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Do you think women would find a pure and virginal man more appealing than one who isnt if everything else is equal? Or do you think women are told they shouldnt expect that and thats why they dont have that standard? At least a man who hasnt engaged into any sort of sexual degeneracy? (Porn, casual sex, prostitution etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:40 PM
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At the same time, I don't really know of any circumstances of men being killed or grievously assaulted for being a virgin But the shaming can damage a guy's mental health badly enough so that he commits suicide or destroy his social life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:18 PM
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I think that is weird policing an adult on what media they consume. It becomes a problem of hiding and lying because there is so much shame attached to it. I am not in the business of shaming my partners. As if watching porn was the same as watching cartoons, even then they re entitled to their opinion specially when it is well founded, hiding behind the excuse of "they re adults" doesnt make it any better, should cigarretes and drugs stop being discouraged just because it is weird to "police" w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:47 AM
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If sexual exclusivity is the defining factor of a monogamous relationship, no man should commit to a woman who treats it casually. If you treat it casually too what makes you so different from women who treat it casually?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:52 PM
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I think it is completely fine if a woman thinks men shouldnt watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:48 PM
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If the boring wimpy stable nice guy who works at mcdonalds and plays videogames on the weekends treats her well, loves her, care for her, what is the issue? He is nice isnt he? He wouldnt cheat and would treat her like a queen, Yeah, unfortunately attraction isnt a choice. Are they really desperate if they date a woman that loves him and is good to him, say treats him like a 'king'? Isnt this the equivalent of a woman who falls for a guy who loves bomb her?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:55 AM
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None of this points to genuine attraction, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 07:36 AM
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Actually no, this happens in developed western countries a lot, in undeveloped countries women compromise on those things mostly because they need a provider, not because of low self esteem or low expectations and even then none of those men from under developed communities are more unproductive and unhygienic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:45 AM
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Normal looking guys who also meet those low expectations (drugs, shitty behavior, sexual degeneracy, mediocre, no emotional attunement, not romantic etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:13 AM
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How do you interpret putting a woman in a pedestal? To me it means you consider her superior to u and u project qualities she probably doesnt has while at the same time you chase her validation then it wont work. If it just mean you think highly of her after u got to know her, assuming you also think highly of yourself, then Yes, it ll "work". If by love bombing you mean just telling a woman you barely know that you love her and she is the best and nonsense then, If you live in an area where wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:33 AM
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You actually would be surprised at the amount of normal looking guys who also meet those low expectations and still get partners, there are many places in the world where women are taught to have low standards and low self esteem. On the other hand, women who would overlook whatever redflag a guu has just because of his looks also exist. Both premises can exist at the same time On the other hand, if all men around you are trash you might as well pick the hottest one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:18 AM
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When debates happen usually we re touching a core aspect of our identity which is our gender, when someone makes a post like "all men are trash cuz they dont shower properly" or "all women are thots who chase after assholes" (reductionist for the sake of simplicity), is impossible to focus on the other party perception of the world when you are more focused on the attack to your identity. Like, what is it that causes people to get so defensive about other's struggles? I can only think they hold …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:12 AM
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What Jhon observes is that jane picks men who are way below that bar, Jhon perceives it as Jane purpposefully picking bad men, what Jhon isnt aware of is that Jane was taught that expecting a guy like Jhon was unreasonable, bitchy, demanding etc, so Jane just did what the men (which are nothing like Jhon) from her society wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:58 AM
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My english isnt the best so maybe you could word it better
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 05:41 PM
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It is obvious you only read the title, so i wont bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:33 PM
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But i dont claim to know anyone, i just deduced you were arguing with someone based on your very specific statement, it is not that difficult, come on
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:21 PM
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The point is Jhon and Jane come from different walks on life, When they discuss theirs perspectives specially in a heavily inflamatory language they cant see that, Jhon assumes that everyone many other guys were held to the same high standards of behavior as him, while Jane assumes Jhon is just another average mediocre guy who fits all negative stereotypes associated to men yet he is subjecting her to unfair standards that men arent even held to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:17 PM
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i do believe dating at its core is completely biological if no other external influences are there, for example we agree women are more selective, yet there are many places in the world where women are pressured or conditioned into sleeping with men they dont find as attractive because the standards are way lower where they live, the point is, a woman from those places can come to this subreddit, see a post of some guy who comes from a place where the standards are way higher and then cognitive …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:02 PM
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Societal conditioning specially during our teenage years can still heavily influence said patterns of behavior, otherwise things like the nice guy or cool girl narrative would be non existent. We humans are active by nature, we arent meant to be sendentary, yet if you condition someone to believe exercise is bad they can believe that and be obesse for a huge chunk of their lives unless someone else teaches them better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:45 PM
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is not difficult to deduce that you were arguing with said user in another post based on what you said about it, i dont "remember" you, i dont live terminally online owning the "incels" like you do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:30 PM
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I dont know what to say really, even when it comes to dating people interpret it differently here. Even dating means a different thing for all of us, for some users to date someone means you re just getting to know them withouth anything sexual, for others you are supposed to sleep with them during the get to know each other phase, some just date casually while others date with the intention of forming a potential life lasting LTR, others date while hooking up with people on the side while other…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:21 PM
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He is a good student and a responsible hard working man thats for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:14 PM
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Or maybe for whatever circumstance in life he only watched the shows where the nice guy got the girl and his parents didnt teach him any better. Ironically you re already being combative and dismissive towards him based on the projections product of your own experience even on a different post.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:12 PM
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It doesnt takes much critical thinking to realize that OP is not a guy who cares about that since he isnt looking for a potentially life lasting LTR or marriage. Even in his post he says he is just looking for hookups, some women can be down bad dumb if not more than many men....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:01 AM
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I dont like porn nor i have any interest in hookup culture which is something my girlfriend really values (obviously i also have other qualities that are necessary for attraction)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:49 PM
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Okay then, if you love low quality people dont complain when high quality people see no value in your love.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:58 AM
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You cant force yourself to love or not love someone yes, but can choose not to act up uppon it, how much is your love worth? Giving it to an unworthy person only devalues it to their level. Besides there must be something wrong within if thats the kind of person you choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 08:51 AM
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not number per se yeah, but also the kind of people and their quality, cuz imagine a guy who is idealistic but fell in love with a bland bitch who only uses him for attention and she is a nobody, yet there he was calling her the "one". It doesnt surprise me that many women find that an emotional turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:53 AM
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Who knows, i personally observed people who look at love from such an idealistic pov tend to not have more than 3 sexual partners during their life unless exceptional circumstances happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:39 PM
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Nothing suggest that the person who is into casual can be a better partner than a serial monogamist, the person who only had casual relationships during their youth never tried for a serious relationship in first place so how can we determine they re a better choice? The might as well end up failing like the serial monogamist but the only difference is that they started later at life. Now If you look at relationships from a pragmatic pov then yes, a person who is into casual can fit the concept …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:32 PM
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Red pill "doctrine" 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:14 PM
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Someone must have very low standards if they considered 10 people to be their one and only.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:58 PM
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Someone needs to get off of reddit for a while...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:38 PM
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Would you call a guy who is only loved for his money attractive? Would you call a woman who is only loved for her body or the sex acts she provides attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:27 PM
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Depending on where you live, that statement can be correct or incorrect, besides there are a lot of semantics when it comes to what a good man is for a woman, for some women a good man is man of honor, of values. For others it is just a boring stable guy who puts her on a pedestal and treats her like royalty, provides for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:51 PM
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What a shit ass excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:15 PM
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Actually thinking about it, a mediocre dude is still acceptable, where the line is crossed is when we re talking about a dickhead or a degenerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 10:01 PM
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Because like i told you, they re looking at attraction from a pragmatic point of view, feeling emotionally and sexualy attracted to a man is not necessary for a "succesful" marriage or relationship for many women ie they choose the boring stable provider when they want to settle down if they lack a better option, they dont marry for love in the same way you interpret it neither, thats why for many married women, when the temptation of cheating comes up " i dont wanna ruin my marriage" not, "i lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:11 PM
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Spit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:56 PM
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You see sex as a recreational activity that you can have with people you re not commited to right? Well, high n women look at it the same. Btw, why is necessary that the man has a much higher bodycount than his woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:53 PM
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It doesnt means you have low standards, having low standards means you would tolerate second hand treatment or date women who engage in dubious behaviors, but just because you date a woman who you dont find attractive doesnt means you have low standards, i think what you mean is that so many men are so attention and touch starved that they would accept a woman they re not attracted to just to not feel alone. But anyways, the point i was trying to state is that attraction cant be negotiates. Goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:45 PM
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They arent lying when they say they find it attractive, is just that in that case they re interpreting attraction differently, they are looking at attraction from a pragmatic point of view and thats why you see many women going for those guys in their 30s. You and many guys on the other hand, interpret it as emotional and/or sexual desire, so thats why it is confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 04:36 PM
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Let me rephrase the question more appropiately, lets say a woman with a body fat percentage you find unnattractive treats you right, would that make you feel attracted to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:57 PM
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So, would you find a fat woman who gives you such treatment more attractive than a slim woman that is normal towards you?.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:29 PM
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Moral of the story, you re better off looking for solutions to your problems rather than looking for validation on them, your mental health will be better in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:28 PM
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Nobody is offended, you re just invalidating his experience because you heard some guy somewhere else "women and men cant be friends" and you re projecting that view on him and you re being called out on that As for examples he already gave you them, but you re already doing mental gymnastic to invalidate them ironically proving his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:23 PM
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it’s usually talking about how women are stupid to think that men want to be friends with them. Do you know for certain that OP holds this view? Or are you just projecting that on him?, for all you know he could have perfectly listened to those women who advice the " be her friend first" approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:07 PM
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Ignore all the obtuse and pedantic people in the comment section with nothing better to do that to come and poke on someones damaged mental health thinking they re somehow morally superior for it just because it is socially acceptable to bully men psychologically. Look, the real truth is that nice guys, although good on paper, they lack a lot of qualities that make men attractive, when i say attractive im talking pure raw genuine attraction, not pragmatic attraction, women dont say that in hopes…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:52 PM
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The high n woman is more compatible with your views on sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:17 PM
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*mediocre boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:41 PM
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In your previous comment you said that only happens in the mind of redditors, but now that you ve been proven wrong you re trying to shift the goalpost to "men do it too huuur", you clearly not arguing in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:20 AM
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To me it isnt, i dont like porn. Regarding the woman who is chaste for everyone but sleeps with me, i assume that chaste women also have sexual needs which they will want to fulfill with me if we start a relationship, so is not a fantasy, is more like an expectation i have to fulfill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:44 PM
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This is a really nuanced discussion, it really depends on the context. For example a woman who agrees to do degrading acts for money, why? Did she need the money? Was she in a vulnerable position? If yes, it is not tainting, if not, then she has no excuse. Example: Woman agrees to suck some guy's unwashed willy for money, cuz she needs the money or else she ll be homeless, or maybe she was under threats of violence, that is not tainting. Woman agrees to do that to her degenerate, moronic dickhea…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:39 PM
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someone in your post explained it pretty well Tldr; thats the only kind of woman they ever known, and no one told them otherwise, instead many of them were gaslighted into accepting those women as the norm, along with certain other unfortunate factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:21 PM
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The actual truth is that the man with a spine is more attractive on an emotional level than the spineless one no matter how much he tries to compensate. Every woman wants a dangerous man who’s gentle with her In reality they just want a gentle man who is also capable of protecting when shit hits the fan. every man wants a woman who’s chaste for everyone else but a freak for him How are we defining chaste here? That she takes sex seriously and only does it with the right man? Or that she becomes …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:00 PM
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Actually many men growing up get taught that, you just read that example.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:52 PM
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Loads of grown women also have that same understanding thus perpetuating the cycle by positively reinforcing those men in one way or another, ie those women who fool around with "assholes" in their 20s and look for stable boring nice guy provider in their 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:48 PM
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The funny thing is your feelings have an evolutionary purppose, eating a fatty pizza feels better than eating a bland salad for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:45 PM
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Men and women are different thus they respond differently to the same situation, the sooner you understand that, the easier it will be to see the dating market for what it truly is, expecting fairness and equality on it is unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:44 PM
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Theres always an exception to the rule, just like many guys are unamused if they ltr a woman who has slept with a lot of women but little to no men, there are a few guys who still find it a big deal. Lying about it. Claiming to be bisexual when they had never be sexual with a man. Had no desire. And in real life thought it was disgusting. But somehow successfully slept with women they were into by putting on a bisexual persona. Assuming they were biological women, i also assume they were from ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:38 PM
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Technically you re still high n, is just that most guys wouldnt really feel anything about it besides maybe an std concern, but it really doesnt cause any emotional aversion when the though of a LTR comes up unless you did deranged shit, but yeah, when the term high n is thrown around here it is assumed that it is only in the context heterosexual sex. Ironically, for many women, if a guy has ever slept with another man, it doesnt matter if he is high n or low, it is an instant turn off, and no w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:36 PM
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It just doesnt feels like a betrayal for whatever reason, even if it is, it doesnt hurts like being cheated on with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 12:27 PM
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Another case could be that a woman finds a guy who is the right person on paper, the special person on paper, but for whatever reason she is not feeling it, the guy can be really nice, good boyfriend, whatever, she still agrees to it because well, he is the right person for it cuz he respects her, treats her nice n stuff, maybe the guy is boring, not emotionally fulfilling, quite a terrible conversationalist, weak, needy, clingy and overall unnattractive but a good person nevertheless, would nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:43 AM
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Context matters more than the number ime, i really dont care as long as the previous partners were at least respectful guys who cared about her but it didnt work out for whatever reason. because sex was so special and so serious to them, that they held me as equals to their previous partners and that I'd have no real way of knowing how the relationship was going since the oh so special and serious bond of sex didn't keep them from moving on from those people to me. Imagine this, a woman finds a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:17 AM
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Any sexual contact you have with someone counts my obtuse friend
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:08 AM
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What reason did you have to stay? Is not like you had to accept that, unless thats what you were taught to accept
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:05 AM
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Im the same as him, so you can feel double refreshed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:40 PM
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I assume lesbians dont see sex the same way your average guy does so it doesnt bothers me in the slightest, cuz they care a lot about their partners,respect them and dont see it as some sort of conquest, proof of their womanhood or just glorified masturbation so in my opinion a woman who slept with 20 women has never slept with an unworthy disgusting disrespectful person or the wrong one, but stds would still be a logical concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:00 PM
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Is there a phenomenon of promiscuous women intentionally seeking sexually conservative men, I've never seen nor heard of that? Sexually expressive women r rarely lonely, even n old age who doesn't love a saucy old broad with a lifetime of great hookup stories? You ve just read one of many, wtf?. The act of sex is meaningless which is y P in V sex during rape is traumatic vs. sex during a hookup vs. sex in a loving, committed relationship. So meaningless that a pregnancy can result from it, you h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:03 AM
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Women who pass on good guys do so because they fail to meet many emotional needs of the woman. The same is happening here, the special connection means nothing when theres people who can go around saying they had a 3some with her, she is not meeting his more primordial need which is to feel admiration and inspiration, that shit is a huge emotional turn off, it kills romance and any inspiration of it, it kills your motivation, i personally dont feel like wining and dining someone like that, it fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:46 PM
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Women are the selectors and men (on average) are the selected, men stay in line like good boys expecting that a woman gives them a chance while women decide who gets the chance, men need women while women dont need men and women love to humiliate and belittle men based on that fact, so if a woman ends up in a bad relationship, despite she not needing men she picked that one which means that was the most valuable option, for men(on average) on the other hand, if they end up in a bad relationship …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 10:52 PM
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You didnt read jack shit because i clearly said virgin shaming men affects women more than what slut shaming does, that is my argument, it affects both genders negatively more than slut shaming, not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:57 AM
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Why do women have to dress a certain way to avoid being slut shamed? I ll take that everyday over having my value as a man depend on wether women want to fuck me or not, you all clearly are on a high level of cognitive dissonance, im not arguin why men are virgin shamed, im exposing all the negative consequences it has for both men and women which are greater than what slut shaming does, it affects women way morr than what slut shaming does.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:50 AM
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You didnt read jack shit if you think im attacking women when i clearly say this issue affects women too and way more than slut shaming does, you re all the ones trying to paint as a gender contest, virgins shaming men affects you as a woman too, it makes men look to women as if they were objects to validate their self worth as men rather than people which causes loads of other issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:47 AM
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While making jokes about men being virgins hurtful it does not have the same punishment. It’s bullying/peer pressure at worst a one off inappropriate distasteful hurtful joke at best It spreads the narrative that mens value is dependent on wether women sleep with him or not, which is an extremely toxic idea, it objectifies women and fucks up mens self worth and perception of women, which affects women too, you wouldnt see guys jaded and resented towards women for being rejected if virgin shaming…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:31 AM
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Because objetively she isnt slut, however virgin shaming still spreads the narrative that a mans value is dependent on wether women approve of him or not, and all men receive that toxic message equally which developes into the other issues i mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:25 AM
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You re arguing against an argument i didnt made, i dont believe virgin shaming is worst because it affects men more, i believe virgin shaming is worst because it affects both genders, and it affects women more than slut shaming does, your cognitive dissonances just made you believe another thing. You don't have to actually be something... if everyone around you accuses you of it and treats you like it nothing about what is real matters. This is false, you ll never see virgin or incel being used …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:23 AM
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No because my argument is not that virgin shaming is mean, my argument is that virgin shaming causes many other harmful issues that affect women too because it spreads the narrative is dependent on wether women want him or not, which obviously severely impacts a guy self perception of him and that is extrapolated to women, it spreads the narrative that a guys value is dependent on wether women approve of him or not and causes all the other issues i mentioned. Slut shaming on cant really affect a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:15 AM
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No because virgin shaming carries the implication that men are lower value if no woman wants them, thats why it is extremely harmful and objectifies women, doesnt matter if it is made with the intent to get under someones skin or not, it still spreads that same toxic idea. And im not even saying shaming women for being sluts is better, nowhere im arguing that, your cognitive dissonance is strong on this one, im saying that virgin shaming men not only hurts men but also hurts women more than slut…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:05 AM
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1.Women get called sluts when they sleep around, thats the definition of a slut, not if they just had sex in a commited relationship. 2.Women slutshame way more than men do. 3.virginity or lack of experience is seen as shameful for men because it represents no woman or not many women want him which proves my point and directly relates to the other issues i mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:03 PM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:52 PM
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It is seen as something shameful, it if wasnt it wouldnt be an insult in first place, stop trying to use your anecdotes to say it is not, your circle might not view it as such but a huge chunk of society does, a lot of women look down on men for being inexperienced and nobody calls them out, thats the first get go insult women use to belittle a man and a lot of men have experienced it and thats why many of the issues i exposed happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:50 PM
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"i ve never seen racism happening in real life therefore it is not real" energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:41 PM
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No, if you re a virgin woman people asume you are a virgin by choice, if you re a virgin man people asume it is because no woman wants you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:37 PM
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How does this changes the fact that on a societal level virginity or not having many experience is seen as something shameful for men and all of the other issues exposed? Maybe the fact that your boyfriend isnt single helps because at the end of the day by having a girlfriend it represents that a woman wants him, but if he was single the story would be different
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:35 PM
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That's not true at all. Women are called sluts all the time for all kinds of reasons even (ironically) by the men who are angry they've rejected them. There is no possible way to avoid it since the person throwing out the insult isn't attempting a sincere commentary, they are trying to exercise control or be as hurtful as possible. But that woman by definition isnt a slut, and even if she was, shaming a woman for being a slut is severely punished. Again, you don't seem to understand. Men are not…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:27 PM
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Thats sad and unacceptable but no woman in the west is getting murdered by her own family for being perceived as slut or honor killings. Loads of men on the other hand are being stigmatized for being virgin or just not having much experience in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:15 PM
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Either way it ends up in the same issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:13 PM
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Wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:12 PM
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You clearly didnt read jack shit of the post so im not gonna bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:10 PM
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You re proving my point, if a guy has to hide it that proves that virginity or just not having much experience is seen as shameful for men, which developes into the other issues mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:09 PM
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This doesnt reflects the experience of the majority of men, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:07 PM
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View unchanged
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:05 PM
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This is not how real life works, most times in dating or social situations this kind of conversations come up, if a guy were to admit he is a virgin or inexperienced he would be comitting social suicide, in fact by assuming that virgin men go around whining and blaming women kinda proves my point that men get stigmatized for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:05 PM
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If a guy has to hide it then it proves virginity or not getting women at all is seen as something shameful for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 05:03 PM
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If you re not a ran through or whatever then it really shouldnt get to you, and considering the fact that you re talking about the internet were as in real life whoever did this to you would suffer severe consequences and social penalties then this matters not, virgin shaming on the other hand is rampantly done everywhere withouth any consequence whatsoever, not to mention the actual issues it cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:57 PM
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But she wasnt a hoe or a slut, at least not by default. You are just having a pity party for yourself while diminishing other people's suffering. Pitty party my ass, this is a real issue and i already exposed all of the negative effects it has for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:54 PM
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Im not saying that women deserve it, im saying that they can easily avoid it, is totally up to their control, the same cant be said for men since they are subjected to that stigma by default and they cant control it since it depends on women to approve of them for them to break free of the stigma, which good luck trying to convince a woman to sleep with you so you can become socially acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:35 PM
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Well you got slutshamed but you know you re not slut, but if you were a virgin young man or just a man withouth much experience and you get shamed for it or you see other men being shamed for it i will definetly affect you because all men are born inexperienced which developes into the issues i exposed, it doesnt matter if they are just insults to get under your skin, the consequences are still there, a youg boy who is exposed to all that is indirectly learning the idea that his value as a man d…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:29 PM
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So? The consequences of that stigma against men still happen wether society says them in good faith or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:16 PM
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Ok, the stigma exist, the stigma causes issues for both genders, which is my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:12 PM
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You can avoid slut shaming as a woman, it is the result of your actions, virgin shaming on the other hand is an stigma that all men face by default since everyone is born a virgin and the worst part is that is not completely dependent on a mans actions as he needs a woman to consent to sleep with him which develops into the other issues mentioned that negatively affect a woman too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 04:09 PM
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There is definetly shaming but lets assume it is just criticism, Why is being a virgin man or not getting many women something worthy of criticism in first place? Women aren’t ever going to give you a hard time for this. Sorry man but thats like the first get attack women resort to when they want to make a man feel bad about himself, maybe you were lucky and you havent experienced that, but many other have, and even if you re not directly shamed by it, watching other men getting shame by it indi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:56 PM
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BASED!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:48 PM
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No way, this affects women negatively too, and it hurts more because many women blatantly belittle men using that criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:46 PM
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Bro, lovely advice and all that but that aint the point of the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:45 PM
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while no one is slamming men for being virgins. Thats a lie, and it just not being virgin, even not getting many women at all is also seen as a mark of shame for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:42 PM
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Okay if it is the natural behavior of just wanting sex why dont just the majority of men pay for prostitutes and avoid the hassle then? Why the need to go through such lengths to get some women to sleep with when paying is easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:40 PM
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Being virgins or simply not getting many women at all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:33 PM
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The point is that societal expectation existing in first place, and it affects everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:33 PM
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Ok sure but the point of the post is not what should a guy do about it, the point of the post is that a guy shouldnt need to lie about that, by encouraging to lie about it as a solution it proves that this double standard is real and it causes the other issues mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:31 PM
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Cuz women's virginity isnt seen as a mark of shame like men's is?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:19 PM
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Did people past high school knew you were a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:16 PM
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Hell yeah they are, one thing is being rejected for being a virgin and a different one is to be considered a low value man because of it which happens a lot for men, people tend to asume that if a man is a virgin he must be weird and defective and in many cases he is probably a bad person and thats why no woman want him, even if he is not actively chasing women. Most men do not worship players. They just want women for themselves too. Worship might be a strong word, but many men definetly try to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:14 PM
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Yeah sure, but why does a guy has to lie about that in first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:08 PM
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But it points out to the same issue, the need of being approved by a woman sexually/romantically because otherwise you re low value man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:06 PM
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I refuse to believe you read my answer and genuinely came up to this conclusion, no way you seriously think im implying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:56 PM
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So? Of course not all men will display the same behaviors, just like we all react differently to the same situation, i was talking in general terms but men with low sexual drive are still affected by it, their self esteem and image suffers the same consequences because this stigma carries over to relationships too, is not just merely on the sexual context ie men who go through hoops or shower a woman with gifts and attention in hopes she chooses him for a relationship and get angry at her when i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:54 PM
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Is a perfect example of a double standard everybody ignores that negatively affects men and colaterally affects women too, because women are rarely shamed for this if ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:47 PM
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No way, men with a low sexual drive face the same issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:45 PM
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Read the post bro
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:37 PM
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They still contribute to the problem, the issue here is not wether they reject some guy or nort,the shaming and the stigma are the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 02:26 PM
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Im merely explaining the psychology of men who spin plates, go ahead and sleep with multiple men if you want, men who spin plates dont care as long as they re getting some, the only ones who lose are the ones who would happily commit to a woman, if you re gonna punish them by trying to get back at men who couldnt give 3 shits about a woman then thats on you but dont bitch when they want to avoid that kind of woman like the plague for obvious reasons But my larger point is that it doesn’t fix hyp…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:29 AM
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How is spinning plates exploiting anything in “men’s favor”? if anything that feeds into women’s “hypergamy” it creates the problem that is the reason for men in general having less options. No because it is assumed those women are also sleeping with other men, the plate spinner in this case is just dangling the carrot so he can get easy sex withouth commitment as the redpill exposes that a lot of women sleep with multiple men in secret, sometimes they pretend not to be doing so in hopes of appe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:08 PM
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Trophy wives like Lana roahdes amrite? Hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:13 PM
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I dont know where you re trying to get at, the point of the discussion is wether men date women based on the fact of wether they are desired by other men or not, men dont give a heck if a woman is desired by other men or not ie loads of men would happily date a virgin, women on the other hand will turn down the most respectable of men if a lot of other women dont desire him, if you gonna throw prejudice at me at least keep it relevant to the discussion you crazy woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:38 PM
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Lmao bad boys tend to be most derised by women, the joke tells itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 08:22 PM
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It's more embarassing how you all want us to believe this nonsense when it is abusive men the ones getting more succes that respectful guys, it is clear that this nonsense of men being shitty partners is just an scapegoat for a basic bitch bad choices at life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:39 PM
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Men date who they can, if a man married a lazy disrespectful woman that shows that was the only woman who wanted him, women date who they want, so if they married a lazy disrespectful man then that means among all the options she had she considered that one the most valuable over a guy who was responsible and respectable, ergo pick better.....or are you going to the deny when it comes to sexual selection the majority of women hold the power on that matter? Are you going to deny that on average m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:34 PM
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This is not a redpill talking point, redpill simply exposes that hypergamy is womens true nature and teaches men how to exploit it in their favour ie leverage wealth, plate spinning, make her feel like she is easily replaceable so she sees you as more valuable, what you are talking about is blackpill, but it is obvious you all got no idea what the redpill is and any criticim you have of it is nothing more than an strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:24 PM
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Can we assert then, that women dont find femenine men attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:17 PM
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Men generally want women desired by other men Nope, this is disingineous, men dont find a woman more or less attractive depending on how much other men are interested in her, men either feel it or they dont
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:12 PM
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Dicaprio probably doesnt gives a heck about that, he only cares about youth, easy sex and no drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:03 PM
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Because it is not, the majority of times it is disgust, this is just a strawman you all make to discredit men who care, i can make the same strawman and say that a woman with a lot of partnes simply couldnt keep any and thats why she isnt relationship material but it wont change the fact that some women like to sleep around, this is the same, a lot of men simply find virgins or low n women more attractive overall and im gonna give all of you promiscuous women the same advice i got given long ago…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:56 PM
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Male "purity" is literally seen as something shameful that you should get rid off as fast as you can or else you re a failure because no woman wants you, and the worst part is that it is not purity culture what promotes that but hookup culture, what an imbecile take, wether a man cares about sexual purity or not makes no difference because he will be still held to the same stigma, specially by high n hoes, what an imbecile ignorant take.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:42 PM
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Why cant you just ask and get the context? If you re dude who is looking for a life long LTR simply knowing a woman has slept with over 20 men is enough to know she shares fundamentally different core values to you vs the one woman who only has slept with a respectable man in a committed relationship, if you get offended about such a simple question then maybe you are the problem, someone who has nothing to hide will be transparent about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:39 PM
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or an child abuser in private This is so outrageous, imagine if you said something equally slanderous about a high n woman, clown world we live in, so much talk for "dont judge, it is inmature to care about past, prudes, sexual liberation, boring, insecure, mysoginist whatever, you re missing out if you dont use a bunch of random strangers bodies as a masturbation machine, you re missing out if you dont engage into glorified masturbation" yet it is actually people who criticize and shame others …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:34 PM
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That privilege cant be given to just anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:22 PM
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Do you agree with this take too? https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/13riptl/women_will_not_make_you_happy_and_you_should_not/jlkvxuq?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:20 PM
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For me personally it is only possible if i dont find the woman unattractive at the beginning, for example i meet a woman who is normal, i barely know her, well it is possible that if i get to know her my attraction for her might grow overtime (or i might find something about her unattractive), a perfect example of this is n count and sexual past, if i meet a woman who is a virgin or modest i dont feel particulary attracted to her but i know i see potential for it to grow overtime, however if mee…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:06 PM
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His name is being dragged through the mud unfairly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 03:02 PM
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Jeff bezos cheated on his ex wife, according to the redpill all high value men cheat because they earned the right to do so, so....., but anyways, if we gonna use the criteria of real high value men as a man with wealth and clout, why isnt Leonardo DiCaprio included on that list? Im not sure if he is looking for a tradwife but he definelty doesnt minds a barely legal woman. Actually who are you triggered against here? Men who like virgins for a lifelong spouse? Men who want young women for fun? …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 06:12 AM
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Yeah i ll keep that in mind next time i hear somebody using the term lvm or hvm in a dating context.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:22 AM
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Thx, is just that people tend to automatically say theres is something wrong with a mans characters when he struggles "you re probably an asshole, if you were nicer..., Women price men who are good etc" so it kinda creates this toxic idea than somehow a man is a flawed human being if women dont want him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:11 AM
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Generally speaking there is this ongoing narrative that only men who are good, kind etc are the kind of men women like and that low value men get no women and thats why a guy might struggle, but it seems it makes no difference for baseline attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 01:53 AM
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But if he is an asshole doesnt that makes him a low value man?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 01:30 AM
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The term low value for women has such a broad meaning that addressing it is a waste of time if a woman ever says it, she could mean a lot of things by that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 12:32 AM
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So i guess the notion that a guy doesnt gets laid based on how good or not he is is a total lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 11:46 PM
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Just look for a woman who doesnt thinks like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 11:19 PM
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But she did by her own will, why should we pretend otherwise? Either way if he is a low value man but she still gave him that kind of attention then that also makes her a low value woman or guy isnt as low value as you say he is, or maybe to you he is low value but for her isnt, so value judgements are meaningless here when they are so subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:52 PM
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But that isnt, you dont mistakenly consent to sleep with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:44 PM
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Nice, my best wishes to both of you. Out of curiosity what was his opinion about it if you dont mind sharing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:43 PM
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Thats not a mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:40 PM
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Sounds like a catch
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:40 PM
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I mean boyfriend and husband material tend to be mostly the same, what i have seen many guys taking an issue with is being either fwb or casual sex material vs boyfriend or husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:38 PM
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So if a woman who by your definition isnt a low value person but she has a ONS with a low value man, does thah makes the low value man high value or does it also makes her low value?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:37 PM
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Nice, he knew you had a fwb during that time?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:33 PM
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Isnt it the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:32 PM
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So which definition makes more sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:26 PM
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What if he had told you to start as fwb and see where it led to?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:25 PM
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I guess this is where the disconnect happens, for many guys being high value means women desire you, it doesnt matter if it is just for a night. Being trustworthy, caring and a good communicator means nothing withouth desire and thats why many would rather be the FWB or the fuckboy rather than the LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:08 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:03 PM
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So you disagree with the redpill definition that a guy is more or less valuable depending on how many women desire him?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:58 PM
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So happy wife happy life is just another american dream eh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:54 PM
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So you disagree with the redpill definition that if women dont find a guy attractive he is a low value man?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:54 PM
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So do you disagree with the redpill definition that a guy is higher or lower value depening on how much attraction he gets from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:53 PM
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Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:47 PM
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So do you think if a woman uses that term guys should pay no mind to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:41 PM
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Rps use the term to describe a guy who doesnt gets attraction from women for whatever reason, doesnt matter is he has status or not, he is an abuser or not, if a guy who is an abuser and a cheater still gets attraction from women then by redpill definition he is high value because women want him
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:40 PM
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Hmm, i guess we should get rid of value judgements then
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:38 PM
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So you dont attach value judgements to attraction then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:36 PM
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So in the end if a woman used the word low value man no one should pay it mind since it can mean different things? I guess we should just get rid of value judgements
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:36 PM
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Hmmm, so i guess those women who whine about low value men are with their compatible match then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:31 PM
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So i guess being a good husband doesnt really makes you a high value man, well that sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:24 PM
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But what is a LVM?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:01 PM
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My whole teenage years and my late young adult years i grew up thinking women were perfect and not a single thing they would do could cause me an ick, for me every woman was a potential partner, keep in mind this happened when i used to be lonely and unwanted, so that was the way i navigated the dating world, i wanted a relationship so bad that i would try to date any woman because i though she would make me happy and give me the love i needed so much, fast forwarding i changed and i managed to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:06 PM
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I know a lot of women who are in relationships or marriages with men they re not atttacted to because it gives them some benefit yet they still claim they love them, i have seen cases of women cheating on their good husbands with absolute lowlifes, using relationships as a metric for what women like or not is not a solid metric considering that for many women liking man does not equal finding him sexually attractive which is the only meaningful attraction a woman can show to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:46 AM
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For all human beings attraction is a subconcious impulse, nobody cant conciously decide to feel attractted to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:36 AM
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If dudes who say that are often playboys or womanizers then they dont really seem to be having much issue turning on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:33 AM
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I am hispanic but i moved to the states at a young age,I was told many things by family, older female cousins, my family is quite big, also hearing older women of my family complaining about men made me feel motivated to be a better man whenever i grew up and not follow the same steps of those guys, my family particulary on the female side always told me stuff like, "expect women to make the first move because otherwise you bother them, always shower them with compliments and make them feel like…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:40 PM
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Cool advice and all that but this woman wasnt fat and i dont recall stating she was fat neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:02 PM
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She asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:52 PM
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How is the average man cheating and mistreating women when the average man rarely gets chosen by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:39 AM
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So to comfirm, women wont date a man that doesnt finds them physically attractive but still likes other things from them, oh well, i ll keep that in mind next time a a girlfriend manipulatively whines to me about "you wouldnt date me if i werent pretty, you still expect me to take care of my appereance" or tries to make me feel bad about myself just for finding her physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:26 AM
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I dont know if average men would do it if they were above average or not, but i do know the majority of them arent the ones pumping and dumping or treating women poorly. Im not saying attractive men do this, im saying only attractive men can do it, doesnt menas they will but only they can do it, average men who barely get opportunities wont risk their only source of companionship like that. Imagine being with someone who only treats you like a queen because youre all they could get not because h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:16 AM
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Being dishonest is having social skills now? Regardless the whole point is that all this talk about shallowness talk means jack shit when women still care a lot to wether a man finds her pretty enough or not, whats the point in criticizing men for focusing on looks when women wouldnt not even take well the fact that a man they re attracted to doesnt finds them all that physically attractive no matter how much they say they like her because of her personality then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:10 AM
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*attractive men Men who are average dont do none of those things because well, why would they ruin the chance they get once in a blue moon? They cant afford to do it so they re always in their best behavior, even if it is not comforting at least they try, women dont seem to value that though cuz like i told you this woman had plenty of men attracted to her willing to treat her like a queen, just not the ones she wanted.... And i didnt treat her poorly just because i didnt find her all that physi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 12:04 AM
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Why are you asking? And no, they didn’t. Or I wouldn’t know know about it because when I had casual sex I did not emotionally connect enough to men to care about their opinions. I can guarantee you most of the men who you have slept with saw you like that yet that didnt seem to be an issue. So now men aren’t filtering for body count? LMAO. The majority of men dont filter by anything, stop being disingenous, you are saying that filtering by body count did not prevent those bad experiences with wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:48 PM
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I once gave a chance to a woman that wasnt as pretty, guess what happened? When i told her that i didnt find her as pretty but i liked her personality she started crying and took a lot of offense to it, "you should be also attracted a to a persons outside" and dumped me, is funny because before all that happened she would often complain about not being pretty enough to get dates, that dating was superficial and shallow, but that was weird because there were plenty of guys who would date her, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:57 PM
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No, real life shows men pursue very different women for hookups and women for LTRs, in fact in real life is more common that a man with no options ends up with a woman many guys want to sleep with but not date simply because a woman of dating age that no man would sleep with is an statistical improbability unless she is affected by extraordinary factors like mental illness, deformities etc, other than majority of men would sleep with any woman wether she is relationship material or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:39 PM
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You guys arent definetly using weird in that context, suggesting otherwise is disingenous. doesn’t necessarily mean you guys would be compatible with each other for a relationship… Being attracted to each other is more important for compatibility also most people lose their virginities in highschool, so specifically going for a virgin is going to reduce your dating pool by a lot because most adult women are simply not going to be virgins No problem, even if thats 80% of women, 20% of all the pop…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:26 PM
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Many men will say whatever as long as it gets them laid, thats nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:19 PM
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For just just fun and hookups? Yes, many men like them because they put out easily, for a LTR? Different story
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:10 PM
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That a woman who many men want to sleep with does not equal woman with many options.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:00 PM
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Irrelevant to our discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:56 PM
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I’m still a person I’m not some used fleshlight Did the majority of men who sleep with you see you as a person or as an easy fleshlight for them to release and then boast to their homeboys? enjoy sex and I used to enjoy having casual sex with multiple people. Why does that automatically make me a bad partner? You re not being rejected on the basis you enjoy sex the women most men here have CHOSEN while filtering for body count This is absolutely not true, you couldnt be more wrong, in most of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:55 PM
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Im saying that pornstars being paid for having sex has no influence in the aversion men show towards them, if those women had done porn for free many men would still show aversion to LTRs with them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:38 PM
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Im saying that pornstars being paid for having sex has no influence in the aversion men show towards them, if those women had done porn for free many men would still show aversion to LTRs with them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:38 PM
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If you are talking about hookups then yes, it is weird for a guy to be so obssesed over hooking up with virgin women but when it comes to relationships there is nothing weird if you want a virgin woman to be your lifelong spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:35 PM
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Low n women arent sexually repressed, they just dont sleep with just anyone, but regardless.... CMV, a man has to really dig deep and admit what kind of man he sexually is before embarking on trying to find a woman/women to satisfy his appetite in life. Not an easy thing to do, and you will be asking some tough questions about what you are ok with, and what things you're not ok with. This is the best piece of advice to end this discussion. So just to clarify, you re speaking in the context of re…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:29 PM
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You know that just because many men would sleep with a woman doesnt means they would date her right?.....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:22 PM
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But does that really influences your desition? Lets pretend nor high n women nor low n women cheated, would you prefer both equally?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:19 PM
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But they arent rejected because they were paid for it, had they done it for free the outcome would be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:05 PM
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Because everybody knows pornstars are high n so any man who doesnt wants that can easily avoid them, meanwhile a woman whose dirty closet is not known may have an easier time finding dates. Why do you think that comparison is flawed then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:56 PM
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So would you date a high n women if it benefited you more? Say you meet a high n woman who cooks and clean vs a virgin woman who is quite clumsy when it comes to chores and is not the best cook, if everything else is equal would you choose the high n one?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:43 PM
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but does it matter what benefit you get from those women? I prefer them too but i have never though about any benefit in particular. I mean would you still pick a woman who has been on and about if it benefited you more? I for sure wouldnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:37 PM
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True......
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:24 PM
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According to some guys, they give good head and such, so if you care a lot about sexual performance then that might be a benefit for you, if a woman enjoys being valued based on the sex acts she provides then more power to her. On another note i dont think any man or woman who picks you based on what benefits they get from you is a good partner but thats just me, im calling out both sides of the coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:21 PM
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All women for example still expect a confident secure charismatic strong competent man while none of the offer confidence and security in return, in fact they still expect men to put their insecurities at ease,, i can understand conservative or trad women who expect that but i cringe so much when liberal women have those expectations of men, even the one who dont expect that still fuck those men for the night while some liberal ally comes along for a "modern" relationship where he is still expec…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:38 PM
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Yes thats true but that doesnt means you have to be an abuser to attract a nice woman to your life, you can still attract them withouth acting like a douche, and when you re able to do that you can aspire to get something better than some abusive chad's leftovers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:22 PM
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But the latter only makes you an easy to manipulate push over, what kind of woman will go to you if you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:18 PM
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The latter has nothing to do with being nice, being nice doesnt means being a persons servant
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 10:45 AM
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How do we define being nice here? Is it having common human decency and courtesy or is it cattering to any whim a woman has?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 10:41 AM
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Tough luck, they can go for their looksmatch then, their looksmatch is waiting for them with open arms, men cant control what other men find attractive so if they have a grugde they can take it with those attractive men specifically and leave the rest alone, oh wait...it is easier to pick on someone smaller eh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:05 AM
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Is ironic that napoleon was above average height for a french man of his time (5'7), yet his detractors used his height to mock him because they mistakenly though he was short because he married a woman hella tall and his personal guards had a height requirement so wherever he went he was always seen with people taller than him, if this isnt proof that men are arbitrarily judged for their height i dont know what else is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:04 AM
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All three of those women can get relationships and hookups easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:14 AM
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I ll give you a better solution, just dont open to any woman unless it is something positive, just dont, learn to support yourself if you re a man and seek solutions, no reason to open up about your problems anyways, it does more harm than good to us men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 04:19 AM
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It is pointless to complain about it, women dont like it and there is no reason why the should, i mean when have women cared about fairness when it comes to attraction? Just level up and pick the woman you want no matter how much Karens whine about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 04:13 AM
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Become attractive, improve your social skills, confidence security and everything that makes men traditionally attractive and you can potentially get a pretty girl or normal girl or whatever you want, thats the only way of actually getting a relationship in where you truly are happy rather than with a woman who will always feel miserable and resentful towards you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 04:07 AM
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Get your shit together. As cruel as it is, no woman will tolerate a man they see as weak or needing support. You have to be at the top of your fucking game at all times. If you aren't, you will lose her respect and the second that's gone, she's gone. Cold hard truth, but the good thing is you can give yourself the luxury of a choice if you do that, wether you want a virgin or a turbo promiscuous hoe, a slim woman or a ham planet, you re always going to be held to that traditional masculinity sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:59 AM
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He means you only post dumb disingenous and gaslighting shit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 11:34 PM
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In those times and enviorenments it made sense, in todays world there is no reason at all, just pay a prostitute if it is so important to you, marrying because at least you ll get some is among the dumbest decisions a man can take
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:19 PM
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No risk really, no woman can hurt me at all since i operate differently,
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:17 PM
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It makes no influence for my levels of attraction whatsoever, as long as she loves me in an idealistic way im okay with any level of income assuming she also fulfils the other qualities i consider attractive, although i prefer more old school romance i really have never ever paid any importance to being the sole provider or having an sahm partner, never met a woman who is broke neither, all the women i talk to either work or still study.. Everytime i see a woman thinking she is superior to other…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:45 PM
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Yeah when i was told that it quite didnt resonate with me, but the nightmare stories other guys would share with me about how they invested themselves into one woman just for her to get bored and cheat on them with a complete asshole but go back towards them the moment they started to spin plates almost sold it to me, i guess i was lucky i was delusional and kept the faith that someday i would meet a woman who didnt fit this description no matter how much times i was told awalt. Cant get hurt em…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 11:03 AM
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Not the same men, not even the same train of though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 10:58 AM
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Irrelevant to my point, my point is that The current idea of marriage we have in the west was completely shaped by religion, its vows still appeal to the sacrament the catholic church made of it, "holy and sacred union between two people", even secular marriages still appeal to those vows in some ways or ay least the people try to give the impression that their marriages do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 10:37 AM
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Marriage at least in western world is a religious construct even if religion doesnt influences it anymore, it exist due to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:43 AM
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Pretty sure the bible doesnt says men should marry a woman because of sex neither
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 06:42 AM
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I dont recall "in infidelity or abuse" being marriage vows, rather the opposite, it is a marriage vow not to be infidel or abuse your spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:48 AM
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I do was told long ago that being choosy was bad and shallow, long ago, unfortunately (or fortunetaly) when i noticed women around me had no remorse when it came to being choosy i decided to drop it, but then the narrative when from "being choosy is bad" to "good luck with that, women have the power, you dont get to choose because you re easily replaceable while women are higher value" yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 01:46 AM
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The irony is that majority of guys who end up in the redpill have no standards at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:35 AM
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Hmmm, im far as im concerned what the redpill says is that your status and money is what makes you attractive to women, nothing else will, thats why it is called the red pill, cuz it is rather an uncomfortable and harsh reality, is not an standard, is the only way women will value you as a man, Regarding dead bedrooms thats strange too cuz the redpill doesnt advocates for marriage, just casual sex, it is up to the individual what to do with it, some men try to stay in relationships as long as th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:34 AM
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When has casual sex ever been about having character? The majority of times it involves drugs, alcohol, clout and the women who are into it arent arbiters of what is a good character in men, the majority of times they just pick guys for shallow reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:12 AM
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If you re not attractive in countries where men are abundant you wont be more attractive all out of the suden in countries where men are a minority, it will make no difference, someone settling for you because thats better than nothing is not real attraction, those kind of relationships are mediocre and alway end up bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:43 AM
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But im telliing you, i wasnt even an attractive choice back then, how could i ignore those women you re talking about when they didnt even consider me an option in first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:48 PM
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I dont know what to tell you, back when that happened to me those were my only options, literally those were the women choosing me and there werent many, no other girl was interested in me, those women you are talking about never showed interest in me, i was lonely and undesirable, those were the only women who would sometimes give me a chance and do me a "favour" by dating me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 06:15 PM
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I dont know about other men but i personally crossed paths with the redpill not by my own choice but after suffering a traumatic experience with women, i was simply looking for answers, i was wondering why she did that to me, so by searching for answers i ran into it, i know the opinions of women there arent favorable, but i was in so much pain it resonated with me so much, for example the redpill says "treat her nice and she ll just use you while some guy fucks her on the side", doesnt helps th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:06 PM
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The statement was pretty clear, you said "dont reward women who go for those kind of guys", im telling you, if i reject a woman who has a history of going for those guys for a potential LTR even if it was just once, thats the kind of responses i get, how would you handle it if you were a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:34 PM
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Men can alter women’s behavior to alter men’s in the same manner. They can stop rewarding women who pick bad boys and only reward the ones who pick good men, causing the women to only reward the good men. Interesting🤔, now imagine you re a man and you dont want do date a woman who has that kind of history, you inmediatly start to get attacked for it, lots of women start calling you insecure, attack your masculinity, say you will die alone, you are unworthy, you re a mysoginist, you re shallow et…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:12 AM
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Nope, if he was the first option then the woman would have gone for a guy like him since the beginning. What emotional resources would he be giving in a couple of dates? That would be a fair question in situation where the woman was honest about herself, cuz if they guy knew since the beginning who she is, at most he wouldnt have taken it too seriously, most likely he wouldnt have even considered her a dating option in first place, but we know honesty is not how these issues happen in first plac…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:52 PM
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You dont understand, is not just guys who want sex soon the ones who have an issue with it, it is also men who are patient and not pushy, they dont want to be the second option of that kind woman, so i ask you again, if a guy like that wants to leave surely and give his emotinal resources to a woman who doesnt has that history surely he can do it right? No problem? The woman will be honest about who she is right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:33 PM
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So whats the issue if a man wants to leave then? Surely these women are super honest and open about their "little" mistakes right? No problem if a man doesnt wants to date a woman like that for a LTR right? u/BigVulvaEnergy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:23 PM
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Why are people expected to just suck it up and be okay with it then? Women arent entitled to special treatment from a guy the same way men arent entitled to sex just because they re super nice and pay the bills, if a guy doesnt wants to wine and dine a woman who has done casual he is not obliged to do so, saying otherwise reeks of entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:59 PM
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Your whole rant is literal redpill rethoric yet here you are complaining about men not acknowledging the role biology plays on attraction, you are taking two different men and grouping them together as if individual men who believe biology influences sexual attraction dont apply it to women, what a disingenous argument, nobody should take you seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:16 AM
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So if girl likes you she is more likely to try and deceive you, cool, and somehow you manage to make it seem like it is a guys fault for valuing that "oh well, since you value modest women you cant complain about women trying to appear to be modest so you consider them a compatible partner" imagine if men used this bullshit logic to justify lying about salary or hobbies or anything a woman could consider important, no doubt there would be a lot of outrage, so much that in some places this is cal…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:57 AM
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what is this gaslighting? The moment a man openly says he is going for a trad woman he instantly faces backlash and prejudice, the post clearly bases its position on the premise that many women regardless of their views still hold those expectations from men, progressive women included, no guy is chasing a progressive women hoping for her to become trad, proof of it is passport bros, they c leave the country in search of more traditional women, they even state it,, i dont see them demanding "pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:26 PM
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Pff, if ever reach old age as a millionare and for some reason i end up single, i rather stay alone and spend my money on myself than to negotiate attraction and relationships, if you have to negotiate attraction just to enter a relationship you are losing hard, a man being "loved" for his money is no different than a woman being loved for her ass and boobs, if you really like this kind of agreement you re better off engaging into prostitution than to masquerade it as a relationship, that aint a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:18 PM
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The most common way to shame men is to make them believe there is something wrong with them for their preferences or desires. Lets look at the modest woman desire many guys have, wantint a virgin or a woman who never slept around and only dated nice guys, never engaged into hookup culture etc, even if you dont find it that important there is nothing wrong abou not finding someone attractive over that, you re not taking away womens rights or anything and all women can still live a happy life if t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:43 AM
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Painting anyone who doesnt wants a gold digger as broke or mediocre is a more common tactic.....lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 07:30 AM
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For all we know they could just take turns to penetrate women against their wills and every guy gets some, considering the fact that infanticide against female babies was common due to survival and population control in some hunter and gatherer societies making the male population significantly greater, i can definetly see the correlation and so do other researchers Also the behavior of bonobos may not be directly applicable to understanding the sexual behaviors of early human ancestors, as huma…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:27 PM
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My daughter will never be the toy of some pushy douchebag who only sees her as a body to release in, i ll make sure she picks better since the beginning, also i ll t teach her she aint entitled to love or relationships no matter what she does the same way i ll teach my son he aint owed special treatment by women just because he is a patient good guy who doesnt pressures women to sleep with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:53 PM
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What if it’s a woman who made mistakes and wants to be better now,Because she made bad calls in the past she must continue? Not my problem, she aint entitled to special treatment wether she changed or not the same way men arent wether they are nice guys who wait or not. If it was so important to her then she should ve gone for guys who are patient and not pushy since the beginning Your logic is victim mindset like you are missing out and it’s punishing to you No, i dont find that woman attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:05 PM
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I support it but i only with virgin or low n women who have never slept with anyone before 3 months, problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:49 PM
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Even less than the veracity of your trad man who went to a bar and approached a woman to vent about how modern women arent traditional and more obvious rage bait,
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:26 AM
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Im not questioning wether you get approached in bars or not, reading comprehension't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:15 AM
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In date? Probably, that a rando approached you in a bar to say all this? Doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:07 AM
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Is so made up to the point it is caricaturesque, the only things the dude forgot to say was the he is 40 and watches the fresh n fit podcast and he wants to marry multiple 16 yo virgins who have never seen a man while he plays video games and watches football and anime after he argues in a subreddit called ppd debate about why he is justified to have a have a harem of plates and bang, you got the full strawman for ppd karens to rage jerk each other to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:52 AM
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Ignoring the obvious fact this is falser than a 3 dollar bill, i can somewhat support a home and bring food to the table and i dont engage into casual sex, and im not fat nor overweight but im still improving my physical condition but i dont seek a submissive wife particulary, just a wife that is sexually attracted to me and i dont have to walk on eggshells just for her to keep her attraction, now, even though im closer to being traditional than modern, the truth is it doesnt makes me worthy of …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:02 AM
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It works because there is so many broken and confused people, in my opinion, if a woman reacts to game playing i dont think she is a suitable option, the same if she tries to play games, the solution i find for myself is to simply accept the fact that attraction takes time to bloom and not everywoman i meet can be a potential girlfriend, i just get to know them for a long time and see if something sparks, maybe the fact that i dont feel attracted by anyone at first sight makes it easier for me..…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:12 PM
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Hmm, even though i come from a more conservative background, it was never this extreme of "men work, women stay at home", it was more liberal than USAS conservative views but not as liberal as USAS progressives, i wonder if the fact that i was raised in a majoritary catholic enviorenment had something to do with it, i was never told women were supposed to serve me or something of that nature, and although women around me prefered to be home makers they still could choose to have careers if so th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:03 PM
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but only going fir virgin women, would strongly suggest you don’t like women having preferences or their own desires and you want to mould them to suit you That absolutely makes no sense and it is clear this is textbook gaslighting. You call me out if ever say non virgin women should have less rights, you call me out if i say high n women should be treated as lesser, you call me out of i say women should be ostracized depending on the number of partners they have, the day i do that you can call …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:30 PM
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False, my preference is not sexual, when i think about a virgin or low n woman i dont think "i would like to put my dick into her", i think "i would like to marry her, wine and dine her, ltr her", my preference is emotional, you re just gaslighter But regardless it is wise for any man to care into what they put their dick into considering the fact that stds are real and there are plenty of women who will ruin his life if chooses wrong, and no, just because i care about that doesnt means i dont c…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:51 PM
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What a ridiculous logic, if i though of women like if they were holes then i wouldnt even care about sexual past or relationships at all, the only thing that would matter for me would be sex, in fact i would only go for experienced women because they are easy lays, "experienced" women just arent my preference and i fail to see why they should. You re just grasping at straws.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:31 PM
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I do chores and know how to cook, but i only date virgin or low n women who have never done casual or fwb situasionships, problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:26 AM
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I dont know why people would disagree with this, when i learned that weakness was the main thing that made men unnattractive i got so much peace when i realized i could attract that woman i loved so much withouth being mean or an asshole towards her, withouth being scared that "oh no, if im too nice she will lose interest on me" not to mention what americans call "being nice" has nothing to do with being nice, knowing this granted me so much peace of mind when i was in pain, i experienced tranqu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:45 AM
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I ve been call tradcon before, although the only thing that makes me "trad" is that i like old school romance, you know, where you meet the girl, get to know each other for months, you make her gifts and you have potentially life lasting ltr with her, other than that, in my culture there never was this dichotonomy of men work while women stay at home, men dont look after their children etc, i would say the trad definition of my homeland is more liberal leaning than USA trad definition, although …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:34 AM
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What can i say, i once got a needy woman to like me enough to date me, i though i hit jackpot and i felt so good about myself......until she started to behave really toxic towards me, she was constantly trying to make me feel jealous and anxious, trying to provoke me to hit her physically, thanks God i never did but i admit one time i was about to, i ended up extremely heartbroken, jaded and resentful, everytime i tried to show love and appreciation towards her she would push me away, and the mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:05 PM
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On the bright side, if you learn to be content with yourself at least you ll be able to give yourself the luxury of a choice to the point that can choose the kind of woman you like, be it low n, virgin....i dont care, whatever you want, so the juice is worth the squeeze imo, the alternative is a life of loneliness, substance abuse and lamenting yourself watching women giving the love you need so much to men who abuse them and dont need them, not even promiscuous women will like you, use you prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:33 PM
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For the OF If it is only lewd content and nothing extreme then maybe, bonus points if she gifts me expensive stuff, pays for the dinner and we have sex on the first date, still a low n or virgin woman who does not do OF is always going to be my first option and i dont care if she gifts me stuff or lets me bang or whatever. For the pornstar, if she only does lesbian porn then yes, otherwise automatic disqualification in my book unless she also gifts me stuff. I ve always been into old school roma…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:47 AM
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Is not fantasy, is just the kind of woman i consider ideal for an LTR. I dont contribute nothing to women being shamed for sleeping around, i dont recall having said women who deviate from that ideal are worthless person, just that they arent my ideal partner and i fail to see why that makes it sexist when women can hold men to the same ideal if thats what they want, nothing stops them, now you bring some cultures who have a different approach, cool, i know places where men were considered inade…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:27 AM
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I fail to see how me having this ideal means i want women who dont fit it to fit it, like what sense does it makes to demand a woman who lets say has a high amount of sexual partners to become a virgin or a low n woman? I simply saying i want to set that standard and date women who fit it withouth so much slander, i couldnt care less if a high n woman isnt a virgin but i have the right to reject her as a potential partner over that. Seriously it doesnt makes sense if you think me holding this pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:07 AM
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For me it is more romantic, thats the reason why i fancy that, , i dont have any particular agenda or ideology about what women should be, im talking about my ideal partner, what problems would that bring? That some women will have a harder time finding partners because they dont fit that ideal? Women dont need men anymore so they ll be fine if men wont date them, it sucks? Maybe, but none of us are entitled to love and relationships are we? The same way incels arent owed anything by women i fai…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:22 PM
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Wrong why? Im not taking away womens rights nor hating on women who dont fit that ideal, maybe if i was saying i want a servant to masturbate myself in from time to time or that women who dont fit that ideal deserve less rights i could see why that would be wrong, but im not advocating for that nor talking from a pragmatic pov but an idealistic one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:41 PM
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Asuming they re responsible providers? Or are we talking about couch potatos who live of welfare?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:23 AM
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Common courtesy is only given to men who meet women standards so i guess i should do this regardless of wether women meet my standards or not, still i wont be rude or disrespectful towards them, i ll just go and happily date that kind of woman i cherish
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:19 AM
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But a lazy fat ass can still be a good partner doesnt him? Not the most attractive choice but he can still be a good boyfriend, husband, father? So why the strong man and not him? Im not talking about an obese guy who would be starred in my 600lbs life, just a guy who is fat like jonah hill or Hagrid from harry potter or maybe Josh Peck when he was a teenager.....Okay.......Lets say im not a lazy fat-ass but im a scrawny wimpy guy who can barely lift 33 pounds, physically weak compared to the av…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:13 AM
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As long as they leave me alone when i go for the women who do meet my standards i wont complain, cuz by that same logic im not obliged to consider them an attractive choice am i? I mean women are openly cruel and horrible towards guys who dont meet their standards no matter how petty or trivial they can be and everyone applauds them "yes queen, dont settle for less, you go girl, know your worth, men who dont meet them are mediocre dusties etc", if they can, then i think there shouldnt be any pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:57 AM
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True, they deserve the best....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:44 AM
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If i do, can i date a virgin or at least a low n woman? she doesnt has to go to the gym and she can be a bit chubby, i dont mind, so if i do this, can i set that standard for my potential partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:14 AM
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Men have been raised to be weak and co-dependent, imagine u give a kid highly addictive drugs, what would happen? That kid grows up to be a junkie, now replace drugs with validation, respect and attention particulary from fEmAlEs and what do we get? We get men who believe they have to be horrible people just to be accepted by a cheap ass cum dumpster, we get men who give up their dignity so a whore gives them their thumbs up, with get men that waste their hard earned money in search of the love …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:11 AM
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All humans breath oxygen. Ok pointless argument you just keep trying to attack me and my "hability" to get women because you cant take it that a man tells you no, thats a you problem not me, are you a promiscuous hoe or something? Sorry to break it up to you but saying men love em is as delusional as saying women love guys with 10kdr at call of duty, only difference is that we dont tell men the opposite, grow up and get over the fact that not anyone who disagress with you is a "desperate" little…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:37 AM
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Asking how many people have you slept with is generally a red flag but you can ask things around their experience 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:29 AM
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Or maybe he was raised to believe asking those questions is inappropiate cuz u know "none of your business muhsogynist, what do u take me for?" stuff Regardless i dont think having to interrogate someone makes for a pleasant dating experience
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:20 PM
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Like i said, convince yourself that i get no pussy if that helps u sleep at night, it changes absolutely nothing for me nor the outside world
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:16 PM
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Sure, i wont destroy your illusion that a man who rejects certain women is a loser basement dweller 12 yo whatever if that helps u sleep at night, reality proves you wrong anyways😎 but i ll be nice and keep your fragile ego intact
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:53 PM
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Sure then 🤣, if that helps u sleep at night then yes, i ll play along and tell u that my dick is small so u dont feel bad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:41 PM
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I cant relate to anything u said neither but sure, convince yourself that im basement dweller who gets no "pussy" if that helps u sleep better at night🤣, doesnt changes the fact that no man likes whores just like no woman likes weaklings,
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:12 PM
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The complain is not that women sleep around or not, the complain is that there are women who sleep around but then pretend they dont to give a false appearence of status, imagine a guy who pretends to be all strong and independent only to realize he pays for only-fans content, of course u would hate that mfker, for men who value relationships they are being offered the worst of both worlds, they get a woman who is easy but just not for them, and pretends she isnt, and you think it is unfair they…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 07:01 PM
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This is partly due to the stigma against women sleeping around, women are scared that if we sleep with a man too early he will never respect us. So basically she is a fraud, im pretty sure he wouldnt have a problem with it if she hadnt had threesomes nor ons in the past or at least was honest about it, idk why that is so hard for you all to understand, sounds like intentionally avoiding the point to not take responsibility, men are allowed to date whoever they please, and if they dont want to da…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:46 PM
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Nobody likes whores, case closed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:36 PM
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At this point incel is just a modern version of "witch" in the medieval times, stop, guy literally got called a mysoginist, abuser and insecure by everyone there, even the mods, he didnt even say anything hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:31 PM
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Making him believe there is a problem with himself because he rejects a slut for relationships is clear gaslighting, there is no base to call him an abuser, insecure and a mysoginist other than to make him accept that situation so he doesnt feels nor is seen like any of those negative adjectives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:24 PM
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It is pretty clear men dont like whores, otherwise no guy would complain about situations like these
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 06:06 PM
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This story is based on occurences where women explicitely admit "my husband was a good provider, a good father and a good man but im not feeling it anymore", and then she goes for a guy who is far from any of those things and is actually kind of a prick, those situations are probably more complex than what they look like but any guy, specially a young one who reads that would end up concluding that being a good man means jack shit, they re not wrong though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 02:39 PM
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Powerful men cant be locked with sexuality, if that actually happens then said man is a weakling, just look at what kind of men pay for only fans content or look what kind of men give women promotions and benefits because of their sexuality, a woman's sexuality is a commodity only to the undesireable
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:36 AM
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Its just way less important than dating so you don't hear them complain about it I dont thinks thats the reason why they dont complain, a woman complaining about how men dont pay for her only fans would destroy her reputation beyond repair and these women know it, thats why they dont complain about it openly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 08:22 AM
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Those two statements are contradictory, either they want the normal girl or casual with party sluts, but if they re after casual then obviously they wouldnt give a fck about the girl that doesnt looks down for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:42 AM
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I dont know you, but i had an internal conflict similar to your situation until i realized that i was commiting a big mistake, i was being "kind and compassionate"(cringe) in hopes of being accepted and validated by women because i didnt accept myself and i was needy, so is not that women punished me, is just that i ended with the women who nobody else wanted, and they werent precisely ugly, they were hot according to many fuckboys, they were party sluts, promiscuous hoes, call it whatever, i wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:22 PM
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I’m sure a fat person has no interest in dating you. These blanket statements are getting old.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:38 PM
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Funny, the only ones suffering are the ones struggling while the supposed assholes get all the love fun and respect, this just shows that "ur personality is the problem" is total bullshit, honestly it doesnt matter, if being an asshole gets you laid then so be it, it is the womans fault for enabling it, nobody put a gun to her face and forced her, in fact if that was the case then all men except psychopaths would feel empathy for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:21 PM
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The real problem is that many men act like beggars in their dating lives, they just meet a rando and are already idealizing her, making her the center of her life, thinking that she is their only chance to be happy, all bunch of things that are product of imagination simply because they feel desperate and needy, that kind of mindset will always attract those kind of women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:26 PM
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Because you re all upfront about your little strategy right? U absolutely do not pretend and hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:10 PM
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A woman cant use a man for sex, the only one used for sex is the woman, i dont care what ridiculous strategies you employ, if u were upfront about ur shenanigans then i can guarantee no man would complain as they could make an informed choice, but u not gonna tell a man "i fuck men on the first date but i will make you wait because u re so special" no, you will pretend and deceive him because u know the majority of guys worth a damn wont take that, liars, frauds and hypocrites is what you all ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:08 PM
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So why deceive him by pretending u re a goody to shoes when in reality u are easy just not for him? If women were honest about it then this wouldnt be an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:54 PM
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If you were attractive your girlfriend wouldn't cheat on you, that's basic. Rober pattinson👀, jhonny deep👀, nick carter👀,justin timberlake👀,dennis quaid👀, will smith👀👀👀👀 Lets see what bullshit excuse will you make now "no no no, they werent really attractive because they were millionares not billionares" what a retarded take, a shitty woman will be shitty to any guy, attractive or not, the only difference is that attractive guys dont take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:27 AM
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Haha, im not the one throwing monkey shit and monkey screeches when someone says "i wouldnt date a woman because of her sexual past" so if they actually want to be alone they seem to take it really personally when a guy, specially an attractive one, abides with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:20 AM
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Lmao sure a woman will drop an attractive guy because he would rather play football than to watch drama shows, i think you are the one lacking experience here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:10 AM
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Don't forget men always think they are attractive. Now you lost us if u argue this is true, which is blatantly false, the proof is this sub, the majority of men here describe themselves as average at best, so if ur argument to paint the posters as basement dwellers is that "if u think u re attractive then you re not" everything you said becomes totally invalidated, and just so you know, attractive men can get rejected too, they can get cheated too, they can receive shittyness from women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:27 AM
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Because when you have experience, you end up with a lot more requirements Yes, n counts for example, when i was sad and alone i couldnt give a single shit, i just wanted someone to fill my void, high n count or not i didnt care, now that i can give myself the luxury of a choice, i wont settle. And you learn that there actually aren't that many available women that meet your requirements. Yes, thats why i dont care if a woman has the same tastes as me, or if she studied a career or not, or if she…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:54 AM
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Worst, the majority of social media pictures are photoshopped af, combine with the filters that many people use nowadays we re living in a false appearences dystopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:44 AM
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Is not desire based on recognition, is more like something a woman inspires you to be, thats my case, my girl rn, i love her, she is the most precious thing in the world and i want her to be safe a live a life with less suffering and worries as possible, and i dont want anything bad to happen to her, thats what i feel, thats what drives me to act like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:42 AM
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You got no idea, it 's the opposite, when a man doesnt wants to be in a relationship but just want sex or just get experience he doesnt cares about n count, he wont turn down a high n woman, in fact majority of guys who go for high n woman do so because they believe she will put out easily, but when i comes to relationships men arent that liberal specially if they can give themselves the luxury of a choice, ultimatedly less past = less issues, less problems, less lies, less secrets, less chances…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:42 AM
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If it is a 50/50 relationship and theres sex fast on the first stages then yes, if im still expected to fill my role as the masculine provider protector and to wait and establish commitment to the leftovers of all the fraternity douchebags then beat it, i didnt spent so much time building myself to be the safety net and pay for the damaged goods i didnt break of some dumb whore who just wants to leech off of me because she feels good men owe her something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:24 AM
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Why do you assume the majority of men despise or hate the women they sleep with? When i was teen the majority of women i knew always told me about how all men were liars a manipulators and tried to trick them into bed, they would talk to me about how i shouldnt pursue casual because only assholes who want to use women do that, conversely, most of the players i know told me they pursue casual with women they dont see a future with or dont care about, they dont despise them but they feel disgust w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:16 AM
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These men with experience and options aren't gonna pick n as their top priority, unless they aren't serious anyway, Blatantly false, n count comes into question when ltrs are on the horizon, it is a dealbreaker if it doesnt meets a certain range.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:54 AM
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Getting over it i speculate, at least life isnt over because of that and as long as you re attractive u can always find that person you re so into, there are negative aspects of dating? Yes, does that mean dating sucks? No, u can always meet awesome people but u must be awesome yourself too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 11:04 PM
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Dating is judgemental by default, stop painting it as something bad, thats hypocritical and not how the real world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:04 PM
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For casual sex? The men who are into that mindset will fuck nearly everything a long as the woman isnt hideous looking, since casual sex is mostly about how easy to trick into bed the woman is. For LTR? Different men want different things, as man who doesnt has a history of casual sex nor meaningful encounters the most important thing is that she is a woman i consider precious and worthy of protection, looks do matter but to a small extend, as long as the woman isnt hideous nor a pain in the ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:56 PM
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Some no, many do, they arent the norm but they arent uncommon either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:50 AM
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There are women who indeed do think that, i ve met them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:50 PM
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i wont particulary fancy a woman because she has clean teeth but a woman wtih bad breath and dirty teeth is an instant deal breaker, i guess u can call it the bare minimun lmao ¯_(ツ)_/¯ Imma write this down
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:43 PM
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we all dislike excessive bodyfat and uncontrolled eating. And the main difference is that is impossible to hide it unlike a history of meaningless sex with people of dubtious quality, thats why we see more people disagree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:03 PM
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It is called desperation and fear of being alone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:00 PM
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R/RedditMoment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:57 PM
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Wanting a virgin or a low n count woman isnt unreasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:48 PM
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If u live in a place where there isnt a hookup culture nor a "bad boys are fun" syndrome then is unlikley for men to complain about that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:45 PM
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Only mediocre and shallow women experience something like this, honestly any woman that thinks good looking guy = toxicity and bad person is a woman that doesnt deserves your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:38 PM
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Caught in 4k
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 02:22 PM
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It stills unnaceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 12:08 PM
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So why do women make the rest of men wait weeks or months for sex? I have no idea. Other than she doesn't think it will be good sex. Why do women want to date men they know are lackluster in bed? I think it's cuz most men are and women just accept their fate. A lot of women here admit they only have sex so quick if the man isnt boyfriend material so you tell me why the men here are so frustrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:55 AM
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If a man isn’t strong and assertive it’s because he either doesn’t want to or physically can’t be. It’s not society’s fault (though blaming society is pretty much the hallmark of weak, passive people). False, many men get gaslighted into being nice guys under the premise that women wont like them otherwise and they owe them that because men are trash, the worst, the reason why these poor angels called women suffer so much Why is it that everytime any issue that a man suffers even though it is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 04:44 PM
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Neither, they put those quotes to pretend their posts arent about vanity and clout chasing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:06 PM
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It depends on who says it, if it is a woman who has an acceptable past or is a virgin, husband material is a compliment, if it is a woman with a history of casual sex, fwb and over all meaningless sex, being called husband material by a woman like that triggers a man fight of flight response. Also i dont understand why, if that kind if woman wants to be wife material,but knowingly does things that make her look like a hoe under the excuse that "i dont see this guy as bf material so i dont care a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:43 AM
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"doing whatever I feel like doing but masquerading it as some sort of just cause or moral action so people dont judge me" Just like those people who upload instagram posts full of vanity or superficial stuff ie "picture of the ass, expensive watch" etc, and then put an inspirational generic quote on the desc to divert the attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:33 AM
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Since im with a woman i cherish, it motivates me a lot,i already went a self improving journey but when it met my woman i felt extra motivated, i think about how i would like her to live a good life and not lack anything, even though she works, it motivates me to work harder and keep her safe, when i feel lazy and i dont want to do the grind i just think about her and it passes, i dont gain anything from her at all, but i never went for her because of what i could gain, im with her because i fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:25 AM
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Why is he getting a vasectomy then if supposedly he fills all your standards and you want kids someday?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:31 AM
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Thats why op isnt dating a man that fulfills all the demands she masquerades as "high standards" ✌️🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:25 AM
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Okay, tattooless virgins only, otherwise beat it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:47 AM
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Cognitive dissonance hits ppd crazies hard when it comes to proving a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:53 AM
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told you how she used to have a fuck buddy? They obviously not gonna share that little fact with a man they re dating for obvious reasons, you all talk so much about men but you all can be so damn dense many times...sometimes i wonder if you only do that cuz your cognitive dissonace got triggered
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:52 AM
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Blaming the suicide rates of men on gun ownership is such an anti scientific and i dare say bad faith argument, specially because your argument implies that women are forbidden from gun ownership when in reality it isnt, any place where guns are legal women can acces them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:10 PM
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From man to woman is a gesture of interest and respect, he doesnt treats her as a sex object and wants to give her more, from woman to man is deceptive, manipulative and entitled, she is giving a false image in hopes of leeching off of him, it makes her a value sucker who wants to take from him , i dont make the rules, i just observe them ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:17 PM
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Idk how to explain it, im not one that falls at first sight, however convos with me are relaxing and things flow, i dont control if i fall for someone or not, but when a woman that likes me talks with she doesnt has to walk on eggshells nor lose her dignity for me to like her, not that that would charm me anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:12 PM
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Emotional gaslighting and manipulation generally, but the guys probably deserved it cuz how dare them dump a woman? Only women can dump men, niqqas who dump a woman are just arrogant assholes who believe they are above women, they should feel grateful they even got a relationship in first place, the audacity of these assholes to not put women on a pedestal and vow and idolize the godesses that give them life and value, cuz we women decide if a man is worthy of living or not. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:46 AM
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Anyone can be guilty of that regardless of gender bro, maybe the women he has been with are like that indeed, but that doesnt means all women are like that, it means that a woman, just like a man, can be flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:41 AM
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You re extremely lucky then,
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:36 AM
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Yes, women can do no wrong, is only men the ones who oppress the poor angels called women, every wrong thing that a woman does to a man is warranted because he probably did something bad, niqqas aint shit, we re kweens, we re superior to dem filthy pigs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:32 AM
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I completely agree with you on that hill. "I cheated on you but i love you so i want to make it work" sounds better than "I find you repulsive but at least i get something from you so please dont dump me". I noticed this from the femenine side at least, whenever they say "I just want a nice guy who treats me right and gives me a relationship and bla bla bla" sounds better than "I want a guy who takes whatever trash i throw at his face witouth question and serves all my whims and gives me status …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:06 PM
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They can be or they cant be, but surely that kind of mindset of "give me, give me and give me" wont bring virtuous people to your life, wether you re a man or a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:20 PM
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The comment aboves states that human relationships are crappy because your partner wont a souless machine who will fullfil all your whims and orders on command while you basically are just there, which makes me wonder which one is the truly crappy human relationship dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:18 PM
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They are definetly not "oppresed" like they claim to be, thats for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 02:52 PM
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Having a synthetic life partner that constantly does chores and is available to you for you and whatever your needs are and has the ability to create the illusion of companionship 🤔🤔🤔 would replace the crappy human dynamic in an instant 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔Hmmmmmmm, me, me,me and me eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 01:45 PM
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None, people will still have relationships in general, the ones who will go towards sex and companion bots are the ones who already struggle withouth them in first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 01:23 PM
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Keyword "online"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:55 PM
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For the same reason raped, physically and psycologically abused women have a hard time empathizing with men in general
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:50 PM
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Thats because generally speaking sex is seen as a validation stamp men get from women, not viceversa
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:42 PM
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Women empowerment and men humilliation sells, simple as that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:39 PM
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Yes, and not only me, those corporate platitudes work excellent....in corporate enviorenments, in dating you ll only end up being a thumbs up chaser and the guy that make the less effort will win anyways? Why? Cuz it doesnt matter how fun you are or whatever, if a woman doesny liked you like that no ammount of jokes, efforts, or achievements will change that, and if u go that route then you wont be satisfied with the kind of woman you will end up anyways, it wont be a king and queen relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 06:37 PM
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The moment you try and do that you already failed when it comes to dating
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:45 PM
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This is a huge lie product of the fact that we men are conditioned to believe we need women in our lives, but in reality it isnt true, dont believe me? Men are the ones constantly fed messages of inferiority and how they have to make up for whatevee oppression women of older generationa faced, music always has songs about how "niqq@s aint nothing", everybody always applaud like NPCs everytime there are jokes, media or whatever portrays a woman who dominates and straight up abuses a man, and men …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:43 PM
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The point of the post is that being a mysoginistic asshole isnt their problem, proof of it? There ar mysoginistic assholes who do get laid a lot, you see women complaining about that hot but abusive asshole of a man their ex was.....or maybe those women are lying to save face and reputation and in reality those men arent the mysoginistic assholes they paint them to be🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:44 PM
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Considering the fact that men are shamed if the non judgemental parade dont approve of their tastes, it wouldnt surprise me if they arent just repeating the same trash they are fed by the women that complain about "fat "shaming" as in general there are many men who would change their behavior to suit whatever a woman wants in hopes of getting some attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:25 AM
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This came off a discussion that women give attention and sex up to the wrong men too easily. Instead of the right men - aka those that are kind, decent and want commitment. Any man who believes that is definetly giving attention to the wrong women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 08:49 PM
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What a trash response but just for the sake of the argument: here is a one of many examples Misandry is real, so real that it has even been normalized, women can make hateful dissrespectful comments towards men and everybody will side with her, when a man does the same, even if he has a valid reason...no need to go explain what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 05:22 PM
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Im pretty sure that a guy being told that women are superior and he needs them because otherwise he is worthless if women dont approve of him wont influence any negative nor entitled feelings towards them.....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 04:32 PM
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People dont get hurt because they see each others as possessions people get hurt because there was a compromise that was broken, is the same as a friend who promised to take u to ur house after a night out but instead he finds some other friends midnight and then leaves you on your own, or a friend that drops plans with you the momment something better happens, such shitty behavior obviously would annoy anyone, it is a matter of integrity, if u dont want to be monogamous then go poly and do what…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:09 PM
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I agree it’s a problem, but women are people, and you can’t control them. The value that women bring to relationships is mostly intangible vs what the man brings, and that’s why our court system is the way that it is. Men carry the seed, and it’s their responsibility to make sure it doesn’t go near any eggs. So why can women control men then?...no, why are men obliged to abide by any control women try to impose on then, men cant justify whatever trash they throw at a womans face by "men are just…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:48 PM
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A lot of women try that approach because they hope the guys falls for them, others because they find it validating, others because at least they get some pleasure, i dont know why you all keep pushing this notion that women do no wrong and whatever short coming they have is on behalf of men,. Said and done, a lot of women talk about how much x or y ex-boyfriend was or how many abusers they have dated, mysoginist, assholes and abusers get laid more than the average joe who would clean the dishes …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:20 PM
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Idk about you, but when i was younger i used to believe my life was bad if women didnt approve of me, so i needed romantic attention from them, i was so wrong, now that im older i realize i dont need it.....and i never needed it, dont get me wrong, i do like relationships and i have a girlfriend, but my life would not be worst if i were single nor it makes me worthless, when you believe the solution to whatever you lack is a relationship, more "popular" friends, more money or material stuff, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:07 AM
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This is pretty accurate to a lot of women's advice. Then, if you clarify you're looking to get laid, they'll respond like: "Oh, so you want to use women?!?! Rapist." And then proceed to shame you when you refuse to accept their casual sex history.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 12:30 PM
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Historically sexual behavior and promiscuous sexual behavior was participated in by members of the group and the tribe. It was done to build and strengthen close attachments with people that you knew and trusted. Humans have never had meaningless sex. Sex has always been used as a means to bond, procreate, or as a form of torture via rape. Meaningless sex with strangers has never been a part of human culture or human behavior at all. Interesting point, meaningless sex has always been a turn off …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 05:36 PM
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If u re uncomfortable with it then in a way it can affect the way you behave in everything you do, i used to be very thin and unathletic, i definetly felt weak and unconfident to defend myself, so i became a bit of a pushover out of fear which definetly didnt help me make friends let alone get dates, it all changed when i got stronger, so definetly being confident in your body affects ur sex life. You have to remember that we men just dont talk about these things mostly because we get severely p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:54 PM
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Well, regarding women, neediness is an strong attraction killer for them, but i want you to be aware is that if you dont need them now, you didnt need them back then, you just though you did, true love doesnt comes from neediness, and when you talk to women from a pace of fulfilment and content with yourself, the change of meeting an awesome woman with whom u can have an amazing and everlasting relationship are extremely high, but none of that will make u happy if u arent happy by yourself, that…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 01:49 PM
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)After posting a question on reddit it turned out that the vast majority of women would want a threesome with another man if their partner was okay with it. Keyword reddit, a place where a man dumping a woman makes him controlling, or if he refuses to take whatever trash a woman throws at his face makes him low value, anyways, the simple fact that woment want sexual exclusivity with attractive men dissproves this claim, cuz sure all women who date a guy out of convinience couldnt give a single f…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:51 PM
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This is nonsense, if u fall for it then u re the idiot, i dont see why it is the responsibility of men who do not fool around to look out for idiotic women that fall for superficiality, the quantity of men who can pull that off is miniscule and the women that get "played" by them werent looking for a person but a wallet and source of clout and status, reap what you sow and stop playing victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:37 PM
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sex from female slaves was expected More like rape, that was something normal back then, as twisted as it sounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 07:43 PM
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If you're a man, have you had women make you wait while sleeping fast with other men? Once, but the crucial part was that i wasnt aware of it, i never been a guy who engages into casual sex nor i have an interest in it, i have always prefered relationships, this woman came and we started dating, but she always said she doesnt wants to get intimate too soon, that she wasnt like that and all that nonsense, that she liked how i was and admired my values, that i didnt push for sex like other guys we…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:03 PM
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In a few words, i believe it is social conditioning, nothing else. When i was younger i used to get a lot of shame and ridicule because i wasnt hooking up with no one, you are basically made to feel worthless because you re not getting relationships, sex or whatever is considered validating from a woman, i managed to grow out of it after suffering a lot, but that shit still causes me rage from time to time, it might sound ridiculous but at such young age withouth nobody to guide you, you can end…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:34 PM
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Emotionally they are completely different to one that doesnt engages into casual stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:19 PM
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This went from "slut shaming" to "religion and politics" really fast
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:17 PM
5

Ok picture your man having had gay encounters in the past but "he isnt like that anymore"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 04:13 PM
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Stable men dont owe her that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:38 AM
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If you actually read his comment, he is saying that women only see commitment as a tool to use men and leech off of them so they only look for weak and easily manipulable men, not that they dont want commitment, so you re basically telling him "We do want to use men, just not you" is that supposed to be a good thing or a bad thing?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 10:17 AM
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In a way he is implying that those women are nothing but poor inocent angels who ended up with demons, cuz if those women were idk, unnattractive, high n count or whatever he dislikes then he wouldnt give even a quarter of a single F
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:33 AM
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A woman that is good in the head wont tolerate it if you treat her poorly, so unless you wanna end up with a high n count woman who sucks all your value, shames you for wanting intimacy, cheats on you but her excuse is "it was just sex not love" and destroys you emotinally, then you must be polite, being nice doesnt means you have to be a servant, just be natural, common courtesy not just with women but with everyone, dont adjust your behavior to please entitled value suckers, that makes you bor…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 10:31 AM
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A lot are, there wouldnt be so much frustration otherwise, you cant deny that men are told not to treat women as sex objects but on the other hand are told to accept them as one ie dont slut shame and take wathever trash the town bycicle throws at your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:00 AM
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I have no GF This isnt a problem, a woman will never make you happy, only you can make yourself fulfilled and content, and ironically when you are content ans fulfilled by yourself you will attract a woman with whom you can have a relationship where you ll truly be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 08:57 AM
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Many men are told that they shouldnt demand that from their SO, that those things are unrealistic and product of a vision twisted by porn....and that women absolutely hate it, as such, many men try to make an effort, if it werent because then they realize their so actually did those things specially with supposedly they dont "respect", thats enough to raise anyones eyebrows, i would definetly feel lied.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:33 PM
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Im not a man that pursues casual sex, whoever i dont understand why would a woman get intimate with a man she barely knows, my whole life i was raise to believed that women despised being seen as sex objects so i dont see why would encourage that behavior, and is not like a woman that i barely know or barely knows me wanting to do that with me on the first date makes her a bad person, mostly is her character and judgement what comes into question, but u barely know her, i dont know if i would ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 09:08 AM
1

Yes they are in their natural state, in the current times, despite all the comforts and protections we get from all technological states, men and women have been fed a lot of garbage that has messed with their perception of the world and their behavior, a lot of men for example have been taught that they must be codependent doormats who pedestalize women all for their sake and because thats what women like, as we men have been socially conditioned to have no purppose other than getting laid, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:45 AM
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The moment you re trying to "buy" sexual access you already failed, if you really follow that paradigm then you re better off hiring you already know who, not that i recommend you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 11:52 AM
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There was a time i was struggling with dating, the only advice that actually helped me was given by men, no woman on the other hand could give me any good advice, most of times it just made me more frustrated, bitter, hopeless and hateful, not that they had bad intentions towards me, they simply couldnt give me a good advice, not to mention the views of contempt and condescending attitudes i got when i was vulnerable enough to admit i struggled with dating..by women😬, So yes, definetly i dont re…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:29 PM
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What would have been of einstein, genghis khan, siddartha, gandhi, marco aurelius, bruce lee and almost any man who achieved great things throughout history withouth a woman to clean the dishes of the house like lmao, you all love to talk about how strong and indendent you are but at the same time try to gaslight men into becoming condependent doormats who need the god chosen angels to so damn much otherwise they are incapable of nothing, if men did the same they would be called hypocritical scu…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:59 PM
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"I just want a nice guy that treats me good and is always attentive and he is always avaiable and lets me lead and doesnt likes sex and.." who are the ones that always say those dumb things to explain attraction? Clue:not men. Sorry but men arent the ones that hide their lack of integrity with "I just dont feel it anymore". The stereotype of "women dont actually mean what they say or know what they want" exist for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:43 PM
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The real reason is that women werent raised to believe their self value comes from men but rather the other way, they decide which men is worthy of living and which one is not, men on the other hand are called inferior since an early age if mommy doesnt approves of them, as such many men grow desperate because "if i dont get women everyone will think im a loser and i have no value, if i dont get women im worthless as a man" thats why many men on average are desperate while women arent, ironicall…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 08:31 PM
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Looks or status, and just hang around at parties or places where drugs and false appeareances are involved and problem solved....if u can take it of course. All women who got "lied" about a relationship in reality where just after status, so there is really no difference between lying about a relationship and just being sex "positive"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:01 AM
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If u want to get laid just look for women who are down for that, just act sex "positive" around them and you ll trick them into bed or whatever, after all, those are the same women that would fall for this, so you get the same + u dont get the negative energy that comes with it, not that u get any positive feelings from sleeping around
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:48 AM
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I met a girl who already had a boyfriend, but she just showed a lot of interest in me withouth me really doing anything other than just happening to be near her, we frequented the same place but i barely interactes with her, and she wasnt what your average men here would call hot, she was average, now keep in mind that at that time i didnt have my own car nor a job nor nothing, nor i was a party boy who had bitches in line to be heartbroken, i was a normal guy, im not a thundercock coochie slaye…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 07:41 PM
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Men do want relationships, just not with u 💔
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 06:30 PM
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Noo, it is the other way around, organisms that are better suited for their environnments will survive and pass their traits, organisms that arent wont, thats what darwin called natural selection, the population that survived was already suited for it, and that population happened to be better suited for it out of randomness, a mutation doesnt has to be benefitial either, blue eyes on humans are an example of it, it is believed that such mutation happened in europe around 6000 to 10000 years ago…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 11:03 AM
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No no, what i mean is that natural selection has no purppose, it doesnt aims to make the species better or worst, natural selection simply happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:30 PM
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Yes, random mutations that simply happened to fit that criteria, what it means is that natural selection isnt scripted nor has a purppose, it just happens, for example giraffes didnt develop longer necks because trees were tall, what happened was that some giraffes mutated and developed longer necks, wich coincidentially benefitted them over giraffes with shorter necks, but it didnt happen because natural selection wanted it, it simply happened out of chance, it happened with no purppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:12 PM
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Oh pls, why do they suddenly want a relationship when the guy has money or clout they can leech off?, Why do they act all "hard to get" until the guy they can take the most from wont just fall for then beacause woohoo, whatever socially inept women do, if they ruin their own lives and perception of men, particulary attractive ones with their own stupidity, that isnt my problem, if you cant find any reedeming quality on a man other than "oh hes so handsome, everybody would envy me" "oh he has so …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:05 PM
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Another misconception is that natural selection is a pre programed phenomenon that has already stablished wich traits will pass and which not , in reality natural selection is just something that happens, like an organism suddenly developing a mutation that benefits it, it simply happened out of randomness, it didnt happen because natural selection wanted it, it is not uncommon for organisms to develop mutations that do not benefit them in their current enviorenment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:43 PM
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, almost all the cases in where this happens the woman just made a story in her head about how supposedly this guy will magically see how good she is and fall for her or she was just trying to suck value, they dont move on because they arent with someone attractive, they move on cuz THEY NEVER WANTED A RELATIONSHIP IN FIRST PLACE AND THEY NEVER GAVE A HINT OF IT, and the only reason they move on is because the woman will put an ultimatum on them, this are nothing more than the delusions socially…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:32 PM
1

Only entitled value suckers overstimate or diminish the importance of it, in a relationship between two healthy individuals sex naturally happens and it is enjoyable even in the most vanilla ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 03:06 PM
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Attractive men have no reason to lie or pretend, they will always find a woman who will be down to fuck even if she wants a relationship, if she refuses he can just go somewhere else, cuz as it has been already stated, there is always a woman who is into him even if she knows there wont be a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:54 PM
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Not really, attractive men do fall in love, there are plenty who do care, HOWEVER, they wont commit because "im a guy who values relationships", they commit because they find the woman is worth it, what i mean is that at the end of the day they still give their time, energy and effort to women who they are attracted to, they just dont do that out of duty, responsibility or obligation or because they are nice or because he just does, you dont want your man to see you as an obligation anyways, do …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 02:48 PM
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I find it therapeutic to throw insults towards the women i detest here, it feels relieving to do so, also i have the hope that there is a little chance of a man that has a similar background to me to see my comments and clears his doubts to stand up against the gaslighting the crazies might throw at him, outside of reddit, well since i got a girlfriend that i cherish and she fits all my personality standards, i dont talk about anything related towards PPD nor i worry about the shenanigans ppd ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:26 PM
1

Good thing that many men dont value women for whatever sexual favors they can give.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 12:07 PM
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This is not true, the dislike comes from the fact that many women use that tactic to give a false impression of value, "im not slut that sleeps with a man easily" when in reality she does, np if u do but dont pretend you dont, nobody wants to date a fraud who is not congruent with what they preach, picture a guy who talks all high and mighty about how much he "respects" women only to find out he became the biggest tipper at the pole dance club in exchange for some "favors". There are a lot of me…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 01:19 PM
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All of that depends on the kind of woman you re dating,the truth about boyfriend material is that many women see him as a source of status and other vapid attributes they can leech off, they dont like him as a person, they just see him as someone that fits the concept of a relationship so they can feel good whenever their friends ask them "who is your boyfriend?" , It doesnt matter how you present yourself, if you have your life in order parasytes will still want a piece of the cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:59 PM
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How? No matter how much a woman wants you, if you tell her no then both of you wont be together.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:45 PM
1

The ones that struggle arent the ones that reject said women, in fact they would take anything, but even that is hard to get for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:20 PM
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Men do consent, two people are not together if one doesnt wants to. Even a man who struggles or takes whatever he can gets, he is still conseting at the end of the day because he isnt forced to be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 04:13 PM
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What i tell a man is to stop thinking that all women are well intentioned and that any woman will do, be selective, just dont date one because she is the only one that gives you attention, i also tell them to stop tying their self worth to wether they have a partner or not. To women i tell nothing, since they all were raised to know they always have a choice and they are the superior sex, so if i woman ends up with an abusive men she deserves it since she picked him, women always have options so…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 07:38 AM
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As far as im concerned , for many men thats the only women that pays some attention to them, others just look for crazy because they dont feel guilty after pumping and dumping her, but the truth is, most of those nice guys you see running after her really have no other options, or if they have, it is the same kind of woman, is not this "crazy vs nice girl" dichotonomy like "bad boy vs nice guy", it is just "crazy vs loneliness".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 09:09 PM
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It is depending on the woman you are with, some women are just no fun, and when i say no fun i dont mean they dont entertain me, i mean they make you feel straight up like shit, furtonetaly for me almost all the women i have dated (very few, not many) were enjoyable and fulfilling, otherwise i would have gone down the fuckboy rabbithole long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 01:31 PM
1

How difficult can that be? I mean isnt the common trope of nice guys finish last bad boys always win exist for a reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:46 PM
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hate for women begins and ends with not being given a chance in the first place. I believe their hatred steems from the fact that they are considered losers and failures as men because they dont get some woman to approve of them, so they asume that because women dont want them, nobody respects them, ergo it is all womens' fault, thats what happen when you raise a man to believe he is inferior to women and ge must catter to them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 01:36 PM
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Prudes don’t like sex, prudes aren’t experimental This is simply no true, they do like it, but not with just anyone. If sex makes you feel “used” then you’re probably not into sex very much. Otherwise, why would you feel “used” There is a difference between intimacy and just being the masturbation machine of some guy who just wants to release and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:52 AM
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What a repulsive way of diminish the suffering of someone through shaming tactics like this, i personally know a guy who can be considered an incel, the reason for his hatred is because during his high school years he waa bullied into self hate by some girls at his school, his hatred came from the fact that he was mocked because "what a loser, he gets picked on by a girl" but the moment he tried to defend himself everybody attacked him because "only pussies hit a girl", it doesnt surprises me th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:43 AM
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the common trope is that the guy in his 20s is not worthy but now that he is succesful in his 30s then he is when it is time to settle down but no fun nor openess to him because "im not young anymore, i have matured", otherwise he would most likely be married so he wouldnt even be talking to the 35+ woman. So it isnt the fact that she is 35+, it is the context, in this kind of situations it is also asumed that the woman is a shadow of what she once was and whoever dates her just get the leftover…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:06 PM
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"they pick different partners for different purpposes" is not an argument to claim that men and women do the same thing when the complaint is not that women pick men for casual and other for ltr, the complaint is the kind of men they pick and the treatment they both get, end of the story, i already showed you how wifey material gets infinetly way better treatment than husband material not to mention that men do not divide between "wifey material and attractive"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:41 PM
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But the argument was wether you liked casual or not, not if you liked sex, someone who never tried casual can still like sex, just not on a casual setting, proof of it is that they have no interest in trying casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:36 PM
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Don’t dip your unwrapped dick into anyone if you can’t cope with the consequences Dont let any unwrapped dicks into yourself if you cant deal with the consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:33 PM
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i dont see why i should let someone to wrong do me just because "everyone has good in them", u go and deal with all the trash they throw at your face if you care so much about their issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:32 PM
1

Ur loss, cant do more for you if the first thing you came up with are petty responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:24 PM
1

The desire is still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:22 PM
1

You re just changing the definition of to whatever you deem fit. Is like a guy who sleeps with men from time to time but calls himself straight because he is mostly attracted to women, like no.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:21 PM
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None of what you said is true even to a minimal extent, sounds more like a manipulation attempt to make people who care about it feel alone because "Stop caring about it or u wont get pussy" kinda sounds like "do as i please and i ll give you a cookie". In reality theres countless cases of dudes who have casual encounters with women who they latee go and badmouth to their douche friends "Yeah bro i just banged this skank she was such a loose slut" but none of them would ever date her. So "you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:11 PM
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Some people dont want a relationship with people who treat sex so casually, just like some people dont want a relationship with someone who doesnt has "progressive" views on it, how could someone be happy in a relationship when those standards arent met? The number and quality of the partners does matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:03 PM
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The comment implies that the succesful man has never been married nor the 35+ plus women showed any interest in him when he wasnt as "succesful"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:58 PM
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Nope, you react with frustration because you swallowed the kool aid of "men are inferior to women so i need the thumbs up of somen woman, the prettier the better, to feel my existence validated", this is nothing more than a huge lie and these kind of beliefs are a cancer in a man's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 08:27 PM
4

You already contradicted yourself with your first stament.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 08:11 PM
3

And your point is?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 08:05 PM
2

Wisdom is not sacrificing dignity to be someones safety net in case they make bad choices
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 08:02 PM
11

Why should a person who have their shit together accept someone like this in their lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:59 PM
2

A bit of thinking should be enough to realize that there is something off about statements like good looking = Asshole, implying that all ugly guys are wonderful and all good looking guys are evil, if something, that says more about the quality of woman she is and the kind of men she consequently attracts, which are garbage just like her. On the other hand It Is just a manipulative term, in her mind she probably means a spineless doormat who would do whatever she wanted withouth question but she…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:53 PM
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I have voice acted, nowadays i do 3d desing, video editing and im studying network engineering, i wanted to be a mechanic but the profession isnt valued where i live (monetary wise), still i really had no shortage of female friends and interaction during my teenager years and nowadays i have female friends too and a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:34 PM
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It doesnt matter, if those "hoes" want a relationship so bad they should just demand it from the men they "fuck" (or rather get fucked by) rather than pestering relationship oriented men who dont fool around, how does reddit feel about that?.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:44 AM
1

So does "I need to try casual to know if i like it", it is the same principle of "I need to try X to know if i would like it or not".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:40 AM
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Men cherish the women the pick for LTR, hoes on the other hand just want to suck on their time, energy and effort, what is so hard to understand? The audacity and the dishonesty smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:36 AM
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Most desitions on abortion and child custody dont happen because the risk of death, it happens because "i gave birth to it therefore it belongs to me", stop pushing this notion that men are bums who just want to get a woman pregnant and leave, a lot of men are breaking their backs just so the kid and the mother can have a roof over their heads, many times the father has even been unfairly separated from the kid under the juridisction of the "law" and "fairness", women carry the kid for 9 months,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 08:05 AM
1

But why? What happens if you dont get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:55 AM
1

Pretty simple, they see men getting the openess of some women by doing that, they mimic it, if it didnt get any results it would have died long ago, trust me, those tactics still work far beyond the "inmature teenager phase", combine with the fact that were always told who they should aim to be better men for women only to have their wolrd view crushed when they see men who are complete garbage of human beings getting love and attention while they got views of repulsion despite being the "nice" …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:52 AM
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How in the world are they doing the same thing when in both cases the woman is still the one being courted , in both cases the man is still the one that has to take initiative and show value only difference is that one woman is wifey material while in the other it is nothing more than a hoe being deceptive? The day men shower hoes with gifts and attention while making wifey material earn It will be the day they do the same, but so far men just see the hoe as disposable while wifey material is wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:47 AM
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Thats what you were taught to believe, do you believe not having the attention of attractive women makes a man worthless? Be sincere
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 06:02 AM
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They are just parasytes that want to suck as much value as they can, no deep reason, i dont see why even if there was some sort of mystical reason good hard working men should just suck it up, that didt absolutely nothing to deserve that except give a chance to a cheap ass cum dumpster who believes men owe her something because she is tired of being used.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 05:59 AM
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He carries it for 18 years, some times even more than that, not only that but he also carries the mother too, Pick, either it takes two which means the man has a say when it comes to abortion and custody, or he doesnt because since the child belongs to the mother because she gave birth to it and it's her choice, then it is only her responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 05:53 AM
2

And yes, I do very much want to be an extremely attractive man that's super successful with beautiful women. Why? Why the need?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 05:49 AM
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Yes, but if tomorrow women stopped existing then would you be content with having a terrible personality? Would you still be content with having a weak out of shape body? Would you neglect your mental health? Thats what i want you to see, if women suddenly found those things repulsive then would you stop doing it even though you would pretty much live an unfulfilling life but at least you would have hoes that pat your heae cuz you re such a good boy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:56 AM
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the argument still stands, if you dont need to be pegged to know you wouldnt like it even there are people who enjoy it, then the argument of "you need to try casual to know of you like it" falls flat
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:53 AM
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Nope, not his body, not his choice, not his responsibility, kids belong to the mother when it suits women but it takes two when it doesnt eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:50 AM
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The only reason why you should enlist to the navy or go through BUDS is because you want to or thats your calling on life, dont do it because you will get some hoe to approve of you, you wont get it anyways, do not misunderstand me, you can absolutely get a hoe to date you even if you re a complete wussy, but it will be a mediocrr and unfulfilling relationship, because it will be based on fear and scarcity, which you will only stay because thats better than nothing, but it will fail anyways and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:48 AM
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Wrong, they work under the same principle cuz how do you know if you dont like being pegged if you have never tried? How do you no you re not gay if have never kissed a man? And we can still keep goin, that of "i need to try casual sex to know if i would like it " is nothing more than a fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:58 AM
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Cuz it gives results, tactis like "tret her like shit so she ll treat you like a king" are there cuz they do give results, all red pill tactics exist because they do work, why dont they say stuff like "Get good at poetry and you ll get the genuine love of a woman?" Because it doesnt works, things like "Belittle her, make her feel anxious that you ll leave, see her as inferior" are parroted in the redpill left to right because as scary and depressing as it sounds do give results, who is the blame…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:54 AM
1

They can survive on a 9-5 no problem, they dont need to leech off of the efforts of a hard working man who did nothing wrong except not giving the "tingles".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:50 AM
1

The worst part about the redpill is that it actually brings results, otherwise it would have been forgotten long ago, advise like "treat her like shit and she ll treat you like a king, treat her like a queen and she ll treat you like a servant" exist for a reason, most of the times that are parroted in the redpill exist because they have seen men getting away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:48 AM
1

I guess the constant ads of how men should become better for the sake of women like the gilette one dont exist, or the constant negative messages about "men are trash, women are poor victims of men, women are superior to men" none of those things never happened, they arent real, you all go to such an extent just not admit the blatant misandry that plagues society in the modern era
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:45 AM
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She is not waiting for him, she is making him wait as a way to decept him cuz there is a lot she can leech off of him, or is she gonna be open and honest about her casual sex past? Is she gonna make an effort? Is she gonna court th man? No, she still expects the man to do the effort, to court her cuz she doesnt wants to be seen as a hoe otherwise no guy would wait for her, thats the key difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:41 AM
1

Nope, not his body, not his choice, not his responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:35 AM
3

Is not just one interaction, but you using "cultural conservatives and patriarchy" is such a ridiculous scapegoat to not face the fact that women can be shitty, just look at Amber Heard or Jada Smith.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:34 AM
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Who's pestering them? Single moms in need of a bailout after things didnt workout with an obvious bum
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:29 AM
1

I have always found these kind of complaints stupid, if you as woman dislike high n count men just dont date them, is not like you re actually forced either through force or societal pressure, women can reject men for whatever reason and nothing will happen, nobody will come and call you insecure or whatever shaming attemtps are there on the book, but it is obvious you all want these kind of men since you complain that they dont want to date you, i dont give a frick if a gay man doesnt wants to …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 11:40 PM
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Why dont those strong independet women go demand responsibility from their baby daddies instead of pestering childless men who got their stuff together with a problem that doesnt concerns them? Single men dont owe a single mom nothing just because some obvious dirtbag didnt get changed by her pussy power, how does reddit feels about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:53 PM
3

How come the reason they went mgtow were negative experiences with women then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 06:47 PM
3

Depends on what kind of woman is the one that wants a relationship with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:56 AM
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Wrong on many levels since by far many men would happily start a relationship with wifey material at their 20s, just because you wouldnt doesnt means thats the majoritywifey material is for more than just sex, also men wait for wifey material because they wanna show her that they value her for more than her body, which is different to "making her wait", beta bux on the other hand is just to leech off, busted ass hose make those men wait to give a false appearence of value and standards, "I value…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:45 AM
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If the evidence of lack of attraction to “betabux” are actions like ‘wating for sex’, valuing commitment more, then the same could be said for men who treat “wifey material” in the same way. Men do not make the wifey material wait! , they wait for her and still court her, or do those busted ass hoes also court the men they value commitment from? No, they make him wait and still demand chivarly and traditional treatment from him, it is all nothing more than a façade to give the ilussion of false …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 09:38 AM
3

By that logic Then he shouldnt be responsible for the kid since not his body, not his choice, not his kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:28 PM
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This is nothing more than a ragebait sub, there is really nothing to argue, the redpill has already proven it gives results.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 08:17 PM
1

Now, taking points 1-3 into account why on earth would a woman waste her time and put her physical and mental wellbeing at risk to have shitty sex with a stranger or an idiot? So whingy little assholes who have no respect for women and think we owe them shit like OP can get off? No thank you. So why engage in casual sex then? Why are men who have never engaged into it obliged to accept that their prospects were nothing more than the masturbation machine for some douche who wouldnt give a frick a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:38 PM
2

They work under the same principle buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:33 PM
1

They leech cuz they are parasytes, simple as that, parasytes need a host to survive, there is no deep reason other than selfish ones, the audacity!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:28 PM
0

I have never even been married lmao, you all always resort to the same parroted responses, and you all think you re abvove me? Ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 06:24 PM
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That they are just parasytes who were looking for a victim to leech of. Randomly jumping from one feeling to another doesnt gives you the right to straight up rob a another person and still leech of after them even when they arent bound to you anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 08:08 PM
0

How can you try to understand someone who destroys someones life just because "Im not feeling it anymore"?, There nothing to understand there other than the evident.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 06:53 PM
1

Fish more
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 06:31 AM
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That really doesnt matter, even if the man in question were completely clean your opinion wouldnt change in any way, not like there is nothing wrong with it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:59 PM
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Amber heard is the proof that any woman no matter how shitty she is can still snatch a partner and ruin him, and is not like jhonny deep is a no-life basement dweller, you could say he is a high value man, thats why you shouldnt compromise on whatever u consider important no matter how much these people try to shame you into it, even after all of this Amber will still have idiots crying and lusting at a relationship with her. Will Smith is also another perfect example, he married a literal hoe y…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:48 PM
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P R O P E R L Y S U B M I S S I V E Aha sure, thats why the got cheated on with the total opposite of a femenine man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:52 PM
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They were submissive and allowed women to lead because thats what was demanded of them and masculinity is bad unless it is a woman, stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 08:42 PM
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They were, what are you trying to accomplish by parroting they werent? They literally checked all the boxes of what a femenine and submissive man is, are you gonna say that werent cheated with their total opposites too?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 07:18 PM
1

But they were feminine and submissive, you cant deny that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 05:11 PM
1

no way, you got no idea what you re saying, ask any redpill dude how he was before finding the redpill, you ll find out they were the most romantic dudes you could find out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 12:07 PM
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Im not saying this to argue or to be contrary to what u say, this stuff is depressengly common, i would like it to not be reality as much as u, but reality hits hard, just ask any guy who was, has been or is in the redpill, they will agree withouth a doubt that they were submissive, femenine and overall the nice guy all women wish for in a world full of "assholes", yet look where they ended, sad but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:31 PM
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🤔🤔🤔🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:22 PM
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And in practice thats the kind of guy that ends up in the red pill because he got cheated on with his total opposite. Sad but true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:13 AM
2

In theory...in practice however....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:54 AM
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It wouldnt surprise if most accounts here make up lies just to prove a point like for example "Yeah dude im an alpha chad who has banged over 100 including ur mom by just snapping my fingers, im super high value and i would never fall for a hoe" or "im a former college hoe who has a 6-6-6 man by the balls" or "im a low n count woman and i dont like men who care about n count" all statements that come from people of doubtious credibility just to rage bait. Although im more biased to believe men h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 07:02 PM
2

If your wife fucks me, then goes back to you, you have lost nothing (I've had a vasectomy and am STD free). And certainly no crime has been committed by any party. Such a fancy way of gaslighting someone into tolerating cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 02:03 PM
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Why would you ask men what women like and not women? Any guy who makes that question is made object of mockery specially by women because "what kind of loser needs advice on that?" Men on the other hand understand how frustratingn and painful it can be, not only that but men do give helpful advice unlike women, sorry not sorry thats the reality for many.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 11:17 AM
1

Nobody presents themselves as a bad person, we want to think we re good even when we are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 10:06 AM
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Thats what they want you to believe, and you fell for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 10:05 AM
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feel safe with them Case in point, you wouldnt feel safe with a man who cant even lift 15kg to save his own life, or a man that turns into a ball at the minimal sign of difficulty.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 09:04 PM
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Idk why it is disgusting just like women cant tell why weakness on men causes them disgust, but thats what they feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 08:58 PM
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Are you interested in virgins So what if he is what is it about a womans sexual experience that scares you Replace scare for Disgust*
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 08:54 PM
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Women DO, however, invariably select toxic men and they generally seem to have few redeeming attributes. Toxic* women with few redeeming attributes invariably select toxic men who generally seem to have few redeeming attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 08:46 PM
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Yeah thats why men are the ones considered superior to women, thats why women are the ones shamed if they are virgins, thats why women are the ones who have to prove their value to men otherwise they are worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 10:47 AM
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Answer the question, how is that a standard for women when they arent even told to give gifts to men to prove their value?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:17 PM
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How can that be a standard when women arent the ones that are expected to court men? In fact many women claim that a man who refuses to buy them stuff are "mediocre", they also say they just have "high" standards (more like a bunch of demands but the point still stands) and if a man disagrees then he is "mediocre" according to them. If a man were to call a woman "mediocre" because she doesnt courts him with gifts then he would be made an object of mockery.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:07 PM
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Generally speaking There are no standards for women because the majority of men are raised to believe that women are superior than them and if a woman doesnt approves of them then they are worthless as men and they have no right to hold women to any standard otherwise they are arrogant and mysoginist who see women as "inferior", thats also why men who can have a lot of casual sex are praised, because the godesses incapable of no bad approved of him as a man, and thats also why a guy who is low n…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 09:37 PM
1

Sorry to break the victim olympics to u but men get told since a young age that they must aim to be perfect or prepare to live a life of total solitude and suffering, not for something it has always been believed that a man must do all the efforts in relationship in order to be loved by a woman otherwise he is worthless, funny how everything women do wrong MeEen DoOo ThEeE sAmEe, but all men do wrong women are always the most affected.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 09:13 PM
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Depends on what life choices they make, that saying comes because generally speaking women arent encouraged to improve, they just get told that theres always gonna be a safety net to catch them at the bottom of the pit no matter how much they screw up, thats why many end up abusing their bodies, minds and souls to the point they age like milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:06 PM
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Idk how to explain this but if you go around life scared that you might end up with one of those, then chances are you ll end up with one, being emotionally open and relaxed will give you a better chance of ending with the kind of woman you like along with many other things, i cant give you a magic pill that will turn you into a cc spotter the moment you swallow it or a sweet librarian magnet, i dont fear this even though i also dislike them but i had to go through such an extensive journey to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:13 PM
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*more than ten men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:54 PM
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sexually promiscuous/liberated women won't want to enter LTR/marriage with men who care about those things anyway. Terrible advice, in fact letting your preferences be obvious will simply make most of them adjust their behavior to give u the impression they dont have such history.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 05:53 PM
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Yes maybe, but i encourage men to get up on their own rather than taxing their woman's energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 08:36 AM
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But if she tries to get him to quit his gambling habit that is putting them in unnecessary debt then that's good because she's tough-lovingly trying to help him with a very real problem. Although ideal is for a man to not have problems like those or being able to overcome them on his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 08:05 AM
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Blue pill is the reality you live on, usually a fake reality, red pill is what happens when you discover things for what they truly are most of the times in an unpleasant way. For example picture a guy who was raised to believed that he must always let a woman lead him, to shower her in gifts, to idolize her, to be super duper nice to her and not to treat her as a sex object, make her the center of his life and she will love him cuz he is a very good guy and also women are saints uncapable of ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 07:57 AM
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What she means is that an attractive man is already desired wether he is a virgin or not. For example a guy who is undesirable but has sleep with a 100 prostitutes has a high n count, but women wether they know it or not still find him undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 07:42 AM
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You are free as a woman to enforce that rule for any potential partner that wants to enter your life, if you dont care about it then your complaints are pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 07:39 AM
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Compatibility is important, dont women always say that?, im not compatible with college hoes in any way, they trying to shame, insult me and guilt trip me into a relationship for that just makes me want to push them away from my life even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 07:36 AM
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Is more like she is being deceptive and giving you the image of something she isnt in order to gain your trust, a fraud is a better word, or like those stores that charge you more for knocked-up imitations in foreing countries just because you re a foreigner and they can gain more from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:11 AM
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No, he ended up with K, bet he doesnt knows what she was up to before, i wonder if he would still feel the same if he were to read ur comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:23 PM
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Not with the kind of woman R ended with, just look how he is described, bet R doesnt even know the shenannigans his "angel" was up to before he became her safety net, i wonder what would he think if he saw that post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:22 PM
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Theres plenty of places were prostitutes are there voluntarily, look for that and problem solved However you can use women who want to use u as chump for that too, you simply give them they ilussion that u ll have a "relationshit" with them but u need to know if u re sexually "compatible" and it might work, if it doesnt just look for another bitch until eventually you find what you want, no remorse since they didnt have good intentions towards u in first place so enjoy!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 11:09 AM
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Hate towards masculine men is a current trend, not something that has always been around
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:26 AM
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a strong, high value man that knows transmuting that energy into strong relationships and his work, rather than physically release with a warm body, is what will make him successful in life He also knows what kind of woman he wants and thats the woman he goes to, there is not such things as a lack of those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:00 AM
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All of ur comments contradicts themselves, you re just full of it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:51 AM
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You re full of it, u say there is an abundance of shit yet you say the majority of women are getting the men they want, either one or the other, and then
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:51 AM
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Also if u dont want to end up with the leftovers of the dating world as a man, u have no choice but to level up above average as much as u can otherwise you ll end up like R
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:41 AM
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In your head that sounded spectacular bro, in real life i fail to see even from a totally objective and logical point of view how that would be offensive to me or anyone at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:30 PM
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The point is that you dont have to actually go and do that with her to know if u two would be compatible or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:13 PM
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You dont even need to learn it at all, honestly whats more arousing that the act of sex itself? Sure some people might try some things here and there but if u need to try extreme stuff that doesnt even makes sense in sexual context then is compatibility the real issue there?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:11 PM
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It is general knowledge that only promiscuous women have sexual desire dude /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:01 PM
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Depends on the woman in question, i would do that for a woman with whom there is already some attraction BETWEEN BOTH before dating, but to do that to "impress" her or because she is "high value" it is a certain way to end up with the woman of ur nightmares rather than the woman of ur dreams, u cant buy a womans love and honestly you shouldnt give such privilege to a stranger who hasnt shown any qualities whatsoever, and by qualities i dont mean what she brings to the table but who is she.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:48 PM
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To tell u the truth, the only way you can end up in a relationship where you are happy, is to be happy and content by urself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:43 PM
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given that "virgin" and "incel" are already derogatory terms for both genders, that's a tough task. Both genders?🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:41 PM
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So married women live longer too according to the study, u can no longer claim monopoly of how much it benefits men but supposedly screws women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:17 AM
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Then it changes nothing, they dont change because women are these righteous beings who want men to be their best, they change because is either that or be ignored and dissrespected
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:12 AM
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Your choice to believe that, im showing u the possibility to live a different life where you actually enjoy being around the femenine energy rather that wasting ur time seeing every woman than comes close to u as an enemy. Shitty women exist but theres plenty of women who are not shitty, up to u to whom you want to give ur attention and time the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:09 AM
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The only things cementing most relationships are desperation and laziness. Does that include romantic sensitive men too? 🤔, Thats just how you perceive things and u said urself: Men feel romantic feelings for fantasies of women, not who women actually are. That just proves my point, most "sensitive romantic" guys are just giving their romance to whatever fantasy and idea they have made in their heads about the women they are seeing, withouth even getting to know her first and her showing any qua…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:13 AM
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I think that it is easier to stop putting women in a pedestal and accept that some of them arent a good company rather than generalizing and painting yourself as the most "righteous" guy in the world who is not valuable because some worthless tik thot doesnt gives him attention, you re a man, you dont need no ones thumbs up, and i know many romantic sensitive guys who just give their attention to the most vapid and superficial women for no reason at all other than her big fat bum, 3 dates and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:46 AM
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In male based media Non of the things ur average men believes makes a man attractive to a woman comes from male based media, it comes from reality, men observed how certain men had a lot of succes and then determined which were the qualities that make a man attractive, the red pill for example exist because of that, a lot of men who ended up in the redpill did so because they were cheated on with those kind of men or simply they saw how the woman they were interested in prefered those kind of me…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 12:35 AM
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Usually, romantic sensitive men have terrible taste when it comes to women, not to mention they give their romance fast and easy, which obviously only attracts women who just want to parasyte of his time, energy and efforts withouth any appreciation on their side, if maybe they respected themselves and didnt give away their time to just any woman because she happens to have a big ass then they would have better succes, im talking from the point of view of relationships. Tall musclebound chads do…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 12:25 AM
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However, if this man wanted love and not just sex with a sex worker, does he need to abandon stealth wealth in order to advertise himself as a high value man? You think being "loved" for ur money is real love? If thats so you re better off just paying prostitutes and escorts, you will be treated better like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 11:48 PM
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In many societies, women couldn’t wipe their own asses without a male guardian say-so What about current times in a society like America where OP most likely lives? Does that rule still applies? Im not going to put it as "women are oppresors", but nowadays there is an ideology that encourages a woman to take advantage of men and belittle them, you can hear it when you go to a public place, listen to a group of women talking and see what you ll hear, it is not rare to hear them saying stuff like …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:45 AM
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To be fair if u told ur average women that u feel attraction towards men most of them would do a completely 180, funny, most of the women who will read the first words of this post will just say "ah this guys is one the f**s so who cares". I agree that for a guy like u it is exhausting, but just because it is exhausting for u it is for other kind of men, for example, with my girl i enjoy every moment i spend with her, we dont even need to do anything in particular, we can just be there and we ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:44 AM
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Everything about your take is completely wrong and i would say you re blatantly trying to paint him as a bad person to discredit his argument withouth any real argument of your own. Im not gonna extend myself, i can easily get you on his shoes, picture this, you are a nice woman who isnt looking for men to leech off, u respect their boundaries and pay for the first dates to show them u re not after the money, yet those men still go for obvious golddiggers who destroy them emotionally and finanti…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 01:31 AM
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Everything, if my current girlfriend had told me this i would have dumped her on the spot withouth any questions....and remorse
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 04:19 AM
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No im not married, but i dont dislike the idea, at least not with my current girl. Another funny anecdotes i have, even though they are anecdotes, is that i have seen guys getting dump due to neglecting their gfs sexual needs, as it sounds, may be hard to believe for many around here, but that absolutely happens, i knew an actual good guy, whose girlfriend desired him, but was frustrated with him because he was shy, lacked initiative and though sex was bad for women and that, not his fault thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 04:15 AM
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Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 03:34 AM
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Trashy women gravitate towards trashy men, the sooner you realize it the better, ironically those trashy women for some reason will want u more than anything when you realize that, but you wont want them anymore, ironic eh? I even remember i met a guy who could be classifed as ur typical bad boy yet he always said "i hate those sluts", if not even them want them, why should you? On the other hand many women tend to label a guy as an "asshole" just because they didnt get their way with him, but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 03:32 AM
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Well with my girl it just happens spontaniously, we dont plan for it, we dont ask, we just start watching tv then we kiss sometimes and then things start escalating, i didnt have any particular expectation, i simply understand thats something that happens between a man and a woman who are in a HEALTHY relationship, in fact, something curious happened to me, my idea of sex was pretty much the vanilla stuff, i didnt want nor need more, but my girlfriend for some reason wants to try different poses…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 03:27 AM
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For me is not the fact that she didnt try those things with me or whatever, for me is the fact that supposedly she considers those things degrading, yet she did it anyways? And with a guys she supposedly considers an asshole and she doesnt cares about how he sees her? So not only she engaged in those "degrading" things but also she was very open with a pos who only saw her as a masturbation machine ,How come, werent men that treat women as sex objects bad?, arent women tired of men like those? ,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:24 AM
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If he also had known about the existence of that sex tape im pretty sure he would also have had second thoughs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:15 AM
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No, in the majority of this cases the man gets convinced either by the woman or society that those acts are degrading for the woman and thats why she doesnt wants to do it, as so he tries to get over it for her sake and for the better since he is a good man, he wont just dump his woman because she wont perform some sex acts, after all thats something only an asshole who views women as sex object right? , but when he discovers his woman did those degrading acts in the past not once but many times…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:14 AM
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Sex acts are what you two choose to do together that day out of mutual enjoyment So are relationships, and if he has a problem with it, then he is on his damn right to leave, specially considering that these kind of situations always happen due to a slut's deceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:03 AM
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Considering the fact that nice guys are easily manipulated by the people around them, i fail to see how they are the "manipulative" ones when a lot of women love to take advantage of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 09:10 PM
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The real problem with "nice" guys is that they give the status of special to women who dont earn it, you just dont treat some rando you barely know as special because "love" at first sight, also you cant buy attraction, thats why you only treat a woman as special when she has shown she is special, not to get a relationship with her. On another note is curious how nice guys are disliked for the same reason sluts are, yet the former can be used, insulted and diminished withouth no consequence, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 09:03 PM
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Which is a huge lie
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 02:45 PM
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I mean sure, if by quality he means hot pornstar look i suppose he can find some in those enviorements
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:03 AM
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I'm saying having sex with quality women. Also without too much effort. Either one or the other, it cant be both.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:17 AM
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Even if those guys are extremely oblivious im pretty sure that if they were aware of whats going on they do 180.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:47 PM
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Have you ever wondered if those women are worthy of said commitment? If u won lottery tomorrow, would u still care about those women? Would u still care if they want you or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:42 PM
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Those good guys whine because more often than not they get the bad boy's left overs.....but not the love or respect he got.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 06:01 PM
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To me it's the who, was she with an awesome guy who treated her with respect? As long as she has a legitimate reason why that relationship ended, im okay. Now, was he a known player? Abuser? Trainwreck of a man? Then get out of here, you and ur broken bagagge are not welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 05:55 PM
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If good guys only knew how to use sex to get what they want, he wouldn't be whining!! If they actually knew that they dont need the validation of some cheap ass cum dumpster who is nothing more than the fraternity's mascot then they wouldnt be whining because they would know they arent missing anything, good guys for the good girls, not for the bad boy's masturbation machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 05:49 PM
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No, i dont need to fool around with women who treat me as an atm to appreciate one that doesnt, i dont need to date a bad partner to know what good one is, this is nothing more that another pathethic attempt of manipulation to get guys who dont want to compromise to play captain save a hoe. How come mr guy to settle down becomes a good lover the moment that woman ends up with a lot of baggage? How come? Mr guy to settle down isnt a good lover if he doesnt has money on his wallet? How come mr guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 05:40 PM
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The reason a lot of guys want an low n count or virgin woman is because they are insecure in their own sexual performance and don't want to feel inadequate to whatever dick they think she's had access to in the past. You all keep repeating this dumb lie to avoid hurting some womens' feelings yet you all talk about a man's "fragile ego", is just ridiculous. The truth is many guys find that unnattractive, they cannot picture themselves in a relationship with someone like that, imagine the kind of …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 05:17 PM
1

Thats such a weird definition of mysoginisim
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:53 PM
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Im not radically red pilled as i used to be long ago, but even before i went the red pill rabbit hole i found porn repulsive, at most the only type that kinda aroused me was lesbian porn, but it wasnt even that hardcore stuff u see nowadays, just kisses and the usual, nowadays the only "porn" i watch are my girl's nudes to put it in a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:49 PM
0

how is bdsm degrading when its just the literal version of redpill ideology? Bruh!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:44 PM
1

I definetly have a lot of empathy for widows, i dont feel any negative reaction when i picture one who wants a relationship with me, cant say the same for ur typical single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 11:42 PM
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No, if u do that misery will pursue u for the rest of ur life even if u date a 11 out of 10, the only way to actually enter a relationship with someone u ll be happy is to be happy and fullfilled by urself, and im not saying u cant get a girlfriend, im saying the moment u get that girlfriend she will be the same as u, someone who feels alone and unhappy, someone who will just leech off of u, someone who will make u miserable, because that will be a mediocre relationship founded on fear and scarc…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 03:34 PM
1

Not even you believe that nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:33 PM
1

Men get sex Super beneficial to marry a woman who believes sex is some kind of treat she gives to u for being a good dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 12:27 PM
0

Lmao ☑️☑️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:04 AM
1

Epic fail, cuz i actually have a girlfriend that fits my standards and i treat her better than any of those cheap ass cum dumpsters could ever wish for, better luck next time with the shaming tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:14 PM
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you called those girls sluts multiple times in another thread Is that a bad thing? Whats wrong with calling sluts what they are, is not like sleeping around is something negative. Hhahah lmao if actual men who do actually see women as objects can have a lot of succes tricking ignorant women into bed i dont see why a guy with this preference/standard cant slay getting the relationship he prefers, Im gonna simply put it like this, outside of reddit even those sluts lie and hide it especially towar…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:44 PM
1

I fell for her, what can i say, she is just my type
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:30 PM
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But those same women look at those men with disdain And that there is a perfect demonstrantion of gaslighting cuz this simply isnt true, the only ones that take offense towards that are women who dont fit those standards, it is gaslighting because it is subtle way to make those men believe that their standards are wrong and they gonna stay alone because some fraternity's mascot who regrets her past doesnt approves of their preferences. The best part is that the majority of those men complain abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 08:37 AM
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I wasnt interested on it until i met my current girl
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 08:31 AM
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They also secretly like and encourage the idea of women liking assholes because they want to be dominant over women. I want to asume you re all just ignorant to the things all the men who complain about women liking assholes have witnessed and experienced, cuz otherwise this is one of the biggest displays of intellectual dishonesty and gaslighting that i have ever seen in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 08:29 AM
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Im not the one calling them derogatory terms and painting them as satan incarnate because they dont want to be on a relationship with me, in fact....it is the other way around😒
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:15 AM
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No because u are saying they treat women as objects when that isnt objectively true in any way, thats textbook gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:09 AM
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It is gaslighting as u re trying to paint him as something he isnt so he doubts his own views and compromises on them, u dont fool anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:03 AM
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You dont get to decide what a man considers important and what not , if for a man certain sexual history is a turn off then he is not obliged to date a woman that doesnt fits that standard no matter how much u try to gaslight him into believing "he treats women as objects".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:53 PM
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You can have whatever standards you want, but it's ridiculous when you think the other side can't have them too. No one has to settle for anything they don't want, but they also have to accept that the people they want don't need to settle for them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:47 PM
1

Asuming you re congruent with ur first statement
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:41 PM
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I dont believe u, but it is okay, i guess this is an indirect admission that financially stable attractive men are in their complete right to prefer low n count or even virgin women, so i wonder if women who dont fit that standard are honest with them...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:10 PM
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So why didnt u tell him "I prefer 50/50 relationships so i want a man that can contribute his half" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:11 PM
0

But even women shame them too, they just dont dp that to their faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:55 PM
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He didnt take it good cuz u triggered his fight or flight response, as asking that question made u look like a gold digger.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:54 PM
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You talk like if women respect and love simps, in reality they hate em and just take whatever they can get from them, which is ironic because they dislike them for the same reasons men dislike sluts but nobody tries to force them to get over it or accept a simp, but men have to date and wife up sluts otherwise mysoginisim.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:38 PM
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Also The latter wont suddenly fall in love if the woman is a virgin or has had a few partners, he will just be more open to get to know her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:29 PM
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Women aren't property you own. Nice gaslighting u re trying there mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 07:14 PM
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They are content as long as the woman they are with doesnt do that with any man even if it isnt them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 07:59 PM
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The only thing that i can say is that i have a sense of duty, but i know i cant give that sense of duty to just anyone, so im also motivated by my indiviidual emotinal needs in a way despite my sense of duty.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:56 PM
1

Playing the numbers game can land you a job, but when it comes to relationships it gives u terrible results, i dont mean u cant get one, i mean it will be a terrible one
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:46 PM
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Number 11 a 6? Bs, even if thats objectively true he has a lot of potential
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:39 PM
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I can’t imagine why women shouldn’t experience that. If their urge is to be with someone attractive, why resist that? So, monogamy with someone attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:29 PM
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What are u complaining about? That average guys have high expectations?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 05:27 PM
0

Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:54 PM
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Just coomer problems
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:32 PM
0

Its why they make "husband material" wait. Increase vasopresin, increase commitment/provisioning. They make husband material wait to give him the impression that they are some sort of high standard women who wouldnt sleep with some rando they met at the club when it is the opposite majority of times, as much as i hate it, if your fall for it thats ur fault. Many women hate porn because it twistes your perception of what actual sex and women are like, i agree with them, although i reject porn for…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:03 PM
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Men loneliness is learned, once you realize you re complete by urself you stop caring about wether the fraternity's mascot approves of u or dont, and ironically thats the only way to truly meet a woman you respect and care for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 06:39 PM
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Perfect demonstration of what the average purple pill bash men crowd contains which such ridiculous takes like this one, bet the majority of rp opposition (for the lack or a better name) in this sub also states that if we just print more money then poverty and give a million to every citizen in the world then poverty would end.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 02:51 PM
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Last week, I chatted with a male who said the #1 most important thing to him in a relationship was having sexual access to his female partner whenever he wanted without any push back. I asked him why and he said (and I quote), “She’s given it out to a hundred other dudes, over a thousand times, it shouldn’t be that big of a deal.” He believed that “certainly most” women would sleep with over 100 men by age 30 Sounds like the guy is pretty secure of himself considering the fact that he doesnt car…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:10 PM
1

So in summary they do care but pretend they dont
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 04:02 PM
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Lmao so this is what am i missing, straight up ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:47 PM
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You are the one posting big walls of text about how men are satan because they reject certain kind of women, what if i dont want to date a slut, what if want a virgin or 600lbs woman, why am i obliged to have dating preferences you approve of otherwise "you need therapy, you re a mysoginist" etc, if sluts were honests about their pasts and who they are these issues would be non-existent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:43 PM
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If the ones doing that were attractive men then it would be argueable, but the only ones doing that are the men they dont want, i wonder why 🤔, thats not a matter of how many men throw themselves at the woman, thats a matter of what kind of person she is,
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:39 PM
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Kid
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:33 PM
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This is childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:13 PM
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Newflash - you re not the only woman that exist in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:09 PM
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Newsflash - i dont care if the kind of woman im not attracted to doesnt wants me, in fact life would be easier for me if it were like that, i wouldnt have ended on this sub, but one can just wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 08:49 PM
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It is said that money doesnt changes a person, it just shows who they truly are, i believe it is the same in this case, because ok lets say they only have looks, but then why such a crappy attitude? I see no correlation with having abundance and treating your partners poorly, cuz even the men they are "attracted" to get the short end of the stick too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 08:44 PM
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Men who care wouldnt either and they would be grateful to you for not wasting their precious time and resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 08:39 PM
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Why do women have the right to choose who they are with but men cant? Why do women dont owe nothing to no one but men owe everything to women no matter what?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:24 PM
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Pls do that by all means, men who care and men who just want to pump and dump will be really grateful to u.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 06:17 PM
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They get frustrated that the hottest, most charismatic highest status guys don't seem to want a relationship.......with them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 05:54 PM
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Having standards in men is considered mysoginism and many men are raised like that from an early age. With that said, men with low standards dont ruin anything, they might inflate the ego of many women, but most of the times those are women you wouldnt date unless you were desperate, after all it is only men with low standards that put them on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 05:49 PM
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This is the equivalent of saying women deserve to be raped for being scared of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:14 PM
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Most red pillers ended up there initially due to a failed relationship despite doing eveything that society demanded from them to keep their partners happy, you got no idea what you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:33 PM
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It is pretty obvious whats the deal, only a simp who believes all the flower power lies and gaslighting men get shoved down their throats when they are kids would stay with his "wife" in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:24 PM
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Then i ll keep that in mind the next time someone shames me because i reject women with unnaceptable pasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 10:09 AM
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By having sex you do not explicitly consent to become a parent, but the risk is always there Not for the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:23 AM
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U can not give such resources to someone you barely know, making these kind of efforts for a woman you barely know because some douches want to use her as a masturbation machine on tinder it's a certain to way to end up emotionally and finantially broke, not to mention no one will respect you anyways, not even those "high maintance" women who do not date "mediocre" men, but they will happily leech of ur efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 06:00 PM
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It takes two to make a baby. So why doesnt the father has a say in wether they baby is born like the mother does, why does the mother is favored in getting custody even if the father is a better caretaker, how come that father cant even know where the money for the kid goes? How come "it takes two to make a baby" doesnt applies when the situation doesnt benefits the woman's agenda?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:00 PM
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How can u be "exploring ur options" when the only thing you are doing is sleeping with a bunch of men who only see you as an easy lay to boast to his friend about how much game they still have and they would never have a relationship with u in first place?, this is like a guy who enters sugaring or prostitution relationships and calls it "exploring my options", straight up ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:51 PM
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It's like people here are only capable of black and white thinking The audacity for u to say that when u prevemptively discredit anyone who disagrees with u as "religious" or "insecure", not only that but you used J lo as an example saying "who knows how many men has she been with" but then it suddenly doesnt applies when a case that disproves your argument is brought up, and then u go and call it "just a couple of sexual encounters" when u urself stated that someone who refuses to date a woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:29 AM
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Mia khalifa's ex husband had options too, he choose her and now he is her ex husband yet according to u he is super "secure" of himself Honestly give us a convincing reason why someone who in their freedom decide that they dont want to date a certain kind of person is iNsEcUrE, if something, a person who is secure of themselves has no problem saying "No" if they find a dealbreaker, and if u gonna use insecurity as a negative then u should make posts about how women who dont wanna date short guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:09 AM
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Nobody cares so much that he even made a post contradicting himself about it and using a fallacious argument on top of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:49 AM
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Cuz theres people out there who dont want to have a relationship with someone like u and they are not obliged to do so if they dont want, thats the proper answer, doesnt matter if studies say this or that, not everyone will find you attractive and thats it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:40 AM
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I ve never felt like im competing with anyone at all, i have only met one case of a woman my age dating an older man, but she is a woman i wouldnt want in my life so honestly if thats what older men go for then i support their choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:22 PM
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Terrible affirmation and you couldnt be more wrong, the redpill exist due to shitty women and sexist beliefs in pro of women that are teached to many men since a young age, the simple fact that the majority of men that ended up in the redpill were what society described as what a man should be says it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:10 PM
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Appeal it anyways, otherwise this is just their way of censoring stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:44 PM
1

It might havw been their stupid automod, appeal the lock if u want
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:43 PM
0

Emotionally inept men cant get relationships easily unlike the assholes being discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:43 PM
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The red pill died for me when i saw i wouldnt get the woman of my dreams but rather the woman of my nightmares if i were to follow those tactics, they get some things right but the only redpill they havent swallowed is that many women are garbage who dont deserve to have the status of special and you re doing favours to ur emotional health if u accept that paradigm, i for example, i dont give the status of special to a woman that doesnt earns it and that helped me to avoid toxic women withouth a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:41 PM
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So why should a man commit in current times if he will end up emotionally bankrupt and probably finantially too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:02 PM
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Then thats their problem, not the man's, why should a guy who has his shit together date those trainwreck of women if the only thing that theres in for him is to end up emotionally bankrupt?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 04:01 PM
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all ukranian women must be crazy for putin right now then, the red pill is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:40 PM
2

It is Better to be seen as a disposable commodity than as useful idiot by those repulsive women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:33 PM
1

Being "loved" because you are the safe choice is far from an emotional connection, stop with this ridiculous gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:37 PM
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The stable option is far from genuinely loved, stop with the dishonesty, even the women here have admitted they pick the stable option because they became more pragmatic after sleeping with the whole fraternity, key word pragmatic meaning they pick whats useful for them not their ideal, i doesnt surprise me when men want to avoid that kind of woman like the plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:35 AM
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Notice how you only bash men for this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:05 AM
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Cuz women arent conditioned to believe they are inferiror if they are alone, they are called superior just for existing, men on the other hand it seems they cant be called men if some cheap ass cum dumpster that is known for being the fraternity's mascot doesnt approves of them. On the other hand those women that like to preach about how they dont need a man and all that, deep inside they crave the care, the company and protection of an attractive man, key word attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:56 AM
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And i never said u did, and if u did i dont recall, im speaking a general term
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:56 PM
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Not today
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:26 PM
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The amount of shit and gaslighting i get whenever i express my position is brutal, if it were the other way around purple pill debate would have turned into a safe space long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:14 PM
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Your life your rules, nobody can force u to do otherwise just like nobody can force me to have a relationship with promiscuous women if i dont want to, the only thing that you have to accept is that theres people who will tell you "No" due to your choices, just for the sake of the argument it is the same for me, but i dont want nothing from promiscuous hoes so it doesnt matter wether they would tell me yes or no, although i seem to hit more nerves than you..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 10:06 PM
3

Women are the last thing nofap focuses on, at least in the attraction sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:56 AM
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If there was a way of instantly knowing about a persons n count then your height argument could also apply to it as men could date whoever woman they feel more comfortable with, but because it is something you cant know upfront it makes you "insecure"? The hamstering
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:38 AM
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Thats the most absurd excuse to lie someone has come up with, if she dislikes that kind of men then simply being honest about it serves her interest, what is that ridiculous charade of "i have to date this "insecure" man because i ve got to navigate men's "shittiness", that is just absurd. Ridiculous people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:23 AM
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they may not want to hurt the person who is insecure Bollocks, they try to paint insecure as a negative, if they dislike "insecure" men so much then being honest about it will keep the kind of men they dislike so much away from them 100% but they lie instead, now you trynna say they re just trying to "protect" the supposedly insecure, biggest nonsense i ve ever hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 02:16 AM
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If i were on that guy's shoes i would be very grateful, a woman like this one is someone you must avoid like the plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 03:02 PM
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The do understand it, why do they get shamed so much everytime they reject certain kind of woman then?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:57 PM
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We are already jugdged hard for that and more so the proper question is if men shouldnt be judged for it, but i dont care, i dont complain cuz i dont get pats on my back nor victimhood points if i do, in fact we as men are harshly judged when we complain, in fact ur post, with all the hypotethical situations it brings implies that those are negatives if a man has them, if women were judged as harshly as men are the majority of em would give up life, one of the best things of being a man is that …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 02:55 PM
2

If she's really smart and focusing on her career, making a lot of money most men are intimidated by that Youe average Purple pill man might not be the most ideal to follow, but this show your average purple pill woman is the same if not worsta and they try to claim the high ground most of the times, ridiculous but at the same time relieving.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:21 PM
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I dont give an f what the red pill says, if u dont want to date a man like that dont date him, no one will come and try to shame u or guilt trip u into a relationship with said men unlike u all do everytime a dude says he doesnt wants to date the fraternities mascot. Is just that men dont get victimhood points nor pats on their backs if they complain so they have no choice but to suck it up and look for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:12 PM
1

A lot of women do care and ,Women also care about things men dont give a fk yet no one goes around calling them insecure or whatever meaningless shame word comes to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:46 PM
0

Only insecure women think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:44 AM
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should i edit my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:29 AM
1

How can someone have strong feelings for u when they barely know u?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:34 AM
1

it's okay if you dont want someone to multiple date while dating u, but if you expect to get status of special since day one, then ,unless you re happy with a man no other woman wants i have bad news for u.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:15 AM
1

Thats not being treated as an option, thats straight up dissrespect and trashy behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:02 AM
1

Very few women are happy being treated as options In theory, in practice however....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:58 PM
2

You re either being obtuse or intellectually dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:15 PM
2

Looking after yourself ≠ femenine
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:11 PM
3

Looking good doesnt equals femenine
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 10:03 PM
2

They are, is just that that doesnt gives the tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:53 PM
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Why is it so hard for u to understand that no man is obliged to date a woman he doesnt finds attractive? Dont care if it was a mistake or not, she isnt owed nothing, but for your info that of "i gravitated to what was attractive to me but now i do to whats useful to me" just makes me feel even more repulsed so even less reasons for me to accept them for a relationship, the fact that a woman like that wants a relationship with me is enough to trigger my fight or flight response. And if men gravit…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:45 PM
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Just tell women that you had a gay phase, see how all this ridiculous charade of "the past is the past" suddenly doesnt applies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:31 PM
0

Femenine as in looks are harder to find, femenine men as in behavior are pretty abundant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:20 PM
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I dont know, if you dont like those kind of men then dont date them, nobody will come and shame u, gaslight u or guilt trip u into a relationship with them, men dont have that privilege on the other hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:12 PM
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Read my second paragraph, and my complain has never been that, my complain is when said women try to portray themselves as some sort of relationship minded women who would never engage into casual after they realize that culture failed them :), cuz if they were honest i would just date someone else, but since they want a piece of the cake so bad that is my criteria and requirements for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:58 PM
1

Is not the number, it is the implications behind them, i can accept 2-3 men that were respectful to her and it happened in commited relationships and she must give me a good reason why those relationships ended, but if they were abusers, players, men that i cant respect then it is an instant no. Now lets say she engages in casual but wants to take it slow with me becaue she wants to do things "right", well she must be honest about her encounters, any lies or deception is an instant no, and she m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:50 PM
4

They can absolutely get femenine men, that they dont find them attractive is another story.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:23 PM
4

Regardless of everything men complain about in this sub, if i could choose wether to be born as a man or as a woman i would choose man 100% of the times.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 08:20 PM
0

Ah yes, the famous daddy issues, a cut that is hard as hell to sew, those are the kind of women you have to avoid like the plague if you dont want to end up in redpill forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:53 PM
1

Maybe in that cum dumpster infested place you live it is the norm but theres plenty of respectable women to pick in the world, your gaslighting wont work here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:49 PM
1

1 million simps get cheated on everyday too, you gonna argue that those arent convenience marriages? Even the women that marry those guys resent them because they are the men no other women wants. And you all argue that if you have casual sexwith a guy is because you dont see him as a ltr so stop with the nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 07:47 PM
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You wouldnt stay with a guy like that no matter how much gifts and stuff he gave u, no woman wants that kind of guy for the same reason men dont want hoes, so i dont see why i should compromise. And in that case he isnt getting any sex because he is a very respectful man and he sees women as more than sexual objects thats why he goes around showering every woman he sees with gifts for "nice" guy points while the nice egalitarian 50/50 career woman worth starting a relationship with comes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 09:03 PM
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For the same reason you dont want to be the "lucky" one that gets the privilege to start an egalitarian relationship with a simp who is known for being the cashcow of all the gold diggers in the town.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:28 PM
0

In all seriousness now, many women absolutely dont do this , very attractive women, so dont worry
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:47 PM
7

Must be a nightmare to be that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:45 PM
1

Imagine if men had a "jhon" phase, or "simp" phase, or sugar daddy phase, , not many women would compromise with someone like that, so I dont see why i should, fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 07:38 PM
1

Teach the average guy that there is more in life than women, and that his value doesnt depends on wether some cheap ass cum dumpster that can be easily tricked into bed desires him sexually or not, teach him that being alone isnt a problem and teach him that there are many women out there that arent a good bet, teach him to earn his own respect, that way loneliness wont be a problem for them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:48 PM
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But you re equating virgin=no social circle and no social proof which is ridiculous, plenty of virgin women have a fullfilling social life and still many men find them attractive so how does the "no competition" holds up there? On top of that promiscuous women have a bad reputación unlike their modest counterparts so how does ur "social proof" theory holds up there?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 06:45 PM
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Thats why they are honest and transparent to said men, they absolutely dont lie or try to guilt trip them into a relationship dont they? Even the biggest "players" i know find the fraternity's mascot repulsive, and those arent men you can call "insecure" so your shame tactis wont work here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:54 PM
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No it is ridiculous, the extremes you all go just to no accept that many men dont find promiscuous women attractive but rather the opposite. Also i find it really curious that you try to paint modest women as loners with zero social circle, when most promiscuous women try to justify their trashy behavior under reasonings like "I felt alone and unwanted", ridiculous!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:42 PM
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Since when virgin=loner with zero social circle?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:14 PM
2

Since when Virginity = unfriendly, not well adjusted and not self-reliant? Since when being the fraternity's mascot = friendly, WELL-ADJUSTED and self-reliant?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:01 PM
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Then this would apply to men too as men didnt wear any clothes neither, they would talk upfront naked with other men, they would get to see other men's ass and thingy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:25 PM
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But only pretty women, at least the majority of times, if the woman isnt as pretty then they dont tolerate dissrespect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:47 PM
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If he did that in the past but didnt like it, what would ur opinion be?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:45 PM
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No she didnt answer, she just replied with a dumb comment
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:32 PM
3

Typical,
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:27 PM
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Not sure if i would = i wouldnt, now give us a non bigoted or homophobic reason why u wouldnt
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:25 PM
8

Let's say ur boyfriend drunk kissed one of his male friends, how would you process that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:22 PM
2

Whats the word used to describe a man that allows a woman to walk all over him because he is scared that she doesnt gives him her thumbs up?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:04 PM
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That just show who those women truly are, the same way many dudes who appear to be strong would drop their values and boundaries for a big pair of tits, yet that doesnt means that you re the same as them, doesnt it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:04 PM
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Meh, let it collapse then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:34 PM
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Using sex as a bargaining tool to get marriage is a big no no, i dont recommend to any woman that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:35 PM
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Is this really a problem though?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:30 PM
1

Your cheap manipulation tactics wont work here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 12:24 AM
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you all wonder why we arent attracted to so many of you all Ahhh, the typical "if u disagree with me then u wont get no pussy", dont make me laugh, those random douches that bad mouth women after they sleep with them get so much damn sexual succes and here you are saying im unnattractive because i wouldnt even sleep with those women,, I do wonder why would woman get intimate with a guy like that and then expect to be respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:33 PM
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if u like her enough then stay Ur own words, implying that if he isnt willing to take whatever trash she puts on the table then he doesnt truly likes her or any woman for that matter, nice manipulations
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:54 PM
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if u like her enough then stay Ergo if u leave u really didnt like her even though you left because you dont tolerate incongruent behavior, manipulation 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:08 PM
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Fool u/AtTheEnd777 comments and then blocks me so i cant reply, well i tell u what, misogynist is just the modern accusation of witchcraft, and those cum dumpsters dont really seem to care that im a "misogynist" as they lie just to be accepted by me and try to guilt-shame trip me into a relationship with them, so honestly, idc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:01 PM
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They work under the same principle "if u loved me then u would tolerate X" just because you arent willing to tolerate something doesnt means you didnt love the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:54 PM
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if you like her enough then stay. This is a flawed logic, is like saying "if you like her enough you will forgive cheating" you might love her a lot but if she cheats your perception of her completely changes and in the case you were to dump her it doesnt means you didnt "like" her enough, it means you wouldnt take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:53 AM
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, i really pitty any son whose mother believe this load of bullwaste, just imagine how would he turn out. It's okay to tell women you re not my type but women having preferences is a warcry. Imagine what would happen if man publicily said "i dont want to date a promiscuous woman" in fact, imagine if a man says "I want a feminine woman", if saying this on this sub already causes a shitstorm imagine the outside world, and that isnt the only thing men must hide due to the huge social penalties they…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 01:14 AM
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They would as the redpill isnt the source of their hatred, elliot roger for example didnt think like a red piller, elliot roger though his life was miserable and worthless because no girl wanted him, maybe if he was taught that the validation of vagina was meaningless then he would have gone another route
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 10:16 PM
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Incels would exist wether the redpill existed or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:44 PM
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It depends, if being yourself means you are charismatic, socially intelligent, responsible and overall functional, then yes, being yourself is a good advice, but if being yourself means you re a complete mess who spends most of his time filling his room with beer cans and you change your underwear once a month then being yourself is a terrible advice. With that said, i tried to fake a persona to get a girl to like me once, for example i like heavy metal, but i pretended to like trap because trap…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:39 PM
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If you re trying to paint red pill as some sort of "incel" movement then you re completely wrong as incels arent red pill, if you re trying to argue that many incels started through the redpill but repill content created an inmense hatred towards women because of the things redpill says about women like "it is just their nature to use you" or things like those, then you have point, but then redpill wouldnt be the sickness, redpill would be the symptom.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:26 PM
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Not wanting to date a woman who wants to leech off you means you dont give an f about family and you just want to sleep around? I swear the gaslighting they come up with nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 12:54 PM
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Unmarried=/=promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:55 PM
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Are you saying that if someone isnt promiscuous...then they are unfertile? Maybe you dont mean that but thats what im getting ,but again they contribute to nothing since they arent going around popping up unplanned kids here and there, and they shouldnt, in fact nobody should,
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:42 PM
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Flawed argument first because nobody hates on promiscuous people because they are promiscuous, simply there are people who dont want a relationship with someone like that and that isnt hate, thats freedom of choice, second ,the majority of promiscuous people encounters dont end up in conception as they take preventions for that, or at least they should, otherwise that would actually be a reason to hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:19 PM
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You dont get to decide what someone considers relevant or not, today a man's strenght is irrelevant, even a weakling can live a normal life withouth any complications in the current era, yet women still prefer strong men the majority of times, are they obliged to drop that preference just because it's irrelevant? We already agreed on this sub that women dont decide who they are attracted to, so i dont see why men should "get over it" and compromise when your average woman isnt willing to do the …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 07:45 AM
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You cant force no one to date someone they re not attracted to, no matter how much you call them "judgemental"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 07:25 AM
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Reddit moment right here
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 07:22 AM
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Courage is way more of a social expectation than chastity is, biology when it suits me, social expectation when it doesnt eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:08 AM
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*proceed to insult and shame-guilt trip into a relationship a guy who doesnt wants her because of his standards
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:05 AM
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Not wanting to date someone isnt shaming them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 12:00 AM
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Depends on the dating app, any woman with good intentions and two functional braincels with enough social intelligence doesnt use tinder, and if she does then she doesnt use it for long, is not that the women who use tinder are wrong in the head or something, is just that women who are wrong had to resort to tinder much of the times, you can see who they are a mile away when you look at their profiles
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:47 PM
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You tell her "No" like a man and then bail out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:36 AM
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The only thing that i can say is that relationships that bloom from friendships happen organically just like friendships, you dont just say "lets be friends", you talk with someone, probably hang out in the same spaces or something like that and you become friends overtime, but if you purpposefully say "imma be friends with this rando girl to see if she falls for me cuz i need intimacy or a relationship to feel good about myself asap" then thats doomed to fail, specially because you dont care if…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:33 AM
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Even if there is no anger or resentment the friendship will never be the same, if i were in those shoes i would bail out too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:24 AM
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🤦‍♂️🤦‍♀️🤦
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:18 AM
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Nice guy is just a manipulative term a lot of people use to take advantage of someone, not only women do that, for example i once heard the story of a judge trying to guilt trip a guy into paying child support for a kid that wasnt his using words like "arent you a nice guy? Are you a bad person?", Many of us have fallen for something similar to an extent because we dont want to be seen or feel like we are bad people, all human beings have an innate urge to be useful to his community. So there is…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:15 AM
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Healthy safe respectable and well adjusted women arent the fraternity mascot
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:07 AM
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Oh pls, any guy who openly says "I dont want to date that kind of woman because i think she is____,or i find her repulsive or i just dont want to" always receive the same backlash regardless wether they call them valuable or not, those insults of "insecure" "mysoginist" etc are shaming attempts to trick him into a relationship with said women, why? Because "if you date a promiscuous woman then magically you re no longer an insecure mysoginist but if you refuse to be under the control of one then…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:10 PM
1

Cry cuz i dont have to stand bad behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 08:07 PM
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My girl once told me: do you think looks matter? So i responded: If i told u that i find u ugly, but u make up for it with ur amazing personality...would u feel good or bad? Since that day she doesnt makes more questions in bad faith, a woman wont enjoy a relationship with a man that doesnt finds her physically attractive,
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:33 AM
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You refuse to date a former coom bucket? Go to therapy, you re just insecure, you re a mysoginist, get over it and date her to prove that you arent, you just want to control women, you re the problem, etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 06:48 AM
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Yes I agree, but asking that is like asking a scammer if he wants to scam you, still i talk against it for other men to see and not succumb to the gaslighting like i almost did long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:09 AM
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What i mean by they dont respect it means they want to force or trick u into it either by lies or manipulation tactics, not that they call u mean names.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 03:02 AM
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But the issue isnt that slutty girls are slutty, they can be as slutty as they want, idc, the issue starts when they dont respect a mans freedom of choice to not date them because "MuUuH paAsT dOeSnt MaTtEr u sMoL DiCk InCeL iNsEcUrE MySoGiNiSt"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:48 AM
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Alr i hope you tell them the same everytime they get their panties up in a bunch when they call dudes insecure mysoginist small dicks whatever everytime someone says they dont want to date a promiscuous woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:45 AM
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Thats my rule for relationships, more than fun, laughs and sexy times, if i dont feel like i would fight for her nor motivated to keep her safe in all matters, economical included, even if she can do it herself, i wouldnt start a relationship with her if I dont find her precious and worthy of protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:36 AM
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Doesnt applies when it is a promiscuous woman being criticized*
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:34 AM
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Yeah thats why they shame, guilt trip and lie to said men in hopes of being accepted by them🤔😒, you obviously didnt read the original post, he clearly explains the huge amount of insults he gets everytime he says he doesnt wants that kind of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:27 AM
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It is because everytime that discussion comes the man gets shamed and guilt tripped into accepting that kind of woman for a relationship, thats the issue, if the general consensus was your way of thinking then post like this wouldnt exist, but it isnt, instead men that think like you do get labelled "insecure, mysoginist, incel, asshole who treats women as sex objects (logic?)"etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:20 AM
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Read original post
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:10 AM
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Bet money on it then if you re so sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:17 AM
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Bet money on it then if you re so sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:16 AM
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Thats literally the kind of guy that cares the least about it, or at least compromises on it, the irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 12:07 AM
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He is tired of being shamed and guilt tripped into relationships with women he finds undesirable, he isnt looking for something to "use agaisnt them" because he doesnt wants to be in a relationship with that kind of woman in first place but gets shamed and guilt tripped for that exact reason, nice gaslighting you re trying there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:52 PM
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Some people prefer pinneapple in pizza, some others dont, some are okay with their girl being the body undesirable men used to discharge, others are not, people have deal breakers and thats fine, c'est la vie.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:47 PM
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If a man disagrees he's free to do so but dont whine afterwards about being called insecure Then there shouldnt be a problem if a slut gets called all sorts of derragatory terms due to her undesirable behavior, she shouldnt whine about slut "shaming" and she shouldnt whine about all the asumptions that are made about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:41 PM
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He ll just go and date a woman that he is comfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:37 PM
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The past is the past until the woman is the one that has to compromise, learned that the hard way, thats why idgaf what the cheap ass cum dumpsters that flood this sub say, at the end of the day they arent going to look for my happiness nor pay for the broken dishes if i compromise on my wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:36 PM
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Cool, theres people who do care about it and they re not obliged to date someone they arent comfortable with
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:20 PM
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You re not obliged to date a promiscuous man if you dont want to, society will respect your choice....unlike in the opposite situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 06:04 PM
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On top of that this sub doesnt aims towards improvement, any advise given gets censored under the premise of "All CoOooMeEnTs mUsT cHaLlEngE Op ViEwS", it's ridiculous, maybe they know the sub will die if we get rid of the negativity and actually improve peoples lives
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:33 PM
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Men dont believe not having a college degree or education makes someone less of a person, thats why they have no problem with the lack of those things, gtfo with that ridiculous gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:59 PM
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When i was a teenager i was super left wing, when i grew up and i had to do tax returns i turned right wing, never voted right or left because of gender benefits or identities, only economical reasons , this sub is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:55 PM
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This is like saying a rich guy has high standards because he picked the hottest sugar baby among all the ones that wanted him, or because he had sex with the most hottest prostitute, or because he is paying for the most expensive OF girl, or because he hired the hottest escort, no one would respect a man that considers hot sugar babies,hot prostitues hot OF "models" and hot escorts options, the same logic applies here, he doesnt needs to be attractive because any man can get that as long as he h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:05 PM
0

A lot of attractive women happily clean the homes of a man they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:28 PM
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Is just easier to accept that there are shitty women out there and that a woman has to earn the status of special in a mans life just like a man would, im not going to go around demanding random women to change or blame them for things that they probably arent, instead i spot the respectable ones and praise them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:20 PM
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Dont, you will end up commiting a big mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:56 PM
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Yeah sure, a guy who has the balls to reject or leave a relationship with somene he isnt comfortable with is far from insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 06:46 PM
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How are you so sure they are the kind of men you would like to have in your life? Because there is a difference between wanting a relationship with that person, and wanting a relationship with any person so you dont feel alone and empty.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:32 PM
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dunno why you'd call it "secure" Cuz he doesnt care about her past, you know, that means a guy is "secure" of himself like this sub likes to ramble about eveytime a guy say "no" to a promiscuous woman because of her sexual past.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:29 PM
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How so? He is looking for more than sex, otherwise he would go for a woman that gives him what he wants easily
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:20 PM
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Trying to make a man fall in move through sex is like a man trying to make a woman fall in love with him by giving her expensive things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:15 PM
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I didnt want to have a relationship with a former promiscuous woman and she didnt take it well, i didnt dissrespect her, i didnt insult her, i just said she wasnt my type because of her past, she didnt take it lightly and even started to make up lies about me, that i was supposedly was an asshole mysoginist who only uses women for sex when we never even slept together and she straight up told me that i was so different to the other men she has been with, i already knew about her history so my mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:06 PM
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Irl? I already said the few times i rejected a woman over that. Here? Almost everytime that discussion arises.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 11:47 AM
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Men who just want to bust a nut dont care about a womans n count, they even prefer it high because they wouldnt feel guilty afterwards, my friends have told me, are you arguing that those kind of men see women as more than sexual objects,but a guy that considers a future with a woman based on her values doesnt cares about who she is a person? Nice gaslighting you re trying there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:20 PM
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the higher the male n count is the less he cares, why? Paternity insecurity. Are you arguing that the high n count guy doesnt cares because he thinks she will cuck him anyways? Ridiculous, that demonstrates even more that promiscuous women are not to be trusted
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:07 PM
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A mature and securely attached adult has no problem ending a relationship that he isnt comfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:58 PM
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You cant give a good argument about why rejecting a woman based on her sexual past is insecurity, it is just a ridiculous shaming attempt, but even if it really was insecurity those cum dumpsters dont seem to care as they blatantly lie in hopes of being accepted by those "insecure" men, what a ridiculous charade.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:52 PM
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In real life? The few times I rejected some of those women. In reddit? Haha...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:54 PM
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I dont and they still bitch and moan about it along with a few extra shaming attempts like "virgin" "incel" "you get no pussy "you re probably gay", even less reasons for me to respect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 01:50 PM
1

If he is on your league then that also would make you an unnattractive simpleton Ouch
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:45 PM
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They feel a woman with no of few sexual can't judge their sexual perfomance Im tired of this ridiculous shaming attempt thrown everytime a guy doesnt wants a relationship with someone he finds repulsive is just ridiculous, i wonder if all this guys that put themselves this peacock tail would give a promiscuous woman the kind of relationship she wants, ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:05 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:21 PM
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You re totally making that up, very few men feel repulsed by a woman who was raped, the majority would feel empathy for her even if she was raped a hundred times....unless for you rape means having a hookup and regretting, in which case that disgust is completly justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:57 AM
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I have a big family, so when I was a kid i could observe the behaviors of many of my not so modest cousin, certain things that we see guys say about sluts here are true, although i had that way of thinking before even discovering this sub and the pill movements, not as strong, but my aversion to sluts wast there. most of the things red pill talks about arent completely right, for example they say that if you re alpha enough, a slut wont cheat on you, the truth is a slut will cheat on you wether …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:51 AM
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No fap also rejects porn, you should have put that in your post, that would have got more interesting answers
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:34 PM
2

I want non-sexual intimacy, like cuddling on the couch. My girl and I cuddle on the couch sometimes and unevitablely we end up getting sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:25 AM
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peace of mind, that one is very important for me, a woman that disrupts that peace of mind is an automatic rejection for me, how they disrupt it? By purpposefuly creating drama or complaining about dumb shit that isnt important.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 06:23 AM
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The insane amount of gaslighting men get from society about how relationships should be, how to be a good "man" (useful idiot is a better word), "toxic" masculinity and if you dont agree with the status quo then you re a mysoginist dont help either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 12:08 PM
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If he was secure about himself he would have just dumped her withouth making such a big drama about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 12:20 PM
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Lmao she is the victim of course, she couldnt bear hurting the poor guy's feelings so she had no choice but to take his gifts and efforts not for her own benefit but so he doesnt gets "hurt",how noble of her. How long are you going to keep with this ridiculous charade?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 12:10 PM
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Because his life his rules, just like no woman is obligated to sleep with him on the first date even if she was the biggest slut around the block, he is not obligated to date said woman because he finds the fact that she was the biggest slut around the block repulsive, get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:08 PM
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Why does it bothers you so much that a man is free to not accept someone like that in his life? Why is he obliged to?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:54 PM
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Why dont you just accept the fact that you re not entitled to any man's freedom and if he thinks you re slut because of your actions (like sleeping instantly with some douche who will just badmouth you on your back because i dont care bout his opinion) he is free not to date you over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:45 PM
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She clearly didnt reveal her modus operandi the first time they dated cuz she knew pretty well he would have dumped her on the spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:17 PM
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What if he never sticked his dick in crazy? Why is he obliged to carry the bagagge of some douches leftovers? They only reason he should date any of those women is if he feels like it not because "we all make mistakes", we all agree that men arent entitled to sex and relationships, guess what? Women arent entitled to it neither, most of them wouldnt want a man who has had gay encounters, men who have payed for only-fans content or men who have engaged into prostitution, so if a man doesnt checks…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:59 AM
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any guy with two functional braincels capable of synapsin can smell the bullshit a mile away. Is not a matter of morals, if that is a problem for you then you are in your right to reject her, she is the one that has to get over it, not you, your life your rules, you are not obligated to date no one you dont want. Just like she is free to sleep around with whoever she wants, you are free to date whoever you want, you are not obligated under any circumstance to accept such terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 11:29 AM
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Stop throwing "madonna-whore" complex like if it were some sort of witch mark, if i reject a woman because she sleeps around then she is the one that should get over it, not me, what a ridiculous take, trying to make it seem like if it is my fault that poor sluts have to lie because otherwise i wouldnt give them a romantic chance, straight up ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:53 AM
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No it isnt, just because you re a virgin doesnt means you re a weirdo and unnattractive otherwise all men would remain virgins their whole lives, on top of that if you re a weirdo that will be noticeable even before the virginity talks comes up. In the womans case she doesnt wants to be perceived as easy so she doesnt has sex on the first date....but then goes and engages into a meaningless hookup with some rando who doesnt even respects her and will go and boast to his douche friends about how …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:26 AM
1

Pretending to be someone who doesnt engages in casual sex when she does
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:38 AM
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And wants to be seen as a victim on top of that. "im just protecting myself" they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:00 PM
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So why is she lying to the boyfriend material if she cares about him so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:55 PM
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Nonsense, there are a lot of people who are true to their word and congruent with what they preach, like women who dont go around being the comunal cum dumpster of ur average douchebag but then go pretend to be holy mary with men they want to leech of.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:52 PM
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You all dont understand jack-****, for us men when a woman is willing to get intimate with us means more than just getting sexy times, it means she is open with us, it is okay if she isnt at the beginning, but when you realize she was instantly open with another guy who she describes as not relationshit material causes an extremely sensation of rejection, specially because the most primal part of our brain interprets it as "since this guys is an ass, i ll just let him impregnate me, but since u …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:38 PM
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You geniunely believe that only red pillers have a problem with such behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:23 PM
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In a few words, she is a fraud
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:21 PM
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It definetly doesnt causes me feelings of repulsion, unless they were really hardcore things that i would never try, of course there is also the factor of STDs, but i really dont find it as problematic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:57 PM
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If former sluts didnt lie a about it then it wouldnt be an issue, many men could pick wether to pursue a relationship with them or not, but since they believe they are entitled to a mans commitment they lie about it because "he should grow up about it, the past is the past", thats the real issue, former sluts who arent honest about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:54 PM
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I have never liked porn, and i ve never dated a woman that watches it either, i know they exist, but i ve never dated one, i did meet some that i suspect they did, but i wouldnt have dated them regardless of I knew or not for other reasons, if she watches those hardcore things you usually see on porn it would definetly be weird for me, if it is the one oriented at women then it causes me no feelings at all, but like I say, i ve never experienced this situation, imagining it feels weird and bizar…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:26 PM
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You dont get it, it is not that a guy comes and specifically change for you, it's that a guy who you would 99% of the times ignore unless you need a favor from him has to undergo a change for the better if he wants a better love life, or any love life at all, you only notice them after they improved, before that they simply are invisible. I met those men. I never implied those men didnt expect some particular sort of treatmen, what I did state is that for those men, to have those sort of expecta…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:32 AM
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No man who has unnattractive qualities can realistically expect that a woman comes and admires how incredible he is just for the sake of existing, if he wants that then he has to change, you may not know a man who specifically changed for u but the chances of you running into a man who was unnattractive in the past but changed for the better are high. Women need to change for men? So to answer your question, if a woman wants an attractive man, then she must be attractive herself, just like fat d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 11:02 PM
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I really see no reason to share with my SO how miserable my life can be, i can share hard situations but i dont like to complaint, "opening" up about my miseries only stresses me more, i look for solutions not paths on my back. IMO doing this is the equivalent of woman making up lies about how much of a slut she used to be with douches who didnt gave a frick bout her and only used her as a cum dumpster, and then rubbing that on your face to test how much you "love" her, if you stay you love her …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:59 PM
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Pls marry me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 02:43 PM
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And when they realize you re serious, those bitches start worshipping the floor you walk on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:34 PM
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What is the first insult a lot of women resort to everytime they want to diminish a man? "You re an incel" "you re a virgin" "you get no p*ssy" "no girl likes u" "i wouldnt sleep with u" now combine that with a society that constantly tells men things like "u owe women just for the sake of existing" "u re to blame for all the bad things that happen to women" "women can do no bad" "try being a better for women" "women are always victim of men" just look at that gillette ad that came out a few yea…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:19 PM
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No it's not true, none of this happens because they need a scapegoat, in reality they were raised to believe that their value as men comes from wether a woman approves of them or not, they believe it so if a woman doesnt gives them her thumbs up their existence is completely invalid, thats why it ends up in resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 06:03 PM
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pedestalization doesnt happens because of low self esteem , pedestalization happens due to upbringing and low self esteem is one of it's consequences, not the other way around. Just ask any dude who struggles with that and he is going to tell him how since he was a kid he was taught to self hate himself just for the sake of being a man, and his worth is determined based on how fast he can trick some ignorant woman into bed or get her to "love" him otherwise he is worthless, even movies and media…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 05:55 PM
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You should be careful with generalizations like this, because most undesirable women like to play the semantics game and find loopholes to portray a guy as mysoginist even though he may not be one in order to gain simpathy from clueless guys, for example: Guy refuses to date promiscuous or former promiscuous woman, he is a slut-shamer mysoginist. Guy refuses open relationship, he is controlling. Guy doesnt wants to inconvenience woman with his feelings about something personal, he must be an abu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:15 PM
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Of course, attraction cant be bought nor negotiated no matter how much the women of this subreddit try to pretend otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 05:52 PM
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I simply wouldnt date one and i want...no, i demand them to respect my desition and stept away from me, but my body my choice doesnt applies when the man is the one that is excercising his freedom of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:37 AM
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I didnt want one......i just fell in love with someone i consider special and I want her to live life in a more pleasant way, so thats why i started a relationship with her, i consider her precious and worthy of protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:33 AM
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The second part is real in the way that the married man...or any man in happy, comitted and fulfilling relationship doesnt feels desperate, needy and is not constantly hitting on randos in hopes of filling a void or to prove he has game, he is instead laidback, relaxed and authentic, so when he talks to other women they can feel that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 10:28 AM
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And the final reason is that there are women who simply are trashy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:58 AM
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Most of em end up jailed unfairly over false claims of domestic abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:46 AM
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I have heard about cases of women purpposefully harming themselves and then blaming it on their spouse to claim false domestic violence....or even straight up attacking then with weapons and falsely claim it was self defence, ....wanna claim now that domestic violence is not a legitimate threat for men because women are phisically weaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:43 AM
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I trust some, others not so much. For example in the past i use to empathize a lot with women who were constantly complaining about how men are bad, that just want to use her, that only assholes are into her.....until i found out they were as bad if not worse as those men, and that most of the times they just talked poorly about those men to garner simpathy and gain face cuz talking about how they got dumped cuz they were caught cheating or how their only motivation to be with those men was to l…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:24 AM
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Not my problem, I have had to deal with a lot of undesirable behavior by many undesirable women and i can guarantee you that none of my complaints would have been heard in good faith, so instead i put the effort into myself and looked for the kind of women I liked while avoiding the ones I dislike like the plague, one of the good things of being a man is a that you dont get pats in your back nor victimhood points for complaining even if you have valid complaints so you have no choice but to beco…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:27 PM
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It can also make the sky fall and cause world war 3
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:54 AM
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I dont buy it, any woman who "falls" for it had dodgy intentions herself but it didnt play out as she expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:50 AM
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I dont see why u all try to look for the reason why lions "prefer" meat and zebras "prefer" grass, the majority of men simply find promiscuity unnattractive the same way women find weakness repulsive in men, we dont complaint about it nor force women to date weak men who cant even lift 15kg to save their own lives, promiscuous women included, so i dont see why a man should compromise, if you dislike promiscuity then simply say "next" and move on, they are the ones that should get over it not you…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 06:48 PM
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Refusing to date them is already judgemental in nature, ironic eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:04 AM
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Is just that many people consider a simple statement like "I dont wanna date that kind of woman" slutshaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:01 AM
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The only single moms i would consider are widows or raped women who decided to have the kid, in those situations i respect and i understand, but other than those exceptional cases, i refuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:58 AM
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You all talk like if she was the dream woman every guy hopes to meet, like wtf? , For all we know she could be the kind of woman many of you would only dream of in your nightmares yet here you are talking like if she was the only chance a man has to be happy, wake up fgs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:38 AM
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Not wasting my time definetly, i ve seen outrageous things like a woman straight up saying "I have to pretend that i like him because his ego is fragile" like wtf? And at the same time she says " he has to show that he is into me" but that aint a fragile ego according to her, I would rather be told No than to deal with that Bullc***, It's not like im missing something anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 03:30 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 01:02 PM
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So how does this negates his point in any way?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 12:59 PM
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sounds more like a white lie they tell the poor chumps that married them so the cross they carry doesnt feels as heavy, I dont buy it, i mean what in the actual fuck : as lover for married women So you re basically telling us that if you re the nice guy that women want for a relationship, u should feel privileged because she will just CHEAT on you with him but wont leave you because you re "relationshit" material? 🤔hmmmmmm. Yeah no, i have already seen plenty of examples of women painting their …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 12:53 PM
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I asume you already accepted the obvious fact that she is most likely also "seeing" other dudes, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 12:29 PM
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No no im not saying it is right, it isnt, but I believe that is the reason for that behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:36 AM
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i understand what i feels like, i get the same feeling everytime i get attacked into oblivion when I say i dont want to date a promiscuous woman. in men's case i theorize that is due to the expectations that many men get drilled in since they were infants, like for example "U have to be nice to women" "u must do what it takes to be accepted by them" "if she dissaproves then u failed as man" and many other things, as a consequence many men grow believeing that their self worth is tied to wether a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 11:35 PM
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I did read it compa, otherwise i wouldnt be answering nor quoting it, if everything you argued is flawless then my anecdotal evidence should not exist, but it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 06:49 PM
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On top of that i fail to see how virginity is mutually exclusive with an exciting intimate life, my own experience proves it is possible compa.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 06:40 PM
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I feel like this makes the relationship mean just a bit more. As they know they can get it elsewhere and know how to get it elsewhere. As opposed to virgins in a marriage who will more than likely cope with a lot more as to not end up alone without the one person they’ve had. “Ignorance is bliss.” This has nothing to do with virginity, that depends on the person, i know a few ex promiscuous women who cope with a lot more as to not end up alone simply because no other man will accept them, and ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 06:15 PM
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I was asking if a man is with a woman in a committed relationship and he realizes she makes significantly more than him, how does he feel? That factor wont make her more or less attractive unless the man has hidden agenda, expects the woman to contribute financially to him or sees her as a symbol of status, but i wouldnt call that "attraction" would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 05:32 PM
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OHHH, so according to dont marry a virgin because she will run out on you, but marry a cum dumpster because she wont, but that aint insecurity eh? Way to have confidence in your relationship and sexual skills that u think a virgin will run out of u because she thinks there is better out there, clown
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:48 PM
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until she decides to find it out 5 years into the marriage. Your own words.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:42 PM
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You assuming that a woman will run out on you Thats literally the premise of your inital comment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:38 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:36 PM
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I mean irl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:27 PM
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Explain them to me, no no, explan them to us all, explain me how rejecting someone for trashy behavior indicates "low self esteem" L O FUCKING L, most retarded answer in the whole sub for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:22 PM
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I hope it was with honesty and transparency lmao, I wonder if their hubbies are also happily married, As long as they dont consider me an option they can do as they please ,but to dream is free.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:21 PM
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If your woman dumps you in pro of casual sex then she was never into you, she just was with you out of convenience or because it was better than nothing, and if after trying the casual route she comes back to you, the same still applies along with the fact that probably nobody else wants her or you re the easiest "option" she has. L
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:15 PM
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If your woman dumps you in pro of casual sex then she was never into you, she just was with you out of convenience or because it was better than nothing, and if after trying the casual route she comes back to you, the same still applies along with the fact that probably nobody else wants her or you re the easiest "option" she has. L
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:15 PM
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Be honest and dont hide it, theres nothing to be ashamed of :) bear it with pride.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:11 PM
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Asuming that is true, what does that have to do with insecurity? Lmao, the virginity requirement is just that, a requirement, not an obligation, if you dont fit it then take the R and move on, sluts arent stoned to death nor pursued if they dont fit that standard, they just get a "No" for an answer, what a tragedy aint it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:03 PM
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Women can reject anyone they please withouth justification but men face backlash if they refuse to date certain kind of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:49 PM
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Dumbest shit i have ever read
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 02:58 PM
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Only a >>>>>>FOOL<<<<<< would ask that question expecting a honest answer,.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 04:06 PM
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One has to be stupid as f*ck to fall for that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:51 PM
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Pretty simple, if a party slut who is the comunal cum dumpster of the whole frat house thinks im husband material, my fight or flight response is triggered, if a woman who never has had casual encounters nor has interestl and the few men that had been in her life were respectable men who treated her well or never has had any thinks im husband material, then i feel flattered. The reasons are self explanatory. Why is being called wife material a compliment? Ask the women here if they would rather …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:42 PM
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Men are just hornier than women and want casual sex more casual sex than women do due to society not slutshaming men. Society instead shames men and belittles them if they dont get or reject casual sex, dont you find it interesting that in a society where men are belittled if some ignorant cum dumpster doesnt gives them their thumbs up men are more obssesed than ever with casual encounters? Dont you find it interesting that in society where men achievements have no meaning if some vapid instagra…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:16 PM
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the problem is that men often use their attractiveness to their own advantage. The times i have seen this happening it involved some low life who pretended to be rich, famous or whatever other vapid quality society sells us as important and an ignorant cum dumpster who is looking for a chump to leech status and money and demands it all just for the sake of her existence, is never a woman who actually wants a connection nor see men as people nor actually is in love with him, so I dont buy it, lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:51 PM
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Intimacy and external esteem arent needs, jeez, what would have humanity reached if men needed to be patted on the back everytime to achieve something good,
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 09:06 PM
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The woman is okay with it...or no other guy would volunteer so better than nothing I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:40 AM
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Being falsely accused of a crime you didnt commit = being held accountable of your actions Excellent logic you got there, honestly i see why you all demand "nice" guys so damn much, they are the only ones who would take all that trash withouth retaliating back eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:08 AM
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Thats nothing more than a cancer in a mans live, when i truly accepted i had issues that intimacy or social validation wouldnt fix, i was able not only to fix them but to detach myself from all those things and then ironically i got both, I reject a society that belittles a man just because he doesnt gets the thumbs up of some ignorant cum dumpster who can easily be tricked into bed, and most importantly, i can say with total security that that isnt a need for men in their natural state.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 02:02 AM
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Thats just how you perceive it, they could be pretty undesirable women themselves yet you re pedestalizing them withouth even knowing them,how are you so sure those are women you or any guy with the luxury of the choice would want in his life?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 05:18 PM
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Everyone must go through a process, wether u are attractive or not, only mediocre people or who dont know better demand things to go fast, and as such, they end up being the ones you see complaining so much about how their partner isnt what they though they were, or complaining about being played, or the typical. If the naturally attractive woman just wants a "relationship", yes, she doesnt has to try, if she wants a relstionship that isnt mediocre and fulfills her then yes, she has to go throug…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:58 AM
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I need to know one to actually make a proper opinion, but ngl big muscles in women feel kinda off putting, at least to that body building level, still im sure there are other attractive dudes who are okay with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:45 AM
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Have to lie about orgasms *so they dont get their sorry asses dumped, corrected it for u
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 06:00 PM
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Only a fool would ask that question expecting an honest answer
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:58 PM
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Not having her cake and eating yours as well basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:51 PM
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Committing to a woman like that would be an evolutionary suicide for a man, not to mention the two studies you posted barely if not say anything about humans sexual psychology at all, it just talks about animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:18 PM
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They can reject someone for whatever reason and nothing will happen, but if I were to express the reasons why I have rejected some women I could literally lose my livelyhood, talk about double standards😒.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:09 PM
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used for sex and then discarded *By cum dumpsters, not by respectable women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:51 AM
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The rage only happens because a lot of men believe they are worthless if a woman doesnt gives em their thumbs up and therefore society wont respect them and exclude them, I can bet a lot that if men were raised to feel complete and needless of the approval of some random cum dumpster that can be easily tricked into bed then that problem would dissappear, but even suggesting that grants huge social penalties.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 11:35 AM
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"all men are nothing more than mindless sex animals who would fuck anything and just want to use women but men who want love, cuddles and emotional caring actually just want a ego trip" 😎👉 I know right? They complain about how every man is a pig but men who value connection and love are made objects of ridcule, but at the same time they are such assholes because "they wont treat me like I want" which is the same thing they are calling an ego trip, bunch of hypocrites. The men of PPD arent exampl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:18 AM
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Noooooooo, if you want a better woman then u have to change a lot of things as a person, when you change the people around u change. You can "vet" harder, you can look for "redflags" here and there but nothing will change, at most you ll just get someone who knows how to pretend for a while, as the reason why they "tricked" u is because they knew how to exploit your flaws, so you are the one that has to change if you dont want such an unattractive kind of woman in your life. Lets be real, the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:58 AM
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So what if you dislike her as a person because of her past and therefore you dont want to commit to her? In that situation your platitudes apply yet hoes get mad anyways when u still look at them as people and not as holes to pecker.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 09:44 AM
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For the same reason that many women despite not liking the nice guy, still go on dates with him from time to time(all sponsored by him) yet mock and ridicule him on his back despite giving them what they want. ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:27 PM
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Thats because men are considered inferior to women therefore if many women want to sleep with one man that means that man got the divine approval of the godesses therefore he is "valuable" and if he isnt desired then he is worthless. Dont like it and want a change? Start telling men that they are valuable and worthy of respect regardless of what some random cum dumpster thinks and see how this "double standard" will go away......unless you dont want your status quo to crumble...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:22 PM
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im putting 30 hours in/multiple dates to get to know him and also make sure that he wont view me as a slut. See here the reason why men want to avoid that kind of woman like the plague, Any woman who does that is nothing more than a liar and a fraud, just be honest instead of pretending to be something you are not, im pretty sure plenty of men would still accept whatever trash they get thrown at their face regardless, so why lie about it? You re free to sleep with whoever you want whenever you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:11 PM
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You can not say it is normal behavior when there are huge social penalties for bringing that talk up,how are you so sure they re actually accepting of it and not just showing common courtesy? How do u know they would actually consider a serious relationship under does circumstances Also a guy can have that preference and still slay ,so gaslighting wont work here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:51 PM
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You can not say it is normal behavior when there are huge social penalties for bringing that talk up,how are you so sure they re actually accepting of it and not just showing common courtesy? How do u know they would actually consider a serious relationship under does circumstances Also a guy can have that preference and still slay ,so gaslighting wont work here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:50 PM
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They might still act as if it was normal because of being naive or because of no options or backbone. Or gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:34 PM
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No, men do not see any romance into taking a cum dumpster for dinner, thats the simple truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:25 PM
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Bullshit, just because they have a standard that you dont fit doesnt makes them insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 09:23 PM
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Unless they enable it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:34 PM
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Then why do they always demand you to be their personal ATM otherwise "you dont love me" "you dont know the value of women" "you re mediocre" etc? I call bullshit on that if the moment she realizes I drive a lambo then we have good "chemistry" or how i get the "privilege" of taking her to an expensive restaurant to see if im "worthy", beat it. Their actions do not match their words, and im not saying that just because a woman doesnt wants to date a man who doesnt has his shit together makes her …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:18 PM
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I stumbled with this sub by accident when I was searching for answers after i had to deal with an extremely undesirable woman, now I comment here sometimes to motivate other men who may find themselves in the same position I was back then, it is also quite therapeutic to be able to unapologetically speak my mind withouth the fear of having my livelyhood threatened.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:43 PM
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Unless there were threats of violence or and extreme need like shelter or food then that argument of "I was pressured" is total bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:22 PM
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That aint the problem, the real thing is they compromise on it under the premise that "she is just not like that" and they respect her boundaries, dumping a girl over that would be a douche move not to mention they are emotionally invested in her so they compromise on it for her, but the illusion dies the moment they realize that not only she engaged into that, she also did it with a man she supposedly doesnt respects to put more salt in the wound, it is never a nice guy or a good boyfriend, it …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:53 PM
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Every dude wants a virgin until they have to teach her. Dumbest shit i ve ever read.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:34 PM
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If she did that in the past my perception of her would change regardless, gross. Im gonna put this in a simple manner: I dont find many kinks appealling, I want a woman who thinks the same, not someone who had to "experiment" (engage in trashy behavior) to find out if she "likes" it or not, and if she lies and says "i ve never" then there we got a problem, cuz you know you didnt do that with a man worthy of respect. Thats my problem with these kind of situations, i can accept some kinks, but I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:06 AM
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Congratulations, you re playing on the major leagues if you figured this out, another thing to add is that no woman wants to date a simp, but if a man rejects their female equivalent then he is satan incarnated or "insecure" or whatever other attack towards his self esteem you can think, but if a woman doesnt wants a simp she just isnt attracted to him, not to mention simpy nice guys always get labelled as manipulative assholes with hidden agendas while sluts are poor women who just want to be "…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:40 PM
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Only mediocre women want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:33 PM
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What kind of men were the ones that started a relationship with the crude vulgar and promiscuous woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:29 PM
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First make your bed, destroy all the damaging myths you believe about dating then see what kind of man you want to date.....or just stay alone and leave attractive men for the attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:21 PM
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Only a mediocre person tries to buy love and attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:08 PM
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If you expect a man to be romantically attracted to you just because "love is magic" then keep dreaming. You have to be a woman of substance, only a mediocre man will love you just because you re a woman, but thats how a mediocre woman thinks, and what i mean Is that there are maaaany kinds of woman today, many of them, extremely undesirable, and if you are one of them then I have bad news for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:06 PM
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Which one do you prefer? Thats a better question.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 07:45 PM
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Then whats the point of your post? "Look there are movies where the earth is triangle, therefore the flat earth society is wrong" Thats your whole argument in a nutshell
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 09:45 PM
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This comment destroys this post completely, enough said.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 06:35 PM
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Real life proves the total opposite, enough said.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 06:27 PM
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Bullshit, plenty of real life stories prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 06:24 PM
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Sums up pretty well the majority of problems peole face in this sub and relationships in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 06:18 PM
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Fuckboys know pretty well how to pick their victim..i mean "partners" just like gold diggers do. Now anyone can attract shitty people like that, thats not ur fault ,but if you fall for their dumb tactics then thats your responsibility, no one can "abuse" you when it comes to love and relationships if you dont let em. Another is story is that you were threatened or you had an essential need uncovered, but that wouldnt really count as a fuckboy, would it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 06:15 PM
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If this works on you, then you are the problem wether you re a man or a woman, Wanna see examples of female negging? "You re not the man i though you were" "You re insecure if you re not willing to accept whatever trash I throw to your face" "You just have a fragile ego" "Who hurt you" "You re not a real man if you..." "You dont get any coochie" and many other personal attacks towards his self esteem whenever he isnt doing what she pleases, of course there many women who do not do this, but ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:44 AM
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You re either really naive or just being intelectually dishonest if you argue that men who find themselves in that situation had prior knowledge of the kind of woman they were marrying
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 08:00 AM
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Thats why if your partners past is an issue for you, you just dump they🙂 ,as easy as that, you will find future happiness with someone who fits whatever standard you have, me i dont care if a girl does sexual favors for me or not, thats not going to change the way I think about her if her past involves trashy behavior or if i want a virgin or whatever I want, it's my life and i decide who I date and who I dont, most people have a problem with this simply because they were lied to, not because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:47 AM
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These women really think that for a man to marry a sandwich maker is humiliating but marrying the leftovers of the whole college football fraternity is in every man's bucket list, lmao, a man that would actually feel humilliated if he married a sandwich flipper at some restaurant just has standards but a man that feels repulsed by a woman's sexual past is insecure and has a fragile ego, lmao, it seems that insecurity and fragile ego only applies if the though police approves of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 07:36 AM
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Prepare to get insults and attacks towards your masculinity if you tell them that especially if they know you re telling the truth, they re so used to guys chasing the carrot so damn much that the moment a man is not under their control they fell threatened because they dont have the "power" anymore, despite complaining so damn much "all men just want that" "all men are just pigs" "men that, men this" but the moment a man that actually values connection they just ridicule him relentlessly until …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 01:02 AM
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Ok mate, the day women start dating pathetic simpletons who used to pay for only fans content, men who frequented strip clubs, prostitutes and escorts, bi men or men who had gay encounters in the past, previous incels or cash cows of all the gold diggers in the town will be the day i ll make exceptions for an ignorant woman who used the be the personal pleasure ego trip machine of the whole football club, but until then I tell them no, especially when the lie about it and say "no im not like tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 12:47 AM
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Dont know about that really, as far as the mainstream goes, a lot of women are raised to believe that they deserve the world just for the sake of existing, but definetly that not may be true for all women, feel free to share what toxic beliefs regarding men and relationships are women fed at an early age and how do they compare to their male counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 01:34 PM
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Cuz all of them were raised under the belief that all women were saints, pure intentioned with uninterested and genuine love, that it was all men the ones causing problems and that women were just poor victims of bad men who wanted to have sex with them, that women hated sex, that all men were degenerates, that they should be grateful if a woman ever looked towards their direction, that they had to pedestalize women in order to be accepted by them, making her the center of their lives, many othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 12:41 AM
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Definetly there are intimidated men but not for reasons you think, remember that a man even admitting he has troubles with women makes him object of ridicule in the mainstrean culture, you as a man cant just say you suck at dating withouth being looked down for it rather than helped, not to mention there is still a considerable amount of people who have the ridiculous belief that if a man doesnt has a woman by his side then he is worthless, he doesnt has women throwing their panties at him? He i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:24 PM
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Usually guys who experience this are men who need a relationship to feel better about themselves, guys who think that if they are single they arent valuable, that being single is something bad and if they dont get the thumbs up of a woman, they are worthless, then the moment they luck out and get a girl, they change, since they already fullfilled that prerequisite to get the thumbs up society, they feel more confident and secure about themselves, therefore when they talk to other women they aren…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 08:05 PM
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Ergo it's completely natural and acceptable to reject such kind of women for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 12:12 PM
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The real problem with those kind of women is that they turn off a man's provider-protector instincts, there the reason why many men of all kinds want to avoid them like the plague, thats why it isnt a mans fault if he feels repulsed by them, thats like expecting a woman to think all high and mighty of a pathethic simpleton who pays for some rando's onlyfans and cant even lift 10 kg to save himself. With that said I really dont care if it's biological or not, my life my rules, I dont want to date…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 11:58 AM
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Thats because saying "I dont wanna date a cheap-ass cum dumpster" doesnt sounds as kid friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 11:50 AM
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what if the man wants to know you first before making such an effort for a woman of dubious reputation? Or is he obliged to do this because you say you re worth it? Do you really expect a man to come and do this out of nowhere because the power of "love"? If you dont wanna sleep with no one on the first date, thats understandable, but then, if a man understandably why doesnt wants to give you his time, his effort and his energy out of the get go doesnt makes him mediocre.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 11:29 AM
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They were raised to believe all women were good, pure, well intentioned towards men, that women could do no evil , that men were to blame for all womens' problems,that men are below women, that if women didnt approve of them therefore they were bad and worthless as men and many more damaging beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:07 PM
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You re just being intelectually dishonest at this point, they dont behave like that because "she hurt me" they behave like that because is what they have seen that grants results, they didnt see the polite kind guy getting love and appreciation, they saw the jerk and the violent guy getting it all, therefore they learn from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:02 PM
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10/10 red piller tears lmao, no, you re just being intelectually dishonest, red pill is not and ideology or a movement, red pill is just a term that simply means "uncomfortable hard to accept truths" even many people in the red pill experience a lot of dislike towards red pill core beliefs, most of them say " why cant i just be a normal genuine guy and be accepted by women? Why do I have to act like a complete jerk? Why is my politeness considered weak but some douche aggressive behavior is cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:57 PM
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Thats how they were raised and influenced for the majority of their lives and of course it led to harsh awakements, thats the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:34 PM
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And your point is?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:30 PM
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Im telling you the reason why it exist and the motivations behind it, nothing else, they just dont throw all that because it is super based, super politically incorrect, super rebellious, super anti feminist, no, redpill never preached wholesomness or nothing like that, they just wanted answers as to why mediocre deadbeat bad boy unloyal abuser was more exciting, attractive and got treated better than mr respectful stable generous kind emotionally open down for a relationship guy, you can alread…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:09 AM
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But thats not what I believe to be true, thats literally the only reason why the red pill exist, due to a considersble amount of mens' struggles and problems with women, struggles and problems that for others developed in hatred and resenment and thats what you re refering to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:50 AM
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What nonsense are you spoutting? All red pillers had the initial belief that all women were good and uncapable of doing bad, that it was men the ones who wanted to take advantage of women and that all the responsability was on the men, they werent trying to have fun with some party slut and then and then settle down with a "good girl", they all wanted a relationship since the beginning, but got rejected in pro of casual encounters or relationships with "charming" narcissists, imagine what good c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:44 AM
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Like? The one and only reason why the red pill exist is due to a grouo of men nightmare stories with women, no other reason, literally just that, a grouo of men in desire of improving their love life and seeking answers to the things they witnessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:28 AM
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They believe all that because they saw men like that having their way with the women they wanted despite being everything that women supposedly despise, they didnt just come up with that hypothesis out of boredom.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:14 AM
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Is even worse when a lot of them got dumped or cheated on with actual abusers, wife beaters, players, violent men, all the men that women supposedly despise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:50 AM
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All men who entered the red pill did it due to horrible experiences with women, which have little to do with rejections but betrayals and extreme abuses, there is a reason why one of the red pill's mottos says "women are the biggest red pillers of men " or " men dont create red pills, women do", not for nothing it is called the "red pil" because it is uncomfortable and hard to swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:46 AM
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What about men who were lied about it by a woman who they would have never dated had they known the truth in first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 05:32 AM
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THERE ARE NO EXCEPTIONS EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM IS LIKE THIS🎵🎶🎵🎶🎵
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 09:11 PM
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What I mean is that I have no problem with a woman on the conservative side but is not the be all end all for me, however with women on the other side of the spectrum is just an automatic no by me, friendships are okay though. Just like for example i may find fit bodies appealing but a bit of a belly or a plus size isnt a problem for me, however morbid obesity is another story.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 11:14 AM
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I wouldnt say conservative, but i definetly reject their total opposite, at least when it comes to relationships, friendships are okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:59 AM
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Look it on the bright side, you have way better chances on finding a man you can respect compared to other women your age because you didnt spend your younger years destroying your own life and now you re looking for mr perfect to come and fix the leftovers, you actually are the dream girl of many men in that matter, but you have to at least let yourself be known by them because well, if they dont know you exist how are they going to meet you then? Btw dont think that just because you dont feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 10:03 AM
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I didnt care about a woman's past until I met one with a "colorful" one if you get what i mean, after that, my perception of the dating world wasnt the same anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 09:54 AM
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I didnt care about a woman's past until I met one with a "colorful" one if you get what i mean, after that, my perception of the dating world wasnt the same anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 09:54 AM
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No previous history of dating/hooking up with players, abusers, douchebags, assholes, jerks etc, NO No "I want a nice guy but bad boys are so exciting" type of woman, NO AND NO. No "I ll use this guy for sex while some good guy comes and gives me a relationship" automatic rejection by my side, NO,NO AND NO. No "I only sleep quick with men i dont care or I dont respect, but since you re such a good guy i ll give you the privilege of having my "companionship" and you should feel honored" the compa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:45 AM
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Dumbest shit posted in the whole comment section.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 08:44 AM
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Just look at what happens everytime a man says "I wanna date someone with a modest past or no past at all" See how somehow you are taking away from you already know what kind of women the basic human right of being entitled to your freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 08:43 AM
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You think having an inflated ego is self esteem?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 08:25 PM
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You talk like if those women were the most special thing in the world, most of them will only bring problems and nonsensical drama to your life, trust me you dont wanna date a woman like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 08:13 PM
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The men shaming Young women who want relationships are not the same men who shame the 30s trainwrecks, your post is fallacious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:39 PM
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I think the real complaint is when those party sluts abandon that culture and then go and pretend to be holy Mary with commitment-friendly men, cuz if all women were honest about those things then this issue would be non existent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:40 PM
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Mysoginist, abusers, players, assholes and men who posses all the traits that women supposedly hate have a lot of sexual success too🧐.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 08:04 AM
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I know that phrase can be manipulative if it isnt properly explained, but it is true, you are not entitled to no ones freedom just like no one is entitled to yours, you cant force no one to love you, and yes I also extremely disapprove of treating human relationships like some sort of market, but precisely thats what entitled people do, and Im not saying entitled people cant get relationships, they absolutely can, another entitled person to start a mediocre relationship that will make both peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 09:05 PM
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You re not entitled to sex and relationships simply because you re not entitled to no one elses freedom, the only reason why someone will start or stay in a relationship with you is because they are free human beings who decided in their freedom to be with you. Simple as that, thats why you cant buy the love of woman with gifts or favours or whatever society has told you it "works" to attract em nor you wont earn mans love by offering him sexual favors that you dont even know if he wants or not(…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 08:45 PM
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You re confusing escorts with prostitutes, the majority of times escorts do not offer sexual services, just companionship, does that make it any better?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 10:29 PM
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I seriously discourage any guy to do that, but if we compare, at least the escort is honest about who she is and what shes seeking out of you, and you know she is on and about so it doesnt matter, (remember that the majority of escorts do not offer sexual services) Now If i had to pick between the two, I would rather stay alone, both are hazardous for your mental well being IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 10:20 PM
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How does this relate to anything he has said?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 10:11 PM
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A "whore" that pays to be with you lmao, look i dont support that lifstyle, but to say that they are the same and thats why relationship minded men who dont fool around should just "suck it up" is extremely ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 09:41 PM
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Answer the question and I ll answer yours, how are they the same if they marry the girl because they value her and consider her special and STILL PROVIDE THE BUCKS vs they marry the guy to leech off of him in the woman's case? If the AF in the woman's case was the husband then the only ones complaining would be men seeking casual encounters, not relationship minded men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 09:31 PM
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How come it is the same if the wifey material is the AF and the casual partner is the BB? Thats the total opposite of what men complain about in the woman's case
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 09:17 PM
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You dont need a reason to justify why you re not attracted to someone, tell me what came first? The studies or your aversion towards those women? Thats where the answer lies. No one is entitled to no one elses freedom, as simple as that,it is not men the ones making a fuzz about this, it's those women the ones that always get defensive and throw insults whenever a guy wants to avoid them like the plague, so tell me who is the insecure one?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 09:08 PM
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I have never had sex so im also a walking red flag to a lot of men I think the real issue is that they dont buy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 06:07 PM
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Who cares what studies says? You dont need to justify your reasons to why you dont wanna date someone, if you dont wanna date a woman like that, dont date her, simple as that, your life your freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 06:02 PM
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Im not saying that a man falling in love is beta or whatever, im saying that dont confuse obsession with love, you only obsess over someone due to your own issues, for real, im pro love as long as it comes from a healthy place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 04:16 AM
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More likely they do not expect that from her, just like the typical situation when guys who rarely get a woman's interest meet one that is a bit "nice" towards them and then withouth even knowing her properly they say "No man she is not like that, no man she is perfect, she would never, she is different from the others, she is a godess, she is perfect".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:27 AM
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A lot of men here also care a lot if the woman was a previous cheater or not, men irl "dont care nearly as much about it" doesnt mean they would be very fond of a previous cheater, but of course i dont think someone with a history of cheating would be transparent about it right? This is nothing more than gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:13 AM
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You cant just call someone the woman of your life if you just know her from distance or just because she is the only one that gives your some attention, how come having a crush is a sufficient reason to grant her the status of special? No man, that kind of mindset will attract a lot of undesirables to your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 02:31 AM
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I ve been absent for a while on this sub, but after exploring more places outside of my usual surroundings, a realized that theres plenty of likeable women withouth player or bad boy phases, and even though they arent virgins i would happily date someone like them but they re all in commited relationships and that fills me with joy that they are with someone they re happy with, i still meet some of those "my past is my business" from time to time though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 02:07 AM
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Sorry brother, but putting a woman on a pedestal isnt love, forget about those ridiculous hollywood platitudes of " withouth you im nothing, im worthless as a man if I dont have a you by my side, withouth you my life ends, you re the center of my life" those kind of beliefs are nothing more than a cancer in man's life that will make him believe "loving" a woman makes him unnattractive, nothing of the previously mentioned constitutes love, and if a woman tells you "You should make me the center o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 01:46 AM
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Ok dude tell your super explanation as to why my lack of attraction towards my sister, my dad,my mother or my cat proves your cmv, because even the slightest hint of any kind of sexual contact with the aforementioned also causes me repulsion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 03:34 AM
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I dont know how to describe her but the only thing I can say is that the strongest feeling I have ever felt for a woman was that I wanted to keep her from harm, that I wanted her to live more comfortably, i wanted to take care of her and be her emotional support, her everything, didnt care if she wasnt my support if I felt down, not that she was a bitch about my problems but i just didnt expect her nor demand her to do so because i was determined to solve it by myself, I didnt want anything out …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 03:19 AM
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You re making something like 2+2 an extreme long equation to justify that it's 5 when it is not. It is not insecurity, i simply dont feel attracted to someone like that, as simple as that, my life my freedom, is my visceral reaction towards a crackhead with rotten teeth insecurity too? If I feel repulsed by a gay dude who is trying to kiss me im insecure about my masculinity too? Gimme a break. They can go a bother those men that are so "secure" of themselves that didnt even consider starting a …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 02:23 AM
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It's is not what you do or what you say, it's who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 02:06 AM
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Fuckboys and bad boys are nothing more than simps in disguise, at the same time those "all men want that, all men just use women for that, all men are pigs , men are worthless etc" arent poor victims tired of bad men waiting for a knight in shiny armor to come and show them not all men are like that, they are nothing more that extremely radioactive trainwrecks in disguise who will destroy the life and mind of any guy that tries to "save" them, sadly many young men grow up with the wrong idea of …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 02:00 AM
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The real double standard is that a woman can choose not to date men with colorful pasts, but men wether they have a colorful past or not are somehow obliged to wife up said women. Dont believe me? Imagine if a woman publicly said "all men who sleep around are a bunch of degenerates who I would never date" vs a man publicly said "I dont wanna date a woman like that", you can see it here everytime a man states it wether he is a manwhore or not. Personally, a woman who fools around turns me off, as…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 08:41 PM
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Not that the women that "pump and dump" them are any better, thats something many young men seeking LTR also fail to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 08:12 PM
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The same way many women claim to "love" generous men, yet how many of them would date a guy that goes around showering every girl he sees with gifts and stuff? Framing this as a "men bad, women good" situation is completely hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 08:09 AM
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And i suggest you to argue in good faith instead of using non-sequiturs to discredit what the other party is saying, cuz the comment I replied to wasnt talking about standards but was triying to discredit the first poster's fair point with ad-hominen fallacies, quite ironical because you re trying to manipulate this thread too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 11:13 AM
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Pls marry me!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 12:44 PM
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The real problem with good men is that they are easy, they would commit to almost any bitch because thats what a good man supposedly does, good men cant be selective otherwise they arent good men according to undesirable women,here is a little brutal truth for you, women absolutely despise easy guys too, they just pretend they dont but society conveniently ignores that yet puts the fist in the air whenever a man refuses to date a cum dumpster, good men believe they are obliged to play captain sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 12:19 PM
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Stop believing that sex is something that you get from women to prove you re valuable as a man and instead earn your own respect and see how you ll never end up in this kind of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:24 AM
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Perhaps the kind of women he knows arent worth the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 03:11 AM
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That's why it's not valuable if our boyfriend does it. If this is true then how come a lot of women get touchy whenever their boyfriend or romantic interest doesnt has or shows a sexual interest for her? Complete utter rubbish, very few women would date a guy who doesnt finds them sexually desireable, either because it doesnt gives them leverage or because they dont feel wished, many even have the audacity of calling him gay to protect their egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 11:40 AM
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The same happens to men when it comes to relationships, replace sex by relationships and men by women and you ll realize there is no difference, only difference is that men actually give their relationships what they value...at least before he gets dumped because she got "booooored"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 11:14 AM
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Then how come many women reject nice guys no matter how many gifts they receive from them? How come many men wouldnt date the town bike no matter how many sexual favors or meals she could make for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:17 PM
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It means you re "valued" based on what they can take or get from you, not based on who you are. Why would a woman care about a wealthy man's past when she can get half his assets by marrying him? The same way men who sleep around dont give a fuck about the woman's past when they want one thing and just one thing only.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:09 PM
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How come it is their fault when society treats them like human garbage just because some bitch didnt give them their thumbs up? Of course anyone who grows up like that ends up mentally destroyed and resentful and you say their problem is their lack of balls? Ignorance is a bliss.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:50 AM
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So what? Withouth a man there is no baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:44 AM
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It Is called manipulation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:55 AM
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Last time i studied biology on first grade, you need both men and women to bring a kid to the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:52 AM
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Why are sexless males often so violent & angry? Entitlement maybe? Why live in a society where if a man is sexless, then he is considered worthless, a failure in life and not worthy of being called a man, of course that creates resenment because "if women accepted me then society would accept me too, but since they wont give me their thumbs up therefore they are to blame", solution? It exist but nobody wants to talk about it because it would make a lot of people uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:46 AM
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You cannot be serious man, but if you re not trolling, you have way bigger problems to solve and women arent one of them, the worst thing that could happen to you is to get the relationship you desire so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:27 AM
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You re all factually wrong if you believe only women are sexual selectors, this is not true and all of the phenomenoms regarding male-female sexuality that are accepted as "biology" today are not a product of natural causes, not to mention the most we know about ancient humans is a bunch of primitive tools, huts and some crayon markings in a cave. Is like saying "obese people can live longer lives compared to ancient humans which all of them were athletic, therefore obesity is natural in human b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:24 AM
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Give me a single convincing reason for why you should start or consider a relationship with her, bet you cant give me a single one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 01:10 AM
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Press X to doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 08:54 PM
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There are places in the world where if the man isnt an useful idiot for the woman, then He is not "husband" material, so perhaps thats why many men cringe at that word. For example i once saw how a woman called a blonde buff tall stable family father only good for sex despite him being a responsible husband all just because he simply didnt follow the feminist dogma.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 08:37 PM
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Aka as a guy they can leech off, you can deny it all you want but I have seen it enough times to know that many women do not have good intentions towards those "husband" material men even if they arent your stereotypical nice guy, perhaps where you live it's different but in other places of the world this is what "husband" material men have to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 08:01 PM
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Then why do perfect husbands get cheated on with men who are the total opposite of them? I ve never heard about a woman cheating with a "husband" material guy, it is always your stereotypical fuckboy, So if being the perfect husband she always dreamed of doesnt guarantees her loyalty, then what will?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:47 PM
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To many women "husband material" means you re the chump that will accept all her trash everytime withouth question or else you re an asshole, mysoginist and many other things, of course calling it husband material sounds more innoncent than calling it for what it really is, so if thats the kind of 'husband" material we re talking about, then no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:34 PM
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Ok then what do you suggest then?Teach us, and I never said anything about asking straightforward.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 07:27 PM
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This is one of the cases where it is easier done than said, but anyways this has nothing do with the original point which you stated "is not a good idea to pretend being someone you are not to start a relationship" but in this case you re not pretending to start a relationship, you re pretending to identify the people you dont want, the ones actually pretending to start a relationship are the women, not the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 04:24 PM
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Nothing in particular, she not having that kind of past is not the be all end all, she says she has never done things like those or she is not like that and whatever? Cool, now show substance, which is what many of those women fail to do so they resort to games that arent funny nor enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 02:17 AM
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Is not about that, you simply pretend you re okay with it and that a woman being chaste or whatever doesnt impress you and she herself will tell you everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 12:35 AM
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Nice manipulations bro,
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 12:16 AM
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Im tired of this idiotic argument, none of the men here would date a guy like that anyways so i dont see whats the point of bringing that up, is not like women arent allowed to have the same preference, since when are women obliged to date those men? No one forces them and no one will throw even a quarter of the trash that a man receives everytime he says he doesnt wants a woman like that, wanna see a real double standard? What would happen if a woman said "I dont wanna date a man that sleeps ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 12:03 AM
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If they would hide their past it wouldnt surprise me if they hide all the flaws of their relationships, people would go to insane extremes just to keep their reputation, just look at Gabby Petito's case and look at the vlogs she made with her boyfriend. On this sub, The only ones humble enough to admit that their lives arent what they would like them to be are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 11:50 PM
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Just pretend to be more open minded that you really are just like they pretend to be chaster than they really are and see how many dumbs sluts confess how they cheated on their "perfect" boyfriends. Actually you dont need to pretend, just become a guy that is content with himself whi doesnt needs nothing out of women and you will start a relationship for the right reasons, you will never fall for a woman like that, because lets suppose you meet one of those who pretend to be ms white pigeon, she…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 11:23 PM
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The fake persona is precisally to avoid people that are incompatible with him, or do you think a woman that wants to take things from him will be a hundred percent honest about an issue she knows pretty well he wont like?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 11:13 PM
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So you would play captain save a hoe just because the majority of women are party sluts? If thats true then you have a lot of inner work to do my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:53 PM
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The real problem doesnt comes from this, the real problem is that many men are taught that their value as human beings depends of what a women thinks about them, i can bet most incels dont even want to date at all, they just want to be accepted and feel valuable, because they all probably grew up in a circle where men they were taught that if no woman wants them then they re worthless, doesnt helps that society puts then down because of that, in todays world, virgin is a way of insulting men, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:44 PM
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Any guy with two functional braincells capable of doing synapsis would dump a crazy chick withouth hessitation, the only ones that stay there a fools who have terrible beliefs about life and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 04:19 PM
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