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How do Democrats get men to align with their all men are shit platform? Such a mystery.
/r/MensRights09/02/25 01:28 PM
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It’s not stick your head in the sand. Take it out and realize that society does not respond to issues related to the misfortunes of men as an identity group. You can yell and scream all you want but both men and women do not have an empathetic response to these issues. That’s just reality.
/r/MensRights06/12/24 06:19 PM
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Men are never going to win the war to become the victim with women. What we can do is use our masculinity to drive our ambition and risk taking to success. Society only cares about men that succeed. That’s life guys. Personally, I’m happy that I’m a man and am not driven by my emotions. I don’t wilt in the face of adversity or danger. Channel that drive appropriately and good things will happen.
/r/MensRights06/12/24 04:11 PM
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That’s how postmodernist theories work. No evidence required. Only the narrative matters.
/r/MensRights01/12/24 02:32 PM
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Why would something similar to women, hurt women? This makes no sense. There is actually no harm to anyone if an inanimate object or representation is being used since actions related to these fictions have no feelings or interests. This is pure woke bullshit. The mere representation of a woman is being treated as sacred. What is really going on is that women want to be the gatekeepers of men’s sexual pleasure.
/r/MensRights19/11/24 11:51 PM
3

Feminism is full of postmodernist ideology from sociology departments. Any time I hear the words “social construction,” I roll my eyes since these purported studies are simply cherry picking data to fit some postmodernist narrative. There is good reason not to trust these studies. I don’t.
/r/MensRights16/11/24 11:28 PM
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That’s not necessarily true. A lot of papers from the social sciences are full of the inherent biases of their authors. I’ll give you an example. Margaret Mead purported to discover island cultures in which the sex roles were reversed and sexual jealousy was totally absent. Mead postulated island paradises inhibited by peaceful peoples who celebrated shared sexuality and free love, without murder or rape. Boy was she wrong. Derek Freeman, for example, found that Samoan Islanders were intensely c…
/r/MensRights16/11/24 10:35 PM
6

Dude who cares….the best thing you can do when a woman goes full World War III histrionic is ignore her….
/r/MensRights11/11/24 02:40 PM
6

But oppression has nothing to do with relative rates of danger which is what the analogy is pointing to and while it still works…..I may believe that countries in the continent of Africa are oppressed but what does that have anything to do with a white guy surrounded by rebels in the middle of the Congo….historical perceptions of oppression are unrelated to the danger posed in the specific situation presented
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/09/24 07:21 PM
22

Yeah, I hear you…my feeling is if this is the way they feel, I don’t need them in my life….Ill stay in my lane and they can stay in theirs
/r/MensRights23/09/24 10:43 PM
4

It doesn’t fit their narrative and anything that doesn’t fit their narrative has to be destroyed….woke dogma works like a religion
/r/MensRights14/09/24 04:17 PM
1

I suggest everyone read Abigail Shrier’s book Bad Therapy….the vast majority of therapy, including the trauma culture surrounding it is pseudoscience
/r/MensRights31/08/24 03:38 AM
26

Well, that’s how religious dogmas work…they are unfalsifiable….it’s like getting into an argument about the existence evil with a religious person….they will just make something up to make it work….this is why empiricism is so important when fighting these ideas….What’s actually happening not what you make up in your head
/r/MensRights12/07/24 09:07 PM
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Dude this is exactly why you don’t get too attached….this isn’t like they want a specific thing….they want “improvement”….think of the multitude and never ending number of ways that they can make up to demand that you improve….it’s never ending….you should work on you but on WHAT YOU truly desire to work on…there comes a point in every relationship I’ve had where juice ain’t worth the squeeze
/r/MensRights12/07/24 01:05 PM
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Fine, let them bitch….don’t you know women make up problems….who cares….let them wallow in their whining Edit: Drizzle! Drizzle!
/r/MensRights02/07/24 04:59 AM
0

When it’s so clear that it’s transactional, why just not get a hooker….why give her a constant and uncontrolled line to your finances, when this is clearly just an exchange….pussy for resources….at least, control how much you are spending on pussy and just do pros….the women on these videos are what I would consider, at the very least, semi-pros….what’s the big difference 🤷🏻‍♂️? There’s a saying in Spanish, “el que culea pagando, acaba ahorrando”….he who fucks by paying ends up saving….
/r/MensRights16/06/24 06:22 PM
7

Very well written and thought out….love the free solo climbing example
/r/MensRights23/05/24 03:28 AM
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I'd be happy to open the cage at the zoo and let her test out her pet theory
/r/MensRights03/05/24 01:10 AM
22

The harpies will lose their shit
/r/MensRights26/04/24 12:32 AM
25

I wouldn't make it illegal..get control of your sexual desires and stop being so damn desperate…..men need to stop simping
/r/MensRights15/04/24 05:06 PM
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Most passport bros are just traveling and having a good time….I have talked to some that have become expats and gotten married to local women…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:22 AM
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My post wasn’t about morality being a consequence of evolution….I think your question is really why don’t atheist slip into nihilism….that’s a discussion for another post….my point is that a lot of dating behavior is a consequence of an evolutionary process that is amoral…morality isn’t important in an evolutionary process.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:42 PM
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Why are you asking that question after my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:33 PM
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That’s exactly right….now how that truth makes you react is another issue….Also, I find all the hatred of women not really related to red pill….it’s really a reaction to feminism constantly 💩 on men…..the demonization of men and the male sex drive by feminism has led to the demonization of women and the female sex drive by men…. People have to realize that raw sexuality is amoral….sexual desire was an evolutionary process designed to ensure survival of genetics….it wasn’t designed by morality….h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 04:56 PM
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I would do the same but I wouldn’t go around bitching afterwards about them not committing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:49 PM
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The hell it shouldn’t stop you from getting married….I find it funny how much women talk about needing to feel safe and free from threat but when it comes to marriage, it’s let’s risk all for love….nah, I want to keep my bank account in a safe space thank you very much
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 11:02 AM
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You can have sex with a woman as long as she’s into you….you don’t have to commit your entire financial future to her in order to get in her pants…that’s just shit whiny men with no experience complain about and feminist on this board agree with because it makes women sound as if they have power once you turn that switch on in her, you can set boundaries (what you are willing to do and what you aren’t-no I’m not paying for that, if you want to go on that vacation you pay for your half)….of cours…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:41 PM
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I don’t think that is true….people click and people vibe….there will be sex based on that dopamine high….but it’s temporary She’s not your it’s just your turn….low investment strategies are the most effective for men in the current dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:26 PM
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I could say the same thing for women to men….women are marrying men but they also see them as lesser than them….maybe the Madonna whore complex is on the side of the woman who see the man as stable and good financially but not fuckable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:11 PM
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I doubt the redpill women agree with your statement “Naturally none of this advice benefits women” I don’t think redpill women agree with your belief that all redpill men harbor hostility towards all women A huge portion of redpill men are simply traditional men. There are traditional women that want to date these men and have traditional relationships….these women probably also themselves have a disdain for the modern values in the dating scene, including self-centered and selfish dating strate…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:36 PM
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What the hell does whataboutism mean
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:03 PM
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I don’t know how people in this sub consistently slog through troughs of bullshit like that….
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:59 AM
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I’ve done more dumping than being dumped….I’m awful at relationships….I’ve either gotten bored, thought we weren’t compatible, was sick of their shit, or didn’t think the relationship was healthy….also got cheated on once….Im not sure why being the first to end the relationship would correlate with being good in a relationship. I am admittedly bad at them….
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:33 AM
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🚨🚨🚨
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:26 AM
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Real women feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:26 AM
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Well that’s easy, to fuck them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:25 AM
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"no, my exes don't exist to me. they can embarass themselves if they want to idc." That's you....for most people, those feelings linger and people use those feelings to get back at you. " i've never done this, so i don't have skin in the game, but i literally do not care about my exes trying to hurt me by hooking up with other people. If i was jealous, i wouldn't have broken up w them. " Again, that's you....I think it's pretty common and natural for those feelings to not disappear overnight....…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:46 PM
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1.-2. Unless she makes it your business because she wants to hurt you….let’s be real here, looking for sex or getting sexual attention from someone that is personally close to you simply to make the break up hurt more is wrong….she was never close to any of them….she was doing this to hurt me She had the results of a pregnancy exam forged….she then started asking for money regarding the supposed expenses of the pregnancy….I then did a little detective work and discovered that the results were fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 05:23 PM
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Pick one of the five first Try to sleep with my friends after the break up Purposely try to let me know about her flirting with my friends Fake a pregnancy to try to extort me for money Send photographs to my daughter’s mom regarding personal things we had done along with lies of what we were doing in an effort to destroy my relationship with my daughter My daughter’s mom brought another man to the waiting room of the obgyn while she was pregnant with my daughter in an effort to piss me off Thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:57 PM
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Thanks for the good wishes….
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 09:20 PM
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Why always reference the most extreme forms of violence in men….in every relationship I’ve ended but two, the woman sought some kind of revenge…Im always the one ready to move on and turn the page….have a happy life, see ya later….no use trying to torture each other….however, even in the relationship that I ended because she cheated on me, she sought revenge on me (guess she thought she was entitled to forgiveness) …. Women can be incredibly cruel and petty during breakups…you all aren’t saints
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 09:03 PM
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We aren’t changing anything….there are subcultures in any society and those subcultures that pass on their values to the next generation will survive….those that don’t die off…if you are the subculture that reproduces faster and in greater proportions, your culture will pass its values on….it’s not a matter of everyone changing their culture…more like cultural Darwinism
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:21 PM
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Well, it will depend on what cultures can overcome that obstacle….just because you are religious doesn’t mean that your values emphasize reproduction sufficiently….it’s not enough just to be religious….
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:17 PM
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That’s not necessarily true with the third option…just because religious cultures take over it doesn’t follow that we regress to a poorer quality of life….there have been many rich religious cultures….Western Europe was religious until just recently and had very wealthy economies….
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:15 PM
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I’m an atheist but honestly I think this is the most likely result….there is a reason these cultures have endured for so long….it’s not that hard to figure out….cultures that don’t value creating the next generation will die out
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:37 PM
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How about a third option….cultures that value reproduction and passing on their legacy survive and those that don’t die out So conservative cultures pass on their values to the next generation while those cultures that don’t have children don’t….get ready for a world where religion makes a fierce comeback
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:17 PM
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You do you boo….I don’t really care….live your life I’ll live mine
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 01:50 AM
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Oh right….female attraction to males is not biological….how could I have been so stupid….let’s just ignore that it’s that way in every sexually reproducing species that ever evolved in the history of the planet….no sexual urges and their function are a social construction….right all those hormones you produce, your system for sexual desire, all those things are social constructions…because you know societies have willed testicles, ovaries, penises, vaginas, into being….same with the fact that se…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:59 PM
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I just saw a video from a feminist claiming that heterosexuality was a choice and that any woman that dates a man is betraying the solidarity of women….😳….I know this person was a nut job but it’s basically taking current gender ideology and taking it yo it’s logical conclusion……postmodernism has tried to convince people that sexuality is just a social construct rather than deeply ingrained biological instinct that is the consequence of billions of years of evolution….well, eventually your biolo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:02 AM
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Oh god guys quit bitching…..they can do them, you can do you….whoever wants it cool, whoever doesn’t well that’s cool too….stop worrying about these bullshit list of expectations and go live your best life….whoever likes you on the way, great….stop with the constant squirming and complaining….
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 11:56 PM
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It's probably the same for men....I'm perfectly happy right in the middle zone after my marriage and divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:51 PM
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Agreed, it’s just feminist demonizing the male sex drive
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/24 04:14 AM
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But women aren't violent....that's what the feminist hive told me..."BELIEVE WOMEN!" 🤡
/r/MensRights17/03/24 12:39 AM
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Strong and independent as long as someone else is protecting them and doing the ass kicking for them
/r/MensRights17/03/24 12:36 AM
1

You forgot money and social status
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 06:40 PM
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Cause they are desperate SIMPS.....never stay in the friend zone....you say thanks but I think I am going to be distancing myself now....have a good life....BYE!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 06:38 PM
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Dude, man up and get over it….you seriously need a lesson in emotional resilience….stop whining….. my guess is she was already wanting to break up with you a long time ago and now she feels free….you should have figured that out and tried to fix it or broken up with her Stop crying, get up, dust yourself off and keep going, life goes on
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:55 PM
1

Law of unintended consequences is a bitch...what they did in Latin America in the 60's and 70's was awful too
/r/MensRights13/03/24 11:24 PM
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What women find fun and what men find fun are two different things and what women find fun is lame….seriously, all this “style” stuff amounts to nothing more than status signaling by women….wow you have a Chanel handbag….you are so fun 🙄….what men find fun either requires development of a skill or bravery….women will sit on the sideline for these things because women find gossiping and talking about clothing to be “fun”….women are also more risk adverse than men….Im currently in Bello Antioquia …
/r/MensRights11/03/24 02:40 PM
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Who says they are sticking around for a year
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 04:52 AM
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That's just horseshit feminist say....if they are super attracted to a guy, the panties come off...dishes or no dishes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 04:44 AM
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In a weird way....yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:17 PM
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I honestly don't think women can get into a relationship whenever they want to....maybe it's easier for them ...however, unless they want to settle for some super desperate dude living in their mom's basement, I don't think they can snap their fingers and be in a good relationship....this is just a bullshit narrative feminist sell themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:37 PM
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I'm a part time digital nomad...spend half the year overseas....right now I'm in Cali, Colombia....sometimes it's as simple as finding the cheap bakery in the non-tourist part of town....other times, I'll try to find what the town is known for and do that..(I tried a Salsa class here, it wasn't happening)..they have an event on Sunday's near where I stay where the locals get together in an outside theatre and people tell stories....sometimes, I'll do riskier things like rent a motorcycle and exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:26 PM
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who cares….if you live with the imprint of your wife’s boot on your neck, not much of a flex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:14 AM
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Yeah, I hear you….I travel throughout LAM a lot and I’m often surprised at the differences in attitudes between LAM and the USA….people in LAM are just friendlier….neighbors know each other, people are out on the streets chit chatting, you can talk to a woman and she doesn’t chew your head off (as long as you are respectful)…..the dating scene is healthier….
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:43 PM
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I hate that word “grooming”….I’m not a dog….you take your pet to pet smart to get groomed….I get a haircut and shave
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 07:29 PM
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Yes I think seeing the same people every day is definitely the way to go if you are an introvert....I myself was very extroverted when I was young...had to be around people....now I'd describe myself as an androvert....somewhere in between...quiz nights are great for introverts and I admit I have to kind of get myself out of my introverted mood sometimes....I think alone time is good but isolating yourself is not good for your mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:58 PM
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As I've grown older, I've become more and more introverted.......I tried joining a dance group at home but it was a shit show....It didn't help when I quit drinking, which made me much more reserved (although much more active-Im super into exercise now)....I now travel since I work remote and spend half my year overseas skipping from place to place.....I'm in Cali, Colombia right now and tried to take a Salsa class since that is supposedly the it thing to do here-I quickly regretted it....I hate…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 05:20 PM

Ok, so you don’t think that a 40 year old man going out with a 25 year old woman carries a higher risk that he is dating a goldigger? So, you seem to be defining handsome as really really attractive….like a 40 year old man that is a 10 for his age bracket….what about a 40 year old man that is a 7 or an 8….attractive but women are not tearing down his door to date him attractive….you don’t think that there is a higher probability that the 40 year old 7 or 8 is dating a 25 year gold digger vs the …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:34 AM

Ok…I don’t think what I was talking about applies in those situations….there are some attractive engineers believe it or not but it’s a field heavily populated by nerds….From what I understand, a good chunk of engineers are on the spectrum….they are not known for attracting beautiful women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:57 AM

Yes, I agree. The relationship between Hugh Heffner and the Playboy model....obviously transactional....but what about the 25 year old woman with the handsome 40 year old man....that's a little harder to discern..... the 25 year old woman with the handsome 26 year old man may be a gold digging situation but age would not be an indicator that she may be a gold digger She asked whether age made men more vulnerable.....of course...younger women are still more attractive and men will risk relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:45 AM

Right but we aren't talking about what is appealing to women as far as a relationship or sex goes....we are talking about what makes a man easy prey....put it another way, what type of men are good targets to fall for a gold digger I'm going to disagree with you with respect to STEM guys. I work in a field related to STEM. Again, I recognize that this is all based on anecdotal evidence and it may simply be that I'm around it. I also agree with you that the majority of STEM guys are going to end …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:37 AM
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I think there is a variation of rationales and motivations but I definitely think this is an important one… Feminist often give off the same vibes as the mean popular girls in school….obsessed with status signaling and demeaning others….nobody is good enough for them, etc….
/r/MensRights14/02/24 07:00 PM
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☝️….Feminism stopped being about equal rights and has become a means of arguing that women are better than men….it’s how they justify their blatant double standards
/r/MensRights14/02/24 11:26 AM

Oh good lord....if you are an attractive rich woman you are doomed.....time to get the golden girl lesbian collective together for brunches and start herding cats....you might as well be a nun in a convent
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:21 AM
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there is going to be a never ending flow of bullshit coming from feminist….you can’t get bent out of shape at another contorted narrative that they dream up….it’s never going to stop…
/r/MensRights13/02/24 05:43 PM

Some people were just meant to be nuns
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:28 AM
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Most men aren't stupid....my best analogy for women would go something like this... think of a woman who is not so hot....let's say she is a 6 and she is not into one night stands...all of a sudden a guy that is a 9 comes along complementing her....does she consider the risk that all this guy wants is a one night stand or a friends with benefit relationship.....I think she would.......now is it possible that this guy actually likes her....yes, it's possible....people sometimes get into people th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:41 AM
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That's a good way of putting it....I would never want to be a divorce lawyer....having to deal with people at their worst and in the darkest parts of their lives does not sound fun....particularly when they want to use you as a weapon in their quest to destroy each other
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:32 AM
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I think so....I mean particularly a young man that gets screwed over by a gold digger....that first taste of reality can be painful....like wow how could I have been so stupid to believe this lie.... Look I don't believe all women are gold diggers.....I just think men and women have an animal side....the animal side is what we usually call "superficial"....the superficial side of men is the guy that only cares about how hot a woman looks....now all men like a pretty girl, the question is are you…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:30 AM
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Well if you are a 75 year old guy and you are walking around with a 25 year old girl you know the deal.... Look, I can buy the 25 year old woman with the handsome 40-45 year old man....does anybody really buy Hugh Heffner at 75 with playboy models though.... you are dating the type of woman that is willing to give you access to their bodies for access to your bank account....the older you get the less likely the young woman is with you for love....in other words the bigger the age gap, the stron…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:58 PM
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For sure....it's better to get into this fight while you still love each other and are trying to be reasonable than when you both hate each other and are trying to rip each other apart.....if I ever get married again (I'm doubting I ever will), I'd want both side to have a lawyer and an impartial family law specialist writing up the agreement
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:51 PM
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Oh I agree about home schooling.....You need life experience to be able to know who your dealing with....I didn't understand anything about bad people until later in life..... I think guys that tend to fall for gold diggers are: Successful men with low social intelligence....think a very successful man in a STEM field....like an engineer or a physicist....always been a nerd and wanted a pretty girl and all of a sudden she shows up Successful Men obsessed with social status - the guys that want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:48 PM
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I'm sure they do and there are people that are more susceptible to it. I think a lot of women that are gold diggers are narcissist...I don't mean that just to throw the term out there....they are obsessed with sexual attention, obsessed with portraying themselves as high status women, obsessed with money, extremely shallow, extremely entitled, and, vengeful to the point of using violence....you basically become their source of attention and money....they will use the lowest tactics of the low...…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:31 PM
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I think any sane person, man or woman should go for the prenup....but remember, they are gold diggers....the whole point of their stick is to trap you into giving her money
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:07 PM
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Because it's an inciting trap....a hot sexy woman, laying it on thick, that is all over you...it feels really good....that is hard to resist
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:05 PM
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I think gold diggers are good at giving men what they want.....they set a bait that is hard for men to resist.....as I've gotten older, it's been easier and easier to say no.....but when you are young, it's hard not to sink your teeth into a beautiful woman that is inviting you into her trap
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:02 PM
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Thanks for the book recommendation…I know it’s from a well intentioned place….first I have no clue what this has anything to do with “feeling you feelings”….that doesn’t even seem like a coherent concept….second, I have no interest in self help therapy trauma culture….those that want to wallow in their victimhood, have at it….thank you though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:13 PM
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Mhm…I’ll have to look up those feel your feeling chapters in the neuroscience textbooks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:43 PM

Because a major motivation of the modern feminist narrative is to control the behavior of men. Feminism now just plays a power game in a gender war. Whenever men do things that don't skew the power balance towards women, they find (mostly made up) narratives to describe it. In reality, what two consenting adults do is none of their business but they will find a way to shame it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:26 PM
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Yeah and feeling your feelings before you can deal with them is called “bullshit”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:07 PM
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Agreed, I don’t need to wallow in my feelings….I deal with my feelings so that they don’t get in the way of the things I want to accomplish…As I gained more experience, I’ve learned to be tougher and more resilient….fewer things bother me….I also simply stay away from social situations filled with drama with little reward….
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:53 PM
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Remember she wants YOU to commit….her commitment will depend on her mood and how she feels that day…marriage is a one way street being mortared in Afghanistan….I live by the ethos, she’s not yours it’s just your turn….do your thing and bounce, do not stick around
/r/MensRights12/02/24 02:26 PM

The point of a fight to me was always to make sure the other guy payed a price even if I lost….it’s been a while since I’ve gotten in a physical fight but what you describe were not the thoughts going through my head….normally, I was in some kind of rage and making sure this guy thought twice before fucking with me again was what ran through my head
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:19 AM
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Any man that is willing to get himself into a legal relationship with someone that at the first sign of dissatisfaction is going to bounce is insane….women want YOU to commit, they will decide their level of commitment day by day, depending on their mood….fuck the living shit out of that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 03:48 PM

Yeah, I hear you…sometimes we learn the hard way….happens to the best of us
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 09:41 PM

Well dude…there is your problem….SIMP mentality….if I do everything she wants and show her how special she is, she will love me….eventually, she just gets bored…. Say this with me and life makes more sense….she’s not yours, it’s just your turn….low investment strategies are what works in this dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:41 PM
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I really don't think this is exploitation, it's just being an asshole........ Same with guys that go overseas....they aren't exploiting anybody....there is nothing wrong with asking a woman out overseas.....However, feminist will immediately pull out the shaming language without even a shred of evidence....everything is presumed....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:49 PM
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It doesn't matter what you do....if it doesn't skew the power dynamic in favor of women, women will use shaming language to describe it.....it gets really boring and eventually you just stop listening.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:46 PM
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Yes, I've had various girlfriends south of the border. I am a Hispanic man that grew up in the US and know Spanish (we spoke it at home). There is nothing predatory about two consenting adults deciding what to do with their own lives. As long as you are honest, I don't see the problem. Let the feminist nuns on this board cackle all they want. The dating scene in Latin America is much more sane than in the US. While there is feminism in Latin America, women there do not hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 02:12 AM

Blue pill advice would also consist of, you are too masculine and you need to feminize yourself….be docile and learn to dance….in a way, it asks men to be submissive as a way to get on women’s good side….That’s why so many men are absolutely revolted and rebel against it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:45 PM

Red Pill is the one that’s full of grifters taking advantage of our poor knowledge of science….lol….please tell me your not a feminist subscribing to postmodernist ideologies and argumentation….I don’t think there is anything more unscientific than postmodernism….
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:46 AM

Yeah sexual attraction is not a morality contest….it would be great to reward good people with sexual attraction just because they are good but that’s not how sex works…just have to live with it and get over it….nice good women don’t get much attention if they aren’t hot….good decent guys don’t get much attention just because they are good….just got to get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:40 AM

So now some average gal is rating Brad Pitt as a loser….lol….good luck ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 12:05 AM
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Men talk…we are allowed….
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:49 AM
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What do you think the expression fat phobic is typically associated with…guys saying they don’t find fat women attractive…the response is you are fat phobic…shaming language .….men are allowed to express what they sexually desire and what they don’t sexually desire….women do it all the time….saying that you don’t find fat women attractive is ok…to use a common expression from women….eww….I don’t know many ways to express it where it doesn’t sound mean….there’s only so many ways to soft land a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:40 AM
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There’s a difference between acceptance as a human being and sexual attraction….Ill assume you are correct that men are more accepted (I’m not sure that’s true and whatever that actually means) for being fat….however, we are talking about shaming people for not finding fat women attractive….. the shaming for disliking overweight people sexually only goes one way….women shaming men…..Women are very clear that they don’t like overweight men (and I think that’s fine)…nevertheless, if men express th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:54 PM
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I don’t have a problem with someone who decides to not have kids…I have a problem with people that talk about other people’s kids as if they were burdensome parasites….antagonism towards children and family in general is not exclusively a value of feminist but it part of the values they express…read Andrea Dworkin to get a feel of how degenerate feminist ideology can become and the antipathy they have towards children…here is a beautiful quote from her regarding mothers with boys Under patriarch…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:28 PM
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Appreciate the kind words…I’m also sorry you couldn’t enjoy yoga more … it suck’s but it’s life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 01:37 PM
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Religion free is stated by people that don’t like religion, lactose free by people that are harmed by lactose, gluten free is for people that are harmed by gluten, meat free because vegetarians think meat is bad…yes people that don’t like dogs live dog free….it instantly put what you are talking about in a negative light….it’s a shame feminist chose this form of advertising with children…but you do you….just don’t wonder why people have problems with the ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:47 AM
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How about debt free, pain free for good measure
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:36 AM
-1

Yes it is….it implies that there is something wrong with alcohol….drug free, free of STDs, slaves are freed, free of sin, free of temptation….they all imply that something is wrong from what you are freed of
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:34 AM
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My point is not that you need to make the choices I made…my point is that we shouldn’t spread a cultural attitude as if children are something awful…you do you…your life…but talking so pejoratively about kids is ugly…there’s no reason to treat them or talk about them that way
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:51 AM
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“Child free” makes them sound like a parasite….As a father, I can tell you that having a child is the most fulfilling experience of my life….I would trade my life it if meant saving my daughter….I wouldn’t think twice….love like that is truly a gift….yes they are a massive responsibility and expensive but let’s not talk about kids as if they are some disease
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:46 AM
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Oh I agree….lots of woman have this attitude toward men in general….I left the Latin dance group in my hometown because of it and became a passport bro….funny thing is once I left, a few of them asked me what was wrong and why I left….I just told them I wasn’t comfortable with dancing….if I had told them the truth, my answer would have sounded a lot like yours….I’ve maintained friendships with a few women outside of the group…but it wears you out and eventually you say, I’ve had enough
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:28 AM
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I wouldn’t call physicist or scientist in the Academy of Science grifters….Nobel laureates like Stephen Weinberg are grifters? …. Scientist and philosophers like Norman Levitt, Paul R. Gross, Jean Bricmont and Alan Sokal are grifters?….criticism of postmodernism is by no means limited to conservative commentators on the right….hell how about Noam Chomsky (doesn’t get more left wing than that) as a critic of postmodernism…you can watch his debates about postmodernism with Micheal Foucault on YouT…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:03 AM
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You guys act like you are shopping for groceries and the man has no say on the quality of woman he wants….the jury is out on you too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:02 PM
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With good reason
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 02:32 PM
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I’ve noticed recently how much the women are constantly preoccupied with danger….I have a female friend that likes to travel as much as I do….We have both gone to Bogota and our experiences were totally different….she spent her trip mortified that she would get kidnapped, clung to touristy areas, and was constantly looking for police to know she was safe…..I walked all over that god damn city (day and night), only did a few touristy things, and didn’t give two shits about the cops….I have a pict…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 04:25 AM
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Yeah but just because your a chooser doesn’t mean anyone is willing to accept you choice….for example, I would fuck Gorlock with your dick and him pushing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 07:46 PM
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You missed the entire point….it’s not about ignoring facts….it’s about their interpretation…post modernist do not empirically verify their models (you know what science does)…in other words, science empirically verifies the axiomatic assumptions their models make to explain a set of observable phenomenon….post modernist simply find facts and interpret them so that the facts fit their narrative…. The separation of gender and biological sex is a perfect example….no where do post modernist actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 01:51 PM
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I know…that’s why I am now wise enough to stay away from women like that….it’s extremely disrespectful and there is no point…the toxicity level is not only going to poison your relationship but also strain the friendships in the social group…any woman that behaves like that is not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:19 PM
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What doesn’t make sense about it….they “spout” about postmodernism because postmodernism leads to ridiculous nonsensical conclusions because of the fundamental assumptions that it makes i.e., that there is no truth outside of the language used to describe it….this is why feminist are having these silly arguments about “what is a woman.” They now buy into this whole ideology that gender is a social construct and it’s got them tying themselves into knots. This is what happens when you aren’t allow…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:09 PM
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I understand that is how feminism is defined but that is not how I believe feminist ideology actually operates….Look I have a daughter…I have no problem with equal opportunity for women…she is a great student….I think she will do well in life…. Having said that, what I’ve observed is that feminism now operates on postmodernist narratives that demonize men….if you ask me, the left made a wrong turn adopting postmodernism as the center of their ideology….I use to be on the left, not anymore….postm…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:56 AM
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For a “real life” meeting have you actually genuinely tried to talk to women? Yes, that was the problem. one of things I think you are ignoring is the misandry of feminism and the vocabulary that is turning feminism essentially into a female separatist movement….. After I got divorced (no I’m not an incel), I joined a Latin dance group (yes, I’m latino). I had some friends (both men and women) that were part of the group and thought it was a good way to get back into the social scene….what I dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:43 AM
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Oh I’ve had a similar thing happen….former girlfriend got drunk and started dancing erotically in the middle of the party….I left the room and started chatting it up with some girls at the party….it didn’t take her long to get off the dance floor and start clawing all over me 🙄….
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:06 AM
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You are assuming that the stimuli are sufficiently positive to allow for selection of positive outcomes….sometimes you receive bad stimuli and you are left with only bad choices….like with modern dating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:37 PM
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That negates the type of stimuli you are receiving and the possible responses that are available given the world around you….a world of shit stimuli and the ability to choose between shit results doesn’t seem a bastion of happiness to me…. You just need to look reality in the eye sometimes…..don’t bitch and move forward….this endless search for happiness just brings misery
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:36 PM
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Look, best thing is to be happy alone and enjoy the occasional rendezvous in the sheets…keep a distance and keep moving….for me, relationships are not worth it….dating is a Shit show….just accept reality, get what you can and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:33 PM
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That’s true…and if you are willing to sit somewhere in that spectrum, you will be ok….but if you want a man with raging ambition that makes 500k, super rich, super handsome, super jacked….well be careful what you wish for….I’d say the same thing to a guy that wants a Victoria’s Secret model for a wife….careful what you wish for
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:44 PM
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Oh I gave up that dream a long time ago….there is fantasy and there is hard bones reality….I simply decided to take the sugar coat off and act accordingly….people that want to live in a fantasy…ok cool….but social norms where there to polish our raw animal side to become more palatable to our morality…with the modern world, that’s gone…I simply behave accordingly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:18 PM
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Of course they do and that’s my point….a man with the personality and drive to get all those things isn’t going to be some passive spectator just saying, oh no dear you just be you….he’s going to be looking for a very specific thing with his own list of exacting demands…a huge portion of these guys are looking for a trad wife or a trophy wife….some will meet their wife in med school or law school and you may form a pair there…. you can be as highly driven and motivated as you want…you do you…but…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:02 PM
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Yeah I find these answers amazing from women….you guys pull out a list of like 300 things a man needs to have to go out with her and just think it just happens naturally because fate made the perfect man for you….it takes a tremendous amount of effort….none of it is easy…so what you think is “compatible” requires enormous effort…what, you think he wants nothing back? Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:53 PM
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Do you think that the man that goes through all the effort to meet all of the requirements women are looking for, what do you think he wants….an overbearing demanding woman that does nothing for him? He just there to share his feelings with her and to be a cheerleader for all her achievements….really, that’s what men want….good luck Men know that we are being used in one way or another….if we lose our jobs and we lose our status, we are well aware that women bounce…we are only loved if we earn r…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:46 PM
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Compatible-able to exist together or occur together without conflict Do you really think that happens if he doesn’t meet her requirements….given that modern women have an increasing list of demands, what you think, that someone meets that list without effort and without trying to mold themselves to become desirable…just magic that the perfect person that meets these demands just happens…😄👍
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:37 PM
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Neither did the man….it’s implied in what you are asking for
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:18 PM
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Damn straight….I actually agree with you….desirable men family oriented men look for desirable family oriented women….if you are not desirable and/or family oriented, don’t be shocked when you don’t find a match….it’s a two way street Not I make demands and the other side is horrible because they don’t meet them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:13 PM
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Right some perfectly packaged man that meets some outrageous list of requirements….that happens naturally….doesn’t require any effort or desire to mold themselves on the man’s part….it’s just love and destiny….😉….
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:07 PM
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They are much more common outside the West
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:01 PM
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When women have it their way, it’s a modern world for women and a traditional world for men…..feminist just want you on your knees licking their high heels….the whole stick is for them to use every ounce of their sexual power to force men to operate in accordance to their ideology….keep them at a distance and go get yours….who gives a shit what some jaded feminist thinks….
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:23 PM
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There is a filtering process going on….people that are good for marriage and have found another person that is good for marriage more than likely will stay married That leaves people that are good for marriage but got a divorce because they had the bad luck of pairing off with someone bad at marriage and also people bad at marriage People that are good for marriage eventually keep pairing off until fewer and fewer are left Being bad at marriage doesn’t mean you are a bad person….I’m bad at marri…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:21 PM

Maybe it was the high of the emotional response….I never completely understood her
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:11 PM
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There are a lot of abused and abusive people and the line between the two is not always the clearest
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:47 AM
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I have no idea…maybe….the more people I sleep with, the more I notice the weird shit people are into…I don’t know how much of it is naturally part of humans sexual psychology and how much of it is porn….first time I watched 50 shades of grey was with a girl that made me watch it….it did nothing for me….I was like meh….but it turned her on….once we started having sex, she put my hands around her neck….I was like oh….that’s what you like 🤷🏻‍♂️…..is that porn? Is that natural? Is that natural but s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:46 AM
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There was a weird dynamic there….she would actually like it when I restrained her…it would calm her down and there was some weird sexual thing to it….trust me it wasn’t pleasant for me but there was some weird psychological thing going on I never totally understood….I don’t agree about the abandonment thing though at least not with her….women may easily get a man to be interested in her but a man that actually cares and takes care of her is not so easy…..to tell you another crazy story about my …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:01 AM
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I have a scar on my left bicep where my ex wife dug her acrylic finger nails in my arm and one got through….it was nasty cut….bled ugly…..I was 6’0” 215, she was 5’1” 120…when she got physical, I would just grab and restrain her until she calmed down….unfortunately, she got that one through….insane levels of jealousy and a crazy control freak….I once told her (and I believe it until this day) if she had been the man and me the woman, she would have beat the hell out of me….luckily, I was close t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:48 AM
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Men choose the wrong women too….good men and good women are rare…marriage is dead….stick to fleeting moments with no commitment and you will be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:38 AM
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Oh but the woman who watches reality garbage TV all day thinking life is guys with Bughatis and 300,000 dollar parties….no she had her expectations set grounded in reality 😉😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:32 PM
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No shit….their advise always ends up being for the purpose of reinforcing feminism anyways….know the place women have chosen for you and accept your groveling fate worm….now lick my heels….
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:02 PM
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True….but that level of extraversión and those social stakes are going to be way too much….how about a book club or a cooking class….not a space where the whole point is a huge social display and your failures are in full view for everyone to see….not only that, women will advertise the rejection to make herself seem like the bad bitch…. dancing sometimes turns into a social competition between women to show whose got the tightest twat
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:37 PM
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At what point do we accept the fact that men and women were not meant to constantly work and play around each other….Camille Pagalia makes this point when she observes that men and women generally formed separate hierarchies and were not constantly intermingling during work…Im often amazed at the ability of feminist to view everything men do as “threatening.” It’s often laughable….like when some geek awkwardly approaches and makes a pass at them….like somehow he is a threat after he goes hiding …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:27 PM
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Awful awful idea….especially for a male introvert….Dancing is a female status show…at least in the Latin dance scene, leads do the heavy lifting, you have got to ask the woman to dance, and then she judges your dancing (not the other way around….you would think after all that work you would at least get that)….women are ruthless with status displays….he will get eaten alive….again you are only looking at this from the female perspective….bad bad idea
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:46 PM

She has zero respect for you bro….You are just waiting for her to cheat on you and the second you don’t do what she wants how she wants it, she’s going to be going to one of her backup dudes that she’s got lined up….not someone you want to be investing in emotionally….
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:11 PM
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Yeah, that’s not true…women always says things that make them look good but then act another way….but dating and sexuality isn’t a game shaped by morality….both sexes have to accept that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:11 PM
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This is why you date according to the philosophy of she’s not yours it’s just your turn….enjoy your ride, it will be over…smash and pass….rule #1 is do not catch feelings and do not show weakness….keep an emotional distance and you will be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:10 PM
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You are a fucking doormat….I guess never having anything in your home country means you don’t mind licking some woman’s boot to get yours….NEVER WILL BE ME….I will always look at men like you like submissive bitches…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:45 AM
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I wouldn’t want to be a woman….why? Because they can get sex easily….I don’t want to live with all those emotions….I am glad that I’m big and strong and don’t walk around constantly worrying whether things are “safe”….fuck that….besides, getting sex is a quest….all you guys get are lies and exaggerations from a bunch of dudes that want to smash and pass….doesn’t exactly make me jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:20 AM

Yeah we are kind of getting sick of the we are always a victim card, played by women….a lot of you make bad choices and then bitch and moan about the consequences and how you are victimized…eventually falls on deaf ears
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:45 PM

Nice way of reflecting feminist logic in the opposite direction….
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:52 AM

It’s perfectly in your control….you just have to play little game called don’t eat it…and I’m almost positive, everyone has control of their pie hole
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 11:34 AM
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It’s like all of a sudden somebody hit the easy button
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:00 AM
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Absolutely….I mean to each their own…but lots of guys are becoming passport bros….I actually met up with a couple of passport bros in Medellin….Neither I nor them were how feminist characterize us….the angry incel who had no options….we all had previous relationships….we just had more fun dating overseas
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:30 PM
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Not the experience I’ve had as a passport bro….I doubt many men expect you to just drop your pants….I just find women much more approachable (sometimes even welcoming) in Latin America….it’s much more fun to date there than here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:18 PM
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I find women overseas just simply more agreeable and much less stuck up….labor moves to markets where the employee is most desirable and men are doing the same…it’s simple sexual market economics….I couldn’t care less if it’s a hot Colombian woman on my arm or a hot blonde from the USA….I speak both languages, make great money, am reasonably tall (6’0”), workout….Im going to get the best of what I want for me…men have this advantage where we can go to a market in another country and find a partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:13 PM
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I totally disagree regarding tightening of marriage laws…now that women make money and are subject to being the one’s that can pay alimony, expect large alimony payments to be a thing of the past
/r/MensRights20/12/23 03:47 PM

Now the dudes that are on the side of feminist are also toxically masculine….guys on your side, not on your side=toxically masculine….bravo, awesome play in the victim Olympics
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:00 AM
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Because?….what particular experience are you pointing to that is unfathomable beyond my comprehension….the postmodernist obsession with the internal world…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:00 PM
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Who cares…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:57 PM
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I think you exaggerate how threatening and “unsafe” a guy hitting you at a bar is…what you ignore all the status signaling that women actually enjoy….getting your drinks bought, having men desire you, getting attention, getting hit on….hell even when rejecting men, women are often status signaling for their girlfriends….once the guys are gone, probably just better to buy a bottle of Clase Azul, turn on your sound system, and dance with the girls in your living room….much much cheaper and absolut…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:07 AM
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Facing your fears is one thing….wallowing and focusing on your internal emotional state is another….learn how to deal with your fears don’t expect others to walk on egg shells around them If you are asking what I would rather do: What I would rather do is build internal strength, resilience,perseverance, and tenacity…have a strong ethical and emotional foundation….in other words be a person of character…if you have that, your foundation isn’t shaken every time there is stress or adversity…. It’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:03 AM
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I disagree. We once believed "truth" was external, meaning that we need to adapt to the demands of society around us. Now, with the truth being entirely subjective, conflicting truths mean that you look entirely to “self-realization” and “authenticity” to fix your problems rather than focusing on self improvement and learning better cohesion with others. This is how therapy culture was born. Its focus is no longer on socializing individuals to societal norms but on shielding them from societal h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:28 AM
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No they don’t….that’s like asking a girl that wears Chanel bags whether she knows if the Steelers run a Cover 2….they don’t care and the majority of men could give a shit about your handbag
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:15 AM
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Well, that’s total cringe …I’d expect PUA to be more creative … any guy trying that line would have their soul shit on
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 10:00 PM
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Ok I just got a cringe punch…wtf, do we live in Victorian Age England…. “Notice your style”…what red blooded heterosexual man notices your style 🙄….women notice the Chanel handbag that you are wearing…men couldn’t care less about the status signaling you use on your Instagram feed to impress the women you are in intrasexual competition with
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 09:42 PM
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Being a woman also doesn’t make you mute…if you have a need, communicate it….Im not here to guess what’s going on in your head….Im not psychic There are things like cleaning up after yourself, which don’t need to be communicated as they are part of being an adult….and then there are things like you buying a new plant and putting it somewhere I can see it and expecting me to guess that you want me to water it (yes, this one happened to me)….there are things like you expecting me to know how often…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:51 PM
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Look, to provide any behavioral rule with respect to humans is asking that you watch it be broken….we can look at generalized behavioral patterns that are on average true….setting a rule so specific like “no sex on a first date means you are a beta” is just silly because it doesn’t account for the multitude of other possibilities that could explain that specific behavior…maybe you could assign a statistical probability (maybe-?) regarding what she is thinking…but some hard and fast rule as if it…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:38 AM
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I have no doubt that the Chad vs Beta dichotomy is an oversimplification of how humans judge the social status of men….but what do divorce judgments have to do with what is going on in the bedroom….I mean maybe this consoles a Beta that just got divorce papers served on them….but Red Pill arguments related to Chad vs Beta’s has to do with how women treat men…particularly, how women give access to sex and what Chads and Betas have to do to get it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:50 AM
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What is your ideal situation? Describe what you actually want….it sounds like you want love without the feelings….kind of doesn’t make sense….are you asking to keep your judgment in tact while you are falling in love….you still have that judgment, it’s just other emotions overpower your rational thought process….do you just want a less intense experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 12:21 AM
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Because you are admitting to him that you are just using him….he simply is the guy that is going to give you something that you want…commitment…he is safe because you know it’s safe to assume he will give you commitment Also, you are also communicating to him that you think you are better than him….he is just the safe option….but you actually deserve better…it reeks of a woman with an unjustified superiority complex and as a man, you are asking for a divorce when the kids come
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:51 PM
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I never needed a woman to be at my side for anything….but I think you just made my case…the fact is women in the US are being programmed into thinking most men are beneath them…and you have nicely expressed both why your situation is very unique and why men should leave for another market….Im simply not going to start a relationship with anyone when they believe they are superior because they have a vagina…I don’t encounter that attitude in other countries and so I enjoy dating much more oversea…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:38 PM
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She’s an angel….the number of women that would invest in a man are few and far between…..there aren’t many women in the US that would invest their resources on blue collar guys and help them get their education, much less a man from another country…kudos to her….
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:19 PM
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So glad I got my vasectomy….
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:02 PM
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I feel for you…however, you won’t escape that expectation….modern dating is based around the idea that women have inherent value while men do not….there are no expectations on women while the man must fulfill his traditional gender role because the whole argument goes that her vagina provides sufficient value…. Having said that, there are plenty of lonely women…regardless of how they present their state of affairs (as a female utopia where women have all the power in the sexual market place) it’…
/r/MensRights14/12/23 02:09 PM
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I didn’t say women couldn’t try…my point is that income is important to women and in most foreign countries, men simply don’t make as much
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:16 PM
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Good for you…congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:15 PM
-5

Hope you have plenty of lube…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:06 AM
-9

Whatever she wants to do good for her…but I have my standards
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:51 AM
0

Hell no…the day I have to date older women is the day I hang it up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:25 AM
2

Befriending the staff is a good pointer…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:23 AM
1

Oh I agree…don’t lead with your wallet….point being however that your wallet makes great bait….and regardless, women don’t like poor men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:20 AM
1

Correction….almost all women like money
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:02 AM
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Passport bros men…why let them dictate what’s available to you…fact is you can do something that women can’t…leave for another dating market…here is the shitty thing for women, if you can’t find the man of your dreams in the US (and maybe Europe) you are fucked…men don’t get any richer in other countries….men in most countries can’t match their income in the US much less provide them with a better life As a man, you don’t have this disadvantage. You can go to another country and leverage your in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 08:33 PM

I doubt attention from you would be very pleasant…don’t worry no one is missing it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:07 AM
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Well women are known for their bitching…so I guess a mutual compatible set of attributes 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 04:03 AM
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Don’t expect any men to listen….the attitude you are promoting doesn’t justify them caring
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:59 AM
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And that’s fine….but on the same token Women should stop complaining about commitment from men. The majority of women will not be in long term relationships…If the attitude is that men are to be treated as disposable, you shouldn’t be mad when desirable guys reciprocate….furthermore, even guys that are not highly desirable can get laid with some work….however, why would they invest in someone who simply views them as disposable….there is a culture that promotes healthy relationships and it invol…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:50 AM
2

Men like a lady at home and a friek in the sack Women like a teddy bear at home and a lion on the streets
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:28 AM
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Since when is cooking or going to the grocery store a flex for men….you do your shit quietly without complaining….she’ll do more than enough complaining for the both of you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 10:27 PM
1

You really think no man on this planet can go 50/50…I know a few that do more than their fair share in the house and with the finances…but maybe my experience is out of the norm…might want to look in different places
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:58 PM
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That wasn’t the point of the post…fact is, as an American woman, if you don’t find a guy in the US, you are kind of screwed….guys from most other countries can’t pay your bills
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:39 PM
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Why not? It just sounds like you have picked the wrong guys….I know plenty of guys that honestly try too hard to please their woman…but maybe you just need to stick to hook ups…low investment by both sides
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:31 PM
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It depends….some dudes are just there for ass….some dudes are there to get married or at least find a long term relationship….some guys want commitment and something serious, some guys want transactional (which can be 50/50 just a different type of 50/50)….
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:09 PM
2

A lot are…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 08:06 PM
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And then people hate on the passport bros…we all know you aren’t looking for equality…thanks for confirming
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:01 PM

Mhmm…that’s not what the literature I read said….to correlate stoism and emotional toughness with psychopathy just goes to show me how far the left is willing to go to associate every admirable characteristic of masculine men with violence and rape culture….give me a fucking break
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:24 AM

I just read where you got this from and shocker….psychology is a shit show with respect to what any of this stuff actually means….accept a universal in the social sciences at your peril …Id like to see if they even have anything resembling a consistent definition of what “fearless dominance” means In the end, most researchers agree that fearless dominance, by itself, is not a sufficient indicator of psychopathy, and that anti-social behavior does need to be a prominent feature regardless of whet…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:10 AM

I don’t know if we are talking about the same thing…emotional toughness meaning the ability to withstand difficult emotional and psychological circumstances
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 01:00 AM

….maybe but it doesn’t mean you are a psychopath…correlation is not causation and just because a bad group of people have a characteristic doesn’t mean the characteristic is bad….Intelligence may be correlated with serial killers but it doesn’t mean I don’t want to be intelligent….strength may be correlated with being a bully but it doesn’t mean I don’t want to be strong….that fact you point to is really irrelevant to whether the characteristic is a good characteristic or a bad one… I don’t know…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:49 AM

Being stoic is now toxic masculinity 🙄…….”emotionally suppressive”….whatever happened to values like resiliency and emotional toughness…I don’t need to share my feelings with everyone….
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 11:50 PM
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There are differences in male and female behavior…evolutionary psychology proves that…men on average are less emotionally expressive…this doesn’t vary between cultures….I find it funny that a modern feminist, which is a postmodernist ideology, is hell bent of evidence….where is the evidence that male emotional expression is the result of culture…where is the evidence that males and females would express themselves in the same manner if it weren’t for (insert BS feminist social construction argum…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:23 PM

I’ll take the evidence of how cultures have propagated throughout human history…you do know that the culture parents bring up their children has an impact on what culture they will have as an adult……I mean yeah there are people with no contact with their parents…there are plenty that do…the process of enculturation is not 100% effective….no one is arguing that it is…the question is it is sufficiently effective to grow and maintain itself in a population
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:37 PM

They aren’t actually taking the land back…however they are spreading their culture and values there…very practical because it actually ensures that your values reach the next generation…about as practical as it gets
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 05:22 PM

Actually outbreeding them seems to be a very practical strategy if you want your culture to survive and propagate…Jose Mujica once brought up a point that Mexicans are reconquering the land that Mexico lost to the US “con los vientres”…i.e., with their wombs…. I’m not trying an us vs them argument…this isn’t a fight to destroy one another…the point being that cultural values are passed down through the family….when Richard Dawkins brought up the idea of the meme, he wasn’t talking about cute pic…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:58 PM
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Good luck men…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:46 PM

Does your philosophic outlook matter? Is it good? Does it matter to you if women in the next generation don’t have and don’t live under a system with the values you espouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:43 PM
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Weddings and rings are part of human rituals that are symbolic of love and commitment…and also displays of status and wealth….you can’t progress your way out of human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:00 AM
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Passport bros dude…there’s a bunch of us like me that are six figha chigas are unsatisfied or struggle and bounce…It was much easier overseas…I had a gf in one month…🤷🏻‍♂️…I’m 6”0’, not awful looking, make well over six figures and it was super fast…I am latino and knowing Spanish definitely gave me an advantage but, if you are having issues in the US market, look into it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:53 AM
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I don’t think you can ignore the effect of culture ….Israel has a very high urbanization rate (92% live in cities) yet a fertility rate of 2.90. This is very high for a developed first world country. Is it the culture that comes with city life or is it purely economic….I would argue both are factors here….In Israel, the survival of the Jewish state is a nationally priority…it’s part of the culture and their culture has a focus on families… I think feminism sows the seeds of its own destruction…I…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:42 AM
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I got back in Facebook a year ago after a 5 year hiatus…needed it to find events…I pretty much stay away from people’s personal posts…after I decided to give up the group, I am now thinking about just cutting it off again
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:24 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:18 AM
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That was actually well thought out
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:17 AM
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I honestly have better things to do than to build an addiction from a dopamine feedback loop centered around social media…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:15 AM
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Good lord dude…you need to take some antidepressants
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:13 AM
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Exactly…when I see reasonably attractive woman post a mildly provocative photo, the number of men that stupidly fall for the bait is pathetic…the number of likes and comments feeding her ego….and women also kind of form a cheerleading section for one another…have a guy post a photo and it’s mostly crickets…I basically don’t use social media anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:37 PM
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It’s social media post and Instagram photos…nothing real life…the fact that people value themselves so much based on their social media feed is kind of pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:28 PM
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Personally I take these “studies” with a grain of salt…..while I am a big defender of the hard sciences, I wouldn’t trust anything coming out of a sociology department now a days…cancel culture doesn’t allow for true peer review in these environments….as soon as a professor is skeptical and doesn’t adopt what is the appropriate point of view or if god forbid, he comes to conclusions that don’t align with the woke orthodoxy, his career is threatened or he is otherwise cast aside….until that chang…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:31 PM
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I’m very skeptical regarding the conclusions of this Reddit…women are actually very egalitarian and will pull down and attempt to sabotage another woman’s success if she gets something the others don’t have…men actually can be competitive and have other men be better than them in a hierarchical structure and still maintain good relationships…all of a sudden, this is switches when the competition is between men and women….I think this is just a feminists attempted justification for hypergamy http…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 07:15 PM
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Cool 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:20 PM
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I am talking about feminist….look I’m not absolving men from responsibility l, get off your high horse…however this idea that it’s a problem with a particular identity group and therefore nobody else in society should not care about it is ridiculous…you are making it so that whether you recognize someone’s humanity is dependent on whether they identify with your identity group…it’s fucking madness…look those individual’s have personal responsibility…men need to look at what’s going on too…it’s n…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 06:32 PM
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It’s not bad behavior …it’s the mistakes people make in relationships…you are so eager to be judgmental…give the guy a break, I don’t know anyone with a perfect record in the love department
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:35 PM
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That has nothing to do with what I’m talking about…of course people should be separated from dangerous individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:25 PM
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Mhm and your quick to jump and shit on him…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:23 PM
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He’s not pretending to like a gal…he likes a gal but then realized they weren’t compatible and is having trouble dealing with what to do…again, stop demonizing him
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:17 PM
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I’m not talking about you average woman, I’m talking about feminism and the philosophy it teaches…it does do a great job of demonizing the outgroup…red pill does the same thing…red pill is beneficial in that it tries to help men understand how female sexual attraction works, but then it goes off the deep end and paints every woman as a narcissistic whore..every person in that group is all of a sudden painted with the worst behavior from individuals from that group…and so you paint every story fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:15 PM
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Thanks for making my point
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:02 PM
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It’s precisely what I’m talking about regarding the demonization of men by feminism…feminism teaches women to have zero empathy for anybody that’s male…it makes it clear that this move to soften and emasculate men has nothing to do with getting rid of “toxic masculinity” (which I have yet to find anything close to a clear definition capable of being applied in practice)…it’s simply about obtaining power over men…make them docile so you can control and humiliate them as you please….when a guy tri…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:53 PM
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Im not blaming women for these problems You’ve also never made a better case that feminism is a essentially separatist philosophy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:40 PM
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When we talk about the suicide rate among men and the response from feminist is women shouldnt care about this issue these men are losers and deserve what they get…the implication is that these mens lives are morally irrelevant to women…their lives don’t matter to us…fuck 😳…that’s a good moral human being…really? One that acts that way…what if someone asked for donations for breast cancer and I said, who gives a fuck about these women, let these bitches die…they don’t matter to me…would you not …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:19 AM
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Im not asking feminist to tackle the job…men probably should have a men’s group to tackle the job….what I’m saying is that feminist, red pill, MGTOW (insert sex advocacy group here) should not be advocating for a morality where our moral duties towards one another are segregated based on sex…I think I’ve made that pretty clear in my other posts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 12:14 AM
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And good…from what you tell me that’s a brand of feminism I’m fine with…I have a daughter, I want her to have a happy life…I have no problem with like I said, I don’t think women need to make men’s issues part of their platform What I do have an issue with is when the feminist narrative that tells them that men’s issues are their problem…that somehow they have bore the burden of emotional relationships in the past and that now women should free themselves from their oppressor…hence the nasty res…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:09 PM
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It’s an example of her statement being incorrect so it is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 09:06 PM
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Well what to do about it is a good question…and if men are resistant to it, well that something men need to deal with…Also is therapy really going to help these men…I don’t know, I’d like to hear more ideas about what a solution would look like…unfortunately, I don’t have a background in mental health and certainly these individuals bear some responsibility for getting their lives together However, we aren’t talking about how to solve the issue…my point is that our moral obligations (whatever th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:35 PM
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Ok so we are in agreement, we should care about issues that effect all of us and that gender doesn’t matter with regard to whether we have a moral imperative …good…well then, you understand why I have a problem with a feminist narrative that insists otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 08:02 PM
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Oh that’s easy…because feminist narratives are focused on a mysterious cabal of men (which they call the patriarchy) as the object of their oppression…the feminist narrative is that women have had to toil with the emotional support for men and so no more…it’s a feminist narrative that focuses on NOT CARING for other human beings to free yourself from oppression…in other words, freedom is being free from a moral imperative…I find this narrative to be destructive Actually you in your analogy, you …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:24 PM
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I didnt say it didn’t count…I said it’s not focused on the issue that I’m talking about, women’s (more particularly, feminist attitudes) narratives towards issues that effect men…you can in general support funding mental health…but caring about mental health is not directly connected towards the feminist narrative Im focused on…men’s mental health issues….women as a group may fund mental health at rates higher than men…but that doesn’t directly relate towards feminist narratives regarding issues…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 07:05 PM
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Oh some women do…a lot of women don’t think that way….but a lot of women do…and it doesn’t have to be a sex worker…if I go on your social media feed and I see that you are focused on garnering sexual attention from men….I don’t want to be in a relationship with that type of woman…because with those type of women, as soon as you bring it up they instantly play the “you are just insecure” card…no I’m just recognizing the implications of your behavior and I don’t see a problem with me saying that’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:58 PM
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No it’s not….an oncologist should work to solve breast cancer man or woman….a politician should work to solve a mental health crisis regardless of whether the issue effects men or women…why would whether the issue is medical or social absolve one gender from a moral imperative No one is saying women have to take the lead…my point isn’t that women have to solve the problem while men sit on their ass and watch…my point is that we have a UNIVERSAL responsibility to solve problems affecting society……
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:53 PM
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What’s weird about it…the statement was women don’t demonize men that don’t demonize them regarding dating female nature…I simply pointed out a powerful example where this is not the case…your point regarding women’s funding of mental health is relevant but it misses the mark…the issue isn’t women’s (and I’m focusing of feminists in particular) attitudes towards mental health in general…It’s women’s attitudes towards men’s mental health issues….if you want to generalize my point, it’s that there…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:39 PM
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A distinction without consequence my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:49 PM
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Because she mentioned that she has never seen women complain or demonize men that go about their daily lives and don’t complain about sex, female nature etc…and there are plenty of men that have mental health issues that are irrelevant to sex or dating but if you bring it up you are instantly dismissed…the men are immediately branded as losers that deserve no sympathy…an example of the demonization of men and a disregard of any moral imperative towards them despite this having nothing to do with…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:46 PM
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I didn’t say women have a unique role…I’m saying that we have a universal role in solving societies issues…now if you are someone that is hyper individualistic and think the only problems that matter to me are my own…fine…but arguing that our moral imperatives are based on the them effecting our own gender and fuck the other gender is the definition of a separatist movement…you only see your gender as human and the other one is morally meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:41 PM
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Ok, you are saying that whether we care about an issue depends on the gender affected…no one is saying that if a problem effects men, women all have to collectively get up and fix the problem for men while men sit on their ass…you know that’s not what I’m saying…you seem to be advocating an attitude however where if someone has a moral imperative is dependent on the gender of the other individual…that is precisely a separatist philosophy based on gender…so basically we are going to have a world …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:35 PM
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The attitude you are preaching is an attitude of male and female separatists movements, in which we view each other as different species and the problems of one group are irrelevant to the other….absolutely asinine attitude if society is going to function and solve problems that affect all of us
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:13 PM
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It’s a social problem…there are problems that effect all of us in society…let’s say breast cancer….is that an acceptable answer….that’s women’s problem and that for them to solve? Why should I care, I’m not a woman…its not mens job to collectively save women…it’s not women job to collectively save men…it’s a social problems, WHICH WE ALL, need to look for solutions
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:11 PM
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Oh I have…bring up the subject of male suicide which is 4 times as high in men than in women….you will see women (and even some men) make incredibly cruel statements … the most basic is that these guys are losers and it’s their problem, not for women to solve, but I’ve seen much worse….I find this attitude extremely callous and just confirms my feeling that women just see men as tools to feed their egos…when teenage girls are having serious mental health issues due to the effects of social media…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:02 PM
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I don’t date American women…I work remote and I’m out of the country for half the year, my girlfriend is in Medellin…I’ve opted to find a different market…the US dating market is just too toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:45 PM
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Ok I’ll agree here…if you don’t want a hoe, don’t be with a hoe…goes the same for men and women…if giga-Chad has a roster of chicks, don’t complain that men are trash because he won’t commit…you knew what you were walking into…if she has an only-fans account, don’t be mad you got with a hoe… The counter that bothers me is the women that hear that a guy won’t date a woman with an only fans account and then counter that it’s because we feel insecure…it’s like, it’s not about insecure…I simply know…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:18 PM
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Thanks Doll…nice try
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:56 PM
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You don’t work on your emotions, you work on becoming better…at whatever you do or whatever you want to become…have a goal…focus your mind on your goals and how to attain them.:..I promise you will feel much better when you aren’t some fat slob on the couch playing video games…get out and battle…you will be too preoccupied with what you are doing to wallow in your feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:43 PM
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Not always, just when I want people to miss the obvious sarcasm in my criticism 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:38 PM
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Good luck finding sisterhood utopia, I haven’t seen it anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 09:15 PM
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Oh I’ll judge…if she looks like a hoe when you found her, she going to look like a hoe when she’s with you…fuck hoes, don’t invest in them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:11 PM
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Ok? I have…I work remote and travel…spend months at a time in Latin America…Im much happier
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 04:37 PM
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Go to a Salsa dance group….wallow in the petty narcissistic status games women play with each other…I was part of one and grew to hate it because of the drama and behavior of the women in the group…in fact, I know refuse to dance period because I want nothing to do with that world…way way toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:41 PM
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Yeah, lol…good luck…women had a common goal and good for them for getting the vote…I didn’t say it’s impossible to change…but it takes a huge effort to move people in one direction on a consistent basis but you aren’t going to eliminate competition between females and have them move in one direction for time immemorial…innate behavior never disappears
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:34 PM
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I don’t know what women you are hanging out with but the groups of women that I have hung out with are shitshows….women constantly are competing for social status…a lot of catty bickering, rumors, and generalized back stabbing….one of the differences between men and women is if men don’t like each other, they want nothing to do with one another….if women don’t like each other, they will actually continue to hang out in the same social circles and then talk Shit about each other behind each other…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 01:40 AM
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I have a group of a few male friends…that’s all I need…I don’t need to have a large cohort of companions…I’m not in high school…it’s not a popularity contest
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:34 PM
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Look…have you actually hung out with a large group of people, especially a group full of feminist…it’s a shit show of jealousy, catty competitions, and endless melodrama,…I keep people at a distance…if you want to wallow in that cess pool of toxic behavior, go find a large group of people and do your best to be part of the group…you’ll regret it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:32 PM
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The problem is that you ask 2 different women a question and you’ll get 4 different answers…when a lack of consensus is mixed with the incessant need for feminist to label any type of behavior by men that isn’t in accordance with their subjective desires, moods, and whims as part of rape culture, you’ll basically have no place where you can be sure…some women are reasonable and some are a neurotic mess, looking for any excuse to make a show…my advice, don’t approach women in the US…I tried datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:33 AM
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Is that what feminist do…I thought it was more like outrageously overpricing your market value…but ok? 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 03:47 AM
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Yeah duh…remember their game is you got to go get them…your game is to go get yours…play your game not theirs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:00 AM
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Ok I agree with that…but if she doesn’t want to have sex with you…you bite the bullet….say I really appreciated our time together and you file for a divorce…accept the consequences of what that entails and move on…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:27 PM
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Even men who do want kids, often want the “legacy” not the kids themselves…. If that isn’t the most horse shit feminist demonization of men….do you really believe that we don’t love our kids….we just want a legacy…what world do you live in I spent years ok years of my life and money fighting to be in my daughters life…that woman made my life a living hell and put me into a four year depression…however for every one of those four years I fought and fought and fought to be in her life….do you real…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:39 PM
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So you are saying that being satisfied with a sexless marriage is a masculine trait? As if the woman has no role in the marriage being sexless…he just needs to accept her decision and go into a sexless purgatory…yeah, real masculine…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:30 PM
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1) don’t assign emotions to people…what do you know about what they are feeling…this obsession by feminist to only assign men feeling that lead to violence is actually a caricature of men in an effort to justify demonizing them…my uncle and my cousin (a woman) are both OBGYNs….first time I’ve heard that men being angry in the obstetrics unit is an issue…feminist don’t like or to shame men and instantly want to try to somehow wrap everything related to their behavior into some rape culture violen…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:48 AM
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1) we all have emotions…we are all human…what is there to admit 2) I recognize them cause I feel them…so what do you mean by recognize because feeling on its own is inherently recognition…that just sounds like BS emotional self help…do I need to categorize them in nice emotional boxes and put them on display so everyone can see them… 3) people that don’t control themselves require other people to manage their emotions…women included…Been part of plenty of shit shows caused by women due to attent…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:54 PM
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Thin line…a lot of people don’t walk it….being emotionally vulnerable can lead to a constant feedback loop fed by attention seeking behavior….. if you ask me, I’ll keep my shit to myself…as a man, the only thing emotional vulnerability brings is weakness…learn to manage, cope, understand
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:46 PM
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Oh bullshit…sometimes accepting a situation quietly is better than causing and emotional circus because you need those around you to validate your feelings…the latter can be pretty toxic too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:14 PM
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Yeah define acknowledging…because there is dealing with your emotions and then there is wallowing in your emotions for the sake of advertising your emotional vulnerability…I have no need for emotional masturbation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:12 PM
1

Duh…I made a comment the other day that feminist defend their right to have superficial standards for men but then try to push body positivity on men…in other words, you have to have a six pack but I can be a tub of lard with a vagina and if you don’t my cellulite you are oppressing me 🙄😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:29 PM
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This was never as much of a factor in dating or friendships as it is today…as someone that went to high school and college in the 90’s, people’s perspectives have changed…if this was a big issue with someone back in the 90’s, it was more with the hyperreligious that had strict moral and cultural guidelines (otherwise they saw dating you as a sure path to hell and damnation)…of course that is still the case… What’s changed is the moral self righteousness of people on the left…I use to be on the l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 08:24 PM
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What exactly have I said that’s wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:31 PM
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So we are in agreement that dating is not egalitarian…awesome…so can you all stop with the body positivity bullshit trying to shame us into thinking that some tub of lard that happens to have a vagina and vice grip on her gallon of ice cream is beautiful and that we are sexist if we aren’t sexually attracted to her….when we bitch about the hypocrisy of feminism…it’s shit like that that we are talking about…you guys defend as if a right from heaven your insane and superficial standards for men…oh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:10 AM
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That’s not what I said…I didn’t even say it was me…thanks for sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 11:14 AM
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He’s just calling it how he sees it…I’ve had friends that are in the dance scene and have seen a fat girl no one is asking to dance…out of human sympathy, they will ask her only to be shit on by this girl….she goes on to put on a show in front of everyone so everyone knows that she thinks she is too good to dance with him…wtf…delusional…think maybe that is the result of the dumpster fire of modern feminism…it gets old and eventually you get tired of segregating the sane women from the indoctrina…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:16 PM
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I vacation all over Latin America…definitely not first world….I definitely leave the tourist areas…I just had surgery in Medellin because I broke my arm on a motorcycle….there are lots of Americans here….I mean look I think a lot of people pick the safe route but a good portion of people don’t…you learn a lot about human nature going to different parts of the world…I’d find vacationing for luxury and pretty places really boring…we all have different personalities…. when I compare myself to my fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:07 PM

My rule is basically, if you become so overweight that you lose you females shape (ie you have begun the process or have reached the point where your body look like a potato rather than having S curves) you are too fat for me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:23 PM
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It’s called modern feminism…women obsessing over the behavior of men, looking for every possible angle to demonize it…the manosphere is to men what modern feminism is to women…a place to demonize the behavior of the opposite sex…women will attempt to characterize it differently, as an attempt to gain freedom…but that boat sailed a long time ago…women are free…feminism today is just women demonizing men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:08 PM
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This is not the way the world has worked for most of human history…this is the world we have made…biology pushes all of us to seek sex…there are few things more biologically innate than the urges associated with reproduction…I have serious doubts that you have “moved on” without serious consequences to your mental health…the fact that you are part of this subreddit says that you haven’t…I doubt anybody that actually doesn’t care would waste their time having these conversations…women are not ase…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:03 PM
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You made a cost benefit analysis. When I used to drink (don’t any more), I knew it was bad for me. However, I wanted the party and I chose to do it. It’s not the liquor stores fault… it’s not the guy that offered me the shots fault it’s my fault… I got the benefit I wanted and have to pay the cost. Same goes the other way. The guys are offering you a good time. You wanna have sex with this guy. If you choose to have sex with them, you got your fun or maybe a chance to woo him but now you have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:36 AM
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Why would you feel predatory…you aren’t forcing them, you aren’t even tricking them…are we now all responsible for everyone else’s sex lives…if I have sex with a whore, can I know go to the whore and tell her she devalued me…she is responsible and needs to feel remorse…take accountability for your own shit…stop making yourself a victim…you aren’t one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:27 AM
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No…just like it’s not predatory for the liquor store to sell alcohol…it’s not predatory for the drug dealer to sell you drugs…you had a choice whether you wanted sex with this man…you chose to have sex with him…your virtue is not his responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:18 AM
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Feminist only care about power…they use victimhood as a sword to gain it…we are not going to find solace in feminism or from feminist…any type of male suffering will be seen as good and a sign of the destruction of the patriarchy…honestly it’s a power dynamic that only a sadistic sociopath would love…here’s a tip, women are not going to help us so stop listening to them
/r/MensRights02/10/23 04:05 AM
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Here’s a tip on how not to get “preyed” upon…take responsibility for your own actions and stop blaming others for decisions you made
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:48 AM
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Lol…that one made me chuckle
/r/MensRights23/09/23 12:55 AM
1

What it should mean is that the bell curve for men is flatter meaning there are fatter tails
/r/MensRights23/09/23 12:53 AM
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In other words, the bell curve is flatter for men as compared to women
/r/MensRights23/09/23 12:47 AM
1

Why does everybody insist on having the same conversation over and over again…dating is fucked…let’s just accept our role as adversaries and hope we can get enough to skimp by…dating is only fun for gigachad and maybe even not him…whenever I’ve been lucky enough to date more than one girl it generally turns into a headache of problems…we are fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:46 PM
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I couldn’t agree more about using women’s standards of well-being used on men….Men don’t deal with their emotions like women…watching these men’s retreats where guys are asked to basically heal and explore their emotions like women honestly gives me the ick…it’s like watching a large emotional circle jerk….stop trying to turn us into girls
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:14 PM
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National movements and solutions take time…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:53 PM
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We don’t need to build support networks like women do…we are not women…I could think of no worse fate than being in some god awful retreat with a bunch of sissified guys talking about my feelings and engaging in other forms of emotional masturbation…guys need support networks for men…not emulate the support networks of women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:07 PM
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That is true…women don’t care about unattractive men…in fact, I think they hate unattractive men from what I’ve been reading…men will need to form new organizations to deal with the problems…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:05 PM
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sounds like an exercise in emotional masturbation…let’s feel good even though it’s completely detached from reality….
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:21 PM

No one is paying me to be their body guard…next
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:40 PM
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Women that are overweight and have their guts hanging out of a crop top…I’m not making a moral judgment…they have the right to wear what they want but…ick it doesn’t look nice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:56 PM
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Love is bullshit for most…you are seen as valuable or not…I agree with the post…no use wasting your time complaining…simply behave accordingly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:03 PM
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What’s the difference between being masculine and being toxically masculine?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:00 PM

Well if you are asking men to change our behavior…how are we expected to know what to change…it’s not fair to ask us to live by the whim of every woman simultaneously and if we don’t then call us degenerates…you would be asking something that is impossible for anyone to actually carry out
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 09:33 PM
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I see people at the gym…I see the guys too…does that mean I’m gay…you are being ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:47 AM
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It’s like we need sit around like submissive puppies waiting for women to approve of what we feel and if not we need to go into some submissive shame spiral….GO FUCK YOURSELF
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:45 AM
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You know what you are trying to do…you are trying to shame me simply for having an emotion…good lord, feminist don’t even want to allow men to be human…you are incredibly cruel
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:43 AM
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Did I say I stared?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:41 AM
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In other words you can control your actions but you can’t control which emotions you have…there’s a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:33 AM
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You can control feeling desire…wow…you are nuts…I can control what I do when I have a feeling…I can’t control having the feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:30 AM

Yeah it’s the same thing with being nonreligious…I’m an atheist but atheist don’t reproduce so it seems that this age of low religiosity will be short lived…the religious have children and thus their culture will pass on to the next generation
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:07 AM
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How can you have rules for recognizing what is unacceptable if what is acceptable is based on your subjective desires…in other words, if what’s acceptable to Karen and Shirley is different how can Karen talk to Shirley about rules for finding Shirley’s boundaries…if the boundaries are entirely subjective, then how are you able to judge that someone into something degrading and violent if it’s not degrading and violent to another person…don’t we need objective standards here in order to judge whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:57 AM
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So first we are all loners that can’t get sex and deserve every bit of loneliness and at the same time we are sexual deviants that lack sexual self control…🙄…oppressive are we
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:50 AM
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Better for what to stay single? What are your goals…if you want to stay single stay single…if the risk of becoming involved with a man that watches porn is too much for you…stay single…is your goal simply to characterize men as threats? That’s what it sounds like…if you can’t handle the risk that a guy is possibly into porn stay fucking single…why are you so fragile and why do you take so much pride in it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:47 AM
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Look that’s what work is all about…bow to the corporate master…lol….they only care about what you do not who you are…but if we are being honest most of us just care about the paycheck…keep getting healthy…do it for you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:18 AM
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Not every woman is going to put in work…there are plenty of fat slobs that are women….why would I put in work for someone just because the have a vagina…if I’m going to put in work, it’s for me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:09 AM
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If he is outwardly and carelessly expressing desire that’s one thing, but you can’t help feeling lust…it’s not something you can control…I’m in Medellin right now and the women here are beautiful…. there was a girl at the gym today that was so hot it hurt…honestly, it almost made me mad glancing over at her she was so hot…it’s simply something I can’t control
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:06 AM
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Well if everyone standard is the hot doctor fresh out of medical school, then it won’t be possible…that’s fine, everyone is entitled to their standards…but you aren’t entitled to having someone that meets those standards and is willing to commit to you…also, not all women can be the hot dudes dream girl no matter how hard they try…average women are average women and they are only going to get so much by trying… Damn straight about relationships…I got a divorce two years ago and FTS…I’m happier a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:51 AM
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I am not required and will not meet the expectations of anybody just because they are a woman…you do you…I’m not your slave…I’ll do me….set whatever standards you want…those are yours not mine…and I’m not going to live MY LIFE to meet someone else’s standards…sorry no one is forced to stay with anybody…however, being in a relationship in which the other person has sacrificed for your benefit creates moral obligations that don’t disappear simply because you callously change your mind …you have wr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:50 PM
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It’s not all sunshine and rainbows for women…there are only so many high value men around…so women that are not high value are simply going to be used or be alone…doesn’t sound like it’s a party for women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:13 PM
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Exactly…accept things are the way they are…respect yourself…do the best you can and don’t play women’s game…you will just be used…play your game and let the chips fall where they may
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:11 PM
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I agree with a lot of what you said…also there are a lot of other factors to love so my situations are overly simplistic…fair point…but I think you understand what I’m getting at…and no one has to point a gun to your head…we are talking about moral obligations…there are situations where people actually do deserve love…as you have made a promise to someone else…where those situations end and begin are complicated…still, I have a feeling the current situation is way off the mark
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:06 PM
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You should look up Louise Perry…she argues that women actually aren’t happy with the current situation…women are expected to put out early if they want to a chance with very attractive men and they often get ghosted and used… Women can do what they want…question is if I’m going to put up with it…If I go into the market place and don’t like the price, I leave and look for another market place…women complain about this too however…it’s like they expect guys to hang around just so you can shit on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:40 PM
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I’m traveling in Medellin…I’ll go back to the US in a few weeks and then I’ll head back to Latin America…much happier this way
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:11 PM
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No I’m saying women are not stupid…they generally know that you are attracted to them and they put you in the friend zone to get something out of you…either attention or gifts or the protection of a bf without having to have the responsibilities of being a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:08 PM
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Look…this is the we are all unique argument… however, you can look at generalized behaviors in populations…for example, you can look at generalized dispositions towards aggression…which is the more aggressive sex, men…men aren’t outrageously more aggressive than women but on average men are more aggressive I mean this doesn’t mean that we have figured out all men…what we have figured out is a generalized pattern of behavior…women fight this on their side tooth and nail…as soon as you discuss gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:42 AM
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Here’s the point….a guy can come in and say I cook, clean, work out, have hobbies, have a good job…all of these things you have listed….know what the response is from women…I don’t care…you need to meet my exhaustive list of standards and what you have to offer is too basic…so the party that is implicitly suppose to meet her list of standards is the man…that’s the expectation…I’m tired of the expectation…it rigs the game against me…I’m done with that game Also, what does this have to do with bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:49 AM
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I hear women say they deserve to be loved all the time…you heard it all the time when the body positivity fad was at it’s height…shows like Oprah and Dr. Phil are constantly spewing this rhetoric… Here’s the deal…other than your parents, who owes you love? Who can you walk up to and say I deserve that you love me…can you point someone out…two examples, which in the past you could but now you can’t Man and woman gets married…man works like a slave to give her a good life and give their children a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:55 AM
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😂🤣😂🤣
/r/MensRights15/09/23 02:41 AM
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It’s the same strategy fundamentalist Christians use to shun those that don’t spit out their dogma…being woke is a religion on the left
/r/MensRights15/09/23 02:40 AM
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My only gripe about what your saying seems to be that not listening to your mom or sister while growing up is some masculine trait…have you ever been around a teenage girl (I know you have)…I can’t think of many things more disagreeable and neurotic around their fathers and mothers than a teenage girl with raging hormones
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:29 AM
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How many times have we heard women say they deserve to be loved….do they? men aren’t entitled to sex so why do women deserve love…deserve love from who exactly…Chad? He owes you love
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:24 AM
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Why is it always us that has to have something to offer and us that have to be wantable….why would I play this game where you are seen as my superior simply for having a vagina…I’m not playing your game…I’m going to play mine
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:02 AM
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Damn straight…don’t do the friend zone thing…you will just end up being used
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:00 AM
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This is the truth…women have no sympathy for men…they revel in their disgust because it makes them feel superior, even the plumpy average women who have no business thinking they are anything but average… I also have zero sympathy for women…don’t complain about getting tossed around on the dick carousel…it’s of your own doing…no one owes me sex and no one owes them commitment…it’s the hard truth… I’ve adjusted accordingly…I have withdrawn from the social groups I use to be in…who wants to be par…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:53 AM
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Why is always the guys that need to do something wrong or right and women have to do nothing…they can be completely socially inept but the expectation is for the man to be perfect…don’t know why men insist on playing women’s game…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 01:37 PM
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Good luck getting me to be any of those things…I’d rather die alone wallowing in my own shit than be an emasculated slave
/r/MensRights31/08/23 05:08 PM
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In summary, you can’t bribe a man into liking you especially to liking you to the point that he wants to be exclusive with you Same with guys in the friend zone…if she’s not attracted to you, she’s not attracted to you and being nice doesn’t do much to help
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:50 PM
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Not really, but it can cancel whether you want something other than sex from her…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:21 AM
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If we are we just talking about raw sexual attraction…then the slutty bad girl look…just for pure sex….however, I would not be attracted to her for a long term relationship…you are asking for a gargantuan nightmare if you catch feelings for a girl like that…for a long term relationship, the dainty, feminine, delicate look
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:46 AM
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This is all going to depend how good you are at handling women’s demands and expectations. Also, depends on the quality of woman you end up with…a shitty woman, even if she’s hot, can sink your life into absolute misery…women are pushy, even the lazy ones…they expect for you to meet their demands and complain and nag endlessly when you don’t…sometimes, you wake up and wonder, who the fuck does this person think she is to be constantly on my ass about things she knows she wouldn’t do or can’t do……
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:41 AM
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Yeah, I’m a guy…I have a biological drive…I satisfy it and move on
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:15 PM
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When the robots come out…none of this will matter…guys will be banging plastic and women will be connecting emotionally with computer programs…then everyone will be happier in their fake life talking and fucking fake things…I’m only kidding…kind of
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:48 PM
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Exactly correlation doesn’t mean causation…men that are predisposed to being happy may also be predisposed to be in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:43 PM
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Oh I agree…I’m just listing the possible explanations…it seems that some of these are implausible to explain the entirety of the 30-40% gap…you would have to do an empirical study to find out what was going on though…the world surprises you sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:04 PM
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Ok cool then that’s fair…I’m often amazed how many requirements you guys have based on appearance and if a guy has any requirements we are immediately accused of misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:32 PM
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Ok, so when a guy says he wouldn’t date an overweight woman, do you think that is ok…or does he have to date women he doesn’t like
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:13 PM
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No one really know what that means…it could mean women are dating each other, that women are dating older men, and that women interpret being in a relationship different than men (e.g., he thinks it’s a situationship and she thinks it’s a relationship)…I haven’t seen any deeper studies on that statistic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:50 AM
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From what I know about her no…but even if she did buy her friends stuff, most people don’t go around doing that….she should have realized…in any case, it’s up to him to also not let the opposite sex take advantage of him…you do have a responsibility to yourself…but I kind of saw what was going on and warned him…but, always easier to judge things when you are not emotionally invested
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:48 AM
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I actually had this to one of my friends just recently….the two of them started having deep talks and she openly flirted with him…he started buying her drinks and gifts….then one night he gets a little tipsy and he got the nerve to be more direct and then all of a sudden she started feeling uncomfortable…I was like smh….I mean yes sometimes it does happen innocently….just like the FWB situation, there are times that the guy honestly thinks they are both just having fun…however, I think she knew …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:02 AM
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I mean I agree with you but a lot of women will set the bait…flirt, lead the guy on just to keep his interest…knowing that he is interested she uses those tools to get attention, gifts and special attention…like, I know he’s a dumbass just like the girl that is a 6 that keeps getting banged by the guy that is a 9 but, just like the guy that is a 9, the girl that uses this strategy to keep the simp around is not innocent either
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:54 PM
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A bad memory
/r/MensRights27/08/23 11:48 PM
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It’s called mate copying and women do it…when I was married (she was very attractive), I got way more looks and flirty behavior then now that I’m single….I even had my ex-wife’s friend ask if she could kiss me….I was like wtf is going on…then I stumbled into the concept of mate copying in evolutionary psychology and I understood
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:13 AM
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I wouldn’t compliment a guys looks…guys don’t get many compliments like that so it’s very hard not to think that you are flirting when you do…but you can compliment other things…like his intelligence, if he’s being a gentlemen, his possessions and it doesn’t sound like flirting…. Honestly though it’s very hard for me to figure out how to look fashionable…I know some guys do but it’s not something I ever cared about and I wouldn’t even know where to start
/r/MensRights27/08/23 12:12 AM
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I think there is not much difference between both answers…I mean what is so interesting about wearing a $300 shirt vs a $50 shirt…now there me be some factors here like the shirt fits you better…so you pay for certain details…but what’s appealing is the details they put into it…has very little utilitarian value as far as the practical aspects of what a shirt is for…but those details indicate wealth
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 09:37 PM
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Dealing with women is always an exercise in walking a fine line between opposing values…they thrive on the emotional confusion…gives them lots of room to manipulate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:32 PM
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I think mothers especially and in particular mother’s that value motherhood….
/r/MensRights26/08/23 06:48 PM
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Blue Pillers=sneaky fucker strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:03 PM
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I dont have anything against single women per se…..I have a daughter and if she wants to be single, more power to her…what bothers me is the attitude of women today…they treat men with disdain and contempt…it’s ok to say no if a guy approaches you….what is not ok is to make your rejection a public display into order to humiliate him…also this idea that all men have to be treated as a potential rapist is asesine and unfair
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:01 PM
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Im a passport bro…I love it…my family however is from Latin America and I travel mostly through Latin America so it’s not as big an issue for me…speaking the language and chit chatting with people helps a lot to get the lay of the land…women in general are much nicer in Latin America….you can approach them and some of them even welcome it….look women are looking for the most handsome resourceful man they can find…men want the youngg hot piece of ass…that’s what dating is today…play your game not…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:45 PM
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I don’t care….you do you boo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:37 PM
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Men don’t socialize like women do “Depth of interpersonal connections”…ah no thanks….like I get you are a woman but honestly I don’t understand this obsession women have with wallowing in their feelings…it just sounds like emotional masturbation to me…but hey I’m a guy not a girl Having said that…you have a point…but there aren’t that many organizations for men now a days…I have taken up traveling…I go solo…I have a few friends but they have their own lives…so I meet people and women over there……
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:30 PM
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You know why dressing better is more eye catching to women…because it implies a fat wallet….work on getting the fat wallet
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:21 PM
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I’m not willing to morph myself into some emasculated Ken in order to supposedly get my pick of the litter…no thanks! I shall not submit…for all the guys that want to take the sneaky fucker strategy, go ahead be my guest….I have my own ways of getting sex…women (simply for being women) are not intrinsically good enough for me to become their obsequious slave just to get into their pants…Got better things to do than to work my ass to the bone so they call fill their closet with purses and shoes….…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:05 PM
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She just likes your attention but doesn’t want you sexually…classic move to keep you in the friend zone….she wants you to give her the attention of a boyfriend while she doesn’t have to treat you like a girlfriend…she lays out the bait and waits for you to bite
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:00 PM
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Good luck finding that today…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:15 PM
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Let me ask you…why is it always men that have to improve? So, a man has to go to the gym (which I do by the way), have a great job (also have), excel at the emotional connection game….for what…a fat slob of a woman who expect you to do all the heavy lifting and is entirely irrational as to her own selfworth…I see these girls that are nothing to write home about acting as if they Victoria’s Secret models….why is it always men that have to do the self improvement….here is the thing….I don’t think …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:57 AM
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I dont think that that is what women are looking for…they are looking for the beautiful man that is rich and has high social status…or they look for a man they can force to summit and then use….that’s fine…they can look for what they want…I also have the choice to say no thank you…no one has to do the peacock dance…I stopped and now travel overseas… I have a good career, am not tall but also not short (I’m 6 foot tall), I make six figures…I know I’m not a 9 or 10 in looks but I’m also not ugly….…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:46 AM
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Best thing to do is to figure out a place where you are happy…the world isn’t going to change for you…I noticed the attitude women had a while back…if I come across like an asshole, it’s because I am one…not doing the peacock dance anymore…I work from home and I travel throughout Latin America…Im gone a little less than half of the year…been much more successful overseas
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:33 AM
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Not only are men’s issues disregarded, it teaches women to have an attitude of disdain and contempt towards men….they have absolutely zero sympathy towards men or any problems men may have….men are to be crushed and humiliated….its not a healthy attitude….when we fight back, they play the victim card and scream patriarchy….truly disgusting behavior and men need to start pushing back
/r/MensRights26/08/23 02:13 AM
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I sympathize with left wing anarchism and use to call myself one but I no longer believe that such a system could work and if anything like those systems could work, it would need to start small scale… I now say I’m a classical liberal and no longer consider myself on the left….I will simply say that I’m a rationalist and I will follow where the evidence leads… Having said that, I believe modern feminism is simply a branch of postmodernist Marxism and thus is inherently not empirical….they do wh…
/r/MensRights26/08/23 02:05 AM
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Depends on what we are talking about…if it’s based on social standing and social interactions, yes…so how attractive am I, do others like me, am I high status…these are all questions based on social interactions so yes Am I a good person, what is my sex (yes I went there), am I a good father, etc…those are based on relatively objective standards so my answer there would be no
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:29 PM
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63% of guys under the age of 30 aren’t even dating…who is this average guy you speak of
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:17 PM
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And like I said, when you answer questions like how you attractive do you feel, it’s implicit that it’s based on what other feels….Let’s think about this….if someone has been told they are ugly their whole life and have never attracted another person, what objective standard are you referring to for them to make a judgment? Where is the mechanism… And my comment regarding emotional mastrubation didn’t refer to the question, it refers on how you are expecting for it to be answered….oh look inside…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:45 PM
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It doesn’t show anything other than you are looking for somewhere to stick in an insult…there are things that you can talk about without the opinions of others (somewhat)…like am I good person…those require objective standards and then applying them to yourself…things like self esteem, attractiveness are social in nature and thus yes depend on your interactions with other people
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:37 PM
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Because the things you are asking to be talked about are based on the opinions of others….unless you are delusional, talking about “yourself” is based on your relative standing among others…for example, the question, am I likeable? How can you answer that without taking what others think into account? The introspection comes in understanding why
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:32 PM
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Hello…how sexually attractive I feel depends on how women respond to me…unless I’m completely delusional…it doesn’t have to be about looks…if women are sexually attracted to me I feel attractive, if not, I don’t….You guys seem to be trying to turn this exercise into some type of emotional mastrubation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:47 PM
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Don’t delude yourself…I purposely stay away from women unless I’m trying to get ass….I don’t need a woman to tell me what I’m worth…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:32 PM
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You are asking question that necessarily involves a perception that you have based on how others behave towards you…how attractive do I feel? What is my self-esteem - with regards to what-dating right? What feedback my exes have given me….all those imply that I understand what others think about me…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:31 PM
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Ok that’s bullshit…you are asking questions like how attractive I feel, what is my self esteem, what is the feedback from my exes…all those questions involve a perception of yourself as negotiated with others in the world… It’s like asking, Do you think you have a successful career? But don’t talk about what others in your field think about you… Also self reflection doesn’t have to be some abstract meditative stance where you only think of yourself autonomous to the rest of the world….the self-r…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:28 PM
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Because you are asking a question that inherently requires you to determine what they think about you…whether you are attractive is a function of the behavior of the opposite sex…so how can you answer that question without thinking about what women think about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:59 PM
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It depends on what makes you a genuinely fun and great guy….a beta to me is someone who is submissive to a woman for the purposes of obtaining access to sex….so if the guy is emasculating himself to be the “fun” and “great” guy, spending his money doing only things she likes, constantly showering her with gifts then he is being a beta. If he simply is charming, funny, and generally fun to be around and that is the attraction, then good for him. I take issue with how women now present this concep…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:54 PM
2

I’m a lawyer just not a divorce attorney. I strongly advice you to buy one or two hours of a divorce attorney’s time to help guide you. May be the best $500-$700 you ever spent. Having said that I am an attorney and I have had to deal with my own issues. The best thing for you to do is get a prenup that clearly states who gets what…you will get screwed on child support unless you share custody so you want to deal with that in the prenup also…if you can’t talk about hard issues regarding what hap…
/r/MensRights24/08/23 06:26 PM
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Do women cause their own loneliness by their obsession with commitment? I mean I’ve seen more than a few needy gals get pushed away…I do think you are assuming that that is the only thing that interests men in social settings…you don’t need intimacy to be friends…remember in the past there was much less casual sex due to social norms and these problems didn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:53 PM
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👋✈️😛
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:08 PM
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SMH…and women wonder why men’s views on dating are what they are…. Every woman has a different arrangement they want from men…from the angry feminist that wants to dominate and emasculate the man, to the woman who just wants to lay on her back while you bust your ass paying for everything (because that’s a “real man” 😉), to the traditional wife that expects you to live a boring selfless life adoring her and her womb. Equal footing between the sexes my A$$….passport bros on these hoes…I bounce ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:06 PM
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Stop being a bitch….man the fuck up…stop getting emasculated for pussy you are getting used and women have no respect for you…figure something else out and if you can’t don’t play with women ….work on yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:43 PM
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It could mean a multitude of things…what it made me think of is meeting a good person when you are too immature to appreciate them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:10 AM

I’m not too worried about declining birth rates…the planet needs a break…also, what’s going to end up happening is that cultures that promote child rearing will have the most kids while cultures that don’t value it will become less prevalent…Im not religious (I don’t believe in the supernatural) but I predict religion will make a comeback since religious people will be the ones having children
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:19 PM
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Trying to feminize men…
/r/MensRights22/08/23 11:34 AM
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Jet black straight shiny hair Doesn’t matter Under 5’6” Thin but with an hour glass figure Not poor Doesn’t matter Less than 10 guys Less than 10 guys No fundamentalist-religion is not the center Of her life Straight as an arrow Younger than Not a man hating feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:54 AM
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Good for him as long as he didn’t become some girls bitch while doing it
/r/TheRedPill21/08/23 11:23 PM
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You don’t know me…you don’t know how I am or what I’m like….you are weaving a story of insults because that is the defense tactic of women…you took very little information and weaved a story to insult me…typical female behavior, I’m not surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:16 PM
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Sweetheart I’m a patent attorney, I’m 6’0”, I work out regularly…so I’m 215 but a lean 215 my undergraduate is in electrical engineering and then I went to law school… I work from home writing patent applications and getting into pissing matches with the patent office…I’ve had several girlfriends, a marriage, had a daughter….but I knew you would get to the insults at some point…note I haven’t tried to insult you…knew you couldn’t resist…how about this…I’ll do whatever the fuck I want to do and y…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:52 PM
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🙄…you are hopeless
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:48 PM
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The law of supply and demand is then not consistent with what you are advocating…on the one hand you state that women choose among a much wider set of factors than men…on the other hand you agree that the same 20% of men are being selected…which one is it? If women were choosing among a varied set of variables that wasn’t based on attraction then why do the same guys get picked…if what you were saying was true, dates would be spread among a larger percentage of men, men would just be getting few…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:48 PM
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It’s true that dating apps are only populated by 30% female but that doesn’t explain why those 30% consistently choose the top 20% of men….people go on more than one date on apps and women keep choosing the same men….consistently…women are much more choosy in mate selection than men…I hope you can agree that that is a fact of evolutionary psychology (actually, we can walk into any bar and prove that one) but it’s not as if it’s some random set of factors that determine who a woman will choose…he…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:07 PM
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Dude that wasn’t the point…the point is that your criticism of the analogy is not a valid criticism because it misses the reasoning behind the analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:33 PM
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Because you think women in general have it easier….Is it working for her? Hmmm… It’s true…there are women that don’t want commitment….there are also men that aren’t interested in sex….but we are talking about the average behavior and desires of men and the average behavior and desires of women…I mean, you have to be assuming that men on average men want sex in order to make the statement that women have it easier….all men have it harder? All women have it easier? Obviously we are talking about a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:31 PM
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Of course not, women don’t want you sharing your resources with another woman’s child…just like you don’t want to spend your resources on another man’s child
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:07 PM
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That’s a distinction without consequence…the analogy relates to urges and access to the resources that alleviate those urges…not to necessities
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:38 PM
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Maybe…but when a decent looking man’s standards are a decent looking woman and when a decent looking woman’s standards are a man that is a 9 or a 10, then it’s not the guy that is delusional… Also, it’s not just men that have it hard here…men want sex but porn takes the edge off that urge….women want commitment and will get that 9 or 10 to commit to them….for a night…guys that are 9s or 10s marry women that are 9s and 10s….they just bang the 6,7, and 8s…there is only so many of those dudes aroun…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:32 PM
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I’m divorced…had plenty of gfs in my life…after my divorce, I’m done….keep it casual and keep my distance
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:23 PM
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Oh god…fuck this bullshit…this post is basically asking and wanting you to accept the notion that you need to bend over backwards and put in ungodly amounts of effort to get a woman’s attention… Guys you do you…if you are really that miserable then fine do it….SIMP away…. I’d rather travel and ride motorcycles…I get plenty of poon overseas…don’t need to bow down to anyone much less some catty self absorbed feminist that only sees you as a tool to satisfy her personal desires…you are asking for a…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/23 05:46 PM
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I have no issues with women having a job/career. I have a daughter and I want her to have the best and for her to have the opportunity to live her life…. That being said, women now a days treat men like shit….feminism has taught women to treat men with contempt and disdain…they see themselves as superior to all men who can’t prove themselves to be a high value man…they dominate social groups and the only men that stick around are either the men getting all the poon (which end up treating them li…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:47 AM
1

Just listen to your lawyer and get the best one you can….if her lawyer is asking for financial info, she is going to ask for money….I have no idea what state you live in but even if you live in a pro alimony state, for a one year marriage it shouldnt be that bad….however it shows she is going for the throat….DO NOT TRUST HER…DO NOT SPEAK TO HER….LISTEN TO YOUR LAWYER
/r/MensRights17/08/23 10:58 PM
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It’s ridiculous reasoning by mother’s just to get money…How about it would be in the best interest of a child for a mother to be forced to take care of a child that is not hers…totally ridiculous
/r/MensRights12/04/23 03:19 AM
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Men, that is a long rant by an SJW trying to throw an olive branch….sorry attempt at a gateway to the blue pill…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/23 11:15 AM
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I just don’t date fat women…won’t do it…gross…and I have no problem with a bit of fat shaming…nothing that is going to send anyone to the mental ward…but there’s nothing wrong with a “find a treadmill fatass” every once in a while…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:57 PM
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I responded…see above
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:54 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fat_feminism Sweetheart, there is a whole branch of feminism dedicated to it…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:53 PM
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That doesn’t seem to be the point of view of modern feminist ideology…basically any man having any kind of “standard” with respect to looks is objectifying women and advancing the agenda of the patriarchy…any natural masculine impulse is categorized as toxic masculinity, rape culture, or misogyny…it’s kind of why guys just have stopped listening and are building walls…I was very liberal when I was younger but changed my tune when I started noticing more and more women thinking they had the right…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:48 PM
1

Please don’t characterize me…you don’t know me and you are assuming a LOT in an effort to demean me to make your argument look better…it’s a shitty ad hominem argument…. Here’s the deal…should people leave abusive relationships…sure….should people leave relationships were they are genuinely unhappy…sure However, the lower you set the bar for leaving and the more acceptable it becomes in society to leave for whatever reason, the harder it becomes to make that investment in that “long-term relatio…
/r/ExRedPill07/03/23 01:19 PM
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As long as the attitude for both men and women is, I do what I went when I want how I went, red pill is here to stay (along with toxic feminism)….red pill and the extremes of feminism are basically separatist movements…if you look at the extremes of red pill (I.e, MGTOW), it’s advocating for for male separatism….the extremes of feminism are advocating for female separatism… I do what I want, when I want, how I want, is an antisocial attitude that at best is inconsiderate and at worst is narcissi…
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 03:40 PM
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As weird as it may sounds to you, I listen to all sides…I have an open mind…I just don’t think relationships are worth it now a days….my parents have been married for 47 years…great marriage…but people don’t have that level of commitment and spirit of self sacrifice anymore….people leave as soon as it gets boring or hard…sorry, this is just not a good cultural environment to make the type of emotional investment he is looking to make
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 03:30 PM
1

Look, there are all sorts of reasons people break up…a multitude of different motivations…human behavior is extremely complex…but there are generalized patterns of behavior…and all you have done is added more reasons to the hell no don’t do it Love but not in love, want peace and solitude, growing apart…first all of these are extremely vague and can simply be used to mask whatever the hell motivation you actually have….It’s like saying, why did you leave your job…well, I am not happy…ok? Well wh…
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 03:02 PM
1

Dude you are doomed….you need to embrace casual…..she’s not yours, it’s just your turn….that’s just the reality of dating now a days….if you don’t accept that and keep your emotional distance, she will rip your throat out and feed it to you….do not, for the love of god, make an emotional investment….she’s there as long as it’s convenient for her….once she finds a guy that makes more money than you, that is better looking than you, and/or that is smarter than you, she will kick your ass to the cu…
/r/ExRedPill04/03/23 10:46 PM
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That’s true…not everyone can afford to do what I do, work from home, and know Spanish…so, at the end of the day, I’m lucky
/r/ExRedPill02/03/23 12:51 PM
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Well good for you…not everyone has it like that…I’m going to keep going to Latin America because it works for me…Women in the US have always treated me like shit and I got tired of it
/r/ExRedPill02/03/23 12:22 PM
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I’m just trying not get used and treated like shit…I’m not looking for “traditional”…I just got sick of starting a conversation with women who have a superiority complex Where did you find these women that want to go 50/50 cost wise?
/r/ExRedPill02/03/23 12:10 PM
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leave the country and date….I work from home and know Spanish. I spend lots of time in Latin America. Women are much more reasonable overseas. You don’t have to be a Instagram star or be 6’5 and make 500k a year….women’s standards are madness in the US….often overweight women pushing 40 are asking that you treat them like a Victoria’s Secret model in the US….standards are much more down to earth in Latin America…the women are nicer…even when they reject you, they are generally decent about it an…
/r/ExRedPill28/02/23 12:34 AM
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That’s kind of easy to answer…if women only want the top 1%, then they are asking guys to do what it takes to be in the top 1%….otherwise just get out of the game
/r/ExRedPill13/02/23 08:18 PM
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My point was simple and not that controversial …that women go around judging men based on superficial characteristics and then get pissed at men for doing the same…women like tall handsome men with lots of money…that turns them on…men like young beautiful women with hourglass figures…that’s just reality….shaming either side for having animal sexual desires is just moral grandstanding and ultimately makes you a hypocrite…regardless on which side does it I also pointed out that sexual attraction i…
/r/ExRedPill30/01/23 10:28 PM
1

Well I don’t blame women for liking them…like ‘em…if that’s what women like, that’s what women like…but same goes for women, if that’s what men like…tough shit…that’s what men like Well, if you want to live in fantasy land and believe a man is going to find you as attractive at 70 as he did at 22 🤷🏻‍♂️…you go ahead and do that…good luck
/r/ExRedPill30/01/23 10:00 PM
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You missed the point…I don’t have a problem with women having their sexual desires be based at least partially on the physical traits of a man…what bothers me is that women have their sexual desires be based on the physical traits of a man, pretend they don’t, and then shame men for having their sexual desires be based on the physical characteristics of a woman…that’s called being a hypocrite I don’t see why you have such a problem with men having sexual desires…you can’t avoid your biology…your…
/r/ExRedPill30/01/23 03:38 PM

https://www.livescience.com/22179-evolutionary-battle-sexes-height.html https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1691114/ https://www.science.org/content/article/did-natural-selection-make-dutch-tallest-people-planet I beg to differ….so it’s not that this has happened over just the few generations that electronic media has been around….this has been a process that has been going on way way before electronic media and it’s driven by a female preference….my guess is that electronic media is ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:32 PM

And again, you do what all feminist do…deny deny deny…as long as you do that and don’t come up with explanations, red pill is going to win….
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:46 PM

No what Im saying is that for some women 6’0” is not enough….just like some guys say that a b cup is not enough some women now just don’t want a tall guy…they want a really tall man… I don’t think I’m manufacturing the scientific literature or the data behind it…go read it…the outrage seems to be on your part…women love to pretend that they are these mysterious creatures that are incomprehensible as their sweet noble hearts 🙄…get over it…you are a mammal…your system of desires were shaped by nat…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:42 PM

Ok so your argument is that I am only running into that preference because I have that characteristic and then running an ancillary somewhat contradicting argument that it’s no secret that women want a taller man but it just needs to be taller than them…at least with your ancillary argument, it admits that women have that preference and that they screen men based on that preference (but barely) …problem with that argument is that it contradicts both the science and all the experiences men have…p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:32 PM
1

Dude you are barely getting started
/r/ExRedPill29/01/23 12:17 AM

Oh my god…do you have any men in your life…I’m 6’0” so I’m lucky…but I have so many guy friend that have huge issues because of their height…many women have actually admitted to me that they want tall men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:42 PM
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That’s toxic femininity for you….nothing spreads redpill ideology like feminist arguing that men’s dating experiences are irrelevant and part of some nefarious need to maintain the patriarchy…men basically don’t have needs and concerns that matter or that are important…geez I wonder why these guys get sucked into these red pill movements
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:29 PM
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When you choose your partner, did their physical features matter to you….for instance, was height an issue for you….women have this double standard….they can lay out a list of their “standards”…many of them being based on the physical characteristics of a man (not to mention how much is in his wallet) oh but god forbid that he is attracted to certain physical characteristics of a woman…that would make a woman insecure so men need to be shamed out of having these “standards”
/r/ExRedPill28/01/23 10:12 PM
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