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It’s not pre-marital sex if you’ve already been married before. Now it’s post-marital sex and I’ve never heard of god having a problem with that. Follow me for more biblical life hacks.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/24 08:58 AM
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Listen to my man right here! You need to file now. If, and that’s a big IF, you guys do end up reconciling then you don’t have to follow through with it, but believe me when I say you’ll be very happy that you’re the conductor of the train and not your STBXW. The pick me dance doesn’t work for anyone and it won’t work for you. Grab this bull by the horns and hold on tight because you’re in for a wild ride.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/24 01:02 AM
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My XW’s attorney did this. Our agreement, while thorough, is absurdly long. The best part about it though is that I filed and the vast majority of the agreement was written with the wife being the plaintiff and not the defendant. As such the agreement that she sent was heavily in favor of the plaintiff (me). So I requested some minor changes and now that it’s finalized I’d say roughly 95% of the agreement is in my favor. She spent almost 8 times the amount I did on her attorney and has walked aw…
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/24 12:22 AM
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A friend of mine once jokingly said to me and my girlfriend “I hope you two aren’t engaging in any of that pre-marital sex together”. I told him that it wasn’t PRE-marital sex, it was POST-marital sex since I was divorced and therefore not an issue. 😂
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/23 11:27 AM
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“Let your plans be dark and impenetrable as night, and when you move, fall like a thunderbolt.” -Sun Tzu Spend some time here and you’ll quickly realize that no matter how amicable you want to be it only takes one party to turn this into a war. You can file and serve her and still have this be amicable but don’t ever let your enemy know what you’re doing. She’s your enemy now, it’s a legal battle but it’s still a battle and the stakes are high. The outcome of this battle WILL determine the amoun…
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/23 12:09 PM
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It’s wild because my ex took off to “go live her best life” with her AP, leaving me with the kiddo (thankfully), I have primary custody (mom gets 3 weekends a month), and even still she tries to claim how important HER BABY is. 🙄 After two years of living 90 minutes away, and marrying her AP almost directly after the divorce was finalized, she just got a 700 sqft apartment back where I live…for HER BABY. Her new husband is conspicuously absent so it’s obvious what’s going on but if you listen to…
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/23 01:32 AM
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I have primary custody, and a couple things led to it. First and foremost; she left. She left me, the kid, and our marital home. Then she moved in with her AP over an hour away from the only place my kid ever knew as home. Secondly, drug use and alcohol abuse (initially in the past wayyyy before a child entered the picture but renewed use and abuse with her AP) and long history of mental illness with an equally long history of not following her doctor’s recommendations on how to manage it. Reall…
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/23 07:07 PM
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It’s funny, my ex said the EXACT same thing. I didn’t want children, never wanted children. It’s not that I thought I’d be a bad parent, I just didn’t want that for me. Long story short we had a kid and she was a pretty terrible mom. I think the fantasy of what being a mom would be like and the reality of it we’re VERY different. It came to a head after I came back from a short deployment and she handed me our child (4) and took off to go be with her AP. Now I have primary custody and kiddo and …
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/23 03:28 PM
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Women can be strange, ESPECIALLY if they have mental health diagnosis’ like my ex does. I used to send her an occasional picture of our kid post divorce, I have primary custody and felt like if the shoe was on the other foot I’d appreciate the gesture. Well, come to find out she was taking those pictures and plastering them all over social media when she didn’t have our kid. Posting the picture and saying things like “I’m having a wonderful day at the park with (kiddo)!” Meanwhile I have custody…
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 01:45 PM
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Not so much won a custody case, more like she just didn’t want to be the primary parent. I came back from a short deployment, she handed me our kid, and took off to go live with her AP she had been seeing while I was gone. She pretended to “fight” for custody but we never actually made it to court. I filed and requested a hair follicle drug test and that was all it took for her to fold like a house of cards. So now she sees our kiddo a couple weekends out of the month and gets to party it up and…
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/23 12:20 AM
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Idk I had a pretty good time, maybe you had to be there.
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/23 12:04 PM
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Her best friend came over with a bottle of whiskey and we drank and screwed the night away. A week later I was having another great night with that same best friend and another one of her friends. Everyone saw right through the BS she had put our family through and they knew just how to lift a man’s spirits. For the record my ex is no longer friends with anyone who we jointly knew when we were married, maybe it’s because she moved halfway across the state to be with her AP or maybe it’s because …
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/23 03:20 AM
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Listen to my man here! The affair fog helped me secure custody, the home, my pension, and therapy/counseling (and this sub) helped me retain my sanity. The woman you used to love is gone and she’s not coming back, this new woman LOOKS like the person you loved but she isn’t, she’s your enemy now and you need to get ready to fight like your life and the lives of your children depend on it. Best of luck brother, you’re in good company here.
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/23 09:09 PM
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1: Experienced that one myself. Used those new things to get ALL of the attention while I was deployed. 2: My ex actually ended up getting married to her AP mere months after our divorce was final. Not sure how that’s going but also couldn’t care less. I’ve only met him a handful of times and he’s…odd. Whatever, maybe it’s true love. (Sarc) 3: Desirable we are! I am not ashamed to say that the very day our divorce was finalized I hooked up with her best friend. I’ve since made it a point to hook…
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/23 03:00 AM
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Mine tried to pull the same stunt after cheating on me while I was deployed, leaving me AND the kid as soon as I got back, and marrying her AP as soon as the divorce was final. But when I told her to pound sand when she proposed a joint b-day party for the kid I’m the bad guy. 🙄 IDGAF I’ve got primary custody and she can see her for the two hours on her birthday that she’s entitled to per the decree. The mental gymnastics I’ve witnessed is absolutely astounding.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 03:07 AM
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I don’t post here much but I will say that (most) of the advice given in this subreddit was absolute gold while navigating my divorce. All that being said my situation is pretty similar as far as distances go. The short story is that I got back from military orders, my (now ex) wife handed me the car seat and took off, leaving me and our kid. She immediately went to go with her AP that she had been seeing while I was gone and decided that she was going to “live her best life” with him, he lives …
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/23 09:32 PM
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