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None. People shouldn't try to fit in some stupid imaginary standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 12:54 PM
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Emotions like anger and the way humans express it form way earlier than puberty. 3-4 years is the critical age (also the age when you can spot a future Ted Bundy). Puberty doesn't change anything about it. Of course terpers know better though, as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 04:47 AM
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Response to your edit: Dumb girls are pretty much all a terper can count on. Smart ones have self respect and don't stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 12:35 AM
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Psychological thriller
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 12:02 AM
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Yeah any person who doesn't buy TRP bullshit surely is a radfem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 11:38 PM
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My goal was to find someone who I can be myself with. I found him. I can't even imagine what would make me want to change myself or become submissive (I want to puke even when I'm just thinking about it). I can't pretend who I am not 24/7 and be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 04:35 PM
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I read a lot, write (recently got a book published), learn foreign languages (speak 5 at the moment), draw, make jewelry. I enjoy hiking and camping as outdoor activities. I'm not sure if working out is a hobby for me as I started doing it cos of problems with back. I can't say that I enjoy it that much. I also really love diagnosing fictional characters with personality disorders but that's professional deformation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 02:32 PM
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Feminism isn't science and doesn't claim to be. Just like being a vegan isn't a science. I'm not really surprised though that you see it as science because the understanding of the word 'science' in the heads of terpers is pretty vague. I'd say it doesn't exist at all but I'll be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 01:19 AM
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My English isn't native. Proof and evidence are the same word if I translate it to my language. There is 0 evidence for evolutionary psychology. Sexual behaviour is studied among other disciplines and it's never the simple "ShE wAnTs An AlPhA dOmInAnt To PuT hEr On HeR pLaCe So ShE cAn FeEl SaFe" and other bullshit (it's especially funny because in this case people had to be monogamous and not to live in huge groups which never happened). Ask them and they will tell you some bullshit too as you …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 01:15 AM
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Among with evolutionary psychology you might as well "explore" astrology. Same made up theories without any kind of proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 12:52 AM
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At the age 3 children show the same level of aggression. But girls get shamed for it and learn other ways to express anger (like passive aggression and internalized aggression) while "boys will be boys".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 12:47 AM
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Evolutionary psychology isn't an academic discipline and will never become one because all the "theories" cannot be proved or disproved. You'll figure it out if you actually try to get a degree in psychology instead of reading pseudoscientific bullshit on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/19 12:40 AM
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I prefer to be single than with a man who doesn't listen to me. The more I read this sub, the more happy I am that my man doesn't have crap like that in his head.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 01:38 AM
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No way. I can't sleep with someone who is a piece of shit. I'd also try to tell his wife if it was possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 12:04 AM
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'Bad boy' doesn't even have to be a criminal, committing a non-violent crime and being a bad boy aren't mutually exclusive things. It's not like I care about your understanding of the words 'criminal' and 'bad boy', though. Yes, and show their real faces. That's the point of being anonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/19 01:57 AM
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A criminal is any person who broke the law. Humans are, for sure. Humans really are very complicated creatures, this is why all the red pill theories are nothing more than fantasies. However, narcissistic types follow certain patterns. Pathological behaviour in general is very predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 01:34 PM
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Are you seriously thinking doing something like "I'm an alpha and you all must obey because I have a dick" a women's thing? Okay then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 08:37 AM
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Toxic masculinity is a specific type of toxicity where men purposely want to degrade/humiliate/abuse women (or gays which is caused by the same thing anyway). It's obviously not biologically driven but it's a specific type of men's behaviour. There's just no such thing where women would create subreddits and write manuals how to abuse other women. Or even men, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 03:47 AM
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Obviously no one was talking about child rapists. It's not necessary that someone who got in prison for a bag of weed will ever be abusive with their partner. While the ego driven internet misogynist surely will as soon as he has a chance (fortunately, most likely never, though).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 02:54 AM
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Google statistics how many wives stuck by them. You're talking about a tiny minority and telling it's the rule. Usual pattern of thinking for MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 02:25 AM
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There's no such thing as masculinity or femininity when it comes to personality. But if we'll take stereotypical conception of masculinity then courage, assertiveness, providing for their families, protectiveness would be positive. If a man doesn't turn into an ego driven misogynist who constantly feels like he needs to prove his 'superiority' then he never becomes toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 02:21 AM
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Big city professionals are the exact my social circle. None of them I find attractive after 50. Even after 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 03:27 PM
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They hired him because he is handsome. Many women including me would find him handsome, no shit. But would I ever allow him close to me? Hell no. And the majority of women would not. If you look at the reality most prisoners (more than 70%) get abandoned by their wives. They also have a low chance to find someone after they are released which is considered to be one of the reasons why the level of recidivism is so high.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 02:09 PM
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I was disgusted and laughing at the same time. I still am. None of that shit had anything to do with what has been happening in my life so I obviously could not take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 01:58 PM
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Once again, if you call something 'objective facts' it doesn't become objective facts in reality. You can tell yourself 'women have it tougher' and 'women find older men attractive' while crying alone at night but it won't change absolutely anything. If now your chances to get laid are around 0 then in a few years it'll change to below 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 11:23 AM
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And? You really think that's the majority of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 11:13 AM
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You can tell yourself it hits women harder than men if it makes you feel better but it has nothing to do with reality. Many men after 40 are hideous. You only think otherwise because men tend to consider themselves more attractive than they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 10:54 AM
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That's a big if. Never seen a guy who would maintain their attractiveness for a really long time outside of Hollywood. But I've seen when women did.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 10:51 AM
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I have a gun for this purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 09:19 AM
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Yeah exactly. While in reality most men get fat and lose their attractiveness as they age and don't even bother to do anything about it compare to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 07:57 AM
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My mom is almost 60. She still gets attention even though she doesn't even want it. That's one of the many reasons why TRP fantasies are absolutely ridiculous to me. Edit: You can downvote me all you want, but we all know that's simply because my mom at 60 has more chances to get laid than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 07:53 AM
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The majority of women do not choose criminals or anyone who would actually be considered as dangerous. But it's another question if a criminal is more toxic than a reddit nerd with a big fragile narcissistic ego who's secretly daydreaming about dominating all the feeeemales.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 06:41 AM
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Not like she cares what you think as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 10:16 AM
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I still don't understand the question. How exactly does Kim Kardashian act? She's assertive, confident, aggressive, etc. Isn't it supposed to be masculinity by retarded standards? Also, looking physically masculine isn't even the most important trait when I look for a partner. And most stereotypically masculine personality traits I find either unattractive or irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 10:11 AM
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Way too many people certainly disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 10:06 AM
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Kim Kardashian acts dominant btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 09:42 AM
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I don't understand the question. Gays act absolutely differently, I can't put them in one box and say 'no, this is not masculine'. People in general act too different and the conception of feminine/masculine personality traits seems retarded to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 09:26 AM
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Broad shoulders, muscles, jaw line, cheekbones.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 09:13 AM
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Physical traits only.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 08:54 AM
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They are total cunts and they have always been even before they discovered TRP. A good person would never be interested in that in the first place. They don't understand though that's the very reason why they struggle with dating and blame Chads (who exists in their imaginary world only and who they actually admire)/feeeeeemales/whoever else instead of becoming decent human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/19 06:38 AM
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Yes. The number should be close to mine. If it's too high it's a dealbreaker, if it's too low it's a dealbreaker too. Both cases are red flags to me, I'd be worried about them having deep psychological issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/19 01:15 AM
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It's pretty much my type of a relationship except we don't work together.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 05:43 AM
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Caring, loving, affectionate, loyal, understanding, supportive, respectful, not repulsive looking and in general a decent human being. Pretty much all the qualities my men possesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 03:55 AM
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Is that what you do when you try to get sex? No wonder you all whine how hard it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 03:49 AM
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I often think what makes me dislike genuinely confident people (there are not many of them anyway). And apparently the reason is those kind of people are either sociopaths (they can't learn from mistakes as a result don't grow insecurities) or just really dumb people (sort of Dunning-Kruger effect, they are too dumb to realise their flaws). Both categories aren't attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 02:16 PM
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I made the first move in 50% of times I ever dated including my current partner. I know what I want, why would I wait. I really wonder what kind of world those people live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 02:00 PM
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She seems to be. In the first paragraph she already demonstrates weak boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 01:57 PM
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I don't need someone who is inferior simply because I need a partner, not a child. I don't need someone superior as well because it doesn't make me feel adequate and I dislike it. And any attempt to dominate me disgust me. My partner provides partnership, I provide the same. We're making each other life more pleasure and easier. I've been with my man for 4+ years, living together, preparing for wedding. We both don't like kids so aren't going to have them. In some studies women scored slightly m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 10:22 AM
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I do not need someone superior. I need someone equal. I need partnership which is possible to me only between equals. Idc about assertiveness. I know my men's insecurities, he doesn't hide them from me. I didn't say anything about overcoming, you're absolutely delusional. I dated pretty short men. Broke up with them cos of way different reasons. In your imaginary world maybe all of those traits mostly belong to men, in reality men and women are equally smart (at least that's definitely what was …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 09:48 AM
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It's not like I even give a fuck about your delusions. Leave the house more often and meet real people, then maybe we'll talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 09:39 AM
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Lmfao yes, you surely know everything better than me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 09:29 AM
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As I already said, you have no idea what I search in men. You only guessed with smart, as I want a partner who's equally educated and strong minded as otherwise I'll destroy him because I struggle with empathy. I don't need someone kind as I'm not kind myself, confidence is a unicorn that doesn't exist as most people have insecurities and it's totally okay, height is pretty much irrelevant. Can you please stop repeating your mantra already. Masculine traits are the traits that are supposed to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 09:28 AM
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Like I never read bullshit of terpers what they see as 'alpha' and have no idea what you mean by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 09:07 AM
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I do not consider 'strong minded', 'smart', 'funny' and 'kind' as 'masculine' traits. Most women I know in my social circle possess those qualities. 'Smart' is an important quality for me for everyone I let close, not just for a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 09:05 AM
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Half of those qualities have nothing even to do with masculinity and only two of them are sort of a priority to me. As I said you have no idea what I want, leave your theories for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 08:47 AM
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You have absolutely no idea what kind of men I like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 08:26 AM
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I am a woman who is absolutely disgusted by 'alpha' behaviour. I'm not a unicorn, I'd say the majority of girls I know are like that. The only girl who would accept a typical 'alpha' behaviour is a damaged girl without the ability to set boundaries properly. Red pillers simply prey on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 07:47 AM
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I have no problem remembering anything. No commitment issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 10:07 AM
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There's no meaning but you still can have fun. Read Camus.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 08:27 AM
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I'm a woman, just can't tolerate highly extroverted men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 04:17 AM
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The more extroverted, the more annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 04:10 AM
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I never was hiding anything from my SO as my goal was finding a partner I can be myself with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/19 05:04 AM
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Lmfao, no, of course art has never described what was considered as beautiful. If you really think so, I have nothing to talk about with you. There's also world classic literature (like Anna Karenina, for example) where beauty ideals were described. Being thin was considered as a sign of being weak and sick. But no, of course, writers lied too, just like artists did, men actually loved thin women, guys from TRP certainly know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 11:21 PM
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If you actually look at old paintings there were times when women made their tits look as flat and invisible as possible (before 1400s, as I recall). In Korea right now flat chest is a trend. They haven't always been valued.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 11:50 PM
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Rounded stomach was a thing during 1400-1700. It is also a beauty standard in some African cultures which kinda means good hips to waist ratio isn't a universal beauty standard. Western supermodel era has nothing to do with waist to hips ratio as well, it's mostly about being extremely slim and flat, as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 09:50 PM
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What is considered attractive has always been changing during time. It's also different in different countries. Imo it's mostly cultural and yeah I think men use bullshit explanation to sound more rational than they really are. Same with cheating (aka "men are polygamous, women are monogamous") and many other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 04:28 PM
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I think we look equally good. When we met we both were slightly chubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 04:07 PM
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I'm just me. It's not like I even care if someone finds me interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 03:59 PM
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He's impulsive too so we both are understanding when it comes to this problem. He's very emotional while I am mostly calm (except the irritability), so we balance each other out. He takes me out of my shell when I spend too much time alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 03:54 PM
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Yeah, you surely were just sarcastic, no actual talking about negative emotions you aren't supposed to experience at all yawns. Oh, thank you for your permission. It just always annoys me how some socially inadequate people with low self esteem constantly call themselves sociopaths thinking it's something cool without even reading much about the condition to fake it properly (but oh, they are so so sorry about being this way and try to be better people :'-(.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 03:42 PM
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Forgot to mention that I am "cold and distant" (I don't think I am, but I've been told that many times).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 03:18 PM
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Yeah, I absolutely believe you that you were diagnosed. People on the internet never lie. Idc what you think you prefer. It's not the way a sociopath would ever think. They also don't become "whiny depressive fucks", if they happen to have a depression it's somatic. I work with people with personality disorders.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 03:07 PM
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I have ADHD and get bored with people quickly. I can't empathise and am pretty sadistic, especially in emotional way. I need a lot of space and time alone. I'm impulsive and irritable as fuck. He puts up with me because our demons are perfect for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 02:53 PM
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Sociopaths are never insecure. You're just an autist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/19 02:50 PM
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Nope. I was never obese though so I guess the difference wasn't that big.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/19 12:34 AM
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Creepy and cocky men disgust me. I wouldn't say they are the majority, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 09:17 AM
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I don't see anything wrong about it. It's okay to do anything that makes you happy if it doesn't harm anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 06:13 AM
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I'm engaged, we're living together. My man is tall (6'2) (I'm 5'9 myself) and muscular (when I met him he was slightly chubby, so was I, then we both started to work out). So I guess those are TRP 'alpha' traits as they never shut up about height. When it comes to his personality he absolutely does not fit the description of TRP version of 'alpha' man. Furthermore, if he did I would never be interested in him. Answer to both questions is no, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 04:06 AM
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I don't need to do anything to 'feel' feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 04:53 AM
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Someone who I can be myself with is a good man for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 01:35 PM
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Has she ever given you a reason not to trust her? You're worrying about completely imaginary situation. Figure out who her friends are, maybe even meet them together with her at some point instead of assuming who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 12:23 PM
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The only reason why a normal woman might get involved with a narcissists or a sociopath is idealization they give to them at early stages. Narcissists shower women with attention and gifts, talk about future together, love bomb them. They also mirror the women so they think they found their other half. Basically narcissists are attractive because they act the opposite to bad boys. But as soon as the narcissist shows his true colours most women walk away. Only the co-dependent women might stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 02:14 AM
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Damaged women go after damaged men. Damaged men go after damaged women. It's called co-dependency. Terpers who constantly whine about BPD girls have never been normal themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 01:15 AM
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TRP in general doesn't make men look like any decent human beings. No wonder if women who believe in it are anti men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 02:49 PM
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It's not possible to read this thread and not to puke.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 11:08 AM
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OP didn't ask how to ruin his relationship. Please, read carefully before commenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 06:37 AM
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My man has always been very affectionate and that's one of the reasons why I love him and appreciate him so much. I would never see it as weakness, that's bullshit. He also talks a lot too and I don't see any problem with that. Men who don't talk and are cold lose their relationship very fast. Tbh you just should read less of TRP so you stop worrying about something that has nothing to do with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 12:51 AM
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I would turn him down too. Pretty much any woman who wants a stable life and meaningful connection would. Men who shame women for something they do themselves (well, we all know terpers do it in their dreams only) are simply narcissists (the classical 'I'm special and I'm allowed to do something you aren't' type of thinking) and hypocrites. They aren't the majority, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 06:10 AM
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None of my friends cut me off. Tbh people in my inner circle are very trust worthy so I didn't notice any differences at all. Well I never expected them to buy me things anyway, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 03:19 AM
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I'm a bisexual woman and no, I wouldn't. That's their clients who I find repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 03:15 AM
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Because they live in an alternative universe and hardly leave their houses?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 03:10 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 10:52 PM
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All the things you mentioned as commitment aren't important to me, I prefer to live alone and I definitely don't want to have children. My SO, however, has always wanted more commitment and values it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 03:41 PM
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Why wouldn't they? It's not uncommon when dramatic people cling to the ones who are calm and stable, that makes them feel secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 01:19 AM
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My ex dated a 35 years old woman when he was 20. I actually know plenty of guys who wouldn't mind dating older women. Women prefer older men usually because men are immature af, no one needs boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 12:58 AM
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No. I don't ever reject opportunities to get something I want. If I do then I never really wanted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 08:26 AM
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The OP's point is 'girls prefer masculine looking guys because nowdays they want short term mating due to sexual liberation and don't find kind and caring (lol) pretty boys attractive' which is absurd. It's just the matter of preferences and of course looks have nothing to do with how kind and caring you are. And no, if he was not caring I would never start a relationship with him, but of course you know better than me what I want ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 11:36 AM
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Well it didn't really end up as a disaster, I left earlier. When he started criticising my looks (lol like my looks dramatically changed for the time I was with him) and in general everything about me, control every my move and openly flirt with other girls to make me jealous I realised it was the time to end it. I can easily imagine him doing way more damaging stuff if I stayed for longer, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 09:19 AM
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Inability to set boundaries properly. Also not cutting him off when he violated my boundaries cos at first it usually was something small and didn't seem like a big deal. Now I just see the red flags and don't get involved with this kind of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 09:02 AM
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When I was 19 I got involved with a narcissistic man, left him in 4 months, realised what was my mistake, moved on. Does it count as blaming myself? Never really had any problem since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 08:40 AM
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My SO is 6'2, muscular and with broad shoulders. He's also kind and caring, probably one of the kindest people I ever met in my life (not just to me, to everyone who's close to him). How the hell being tall and in general masculine looking make you uncaring and only a short term material, Jesus Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 08:32 AM
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It's in general hilarious listening to men when they tell me (a woman) what I want. The party boy is attractive for the girls who have similar lifestyle. No need to mention people (men and women) who have this kind of lifestyle tend to be more sexually open. That's the reason why the party boys get laid more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 01:05 PM
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I used to know a guy who was pretty mentally ill. He had Asperger's, depression, covert NPD and who knows what else. He couldn't get a girlfriend even though he wasn't bad looking. But anyway there were people who liked him, men and women, his social life wasn't unexistent despite his problems. But one day he discovered TRP and this is when it went downhill. He started posting rants about the 'true' women's nature, about the dread games and other abusive tactics, etc. Also racist stuff too (why …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 01:16 AM
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Your whys is usually an attempt to convince me to say yes, don't pretend it's some innocent curiosity, literally no one in my or my friends experience ever asked it just out of curiosity. You don't even get why this is wrong. This is why I have a boyfriend. And am not into guys. Why is it so hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 05:38 PM
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Yeah, it's extremely terrifying to listen to your whining why I actually should say yes. I don't need you to waste my time, I don't need your 'whys'.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 05:21 PM
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And you aren't owed a nice response that won't injure your fragile ego. But then you'll post how rude and cruel women are when they reject men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 05:08 PM
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Are you really sure you can handle a honest explanation?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 04:55 PM
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Another user asked for women's opinion. The response wasn't for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 11:23 AM
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Total bullshit. I explained my motivation why I say I have a boyfriend in the first comment, it certainly is never a 'shit test'. Explaining to TRPers their imaginary world has nothing to do with reality I find pointless, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 10:03 AM
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In my experience the ones who asked why and heard an explanation started trying to convince me to say yes anyway. It's not like you ask it just out of curiosity, you do it to push it further and I don't need that headache.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 09:35 AM
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No one owes you an explanation. Men can't get over this fact. And I have absolutely no motivation to explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 09:24 AM
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Idk what kind of girls get involved with guys who break their boundaries and ignore their no as it is a huge red flag. Probably the broken ones which isn't surprising as TRPers prey on vulnerable. They certainly aren't the majority, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 09:21 AM
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I say 'I'm not into guys' pretty often too. You just say anything that comes to your mind first, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 09:08 AM
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If girls don't say a slapping no that's simply because men don't understand what boundaries mean. 'But why' is usually the next reply to a no while 'I have a boyfriend' usually works, he shuts up and leaves you alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 08:58 AM
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I think they are simply narcissists. All that 'dread games' and other mind games they are playing desribe behaviour of a typical narcissist. Well, a narcissist really is broken so you're absolutely right. It also explains their whining about meeting girls with BPD as people with BPD and NPD are naturally attracted to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 03:59 AM
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there are modern ones, he has been studying primates his whole life. Can you please Google properly or not to get involved at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 03:19 PM
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There are studies using this terminology for humans too. It's definitely not bullshit. Yeah, special ones, TRP studies. In reality there are no studies like that that would be taken seriously by scientist (psychologists, biologists). In alternative 'science' there are tons of them, for sure. Bonobos have alphas as well Yeah, the female ones. TRP is linked to evolutionary psychology Which is not even official academic discipline. So nuff said. What does this even mean. Ever heard of popular scien…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 03:16 PM
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Yeah, maybe in 1990 it wasn't discovered yet. Find out actual information, De Waal has a lot of information about chimps 'alpha' behaviour. Example of two chimps isn't really a huge one to observe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 03:05 PM
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"Alpha" is a popular term only. About chimps I explained below. Bonobos have hierarchy as well. No one was saying here animals don't have hierarchy. It's just way more complicated than in the TRPers wet dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 02:47 PM
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If you bring chimpanzees here, you should mention that their "alpha" isn't the strongest or the most intimidating one, quite the opposite. Their leaders care about other members including babies, share food, etc. If they don't act friendly and respectfully, don't satisfy other members needs, they lose their status quite quickly. Basically they are just the smartest ones who know what would be the best for the group. They have nothing to do with the alpha who aggressively fight for dominance and …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 02:37 PM
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It obviously isn't used among scientists. If you google "does the alpha male exist in human society" you'll get tons of information why it is bullshit. Even more so, it doesn't even exist among most primates including the bonobos which are the closest to humans genetically. Only gorillas might have some male who could be called alpha but again even for them it's too simple. TRP has nothing to do with science, though, and they will ignore any information that doesn't fit their worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 12:51 PM
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Well, it was used in biology at some point but the conception was too simple and couldn't describe actual interactions between animals so it got abandoned. Actually, the person who first wrote about alpha wolves disproved it himself later.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 12:21 PM
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Basically, all that 'alpha-omega' bullshit has nothing to do with actual ethology in the first place anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 11:36 AM
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This. TRPers will never admit it, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 12:15 AM
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domestic violence Really depends. I do if a woman used something as a weapon. homelessness Why do you even think women don't sympathise with homeless men? Most volunteers in shelters are women. male rape victims Mostly I do. My close male friend was raped when he was a teen. I think it's horrible what happened to him and how it damaged him mentally. There are exceptions when I don't, though. Men who constantly whine about false rape accusations or blame women for it or use this example just to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 12:52 PM
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