Apocalypstik Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Expecting women to have men’s libido is unreasonable. You've never been with a high libido woman then. Sorry- or congrats? Whichever suits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/26 03:50 AM
1	Expecting women to have men’s libido is unreasonable. Who said anything about fantasizing? Quit making up things, dude. I'm not something for you to project on today- go watch some OF.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/26 01:56 AM
1	Expecting women to have men’s libido is unreasonable. Nope- love it in a monogamous setting and would choose it over doing it myself any day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/26 12:18 AM
3	Expecting women to have men’s libido is unreasonable. I'm not so special that I'm the only one. I experience both spontaneous and responsive desire and I think that is why (compared to others) that I can say I have a high libido. Most men with my libido (that I've met) have a difficult time keeping it restrained in a monogamous fashion. It's been difficult for me over a lifetime, myself and I've only ever been in a few long term monogamous relationships. It isn't even something I expected anyone but myself to keep up with though either. So I'm also…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/26 11:30 PM
3	Expecting women to have men’s libido is unreasonable. Yes- there is a difference. My libido is kicking so I typically wanted to have sex more often than my male partners. My libido exists whether I am or am not partnered- but yes it increases when I feel safe and desired in my marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/26 04:54 PM
24	Expecting women to have men’s libido is unreasonable. My exes wished they had my libido.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/26 04:33 PM
–	Dating older men (like 10 plus years older) is simply a bad deal for most women I'm late 30's and he's late 40s--10 year gap. And no- he doesn't have/make more money than me. He was a much better 'deal' than the men in my age range. He asked me once why I didn't look to date someone in my income bracket and age--frankly--that would have been an extremely narrow dating pool in my area. I had the opportunity to marry someone I love so I did--pretty good deal for me and I would do it again. Also- bad things can happen and you end up being your spouses caretaker at any age and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/26 03:33 AM
–	“Male loneliness crisis” gets the attention it does because society fears lonely discontented men more than it fears lonely discontented women When you goon and play video games all day then yeah--you're going to be lonely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/25 05:21 AM
2	What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s type It can be painful and ladies you don't have to put up with it. If we are so hard to come by then you don't have to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 11:05 PM
16	Most women aren't having sex as much as rp thinks. I have a high libido. But it also doesn't mean I'm promiscuous	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/25 02:59 PM
2	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. I don't tick like that. Sounds like too much porn and media to me	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 01:16 AM
7	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. Yes. I let my husband touch me intimately. You're just stating normal human things. Men and women have boundaries and they will often let them relax when they are attracted to someone. This opens the door for sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 05:13 PM
–	The new Tea app kinda proves hypergamy This app is more likely to be used to abusive men, philanderers, and married men. There are multiple social media pages dedicated to this and now there is a bigger hub for it	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/25 04:15 PM
-1	Does it matter what kind of porn a guy watches? Yes and no. We don't use porn in our marriage. It's more likely to damage a relationship than help one. Not to mention all of the ethical and societal issues that it contributes to. But yeah--if your deepest fantasy is incest porn or bestiality then I'm going to secretly start diagnosing you in my head.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/25 01:25 PM
1	Millennial males (and older) had it easier. "Touching grass" changes the self.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/25 09:20 AM
1	Millennial males (and older) had it easier. I didn't promise a relationship. Doing something other than hyper fixating on this narrative on the internet is a great start. You know--touching grass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/25 10:50 PM
2	Millennial males (and older) had it easier. That's kind of you to say--thanks. Idk his height. I don't have to reach up really high and he doesn't have to stoop. I feel like most women prefer to have a man they can kiss without having to stand on a box!	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/25 07:20 PM
3	Millennial males (and older) had it easier. My husband is under 6'	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/25 09:33 AM
6	Millennial males (and older) had it easier. Do you think we carry around measuring tape to rule them out? Men are the only ones overly concerned with inches. Unless you are shorter than the average woman or have a micropenis--you shouldn't have any problems. Edit: idk why you're pretending to be from another country. You are using 'feet' for measurement	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/25 04:51 AM
6	Millennial males (and older) had it easier. There is such a small percentage of complaints like that--it seems like the common factor is the complainer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/25 04:03 AM
12	Millennial males (and older) had it easier. Get off the internet and do something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/25 02:03 AM
2	Is oral sex a compensation or not? More orgasm options- especially if PIV is off the table	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/25 07:12 PM
8	The orgasm gap is because women genuinely need fantasy level attraction towards the man they’re having sex with and physical stimulation My husband thinks he's ugly too--he isn't. Maybe it makes him more humble though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 03:27 PM
1	The orgasm gap is because women genuinely need fantasy level attraction towards the man they’re having sex with and physical stimulation Who said I was surprised. He has a limited data set where he is the constant and consistent value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 03:26 PM
46	The orgasm gap is because women genuinely need fantasy level attraction towards the man they’re having sex with and physical stimulation Your assumption is very telling.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 10:14 AM
1	Why is male porn consumption so hated by some women? Some of the comments from porn producers too. Let's see how many karma the gooners knock off today!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 10:51 PM
-2	Why is male porn consumption so hated by some women? Your assumption that it hurts nobody in the process is part of the reason you don't understand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 10:13 AM
9	“Men are looking for clean water in a desert while women are looking for clean water in a swamp” is the most misandrist analogy I ever heard This is how I understand it as well	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 01:45 PM
1	Do women who say " size does matter" ,understand their bodies much better ? Outliers do not set the standard. And you've been fixated on the uncommon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 02:17 PM
1	Do women who say " size does matter" ,understand their bodies much better ? They don't. There are more nerve endings for elsewhere	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 01:36 PM
2	Do women who say " size does matter" ,understand their bodies much better ? Sounds like he likes making women feel pain- which is why he is reading the 'cons' as 'pros.'	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 01:34 PM
8	Do women who say " size does matter" ,understand their bodies much better ? The G spot is like--2 cm in. So idk what you mean by "hitting deeper spots."	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/25 09:34 AM
31	Is it common for women to settle for their partners, especially sexually? Last I read it- nearly 50% of men in marriages didn't think they had enough sex. And nearly 50% of women felt the same. Libido mismatch is the biggest issue and I think it's rarer to find someone you match with than not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/25 01:03 AM
2	Women On Reddit Chase Validation and Attention By Stating an Exception to an Obvious Truth Imagine personal preferences being varied. Wild.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 07:23 PM
–	Whats your opinion on what men think the female gaze is? I have an eyeroll when I read that sort of thing. Never heard it in real life. It speaks more to their perceived desirability more than anything. Maybe they don't feel desirable since they aren't a "666" man. I'm married. My husband is clean, attentive, tolerates my quirks, and has a good moral compass. He has a dad bod and started graying early but is attractive. He does the right things in the bedroom and it keeps me wanting more. Initially dating- I felt safe in his presence, I was pulled in …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/25 10:01 PM
–	Seems like the women that men here actually want wont go 50/50 on dates. You pay to play, with some types of women. They're attractive enough to where they'll go with the highest bidder to be married. It's part of the game. Get good or go home. You like expensive things so get on a budget where you can afford it. Most of us want a partnership in a relationship. I married. I'm not a 10/10 but my desire is constant with my husband, the burden of money isn't solely on his head, and he knows I'm not with him for money, status, or things. We have peace, security, love, st…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 07:30 PM
7	Why do single-moms volountarily struggle alone??? I've literally never said this about men	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 05:04 AM
26	Why do single-moms volountarily struggle alone??? When is she going to find time to date. Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 03:40 AM
–	Women aren't attracted to dad bods, they can't keep up with fit men's standards. Most of us don't like dating someone with an Adonis complex. I've seen my husband thick and thin and I'm attracted to him either way. I've also seen bloodwork from a lot of these 'fit' men. Some of yall are going to have a heart attack at 40 years old.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/24 04:13 AM
1	If women were truly as horny as men, it wouldn’t only be for some small subset of men. They would fuck men who were on their level or below like men do, and most men wouldn’t struggle to get laid Hot take; we get married and taken off the market sooner	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/24 04:29 PM
1	The ‘Friends First’ approach to dating is a huge waste of time You were commenting on mine (and many others) posts. I would suggest that your personal issues with this Jessica lady are coloring your perception of other men and other relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/24 01:10 PM
1	The ‘Friends First’ approach to dating is a huge waste of time No- you were asking about Jessica on Unsent letters posts. Sounds like a fake term though. I prefer actual psychology. But again- he didn't orbit or hover anyone. Too much of a hermit. If you want to use the made up wolfman social structure- he would be a sigma	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 01:01 PM
1	The ‘Friends First’ approach to dating is a huge waste of time He didn't orbit anyone. I remember your profile name though. Wonder why I keep seeing it on multiple subs. You seem to be orbiting quite a bit too	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 02:58 AM
2	The ‘Friends First’ approach to dating is a huge waste of time I met him through mutual friends and I was in a relationship. He was a platonic friend who I enjoyed having random discussions with. When my 6 year relationship ended- I was single for awhile and then started casually dating. I went on (what I thought were) platonic dates with him- and had more fun with him than any of the casual dates I had gone on. And then I was dumb enough to be surprised that he asked me to date (I'm actually autistic). Anyway, we are married- the vibe is great, sex is fire…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/24 03:26 AM
13	Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last. Feminism was a response. Perhaps you should ask what kicked it off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 02:04 AM
4	Society actually consistently underestimates how pervy and predatory male sexuality is Did you know that more men r@pe men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/24 11:58 AM
1	Here is something uncomfortable to consider .... Women will forgive abuse before they forgive weakness. I said it sounds like a prison. Were you deployed while you were conscripted?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/24 06:36 PM
0	Here is something uncomfortable to consider .... Women will forgive abuse before they forgive weakness. Sounds more like prison. Don't assume you 'know more' than me. That's one of mans' biggest weaknesses. Underestimating the other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/24 03:16 AM
1	Here is something uncomfortable to consider .... Women will forgive abuse before they forgive weakness. Military strategy includes bonding. That's why men and women in the military will also refer to each other as brothers and sisters. And if you think those military men never cry then I wonder how knowledgeable of 'military strategy' you really are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/24 04:25 PM
2	Here is something uncomfortable to consider .... Women will forgive abuse before they forgive weakness. It depends on who you ask. A general statement is being made on behalf of women. I'm sharing my view of weakness in men. I am a woman. I think the view men have on other men is what makes things weak or not. And women follow the tide of what men want. I want my marriage to work. The things I value in a partner aren't weak- they're principled. Lying indicates someone with poor principles. I doubt their ethics, motivation, and longevity of behavior. Fuckboys will lie to themselves about how strong…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/24 01:51 PM
2	Here is something uncomfortable to consider .... Women will forgive abuse before they forgive weakness. You should grow fruit then	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/24 10:52 AM
1	Here is something uncomfortable to consider .... Women will forgive abuse before they forgive weakness. What argument?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/24 10:51 AM
-2	Here is something uncomfortable to consider .... Women will forgive abuse before they forgive weakness. Don't date immature women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/24 02:20 AM
-3	Here is something uncomfortable to consider .... Women will forgive abuse before they forgive weakness. A weak man is like an STD. You can't get rid of them even when you try. I had to go the legal route to get the ex away.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/24 01:17 AM
2	Here is something uncomfortable to consider .... Women will forgive abuse before they forgive weakness. Things that give me the 'ick' or I see as weakness in a man. Punching down; literally and metaphorically. Lack of sexual discipline. Lack of moral discipline; casual lies, vanity etc. Lack of conscientiousness; self-centered. Viewing everything as transactional. I'm sure you could apply this to either sex though. Edit: Things that don't come off as weak. Crying. Good hygiene. Showing kindness; tenderness. Being protective. Cuddling. Wanting to be loved.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/24 01:12 AM
0	Q4Men: Do you expect women to cook for you during the “talking stage”? Yeah they do. It's how you get a ring ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/24 01:38 AM
1	You aren't in the mood. Your SO promptly masterbates and calls it a night. How do you feel? The same as always. Because I don't eat breakfast.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/24 03:01 PM
1	You aren't in the mood. Your SO promptly masterbates and calls it a night. How do you feel? It wouldn't happen so I'm not sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/24 02:46 PM
1	You aren't in the mood. Your SO promptly masterbates and calls it a night. How do you feel? I would be more offended if I had initiated, they turned me down and then masturbated. When I'm not in the mood, it's easy for me to get into it. I can't read minds though so need some initiation. When it feels like my partner is desirous it gets my fires going.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/24 12:25 PM
3	A 40 year old woman switches bodies with her 20 year old daughter. Which of them do you think more men would want to date? Interesting	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 01:38 AM
2	A 40 year old woman switches bodies with her 20 year old daughter. Which of them do you think more men would want to date? What does that sound like?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 01:17 AM
1	This sub is all negativity and debate. Post what you admire, appreciate, and enjoy about the opposite sex. Generally; dad jokes. Their protective nature. And the fix-it attitude. Specifically; I love that my husband is good at planning but not so rigid he won't be spontaneous with me. I like how he is possessive without being controlling; more so in a protective and 'cherishing' manner. I love how hard he applies himself to what he does and I admire his work ethic. I love the way his brain works, where he can 'see' things from different perspectives and how curious he is. I love that I am not afraid …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/24 03:00 AM
2	This sub is all negativity and debate. Post what you admire, appreciate, and enjoy about the opposite sex. It's because we have more corpus callosum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/24 02:48 AM
1	For those of you who met their partners outside of dating apps, would you still date your partner had his profile come up on a dating app? Yes, because I love his face too. And his eyes are a lovely shade. Assuming I would at least see an upper body pic--I would like his nerdy shirts, tats, and working man hands (with excellent hand hygiene). He is a little thicc sometimes, depending on his work. But I would have chosen to go on a date with his heavier pics too. He isn't obese, for one, but I don't mind being with a dude I can smash into without fear of breaking his (or my) hips. Men with some padding feel nicer--whether hugging or…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/24 12:19 PM
3	The only reason women have the upper hand is because men are way hornier and therefore want and need them more than vice versa, yet women won’t even acknowledge this very obvious fact Because it isn't an obvious fact. Nor a fact at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/24 04:41 PM
1	How do women emotionally move on from relationships so quickly? For me--I stayed in a couple of relationships too long because I believe in commitment. I also don't just leave because I'm feeling emotional or depressed. I usually work on myself first. But when you do this and your partner isn't taking at look at their behavior too--it can become emotionally draining. I have a pessimistic mind and a hopeful heart. But eventually when all hope is drained--I'm done. I'm over it. At some point the bad times and bad feelings outweigh the good times. Once you lost…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 12:16 PM
1	How do women emotionally move on from relationships so quickly? No they won't. You can still be grieving and not reach out. Especially if you're grieving a bad relationship. Cognitively you know it's bad but the emotions need to catch up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 12:04 PM
1	We’re constantly talking about guys jacking off to porn but what about guys jacking off to girls they know? I wouldn't say it is "common." If a friend is getting off to my social media pics--they have a big imagination and they're gross. If my partner is doing that then I would find it disgusting and I literally discovered my ex husband doing that. The woman he was 'friends' with on FB had a habit of letting it all hang out the front in every pic. Interestingly, he would have taken issue with me doing that in profile pics. But it doesn't matter anymore--he sucked in bed because of porn too. Porn in ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/02/24 05:52 PM
0	Is porn addiction a factor in how negatively women see the average man? Yes, it is. My ex had a porn issue. And you're training your brain to be a voyeur. He was also so used to having no emotional connection tied to sexual activity that he was pretty distant in bed. I think it makes them suck in bed. If they can even get it up at all. I also think it contributes to relationship problem if you're wanting to have a healthy relationship. I say all that but I also used to be a consumer of porn--granted, this was after my marriage became a DB over porn. I stopped becaus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 12:59 PM
2	Men are having less sex, but women are somehow contracting more STDs Young males They getting STDs from the older guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/24 02:19 AM
2	Women safe places on reddit are fucking bullshit and only cause a bigger divide between men and women. Nah; we get tired of hearing the mouth. Some of y'all only have bad sh-t to say about women. Some of y'all need a damned muzzle. Guess what--I don't like red pill shit. So I don't go to that sub. Hell, I was silenced on one of the Ask Feminist subs tho. I thought the dude asking the question seemed genuine. But you know what? I don't have to be in there anyway. It's clearly not my jam	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/02/24 02:08 AM
–	Why do women require bottomless trust from men but don’t give an ounce to us? Men have "bug out" bags as well. A go bag isn't specific to women. I had one even when I wasn't partnered with someone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/24 02:38 PM
1	Which is easier, being a man or being a woman? It depends on the situation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/24 12:44 PM
6	Telling small d men to be good at oral amd fingering is emasculating Yes! All D men should git gud	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/24 02:37 AM
1	Women’s Attraction to Dangerous and Violent Men You have to clarify things here. Either/or arguments are common.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 10:51 PM
-1	Women’s Attraction to Dangerous and Violent Men Everyone is capable of violence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/01/24 07:17 PM
0	Is casual sex worth the risk of herpes? What is a soft harem?!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/24 05:53 AM
1	What can autistic guys do to not make women feel like predators? Tell them you're autistic. I'm an autistic woman with an ND partner. I prefer not dating NT--there is another layer of understanding that I get from my partner that I wouldn't get with an NT person. I'm also more likely to attract ND partners. Masking isn't good in dating relationships because it's exhausting. I spend a lot of energy being hyper-aware in how I respond to co-workers. So I need to be able to just be my weird self at home. So my advice is--ask people on dates. It's a game of number…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/23 02:50 AM
2	The real truth about women and nice guys That's a great way to get people to bail out of a relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 06:08 PM
2	If sex is water, women have to survive on the ocean, men in the desert. Yes	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/23 07:15 PM
1	If sex is water, women have to survive on the ocean, men in the desert. Lol. It looks like an ocean but it's a mirage in the desert.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/23 02:24 AM
0	Why is the term “partner” EVERYWHERE My partner is in his 40's--he isn't a 'boy' anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/23 09:26 PM
1	Does it really matter if women don't actually have a headache when they just don't want sex? I mean, it's a lie. If I have a headache--an orgasm will make it go away. Seems a good reason TO have sex. Best to be honest--"not feeling it tonight, babe- how about tomorrow?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/23 07:31 PM
1	CMV: Women trauma dump more often than men Literally what your OP posting is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/23 07:27 PM
1	CMV: Women trauma dump more often than men A lot of people lie and steal too. Is that normal? Or is it considered deviant behavior?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/23 07:26 PM
1	CMV: Women trauma dump more often than men So you can read minds too? Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/23 04:16 PM
3	CMV: Women trauma dump more often than men Plenty of people are cowards too. It’s okay. You don’t have to justify it by pointing at others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/23 04:16 PM
4	CMV: Women trauma dump more often than men It’s the cowards way	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/23 03:55 PM
1	CMV: Women trauma dump more often than men Trauma dump or crying because we can’t be violent? Hmmm	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/23 03:54 PM
1	Women with a lot of male friends are a instant 'red flag' I’ve always been a tomboy and am autistic. Be mad. Plenty of dudes aren’t threatened by it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 09:39 PM
3	Is having mental illness or being neurodivergent the most unattractive trait a man have? As I am considered neurodivergent—I typically have a sense of kinship with others like this. I notice the quirks and oddities—but I also love those things about people. Quiet and awkward? I’ll see it and understand it. As far as mental health—it isn’t whether you are or aren’t diagnosed—it’s making sure our differences “play well” together. Being recovery oriented most of the time can be very important. But making sure we aren’t traumatizing/triggering one another on a bad day is just as importa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 02:49 PM
21	Where did this idea that younger women make better partners come from? So, y’all don’t want adults	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/22 03:44 PM
1	Do the women here define "relationships" as essentially just emotional and financial commitment from a man WITHOUT sex being involved? I have difficulty maintaining an emotional bond without sex. Financially I can handle shit myself—though it’s nice to be with a gent who can pull his own weight	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/22 09:28 AM
1	Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage? Take a look at the dead bedrooms subreddit and get back to me	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/22 01:11 AM
2	What Do You Bring To The Table But you sound lovely	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/22 01:48 PM
1	Women ask men to be fair while reserving themselves the right to be cruel Perhaps the population of women don’t do that; but a subgroup in your vicinity does.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/22 12:38 AM
1	If your a man desiring a relationship you should work in a female dominated office, you’ll quickly change your mind I work in mental health at a hospital—integrated care. The clients have no problem with me. Some of the nurses and docs get irritated at my delivery.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/22 12:35 AM
1	Is there something about autism itself (absent any deliberate behaviors) that are turnoffs for potential mates? It’s not an older treatment. It wasn’t available to me when I was younger. But it’s great for people to learn how to converse; what to listen for—‘the rules.’	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/22 12:34 AM
3	Is there something about autism itself (absent any deliberate behaviors) that are turnoffs for potential mates? Everyone does not have ADHD. No need to swing in the opposite direction just because people self-diagnose and act like traits=diagnosis.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 01:30 PM
1	Is there something about autism itself (absent any deliberate behaviors) that are turnoffs for potential mates? SST; social skills training is a thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 01:14 PM
5	If your a man desiring a relationship you should work in a female dominated office, you’ll quickly change your mind Omg yes; ADHD and tick many of ASD boxes. My big issue is sending an email (I’m very direct) and then women getting pissy about it. Just because I wasn’t all “hope you are doing great how are the kids?” I’m there to get a job done; don’t get your panties in a wad over me asking for something to be done for my client	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 12:51 PM
1	Women of PPD, if you had a son... I don’t care; I just want him to find a partner who treats him well and for him to also be a good partner. However that works	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/22 01:51 AM
1	Women ask men to be fair while reserving themselves the right to be cruel No I don’t. Again—you don’t speak for us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 01:11 PM
2	Women ask men to be fair while reserving themselves the right to be cruel When you make your own money, you don’t worry about the money end of things. Your opinion is quite twisted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 03:27 AM
3	Women ask men to be fair while reserving themselves the right to be cruel They are projecting	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 02:17 AM
2	Women ask men to be fair while reserving themselves the right to be cruel On the other hand, almost NO men are physically attractive to women and thus, almost NO men are loved and desired by women. You don’t speak for all women—there is plenty to appreciate in unconventionally attractive men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 02:16 AM
1	Women ask men to be fair while reserving themselves the right to be cruel The reason women will leave after a man loses his job—she ends up working full time while he sits on his a** all day and then she ends up doing the brunt of the household duties. You don’t get married to raise a man child. Edited for clarity	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 02:12 AM
3	Women ask men to be fair while reserving themselves the right to be cruel 1- this isn’t a feminine trait. Men are and can be just as psychologically abusive. 2- I like heavy guys sometimes—depends on the rest of him. I see plenty of women with big men. I see more hate on heavy women than men, but that is just as anecdotal as your opinion, OP 3- Yeah; our choice to have sex doesn’t mean it’s okay to be disrespectful. Since your mom isn’t a virgin should we treat her as lesser than? 4- I’m not even going to get into this argument. Men have some privileges and so do wome…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/22 02:09 AM
3	Men cannot talk to women the same way they talk to men, it is bad advice to tell men to treat women like they would their guy friends. Maybe you just aren’t funny	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 06:16 AM
5	Q4W: What are your sexual values and why? I have some pretty firm boundaries of what I will or won’t do but I’m fairly open to experimenting. One night stands—I don’t bother. It’s a preference for me. I’m non-judgy about peoples preferences but I tend to veer monogamous too—even with a FwB. For one I don’t have time to invest in multiple love/sex interests and a regular partner figures out what you like eventually. I have no hang ups about virginity—I find it quite ridiculous. I think sampling the goods to see if you’re sexually compati…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 03:53 AM
1	I'm starting to consider whether this subreddit is actually useful. It really isn’t useful. I’m here for the circus	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 02:20 AM
1	Do BJs and the frequency of sex decline after marriage? Go to the dead bedrooms sub and you’ll see it’s men and women that do this. This isn’t strictly a “woman” issue	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/22 02:17 AM
4	People need to stop saying men are lonely because of their personality. Personality is #1 in what I look for in a partner. If someone has a shit personality then it’s not going to work out in the long term and is one of the most unattractive things I can think of. Not just that but it impacts so many other areas. Maybe when people suggest that personality matters y’all should listen rather than go into denial mode.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 11:50 PM
2	How do you filter f$$k boys, vet guys better for a LTR? Do you actively try to keep a relatively low body count? how? If they make a big deal about a “body count” then they would have been off the dating list—even having the low body count. There are plenty of gentleman that don’t care as long as you treat them well and have a good chemistry with you. My husband didn’t ask how many people I had slept with; and I didn’t ask him how many he’s slept with. We don’t care. And his self-esteem isn’t so low that he had to inquire. We did discuss sexual health etc though. And it was probably the second or third date we …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/22 08:20 AM
1	Most men don't have trouble dating and "betabucks" is mostly fantasy And men have some of the worst profile pics	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 02:42 AM
1	Why sugar mommas are pretty rare but sugar daddies are quite popular? I would rather pay for the meal and not have any confusion over someone owing someone time, sex, more dates. When my husband and I started dating I paid most of the meals/movies when we went out. I make more money and still do. We had been friends for awhile too, so I knew him pretty well. I never felt I had to pay for dates. He was on between jobs at the time and I knew he was budgeting what he had—and if I ask someone to come eat with me then I assume I’ll be paying for it—anyone. I don’t look…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/22 09:45 PM
1	Why sugar mommas are pretty rare but sugar daddies are quite popular? I would rather pay for the meal and not have any confusion over someone owing someone time, sex, more dates. When my husband and I started dating I paid most of the meals/movies when we went out. I make more money and still do. We had been friends for awhile too, so I knew him pretty well. I never felt I had to pay for dates. He was on between jobs at the time and I knew he was budgeting what he had—and if I ask someone to come eat with me then I assume I’ll be paying for it—anyone. I don’t look…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/22 09:45 PM
7	Why sugar mommas are pretty rare but sugar daddies are quite popular? Which is why you marry trustworthy dick	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/22 09:17 PM
2	Are you all from countries where women dont go to college or work and.. Therapist married to a butcher right here :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/22 06:51 AM
1	How many women would be willing to get marry if child support and alimony did not exist? Child support and alimony played no factor in my choice to get married. We aren’t having a child—maybe it should have since I make more money though. Hmm	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/22 05:58 AM
6	How many women would be willing to get marry if child support and alimony did not exist? She likely makes more money	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/22 05:47 AM
1	What are some dating hills that you will die on? “Best friends”	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/22 04:44 PM
2	women: be honest have you ever agreed to a date just for the purpose of rejecting him later? No. Why waste everyone’s time?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 05:08 AM
2	What would like the other gender to change about themselves? Idk; I can tell when a girl is 12 years old. Because they look like a child.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 10:01 PM
0	It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s value You should be really upset that I get paid for it too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/22 03:24 AM
1	It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s value I guess they’re consumers if that’s what they’re looking to consume. I would say that’s another reason why career women might have more difficulty finding a partner—the only benefit is finding a life teammate and some men can’t handle fitting into a non-traditional male role.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 08:50 PM
0	It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s value Oh, and as my occupation relies heavily on data—I’m most assuredly not a ‘science denier.’ I have a healthy critical view of evo-psych	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 08:48 PM
0	It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s value It ties into other variables and doesn’t represent the ultimate findings. I’m not saying I’m unwilling to consider your statement as true—you’re not presenting your argument with the right backing though. Men and women that have had many partners are also likely to hold other personality aspects that make them unsuccessful in a relationship—tying self-worth, value, hierarchy to sexual encounters. And if accurate then I have to wonder—with cultural shifts (increase of women going to college/caree…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 08:47 PM
1	It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s value So it supports what I said. Why even be with a man at all—there is no value in it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 07:42 AM
1	It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s value So, you’re picking blocks of findings—parts of data sets—and not putting the conclusion of the studies in here. Most of these discuss the multiple variables that influence mate selection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/22 07:41 AM
3	It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s value I guess it depends on how you define attract. Men don’t necessarily have to be attracted to whomever or whatever they stick their dick in. I mean; at least I don’t think y’all get a hard on when you look at your hand	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 11:04 PM
1	It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s value Get out there and shake that thang! Or show your feet on OF or something; I dunno.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 11:02 PM
9	It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s value What does having sex before marriage have to do with becoming monogamous and knowing your children are yours (which, even if she were ‘chaste’ you really can’t know without a test). Do you think women store the seed of their lovers and wait until marriage to release it? Kind of weird connection you’re drawing. I’m viewing it as the ‘value’ being bullshit. She decides was is valuable to her and will pursue it—regardless of how others perceive her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 11:01 PM
4	It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s value Then they have opposing values and don’t need to be together anyway. The man would have just as little value to the woman as she to him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 10:57 PM
3	It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s value Why spend money on trash* Which is a relevant question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 10:55 PM
2	It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s value That’s pretty much exactly what I said. But if paraphrasing makes it better—sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 10:55 PM
2	It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s value And that’s manipulative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 08:09 PM
30	It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s value How is it illogical? If she cares so much about how others ‘value’ her then why do anything that might impact that? Could it be that this value system is illogical? Couldn’t it hmm	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 08:08 PM
5	It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s value But at no point would she care—and why would she? A persons value is determined by that person. You would, in turn, have no value to her at any point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 08:07 PM
7	It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s value So maybe not a 10 then. If you take all things into account; it tends to even out. So someone who might not be physically a 10 might have a better personality than the one who is physically a 10. Why do you think objectively good looking people ‘date down.’ They’re likely to have some character faults that impact a relationship Edited: for clarity	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 06:22 PM
4	It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s value A physical 10? Or did they also have an excellent character?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 06:09 PM
6	It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s value Your league is what you attract	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 05:46 PM
98	It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s value If it ruins her value then why be with a man at all?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/22 05:44 PM
1	Women, how often are you approached by men? How do you usually react when it happens? Doesn’t matter where. It happens. Less now that I do more online shopping :) It depends on how I am approached—regarding whether it’s weird. When it’s creepy or rude I dislike it. When it isn’t I don’t particularly like it but I don’t dislike it either. If done in a friendly/respectful manner then I’ll respond in-kind. If done in a gross manner then they’ll find out how not-pretty I can be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/22 03:43 AM
3	(Rating Male Attractiveness) Anecdotal look at Women vs. Men rating Men I think they all look like teenagers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/22 03:01 AM
1	How do you think advanced Sex dolls will affect relationships? I don’t want a puppet who will do everything I say. I want a teammate and partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/22 04:09 AM
7	Serious question. What TRULY is the point of marriage for men? I make 4x as much as my husband. I’m very type-A with some neurotypical quirks. I’m very independent, and the men in my family made sure I could change a tire and fix a car—do anything around the house like they could. I had planned on never marrying for the longest time, as well. Husband also older than me, also independent type. I didn’t objectively look at him as “valuable” at any point throughout our relationship. But looking at it from that perspective—he is valuable to me. The chemistry is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/22 04:01 AM
4	Serious question. What TRULY is the point of marriage for men? It would help if he were describing a healthy non-skewed marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/22 03:48 AM
1	Serious question. What TRULY is the point of marriage for men? My husband and I were married because my insurance is awesome and it puts me in a lower tax bracket. We had planned to remain together anyway so it was a logical, practical move. I also wanted to make sure he got the home if something ever happened to me—without the ridiculous amounts of red tape. Both of us had never been married before and had never seen a benefit to marriage until we noticed the benefits of health, wealth, death and taxes. It’s really a business move we made as a couple. I’m …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/22 02:30 AM
1	Women claim they wear makeup “for themselves” but they clearly do it to increase their SMV, which affords them immense privilege and attention they would not otherwise receive Right—for work and places I’m expected to get ‘dolled up.’ The most I wear at work is some mascara—and maybe a little powder if I have blemishes. I have to mask all day at work now too so makeup is no-no under a mask	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 01:29 PM
2	Women claim they wear makeup “for themselves” but they clearly do it to increase their SMV, which affords them immense privilege and attention they would not otherwise receive Of course they will.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 01:24 PM
2	How do you think advanced Sex dolls will affect relationships? I mean; vibrators and dildos are more trustworthy yet women still have sex with men	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 04:23 AM
11	Women claim they wear makeup “for themselves” but they clearly do it to increase their SMV, which affords them immense privilege and attention they would not otherwise receive Don’t date women who wear makeup then	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/22 03:52 AM
2	Why is the marriage rate falling? Married men live longer for some reason—beer gut or not. I’ve seen plenty of “dad-bod” on single gents too	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 05:18 PM
2	Why is the marriage rate falling? A lot of people are waiting longer to get married and it’s become more acceptable (in some regions) to cohabit. So it seems when people are getting married—they’re more likely to have made a solid decision about it (yes yes I know about outliers). On the anecdotal end. I was married at 34; husband at 45–first marriage. We both knew each other for years before even dating. We were married for practical reasons too—because it benefits us financially and by means of my healthcare plan.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/22 05:16 PM
1	Men are a lot hornier than women, and this is the root cause of all of the issues in dating and gender relations You’re right. Libido is different for men and women and I don’t think the two should be compared in that way. Women libido, though driven by testosterone, estrogen and progesterone—can be sped up or halted by a lot of outside factors, which you’ve succinctly listed	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 03:51 AM
2	Men are a lot hornier than women, and this is the root cause of all of the issues in dating and gender relations Not enough, obviously.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 03:29 AM
2	Men are a lot hornier than women, and this is the root cause of all of the issues in dating and gender relations And some of them don’t bother with sex—they stick to porn	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/22 03:14 AM
2	How are all the happily single people going to remain happy with one income through old age? I would be fine single—I managed fine on 1/10th of the income I have now. I also wouldn’t have as big of a home if I were still single—I wouldn’t need it. You budget and live within your means. You stay mobile occupationally until you land a position worth keeping.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/22 04:54 PM
1	Outliers, the people who supposedly don’t exist or are in the minority according to TRP, what are YOUR personal views on TRP? I make 3x as much. So I’m not sure what you’re trying to insinuate	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/21 09:46 AM
2	Are TRP ideas: new, old, or ancient? Funny you tout all of those off as truths until you get to Socrates—the OG	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/21 08:46 AM
0	Outliers, the people who supposedly don’t exist or are in the minority according to TRP, what are YOUR personal views on TRP? Maybe you’re trying to change the wrong things	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/21 08:13 AM
2	Outliers, the people who supposedly don’t exist or are in the minority according to TRP, what are YOUR personal views on TRP? I’m just here to profile them. partially true; I’m having some fun here too They should probably work on their anger issues and stop displacing their emotions onto others. There is a lot of projection too. That’s interesting to see. -the broad generalizations that are factually incorrect or because they can’t interpret data amazes me- *Edit so y’all can profile me to determine whether I fit the “outlier” (according to TRP generalizations) Mid-N count, Tomboyish type; bi, Professional; high earne…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/21 08:02 AM
1	Q4W What do you think about promiscuous “slutty” women? My former FWB is my husband now. Ha! We were friends for years before the benefits kicked in when I was single	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/21 07:33 AM
1	Q4W What do you think about promiscuous “slutty” women? I don’t think about it. Because it’s none of my business. Live and let live.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/21 07:09 AM
4	She did "prior acts" with her other BFs because he was an "asshole" and if youre not an asshole its your fault I think a percentage of men—with an over representation here just don’t like a woman who is assertive and who sets boundaries. They want a fuck doll doormat	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/21 06:14 AM
5	She did "prior acts" with her other BFs because he was an "asshole" and if youre not an asshole its your fault It sounds like some dudes need to get in the comfort zone of getting pegged or going without anal then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/21 06:04 AM
3	Partner quality is much more important than n count when it comes to pair bonding I just wanted to add—beastiality is more common amongst males than females. I mean—you’ve been very focused on animals during this conversation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 06:52 AM
1	Partner quality is much more important than n count when it comes to pair bonding They become more successful because men die sooner and then pair up in their geriatric years with the over abundance of geriatric women. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/21 06:38 AM
2	Are women really chasing after guys out of their league? No. “You don’t shit where you eat.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/21 11:00 PM
1	Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures? Women have testosterone too. Our libido actually increases starting around our 30’s until menopause (then it’s a crapshoot and can go up or down). Men’s T starts dropping in their 30’s and continues to do so throughout their life. Men work to sustain sexual relationship like someone would work to sustain a sexual relationship with a man. Changing tactics to sustain a sexual relationship with a woman would increase sexual activity. Same thing with a woman—make time for sex. Take time for yourself…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/21 04:47 PM
3	As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be picky I do appreciate that take. I didn’t include that—but I mean that too. Tokens of affection, whether from purchase or time given etc. The women I’ve dated do that more—spur of the moment. I think also, where I take those roles myself—washing my own vehicle etc—that type of “act of service” isn’t the best way to ‘speak’ to me. I’m often better at fixing things than most men I’ve dated—cars, computers, house problems etc. Though now, I tend to pay a professional because I have a higher money to time…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/21 04:39 PM
3	As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be picky Similar to my husband. We communicate in similar ways. He was raised by women too—granted they were a little crazy but compared to me; I’m a cool breeze. He ‘gets’ women much more than the average male. I’ve always been tomboyish so it just seemed to even things out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/21 04:25 PM
5	As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be picky Can confirm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/21 02:10 AM
8	As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be picky As a bisexual woman—it was harder dating women than men. I could say that it was usually more rewarding though. Women wanted me to be with friend groups a lot—and I had to be at the top of my social-emotional game. However, women put forth more effort into doing sweet and thoughtful things to keep the relationship going. They were more likely to volunteer back rubs, cuddling, bringing lunch to me at work etc. They were also more attentive in bed—almost intuitively. Like—generally they paid atten…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/21 02:09 AM
1	Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures? If money is the only way men can feel “necessary” then they seriously need to try some new tactics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/21 09:10 AM
1	Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures? When betting on people—it’s never going to be 100%	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/21 09:09 AM
0	Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures? Right. I’m just enhancing your comment	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/21 09:08 AM
1	Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures? I work a lot. Haven’t had an issue yet. If you value sex then you’re going to make time for it. If you value your partner then you’ll make time for them. Perhaps some of the women who work a lot choose to work long hours as an avoidance tactic. So, how would you explain men working “a lot”—are they not concentrating on work and that’s how they are capable of having sex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/21 09:07 AM
5	The number of men not having sex within the past year tripled between 2008 and 2018. Why is that? I can say that the only men I’ve ever hated were on social media or a gaming platform. The afk men—great people. At least 60% of the online gents were good people and I am still in contact with them even though none of us are on WoW anymore. The other 40%? Utter trash. It’s like they use the perceived anonymity to externalize their anger. (Percentages are all anecdotal estimates)	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/21 08:47 AM
8	Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures? And why compete with a spouse? I’ve always viewed marriage as a team endeavor	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/21 04:28 AM
2	Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures? What exactly should they be concentrating on then	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/21 04:25 AM
1	Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures? I worked in daycare for two years while in college. After so many snotty noses, diapers, screams and grubby hands clutching you all day—you, legit don’t want someone being needy. This is also why I sought a higher paying job with adults. Financially sounds in my own right? The anxiety isn’t there. Having a husband who participates in all aspects of the home with you? It’s great—and his work in and out of the home frees up plenty of time for us to engage as a couple	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/21 04:24 AM
5	Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures? Moan and complain about gold-diggers. Then claim women who are higher earners are masculine. Seems they could work for a better job or shut their trap and enjoy financial security, as a team. Instead—loads of comments from men who require external reassurances that there is still a penis flopping around in their pants.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/21 04:17 AM
1	Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures? That isn’t true in many of the more intelligent mammals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/21 04:12 AM
1	Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures? It’s almost like a man who could have a career in his own right and be comfortable with his own masculinity could find a loyal partner within that demographic of women. Hmmm	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/21 04:05 AM
1	Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures? Get a better job then	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/21 03:56 AM
-1	Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures? So, if they don’t feel manly when they make the money then they complain. If they don’t feel manly when they don’t make more money they cheat. Sounds a little over-emotional to me. It sounds like men should stop looking for outside markers of “manliness” since they’re so reactive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/21 03:39 AM
1	There is a conspiracy to invalidate the female mate-value hierarchy. It wasn’t pedantic. It was taking his example literally. Though, it’s an outdated concept. It’s a false analogy because not being attracted to single mothers isn’t a pathology. He isn’t avoiding fucking them because a book says he’s deviant over it. And despite previous editions of the DSM including homosexuality—gay/lesbian people continued to fuck each other. Also, exactly what “fallacy after fallacy” am I using? Do you even know what that means?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 04:10 AM
1	There is a conspiracy to invalidate the female mate-value hierarchy. He didn’t say it in the past tense. It’s a false analogy anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/21 03:59 PM
6	There is a conspiracy to invalidate the female mate-value hierarchy. I’ll leave this here… https://amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/jan/18/why-women-should-date-short-men https://www.innovative-match.com/blog/the-long-and-the-short-of-why-you-should-date-a-guy-whos-shorter-than-you?format=amp https://www.huffpost.com/entry/date-a-single-dad_n_6489848/amp https://www.lifehack.org/321924/10-reasons-why-single-dads-are-good-lovers https://thoughtcatalog.com/jen-anderson/2015/10/10-perks-of-dating-a-chubby-guy-that-women-need-to-know-about/	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/21 08:06 AM
0	There is a conspiracy to invalidate the female mate-value hierarchy. If you were a gay person who is upset that “homosexuality being officially classified as a mental illness,” then I would show you where it isn’t in the DSM-V so you wouldn’t upset anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/21 07:50 AM
2	How would average women react, if one day men were to start treating them the same way they treat average men? “We sexualize you for your own benefit.” I think the biggest lies they tell are to themselves	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/21 08:53 AM
1	How would average women react, if one day men were to start treating them the same way they treat average men? I would posit that self-actualized men and women don’t need all of this validation. You know who you are and what you are. You know your own value. Stop trying to seek it outside of yourself or you’ll always be wanting more—and/or left disappointed. Besides—I’ve never found much value being complimented on shallow things like my looks. I can be/feel appreciated without receiving compliments. Telling me I’m sexy implies very little value. Telling me I’ve brightened your day does. That being said—…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/21 08:13 AM
2	How would average women react, if one day men were to start treating them the same way they treat average men? I got hit on when I was pregnant with my son—well up to the 7 month range and I showed a lot by then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/21 07:39 AM
2	To women who have had multiple shorter-term relationships and are now in long-term committed relationships, who did you give your "best sex" to? So—I’m reading that you keep moving the goalposts when you pass your limit. At what point do you just stop judging and asking others?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/21 07:38 AM
3	To women who have had multiple shorter-term relationships and are now in long-term committed relationships, who did you give your "best sex" to? I guess it’s an equal trade off then since men sexually peak in their 20’s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/21 07:27 AM
1	For men and women: what do sexual and romantic attraction mean to you, are they different, and at what timeline in a relationship do you feel them? F34 I can be romantically attracted to someone without being sexually attracted—and the same in reverse. When someone is both then I’m all in. I’ve also developed sexual feelings for people I’m romantically attracted to (like some Demis/gray-aces) and developed romantic feelings for people I’m sexually attracted to. I think a lot of people confuse the various feelings that stimulate their naughty bits. There are seven forms of ‘love’. Any of them can be experienced with or without sexual attract…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/21 07:21 AM
-2	Age, body count, and # of kids for women are the equivalent of height, face, and dick size for men in terms of effect on one's dating prospects You’re probably not acting very confident when you get to the penis showing stage. If you don’t seem into her then she isn’t going to stay turned on	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/21 06:44 AM
–	Instead of theorizing, what is something you genuinely don't understand about women? We exist	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/21 05:45 PM
11	A woman relaxing and gaining 50% of her BW after marriage is equivalent to a man relaxing and taking an easier job with a 50% pay cut after marriage. So, does that mean I should gain 100lbs because I make three times as much as my husband? Hmmm	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/21 06:57 PM
1	Why do men become so self-destructive without access to women? Funny how my entire job is to fix shit for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 02:49 AM
1	Why do men become so self-destructive without access to women? That’s the problem. Go get some services instead of relying on women to fix “loneliness.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 02:42 AM
1	Why do men become so self-destructive without access to women? Maybe y’all should stop acting like it then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/21 02:29 AM
1	Why do men become so self-destructive without access to women? No. Just the classic—“I don’t want to be your therapist.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 03:25 PM
1	Why do men become so self-destructive without access to women? Working with almost primarily males in mental health—I see a lot of male self-harm. Cutting, burning, head banging (not the metal kind), food restriction AND self-neglect like medical care, nutrition and hygiene (which seems higher in males). While the self-neglect isn’t always a self-harm thing—I see males “punish” themselves. The self harm method can be different (expression) but it’s there. The internal and external anger is within the typical gender differences you find when it comes to “loc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 03:23 PM
1	Why do men become so self-destructive without access to women? Women are more likely to have a wider social circle and lean on their close friends to provide emotional support—whereas males often have more limited social supports. Isolation (and perceived isolation) is the #1 factor in suicide. Some of these links are older but are just as applicable today and we continue to teach this in mental health professions. Women report depression more often but have greater social supports, which are a protective factor. Males complete suicide more often and report…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/21 03:13 PM
12	Woke college educated women should date down men in terms of income and status. Same. He’s a butcher. Maybe it works out because he literally brings home the bacon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 01:10 PM
1	men of PPD: would you marry an unattractive woman who has potential to get prettier? That isn’t stereotypes “by their very definition.” That’s a very simplistic view	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 02:41 AM
1	men of PPD: would you marry an unattractive woman who has potential to get prettier? Limited observations are usually the reason for stereotypes	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 01:41 AM
7	men of PPD: would you marry an unattractive woman who has potential to get prettier? No. I’ve seen them lose weight though	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/21 01:27 AM
1	How is not wanting to date an unemployed man any different than men not wanting to date a fat woman? I’ve found that I have a lot in common with the straight dudes too. I could probably find something in common with almost anyone, tbh, though!	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 11:13 PM
1	How is not wanting to date an unemployed man any different than men not wanting to date a fat woman? I mean, gay guys are men too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/21 06:59 PM
1	Q4all: Do men have a moral obligation to physically protect women in dangerous situations? Nobody should be obligated to assist—but then again, what you actually do in a crisis doesn’t always register cognitively. That adrenaline (fight/flight) can push you to engage in things you might not think you would do. Some of us are taught to respond to a crisis because of the type of work we do too. Call the cops if you can. But in a true crisis you aren’t always thinking about these things and you’re just acting/responding to the situation. As far as it being a moral situation. No. I person…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/21 11:35 AM
3	No amount of body positivity for men will ever change anything for non-traditionally attractive guys. It will only make women less comfortable admitting their actual preferences. Only a Sith deals in absolutes	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/21 03:26 AM
2	If not for having children, what are some reasons that a man would want to get married? I wasn’t able to put him on my health insurance while unmarried—it wasn’t much more to add him. Why pay more when we could get government approval. We didn’t change the daily operations at all. I don’t recommend to everyone but it’s practical for some of us	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/21 01:02 AM
1	How is not wanting to date an unemployed man any different than men not wanting to date a fat woman? People get too comfortable, probably. I knew my partner socially for seven years before we ever started dating. Everyone doesn’t get that experience though—it’s super helpful if you do though	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/21 08:26 PM
8	If not for having children, what are some reasons that a man would want to get married? Health insurance, inheritance, taxes (in some cases)—easier to be approved for home loans. Health care decision-making	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/21 03:36 PM
2	How is not wanting to date an unemployed man any different than men not wanting to date a fat woman? A lot can effect a woman’s weight and child bearing is one of the biggest reasons. I gained a lot with my son when I was pregnant but lost it all over a year’s time. I think a lot of people make the mistake of imagining that things aren’t ever liable to change. Job loss and health issues happen but choosing a resilient partner that keeps trying to do better is probably the most important trait.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/21 02:57 PM
2	How is not wanting to date an unemployed man any different than men not wanting to date a fat woman? I guess I lucked out. I gained a little weight while in graduate school—my husband started dating me when I was still heavier than I am now. I was confident he was attracted to me then so when I lost weight it didn’t seem to change anything in the sexual attraction arena.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/21 02:25 PM
6	Why isn’t self-improvement for women encouraged more often? That’s assuming that the self-improvement is for someone else and not for the individual. I exercise for my health. I went to therapy for my mental wellness. I went to grad school and entered a great occupation that I enjoy for myself. Men as a motivator didn’t come into that equation—though I picked up a husband as a side effect	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/21 06:18 AM
7	Women having casual sex are mostly disqualified for LTRs by men that have never had casual sex. Or even better—don’t ask about body count	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/21 05:30 AM
3	Why cannot women do what I did to a girl who confessed to like me and initiated our friendship for the sole purpose of it You aren’t the only one who didn’t get his question. He’s trolling across subs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/19 08:30 PM