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I'm not referring to me lol, I don't generally ask men out unless they've already initiated/made it clear they're interested or it's asking for date 2 or 3 after clear interest. I'm referring to the fact that some men enjoy the chase (and this means with anyone, including people you'd claim are "below" their "league"), which is a fact. Narcissistic men in particular will not be receptive to it. For them, it's a game.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:06 AM
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I disagree. Sex is attached to emotion a lot of the time, after the fact. They even say men often bond emotionally once sex has already happened and they realize they like her, and others argue they need sex to bond. So it doesn't really add up to me. If you're adding other people into your relationship, it's very easy to get confused about your feelings. It's unnecessary stress. I'm a woman with a high libido. I don't like the insinuation that all women are low libido or that all men are high l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:39 PM
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I prefer a good looking 5'9 guy over an average or not so attractive guy over 6' but I might be in the minority, or maybe it's that I've been approached by a lot of tall guys to know this lol. That said, I will not be interested in below 5'8 or 5'9. That's about my cut off, but I'm 5'4/5'5 and below 5'8 is basically my height, and that's not attractive. I also think men don't realize what is average height for women. Average height for women here is actually something like 5'2, so that's the equ…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:33 PM
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I disagree. It's mostly about social class/wealth levels. I'm not really sure how people racially define me, I'm a eurasian blend and not east asian or south asian but I've had plenty of white guys try to date me seriously/get with me seriously. What they all had in common is that they come from upple-middle class (maybe higher? I don't know how to define it) families, as I do too. Even though I'm not "white" like they are (as defined in this particular country, because whiteness is a social con…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:25 PM
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I don't really understand this lol. I've met women with that energy and they're not attractive, regardless of how social they are... that must be a thing only guys understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:06 PM
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I agree with this - no muscle is not attractive on women, the skinny-fat thing isn't appealing. I think a lot of men don't realize the most attractive body types they're into have muscle tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:04 PM
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It depends, really. I do 30 mins of cycling and 15 or so mins of light pilates/body resistance stuff (with barely any weights) and I can have a flat stomach and toned body that way. I may need bigger weights for the bum (or just consistent squats) because fat doesn't always go there on my body type (not as much as it does if I'm just slightly heavier, then my butt gets huge) but I think they have a point in regards to generally being slim. Men do have to do more lifting for a conventionally appe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:01 PM
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Men on reddit are not men in real life. Plenty of men in real life talk about how they dislike "bold" women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:54 PM
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To be fair, as a non-American, your whole society sets you up to fail. Food in the US is very toxic, and the lack of walking culture plays a huge role too. Just go to Europe and you'll see what I mean - it's a million times easier to be thin there because people walk a lot, and the food has higher standards. Europeans aren't inherently better, they just have a society that sets them up for success more. I wouldn't say Americans as just disgusting humans, it's far harder to be very fit in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:52 PM
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This is the one that gets to me too. Unreasonable body expectations. Either you're expected to be SUPER SKINNY (which is not natural for most women unless you're very physically active, let's be real) or you have the perfect distribution of fat. I actually do have an hourglass figure naturally, so I'm lucky... but then I see people talk about this expectation as if it's not extremely rare. It's not the norm to be my size and to have my size of boobs, or to have a butt. It's actually not genetica…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:50 PM
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Something most women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:46 PM
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Some people like danger. I used to definitely seem a little more dangerous and I can confirm there are definitely men who are into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:44 PM
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The "red pill" thing is a joke. My ex was an attractive 6'3 man who was on his way to earning good money. I broke up with him because he was not a good person (something he very clearly masked, he definitely figured me out early on and knew what to say), and that took time to see, and he lashed out several times and still tries to contact me. I know for a fact that he has other options. If all women were the same, I would be with him still, I'd ignore all the stuff he did/said, his moral issues,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:39 PM
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That's honestly ridiculous too. Why would anyone hold it against a woman for not getting married when she's too young/not ready, anyway? Marriage is an insanely large commitment, it requires maturity on some level. You can't force someone to do that, unless of course you're in a shitty country with shitty laws. It's illogical. Men should want women who want them back, and at an appropriate age. 18-22 year olds are often mentally children.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:28 PM
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I feel like gay guys care the most about sex but ok. I'm a woman (straight) and I don't feel comfortable with casual sex. I am ok doing some things (pg-13 lol), but even then, I need to feel a connection and attraction. Sex is "so important" to me because the type of sex I want is not super common but once I find it with someone, I want it all the time. I do have a very high sex drive but I also have insane self-discipline, so I'm often celibate. I find men are too obsessed with getting sex as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:18 PM
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So you're more ok with non-consensual sex or where a woman forces herself to be ready before she really is? That's disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:07 PM
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I think you guys are making it about yourselves more than it is. Sometimes, for some women, it's because they realize they feel more comfortable having sex in an established relationship. It's obvious why. It's possible that in the past, she felt socially pressured and didn't consent. It's not always about you not being hot enough - that's a projection of your own insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:06 PM
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What does it mean to "settle"? You mean to go for someone you find repulsive, unattractive, dumb, or just not someone you're interested in? If so, yes that's totally wrong. That said, I've met women who vaguely implied they were "settling" and the guy they were with was outstanding, as (or more) attractive than them, a good person who they later came to claim was the best man ever. So I'm not sure I trust some people's judgment of "settling" for themselves. Some people just don't know what matte…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:25 PM
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I've had guys develop romantic and emotional interest in me over time, but the physical was generally there right away. This tends to happen with friends who express interest in me - I always knew they had a physical attraction (aka I am their type or they see me as desirable) but that doesn't always mean there's more or that anything happens. So in my opinion, besides the "sapiosexuals" and guys like that, physical attraction is usually there immediately with men or it's going to be far harder …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:05 PM
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I mean, my ex was a year older than me and had many years of relationship experience whereas I didn't. I definitely felt like he manipulated me at times because of it. I would hear, "you've never been in a serious long relationship, that's why you do X" or what ever and I trusted him/gave him the benefit of the doubt. It happens. I don't think women dating someone the same age as them, with less relationship experience, always means this happens. It's also not the same thing as a guy dating way …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:52 PM
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Reasonable, well-adjusted men don't generally fall in love with women who are way younger than them. I have guy friends and even the weirdest of them still note that there's an age cut off for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:48 PM
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I only know one woman who's 40+ and is both single and childless. She's a really nice person, pretty, but I think she struggles a lot with her mental health (but this was before she turned 40...) and I believe that's a big reason why she's single. She doesn't seem super happy but that was also the case pre-40 and I don't think it's age-related. She's well off though and in general just wants a partner, from the last time we spoke. It's hard to categorize all humans. Some post-40 women will be ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:43 PM
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Honestly, I think I look better without makeup/with less makeup on than with a lot of it on, unless it's expertly applied and well done. The main thing I care for is concealer for my under eyes but that's about it (if my under eyes were not sometimes a bit dark, I wouldn't care). I know how to do the "no makeup" makeup look and make it look good but there are actually times where I feel like I look better when I wake up in the morning, and the makeup is just a presentation thing. I've also had p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:35 PM
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Marry a decent person whom you love and loves you and work on your relationship. It’s that simple. I don’t fear this because I wouldn’t choose to be with someone where I think this would be a possibility… any guy who triggers that fear is likely someone who’d possibly do it. I’m intuitive and I can pick up on this. There are men I’ve met who I personally don’t get this vibe from, and then I dated one or two who did give me this vibe and I chose to end things. Moreover, men who are self respectin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:26 PM
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My exes were tall and conventionally appealing, but I know that when they were with me, they got a lot more attention from other women. They said the same. Other women definitely see the halo effect when a guy is with someone attractive, they also assume he must be a better person if youre with him. I personally find it exhausting and I think some women are a bit delusional about their own appeal, and thus their desire to compete with other women is out of touch. We do need some people to come b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 03:19 PM
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Just saw your username. Makes more sense now. I’m sure you’ll find your child bride
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 09:08 AM
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I fail to see why you can’t choose someone your age and marry before you’re financially well off. I’ll be honest - men are not more attractive at 34 than they are at 25…people are lying to men. If you want to be used for your financial status then by all means wait until you’re 34 and choose someone much younger, but don’t be surprised if she’s using you. The best cases are when couples grow together or are of equal or similar footing. Your whole mentality screams misogynistic to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:29 AM
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I wouldn’t base anything off tik tok…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:39 AM
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Well then just stick with your age I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:39 AM
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Not complaining lol . I just don’t like it when people assume women like older
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:57 AM
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23-37* But close. And I still prefer 33 or younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:45 AM
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I’m 32 and people think I’m 24. I’m supposedly older but look young. Women often do more self care than men do. For me it’s also genes because it’s just in my genes to look very young but lifestyle plays a role too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:40 AM
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No. Men generally look their best in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:39 AM
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I’m sorry but I’m not attracted to men in their 40s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:38 AM
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Women can have healthy kids well into their 40s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:37 AM
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Yeah 32 here and regularly approached by 23-25 year old guys who think I’m their age. I used to be very against it but recently met someone in that age range who was already established career wise and had more masculine energy than most men I meet… so yeah I’d be fine with it lol. Plus people assume I’m in that age range so it’s not really noticed if I’m around guys that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:36 AM
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I’m actually ok dating younger. I prefer it to older guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 01:34 AM
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Totally agreed. Relationships are important to me as is community! I will keep my head up and keep going for sure, it's too soon to throw in the towel. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:38 AM
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That's true. For the religious guys, these are men I meet irl/through other people, never online. OLD is for trying to find someone like me but lots of men online are kinda tiring to talk to. My next step is to figure out the best ways to go forward... join some sort of hobby I like, travel, meet people. I'm extroverted (not insanely so but definitely charming) so in real life, it's even easier to meet people I like. It's just about being in the right place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:37 AM
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Very true. I just know a lot of things have led me to this point and a lot of aspects of my life are amazing. It feels like I've manifested a lot of things I wanted (remote 6 figure job that's safe and secure, getting my grad school paid for, fit, look as young as I did in my early 20s, property, have opportunities to travel etc) and the last thing is the relationship piece. But I have a feeling it's coming. Thanks for your kind words. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:29 AM
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Yeah I want kids. I meant that religious men want to indoctrinate their kids into a false ideology and/or force them to follow it no matter what, which I'm not ok with. Sure, teach your children the religion, but don't force it and don't teach dogma. And if they don't believe in it, don't disown them. Overall, I don't want religion to be a central part of my life, but spirituality I absolutely do hold as important. I know I should! I have been really ruthless lately... but I'm also kinda grossed…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:24 AM
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Because the truth is, things generally work out better when we (women) can admire our partners. Doesn't matter what their age is or even their educational status is (unless you highly value that), you just have to be able to "look up" to your man in some way. He has to be better than you at something, which explains why weaker and dumber women have an easier time in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:21 AM
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I always attract men who like lawyers and wondered if it's because I'm argumentative (I'm really not!) lol but I think it's just the ones who like intellectual stimulation. I do tend to attract a greater proportion of intelligent men, and as someone who gets bored somewhat easily (I mean intellectually), I understand the need for mental stimulation. The high neuroticism and high disagreeableness of certain professions is super off-putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:19 AM
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As someone raised by doctors, yeah... I'd like to not marry a doctor. Or a lawyer. The funny thing is all the women clamouring to marry one of those lol. Yall can have em. I like my men emotionally smart and kind and not psychopathic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:18 AM
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Ugh so as a woman who makes over 100k/year, I'm screwed? Although honestly I've noticed this is sadly true... even my parent's marriage got better once my mom took a step down. She was the breadwinner for a few years. Though my dad does at least 60% of the housework now so they just totally shifted things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:15 AM
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Is INTJ the perfect match? I thought it was INFJ. I'm the same as you and my ex was an INFJ. Though now that I think of it, a T would probably work better with me long-term.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:13 AM
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But I don't want to date a guy that cries about the slightest inconvinence. No one wants that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:10 AM
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Yeah, I don't like any of those things. Stoic is fine if it's paired with enough emotional expressiveness/they know how they feel, but not "stoic" in the "emotionally numb" sense. The latter is avoidant. Avoidant men are the worst. I admire men who aren't big complainers, but I'm not a big complainer myself. I've had emotionally volatile people literally tell me "I didn't know you were bothered" and what they meant was I wasn't having a full on meltdown the way they would... because I can self-s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:08 AM
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Yeah exactly this. My ex was... very emotionally volatile during our relationship. I was the stoic one, and it was uncomfortable. I know I've always been really good at not complaining/not fully letting negative emotions overtake me, but the relationship made me realize how important it is to be with someone who can self-soothe but also knows how they feel. At least he had the latter and mostly has the former down now, but I'm always on the lookout for EQ and it's rare unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 03:05 AM
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Yeah trust me, I know! I was very staunchly aware in my teens and early 20s but then got a bit naive. I never dated as a teen or early 20 something woman (for religious/personal reasons), so I was like a 15 year old in a 25 year old's body when I started dating. Then I moved to another country for work and school and my dad had to sit me down to have "the talk" lol, to basically tell me to be wary of men. Considering I got approached by pretty wealthy men and was approached a lot in general, now…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:58 AM
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Yes but i barely "search". I've been single for 2 months and while I go on apps, I barely swipe and I've only been on this app for about 2 weeks (I also feel gross being on an app for some reason) even though I've gone on about 4-5 dates in the last 2 months. I got asked out recently by someone I met at a hobby group, but he's not the kind of guy I'd be friends with let alone more with, so I've tried politely letting him down but he's still persisting... it's also hilarious when guys assume I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:53 AM
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I like it when men are emotionally intelligent. That means you're aware of your emotions and know how to regulate them. It does not mean being emotionally volatile. It also does not mean being emotionally avoidant. I actually get uncomfortable around men who never express how they feel/know how they feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 02:49 AM
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Hmm, a lot of women are having their first kid at 35-39 though. Female eggs just get less in numbers rather than lower in quality, and that's why a lot of women get their eggs frozen in their early-mid 30s if they need to. They actually recommend doing it by 37 but I would do it before 35. Male sperm quality goes down in age. I agree about 40+. I would not want my husband to be 40+ when we have kids. I also would not want to be 40+ but 35-38 is a good time to have kids IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:48 AM
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I've been described as having high standards but my exes fell into those standards for the most part, and I see it as wanting an equal. Why would someone not want someone similar?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:22 PM
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That's why I didn't settle. They were projecting their own insecurities and there were some who were also just competitive with me. I learned that later. But yes, some people give bad advice. My parents don't, but others have. My point was that depending on someone's cultural background, there could be strong misogynistic undertones around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:09 PM
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I think people who are attractive basically attract all kinds of people. Who they let in is where the "like attracts like" thing applies, but otherwise, no, that isn't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:04 PM
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I agree, and it sucks. I'm a naturally more feminine woman and I reaaaaallly want my future husband to lead. I actually WANT to submit. I naturally submit when I respect someone. It doesn't mean he's always the leader, it just means I trust him enough to follow him at least 50% of the time. The weird part is, I've had women (masculine ones) tell me to "just lead, you're a leader" or give me a hard time for this. And I've had men basically tell me it's hot when I lead/command, or they literally j…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:58 PM
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Emotional intelligence and relational intelligence are both hard to find in men, plus the whole issue where a lot of them aren't purpose-driven enough/can't seem to get educated. Also.. good character is hard to find too. Men who won't watch porn, who do good things for the sake of it, who want to better people's lives, who truly care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:55 PM
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I can tell you from experience, the women in my family kept telling me to settle in my early 20s. It was the men who were like "are yall crazy? she's beautiful".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:54 PM
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Like I have seen a pattern where they are all kind, empathetic and find it hard to play the dating game. This is sadly me, but I've gotten better at cutting people off. I remember in my early 20s I got some ridiculous requests/approaches. I mean I still do, if I wanted a really rich guy I could do it. But I'm looking for someone who's like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:44 PM
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That's not true. Some women have families/people around them telling them to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:42 PM
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It's because society conditions us to "give him a chance" and we don't learn how to unlearn it until about 30, which is when men supposedly dislike women all of a sudden. But yes, in my 20s, I was wayyyy too lenient and nice. I was also a bit naive and assumed everyone had good intentions. Luckily, I didn't sleep with any of them because I was too conservative, but I still got burned.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:41 PM
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As a woman (I make 6 figures), I just want a good man who's intelligent, kind, driven, and is similar in terms of what he can make. It doesn't mean he needs to make 200k or more a year, it just means something similar to me and wouldn't compromise our entire lives if I needed a year or two off for kids. I'm a bit traditional in that sense... I wouldn't be happy if my husband was the one at home and I was out working. It'd be nice if we both spent time at home, but a lot of men don't agree to tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:36 PM
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Definitely delete their pics now. You're showing a lot. The last one (is that the same as the first one? I can't tell) looks like big legs and a big butt, that doesn't make for an hourglass figure. It just mimics one. Middle one looks like she may have one but it may be the angle. Blonde's obviously pretty facially and she looks mestiza. It might also depend on what you like. I think a true hourglass is one where you have both boobs and butt and a really small waist, not just a big butt. And it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:20 PM
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Yeah she's made comments in the past about why a guy turned her down and was into me, and it was often microaggressions ("oh, you're exotic, that's why") but eventually she just flat out said I was hotter than her. I would definitely like to tell her to just be less picky about hair but then, hey, I have my things too... though I have definitely dated way, way below what I normally like, and it usually doesn't work. And then I have other friends who are 5' who demand 6' and up lol, and that one'…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:43 PM
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You're totally allowed to want that. But I really don't know any guys who are staunchly pro blondes... they're usually middle eastern if they're obsessed with blonde hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:39 PM
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I'm not going to read the entire comment. My mother is an ob/gyn herself. Pretty sure we know female fertility a little more than a random internet man does. P.S. Jason Momoa's wife is a lot older than he is. ;) So your handsome/masculine example's with an older woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:24 AM
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Lol most men prefer brunettes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:21 AM
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If you'e a bi guy, please just date men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:13 AM
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If you're happy to share a photo, I can give you some honest feedback. I get carded all the time/asked if I'm in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:12 AM
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Physically, you sound like my ex. The women you dated are definitely fit, attractive women, but I don't know if 75% of women can attain that level of fitness? Also, none of the women you dated were exceptionally attractive. They were attractive for sure, but not special if you wanna talk looks-only. I can't really tell what the blonde looks like but their faces are average-pretty to me, and none of them have big boobs, a visibly big butt (maybe the first does?) or an actual hourglass figure. So …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:06 AM
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My ex has a 6 pack and he doesn't even workout much nor is he super super lean... I think he just has one. I think it's nice and I appreciate it, but it wasn't a requirement. I've also dated other men who had the same. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:01 AM
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A counterpoint: is a woman having a normal BMI too much to ask for in 2021? Nevermind a 6 figure income or DD boobs. (Or choose whatever cup size fits your fancy) Yeah I mean I fit these criteria, so... I have an acquaintance who still can't imagine getting with a guy who doesn't have great hair (I tried setting her up with a guy today) and she has pretty mediocre hair, a flat chest, etc. But it's not my place to tell her she's unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:59 AM
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You're getting hate, but my parents are those refugees who came here from a crumbling country and are now well off... so I agree with you. A lot of people here lack ambition/drive. There's also a lot of self-discipline that's lacking. People eat crappy food, refuse to work out, control their impulses (including their sex drives), etc. These unsuccessful men will always blame external factors, but as a WOC with parents who didn't even fully speak the language I was educated in (when I was a kid).…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:55 AM
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25-27 year olds these days are not mature. Moreover, people peak at different ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:48 AM
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Some women are the equivalent of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:46 AM
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My ex was 6 feet tall with a 6 pack and was on his way to make 6 figures. I have ab lines myself, also make 6 figures, and I guess as the female equivalent, have the body type guys like (hourglass, but lean, big boobs, big butt). I wasn't requiring 6 pack abs nor even the height or salary, but it's nice to have, I guess? I agree that a nice body just requires work, though for some of us, it's easier to achieve. A lot of guys should just spend more time at the gym though. In terms of salary... ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:45 AM
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https://nypost.com/2021/06/16/tiktok-mom-slams-trolls-hating-on-her-dentures-and-makeovers/ Yeah but she's a typical white girl. Thin brows, no lashes, thin lips, but also with bad skin. All of my white friends look pretty... tired without makeup. My brows are naturally full, I have naturally full lashes, I have full lips, clear skin, so makeup is just about rounding things out or enhancing some contrast. I look like the same person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:52 AM
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I look very similar without makeup, just obviously a bit less polished. I get on work video calls without makeup and don't feel that different. I actually find there's a sweet spot - if I wear too much makeup, it doesn't look great on me, unless a professional did it and it's for a wedding or a shoot. It depends on the person. If you have naturally darker features and clear skin, you usually look more similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:49 AM
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Yeah I don't know, I make 6 figures as a woman so a man who makes my same amount is my equal and then I'm looking at who he is as a person. I don't really want a millionaire or a man who makes way more than I do, unless he's a super kind, good person... it's not worth it otherwise. Money isn't everything and I can make my own money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:44 AM
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Without makeup and stuff, maybe... but with it, obviously no. I'm straight (I'm a woman) but I find some women really attractive and much more than men in the same venue will be, but I think attractive women will generally be much more attractive than men of the same level for their gender. Who are these obese women wanting fit men? I haven't met any. Though I'll agree that men have lower standards. A lot of women are delusional (about height mainly) and I find women who get a lot of plastic sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:42 AM
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That's not a simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:37 AM
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I'm attracted to men who are slightly more masculine, meaning they will stand their ground on things they care for, but won't be highly, highly disagreeable. I'm slightly more agreeable in nature and want someone who's a bit of a challenge but not so much that he becomes a domineering a-hole. I also don't want a guy I can walk all over, because that ruins my interest. I think men who assume "simps" are popular are the same men who feel upset about planning a date or doing basic relationship thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:34 AM
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What is "wealthy"? Also, I said "high value", not "wealthy". You can be rich and be a shitty human being. I've been approached by many wealthy men before and they were horrible shit human beings I would never marry. I don't care if you're a millionaire.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:29 AM
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After 40, as a woman your fertility is none existent. Please tell that to my mom who got her tubes tied in her early 40s because she kept getting pregnant. Some of you are really dumb. Also, no man in his 40s looks 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:25 AM
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So as I mentioned in my other comment, this is just because of the number listed. If a woman who's attractive in her 30s lists 20-something as her age, she'll get the same attention as she did in her 20s, guaranteed. I know because I tried it, although I still get a lot of attention now (and higher quality attention now, to be honest). Men care about numbers when they use OLD but in real life, men don't give a shit. Considering I've been approached by men who were several years younger than me, …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:17 AM
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Thank you. Reddit is a shitty place. I wish these guys all wore the same shirt IRL or something so I could actively avoid them. They clearly have no clue what women are actually like. And the hard truth is, unless a man is black or asian, if he's 30+, he looks his age or older. White men usually look older than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:14 AM
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Hmm, if the attention thing dwindles down, it's only because of online dating or age being shown. I tried signing up for a dating app and put my age at 26 and the amount of likes was insane. Actually, even now at 32, it was insane too, but my point is - guys can't tell I'm 32. IRL, I get hit on as if I'm in my lower 20s. My ex (who wants to be back in a relationship) tells me that as well. I do not look 27+ and most men who are 30+ do look 30+. IRL, I get asked out by men who are a lot younger t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:12 AM
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No, I disagree. Attractive, educated, intelligent (aka high value) men in their 30s generally go for women around their age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:03 AM
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Oh I have no idea... I haven't checked. I don't think we're as obese/overweight in general. I personally am fit so I don't really apply to that stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:50 AM
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Lol I'm Canadian and whenever I go to the US, I feel like a celebrity. Even in LA, where actual celebrities reside, I have been mistaken for one. I guess that's how large Americans are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:32 AM
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Exactly this. Men on reddit have no clue how sexuality works, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:30 AM
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Yeah, good luck. I was a virgin until my later 20s. Pretty much no attractive guy I met was a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:29 AM
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ED.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:25 AM
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I think being with someone who's never had sex before you is a big risk. From what I've seen from my female friends, they start fantasizing about other men. I've had more than one tell me they dream about it... so I expect them to do this once they hit 40-ish. Their marriages are temporary. I wanted to be a virgin until marriage but met my ex, and it wasn't realistic. I wanted to know if we were compatible on that front as I'm a horny woman and we almost got engaged and married. So while I've do…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:16 AM
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I haven't ever had casual sex or hookups before, so no. Also, I'm single right now, but my ex (the only one i slept with) didn't get the full thing either. There are some things I'm still a virgin on, technically. I will only do certain things with the man I marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 06:04 AM
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