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It is the most intimate one and if you deny this I don’t want to argue. It is like saying there is more than water but thirst can only be completed by water.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:53 PM
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Again the straw men argument. Romantic loneliness can’t be fixed by making friends. They are not a substitute
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:33 PM
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woah very unique may i know what "Confidence" is can you define this intangible. what are you Confident about? as i said in the post i would love to know more about can you demystify the virtuous words such as "personality", "confidence". etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:48 AM
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clichéd advice on personality improvement. In terms of cognitive ability, and even when we look at the Big Five personality traits, most of us are fairly similar. This means that in most social situations, we tend to be average or engage with others in a similar way. So, how can someone actually improve their personality when it personality improvement advice is given in context of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:37 AM
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dude i said personality that is one can improve the cliche advice that improve your personality i want that and beyond the looks money and status we all are alike in terms of cognitive ability so how can one improve the personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:33 AM
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You cannot improve your extraversion. Even if extraversion is generally preferred, mating is not about going for the largest appeal to the widest audience, but finding a MATCH for your personal mating strategy (= personality). If you are introverted, lean into that and adjust your behavior for mating. What people mean by personality is more than the 5 dimensions of the big5. You won't get far by clinging to scientific definitions, which put personality as pretty stable over the course of life. P…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:45 AM
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It's because men who think they are 7/10 men are actually 5/10 and the women they think are average, are actually 7/10. It's because they only use dating apps that are a very different market than real life, with different sex ratios and therefore different market values. no i was giving a objective value a 10 dollar note is 10 dollar even if it thinks it is 100 dollar it is not. so 7/10 guy i was giving example lies in normal cognitive behavior. I think what you mean is that most people fall wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:35 AM
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No I am differentiating LMS and the advice that is given when to improve personality and you proved that only LMS matters in personality. These two make it full nothing exists in isolation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 05:01 PM
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I mentioned in the post except LMS. and u mentioned LMS again.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:56 PM
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I’ve read Joseph Campbell’s Hero’s Journey, into mythology, a field I explored when I was a cinephile. various works in Greek mythology. Though I’ve never read The Odyssey or Homer’s Iliad in their entirety, I’m familiar with their key stories and themes. i don't remember fully but Dante’s Inferno, must be understood through the sociopolitical context of 14th-century Italy. Dante’s Divine Comedy. i think the best book on female is the anna anna karenina by leo tolstoy where she cheats with Vrons…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:35 PM
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is that hardships are cope and you don't learn anything from it you gaslight yourself in to believeing that you are now better but u were in a pit and now you got to ground level that is not good you should've never faced a hardship that is my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:27 PM
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They don't engage in this kind of matchmaking, and perhaps they enjoy having me as a "slave-type" orbiter around them. I've tried to have a girl introduce me to her friends, but it never works out. They make excuses, lie, and claim that none of their friends are single. and i am not their type They even gaslight me into thinking that I should be happy being alone, that being alone is somehow a good thing. What's frustrating is that they don't offer any real feedback. When I ask for insight, they…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:26 PM
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I feel damned if I do and damned if I don't. So, what should I have done? Should I have avoided showing interest in her hobbies and acted indifferent? As a man, it seems like whatever I do, I'm viewed with suspicion. Women often assume that every guy is interested in sex, and to some extent, that’s true I do want sex, but I’m also getting to know her better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:21 PM
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i don't have any hardship except i don't have a gf following the post i said that the guy is normal guy with normal personality. what hardship they could be? i feel the lesson learned and the hardship that you face is actually a very big cope because you didnt get what you wanted let me share something i wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:17 PM
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no 0 women in friend circle but if i talk outside i get only friendzone with girls
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:16 PM
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and females mostly i get in friendzone
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:16 PM
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only males
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:15 PM
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they want a man whose traits allow him to be confident, a man who don't have the traits to be confident and try to exude confidence is akin of a cockroach in formal clothes. what traits can be ? pls tell
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:12 PM
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thank you can you specify ? u/Any-Mycologist8868
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:10 PM
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that is what i said you have to perfect as male nothing can be compromised the sub 8 means that you have to be 8+ in everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:10 PM
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answering to your last paragraph I’m agnostic and pretty interested in a lot of different things. I’ve always been into history, especially ancient civilizations, and I love checking out everything from Renaissance art to postmodern philosophy. Russian literature is another big one for me, and I also dive into spiritual books about non-duality. Staying in shape is important to me, so I’m in really good physical health. I don’t have strong political opinions or any crazy ambitions like winning a …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:09 PM
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Can we have a flowing conversation without awkward pauses, where we make each other laugh? i can do this and i have friends they call me to hang out and remember me. asking for advice on dating only where people assume i must be some loser in life. i am demotivated at this point as painted as bad labels. i already said i am normal guy with normal personality but it is not helping me get a romantic partner and i have no standard any female with less than 30 bf is excellent for me i will worship h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:02 PM
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too much actually i care about her interest too much but most of time they don't want to explain when i am getting into their hobby as i am newbie. so i learn on my own and then they leave me. so it is not effective. you are making me a villain as in i am some bad guy who uses people for what they have i already said that i have friends very long lasting friends but no romantic partner and that is only thing i lack.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:59 PM
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chad only sub8 man have no chance bro
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:56 PM
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well there is a reason that men who aren't great with dating or flirting are desperate that is pua and dating coaches exist. and you assumed many things about a man being unsuccessful in dating and all of them are negative like "he wants a woman who will take care of all his domestic duties and provide sex with him. He wants the comfort of a woman, any woman, in his home". Doesn't matter what his definition of average is, since he isn't looking for an actual person with a personality and a life …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:56 PM
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neurosis ok but i can assume that you cousin is male and he is bitter coz he get 0 girls like me so he made his personality this way. however your wife has you and you love her so she is kinda positive. but how can i pretend to have a good personality to get a gf i don't lie in anything you described. i am just a normal guy u can talk and i think mostly like your wife but that don't help me in dating i have friends but i want romantic partner and i am puzzled in this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:47 PM
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asking as someone who can't pass the personality detector screening test. i can show my personality when the other person take interest and reciprocate but they are not doing it in first place so how do i improve that personality and don't get friendzone only.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:37 PM
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if you had fun mocking me than can you please answer what is personality ? confidence ? and how can a man display these to a girl. i am normie guy in big 5 means i don't lie on any extreme or autistic i have many friends but i lack romantic prospect so when i say i lack girl in my life people say i need to be confident and good personality what does it mean ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:35 PM
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I’m curious when women say they want a confident man, what exactly do they mean? Confidence in what specific areas. how can i display confidence and good personality to women only in terms of dating matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:32 PM
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my only standard is just be female gender under 30% bodyfat. i don't need anything more than that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:29 PM
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Hay starving man just eat the steak don't eat just any food coz u are hungry. Most men don't have the option to raise the standards when they are not getting anything at low standards
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:29 AM
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Muh but you can’t love anyone if u don’t love yourself, What a a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 12:09 PM
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humiliating to say the least but no one cares so it doesnt matter
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 08:55 AM
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