Apprehensive-Diet144 Archive

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0	Why do women ask "Are you seeing other girls?" competing?? its just FWB. There is no competition.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 12:50 AM
3	As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts? I would say that is common sense. PUA and RP was originally made by guys trying to pull women in bars. That is the context of it, it was never designed to be "every woman everywhere". Where do people keep getting these claims from??? Has anyone actually said, there is some magical formula to getting every woman everywhere???? Like I say, the roots of PUA and RP is bar game. Not necessarily super high energy club game either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 12:28 AM
2	As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts? Ahh OK.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 12:26 AM
16	As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts? I think you need some level of experience with women before you can truly move onto the whole IDGAF attitude which only really happens after some sort of abundance.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 12:17 AM
2	As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts? If a guy is happy and content sitting in his basement, getting fatter and fatter. Yes I know this is an extreme example, he will need some catalyst to make him want to change. Trust me I hated weights when I started them, now I love them. My initial reason for getting a personal trainer to give me a program was not for myself. But it did not take me long to start to love it. If it wasn't that I wanted better dating options, there are a lot of things I would never of done. As my dating life was t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 12:13 AM
0	As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts? If you improve your career - your not gonna "lose your sense of self" If you "Just Lift Bro" - your just gonna be in better shape and not gonna lose "your sense of self" If you dress better, your just gonna be more presentable and not lose "your sense of self". Yes if you start wearing suits and hate them, thats one thing. But just wearing clothes that actually fit and colour match is another. Body language - when we were born we just crawled. Its learned behaviour and habit. Not sense of self. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/24 12:07 AM
1	"What do you bring to the table" is a horrible take as love shouldn't be something that can be calculated by the numbers If a woman isn't qualifying herself to you, she probably isn't interested.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 11:41 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread We tend to do the mean stuff to other countries and our enemies. Not our "friends".	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 11:31 PM
1	The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates. Its the principle. I'm not after some trad SAHM, especially in this economy. So if I am on a date, I am assessing the woman. Does she expect a man to pay for her existence or can she pay her own way is a key thing. That said..... I think I give off a vibe, as I never really run into women that expect me to pay. Yes when a woman offers to pay for everything, I am going to pull out my wallet and pay AT LEAST half. Damn those ones are special and really stand out. That said, I am not going to let a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 11:11 PM
1	The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates. But you think others need your money to feel good about themselves? Or do you just feel a sense of ownership?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 10:58 PM
1	The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates. Why do you have such low self worth that you don't like people spending money on you? What is it that makes you feel unworthy of this? Do you ever have thoughts of harming yourself (or others)?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 10:55 PM
1	The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates. You sir... are not a Skittles man Be the skittles man	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 10:48 PM
1	The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates. Its nothing to do with being poor. Its about assessing the woman's character. Can she pay her way or does she expect a man to pay/buy everything for her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 10:40 PM
2	The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates. Whatever works for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 10:24 PM
3	The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates. Nope... I will be filtering out the garbage. Before a date, I have zero blank slate on someone. After a date where someone expects me to pay, my first view of them regardless of the date, is they cannot buy their own stuff. If they are unemployed or low wage, fine, fair enough. If they are not... well goodbye, find a new simp. However..... most women I have dated have always offered to pay half at least, or initiated some of the dates so its I pay for one they pay for the next and are quite clea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 10:10 PM
2	Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the script I’m sorry that you weren’t treated as human before changing your physique. We live and learn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 07:32 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Ahh OK thanks. I thought in5el was the code word.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 07:30 PM
3	Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the script I get too self concious if I gain a lot of weight. If people start saying I look fine when I know I am fat, that annoys me. Like just be f**king honest. Ive been all over the spectrum of weight. Lifting weights as well as losing weight however, now that is what earned me my right to be treated as a human for the first time however. Its quite an experience the first time round.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 07:23 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Q4_Guys_That_Date_Mingers: Are you happy lying if your other half asks if you find them beautiful? Or do you skilfully answer a totally different question (kind of like a politician)?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 07:20 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Nope, not just you. I'm worried I will regret asking however. This is PPD, which is on Reddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 07:13 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread A what?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 07:11 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Are you flipping stupid. It isn't, you simply talked yourself into being attracted to him. This just means attraction is a mental process. If something is a mental process it can be invoked by other people. Learn to invoke the process instead of being bitter. Not saying NLP is an ethical dating tool, but if it works.....	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 07:09 PM
3	Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the script The only way to see if your attractive or not really, is to have a shower, stick on your glad rags, goto a decent bar, then see if you attract anyone. If people avoid you - your not hot. If you become the centre of attention (and not because of money) - hot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 07:01 PM
2	Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the script I am the opposite. If I eat healthy, lift, dress well. I feel good, If I avoid exercise, binge eat, I will start to feel bad. Its almost as though exercise and diet affects my state. Who wudda thought.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 06:57 PM
1	Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the script Guys should know what a 10 is and isn't. And we can banter using whatever we want. If its funny, its funny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 06:34 PM
1	Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the script Its good for banter. If a dude claims they are dating a 10. Then they show you a pic of a 4,5,6. Yeah they are getting ripped.... for life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 06:29 PM
1	Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the script If someone says they are a 10, I will use the chart to see how much shit comes out their mouth and noise comes out their ass. The chart is nothing new. So someones self assessment (say on social media if they have photo's and say they are a 10) is a good way of seeing if they are honest or full of crap.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 06:26 PM
2	Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the script I'm in agreement and yeah, I no longer hate myself. I will give myself credit where its due (end of a hard workout, weight loss, sticking to diet etc). However, I am not going to say, I am a 10 or am I even probably an 8 or 9 tbh. I am not, I know there are guys out there with better physiques than me. And yeah, I am happy with my progress though, but I am not gonna make out I am a 10 or something. ALthough I am happy with myself, I still ain't no GigaChad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 06:22 PM
2	The "All women are 10's" phenomenon - How Male competition (overt) and female competition (covert) works and why female cooperation is leading women to delusion This also carries over into dating though. Not "How does my rating compare to yours". Women setting up blind dates is horriffic. They have these "hot friends" from work. And yeah..... they are not hot. Like why not just say I have a friend, she ain't that great looking but she has an OK personality. You know, be honest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 06:15 PM
2	The "All women are 10's" phenomenon - How Male competition (overt) and female competition (covert) works and why female cooperation is leading women to delusion In a team, if someone is crap, you drop then from the Team or they don't even make it to the Team. The ones in the Team, generally are the best of the best. Participation awards however, mean nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 06:10 PM
4	Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the script Strong disagree. If I view myself as a 10/10, where will I get my motivation to goto the gym from. If I honestly believed I was GigaChad, I would be in the best physical shape possible no matter what I did. So no, I want to motivate myself to improve to be the best I can. That means taking a realistic non delusional look at myself. "The good is the enemy of the best"	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 05:35 PM
2	Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the script Theres nothing to discuss then. If you think the fact you are not ranked as the most beautiful woman in the world means you are a number. That is a you problem. Good bye. Have a nice day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 04:55 PM
1	Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the script They are not upset about the specific ranking system per say. Even if there was no ranking, they would still be rejected because of their looks. Its not like you get rid of the ranking system and everyone magically turns into GigaChad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 04:48 PM
1	Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the script No nothing happens really. Sorry to dissapoint. Its all just fun and games at the end of the day. And the triggering it causes, well thats something else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 04:30 PM
2	Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the script Look, we live in a world of instant digital gratification. And this provides instant digital gratification, especially if your sat on the toilet curling out a nice long turd.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 04:25 PM
1	Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the script Yeah, when I say a rating, guys will know what I mean. Thats what matters. Anyone else needs to look up the classic chart to educate themselves: https://www.pinterest.co.uk/pin/617133955191263982/	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 04:21 PM
6	Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the script Look watching non- 10's rate themselves as 10's is comedy. Like why rent a film. Its hilarious. So if you need to make videos that get views, well nobody will refuse a good laugh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 04:11 PM
0	Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the script If all the people using the system are in agreements with the ratings, then it is effective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 04:04 PM
3	Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the script Why is basing your self worth on what some random person thinks of you not a good thing to detach from?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 04:01 PM
4	Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the script Look a 1 - 10 scale can be applied to anything. Its just part of having a numerical system. Anyway, you have a nice day. I will leave you to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 03:54 PM
1	Consequences for high status men OK, happy you are laughing. And no I am no expert on your ex. All I know is you are on about someone being 21 because they are dating someone thats 21. I generally don't get on with people my age. I get on with people 10 years or so younger than me. You know what, if that means I have never grown up, yeah.... so what. Like really.... in the grand scheme of things.... so what?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 03:53 PM
4	Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the script This sub probably adds nothing in our lives, yet here we are, enabling it. Anyway, accepting I am not a 10, does not affect me that much tbh. That is all I can say really.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 03:47 PM
1	Consequences for high status men Dating a 21 year old does not mean you still think you are 21. Anyway, I am going. Men and women view age gaps differently, I get it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 03:46 PM
14	Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the script https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A-YcBYUfgtc https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mCmoqUqHGCk The way men and women rate themselves is totally different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 03:44 PM
10	Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the script Look I am a guy, I am not delusional to think I am some Gigachad, so no, I am not going to say I am a 10. Why the hell would I protest genetics and reality????	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 03:42 PM
1	Consequences for high status men OK, nice shaming attempt. Why do you feel this is necessary? Does it make you feel powerful? Anyway, I get what you mean by nobody cares. We can agree on that. You know what, he is dating someone younger than him. So What?? Why do you care so much you have to point out he has somehow stopped aging?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 03:36 PM
1	Consequences for high status men Well I still don't know why dating a dancer means you havn't grown up. But I read your "nobody cares" bit incorrectly, I thought you were saying as though people should care, why do you not care your friend is dating a stripper. But you were just stating nobody cares. But anyway, ywah, that bit is on me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 03:30 PM
1	Consequences for high status men Nvm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 03:24 PM
1	Consequences for high status men Well have a nice day anyway, asking people if people care about things, neither you or them care about. Hope it works out for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 03:23 PM
1	Consequences for high status men What is there to care about other than "is my friend happy".	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 03:18 PM
1	Consequences for high status men Why do you think people would "care", yeah some guys may be jealous because of how she looks. Some people may think they are better than her, some people may be judgemental. But if your friends are slagging off the person your seeing, either they are not your friend or they are jealous . Why care what others think? Yes, if she is fleecing him, it may be bought up? I don't know what else to say about your comment?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 03:16 PM
1	Consequences for high status men Ummm.....nobody cares he's dating a stripper. What did you mean by this then? Legit ask	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 03:11 PM
3	If the blue pill is correct, why does the friend zone exist? No one is saying don't persue other women. If you focus all your attention on the woman who put you in the "Zone", then that is on you. Like just actually be friends, then just get on with life as normal. Maybe they will later want to be more, maybe they won't. But if you are still persuing other women and just living your life, why would you care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 03:10 PM
1	Consequences for high status men Who he dates is his business. Plus not gonna lie, they are generally hotter than the average woman. Yeah if she was fleecing his money, doing more than just "Dancing", yeah a chat may be needed, but assuming all dancers are pro's is kinda judgemental don't you think? If he is genuinely happy, then good for him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 03:04 PM
3	The "All women are 10's" phenomenon - How Male competition (overt) and female competition (covert) works and why female cooperation is leading women to delusion I've got a friend who I have known for 20+ years who is doing, well I am not sure if its malicious or not. But its crab-buckety. When I gained loads of weight, he was like "Your fine the way you are you don't need to go to the gym". Even clothes on a night out, he will encourage me to wear crap and say "You are fine the way you are". Like ain't friends meant to look out for each other and encourage each other to be the best they can. I know I have known him for a long time. But quite frankly I d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 02:49 PM
1	Does the "friend zone" mainly consist of males? If so, why? Yes I if were to make advances on you, and you rejected those advances, its still rejection. Your just trying to justify the rejection. Like i See men prob like you see men, assuming ur straight. And what can you do if one of your guy friends hits on u but ur not gay? And then he stops being ur friend, you’d prob feel conflicted too Not really, I would rather not have a guy friend put himself in the friend-zone with me. Its not gonna happen. The sooner he realised that, the sooner he put his e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 02:26 PM
1	Consequences for high status men If he is happy, what does it matter if "he has never grown up". What does that even mean, other than being some lame shaming attempt. I do know guys who have dated dancers. I don't see any reason to shame them for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 02:20 PM
1	Does the "friend zone" mainly consist of males? If so, why? Also sometimes to get what you want, you need to be willing to lose what you have. Some guys would rather just stay "friends", than make their intent known and potentially being rejected. As they do not want to lose the "friendship" despite it causing them all sorts of emotional issues as they desire to be more than friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 01:47 PM
1	Does the "friend zone" mainly consist of males? If so, why? It dosn't matter whose FAULT it is. If you feel rejected you feel rejected.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 01:43 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread I'm more than happy to filter them out. You have basically described how my successful first dates turn out. Successful as in mutual interest/connection/attraction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 01:27 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread You would have all of eternity to figure out to control all fashion trends. So you would decide whats cool and whats not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 01:02 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I'm in agreement. Its generally all I do, if someone expects more than a coffee or a drink on the first date, then I really can't be bothered. That said.... despite all the talk on here. I have never actually encountered someone demanding crazy first dates except for one or two occasions. The first of which was someone on a higher socioeconomic class than me, so I am guessing she had higher expectations in life (her lifestyle was totally different to mine). The other one, I just never followed u…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 12:55 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Can you make yourself that attractive?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 12:25 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread The fear is being expected to pay for the first date or demands of an expensive first date, that is the first red flag of a gold digger. Maybe they are, maybe they are not, but who cares, at that point you ditch em. I am in agreement that some guys are financially illiterate, although I would word more like they are retarded simp loser idiots.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 12:16 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Oh please like you have never known a guy to get himself into debt over a womans demands, because he is unable to say "No" (the emphisis here is he should say no). Men can and do do this. So yes a Gold Digger will just make them worst off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 11:57 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Yes, paying for a first date would affect him worse than someone not in debt. If you can afford to pay for first dates, its less of an issue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 11:42 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I wouldn't say someone becoming more or less attractive is a negotiation. Maybe is just semantics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 11:28 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread People can and do become unattractive. No sure what correlation you are making here. Attraction comes and goes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 11:17 AM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread What does "Attraction cannot be negotiated" mean to you? Do you agree/disagree? If someone rejects you, can you negotiate their feelings? Or can't you? Do you think someone "Growing attracted to you" is a negotiation or they just see other parts of your character/personality that fire attraction triggers? Choosing to become more attactive as opposed to choosing to be unattractive (the only choice we have in dating) is not negotiation, its taking control of your life. If you are not attracting wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 11:03 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread You can't "Negotiate" it. Yes someone can grow attracted, but you can't affect that by "negotiating". "Oh but I'm a nice guy", "Oh but I am better than other guys". Either she is attracted or she isn't. All you can do is make yourself more attractive or less attractive. Thats it. Attraction isn't some bartering thing. Where you sweeten the deal so they become more attracted with some negotiation about how great you are. Do you even understand what Negotiation is. Becoming more attractive is not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 10:53 AM
1	The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates. Women make money as well, so they don't need to rely on men. Did your dad teach you to beat women as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/24 10:21 AM