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The most common reason men find the Red Pill is lack of success with women, not hate or misogyny, and gynoskepsis might describe it. You are a teenager or young adult, search for dating advive on Google without any strong opinion, you come across RP (which is incredibly easy) and that's literally it. Then you start learning RP stuff which makes you angry towards women, RedPillers have even coined a term for this phase by calling it "rage phase", a temporary period of rage that comes from learnin…
/r/ExRedPill21/05/23 03:44 PM
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he question I want you to ask yourself is, do you approach women like you actually value them as people? Or do you approach them with an obvious motive to use them sexually? Because contrary to popular opinion, casual sex doesn't have to be objectifying or emotionally detached. You can build genuine friendships or companionship with people that you have casual sex with. But not if you're knowingly or unknowingly devaluing that person because you just want to reduce them to an object that you use…
/r/ExRedPill21/05/23 02:56 AM
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Thank you for the explanation. Although we are still far from having concrete proof for one or the oher side, your ideas are consistent and convincing. I agree with many of your points. Completely uninteresting, completely unsexy, completely self-absorbed, and often, very manipulative. What do you mean with this exactly? This is the only point that differs from you slut-shaming and safety arguments by adding one more. I want to point out that uninteresting approaches work well on gay men (and pr…
/r/ExRedPill21/05/23 01:04 AM
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Or that they're more willing to sleep with a woman even when they don't find her attractive. Do you think men sleep with women they are not aroused by? It could make sense if you thought men did that for social valiation but then, why do you think gay men - who show a willigness to have sex with most men - would have sex with men they are not aroused by? To give you an example, on gay dating apps men who look like male models and thousands of others hit on me very eagerly while no woman has ever…
/r/ExRedPill20/05/23 05:56 PM
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Then, again, this proves RP's points. If women like sex as much as men as you claim, then women must find very few people sexually attractive which proves 80/20 and proves women are the selector while men have to bring much more to even a chance (ie. good genetics). This is not about being sexually reckless, I'm not asking if women woudl have sex with most men as safety isa concern, I'm just asking if women just feel sexual attraction towards most men. It seems that women find most men completel…
/r/ExRedPill20/05/23 03:02 PM
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No need to make assumptions about my karma, I have a negative karma bevause I posted on AskMen a commetn saying that men should cross the street when coming across a woman on the sidewalk at night in order to make women feel safer, I received 500 downvotes in less than 24 hours.I was called a feminist and white knight even though I'm not either. Because I thought the whole point of becoming RP WAS because you didn’t think women appreciated you for who you are. But now women are bad people becaus…
/r/ExRedPill20/05/23 06:17 AM
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And yet so few of them are worth dating. If y'all are such catches, go date each other already and get off our tits. This is a completely well-adjusted and respectul way to have a conversation, I'm definitely the problem if I ask for respect, the same respect I gave to you. I hope you don't talk like this to people, it shouws rudenessa and an astouding lack of self-awareness. You completely ignored the part where I talked about most of my peers, including me, having close female friends. Your ex…
/r/ExRedPill20/05/23 05:53 AM
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What is 4B? If the reason I and most men I know don't get any sex is because we make women feel unsafe - rather than differences in sex drive and amount of people found attractive - why are women eager to be our friends and even best friends? Do women like to be besties with men they feel unsafe? There's no need to put us down, I haven't said anything bad against you, I'm just inquiring. You are so lucky to be able to get thosuands of dates, meanwhile women swipe left on us Gen Z men as soon as …
/r/ExRedPill20/05/23 03:51 AM
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To answer your question, I meant finding people sexually attractive. Finding people just attractive is a nebolous concept as there are several types of attractivness: conventional attractiveness, aesthetic attractiveness, artistic attractiveness, sexual attractivness and so on. In my comment, I was exclusively referring to sexual attractiivenss. whether a person makes you feel sexually attracted or not. To give you a personal example, I don't find find most women my age conventionally attractive…
/r/ExRedPill20/05/23 03:33 AM
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Thank you for being honest.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/23 01:06 AM
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So let's stick to men women feel safe around, their male friends. Are women sexually attracted to most of their male friends? I'm not asking whether women would participate in sexual acts with most of them (slut-shaming would become a confounding factor), I'm just asking if they feel sexual attraction to most of their male friends. You shouldn't assume that angry men only have trouble finding partners. Most Gen Z men I know have never been accepted to a date and they don't even know what the red…
/r/ExRedPill20/05/23 01:02 AM
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I'm listening, explain please.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/23 11:25 PM
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So, in your opinion, women do also find most people sexually attractive just like men do? Because we men are sexually attracted to most women and so are gay men with gay men (just switch your preference to men as an ugly guy, even hot men will hit on you). If that's the case, women are most often rejecting men they are significanly sexually attracted to but don't feel comfy with it, is that the case?
/r/ExRedPill19/05/23 11:24 PM
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So how would a man use that knoweldge to get and give a lot of sex from many women? What's the practical advice from that? If women have high sex drive they surely want men to give them sex and we men surely want more sex, the implication is that women would benefit from men learning how to seduce women. So, what is the right way? You concede that there are vast sex differences so my question is legitimate.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/23 11:20 PM
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So how would a man use that knoweldge to get and give a lot of sex from many women? What's the practical advice from that? If women have high sex drive they surely want men to give them sex and we men surely want more sex, the implication is that women would benefit from men learning how to seduce women. So, what is the right way? You concede that there are vast sex differences so my question is legitimate.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/23 11:20 PM
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So, in your opinion, women do also find most people sexually attractive just like men do? Because we men are sexually attracted to most women and so are gay men with gay men (just switch your preference to men as an ugly guy, even hot men will hit on you). If that's the case, women are most often rejecting men they are significanly sexually attracted to but don't feel comfy with it, is that the case?
/r/ExRedPill19/05/23 11:17 PM
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So, in your opinion, women do also find most people sexually attractive just like men do? Because we men are sexually attracted to most women and so are gay men with gay men (just switch your preference to men as an ugly guy, even hot men will hit on you). If that's the case, women are most often rejecting men they are significanly sexually attracted to but don't feel comfy with it, is that the case?
/r/ExRedPill19/05/23 11:14 PM
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So women find only a minority of men attractive? Disturbingly RP to be honest.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/23 11:11 PM
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You need a therapist, basing your value on the judgment of one person is completely irrational. You could find 100000 FWBs proposal from from other men who would worship you on any dating app, you clearly have value as a partner and you know it. Most average to below looking Gen Z men I know have a 100% rejection rate instead, women are disgusted by us, the only time I talked to a woman actually interested in me romantically was when I was using fake pictures of a hot man on a dating app. Every …
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 03:21 AM
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You can't make generalisations on an entire gender based on the actions of one person, doing otherwise doesn't make you different from "woke" women who despise men because some men send only dick pictures as messages. In reality, only a small minority of men sends dick pictures and only a small minority of women despises men they deem as unattractive so much, not to mention that you can't know if all women find you unattractive based on the opinion of one woman. How many women have you asked out…
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 12:50 AM
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Because women's advice usually is usuless. They say "we are not different from men, treat us as humans and you will have success with us" which is completely useless. What does "human" mean? I can go on gay dating apps and ask them for sex immediately and get success, gay men are humans too. "Oh, but stranger threat!!" , I can ask a gay friend for a FWB and have a high success rate, gay men are humans too yet if I did the same with a female friend I'd be considered a creep. "Oh, slut-shaming", i…
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 03:59 PM
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If the drunk person does something dangerous, intervene; otherwise, don't as drunk people are unpredictable. It seems that those guys read the situation better than OP, as nothing unsafe ended up happening while their intervention might have led to escalation.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/23 03:15 PM
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How do women know whether a man is lusting or is actually interested romantically? I don't know at this point but I'd like to understand.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/23 12:56 AM
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People usually don't intervene when it comes to verbal abuse against adults, it may be considered right or wrong but I consider it the correct way of conduct when dealing with drunk people. Drunk people are unpredictalbe and out of their mind, intervening verbally can turn a safe - although uncomfortable - situation into an unsafe one. I think those guys did right by staying silent.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/23 12:29 AM
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Yes, I'm a virgin. I wait women to give me signs of interest before making a move, that's what I've read on feminist articles and what women say on TwoX, but I've never received one, the same applies to most of my same aged male acquaintances. I don't understand why women wouldn't have sex with men or a male friend, if they tryly like sex as much as us men - and you are not wrong - why not enjoy it? Is it because of slut-shaming? It's not animalsitic to have sex with different people. It's reall…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 05:28 PM
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I find most people physically attractive, if you are my friend there's a high chance I'll also find you personality attractive, just like most men. We don't see women on a strict hierarchy. We don't consider most women as shitty offers, particulary our friends, your commnet is a reminder of sexual selection, evo-psych, hypergamy from women. If women consider most men, particularly most men they have things in common like male friends, equivalent to ugly, fat "shitty" people it means women truly …
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 01:27 PM
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Thank you for the advice. I'll admit I don't really struggle with platonic socialization, I only struggle with dating.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 12:04 AM
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Thank your for the explanation. I agree with you.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 11:15 PM
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She was uninterested in having a relationship with these men other than friendship. They ignored her wishes and boundaries and are treating her as a prize not a person. You are looking at this as her throwing away potential relationships because YOU desire a relationship. You are not looking at through her eyes but your own lens. Again, you seem to misinterpret the thread. She has never said that those men didn't respect her boundaries, she literally said she didn't see anything bad with them ma…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 09:24 PM
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Thank you for the explanation.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 08:23 PM
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I'm talking about domestic abuse, not all crimes. Here one article with the data: Societyvoice(dot)ca: Men Are Victims Of Domestic Violence At A Similar Rate As Women In Canada But Help Is Becoming More Available It's not even something people have not talked about. TorontoSun: TROTTIER: Where's the support for male victims of domestic violence?
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 05:08 PM
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If I may ask, are you a woman attracted to men? I just want to understand where you are coming from to better grasp your POV. . If you start to develop a crush on a friend, you should not act on it or talk with that friend about it. Even in friendships, some emotions are best kept away. You first said that women just dislike sexual innuendos, not romatnic crushes, now you are saying that women don't appreciate crushes from friends? It would one be the greatest days of my life if a female friend …
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 04:44 PM
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Thank you for trying to challenge the hate, I appreciate your empathy. I only follow r/feminism as a female sub now, it's significantly less toxic. Hopefully, I'll get a better idea of actual female issue without the toxicity.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 04:37 PM
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I'm talking about domestic abuse, not all crimes. https://societyvoice.ca/commentaries/men-are-victims-of-intimate-partner-violence-at-higher-rate-than-women-in-canada-but-help-is-becoming-more-available/
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 04:24 PM
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Concerning online dating, I agree with you. This is what users here always say, what surprised me is the amount of commitmemtn and romance offers women receive in real life. I thought women only received more catcalling, dick pictures and sexual messages, reading TwoX has completely changed my perspective now. Woman says she expects her partner to have a job and an idea of what he wants from life is basically saying a requirement for dating is he is a functional adult. I don't see how that is in…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 12:17 PM
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Do whatever you want. Say what you want I'm against RP and MGTOW, that's why I don't do it but now I'm reconsidering it since women don't seem to care about saying bad stuff about us and their words are creating in me the need to vent. I think we should build a better alteranative to MGTOW and TRP, men need it at this point. Men and women both have grievances with dating. Thats.. pretty normal. There are surely women who struggle with dating but that doesn't seem to be norm among women like it i…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 11:58 AM
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Women consider themselves as more charismatic ? Well I would say that is because they are. My hypothsis is that men, from an early age are taught to either surpress or not act upon their masculine feelings and instincts. As a result, they become internally significantly weaker than woman, which reasonably makes them less attractive. So men live an entire life believing that acting like a man is wrong and then at one point they are told that THAT'S what makes them unattractive. At that point, you…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 10:31 AM
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I don't see how they are talking about shitty men only when they say "I give up on men, they all suck", or when they give value (not quantitiative) judgments like "maybe men are just animals, or they too desperate for love". Or when they say "Is it jut me or most men are unattractive?" (all real examples of threads with thousands of upvotes) If women can say sexist stuff, support M or (W?) GTOW/TRP and FDS points, then we men would be ustified to do the same in our own private boards. Yet we rig…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 10:21 AM
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