness, with or without women.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 07:39 AM
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So, now the economy is better, has this situation changed? No if anything its gotten worse or better depending if you are in the top 20% or not.. incels on the rampage etc..
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 07:37 AM
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"Simply stating "I am the prize" does not make it inherently true." That is true, I agree. That is why I have built the life I want and that, with the elements that come with it - success, confidence, social proof, and an interesting life, make me the prize. Of course women will come and go, but we already know that don't we?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 07:33 AM
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"I know self-reliant lonely people" OK I do see your point. I was thinking about self reliance as a positive trait, rather than perhaps as a trait that someone has been forced into through say poor social skills.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 03:23 PM
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Yes, there was a lot of stuff going on around that time. I personally, think its the internet validation circus (Instagram/Tinder) that's driving this and as you say, the get out for men is free porn, thus taking away any incentive to improve.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 03:21 PM
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"It is your duty as a man to take action at all times" I get your point, however I would add to it that its not actually a duty to take action at all times. It has to be the right action.. the wrong action can get you killed. Also take action with you as your mental point of origin.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 11:50 AM
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"While self-reliance is important, that doesn't automatically imply loneliness." Self-reliance is the exact opposite of loneliness. If you are self-reliant, you wont be lonely. But self reliance is a trait taught my Men not women. Women teach "help will come if I cry"
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 09:32 AM
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Are you agreeing or disagreeing with me? I cant tell... I must be a miserable beta.. ;-)
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 09:29 AM
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The graph showing 22-35 year olds not having sex in last year suddenly spikes for men in about 2010. Why? The authors says delayed marriage. Bullshit, marriage has been delayed for years. What else happened in around that time? Instagram launched 2010, Tinder 2012..
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 08:30 AM
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Any truly high value man wouldn't need to ask that question.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 08:17 AM
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"I’m 6” tall. To me an alpha is 6”2”. I’m athletic. To me, an alpha is jacked and ripped. " i have seen plenty of tall, ripped dudes who suck with women. Thieu genetics get them so far, but that's it. They crash and burn pretty quickly.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 08:15 AM
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I have to say that using your terms, makes the whole thought process and actual relationship game so much clearer. I think it would be great to have a seperate post on it. I am adopting your terminology from now on.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 08:13 AM
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Dude, you haven't tasted my cum.. ambrosia..
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 04:14 PM
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Yeah, I guess those that can think a little more nuanced can just do that.. As you say life isn't binary, so it might create more issues for guys trying to take the binary approach.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 04:14 PM
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And I didn't say she was only just sex. She isn't an asset (in the true sense of the word) she is a trinket, to be admired and played with. But as with all trinkets, one day she will lose her shine, or break, or end up in someones elses pocket.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 11:16 AM
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"Trust, but verify." Yes, get what you are saying. I prefer to verify through behavior.. is she swallowing my cum? Is she taking it wherever and whenever? Is she doing nice little things for me? Yes, then we are all good.. No, then start looking for other signs.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 10:29 AM
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"That’s not true for all women. My girl adds tons of value to my life." If you feel that way, you need to work on yourself more. There is no woman that will ever add anywhere near the value to me that I give to her, because I am a high value man.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 10:23 AM
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I dunno.. It sounds like you are hamstering mate guarding into "protecting my time". Time with a woman is time to be frittered away in fun. It add no value to my life in the RP sense. Do I need her to cook? No. Do I need her to clean? No, I have a cleaner anyway. I have no wish to protect an investment that doesn't exist. I focus on myself and she is either in or out.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 10:20 AM
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Completely agree. The problem with shorthand like Alpha Fucks/beta Bucks is that the nuance and understanding behind them gets lost or intercommunicated. I like to think of Alpha and Beta as a tool kit of thinking and behaviors. I am in an LTR (I have plated for 3 years) and so am aware that I am in danger of appearing "beta" and I don't wont that because I want to maintain the visceral side of sexual attraction and dominance etc etc So, I am careful to ensure I maintain myself as my mental poin…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 09:26 AM
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"Don’t shy away from confrontation. I’m not saying go looking for it.." The conflict you should be looking for is the conflict with yourself.. your comfortable, lazy, settled self.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 07:28 AM
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"I've had to give her 3 warnings, each increasingly more brusque." No, my friend you played it like a little bitch all the way through. "I told you it hurts me to see you while I'm still attracted to you" That's not you being strong. Every time you say something like this, you give her a little rush of validation. That's why she kept coming back. Indifference, is your ally here.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 10:07 AM
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"My 18 year old cousin and her friends go out daily and take pictures for their Instagram" Do you have any you could send me..? for research purposes, you understand...
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 12:28 PM
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"Engineer or an MMA fighter" Errrr.. these sound like hard work, for those poor damsels.. maybe the cock riding is easier?!
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 10:18 AM
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For me its not the downward spiral to oblivion of her own life, but the text book categorization of the men who have passed threw her, that really stands out.. the alphas, the rich guys and then the betas. Its such a repeatable pattern...
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 10:15 AM
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Exactly what i was thinking. Women struggle with abstract thought. So, If she is is 25 and still getting attention, why should that end? She thinks. Modern women just cant help giving it up for Alphas, assuming there will be plenty more down the road... but then they stop calling.. and she suddenly starts getting "sensible".
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 10:13 AM
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"If You Build It, They Will Come" I am a massive believer in this. LTR's are RP on hard mode, but if you are a high value man, it makes it easier. She knows, that you know that you are the prize. "I am never out of the fight." I look at life this way and think of myself as a shark - if i stop swimming I die.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 11:40 AM
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I have lifted for most of my adult life, although not always seriously, so like you have a good foundation. The jury is still out on whether my natural testosterone boosting is definitely working, but I feel better for it and the signs are good. Will get retested over the summer and then decide what to do..
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 03:19 PM
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Its thought that low glycogen levels (a possible effect of low carb diets) trigger excess Cortisol production. That said, I had also possibly cut out too much saturated fat, so it could be a mix of the two.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 03:16 PM
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Are you on a low carb diet? If so, this may be a factor.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 08:48 AM
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"Nutrition is number 1 by a mile, sleep is an easy 2nd. After that it's lifting if you're sub 40. If you're over 40 it's managing hormones THEN lifting. " As a 49 year old, I would kind of agree with this. Its very easy for your T levels to drop. I am trying to impropve my T naturally (see my other comment) and I am seeing encouraging results so far. I think Hormones and lifting go hand in hand.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 08:47 AM
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A great reminder for all those "Life ends at 40" doomsayers. I am 49, 6'1 200lb lowish body fat. I lift 3 times a week and eat well. People think I am 40. I have toyed with the idea of TRT but so far have discounted it, because I wanted to explore natural options first. My T dropped last year, when I tried to go low carb, so now have moderate carbs and eat a lot of fat, saturated (bacon, butter, red meat) and unsaturated (nuts, avocados olive oil). I am starting to see signs of my T levels impro…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 08:44 AM
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You are placing yourself in her frame. She now holds the power as to whether whatever you are doing is going well. She is with you, why wouldn't things be OK?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 12:21 PM
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Your post history.. now be gone with you..
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 11:44 AM
2

I think we are being trolled..
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 10:57 AM
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"I was surprised to find that the TRP community values "lifting" and physical appearance so much." Because most guys are not like you - "I am 6 foot 3, 210 pounds, with very broad shoulders and visible abs". in fact nowhere near you. And its one of the simplest (not easiest) things you can do to improve your appearance. And lifting isn't just about getting pussy, its self improvement, discipline and mastery, but you already know this. Having said that, the thrust of your post is exactly right. L…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 10:45 AM
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"They’re making it harder out here to be a Chad or a Tyrone." Actually, they are making it easier. you see this yourself.. "The 80/20 rule is becoming more increasingly pronounced" Just put them in the same category as children and move on. You have bigger and better things to spend brain time on.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 10:39 AM
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Ha! Yes, it is totally possible. Not so much height, but certainly dick size. I now have an 18 inch dick. It just keeps growing. Do you wanna see it?
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 12:45 PM
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"Ever tried to just rest and not do anything at all?" I would say doing this kind of nothing is better than doing media/social media etc etc. I limit all media to an hour a day (except weekends and non fiction reading). Do this and you will soon find something productive to fill the time.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 10:02 AM
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Yes, you have loads of time.. I didn't have kids till I was 35.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 07:38 AM
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No, because she was the victim of course!
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 06:24 PM
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If you are under 35, don't worry about any of that shit. Work, invest, self improve and enjoy yourself. The rest you will figure out when the time comes.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 06:23 PM
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Already happening.. didn't you hear about the woman who threw her (actual) shit in coffee house?
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 09:41 AM
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"style, fitness, health, game and lifestyle (instead of a 10/10 on one, a 7/10 for it all)" I like this one. from my own experience, I have done and felt at my best, when I have all these on a level. I also think its the most sustainable approach. i think it ties in best with the general improvement vibe of 21con. "nothing is designed to cater to you anymore, you have to make your own" This one. Designing your own life, at no other time is that more possible than today. Hope that helps.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 09:03 AM
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"Hot wife, big house, earn 6 figures and have kids." I would let this vision, as a whole. go. Aim for it, especially the income, but expect that if you do achieve it, it wont last.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 07:46 AM
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"I also recognise that the greater meaning is a family" Just be mindful that this expectation can also be a trap. I have kids and they are great, but they don't make me happier. Its another job or mission and sometimes it doesn't feel like it has much meaning.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 07:24 AM
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Yes, its a great discipline to have. About 3 years ago once I had recovered from my BP days, I spent 6 months on and off going through this exercise until I had a life plan that felt congruent with who I am. I then produced a vision board for it. Having this sort of clarity is an amazing feeling.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 07:20 AM
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"I'm at the peak" Its this. You think you are but you aren't And I don't mean peak of your career or anything like that. I an referring to the peak of your actualization. Money isnt a high enough goal. Find another one. Spend a day locked away with a pad and no phone etc, and spend the time thinking about what your perfect life would look like. How would you spend your time (and no i dont mean lying on a beach).. Would you be a mentor? Would you build something physical, like a car? Would you ex…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 03:48 PM
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"I think women's biology draws them to beta providers" No, its their biological need for security and resources. they look around at the best they can get and who is offering resources and its the beta. But this isn't the same as sexually turned on by an Alpha. "There is the reason society idolizes the image of a family man who is willing to work hard and do anything for his wife and kids." Yes, now because it helps to churn out lots of docile betas. The way through this, in terms of relationshi…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 01:55 PM
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"I'm almost 50, but you'd never know it by the way I act, speak, and move." I am with you on this one. I am 49, not a beast but 6'1 200lbs and low body fat. One of the things the younger guys need to disabuse themselves of, is this idea that after 40 they are fucked. Nothing could be further from the truth.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 11:39 AM
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"But I think anyone who is redpilled has a disadvantage playing the long game" The game is the game, whether you want to be armed (RP) or not (BP) its still the same game, you had better get used to that idea. Women will saddle a beta because she wants resources and the only men who negotiate with resources are betas. Women can be bought, but it won't last, her biology will take over at some point.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 11:13 AM
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I like the concept of Chief and Priest and sure you can use both archetypes. Sometimes you have to lay down the law but sometimes, using other attributes like demonstrating your iron will, controlling your environment, having people defer to you for seemingly no reason, can be equally if not more powerful. I think there is a big spiritual element to being a fully rounded Alpha, that doesn't get talked about much.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 08:00 PM
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"Lifting is a discipline." This should be your first line.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 07:40 PM
1

"Is it when you keep improving yourself everyday and increasing your value all the fucking time? Is that the only way to keep her into you?" Separate these 2 questions.. discard the second one. The answer to the first one is yes, for yourself.. build it and they will come.. start spinning plates.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 11:01 AM
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Welcome to The red Pill... and the rest of your life.. Start with The Rational Male post "The medium is the message" and "Please break up with me" You will get a new perspective on what has just happened to you.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 10:59 AM
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This debate you are having in your head about whether having sex with women means you are a dick, is pure Blue Pill conditioning.. keep reading the sidebar, Rational Male etc. "not be a total dick to girls that don't want to give you what you want?" As you have already been told next them, get on with something else.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 04:00 PM
1

First thing is get your testosterone checked.. Assuming you are in reasonable shape, it could be this.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 03:56 PM
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The solution is not an easy one... First recognize it for what it is.. something that you need to work on, rather than a deficiency. In relation to TRP and sexual dynamics read, read, read, understand where you are lacking and do the work. Its a long journey, but you have to start somewhere.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 09:08 AM
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Sure, I get it.. The sad thing is that they dont often know that they are mentally weak. And like most giys in the matrix, they don't necessarily want to acknowledge it..
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 07:49 PM
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I also have a young daughter and this is something I am starting to put a lot of thought into now she is approaching 10 years old. The number one thing for me is to model the sort of man I would want for her. As we know girls tend to form with relationships with men that are similar to their fathers. After that its starting to challenge the equalist SJW bullshit she is starting to hear at school. As she gets older I want to help her understand her biology and nature and the sorts of men she migh…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 06:43 PM
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The amount of Gymbros with shit game and weak minds never fails to amaze me. No amount of muscle will make up for a weak mind, a girl will always uncover that shit.. and destroy them.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 08:16 AM
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Some things I have learnt; 1) Never complain to her, about her actions. Either correct her, direct her or STFU 2) Never complain to her about little problems ie The IT guy at work today.. 3) Tell her about big things you have resolved. I once had a HUGE problem, I mean make or break, with one of my businesses, and I told my LTR about it (after the fact) and how I had resolved it. She was like "Wow, that is impressive that you did that.." I demonstrated SURVIVAL SKILLS without burdening her - pur…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 08:45 AM
1

If you just want a job, get a job.. You will probably be better off financially, than going to Uni.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 12:04 PM
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As the man, you decide what sort of sex to give her at the time.. mix it up.. Sensual sex doesn't always mean better to a woman.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 11:57 AM
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Women are out-grasping men in society. They are given more for less. There, fixed the title for you...
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 10:59 AM
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OP, I get your message, however, this should only be a stepping stone towards the top 20%. If you can rate yourself (objectively) 20% higher than the average male, then great, but don't stop. The time to stop, where diminishing returns will kick in, is when you hit the top 20%. Then its a matter of fine tuning to suit what you want from life.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 10:51 AM
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You lead an interesting life.. more power to you.. I am nowhere near as prolific as you on the women front. But i know I could start fucking other women pretty quickly if my LTR detonated. She is no unicorn but she suits me very nicely right now. I get sex every other day, of course we dont live together.. and she is a lot of fun. Its quite easy to employ dread as I am in very good shape, 6 1, 200lbs, light six pack, lowish BF and get a lot of looks from women, which she sees when we are out.. L…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 10:43 AM
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She was also telling her boyfriend to use less weight - sounds like a case of penis envy to me.. You are being oppressed! We are with you! Swole lives matter! Keep us updated.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 10:05 AM
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That's some solid numbers! You should do a post on this. I get the feeling that a lot of the younger guys on here think that gaming ends once you get to 40 or even 30, and you have to LTR up.. I am in an LTR out of choice, but if it detonates, I will go back to gaming 20 somethings..
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 08:22 AM
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"Women can take pristine care of themselves" Yes, then can, and as you say, time and biology is not on their side. This is when men come into their own, I believe. The good news for us is that generally, younger (BP) men are getting worse with women, rather than better. Every now and then i will see or meet a young Alpha but its pretty rare.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 07:08 AM
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yeah I do get that.. but as the saying goes, you are never out of the SMV..
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 04:24 PM
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I am a bit older than you and think differently - if you are in shape at our age, you are a valuable rarity, not an oddity..
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 02:17 PM
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Female biology wants it - Feminism facilitates it.. They get those tingles and jump on his (not Elons) alpha dick.. You go girl!
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 11:53 AM
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Yes, I agree, I hold by the theory of being a leader and setting an example.. They can either follow or get the hell out.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 08:32 AM
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Yeah those little situations are fun! If you stay in shape, eat right and keep your life on point, its all good. The good news for us men, is our shelf life is way longer than womens, and actually as an older man who is in shape you are a very rare commodity, to all sorts of women.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 08:31 AM
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The thing is I agree with you.. That's why converting BP to RP is so fricking hard, unless they have zeroed out in some way. I have tried it myself with a couple of friends. And like your brother, when they read some RP truths, they go into meltdown denial mode. I still think on balance though, its better to ease them in with a small RP truth rather than sugar coat bigger ones, because as they start to see through the lens of those truths, they start to open up to them.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 08:28 AM
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Yes, agree.. I have had my fair share of women in their 40's - no more! I am done, the wrinkles, the lines and the vain attempts to cover them up... Sorry to hear about your suffering in the recession. The good news is if you are in shape and have game, you don't need to spend much on women!
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 08:25 AM
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Yep, I am basically following the same strategy as you.. seems to be working for my LTR, but if it doesn't no biggy, I will go back to spinning plates.. That's said the more we move forward in the LTR, the less she tests boundaries, and self regulates... so far...
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 03:55 PM
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Yeah I get that. So why not do baby steps with actual RP theory and observations rather than halfway stuff that doesn't work?
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 03:49 PM
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Crime and Punishment Sperm Wars
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 03:30 PM
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You got to hand it to women, they are master manipulators..
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 12:19 PM
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HA! I wish it was.. I had an image of my ex's new baby (with a different man) looking like me.. how sweet would that be?
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 12:18 PM
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I see what you are trying to do, but it looks like more Blue Pill or maybe Purple Pill wishful thinking to me. The problem with sugar coating the medicine, is that once you have sucked the sugar off, you still got to take the medicine. This setting guys up for failure in the long run.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 12:07 PM
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"I'm perpetually irritated by how women are absolved of any responsibility - including to their own children. " Women - "bbbut.. If I am haaaappy the kids will be haaaappy.." No, fuck that you selfish cunt.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 10:03 AM
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I agree with your position. I think some people forget that TRP is a tool kit that you enhance your life with. Your code I believe sits above that and is your own. I hold myself to similar standards. If I am in a monogamous relationship, I don't cheat. If I am spinning plates that's what I do. I personally hold my LTR to the same standards. Do I think she could go feral? Fuck yes. I plan accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 09:58 AM
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Fuck perfection.. People who wait for perfection end up doing just that.. waiting. Get out there and do. Then learn more as you are doing.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 09:10 AM
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Marriage is one tool in women's sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 09:08 AM
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Yes i get that.. But clearly he had something that these women wanted...
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 09:07 AM
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Yes, I totally get that. The other thing I have is young guys coming up to me and 1) Saying how hot my girl is. 2) Asking how old I am, and then asking my advice about life. Go figure..
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 09:06 AM
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Ha! I don't think they even need to be chads, maybe just higher betas.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 09:03 AM
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I get you. I love my time without my kids now. I don't think i could live with them full time now. Men are meant to have a mission, not be nursemaids.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 09:02 AM
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Ha! I was looking for a word to link it to harems, thanks man. Exactly.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 09:01 AM
3

Yes, and its coming to a town near you..
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 09:00 AM
3

Yes, it depends how you define "best". In this case I was meaning proven fertile.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 08:59 AM
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Yes, I think if you have a high enough SMV, women see this as a positive or at least a neutral.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 08:59 AM
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Do I think its fine? No. But it is what it is. That's what the RP is about, acknowledging reality. So, what i try to do is give them the best life I can and that includes their experience when they are with me. And also show them (especially my son) that its OK to be on your own and you can make a very good life for yourself. Of course your dad wants his kids to be happy. And you can show him that you are by leading a good llfe (an RP life) and assuring him that you are happy, or working on it o…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 08:57 AM
2

I didn't say "sharing alphas" I said sharing the "best" men, and in Norway, yes that's betas with proven sperm.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 08:49 AM
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"What actually happens often is that men who are already fathers get recycled." Men who have fathered children have already proven that they are reproductively successful. Its just another way for women to share the "best" men.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 07:20 PM
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Well, its difficult to explain, but I felt that I wasn't living an authentic life. My Alpha side was struggling with my Beta side for control. That said the separation from my kids was very hard. Part of that was all to do with BP conditioning, of course. Sorry to hear about your old man. It must be hard to watch him go through this. I am not sure if I can offer you advice on how or if to talk to him about the RP. He may embrace it or he may find being told by his son about it now, at this point…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 03:42 PM
2

So, you are going to university to do a degree irrelevant to your chosen profession (which you don't need a degree for). You will have a 3 year party followed by a 10/15 year hangover. Not only that, your chosen profession is one of the least well paying and stable professions you could go into.. I would have a think about this..
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 01:30 PM
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Well I have seen some fat ugly 19 year old monsters.. you are welcome to those..
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 12:53 PM
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"I've seen older dudes get reasonable quality without paying for it." What I know is that if are an "old dude" if you are in great shape and successful, you are a rare breed indeed.. That in itself gets you attention and not just skanky cum-dumpsters.. Throw in some game and its easy to get younger good looking pussy.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 12:42 PM
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"I locked down a bigger, better deal, then golden parachuted out. Later sucker,sorry kids, mommy wants to be happy, the kids deserve parents that don't hate each other, it's better this way. So...fucking..true.. and she still goes on to hate you and rip you a new one.. and that's the real kicker. You play it "fair, for the kids" and she sees that as a green light to go in harder.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 12:39 PM
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"Maintaining a healthy relationship of respect and connection with your adult children is something men should strive for. " Yes, of course, as someone who has been through the mill on this, I have come to a balance whereby I will do the best I can for my kids but I will also live my life on my terms.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 12:37 PM
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Just some thoughts for you, as someone who employs some graduates.. Unless you are going to do STEM or Business/Finance, I would seriously consider whether Uni is the right thing. The graduates I have are in their 20s and 30's and still have student debt. You can get on in life without a degree (especially in the UK), and not be saddled with a mountain of debt before you even start earning.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 08:38 AM
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Exactly that quiet desperation. I was quite Alpha in my 20's, but when I met the then to be mother of my kids, I slowly slipped into Beta... badly... I constantly felt that something was wrong and I wasn't living the life I wanted, damn near killed me.. and then she up and left and took the kids. Dark times..
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 07:48 AM
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I was giving the OP another take on how he can spend less on dates, if you want to spend lots of cash to smash a bit of pussy, go ahead.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 07:44 AM
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Yeah, I know what you mean... anyway it looks like my post has been taken down, possibly due to my account being too new.. so thats saved a few betas from stroking out.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 09:32 PM
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Well, thanks for at least considering a mature response.. last time I checked, putting your dick in a woman wasn't gay although, the way the whole gender politics thing is going, who knows?
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 09:29 PM
1

Ha! I prefer to think of myself as an enthusiastic amateur.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 09:27 PM
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Heh.. You seem to be confirming my theory.. Good job on the ass fucking - keep it up!
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 05:14 PM
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"You don’t even discuss the fact that a person needs to clean out their asshole first or they will shit all over your dick." Not true. "Anal sex is disgusting." That's your opinion, and you are welcome to it.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 04:49 PM
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Thanks for your comments. I skipped over technique a bit, as it wasn't the thrust (heh) of my post. I think we are on thr same page.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 04:48 PM
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Thanks for your comments. OK I get it, as a gay guy you are an expert on asses. Females don't get pleasure from anal via the prostate, it comes from a deep sensation of being full and possibly, some indirect stimulus of the Cervix (A spot) What I know is women can have deep pleasure from this both physical and psychological.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 04:46 PM
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Thanks for the support.. someone who gets it!
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 04:43 PM
-14

Maybe she didn't see you as alpha?
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 03:20 PM
-1

Thanks man. The Hierarchy - I just made that shit up!
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 03:19 PM
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Dude, i think you need to reread the post. You fuck asses exclusively?
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 03:18 PM
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Ha! Yes, I do like a bit of that, my post was more about the use of anal rather than a How To, but good point.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 03:17 PM
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"and listening to Cool Jazz" Hahahahahahahahahaha.. Thanks, I needed a good laugh today..
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 12:15 PM
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Girls asks "Are you OK baby?" Your reply..every...single...fucking....time; "Yeah I am good, baby" (smile and wink).. even if you just lost your job/house/best friend Now practice this line, in front of the mirror.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 10:15 AM
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Dude, you sound like you are at the anger phase.. you havent fully accepted the Red Pill or done the work to be successful with women. I am guessing that you are young.. early 20's? Take a look at BlackDragonBlog for a template for success with low spend and minimal investment in time. By the way, I believe that quick sex is still the way to an LTR, because you need to be alpha to her. If she doesn't see you as Alpha from the start the relationship is going to crash and burn quickly.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 10:12 AM
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"If you’re single and 50 you STILL have options if you’re only brave enough to explore them." I will be 50 soon and my girl is a mid thirties smoke show (8.5). Be in shape, have a mission, be the rock that no other man has been for her and you will slay.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 10:00 AM
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"Just as if you were constructing a nuclear bomb or reactor" Yes but if you marry you are constructing a bomb you have no control over.. that could go off at any time.. "See a marriage counselor to make sure you two are in the same page" This is too Blue Pill for my taste.. most counselors will come from the feminine perspective (as the correct one), and your soon to be wife will say what you want to hear.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 12:40 PM
3

"99% of women want 6ft fit guys who make 6 figures and have huge cocks" yes they do... lights cigar..
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 12:32 PM
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It boils down to the Blue Pill lie of "Do this" and "your reward will be this" The reward never comes, because, no one, not society or your wife think you deserve it. Be a good plough horse and STFU, but don't get sick or fuck up otherwise its the knackers yard for you. I have been there and the only way I can describe it is quiet desperation.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 12:24 PM
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I can concur.. my current girl is 15 years younger and hot.. to the point that people stop and stare when we go out. Guys my age are jealous but mostly show admiration, younger guys usually want to talk to me, to find out my secret.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 08:25 AM
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Where I am, at the gym and when I go out, I see a lot of young guys who are pretty jacked, but thats all they have. They also have terrible game. I am late 40's my girl is 15 years younger and guys come up to me and tell me my girl is hot and start asking my advice about life and women etc. There is a lot of jacked Blue Pills out there..
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 08:19 AM
0

Yeah, I know what you mean, For me its not so much the body, but the face. They age so badly compared to men. My current LTR is fifteen years younger than me, but if we split up I am going for younger women. The sex with the 50 year old was actually amazing (multiple orgasms/squirter), but sadly, I couldnt do it. She hit menopause and her face just melted.. harsh shit! I am lucky genetically, 6'1, 200lbs, 16% BF, I look 10 years younger.. but it can be done, do the work, its worth it!
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 07:21 PM
1

"Invest your time into forming relationships with other people and being a likeable guy, instead of garnering status (money, popularity). It will be a much wiser investment that will benefit you in untold ways." This is terrible shitty advice on a sub that focuses on sexual strategy for men. And the reason is, is that "being likeable" is subjective and so will leave you pandering to others.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 01:16 PM
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I see where you are trying to go with this, OP. However.. "In general, you should avoid being overly collaborative" I disagree with this. Men built stuff and hunted using collaboration. Teamwork is something that men are better at. You are confusing collaboration (in the context of females) with socialization.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 12:09 PM
10

Do the reading, do the work.. there is no substitute.. Stop looking for short cuts and quick fixes, there aren't any.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 08:10 AM
5

I am late 40's and I am with you on this one.. Had a thing with a woman who was a few years older and she was fit as fuck, a real 1%'er, but even then I found myself being drawn to younger women again.. just.. cant.. do... it.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 08:06 AM
4

I read a lot so am in danger of heading down the mental masturbation route, so I keep a piece of paper with each book I am reading and write down up to the top 3 actionable things, and then transfer those into my plans.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 02:50 PM
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Its a tricky one and I am currently in an LTR (first in 4 years) and have been using this as a way of testing my RP knowledge. Assuming that you want to keep her as an LTR ie she isnt a plate to be dropped at a moments notice, I think you have to train her to some degree. Forget about fairness, contracts and the like as this will just make you angry and lose frame. It has taken me a few months, but my LTR, while still probes boundaries, pretty much self regulates now. My advice is; 1) Be honest,…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 07:45 PM
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"is a scathing exposition of Women's nature" This is why society (feminism) hates TRP, because it exposes women's nature. They don't give a fuck about improving men, only that the precious women don't look bad.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 07:15 PM
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"I don't think you're being nice to L at all. She deserves something amazing, and you are not amazing." I don't believe that her friend was doing this to support L. L was spending too much time on the phone to OP and not giving her friend her attention.. I would have tried to game her friend a bit with something like "Well, why don't you both come over tonight and you will see for yourself.."
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 10:10 AM
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TL;DR - I would like to demonstrate that I have completely misunderstood RP Theory and concepts, and instead would like to whine for a bit.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 09:01 AM
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Yeah I agree.. I think you have to keep the buzz you get from sex in check, with the other elements of your life.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 08:42 AM
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Yeah I am totally with you on the discipline front.. Shes just a compliment to my life..
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 08:39 AM
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Sure, I see your point about "women" vs "a woman".. That said, while a love a beautiful woman sucking my dick, I still keep in my head "its just my turn".. right up to the point i come in her mouth..
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 08:38 AM
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"grossed out by cum, she would never suck dick" This a massive Beta tell - if she stops sucking your dick, she will soon be sucking a different one. If your woman sees you as Alpha, she will want your cum, on her and in her - its pure biology. "Probably even sooner, she might have started seeing this dude when I got thrown out" Sounds like a classic branch swing to me - yes she probably had him lined up already. You must now learn about and maintain frame, she will continue to pour vitriol all o…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 09:55 AM
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"pretends this can go on forever till you're 70 which is untrue." That's because, the potential for a woman to detonate your marriage goes on forever. She can leave you at any time. So, why marry? "eventually die alone" We all die alone to an extent. if you want soemthing to worry about, worry about living, really living. "That way I'll have kids, improve socially, improve economically with two incomes, secure a pension and support at old age when I cant take care of myself." It's a beautiful dr…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 09:43 AM
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Great post man, however, I strongly disagree with this line. "Because nothing can make a man feel like an archetypal alpha like a woman can, women are an extremely dangerous and addictive drug." If a guy needs a particular woman to make him feel like an archetypal alpha, she will at some point do something (shit test) to wreck his view of himself, if he needs her validation. It will pretty quickly turn to shit.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 09:18 AM
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