Apo_1011 Archive

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2	Tried Salsa dancing and was extremely anxious Hey, I would really recommend you to post this post in the r/salsa forum as they can give you some insight into the dance aspect and combating anxiety. Either way in regards to this post I think you made a really good decision going out salsa dancing. It's a very good place to start interacting with the other sexes. I would recommend you some things beforehand since I dance salsa myself. - Practice the basics at home in the beginning. This will make you more comfortable in the dance and this in …	/r/seduction	22/04/22 10:12 AM
5	How to actually enjoy yourself at night club? Nightgame is a lot about body language and the right interpretation of IOI from women. Since I have a feeling that you are starting on your journey to being more social, I would love to give you one proposition I think you could enjoy. Take dance lessons. Go to Salsa or Bachata classes, or even standard ballroom classes. These will make it so that you get super comfortable interacting with the other sexes. On top of that, you will already know how to dance so you can enjoy your night out. Three …	/r/seduction	10/01/22 11:08 AM
11	Any attraction, game and social skills books, channels etc 1) How to win friends and influence people: Dale Carnegy ( Book) 2) Models: Mark Manson (Book) 3) 3% Men: Corey Wayne (Book) 4) The Book of Pook: Pook (Book) 5) Todd V on youtube. Thats basically it you pretty much don't need anything else. Read them in the order i posted. These are books mostly about self growth. Some people don't like them since they make you responsible for your actions! Furthermore they question hateful attitudes towards women and focus on attraction through positive mindset…	/r/seduction	11/12/21 08:14 PM
1	Stop deluding yourselves that cold approach isn't necessary This comment is actually amazing an will help a lot of people!!	/r/seduction	10/12/21 06:58 AM
1	CMV: Are open relationships fair for men? My views on the matter. What you are describing are some very fair points. As some have mentioned, in most cases I would recommend swinging, as this leaves a lot of conflicts out. Real polyamory needs a lot of work. It's not something that people should decide, but in my belief, it is something that you feel, to not being able to live differently. When it comes to polyamory it only works through sheer honesty, setting boundaries, and clear rules (what hurts me/you). Polyamory is something only very few people should do…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/21 12:19 PM
1	Testing the waters... There is no thing as being Alpha or Beta or similar (my opinion). There are some people, men and women, that are very needy (i.e. thinking to be owed something) and are looking for validation outside of themselves and then there are people that just found a way to enjoy their life. Positivity is super attractive. Neediness and seeking validation is unattractive and pushes people away.	/r/seduction	08/12/21 10:50 AM
3	Do you recommend any book about seduction for men? I would first read Models and after having read it twice would start with Corey Wayne. Models is more about general behaviour in regards to yourself and women. Corey Wayne picks this up and goes into more Detail. Normally Models helps most men to have successful high quality relationships. Where Corey Wayne helps is in taking those quality relationships further and enhancing them into getting the best out of them.	/r/seduction	08/12/21 08:03 AM
11	Testing the waters... I think that the chances of you getting hurt in this relationship are very high. If she knocks you out of your socks try to find out her level of interest first as to not strain the relationship, but the risk of rejection is super high. In all honesty, I would friendzone her if I was you. In my experience, the risk you take is too high if she is part of your closest friends since you risk losing her friendship altogether. If there is no connection and she is only a friend of a friend where you c…	/r/seduction	07/12/21 12:02 PM
1	I’m 5’8 and bald. How fucked am I? Don't worry about it. I'm also 5.67 with big broken nose and scars in my face as well as over my body. I let that define me until i was 23 and until then only had been with two girls. At that point i said fuck it, i cannot change it so i role with it. Work on yourself. First thing i did is i tried to find out who i am and what makes me special (defining my role in this world). Then i started to set goals in my life. Those goals don't need to be work related. Work on these goals and do everything…	/r/seduction	07/12/21 08:15 AM
3	Almost every girl I’ve been with has left me. I try to keep them engaged but I’m not good at keeping a conversation going. I’m pretty quiet. I don’t know how to flirt without coming off too strong or not flirtatious enough. If I ft after like 10mins we’ll just be staring at each other. . One thing that really helped me was reading the book The Charisma Myth: How Anyone Can Master the Art and Science of Personal Magnetism by Olivia Fox Cabane. This book helps a lot to become more comfortable in social situations by giving you easy to do exercises. If you dont mind read that book first and apply it, it can help a lot in life. Afterwards an evergreen to become more socially comfortable with girls is, as nearly everybody says, Models from Mark Manson. But in your case start with T…	/r/seduction	07/12/21 07:59 AM
1	Good Social proof and pretty friends are on check but i need HELP In my honest opinion changing the country can lead you to experience some differences mainly cultural so be sure to figure out some country specifics (Europeans can be more emotionaly closed and tend to not trust as easily). I can only speak about my point of view. What i would do if you decide to move to Western-Europe apply for student housing as you will live together with around 40 (germany/Netherlands) to up to 200(France/Belgium) different students. From there start to organize some smalle…	/r/seduction	06/12/21 11:26 AM
2	Guys in your 30s, how do you typically meet women? Dating apps don't work for me as i am very average looking and having some scars in my face definitly doesn't help. I always chat people up (men and women) whenever i find them interesting. Then from there i figure out if i'm interested or not (if she fits the image of the women i want). If not i try to get her into my friends circle. If she does i try to get her to agree to meet up to some random thing like going for a walk/teehouse/dancing or something and take it from there.	/r/seduction	06/12/21 11:17 AM
2	[deleted by user] I think it's sad that some say that this is fake. Because even tho it could be fake, this situation is far from impossible. Seduction is not bound to some kind of magical pickup line or PUA bullshit. It's bound to creating natural rapport and connection. It's about making the women feel safe. If I really get along well with a women i also always go for a hug. It creates connection and rapport but also is not intrusive. A real hug is something very powerful and also creates security. The girl wil…	/r/seduction	06/12/21 11:12 AM
2	[deleted by user] What can help in this situation is reading about the Barnum–Forer effect. In essence it means that every human has similar kind of problems and difficulties in their life so everybody is equal. If i see a stunningly beautiful women i always try to realize that she probably also is very self critical and has a number of things that she doesn't like about herself. Therefore she is the same as i am.	/r/seduction	06/12/21 11:08 AM
2	If you want to date 9’s and 10’s, daygame is the way. No not more effective, but completly different to night game. Girls are not prepared to be approched so will not instantly reject you. They will more than likely give you a little more time to work. But as the mailmanic said, it's not for everyone. Super important to read body language (eye contact, smile, body position,...). And most importantly you need to be comfortable talking up people without beeing awkward. For me it's the only thing that works since im not good looking but super social. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/21 12:45 PM
1	How long should it take someone mid-20’s actively trying to get a relationship? I do have to agree with you. What I realised over the years is that those that say stuff like OP prefer to hide behind unproven statments in order to avoid improving themselves. In my experience as a 4.5/10 (172cm, huge nose, skinny, no beard, skarred face because of broken chin). Self improvement made it so that i can have a LTR every two years and always found it easy to have hookups. Obviously i got a fuckton of rejections but thats part of it. The "magic" formula was beeing fun to hang out w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/21 11:13 AM