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I think it's pretty safe to say that most women don't really understand to what degree sex matters in the average man's life. I think it's safe to say they're aware of it, even if they don't understand it. One of the first girls I dated around 15 years ago when I was full blown doormat nice guy, said to me flat out when I was trying to explain that I could be macho assertive and sexy: "We need guys like you to stay the way you are." It isn't just that people think Red Pill is offensive. It goes …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 03:13 PM
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The emotional bond is just as a chemical as the sexual bond. It's not real. It's a flimsy facade that she will use to try to justify the affair. Let me spell this out for you: She is being a shitty person. Sorry buddy, but you're trying to sugarcoat it. Even worse, she's trying to Beta build you up for an eventual breakup on her end. "She is completely in love with me." It's not true. She enjoys the feelings you give her, but this is all just a game she's playing to enjoy good sex while still ha…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 11:19 PM
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Speaking as a recently minted MGTOW, I was a natural alpha who got into BP relationships to find fulfillment, just out of habit. Once fucking loses its luster, you either find new meaning in other pursuits or try the relationship route. The latter never works because in this society the relationship never benefits the man. I'm also finding a lot of fulfillment in the increased focus that comes with not chasing tail. I've learned that it never really mattered what my status was. As long as I look…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 03:12 PM
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I read "flatulent coworkers" and thought man, isn't that just the icing on your shit cake.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 02:25 PM
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I disagree with you here as well. Women don't go "maybe" nearly as much as people think. They yes or no men, just like we yes or no women, right off the bat. There are very few times when anyone is actually on the fence about sleeping with another person. Any convincing you might do is really just helping someone reason out the yes that's already sitting in her brain.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 11:20 PM
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Or don't be afraid of natural partings and rejections which are a normal part of life and interaction.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 07:45 PM
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It's better to actually get laid if you've never been laid before than to wait years to lay with a girl you consider to be attractive enough. Guys who have been around the block a few times don't need to be having sex just to have sex. That wastes time and motivation if the sex isn't good, which it never is when you're not into the chick.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 07:31 PM
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"...unless she's a yes girl..." If you're going into an interaction with anything except the mindset that she's a yes girl, you're doing it wrong. Why? Because if you assume "yes" from the beginning, you don't go in guns blazing. You're relaxed, easygoing, and don't even have to think about going direct. Every girl is a yes girl. If you think you have to turn her into a yes girl, you've failed and shouldn't even try because you're stepping yourself down and notch, thereby playing into her shit t…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 07:25 PM
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She isn't buying into it. Look at her actions, not her words. She banged him, now she wants him to qualify himself to her. It's all practicality. If she can plate him, she can bank for whatever moment in her life it becomes obvious that there's no way in hell she'll ever get that 0.000001% guy. Until then, she'll put up a facade and try to ride the Bullshit Train until she gets kicked off around 30 or 40. But don't be fooled for a second (like OP was) that she actually believes this is a definit…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 05:54 PM
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This is a good story and all but I wouldn't encourage your friend too much if this girl is as fickle as it sounds. Maybe like, "Good for you but you should know she and I did make out that night. I don't want that stuff to come back and bite us later because you're a good friend man!"
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 08:14 PM
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The problem with the "shitty people, not shitty women" argument is that it ignores that people often go through shitty phases. Red Pill is about the things that women do to men who allow it. It doesn't mean those are shitty women or shitty people at all. It means if you're a turd boy who lacks self-respect, then women will be more inclined to shit on you, regardless of who they are as a person. I think one commenter pointed out that all signs point to your man lacking self-respect, especially if…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 06:55 PM
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Marie de France wrote the ultimate twist on the chivalric knight's romance with Lanval. Lanval is the foreigner knight, shunned by the other more established men of his order. But Guinevere has the hots for him. However, Lanval has been banging a fairy woman and is pretty loyal to his fairy benefactor. Plus Guinevere is married to the King, so there's also that. If Lanval's caught with her, he gets executed. Lanval rejects the Lady's advances. Guinevere doesn't take his shunning lightly and she …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 06:10 PM
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They attach their value to the type of man they're with. In the absence of a good man, they'll take what they can get until a better one comes along. I know one guy who is obviously his girlfriend's bargain basement choice, and she goes around all the time saying things like, "We're doing great! We're so happy together!" without any prompting. It makes me think of someone just randomly interjecting a conversation with, "Oh no I don't have herpes!" "Oh I didn't masturbate five times last night!"
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 05:57 PM
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Religion is crack for the hamster. They can use it to justify anything they want. The hung masculine bad boy was sent by God to teach you life lessons...right... Or you were sent to show him that there's still love in the world. Maybe you'll have to go to extreme measures to show him just how much. The latter scenario happened to me. I swear to Christ this Catholic girl thought it was her God-given destiny to sex me into believing. Love it.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 05:43 PM
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Be constantly aware that I am choosing to live each moment in a way that many people cannot and will not understand, thereby keeping good humor and a "let's just fucking do this" attitude. You must approach each test with the seriousness and passion that you would use to prepare to challenge your death. You must prepare-not to die-but to battle for your life in each moment, with every faculty and power available to you. You must assume full responsibility for choosing to pursue power. Know that …
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 06:35 PM
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I think there's a level in there where you learn that societal rules are onion paper thin and that women have the willpower of drunk newts, meaning that the token resistance they put up (which scares away most guys) is so easy to walk through that's it doesn't even begin to count as a challenge.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 06:01 PM
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Exactly. Women want what they can't or shouldn't have. If she's friends with you, it's either because she's siphoning your energy and attention as an orbiter or you have some status or ego raising effect: 1 - You have a girlfriend (ego raising - you're hanging with her instead of your gf) or 2 - You have some cool hobby/job/in (status raising - she looks cool by hanging out with you) Most of the time women will play you as an orbiter for a small ego return. If you have status and higher value bu…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 12:19 AM
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Women fear that men are also like that though, which is the essence of dread game. It's also why dread game works really well on women who change goal posts easily. They're keenly aware of how quickly it can happen.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 09:35 PM
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College is going to be very hard on Noah.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 02:56 PM
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If you want to increase testosterone, have sex. Find women, get some game going. Body responds accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 09:41 PM
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I've approached plenty of women. It's fine. Approaching American women is not going to take me where I want to go - I have very little interest in most of them. It's weird because lately I've been doing my own thing and focusing hard on a set goal. So I actively deflect women's interest because they would take up precious time that I need for training and sleep. This has shown me just how many women I can have easily, and that both boosts my confidence and lowers my regard for these women (in a …
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 10:54 PM
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Thank you for this thoughtful reply. I mean it. My own journey has just exited the pure anger stage and now that the women are circling me again, it helps to be constantly aware that their nature demands these things. I can enjoy them and play with them and relax while I have this in mind. When the game ends for the male after sex, it is only just beginning for the female.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 04:21 PM
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Yes, life is easier now because women convince themselves that they're a unicorn all the time. It's natural for them to put on that show. A man who sees through that does both parties a favor by cutting the bullshit before it even has a chance to start. It seems many have taken this post as "women good, men bad" rather than actually reading it. But that's 80/20 for you.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 12:56 AM
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Professional in this case is anyone who performs a task for external praise or reward, not someone who is necessarily good at that task. The post is using "professional" and "amateur" in their denotative sense, not the customary connotations of "good at something" and "bad at something."
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 07:54 PM
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Thanks. This why I like Norm Maclean's definition of a good woman (paraphrasing): Upon seeing me she says to herself, 'Here is a man. What can I do for him?' I have known several women who get off on the idea of being 'helper.' I think the family role you talk about speaks to that. Usually they fall into one of two camps: The woman helping a weak willed man realize his true potential The woman supporting a fully realized, dynamic man However, in both cases you'll usually find the man either: (1)…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 07:48 PM
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Give society or women 10 minutes and they will take 10 years. It's not only possible to waste your life, it's made easier every day. Get out. Go. Do something. Get action before it's too late. It may already be too late.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 06:43 PM
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As much as he wants if he keeps actually brainwashing her to return and pay for more sessions. This guy is good.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 09:33 PM
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I don't feel badly for her therapist, though. He convinced her that Joe brainwashed her for an entire year. He also made her talk about previous "traumas" so he could record them and play them back to her during each session in an effort to deprive the traumas of their power. Her therapist is a sick piece of shit who probably makes a lot of money.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 05:46 PM
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My Brothers They had eyes dark as night, my brothers, As if cut in black diamond They had moon-woven hair, my brothers, Glistening blue in endless mist And teeth like wolves' teeth, my brothers, Joyous teeth clenched tight on their hungers The voice they had, borne it was from the stars, Fascinating and misunderstood the hands they had, fearsome hands, my brothers, And the world was drunk at their fingertips Gone are they on all the paths, my brothers, They were warm like fire, and fresh like th…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 07:47 PM
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You're doing what many call bro-knighting. Basically you act like other men and women are too childish or innocent to know what's going on or to not do these things of their own volition. It perpetuates this myth that women and betas aren't responsible for their actions or that they're innocent bystanders who would never do this stuff themselves. It's fine to have a moral code, but don't use it to reduce responsibility off others. The woman chooses to cheat. The man chooses to sit home and play …
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 04:34 PM
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I thanked her and said I wasn't mad and to take care. She was genuinely worried and everything doesn't need to be a ploy. It feels good to just be a human.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 02:53 AM
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I'm going for ignore. She opens with basically, "You told me not to talk to you but I'm going to do it anyway. Reply so I know I still have some power over you." I just shut the can of worms. Even risking the chance of reopening, no, screw that. There's so much more out there. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 07:44 PM
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Yeah you're right. She could call or ask my friends or whoever to make sure I'm good. This is a pitiful attempt and I'll treat it as such.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 07:09 PM
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