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Find a way to make money that fits your personality and iterate until it works
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:10 PM
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Just gotta put in the reps not unlike the gym good luck my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:07 PM
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If they can get laid they should be billionaires not broke something is going wrong there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:06 PM
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Not interested also I’m middle class no one even knows how to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:06 PM
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What about this is not middle class?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:48 PM
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The people I know don’t have to work that hard to get paid it just happens naturally :O
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:47 PM
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You don’t want their money if you take their money that’s giving up control of the business which means less cash for you and more headache own 100% of it at all costs. If you absolutely have to raise money do it when you’re already really profitable so you can get really good terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:45 PM
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You can believe this if you want to help yourself then
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:40 PM
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I have PhD in statistics believe me controlling for all the input variables it’s still easy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:40 PM
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$0 you use other people’s money then hopefully never raise from outside investors and if you have to raise do so from a position of strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:38 PM
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Same here except my parents were both immigrants and they hated me and they kicked me out of the house If you can’t even make $1M in earnings by age 22 I’m afraid I can’t help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:38 PM
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This should be illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:34 PM
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Doesn’t account for just getting laid though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:34 PM
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Women are extremely misandrist which doesn’t help them even for locking down a ‘Chad’. The Chad might pump and dump and then replace her with a girl who doesn’t have weird ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:33 PM
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Europeans know how to live Americans only know hot work. I don’t see any dating posts by Europeans except to brag about how many threesomes they had before going to their free doctor’s visit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:32 PM
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I’ve seen people make $10M in two months what’s your excuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:26 PM
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In a sense they are right - I averaged $400k/yr since age 21 working no more than 25 hours a week. If you have money and enough time to spend it you have removed nearly all barriers to dating. Most girls and guys are heavily restricted by geographic location, then heavily restricted by income, then heavily restricted by social circle - don’t have enough cash to go to social events where can meet new people. This is much more true for girls than for guys for obvious reasons. If you eliminate all …
/r/seduction07/12/23 01:23 PM
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I love speaking truth to power
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:17 PM
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Getting laid is 1000 times harder than making money especially if you’re under 30 if you want to take a break from the impossible task that is dating take like 6 months off hit $2M in the bank become financially independent and then use all your newfound money and time to find dates sex and relationships. That’s what some of my friends did by age 21 or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:15 PM
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This is all bullshit but I have made $400k/yr on average since age 21 if you get me a girlfriend in 2024 I will match your 200 with $500 to charity of your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:12 PM
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Beware being overqualified to get laid in the US if this is you try to find a ‘better’ environment where you got in more than stand out. If you’re 6’ 5” hang out w NBA players to look more normal by comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:11 PM
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Exactly I think there’s so much social pressure on what a proper relationship is like when that doesn’t work for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:20 PM
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Nah we have the same idea meeting people is meeting people no matter what the background is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:12 PM
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True but that’s true of a normal relationship tbh this just has less compromise for both parties the way I see it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:11 PM
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A lot of girls from higher end families don’t work and didn’t go to college - volunteered at the family business instead. Ironically by doing this I might go up in Social Economic Status without trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:10 PM
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Am I wrong for going for the ‘arm candy’ girlfriend? I’m a 29 year old male and have struggled at dating my entire life save for some relationships that made sure I was not a virgin before college. Despite being middle class in upbringing I have made $400k/yr on average working <20 hours a week since age 21 working remotely for a very very famous tech company. This company does so much for me outside of pay too such as letting me visit all the foreign offices using just my employee badge. I can …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 12:03 PM
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If you are overqualified to get laid in your current area move somewhere else, think LA where you are around rappers and ballers and become a small fish in a big pond. Being under qualified sucks and is edgy to fix being over qualified is much harder and requires real personal change,
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:55 AM
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They need choices to not have to do this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:28 AM
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Remember men especially younger men having sex with a girl is harder than making a million dollars you have been warned
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:26 AM
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I’m not Texas Ranger?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:57 PM
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I can only speak facts
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:57 PM
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Once you realize dating in the USA is fucked you will give up and move to Asia sorry but it’s the right move bye bye useless USA
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:39 PM
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Then you suck at making money need to fix that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:14 PM
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As someone who has gotten laid before in the USA and become a deca millionaire by age 21 becoming millionaire was much easier
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:09 PM
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Getting laid in the USA is impossible my young straight male hombres even if you’re American born and raised ditch the American girls and move to Asia
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:04 PM
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If you are too smart for the West move to an an actually smart country like Singapore, South Korea, Japan, Taiwan, etc The west has become too easy so no one has to work hard. If you’re pretty dumb you can just be lazy and blend in but if you’re smart you will stand out no matter what. You are overqualified to get laid in the West go to the frontier they need you and the girls there need you too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:03 PM
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This advice never works fight for what you want kill everyone else along the way. I did this and became rich af in my 20s despite going to public school precisely when society would tell me I’m too young to make millions in income. Fuck society kill everyone else - but never do anything illegal - get what you want end of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:52 AM
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I don’t give a shit about this on a personal level but the dating market is fucked when females keep going for older men. This creates a pipelining issue where the newest crop of guys have to wait till they’re like 28 to have sex with the 21 year old girls and the cycle continues for the current 21 year olds shit system we need to blow it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:49 AM
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There might not be any pussy in the entire US - and I say this as someone who got laid before college with hot girls. I might have to move to another country just to get any sex or relationships at all which I hate since I’m already in my late 20s but at least I’m already worth $1M+.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:05 AM
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If you do computer science getting sex will be impossible. There are two choices here: give up on computer science and resign yourself to being a business major - a fate worse than death - move to developed Asia. They only pay so much money to developers because most can’t get a girlfriend - I’ve made over $3M writing code by age 25 and i grew up poor and barely even tried CS is a trap at least in America run the fuck away., You will not meet any girls in college you will not meet any girls in h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:15 AM
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Sex is an impossibility for American born men who are good at math. No matter how socially skilled well groomed or even tall they are American men who can math are fucked in the dating market for life. If this is you you’re probably in your mid 20s with $3M+ NW already move countries get out of the USA I’m warning you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 04:35 PM
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Older men are causing the sexual market place imbalance - I say this as a 29 year old man. Too many late 20s and 30s guys having sex with 20 year old girls on the regular. Even 25-28 year old guys having sex with 18 year olds when those 18 year olds should be going for 18 year old guys, . The younger guys need to band together to collectively shoo off the older men this will result in the most success for younger men in the SMP. All of you all are young you need to fight for the pussy as a colle…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 11:17 AM
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7 figures is easy even at age 22 - hint hint I would know - unfortunately it’s all foreign born folks so not easy for Americans to break into the social circles, can be done but you who commented above don’t speak Hindi or Chinese good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:48 AM
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Americans don’t make any sense any more is this why you failed every math class in public school and everyone from India gets a free green card because of your incompetence?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:46 AM
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American born FANg level engineers are overqualified to get laid in the USA. You can go to rich kid haven NYC or model/actor/athlete paradise La you are still overqualified to even get basic pussy let alone a long term relationship. Get out of the USA and move abroad or you will forever be too powerful for social integration. The USA doesn’t need you let these fucks fix their immigration system and hire minorities + women instead GTFO.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 12:00 AM
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You should meet me then
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 01:48 PM
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Good please convince your female friends to do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:31 PM
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Why are American born females incapable of understanding American born males who software engineering? It’s easy to date girls born in foreign countries but impossible to find let alone date any girls born in the USA Glad I’m moving to Japan and leaving this dumb as country behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:26 PM
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I can make girls cum pretty easily but there is no education around it. Also as a guy who first got laid in high school, what am I supposed to tell some dude friend who never had sex till age 25? He’s already feeling self conscious about being virgin for so long I don’t want to make things worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:58 AM
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That’s what you say but unfortunately life doesn’t work like that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:56 AM
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American females hate males who are successful software engineers don’t know why move to Asia
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:54 AM
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Yes that can make you overqualified. A body count of 10 is low in many places but it can be considered high in some places so you have to move to where you are considered normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:09 AM
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The worst thing you can do sexually socially and financially is be overqualified. Being under qualified is easy you can just improve yourself and now you are correctly qualified. Being overqualified is horrible because no one tells you and just get walloped in the face by life and you have to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:12 AM
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Just because you are successful doesn’t mean you’ll attract ‘your kind’. I’m a middle class public high school graduate American who studied computer science and joined a Machine Learning high end team out of undergrad. You would think I’d attract phds in ML - even if most are foreign born - instead I naturally socially attracted rich kids who went to boarding school that studied finance and had their parents pay their rent in NYC, the most useless people on earth for someone like me. When the l…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:07 AM
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Tokyo will pay any top Eng $150k+ in their 20s yen is weak for sure but this helps your personal savings if you have saved a lot of cash in USD before the move. Japanese is definitely the easiest to learn conversationally of the Asian languages though writing is painfully slow. Singapore is a great place the weather is just terrible and it’s very small and very far south from all the cool places like Taiwan, Seoul, Tokyo. Busan was really nice but wasn’t there long can’t comment on other parts o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 10:00 AM
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HRT Jane St are tiny they hire basically no one. Goldman JP Morgan do hire more but not as much as the West Coast imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 07:32 AM
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It’s their home turf. FOB girls in the US - I’ve dated them before - often prefer someone who speaks their native language and are going through same experience. Also helps that both have similar issues like VISA and friend groups in similar areas. I do not relate to them at all since I grew up in the USA and have no issues with English or American culture. Being an American born top SWE is like being Superman, fun for a while but eventually you just want to have the life of an average Joe.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:01 AM
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Dating in USA is impossible if you’re middle class American born but good at math. Middle class girls - don’t want you because you’re to good to stay in the suburbs and go to the local state school you just end up as full ride at MIT Ambitious girls - good enough to go to Harvard or Yale but all end up in NYC where no tech jobs at all Rich girls - want Guy with rich parents FOB girls - plenty in the SF Bay Area but usually want a guy who speaks their native language - Mandarin, Hindi - fluently …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:47 AM
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I hit millions in lifetime earnings by age 25 I can tell you monumental money has been for me. Having many hundreds of thousands in the bank gives me the confidence to try things I would never try and even pay for it with investment income rather than active income. Money is life changing. It’s not everything but not having it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:06 AM
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My hot take as a man who has made $5M by age 25 with very little help - if not outright antagonism from everyone else: women are much worse at making friends than men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:01 AM
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Yes too many trash can incompetent females out there who are worth 0 effort you’ll see this as you get older
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:58 AM
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Too bad all women hate each other
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:58 AM
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To all the straight young men out there - under 30 - it doesn’t matter how bad your life circumstances are money will always be your friend. Females on the other hand will be a pain in the ass POS no matter what always remember that the money will always be there for you the females, ‘friends’, ‘parents’ will not be. Wish I had learned sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:56 AM
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You are a fat loser who never even played college which is why you have 4700 karma on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:38 AM
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If you're a top software engineer making $500k+/yr in your early 20s and still cannot find a single girl who will have sex with you or even talk to you in your DMs move to another country. The USA is dogshit for Software Engineer dating fuck this piece of shit lying excuse of a country.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:27 AM
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Have you played D1 or even D3 sports? Or are you just a Reddit girl with no life experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:24 AM
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American culture sucks, dating here is a joke and always has been. I'm born and raised American in my mid 20s if that's any help to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:18 AM
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Socializing required optimization, go where the socialization flows not where it's impossible to make friends get dates have sex be in relationships. Unfortunately that is unlikely to be your current environment be open to moving and going elsewhere to change all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:03 AM
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You can not have social skills and be an award winning athlete? I think not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:00 AM
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He's already got a lot of IG followers girls just don't approach because they are intimidated but they don't realize there is nothing he can do to become 'more normal' he is quite literally one of the best athletes in the country women have to just role the dice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:38 AM
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I edited the above, it's either 'hate' or 'cant find' both of which result in neither party meeting each other in any context.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:36 AM
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Great question! My athlete friend has a 7 bedroom mega mansion like the kind you'd see on those LA house shows - huge pool surrounding the whole house it's sick. If he hosts a party he'd only be able to invite his other athlete friends as he doesn't know any girls. Also while there are many crazy rich dudes in their 20s not as many girls who can afford the high cost of LA so that ruins the gender ratio a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:35 AM
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The Chad discussion is wrong, women actually really really hate successful straight men. I won't give out my own background but you can tell how well I'm doing from my friends. A - 6' 6" successful pro athlete who retired at age 26 after a ten year career and lives in a mega mansion in LA drives a Lambo and never has to work again. He was on the road until he retired so he hooked up with girls but could never be in a serious relationship. Now that he's old enough and local enough to settle down …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:25 AM
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This is only an issue for Americans who are less than 25% of the engineering workforce of Silicon Valley. The remaining 75% are on H1B and have to stick to engineering as no visa sponsorship otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:19 PM
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The cost of being good at math is being able to mentally shit on and remind the day ugly Americans that they are too stupid to even pass high school pre calculus. That’s why we the American born engineers replaced the dumb fuck Americans with people born abroad just like the big tech companies did. Keep crying your underwater basket weaving major leaves you unemployed while my 23 year old friend from IIT New Delhi makes 300k a year in the Bay Area.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:08 PM
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I made more money by age 19 doing ‘engineering’ than most people will make doing anything by age 30. The first 3 people in my FB messenger earn $600k+/yr in their 20s doing ‘engineering’. Why do fat ugly loser Americans who are too stupid to pass a high school pre calculus class comment all the fucking time on engineering! Go back to your shorty humanities majors we the engineers already socially replaced you with 100 people from China and India just like then if tech companies have done to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 11:04 PM
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But that’s the problem anti social people need all the Eng money to be attractive I don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:41 PM
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Value is only good up to a point too much will ruin your life read my post in the post history no one noticed my health was screwed for 8 straight years despite horribly obvious signs. This is why you move and don’t let the tech get to your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:33 PM
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Engineering does ruin your sex and dating life not for the reasons most would think but still don’t do it. You can read my in depth post but really try hard to not get ‘sucked into it’ throw the football into your own end zone by being an Art History major or something. For people born outside of USA engineering is a great way to get a VISA but if you’re already born and raised here it makes no sense. If you have to do engineering stuff move to a country where you don’t speak the language and do…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:17 PM
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