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| 1 | Most women don't have "different standards for different men". There's different standards for hookups and different standards for relationships.So if I tell my guy friends not to give their dates super expensive ass gifts like jewelry and go to expensive ass resturaunts, I'm making them moral gatekeepers of relationships? If your guy friends got pleasure from doing those things, can afford to do it, and were doing those things for the sake of doing them (no expected quid pro quo) then yes it is nonsensical for them to cessate. It would be a silly power play for them to withhold something that gives them pleasure. Withholding that would … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Most women don't have "different standards for different men". There's different standards for hookups and different standards for relationships.Sounds like you’d fit neatly into that group — you think that a moral woman is the gatekeeper of sex. Men get humped and dumped all the time lol. It’s not a problem unique to women. Women don’t generally lie to get sex, they just change their mind afterwards (men do this too). Do the algebra yourself… if you’re aiming to wrangle an asexual man, porn addict, sexist man, or man with no self esteem/few options in the dating market, then your strategy is A+. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Most women don't have "different standards for different men". There's different standards for hookups and different standards for relationships.Why should a relationship-minded woman fuck a guy without any proof he loves her? If she enjoys sex, why wouldn’t she? The only logic I can think of, assuming she doesn’t have low libido, is that she has some internalized shame surrounding sex and still thinks that women liking sex is something dirty/wrong on a fundamental level. So, if she’s reluctant to have sex within the first few weeks of dating, she’s either: Low libido, and normally doesn’t enjoy sex nearly as much as most people. or Has … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Most women don't have "different standards for different men". There's different standards for hookups and different standards for relationships.You're still missing my point. No one is saying only sex = relationship I'm saying Love = friendship/kinship and Love + Sex + future plans = Relationship For almost everyone, you cannot remove sex from that second equation and still have a healthy relationship. If you can, you'd be in the minority of very low libido/asexual individuals. You're looking at the dating scene through the eyes of someone with a very low libido, so of course you're going to be disgusted with what you see. However, the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 10:07 PM |
| 8 | Most women don't have "different standards for different men". There's different standards for hookups and different standards for relationships.It's not appealing wasting time with a man who sees his wife/girlfriend as a glorified fleshlight. You keep using this "Fleshlight" analogy as if the purpose of sex is to get the man off and that's it. Do you think that all women don't enjoy sex or something? It seems like you look at sex as purely transactional, or maybe some little reward a man gets if he is a good boy? Most men want a relationship with a woman who wants to have sex with him. If they're not having sex, it will be a miserable r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 05:53 PM |
| 1 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys.The wasted weeks I’m referring to are the ones where I perused her exclusively, but the relationship was not yet sexual. We figure it out within a week of consummating (either didn’t click or incompatible sex drives). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 09:42 PM |
| 6 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys."You'll filter out high value men and only be left with low value men!" You'll filter out men that meet all of the following: High sex drive Other options Meaning they are the definition of high-value in the dating scene Value their own time I am exclusive when I date. I've never had the stomach to date multiple women at once. I used to wait around 4+ weeks if I enjoyed hanging with the woman, but in almost every scenario it was just weeks wasted to find out that we weren't sexually compatible o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 04:35 PM |
| 5 | Bald/balding single men: how did going bald change your sex / dating life?It helped me massively. That's how I feel about it. If I didn't start balding at an early age, I probably never would have seriously gotten into lifting. And I think being built helps my game more than being bald hurts it. I'm mixed race and my hair was cute as a kid but there were no adult hair styles that looked good on me. I always had too big of a forehead for traditionally black haircuts, and my hair was too curly for white haircuts, so it was a pretty quick decision to buzz it off when my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 07:40 PM |
| 2 | This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like?And are you gonna be the guy who complains about girls 10 years from now because they’ve slept with 50 guys? Of course not. I never understood the hang-up on women’s body counts, either. I think a lot of guys just fear that women with high counts will know, from experience, that he is not pleasing her as well as one of her past partners did. Is keeping a low partner count one of the goals of FDS? Do they think that makes them higher value? That’s the only thing I can think of that would make the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 04:47 AM |
| 3 | This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like?Has the strategy been effective in securing a 6/6/6 HVM? Seems all the the success stories on FDS either don't fit their own definition of HVM or they broke their own rules while dating the guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 10:49 PM |
| 2 | This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like?How would they determine if the man is serious about them, if not by incorporating strategies such as not having sex right away? 3-months is so far from "right away" that it counterproductive. It's not like I'm saying that they need to sleep with the man on date 3 or it's done. But once it's going into the second month, and sex is still off the table, almost any guy would assume she has an extremely low sex drive/ vaginal problems/ mental health problems/ etc... The only men cool with waiting th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 10:23 PM |
| 4 | This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like?Men who let women know they have other options unless she sleeps with him is indeed pressuring her. He doesn't need to let her know anything. As a matter of logic, if the man is really an HVM he would have other options. Assuming he isn't addicted to porn/asexual/etc, and he actually cares about sex, he'd probably assume that he is sexually incompatible with her and walk away. I genuinely don't understand the logic behind it. Sure there are fringe exceptions, but as a whole you must see that the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 09:55 PM |
| 7 | This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like?I was commenting on the fact that FDS wiki officially recommends waiting 3-months before sex in order to "weed out LVM"... this is likely doing the opposite for the reasons I stated above. I said nothing about men pressuring women, the scenarios I painted assumed the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 09:19 PM |
| 5 | Describe a 5/10 man and a 5/10 womanMost of those countries above America in those rankings are small pacific islands. The raw truth is over 40% of Americans are obese and over 70% are overweight. This should be cause for alarm. The fact that there are a few other places on earth where the average person is even fatter should give us no comfort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 08:55 PM |
| 2 | What double standard between men and women **should** exist?He's saying that double standard should continue to exist as it allows women to compete against other women. It's a good thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 08:47 PM |
| 14 | This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like?The FDS strategy for the most part makes sense to me. Want a good LTR man? Block & Delete the ones that aren't serious about you. However, the part about not having sex for 3 months is actively working against them. It seems to serve no actual purpose and would select for a man who either a) has no other options (low value) or b) is addicted to porn and doesn't really care about sex. Both options a and b are the opposite of what FDS like in a man, but the way they gamify sex would actively selec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 06:31 PM |
| 23 | This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like?That's the part of FDS that confuses me. What HVM is going to wait around, sexless, for 3 months while he invests tons of time, money and energy into a relationship with a woman who prides herself in "blocking and deleting" suiters who make one little misstep? If he's actually an HVM he would have tons of other options and he would have no incentive to wait around hoping that the self-proclaimed HVF chooses him. Seems like the strategy that would actually be selecting for a man with no other opt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Restriction of male sexuality?You do know that sex involves another person, right? I’m afraid there’s no way around that inconvenient fact Yes it does. Would you object to consenting adults make their own choices regarding sex -- i.e. legalize sex work (keep pimping illegal and punish it very harshly)? OP's point is that un-sexy or dweeby dudes' only real chance at having sex is to perform the part of a non-nerd. Let's just tear down that barrier and let willing, consenting, and non-coerced adults make free market transactio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Restriction of male sexuality?Your entire second paragraph is one run-on sentence and I'm having trouble figuring out what point you were trying to make with it. Were you saying that if men reflect on their sexuality, and try something they normally wouldn't, they could find that they like it? Which creates a viable sexual outlet that OP left out of his original post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 06:38 PM |
| 1 | I am completely lost financially. Looking for advice.Ways to make money without a 4-year college degree: Trade School Doesn't have to be physically demanding. Being a CAD tech is a 2-year degree and you'll be making $60k after few years of experience/company hopping. Learning to code Sales Without knowing your age and interests I cannot really give you specific advice. I Will Teach You to Be Rich by Ramit Sethi, is hands-down the best intro book I've read on the topic of becoming financially literate and building wealth. I read it in 2018 and it s… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 05:04 PM |
| 11 | I am completely lost financially. Looking for advice.The data says that actively managed funds have higher fees and underperform passively managed index funds. Ramsey ignores this data, pushes people towards financial advisers that give him a kickback, and those financial advisers overwhelmingly suggest high-fee actively managed funds. One thing to correct from that other guy: mutual funds and index funds are not mutually exclusive. Index Funds are a subset of ETFs and Mutual Funds that are low-fee and are structured in a way to passively track a … | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 04:48 PM |
| 4 | Why are seemingly all women bi?Your assumption of her LARPing and your claimed implications are terrible. LARPing was just one explanation for them being standoffish to an inquiry about their past relationships. The other two implications are valid: she enjoys baiting arguments or she has an abrasive personality. If I asked her how many guys she's dated, and she gets all defensive, she'd still fit neatly into the "un-dateable" category as she has a chip on her shoulder. You can feel justified as you like, but I can also find … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 10:47 PM |
| 9 | Why are seemingly all women bi?Perhaps, except that wasn’t your given reasoning. Initially, you presented your question as a way to test her to see if she’s actually bisexual by your standards, not to inquire as to how her sexual identity will impact your relationship. There are multiple reasons I ask the question, but even that reason in the original comment is valid: Group 1: If she's in her late 20s, and has never dated a woman, I will assume that she merely enjoys the attention received from LARPing as a member of a margi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 10:03 PM |
| 8 | Why are seemingly all women bi?It’s pretty terrible to question a person’s identity like that. I'd agree if I were going around asking women at parties this question, but I wholly disagree in this context. I am asking a woman, I am dating, a very general question about past relationships. If she said "almost all of my serious relationships have been with women, I only casually date men" that would be very important information for me to hear and I would adjust my expectations accordingly. This is a perfectly reasonable questi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 08:44 PM |
| 15 | Why are seemingly all women bi?Sounds like a great way to get dumped. 🤷♀️ Oh no! I got dumped by someone who will LARP as a member of a marginalized group for attention! Woe is me! It is a perfectly normal question for a romantic partner. If the question is offensive to them, then we're clearly not a good match in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 08:13 PM |
| 9 | Why are seemingly all women bi?Whenever a woman I'm dating tells me she's "bi", I follow up with "how many women have you dated?". They get extremely defensive and refuse to answer. They won't even give a rough ratio (male:female) of the relationships they've had because they know it hurts their case. Drunkenly making out or hooking up with a couple chicks in your sorority does not make someone bi. If I were gay, I'd honestly be offended at the amount of straight women who label themselves as part of the LGBT community though… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 08:03 PM |
| 7 | What was that one moment where you felt sympathetic to the opposite sex's dating struggles? A moment that made you go, "I may not fully agree, but damn. I understand that must be rough."I remember a similar gang sexual assault and murder happened in rural India a few years ago, it was mainstream news all over the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 05:24 AM |
| 3 | Is there any evidence indicating that the 20% of the 80/20 are the same men for each and every woman queried?Boyishly thin men are considered more attractive than muscular ones in Korea. They also where makeup. I know for sure this is the case in Korea as I have witnessed it myself, not sure if it true for neighboring countries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 05:15 AM |
| 5 | Do you think women's breasts are way more sexualized than they should be?Denver has no laws banning women from going topless, and the Colorado courts went as far as to strike down a Fort Collins law banning female toplessness as gender discrimination. Still, I've been living here over 20 years and have never seen a topless woman in public. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/20 02:21 AM |
| 3 | Do you think women's breasts are way more sexualized than they should be?Men can be seen completely shirtless out in public while women can't. Legal here in Colorado for women to go topless, too. I've never seen it happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/20 02:06 AM |
| 6 | Why are Unattractive People Attracted to Polyamory?Most of the self-proclaimed polyamarous chicks I’d see on the dating apps looked like the Mucinex monster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 06:50 PM |
| 10 | The thing that many of us dread the most happened to meIt honestly boggles my mind. I know I’m the minority here but politically I’m pretty liberal. However, one of the things I completely disagree with most American liberals on is the causes of the wage gap. You’ll hear Democratic presidential candidates say “women earn 77 cents on the dollar for the exact same work as men!” which is wholly inaccurate. The 77% figure just comes from adding up the total earnings of women and dividing it by the total earnings of men — no regard for career choice, haz… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 11:24 PM |
| 13 | The thing that many of us dread the most happened to meThe far left parties supported this so I’d assume the Scandinavian ultra-feminists did. I think it’s just a purer form of feminism than we’re used to: actual gender equality. These are also the countries that have equal, use it or lose it, maternal and paternal leave. They realized feminist issues, like the gender wage gap, are due more to economics than sexism — women on average had less job experience than men because they took time off to raise the kids and men didn’t. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 11:07 PM |
| 30 | The thing that many of us dread the most happened to meWe have the technology and lots of different types. If a woman has 100% choice on the life of her baby, she gets 100% choice on getting pregnant and 100% financial responsibility. Some of the liberal parties in Scandinavia have been advocating for something like this. They call it a Paper Abortion. The Paper Abortion would be a legal action the father takes before the child is born. It would absolve him of all parental duties... and all parental rights. Basically their argument is that to truly … | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 09:47 PM |
| 1 | How do I unswallow TRP? I feel like I'm too smart for my own good. Trigger Warning: broken male who laments his fate.You tell him man. Best way to prove that guy wrong is to become a better man than he is even though you've had it harder. You'd be a benevolent alpha, while he remains one that tries to stomp out competition before it begins. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/16 07:08 PM |
| 0 | How do I unswallow TRP? I feel like I'm too smart for my own good. Trigger Warning: broken male who laments his fate.He's talking about killing himself man, have a little compassion. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/16 06:57 PM |
| -2 | How do I unswallow TRP? I feel like I'm too smart for my own good. Trigger Warning: broken male who laments his fate.Hey man, I think you should see a therapist before you do anything rash. Or at least change some things up. Almost everyone feels that of they didn't have x wrong with them, they'd be happy. I think your best bet would be finding a hobby that women also enjoy so you can meet them on their own turf instead of bar/club settings where you'll constantly be comparing yourself to Chad. Join a yoga studio for 80 bucks a month. You'll be one of the only dudes there and almost certainly the only buff dud… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/16 06:56 PM |
| 3 | Women are getting fatter because no one calls them out on itDo you not know how percentages work? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/15 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Where a woman is slut shaming...herselfI was speaking on my experiences. I'm a 4th year mechanical engineering student and the girls always ace the tests. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Where a woman is slut shaming...herselfA well read, articulate, man would explain to me the logic behind the post. Instead, you talk shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Where a woman is slut shaming...herselfThe more emotional she is at a given point, the more this is true. Studying and much of life in general is very non-emotional, so it isn't colored very strongly. It makes sense when you put it that way man. theJFKshow's statement was just filled with absolutes which really detracted from the general point. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 06:40 AM |
| -1 | Where a woman is slut shaming...herselfStudying, in the moment, is not rewarding. The reward comes at test time. Because of this, studying requires descipline and foresight in order to justify doing it. Since women are apparently always making that justification, it is not accurate to say that they completely live in the moment. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 12:53 AM |
| -6 | Where a woman is slut shaming...herselfWomen live completely in the moment. Nothing else matters. That's not true. If that were the case, why are women so good at studying? In my classes, women absolutely dominate on the tests. Not because they are smarter than men, but because they study twice as much. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/15 11:47 PM |
| 6 | Overcoming a sticking point: Making the conversation a SEXUAL conversation! Some pointers on how to do it.What does "sex on M" mean? | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 02:51 AM |
| 19 | Red Pill/Seduction knowledge implementedI looked at your comment history and saw that you berated some woman by calling her a "cunt". We love women, you are the true misogynist. | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 01:16 AM |
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