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| 13 | My marriage is overShe accused you of cheating because she was insecure about her own actions/feelings. Not saying this is the case here, but this is a very common in people with Borderline/Narcissistic traits. It will be the hardest thing you have to do. Walk away and be the bigger person. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/25 12:55 PM |
| 6 | Looks like im joining the club I never wanted to be a part of…im heartbroken and not sure I’ll ever trust another woman again.Some will be situation specific. These are ones I am or will read because of my own personal situation. - Gifts of Imperfection. Finding methods to work through/past anxiety and perfectionism. Working on expanding emotional capacity & availability. I identified this a core area I am weak in that will need to be addressed if I want to have a healthy relationship with someone else in the future. This book as really hit a nerve in both positive and negative ways for me. - Not "Just Friends". Even i… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/25 03:51 PM |
| 12 | Looks like im joining the club I never wanted to be a part of…im heartbroken and not sure I’ll ever trust another woman again.Get a good lawyer. Everyone will say work on yourself, focus on your kid(s). Its good advice, but "working on yourself" will mean something different to everyone. Lean into your friends. Tell them what's happening. The people who are really your friends will make it easily known to you. They're going to have your back. They're going to call to see how you're doing. They're going to offer things to help keep your mind distracted instead of ruminating. They're going to listen. Get out of the house… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/25 02:08 PM |
| 11 | This is why you should say hi. Incredible short film.Never have a felt so wasteful of my life. | /r/seduction | 13/09/12 05:26 AM |
| 11 | Conveying Sexual Intent Early On: How to Avoid the FriendzoneI do like this post, but there is one thing I thinking is worth mentioning, especially with Version 1. If you're going to do it, you must have setup your Meta-frame first. Without setting your frame first, this is giving her that "prize" status rather than yourself. But after pulling her into your meta-frame, these techniques should work quite well. For those who aren't familiar with framing or prizability, I recommend checking out Swingcat's Real World Seduction. | /r/seduction | 21/03/12 02:06 AM |
| 5 | Seddit, what are your favorite places to go out alone and meet new people?I like a lot of what Ashsimmonds said, they're slightly more snarky than what I've used, but I would definitely expect some success, just make sure you say it playfully. I've done a couple different ones. For example, if she's standing looking for something, you can take two approaches. First, ask her opinion on something in the same area. You need to at least make look like you're already there shopping, not just trying to pick up women. The option, which I don't use as often, is give her sugge… | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 06:23 AM |
| 2 | Every day I'm getting made fun of, getting insulted, getting picked on, etc. by co-workers, friends and people who then join in because I seem beta. Any advice on how to respond to these things and become more alpha in a group?Absolutely. I also realize that seddit is usually isn't home to a lot of memes, but this one seemed relevant | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Need help getting past the nervousness.so I try the cocky funny technique Obviously, just don't be a dick. It might be worth stepping away from this to get attention, and then come back to it if you catch yourself getting nervous or freezing up. | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 02:28 AM |
| 2 | [FR] What went wrong?This is true, but after that, you focused on her by pairing up and chatting without advancing any further. If you wanted to wait a little while before making your move, you would have been better off not completely singling her out during that time. | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 02:16 AM |
| 7 | UPDATE to: [FR] First Field Report, OKCupid first date F-CloseWall of text crits you for over 9k! You faint. When faced with an attractive girl who loves sex and has a lot in common with me, the old me would have tried to lock her down quickly as a girlfriend. The new me has played it much cooler, building intimacy and enjoying time with her but not rushing our relationship status. This was probably the best point you made in this FR. I've had problems with this in the part, and its still tempting. Good FR | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 02:12 AM |
| 12 | Seddit, what are your favorite places to go out alone and meet new people?Grocery store. You'd be surprised | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 01:48 AM |
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