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Men can wear whatever they want, though I feel like other men would not be very happy with this choice as it is more feminine
/r/MensRights30/12/24 12:24 AM
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And that’s just America.
/r/MensRights07/12/24 04:37 AM
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It wasn’t common for women to work up until World War One, increased during the great depression, and then during World War Two. Just because woman could work doesn’t mean it was encouraged. During this time, women lacked education for the jobs, they were expected to have children and take care of them, wages were shit, environment was shit, and at this point women couldn’t open things like a back account, couldn’t own a home, etc. There was no point for women to work. Men were able to provide a…
/r/MensRights07/12/24 04:32 AM
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Just curious, what is the money you’re spending going to? A lawyer or what?
/r/MensRights07/12/24 02:36 AM
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Yep because for some reason you’re not understanding my point literally at all. There’s a reason people that partake in this sub are banned off bigger ones. They’re not trying to silence the truth, there’s a lot of misogynists in here, and overall horrible people! Not sure what you’re not understanding…. When there’s constant posts about women being all the same, like this guy posted yesterday about a poor experience with woman at a pharmacy, they are actively grouping all women together. There’…
/r/MensRights07/12/24 12:47 AM
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Almost like…. The west isn’t a monolith either… that’s crazy.
/r/MensRights07/12/24 12:35 AM
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So do you live in western society?
/r/MensRights07/12/24 12:33 AM
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Hey it was just a question. Saying women are not an interest anymore sounds a little gay to me. The way it’s worded also sounds misogynistic. I am not a feminist, nor mra. Just because I disagree with a way a lot of people talk in this sub does not make me a feminist.
/r/MensRights07/12/24 12:30 AM
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That’s not how cheating works usually. Cheating happens for a number of reasons, and while yes she could have been using you, usually it’s because they’re unhappy in the relationship but don’t want to leave. Like I said, you’re not super wealthy, are you? If not I simply just do not believe she was using you for your “resources”. No one said directly, buts it’s heavily implied that many in this subreddit, not specifically you, think that all women do is use men for their “resources”. And no, thi…
/r/MensRights07/12/24 12:27 AM
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Holy shit you are just misconstruing everything I have said. My very simple point was men and women are not a monolith and it’s stupid to treat it as such. At the end of the day, it’s absolutely 100% your choice to be with whoever you want. Using feminist logic as a way to justify your way of thinking is very ironic.
/r/MensRights07/12/24 12:19 AM
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I’m not sure why we use very primitive ways of thinking. I’m going to guess you’re not a super wealthy person, so there’s no reason for someone to stay with you for over 5 years and you not notice that they’re using you. The fact is, people change up when things don’t go their way. She was not using you, she was just embarrassed that she was caught cheating and needed to take the blame off of herself somehow. Yes women do use things like this because they think most people will believe them, whi…
/r/MensRights07/12/24 12:17 AM
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There’s absolutely no problem, im simply just pointing out the irony. I do not care about what anyone does, that doesn’t mean I can’t speak about it
/r/MensRights06/12/24 11:59 PM
-19

Because it’s poor logic. We are having a conversation, that’s kinda the point of this whole subreddit.
/r/MensRights06/12/24 11:40 PM
-27

Get better at picking women. I don’t understand how the people in this subreddit have such a problem with judging people’s character. Not once have I had any problems with anything of this sort. I don’t even know anyone who has had this problem either. Women are not a monolith, a very small minority of women will act like this. For example, not all men rape, right? Why would you turn something feminist say and turn it into the same thing, just a different font.
/r/MensRights06/12/24 11:01 PM
-47

So what you’re saying is you’re gay and you think men are better?
/r/MensRights06/12/24 10:21 PM
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Has absolutely nothing to do with being a woman, but being a nasty human. All humans are capable of being nasty, gender doesn’t matter.
/r/MensRights06/12/24 01:51 AM
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And you get downvoted to hell because they know there is not any proof of this. Now I would understand if you went from the point of men having higher sentencing, but this is insane
/r/MensRights05/12/24 01:06 PM
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Literally where is the proof for this
/r/MensRights05/12/24 08:09 AM
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Or maybe use your fingers to type something in if the link doesn’t work.
/r/MensRights03/12/24 07:39 PM
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It’s literally right there but they said the link didn’t work……………………………
/r/MensRights03/12/24 07:27 PM
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For the second link just look up South Korea sexual violence link and it should be the first one ;)
/r/MensRights03/12/24 07:25 PM
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So being ranked 94 out of 146 doesn’t raise any bells for you? Link me something that shows every countries like that
/r/MensRights03/12/24 07:21 PM
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https://www.statista.com/statistics/689775/south-korea-gender-pay-gap-by-occupation/#:~:text=The%20gender%20pay%20gap%20in%20South%20Korea&text=In%202022%2C%20South%20Korea%20had,69%20percent%20of%20men’s%20wages. https://www.statista.com/statistics/1232139/south-korea-sexual-assault-rate/
/r/MensRights03/12/24 06:50 PM
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Idk what you want me to say. Yes women do lie, yes lying about false accusations is bad, we all know this. Original post was about how women lie in general, this is common sense and not being denied by anyone.
/r/MensRights02/12/24 10:12 AM
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Wow you’re incredibly smart for pointing out women do in fact lie because they’re human just like men are. That’s weird, isn’t it?
/r/MensRights02/12/24 10:07 AM
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We are not talking about false accusations.
/r/MensRights02/12/24 09:46 AM
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Literally absolutely no one is making the argument that no one lies. Of course women lie, men lie. We are all human. Humans lie. I was talking about the comments on this post.
/r/MensRights02/12/24 09:25 AM
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Love this is turning into an incel community
/r/MensRights02/12/24 05:27 AM
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This has absolutely nothing to do with gender. This has to do with how attractive and how outgoing you are. They are plenty of women who also do everything alone and do not have anyone close to them.
/r/MensRights29/11/24 11:25 PM
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We have different groups of people to advocate for different things. Just like how mra aren’t talking about the horrid things that go on in the Middle East, or talking about fgm.
/r/MensRights26/11/24 12:41 AM
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So a woman having her clit removed or in some cases making her tighter is somehow comparable to a male having his foreskin removed or even worse? Like I’ve said… both are bad and should be illegal, but males are not getting their foreskin removed because of purity cultures. They’re oppressive in different ways
/r/MensRights26/11/24 12:36 AM
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Yep that’s why i said it’s bad. Both are bad, but not comparable.
/r/MensRights25/11/24 11:36 PM
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We do agree though. My point is there’s reasons that males are circumcised, but there is absolutely no reason to circumcise a female besides purity culture.
/r/MensRights25/11/24 10:38 PM
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I agree that both are bad, but the two are not comparable. There’s reasons that circumcision is done on males, but there’s no medical reason to circumcise a female.
/r/MensRights25/11/24 09:49 PM
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Link for this?
/r/MensRights25/11/24 09:43 PM
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Well it’s stupid. Stop letting other peoples harmless choices lead you a certain way
/r/MensRights24/11/24 10:36 PM
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So you’re going to shave your head because a very small percent of women are doing what they want with their body? It would be cool to do it in awareness of men’s health, but not sure why the 4b movement bothers someone who isn’t even in a relationship or seeking one
/r/MensRights24/11/24 06:40 PM
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Such a weird position to take. Rape is illegal, and lying in court is illegal. When we talk about things like false accusations, it’s more about the impact it has on the persons social life, like college, work, etc. Rape is very hard to prove to begin with, you don’t have to worry about false accusations legally punishing you, it’s about your social life.
/r/MensRights23/11/24 06:42 AM
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The only way you wouldn’t know before hand is if you’re disabled. This is not normal for a healthy body
/r/MensRights23/11/24 01:53 AM
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Do you even know how your own body works? You almost always know you’re peeing, unlike a period.
/r/MensRights23/11/24 01:51 AM
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What are you adding to the conversation right now?
/r/MensRights20/11/24 01:23 AM
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Because it sets unrealistic standards for what a woman should look like, even higher than the standards already are for women. Not to mention the fact that you could put any woman’s face, or even man’s face on it. Porn is evil, that’s the end of that. The comments are incredibly misogynistic. Most women do not partake in porn, and there are men in porn too, but you don’t blame them. Focus the same energy into the horrible people who own porn companies. Porn does not benefit anyone
/r/MensRights19/11/24 11:45 PM
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That’s horrible that those women believe in that, but that doesn’t take away from the fact feminism is still needed there. Most countries I would argue still need feminism, but they also need to talk about men’s issues. They’re both bad
/r/MensRights19/11/24 05:29 AM
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So when I see posts like this, im assuming we are talking about first world countries like America right?
/r/MensRights18/11/24 11:13 PM
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Even if it’s men who want their children to be circumcised?
/r/MensRights15/11/24 10:04 PM
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What’s the point of this post besides to be sexist? You’re not pushing men any further by being cruel to the other side.
/r/MensRights15/11/24 06:30 PM
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What athlete was trans…?
/r/MensRights15/11/24 06:30 PM
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Two things can be true at once ;)
/r/MensRights13/11/24 05:33 AM
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Do you see how this has absolutely nothing to do with what I said? No one has anything serious to say to what I just said because it’s true. Instead you deflect with personal insults.
/r/MensRights12/11/24 05:00 PM
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Height and bra size are not the same
/r/MensRights12/11/24 04:58 PM
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Sure, if you really think I could reach an understanding with the people in the subreddit then maybe I will post, but considering from the fact I am downvoted for pretty much saying sexism of any sort is bad, not sure I will. This isn’t really a place for men to vent, as seen in the rules. I am not against men trying to advocate or even vent about their personal lives, about this isn’t the sub to do it in. I am trying to become an advocate and bring attention to the problems men face, while offe…
/r/MensRights12/11/24 08:09 AM
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Tone policing is correcting people sexist mindsets? Sorry didn’t know this was an echo chamber and I couldn’t challenge people’s thought process….
/r/MensRights12/11/24 07:05 AM
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Yep because the other things do not need there don’t need anything to be said, I am checking the people who are saying reactionary stuff. Or asking questions about what could be done about certain problems. Sorry im not spewing the same sexist talking points, I actually want equality.
/r/MensRights12/11/24 06:51 AM
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Yeah, starting to think this sub is more reactionary to feminist rather than to bring any actual light to any of men’s issues.
/r/MensRights12/11/24 05:17 AM
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You could’ve just answered the question when I asked, instead of dodging. I think the word you’re looking for is institutions
/r/MensRights12/11/24 04:05 AM
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Yeah true forgot the trees could talk
/r/MensRights12/11/24 03:59 AM
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That would be the population ….
/r/MensRights12/11/24 03:52 AM
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So is it the land that is hating men….?
/r/MensRights12/11/24 03:49 AM
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Brain rot
/r/MensRights12/11/24 03:21 AM
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Why do you think most of the country hates men? If we really put it into perspective, it’s probably younger women who actually hate men, so maybe 15 percent of the total population? If not less.
/r/MensRights12/11/24 03:17 AM
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All humans lie, because that’s just what humans do. Not ALL of them do, but you’re not going to be more likely to lie as a woman or less likely to lie as a male. I wish people in this subreddit understood things happen on both sides of the spectrum, doesn’t make it any less of an issue. But instead they fight tooth and nail to make it seem like these are things women only do.
/r/MensRights11/11/24 06:13 PM
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No, I was not saying men’s issues were “going down a rabbit hole” im saying you can go so deep off the basis of these issues. Just like feminist. Surface level is all good, but once you keep going further nothing matters because you are radicalized.
/r/MensRights11/11/24 12:45 AM
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I think a lot of conversations like this are really needed to be had. When you are a feminist or even just a woman, you’re being told all of these things and constantly seeing how disgusting some people are. It radicalizes you. Then you have people on the mens side where it’s not shoved in your face nearly as much, but once you go down the rabbit hole of all of the things men are lacking, it’s hard not to get radicalized. Once you’re in these spaces, it’s really hard to keep a level head. This i…
/r/MensRights11/11/24 12:27 AM
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Go outside. No actual woman is taking apart in this. You sound unhinged.
/r/MensRights10/11/24 09:21 PM
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Nope these do not prove anything to do with looks, as the study has nothing to do with looks. Women prefer women over men. A lot of women have poor experiences, therefore they like other women more. I’d be more than happy to look at a study saying men are treated worse, but I don’t think you will ever find that. Even on social media, if you see a video of a heavy woman going to the gym, chances are people are making fun of her. Men are very loud about their opinions and I could find you a pletho…
/r/MensRights10/11/24 06:59 PM
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Not even remotely close. Why do women like women more than men? You’re telling me this is proving ugly men are treated worse than women? Or maybe women have poor experiences that make them not want to interact with men.
/r/MensRights10/11/24 05:13 PM
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This is such a primitive way of thinking. If we are talking about America, you need both incomes in order to support any kind of family. Most women probably don’t even know what the 4b movement is, and if they are choosing to partake in it, why do you care so much? If you’re in a relationship with someone who is, which I doubt you are, just leave them? It’s a really weird point to attach on to like that.
/r/MensRights10/11/24 06:23 AM
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Just because some men are called the word incel, which I don’t even think most of the world population even knows that word, you have a multitude of words you can call ugly women. Not sure how bringing up that the word incel is sometimes used is even a point.
/r/MensRights10/11/24 06:20 AM
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None these have to do with attraction so im not sure what point you’re making. It’s okay to just admit ugly people are treated like shit.
/r/MensRights10/11/24 06:18 AM
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That just couldn’t be further from the truth. Both of them are treated horribly. Is there anything you could show me to quantify how unattractive men are treated worse than unattractive women?
/r/MensRights10/11/24 02:43 AM
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No one dies from hate speech, but it’s still banned. Your point?
/r/MensRights09/11/24 11:53 PM
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Most women are also invisible to most men. This has to do with if you’re not attractive, you’re not going to stand out. Unfortunate reality. This is a human thing that isn’t specific to gender. We stereotype people all the time in our day to day lives, so yes that includes race and gender.
/r/MensRights09/11/24 10:43 PM
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It’s kind of weird to defend free speech here, when a lot of what mra here are upset about is how women speak about men. Free speech, but hate speech isn’t okay. Free speech, but you can’t yell fire somewhere. Weird position to take
/r/MensRights09/11/24 06:48 PM
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As things are more digitalized, I think computers will be able to grade students if done online. Most people aren’t aware of an issue like this, so I doubt you will actually see any changes. Honestly homeschooling might be a better option for some kids, or an all boys school if the person has the money to do so. Other than that, you will not see changes in public schooling.
/r/MensRights09/11/24 06:45 PM
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Soooo you’re defending cat calling…?
/r/MensRights09/11/24 08:08 AM
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Feels like a really small study size, and also done in the uk. I would be curious about the same study being done in America with a bigger study size. If all of this were true though, what’s the solution? We already lack so many teachers, along with there being a significant amount more of women teachers.
/r/MensRights09/11/24 05:26 AM
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In the studies you linked, I don’t believe female teachers were marking down boys for being boys. It said teachers favor feminine character traits like quietness and neatness because it makes their job easier. And at least the first one it said it was only math being marked this way. I do agree that teachers need to challenge their bias, but it doesn’t sound like it a gendered issue.
/r/MensRights09/11/24 04:04 AM
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Do you have a link that I could about any of this?
/r/MensRights09/11/24 12:33 AM
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Why choosing men only teachers? Or what would the boys only curriculum look like?
/r/MensRights09/11/24 12:19 AM
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What do you mean by that?
/r/MensRights08/11/24 08:37 PM
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Maybe im not understanding, but the things I’ve listed are things I have heard mra say.
/r/MensRights08/11/24 07:16 PM
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If you go outside and actually talk to women, no one is like this. This is the only extreme you see online
/r/MensRights08/11/24 05:58 PM
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I think you think about men way more than women do.
/r/MensRights08/11/24 05:11 PM
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Not sure what you’re not understanding. Two things can be true at once. Men and women both face their separate issues. As a woman in some mra spaces I can tell you for certain that this is in echo chamber and you have a lot of misogynistic men in here. Kinda like how you will have misandrist women in the feminist movement. It’s almost like it’s reactionary. Just because you have a couple bad actors doesn’t diminish the bigger picture.
/r/MensRights08/11/24 05:10 PM
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I don’t think most women are partaking in this. I think the feminist subreddit posted about this and many women were saying it was stupid. It’s just a loud minority
/r/MensRights08/11/24 07:08 AM
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Good thing im not asking you to buy it. You can look at people who do have a following like Andrew Tate. Mra or not, mra does listen to people like this and all they do is spew hateful rhetoric. It’s kind of weird to deflect this sort of thing because you will always have bad actors no matter how solid the movement is. I could find you mra being absolutely disgusting towards women, and you still would find a way to deflect it. The same happens with feminist. You are not truly living in the same …
/r/MensRights08/11/24 07:03 AM
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I cannot link you to things that have been said, and this is from the people I have talked to. A lot of mra will wish death upon pornstars or only fans girls, talk about how a false accusation is way worse than rape, women shouldn’t be places in power, talking about women in a very traditional way, idolize people like Elliot Rodger, women are only valuable to society to carry children, etc. Again I am not making the claim that all mra are bad, there is just some bad actors. The only reason you s…
/r/MensRights08/11/24 05:44 AM
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Just because you don’t hear something doesn’t mean it correlates to something else. The idea of feminism is not misandrist. That’s like saying the idea of mra is misogynistic, but it’s not. You will always have bad actors whether that’s politics, religion, or something of the sort. Please keep in mind it is extremely easier to become radicalized. A lot of loud people in the feminism community have been radicalized by unchecked rhetoric online, just like there is in the mra community. I have had …
/r/MensRights08/11/24 04:23 AM
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I wish to be as dense as you.
/r/MensRights22/10/24 05:07 AM
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Nope I actually didn’t and if that’s your read of what I said then I don’t know what else to tell you. Not sure why you’re trying to argue with me like I disagree with anything that you said besides the media attention this. That’s kinda why I am in this sub to begin with.
/r/MensRights22/10/24 04:50 AM
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I’m not specifically calling this post women hating at all. I’m just pointing out what I’ve seen in this subreddit a lot, and a lot of mra I’ve talked to just hate women and use mra as a coverup. So how does this post relate to mra?
/r/MensRights22/10/24 04:43 AM
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There’s disgusting crimes committed all of the time that get no media coverage, besides local. I truly do not believe that it has anything to do with their gender. Mra subreddit is to fight for equality and to point out the disparities, not to just hate women. Again, im not sure what this has to do with mra and you didn’t really explain why.
/r/MensRights22/10/24 04:39 AM
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Not understanding why this is being posted in a mra subreddit when it has nothing to do with the topic at hand.
/r/MensRights22/10/24 01:47 AM
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