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His own laundry-he does it but waits until 9PM Sunday night and loses his mind and acts like it's my fault he forgot. Meanwhile I've already washed, folded and put away my own laundry plus our 3 kids. 🙄 I would never live with a partner who refused to include my laundry while doing a wash. That is insane passive aggressive behaviour. You literally did 3 loads of laundry and refused to include his clothes out of spite? Jeez
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 01:34 PM
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Couple things going on here. Babies in their first year or so are very easy. They basically just sleep/eat/poop every few hours. If one parent is home most of the time, it's not that hard. The time commitments of sports/school/activities, morning rush of getting kid ready for school while you're getting ready for work while packing a lunch and feeding yourself. All the stuff with older kids can be more annoying and more of a burden than caring for an infant. Mother's are incredibly jealous of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 05:52 PM
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Because it's obviously a joke in response to the tea app which presents itself as serious, safe, and not sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:49 PM
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Yup, according to women, their brains aren't even developed by 25. Dating a 24 year old is like dating a special needs person apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:48 PM
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Easiest way to catch a false rape allegation though. Never stick your dick in a social activist chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:10 AM
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Only ugly people do poly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 10:29 PM
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Because in real people don't date like autistic people on reddit who need to have direct verbal communication to explain every social norm and print off a sexual onboarding document for every dating partner with detailed instructions of all of their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:30 AM
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OG Redpill stuff is obsolete because it was written at a time when the way men and women would meet was primarily going out to bars/clubs with 20 friends and online dating was reserved for old people. Dating app strategy and blackpill stuff is more relevant for gen z, where 90% of hookups happen on apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:09 AM
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I'd rather not get added to some freak's spreadsheet or have him tell his entire friend group what my asshole looks like. Sorry, not worth it. This is what we call projection, everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:00 AM
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Lmao how did you get thay from my comment. Relax lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:06 PM
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Rule 1, don't talk about fight club.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 11:06 AM
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Conservative in the literal sense of the word. Which is true. No one is more enthusiastic about the importance of voting and having blind trust in authority figures than redditors.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 06:15 PM
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I'm not making a moral judgement at all. I'm saying you saying "I love my husband and don't think about who has more power in the relationship" is fine to say but there's a lot your husband thought about and did that made you feel that way to begin with. It's like saying you really love the seafood pasta at your fav restaurant and it's your favorite meal, and pretending it's just magic chemistry and the right flavors for you rather than a meal the chef in the kitchen has meticulously designed ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:31 PM
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Who cares what women reading male dating advice think? If any redpiller is using that content for any other purpose than improving their dating / sex life, like trying to convince women this is how they behave or getting religious and preaching about it, they're pretty pathetic and lack self awareness. You can beat people over the head with any belief or make an entire ideology out of a simple truth. But for mentally sane people advice on how to improve looks, lift at the gym, how to manage a go…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:28 PM
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And you also don't think about all of the little logistical details that those men you've met and dated have planned to make you want to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:23 PM
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The purpose of the redpill wasn't to make a theory of gender of all society to discuss like acadmeic book nerds. Its advice on how to get laid. It doesn't matter if all men are assholes, or men behave the same as women in certain situations. None of that will help anyone to get pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:20 PM
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There's never been a single study that has actually shown this to be true that controls for age of the mother. Any comparison of old vs. young sperm and child health has completely ignored age of the mother in its analysis. Even when men 60+ are fathering children they are much more likely to be doing that with age 30+ women who gave declining fertility. While 25 year old men who are fathering children are almost exclusively having children with 16 - 25 year old women who produce healthier offsp…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:21 PM
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So you agree that after a first date you're not exclusive and still single and free to date. But after 3-4 months you should be official. Which basically is confirming what this whole thread is about that you're not exclusive until you talk about it. And OPs friend shouldn't have assumed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:08 PM
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This isn't new. This is exactly how dating was in the 2000s for millennials. Hell "Facebook Official" was literally a thing. You weren't exclusive until it was in your Facebook profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:02 PM
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So the moment you go in a first date for coffee you consider yourself in a relationship with that person and don't talk to or date other potential partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:01 PM
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You directly told her you don't find her attractive? They're going to assume all guys will take anything they can get and probably assume you're holding out for the hotter friend and will settle for the ugly friend once you realize the other girl is interested. If you've been clear you don't like her and never want to date her then just write off your chanced with any of them and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 11:22 PM
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If one girl in the group has a crush on you then her friend isn't going to deliberately hurt her to date you. Especially if you aren't her first choice. Girls spend way more time and energy talking about this stuff than guy friends. They both hope you take the hint and ask the friend out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 11:13 PM
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Infertile pussy isn't particularly attractive. I'm sure girls in wheelchairs also appreciate a good fucking but not going to enjoy that over having sex with an able bodied woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 02:50 PM
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The fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 01:56 PM
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Sex with a post menopausal woman seems kind of pointless. Ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:57 PM
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This. It's also why caring about a woman's orgasn is pointless for a guy. She's either really turned on by you to the point she's going to orgasm during sex, or she's going through the motions a bit and finds you cute enough to fuck but not drive her wild. Basically a woman's orgasm has already been determined before any clothes come off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:00 AM
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Yeah there's a study that was pretty conclusive that the #1 factor in a woman's orgasm is how attractive the man's face is. He cab jackhammer, flop around. Lay in his back and let her do all the work,, skip foreplay, and she'll still shake with pleasure and have an orgasm if she sees him as really hot and out of her league.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:59 AM
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It won't work because OP thinks the girl who magically becomes obsessed with him will be obsessed with him for life. Instead of the much more likely reality of her jumping to the next partner that excites her. She could be living with OP, engaged and planning a wedding one day and then completely ghost the next day to chase someone new. People who fall in love that quickly also fall out of love/ in love with other people that quickly as well
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 01:08 AM
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Being unfulfilled at times is completely normal and healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 12:59 AM
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No one is 100% fulfilled for 50 years. You sound like you're 25. Wait till you've been together with your partner for 15-20 years and shuffling kids to sports games and practice. The reality is that dating, sex, hanging out with your friends and having spontaneous fun just aren't things that become a big priority in life without sacrifice other bigger responsibilities. The only thing I'll say is that if someone is financially well off and self sufficient to raise kids solo in their own place whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 12:57 AM
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Being seen as desireable and sexy is core to women's identity and something they are all very much proud about. Unless you're one of the raggedy autistic women of PPD. I don't think female pop stars need male writers to make a song about their sex appeal. That's what femininity is all about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 03:57 AM
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This happens for both men and women as soon as they have sex outside their relationship. Happened to me with a gf when I was was 28. I started hooking up with a girl I met at a concert and like night and day suddenly my ex's presence was annoying. Things I wouldn't have noticed before were flaws. And I had little desire to have sex with her. Mind and dick were gravitating toward the new girl. Women just have a lot more opportunities to fall in love because they have 1000 options and meet new men…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:51 AM
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If you're 24 and have a job date a college student. Why go for a girl your own age that's looking to lock down a 30 year old husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:24 PM
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How It Happened: I messaged her one day and asked her to meet me outside saying there was something I wanted to ask. I'm sure she already knew what was up. She asked for 5 minutes, I assume to freshen up, and then came down She went to the wrong place by mistake and didn't come to me until a long while after. By that point the moment had been built up for me and I was pretty nervous and I just asked her out. This is the weirdest way to ask someone out. Did you actually invite her out to some typ…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:48 PM
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I'm 38 and will definitely say it was much easier to be the hottest or funnest guy in a bar of 200 people that a woman would choose to go home with vs being her best option out of 50,000 guys in a 10 mile radius. OLD also made it much easier for the average plain jane girl to bag pro athletes, musicians, and millionaires where before online dating she'd have to pay a premium to access the events these people would go to. And known the right people. Where OLD and current dating is easier for gen …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 02:01 AM
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The amount of furries in this thread just shows how warped the men and women in thus sub discussing dating norms are. Truly the blind leading the blind
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:34 AM
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What a crybaby
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:15 AM
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That's never even been the stat. It's crazy how people misquote it. It's 80% of the dating and sex is had by 20% of men. And it gets more and more concentrated at the top. And that applies roughly to all women, not just 80% of them. There's no random 20% of women who reject highly attractive male partners. The proportions of the genders don't need to add up to 100% either. Like the top 5% of men could be having 60% of the sex in that same population.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 04:03 PM
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Naw. This goes back to cave man days. The women who were content and happy in their little hut and didn't seek more got wiped out by the tribes where the women bitched at their men to go take the neighboring village because they have the better view. Multiply that by thousands of years and you get this as a universal trait in women. Women can never be happy for more than a short period of time. It's just how you guys are wired.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 11:35 AM
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There's no such thing as a content/happy woman. The ones who complain about share of chores are just looking for something to nitpick/complain about. Because that is the default way women socialize. A woman who says she's happy in her life, loves her husband, and chores aren't too bad may as well be socially retarded in a group of women. They don't "get it"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 11:16 AM
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Because if a man isn't attractive enough to get unsolicited messages and hit on from women in his personal life then he's not in any woman's league for having sex. You're thinking that leagues should be proportionally distributed. So 5s date 5s and 9s date 9s. For women, anyone who's a 4 to a 10 dates 9/10 guys. And anyone who's not is a 0. Hence not in her league.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 05:00 PM
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Who said leagues need to be distributed equally. To women, 90% of men are in the "you are not a sexual being just be worker bee" league and 10% of men are in the "yes I will have your babies" league. And 90% of women are in the "you are a literal goddess". While 10% of women are "wow you are so ugly you should just get a pet and leave dating to the desirables" league.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:50 PM
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This guy just wanted some side pussy and I guarantee the 45F put on a full court press of love bombing him and showering him with freaky sex that made him fine with leaving his dead bedroom wife. The reason why men are simple is that this guy is so easily manipulated by pussy he is willing to marry a divorced woman 10 years older with kids because she is good in bed and putting on a show for him. I would be willing to bet that guy never had much of a single/player phase and is more introverted a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 03:00 PM
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Never be direct in talking about hooking up or sex before it happens. That's like one of the first rules in getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:51 AM
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You're an Asian guy trying to date white girls. That's all the explanation that's needed
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 06:33 PM
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You clearly don't know much about this lady. Guys orgasm in their sleep without any direct contact to the penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 06:45 PM
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Men's orgasm doesn't require any stimulation of the head of the penis. Has nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:17 PM
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Have you worked anywhere with a DEI policy or gone through a DEI audit from these consultants? Everything you're saying is theoretical and not actually based on reality. Re: men only hiring white men. That's actually a lot of projection from some vocal groups of people that would do exactly that if they were in a position of power and assume that's how the world works. What is actually true is that the paper trail of what these policies look like across many fortune 50p companies is a slam dunk …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 11:09 PM
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Female orgasm isn't even real. Women themselves can't even agree on what it is or how it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:11 AM
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Wow that face must have been quite the eyesore then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:58 AM
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Where the hell do you live that you happen to find 60% of the women attractive? Melbourne. But this is true for most men anywhere. Sounds like most of you dont find women very special. Rather you see them as objects to stick your peepee into. You're correct there. Most women aren't that special. Need to actually bring something to the table other than a vagina if you want to be wifed up and not just be hookup material.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:33 AM
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Ya no one's arguing that. And I agree, anyone who says a guy isn't approaching or talking to a girl because "he's too intimidated by her beauty" is also full of shit. Bigger difference is that men find about 60% of women attractive. So guys will strike up convos with more average looking girls in their circles. Women are much more narrow in who they allow to talk to and flirt with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:16 AM
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Let's be real the friend was probably outrageously ugly or fat if shes never been kissed at 46 years old. We all know some coworkers or acquaintances like that. Being a really ugly girl is a really hard life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 05:02 AM
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"Her truth" ie. "Whataver I say must be right regardless of observed reality" Are female flat earthers also just sharing their truths?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:37 AM
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Lmao lady you gotta calm down. Which teenage girl hurt you? Also I dont think you know what "literal children" actually means.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:35 AM
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18 and 19 year olds are not minors and still teens, and can be hot
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:21 AM
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This is absolute bs, and the fact the women are agreeing instead of getting defensive just makes it even more obvious. OP I don't know how old you are but if you ever work in an office with a lot 20-30 employees, it will be pretty clear how quickly all the girls try to chat up the same couple of guys and ignore the less attractive male coworkers. Women are not wallflowers to hot guys, they shoot their shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:19 AM
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Did he lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:16 AM
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Autism isn't even real. In 20 years all of the autism diagnoses will magically go away once the trend dies down. The fact there's literally an infinite number of ways people say autism presents, anyone who doesn't have a standard symptom is conveniently "masking", and there's no actual definition of neureotypical or non autistic behaviour. It's really all a bunch if bs right now
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:15 PM
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I don't think it's as convoluted as you're making it. I think the reality is that most men are not very emotional in general, so women only have experience dating guys who seem closed off (because most men are). So women just say they wish they had a guy that acted more like their girlfriends. But there's not any deeper thought then that. I'd liken it to guys who say they want a girlfriend who doesn't wear makeup, and can be like one of the guys, likes sports and has a dark sense of humor. On pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:53 PM
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Only ugly people do the poly thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:01 PM
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It's actually even less thoughtful than what you've written. Feminism in its entirety was just taking class theory written by men like Foucault and Marx and copy/pasting every mention of class or bourgeois with gender and male. Which is pretty typical for women's intellectual contributions or even debates on here. All they ever really do is take something a man wrote and flip the genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 05:33 PM
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Typical Indian male post tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:40 PM
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Women online lie about how money and lifestyle benefits they get from men the same way men lie about their sexual prowess. 90% of the girls who post things like "I only accept dinner dates at Michelin star restaurants and my man pays for my car and apartment" are actually having dates at Applebee's and live at home with their parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:49 PM
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AI would never be as incoherent and dumb as OP. There is no AI tool that could write from the POV as a naive / inexperienced teenage girl with all the nuances that OP has shared.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:20 PM
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When a chef creates recipe they don't need to add detailed instructions on how to chew and swallow food properly. There's a certain amount of social skills that are assumed at a base level in any self help advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:15 PM
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What's the difference between a hookup and a FWB. In either case it's someone you're fucking that you're not in a committed relationship with. It's the same thing. FWB usually just means they came back for seconds after the first hookup. But it's essentially the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:45 PM
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Well speaking of proof, after MeToo there was a movement in Canadian courts to ban the defence from using evidence in claims of sexual assault after some high profile cases proved the women were all liars. Society literally tried to create a separate legal system for just for women's rape accusations because they're so commonly proven false.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:04 AM
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It's not just this sub. This is a thing on Reddit in general. This site skews heavily for people that are overly literal, overly gullible, and appeal to authority instead of being able to think for themselves.. The "ACKSHULLY" meme is a thing for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:42 PM
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Have you ever hired a hooker? It's not only dangerous and illegal it's expensive. Not sure why people on this sub pretend that prostitution is completely legal and as cheap as fast food. The average person isn't going to commit a crime to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:41 AM
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Im just objectively stating the reality of being a male and correcting all the incorrect assumptions in the OP. You're the one jumping to conclusions about "entitlement to another person's body". No one's entitled to a hot meal everyday either. That doesn't mean hunger isn't real.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 07:10 PM
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Men demanding sympathy are immature and inexperienced. The reality of life as a man is that no one is going to fix your problems for you. It's actually empowering once you have that frame of reference but I'd bet the vast majority of posts on here complaining about "society" and feminism and men's rights are 16 - 25 year old boys mostly still in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 07:07 PM
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You say men only want sex and not validation? Then explain why so many men stay in miserable relationships just to avoid being single Access to sex. Period. Explain why men chase women who clearly don’t respect them. They chase women who are attractive to them in their immediate presence and could potentially give them sex. This isn't that complicated to understand. Explain why so many guys spiral emotionally when they go through a dry spell. Because not having sex feels like a slow death over t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 07:03 PM
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Why are you larping as a man? This is what women do in social groups, not men: you are marking yourself as inferior in your male friend group with the men who are not single or are having sex. Men are very hierarchical and they do harass each other a lot to mark their places in the hierarchy Men are not hierarchal and we harass eachother as a form of endearment. In every male friend group I've been a part of everyone gets teased equally and single / married / divorced guys are all given same res…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:23 PM
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OP is a female pretending to be male. That's why they don't understand the biological drive thing. She's projecting what she thinks men are like (ie. wanting social validation rather than physical act of sex)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:20 PM
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This post is so far removed from the actual male experience that I'm convinced OP is a woman LARPing as a man. Almost everything you put in here around men only wanting women for attention and validation and wanting the social status of a relationship is so objectively wrong I question your testosterone levels. Almost all of those paragraphs make more sense if you swap genders, and speak to women who seek out male validation and relationships due to insecurity. If you were actually a man you wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:16 PM
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Judit Polgár was ranked in the top 10 best chess players in the world, beat a reigning world champion and 10 other former world champions This means nothing. The greatest chess players in the world have like a 65% win rate. They lose all the time. I would expect the best female chess player to be able to take a game or 2 off of any top male chess player. The problem is they'd go like 1-5 and win at rate far lower than the rest of the top players.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 03:21 AM
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You don't understand math and averages, and that's fine. But try to use some reading comprehension. Did I say 95% of rape accusations are false? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:16 PM
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Any time women speak about "men" as a whole in dating, society, sex, patriarchy, etc. you need to add the silent part of "Men (that are hot, tall and successful) " Wealthy, good looking men do lead easier lives than the average woman. Who's competing with all other women to try to marry said man to make their lives coushier. She's not talking about you dude. You're not actually a man to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 02:18 PM
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It's actually pretty simple to deduce Around 2 - 5% of rape cases see a guilty conviction. Around 1% of rape cases are proven to be a false accusation with evidence in court. 94% - 97% of cases are neither proven guilty or proven the accuser was lying. But based on the ratio of cases where those verdicts happens it's about 2.5 : 1 for true accusations vs false accusations so 30:70 or 40:60 is closer total the real ratio of false accusations for rape cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 02:07 PM
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Ya in toronto I routinely see fit, well styled and relatively attractive guys with chubby / below average gfs. I actually rarely see young attractive women out with a partner. They're always either by themselves or with their girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:37 PM
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I don't think you even understood my point. It has nothing to do with attraction or who's interested in dating eachother. It's just a matter of fact that age doesn't define "life stage". There are people with large age differences that are in the same life stage or social scenes. And people in the service industry is just one example.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:37 PM
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you think youd relate more to a 20yo woman than a 40yo woman?? I have a 40 year old friend who has his own bar where he bartends at. He has a lot more in common with the 20 year old service staff he does blow with on Wednesday nights than some frumpy 40 year old divorced woman with teenage kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:54 PM
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You're deliberately mis reading his point. Women aren't going to have unprotected sex knowing the guy has chlamydia or syphilis. It's the fact that the more attractive the man is the less likely women will want to use protection. So some of these top 1% dudes are fucking hundreds of chicks bareback. That is definitely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:22 AM
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Women have been complaining for 200,000 years. There's literally been no point in human history where women have been content. Probably because the women who were content with a shady tree and watering hole were all wiped out by the villages where the women were bitching their men to take over the neighboring village
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:47 PM
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I would be with a stripper, honestly I think denying a women simply because of her profession is stepped in misogynist Don't worry. No stripper would ever want to date a guy like you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:54 PM
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I really don't know how to more clearly state that I don't care about politics or which party wins. People obsessed with politics like yourself seem incapable of understanding that many people, literally, do not care who wins. Who wins the election has about the same relevance as who wins the The Bachelor to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 02:52 AM
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I find that privileged people are actually more opinionated about politics and this is just a weird talking point that is repeated verbatim on reddit. But does not jive with reality. The married couple I'm referring to above are a doctor and university professor who have quite a bit of privilege themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 05:53 PM
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Politics in any social scenario is annoying. I never would have seriously dated my wife if she was opinionated about politics. Even one of my closest friends for 20 years, it's hard to vibe with them in person because of how into politics him and his wife are. I really really don't care and they watch CNN daily. They want to talk about this stuff all the time. And so emotional about it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:01 PM
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Good looking people understand social norms better and are self aware enough that ranting about politics in your dating profile is a turnoff for any gender
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:56 PM
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I don't know how old you are OP but as you hit middle age (35+) you'll see how fast social groups change and friends fall off. Single, non married men get ex-communicated from their friend groups if everyone else has a family. They don't want non parents around kids. It's weird. But women / wives strictly enforce this social hierarchy. Age 25 - 35 are really the best years where you have some money, friends are socializing all the time, everyone's at different stages of life and that's okay. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:00 AM
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Asking out and making a move on a girl you meet through school or friends is obviously approaching though. And it's a pretty safe assumption that the vast, vast, majority of relationships / dating at the 16 - 21 age are going to be from people who meet through school and friends. If the definition of "approaching" only means literally approaching and introducing yourself to a complete stranger you walk by on the street, then no shit most young men don't do that. Nor would they ever really need t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:47 PM
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Wanderingwombat1902's post literally said When half of young men have never approached a woman, then just saying “ignore what society says” isn’t good enough That's what I was responding to. He said never. Did not specific year or time frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:18 PM
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Salsa is hookup central. And the scene is full of cheaters. Your girl going to a random club with her gfs is probably a safer bet than going to a salsa party/club.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 04:16 PM
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1. I'm a dude so you're using hamstring wrong. 2. I generally don't give AF about "studies" and speak to actual observed behaviour. Especially in something as human as dating and sex of which there is little real empirical data. 3. Lastly, even if you're a science nerd who only believes anything that is sourced from an academic journal. Maybe just maybe use a shred of common sense and skepticism if a study is saying something so objectively false. But sure. if you think 50% of men under 25 have …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:23 AM
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What does approached romantically mean? Literally a high school senior asking a girl to prom is approaching them romantically. You're saying 50% of kids at high school proms go solo? Like use your brain here dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:02 PM
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Dumb study and don't want to dig into the methodology to find out how they got to that bs answer. If you're in college in a group project and you ask out when of the girls in your group, that's approaching. If you dance with someone at a party or club, that is approaching. Young men try to fuck young girls around them and if you think otherwise you're living a very very weird life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:57 PM
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You think 50% of guys (let's say under 25) have never flirted with, asked out or made a move on, or kissed a girl? What? Did you actually go to high school or college? Have you ever been to a club on a weekend? Or a music festival. Like you think 50% of young men have literally never talked to women? This sub is way too full of reclusive teenage boys who are absolute outliers for socialization.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:46 PM
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In order to be in a relationship you have to start with a fling which has to start with a match. No one's deciding if they want to be in a relationship with someone based off a pic/app. The problem is women thinking all they have to do is show up to a date and they're entitled to a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:24 PM
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When half of young men have never approached a woman, Bruh...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:05 PM
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This sub needs to ban any Gen X age poster from making threads. People haven't met through bars and clubs as the main way of dating since 2010. I'm almost 40 and I know it's a different scene. Yet someone makes a thread like this and there's 100+ comments from 45 year old women talking about their anecdotes of dating in the 90s / early 2000s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:31 PM
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Ya even the "quality" of sex from men is essentially a direct correlation to how hot he is. There's literally a study on this thay shows that women's orgasms during sex are correlated to how facially attractive the partner is. Meanwhile if you were to poll this to guys or ask buddies a lot will probably agreee that the best sex they've had isn't necessarily the hottest girl they've been with. Sometimes hot girls suck in bed. You'll never hear women say the best sex they had was with an ugly guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:01 PM
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Beggars can't be choosers. Men can only react to the few and far between matches they get. Quality only becomes a consideration when you have a safety net of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 02:39 AM
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Okay yeah so you seem incapable of understanding an analogy for some reason..it's just a common thing I see on reddit and wonder why so many women can't understand such a simple rhetorical concept. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 12:38 PM
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Can i ask why are women seemingly incapable of understanding an analogy? Like when you read that you literally are incapable of understanding the connection between a guy who's hungry who wants food and a guy who's horny who wants sex? The hamburger comparsion is really that hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 12:34 PM
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For wealthy people it's not a sex thing it's a power thing What the hell is with reddit and this quote. You speak this like it's a law of physics and it's not true whatsoever. As a successful man who's dabbled with SBs/pros on business trips it's very straightforward. We're looking for discretion and convenience for a sexual encounter. Going on a dating app or meeting a single woman who wants to marry you if youre already taken can majorly backfire with them contacting your family, damaging your…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 12:31 PM
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The entire premise of a discussion about porn habits of women is insane given virtually zero women watch porn to begin with. Even some of the responses here from women on what they watch are outliers. Given they represent the 2% of women who regularly watch porn. Equivalent would be making a thread about straight men's preferences in romantic novels or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:44 PM
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I always assume that majority of women that watch porn on pornhub would enjoy watching gay porn because since straight women by definition are only sexually attracted to men it would make more sense that they would enjoy watching two men have sex together Serious question, are you 15 years old? Even saying it sounds like you have zero experience with women and women's sexuality is generous. This is an absurdly dumb premise for a thread. And just validates my assumption this entire sub is sub-25 …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:02 AM
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Your comment is exactly what I was talking about. I don't ask of anything that I can't give back to a partner. You have a penis?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:40 PM
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Only if you're a puritan. Some girls love being called sluts. Especially the ones with lots of tats.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:59 PM
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Ironically I doubt your standards are even high given your age and dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:48 PM
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No, I’m saying this is a terrible tell. I don’t know if you know this but preppy clean-cut good girls are also sometimes sluts. Whatever that means. Means nothing as it has zero relevance to my point on tatted girls. And heavily-tattooed alternative girls have a wide variety of sexual behaviors. And more likely to have had a large number of partners and engaged in risky sexyal behaviour than girls without tats. Not that complicated bro. I would also say girls with a lot of tats are more likely t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:39 PM
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I guess if you're socially awkward or autistic that's how literal it would need to be for you. Versus knowing how to read between lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:15 PM
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Tattoos are a slut tell. Men don't want a hoe as a wife. And if she has lots of tats she has poor self control and likely a lot of sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:43 PM
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It's 2024 and yall are talking about that Neil Straus book still? Is this entire sub just 40+ washed up gen x women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:21 PM
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You are sadly mistaken. Women B and C are going to ask if he is such a great catch why isn’t woman A his girlfriend. 1000% this. This was less true before the widespread use If dating apps and earlier OLD . Not at all, this was exactly what mingling with friends and dating before apps was like when I was dating in the 2000s / early 2010s. I distinctly remember going from striking out with coworkers and friends of some of my close female friends from college in my early 20s to those same female f…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 08:49 AM
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Yes. Won't be swimming in pussy but will be easily able to bat out of his league and get decent women assuming he's got some of his shit together (his own place, a car, a career job). I don't think yall realize how few single, marriagable 30-35 year old men are on the market vs women looking for that. And just being older and more established will make him much more attractive for a 20 something girl. And if he's in a managerial position at work that's a big status marker.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 11:52 PM
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I was known in my industry for having a big dick after I hooked up with a couple girls who knew eachother and I have to say it is not as validating as it sounds. I was once talking with a friend at a party and a girl I had literally never met before interrupted us and said "I know you you're the guy with the big dick" and it was extremely uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:42 AM
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Men project by sending dick pics because they like looking at pics of naked women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:27 AM
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I'm a 35 year old millennial and his high school experience / guys talk vs girls talk point of view is identical to my high school years in the 2000s. It doesn't sound like anything has changed other than the screenshots and group chats (we had MSN messenger) Especially as an athlete (played basketball) in a literal locker room. It was always dumb gay jokes or offensive jokes or sports talk. When we did talk about girls we knew (which was like 10% of convos max) or hooked up with it was more of …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:25 AM
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You'd be surprised at how much more respect younger women give you and how much easier if is to date in your 30s as a man. Even the way I'm treated by attractive female colleagues is night and day vs being a 23 year old. Despite the fact that I'm objectively worse looking than I was in my 20s. The main difference would not being able to pull college aged girls (18-22) anymore. But there's no shortage of 23 - 30 year old hotties in a big city. The risk for an inexperienced dude in his 30s is gett…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:51 AM
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