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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1015 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable. | General | ApprehensiveAd3282 | /r/MensRights | 30/08/21 09:40 PM |
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| -1 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.my point is that me being gay shouldn’t make a difference. People shouldn’t treat women differently depending on their sexuality. Plus I don’t tell people i’m gay unless I know they’re not homophobic for safety reasons so this would not work out anyways. Of course in a relationship with sex involved you should discuss if it’s a closed or open relationship and what not, but if I have a guy friend, a boss, co worker or just any men that I know in my life, they shouldn’t treat me differently depend… | /r/MensRights | 01/09/21 02:48 PM |
| -1 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.i’m just saying - if men choose to act differently with women to have sex with them that’s not mine to fix - that is something you do. Anyways i’ve found that once boys my age find out im gay, they stop being nice to me, if they are straight. The only times in my life i’ve had friends that were guys was before I came out. Anyways have a good one! | /r/MensRights | 01/09/21 12:59 PM |
| -1 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.i’m sorry but this just goes back to women being sexualized in this society. My sexuality shouldn’t have to be the first thing I mention when speaking with a man, and my sexuality shouldn’t determine wether or not men look at me like a human. That is on you, not my job. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/21 10:26 AM |
| 2 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.ah yes. Still tryna be a good person and educate myself :)! | /r/MensRights | 01/09/21 08:12 AM |
| 1 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.I don’t understand why I would need to tell a man i’m gay though? And of course I wouldn’t make fun of a man for showing struggle or voicing his struggles. But a lot of comments had said similar things about telling them my intentions for the relationship…I fail to see how this is relevant | /r/MensRights | 01/09/21 01:29 AM |
| 2 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.okay one again I am not disscusing relationship I am a gay minor and it is irrelevant to this conversation | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 10:42 PM |
| 0 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.huh? | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 10:41 PM |
| 1 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.all it takes is listening and compassion. I’m real tired of fighting all the time we all just want everyone to live their best lives at the end of the day | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 05:47 AM |
| 2 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.this is one of my favourite comments from the 160. Thank you. Not all of these are very thoughtful but dang that was one of the kindest things i’ve read. Thank you we just gotta listen without getting defensive. Have a good day/night | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 05:44 AM |
| 1 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.quiet the definition! | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 05:43 AM |
| 3 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.thanks! so far it’s really just compassion, conversation and respect | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 05:41 AM |
| 0 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.what is a jack wagon crap? Is it an expression for load of shit? | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 05:40 AM |
| 6 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.Yes! Respect with respect | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 05:39 AM |
| 4 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.to be honest I don’t have any guy friends rn besides my cousin. Had some great guy friends but always short lived. I haven’t really been able to find any teen guys that I can connect with well, but i’ve had some great guy teachers! | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 05:35 AM |
| 3 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.oh of course not! that is insulting to every victim/survivor (not sure the proper term) | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 05:32 AM |
| 9 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.it’s alright - this is more focused on issues men face day to day as a result of a biased system rather than what the individual man needs in a relationship | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 05:31 AM |
| 17 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.I am a gay woman | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 05:28 AM |
| 4 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.and you as-well, king or queen or royal in between 👑 I just thought of that and I am definitely going to start saying it. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 05:27 AM |
| 6 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.Yeah this is a tricky one. For me at least I am always on guard in taxis esp with men or walking alone at night especially since i’m a young woman, but this is to protect myself rather than me thinking they really do want to hurt me. I think it gets dangerous when you really believe all men will hurt you even when it’s not a safety precaution. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 05:03 AM |
| 1 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.This seems to be the majority comment. We all just wanna feel heard and understood :) | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 04:55 AM |
| 0 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.though I do emphasize with the burden of performance | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 04:53 AM |
| 0 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.Im confused as to why you are giving me relationship advice | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 04:48 AM |
| 26 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.or sex | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 04:46 AM |
| 37 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.this is not about relationships | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 04:46 AM |
| 3 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.When I look back at the differences in how I treat guys in a hurtful way - I realize that in middle school I was a whole lot less sensitive to guys feelings as I thought they weren’t as insecure as girls. I now realize that middle school and high school culture is so terrible that they probably were just afraid to look soft :/ | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 04:45 AM |
| 1 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.ah okay good! sorry scared me for a second | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 04:42 AM |
| 1 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.No it wasn’t. I’m not even interested in men lol I am very gay. But to solve women’s issues we also gotta solve men’s and vice versa as i’ve noticed they stem from eachother. Just checking myself to make sure i’m not ignorant, I can’t ever know what men experience on the day to day you know | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 04:03 AM |
| 1 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.sorry if this comes off disrespectful but the majority of what you’ve told me is to smile more and compliment men, and give me dating advice. This post was made more so to give me insight on how a man feels oppressed or unfairly treated. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 03:58 AM |
| -1 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.Seems very generalized | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 03:42 AM |
| 0 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.this isn’t about sex or relationships. I hope that’s now what you were insinuating | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 03:06 AM |
| 10 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.dude are you serious right now…this sub is about social issues regarding men. Don’t teach me how to be a girlfriend this is ridiculous and honestly degrading | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 03:03 AM |
| 0 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.this made me laugh - thank you lol | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 01:59 AM |
| 3 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.noted | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 12:55 AM |
| 9 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.I disagree very much so | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 12:17 AM |
| 8 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.hm I am interested, would you mind giving me some resources on this? | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 12:14 AM |
| 7 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.I guess depends on the topic generally. I was taught in elementary that columbus was a hero, but failure on the school’s part. But I make sure to look into things on my own cause clearly teachers aren’t experts on these subjects | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 12:12 AM |
| 4 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.very true, thank you for the insight and different perspective | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 12:09 AM |
| 6 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.this sounds very interesting - I am actually taking a social justice class so i’ll be doing a lot of heavy research for the next year | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 12:07 AM |
| 62 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.ah i’m actually really good at this one! I like women so it’s super easy to compliment and everyone knows it’s genuine and i’m not tryna get with them haha | /r/MensRights | 31/08/21 12:05 AM |
| 13 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.very true :) I had an excellent political convo with my guy cousin who is just as passionate on these subjects as I | /r/MensRights | 30/08/21 11:58 PM |
| 8 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.I agree with everything you said! Although I do continue to struggle with not fearing men/teen boys. I am a minor and i’m not particularly big, so I am extra cautious as sadly i’ve met some not so nice ones. But that’s protection rather than actually thinking they’re all out to get me haha. Being raised by two mothers in a little more cautious I guess | /r/MensRights | 30/08/21 11:57 PM |
| 7 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.and thank you as well! | /r/MensRights | 30/08/21 11:53 PM |
| 8 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.I feel this may be damaging as men are already labeled less emotional than women - and this may be contributing to many mens mental illness going unnoticed. However I do see your point | /r/MensRights | 30/08/21 11:52 PM |
| 3 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.Excellent words. Struggle shouldn’t be something we look for to one up eachother. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/21 11:50 PM |
| 5 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.Thank you fir the resource! | /r/MensRights | 30/08/21 11:47 PM |
| 6 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.I don’t regularly bring up the name feminism when talking about gender issues so I don’t think that should be a problem | /r/MensRights | 30/08/21 10:58 PM |
| 5 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.Hmm, I hear you but I now see a conflict in morals. I understand that social media has greatly distorted what feminism is into a hating men movement. However I would still consider things like abortion a feminist issue. Can you elaborate on the harmful aspects to focus on concerning feminism and men’s equality? Thank you for the comment, by the way. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/21 10:43 PM |
| 53 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.Women’s problems are men’s problems and vice versa. And anyone being treated unjustly deserves support and compassion, of course. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/21 10:39 PM |
| 79 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.Yes I see double standards everywhere for men - especially surrounding sexual assault which is very very dangerous. Thank you for taking the time of day! | /r/MensRights | 30/08/21 10:18 PM |
| 13 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.very true. You can’t fight hate with more hate, joke or not. I appreciate your thoughtful comment, have a great rest of your day. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/21 10:16 PM |
| 18 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.I think mental health can be handled personally aswell! I think as a society we tend to check up on our women friends more about how they’re doing as we expect men to be less emotional and not need support. Perhaps with time it will become normalized for men to show the same emotions as women are normalized to show | /r/MensRights | 30/08/21 10:13 PM |
| 12 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.Thank you! | /r/MensRights | 30/08/21 10:10 PM |
| 38 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.yeah that’s one i’ve noticed for sure. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/21 09:58 PM |
| 275 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.thank you - very kindly and well put | /r/MensRights | 30/08/21 09:57 PM |
| 148 | I’d like to be informed to how I can make men more comfortable.very well worded. Thank you. Compassion is the best social healer | /r/MensRights | 30/08/21 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Revoking consentthat’s rape. You are in charge of your body | /r/MensRights | 30/08/21 09:27 PM |
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