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| 2 | If single women hit the wall and become ugly to men at 25-30, so do married womenYour 2nd and 3th pharagraphs said it all. If I have had a dollar for each time I thought to myself that I was and am not worthy/good enough to be loved and treated like a princess and wifed up by a man because I am not so "princess" looking I would have had a lot. LOL Not seeing your self as worthy of romance and sex and marriage ect (whatever emotional/physical intimacy a man shares with a woman other than parental/sibling platonic love),and when you also are getting older as a woman (30 and ol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/25 02:11 AM |
| 1 | The Reason Men Don't Buy Dating Is As Bad For Women As It Is For Us Is Women Don't Tend To Date "Desperate"I tried dating in a non traditional way twice hoping it would end up in marriage (i only date for marriage) and I ended up meeting weirdos who just were in it for sex/fun time. I ran away and I thought to myself only a trad/arranged marriage would work for me as I am trad and hold trad values myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 09:33 PM |
| 15 | If single women hit the wall and become ugly to men at 25-30, so do married womenVery attractive girls do that but us real mid or below girls has always hit the wall even in our 20s. In my 20s I was never asked out or asked for marriage or sex.. I was good for nothing to men. But when I turned 30 last year I got my 1st marriage offer but it was not out of love ( I never knew what is like to be loved by a man yet), it was an arranged marriage and things did not work out between us so here I am still single and a involuntary a spinster/femcel. Call if what ever you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 07:06 AM |
| 2 | If single women hit the wall and become ugly to men at 25-30, so do married womenI am a 30 years old woman. Never married and still a virgin. Of course I am child free too. Biologically I am not peak youth/beauty/feminity no more = hit the wall. However I am a virgin and never have had kids before so my body has not have been tired down as much as early 20s/early 30s mom and above. I have no idea about my fertility if it is still high or if it were any day high or got low I have not taked any test for it yet. I do not wanna know until I get married and want to have a kid. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 07:01 AM |
| 7 | In love with my teacherDo not do it girl ! I am speaking from a personal experience. I am traumatized by it to the point of regretting stepping foot in college! I was 24 yo when I was 1st year and be was 34 yo and just moved to my college this was 6 years ago. I caught feelings for him by the end of my 1st year and I wished he would reciprocate my feelings towards him which he did just few months before I graduated and got my bachelor. I never admitted anything to him, he did but he wanted to use his position as a tea… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/25 06:49 AM |
| – | Toxic Women Push The Sexual Culture That's Ruining Things For Other WomenOnly empty headed and empty hearted people who think money is everything that matters in life would be jealous of anyone having said money including OF/Instagram models making big amount of out of nudity. If money was what everyone needs to be happy and live a fulfilled life then rich celebrities would not be divorcing or k*lling themselves or dying over drug over doses people typically use to forget about sadnes,stress ect... Money is important I cannot deny it (i am broke asf and would like to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 02:55 PM |
| 1 | The Reason Men Don't Buy Dating Is As Bad For Women As It Is For Us Is Women Don't Tend To Date "Desperate"Having a lot of options and putting faith in each one of them but they end up not so good options = failures is draining emotionally and mentally. In the span of 2 years I talked to 3 different men and they all said they were serious about me and that they wanted a trad/arranged marriage ect which what I wanted too out of the dating and it made me build false hopes each time that I may have found the one that ended up crushed fast each time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 10:50 PM |
| 2 | The Reason Men Don't Buy Dating Is As Bad For Women As It Is For Us Is Women Don't Tend To Date "Desperate"May be if the average dude went for the average girl and vice versa we would not have this much problems in the dating world. Average nerdy guys looking for the love and validation of the hot model looking baddie and the average plain jane girl looking for the love and validation of the hot jock model looking dude.... Let the nerds have the plain janes and let the super model have the jock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 10:15 PM |
| 1 | The Reason Men Don't Buy Dating Is As Bad For Women As It Is For Us Is Women Don't Tend To Date "Desperate"What about women who cannot get pregnant or do not want to get pregnant ? Are they worthless to you ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/25 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Men Put Too Much Value on Women—You Don’t Need Them Like You ThinkAccording to Islam we are only created to worship God (it is not becausd God needs us to worship him but it is us who need him, we need to worship him). We do not have to feel bad if we do not get/acheive the dream job or spouse or kid or house ect, what matters in life is way deeper than ourselves and our perishable dreams and acheivements.No matter what we do when we are alive in life it does not matter as we die. Well, not really as we are still up to be divinely judged after death. Life is j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Men Put Too Much Value on Women—You Don’t Need Them Like You ThinkWait a sec. This is quite an intresting information but I have a skeptical question. If alchool reduces sex drive then how come when people get drunk they find it easier to cheat on their partners and have sex with randoms in the clubs or just outside of them, some even turn into quickly sexual harassers and rapists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 09:28 PM |
| 5 | Men Put Too Much Value on Women—You Don’t Need Them Like You ThinkI am a woman and turned every word that adressed to a man into ones adresssed to a woman and it made me feel better about myself. If only the redpill and other ultra traditionalists would leave me alone though... For them I am a huge failure of a woman for not being married with whatever man and with kids already at 30 yo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 09:23 PM |
| 7 | Men Put Too Much Value on Women—You Don’t Need Them Like You ThinkI am a 30 years old female and my experience with men was almost identical to yours. The difference is the couple of men I was ever intrested in and wanted to date did not mock me but they always saw me a younger sister or a friend than a potential romantic prospect so I never had a chance with them. The men who intrested in me (or thought they were really intrested in me) were a couple too and I gave them a chance that I never got but we never got past the talking stage over the phone (never da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 09:18 PM |
| 3 | Men Put Too Much Value on Women—You Don’t Need Them Like You ThinkI have been single as a woman all my 30 years old life. I never had any type or romantic or sexual relationship with any person before. I felt lonely and unvalidated a lot of times and still do whenever I see a couple (I kept and still keep wondering if I am not good/pretty/cool enough for any guy to like me espcially like me back and want anything to do with me sexual or romantic or both. I also wondered and still wonder what would it would feel like to be in a companionship with a man, to expe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 09:07 PM |
| 1 | How is the dating world after 30?30F and I have never dated nor had any type of romantic or sexual relationship before. I do not plan to date after I turned 30 either. I got too used to not having to date. My husband would have to drop from the sky for or something because I am not going out to look for him knowing how the dating martket sucks for me to even try dating now more than before. | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 12:58 AM |
| 4 | Why do older women seem so much nicer when approaching?Young unattractive women are like old and attractive women in this matter (they get less attention and approached by men) yet men would find the older and attractive woman hotter than the younger but unattractive woman. | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Men attach their worth to sex-having becasue sex-having as a man is attached to your worth.I am 30 F and a virgin. You pretty much summed my dating life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 04:08 AM |
| 4 | The biggest texting mistakes YOU makeI know i am kinda crazy too. I should not have tried to understand why they ghosted me and just block them instead. | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 12:17 PM |
| 21 | The biggest texting mistakes YOU make"Why are you not replying to me and ignoring my messages, I see you are online but you have not replied. Did I do something wrong to get ghosted ?". | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Can advocates of casual sex propose it’s merits?(30F) As someone who is waiting until marriage : 👀👀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 03:10 AM |
| 3 | More feminine type males tend to be attracted to "alpha" women?(30F) This explains a lot how/why my father "changed" as my mom says after having multiple kids (me and my siblings). He became more homebody/home bound/introverted to help my mom raise (a SAHM) after he was constantly travelling for better work opportunities=better income and going out with his friends ect. I could NOT have changed my dad with any other dad even if he was called soft/feminine by many "alpha/macho men" standards for transforming from an extroverted social buttefly man with a lot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 06:17 PM |
| 1 | More feminine type males tend to be attracted to "alpha" women?I see myself as an alpha woman (assertive and self respectful enough to do not take shit from anyone who tries to bully me around anymore, ambitious ect) yet i am still feminine asf. I do not know what you call feminine or wether you would call me feminine yourselves but i certainly do check a lot of feminine traits personality and look wise. I am a virgin/familly oriented/soft spoken/shy so quite feminine mentally and i look feminine physically wise too : my face is round and neotonous, my hair… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Why do players keep a harem of girls when he could easily get a girl he wants?Shy cute innocent girl is low value ? How ? I thought that is the type that Andrew Tate and his fans for exp find as the type of high value. Are men this hypocrite to say they find something/someone as high value but in reality they find it low value ? May be it is all about good looks after all for len just is money for women. Shy innocent virgin below average or average looking woman = low value VS. shy innocent virgin super model/hot looking woman = high value. Damn, this explains a lot of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do guys take it personally when women see them as a safe option, when guys end up marrying those options as well?Me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do guys take it personally when women see them as a safe option, when guys end up marrying those options as well?I could have made it about any girl but the question would still be the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do guys take it personally when women see them as a safe option, when guys end up marrying those options as well?In different cultures late virginity means something different. We are speaking from a western POV, in western cultures both men/woman are encouraged to start having sex as soon as they hit puberty but young marriaged is not enouraged (with same age or older/younger), somehow having sex with a classmate at 14/15 (sometimes younger than that) is seen as ok, but marrying at that age is seen as pedophilia/child abuse. In easter cultures like islam keeping viriginity until marriage is enouraged but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Why do guys take it personally when women see them as a safe option, when guys end up marrying those options as well?I would be happy to be the backup plan to my 7 years old crush man (started to crush on him at my 22 , still do at my 30), as long as it means we will finally be together. I never loved a man before him or after him, still a vrigin too. Women do fall in love to men who are not necessarly hot/rich, i do/did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Why do guys take it personally when women see them as a safe option, when guys end up marrying those options as well?How is it that I a 0 BC slightly uglier girl is still single/virgin in her 30 then ? Men want hot young girls no matter if they have low or high BC, i have read that as long as a woman is young/hot she can be entitled as much as we wants (not an average looking virgin like me). I would have to be hot too besided be a virgin for them to marry me and give my princess treatement before/after marriage (dating/courting stage and proposing and so on). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 11:29 PM |
| 0 | Why do guys take it personally when women see them as a safe option, when guys end up marrying those options as well?What if she is kinda high maintenance but has 0 BC ? I do not mean by HM n this contexte the sterotypical hot young woman that likes expensive dates/gifts/treatements , i mean by that a virgin woman with a higher social status (let say she is highborn while you are common born, she may be more rich than you too) and she expects you to treat her like a princess not with money (she has it herself and she can buy herself expensive things) but with acts and compromise things precious to you for her … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 11:25 PM |
| 5 | Why do guys take it personally when women see them as a safe option, when guys end up marrying those options as well?Not all men are the same. I am 30F, virgin, and single. If all men just wanted virgins (all that mattered to them) i would have been married by now but nope. Many women who are not virgins are married with men they did not even lose their virginity to, their reedeming points were beauty, money, fame, connections ect. Since i do not have those too to appeal to a man i will stay single and a virgin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 10:38 PM |
| 5 | Why do guys take it personally when women see them as a safe option, when guys end up marrying those options as well?Most women who were sexually adventerous/exprimented were the same type women runing after the few top rich/hot men. May be if the women deciding to settle with average Joe men after the rich/hot men rejected them were plain Janes virgins then the average Joe men would not be upset about being a safe choice to those women. Women giving/wasting the best of their time/youth/beauty chasing and hooking up with hot/rich men hoping they get choosen/wifed up by them but they only get used and dumped be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 10:34 PM |
| 9 | "Filtering out fuckboys" is a really dumb excuse for expecting men to pay for nice dinner datesMy first ever date which as last month as a 30F was going to be in a local museum. It got cancelled out because the man i was supposed to meet wanted a coffee date and when i told him i do not like coffee shops because there are a lot of smokers there and even if they smoke outside i am sensitive to the smell enough to smell them from farway he cancelled the date and never offered one back. I ended up going to the museum alone and accepted that i am just too prude to date anyone and i will proba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 05:59 PM |
| 1 | "Filtering out fuckboys" is a really dumb excuse for expecting men to pay for nice dinner dates(30F here) I never went into a date because to me men going out in dates all turn out to be fuckboys. It does not matter if they pay for a coffee or a nice dinner, they all want to kiss and cuddle and fuck outside of marriage. As someone who wanted and still wants to wait until marriage,going in dates will just end up in disappointements as it did for my other female friends who also go the same route (waiting until marriage). I do not see the need to go on dates too knowing already i will just … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 05:51 PM |
| 1 | What's your hot taking about dating? Something you believe based on things you've experienced, but would typically go against the grain of what people say here?I am a 30 woman who NEVER dated, i have no thing to say about my personal experience since i have NONE. However, i will talk about many i know that dated and what were their experiences : It either sucked and they wasted months and years on false hopes (they thought they have met the one that is worth the effort and wait just for them to be in it only for money or sex), it went quite good but as soon as they married shit hit the fan (it turned out that dating is not the same as being under the s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 07:22 PM |
| 3 | Women of Reddit, does your potential man’s salary important? What is a reasonable $# you’d accept?I wish i knew college is not that much important as they told me so. College degees had not the same value as they were in our mothers/fathers times for sure. Now a lot of people hold college degrees and are either unemployed or work with bare minimun salary (like me). Thankfully, i never had to pay thousands to study in college BUT i payed to it what is more valuable than money and cannot be bought with it that is TIME. As an almost 30 years old woman yes i do regret spending more than 3 years … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 11:32 AM |
| 1 | CMV: As a society there's almost nothing we can do to help lonely menThanks for your consideration but i do not drink or smoke so we would go somewhere when i do not have to do those things like a theater,museum,beach walk ect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 08:07 PM |
| 5 | CMV: As a society there's almost nothing we can do to help lonely menThis is my personal experience as a 29 woman too. I have never dated or had a bf/husband before, barely have friends (one friend is all i have got, i knew her since 12 year ago). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 09:25 PM |
| 4 | Are men more romantic?I stay a virgin untill for my own sake ! I am almost 30 and i could not care less if i died a virgin never having experienced sex. I do not wanna be a baby momma like many women who sleep around become and destroy their lives and the lives of their babies because of it. It is women who pay the ultimate price of sexual promuscuity, they loose their self respect, their emotional/mental sanity,their freedom and choice of life because they opened their legs to the wrong man even if it was for one ti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 03:18 PM |
| 5 | What do guys do if they want virgin women but cannot get them?Some men knew/know i am a virgin (even without me telling them that i am, i guess my aura and looks just scream "virgin/incel girl") yet they do want nothing to do from me neither short or long term relationship because i am not a hot IG model look wise and i couldn't stay forever 22/25. May be also the fact that they are not ready to marry any woman at all (financially wise) , but i know that if they saw me as the one they would do great efforts to make themselves so ready for it and marry me. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 09:52 AM |
| 1 | What do guys do if they want virgin women but cannot get them?I am a virgin 29 almost 30 woman (saving myself for marriage) and i cannot get a virgin man or any man. I feel invisible to men since i never was approached by a man and i got rejected everytime i setpped out my comfort zone/shyness and approached a man. What do I do ? I am focusing on myself studying/working/travelling/spending time with my familly/do hobbies like i have always did, i try to occupy my mind from the fact of never knowing what a man's intimate romantical affection untill now and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a manAs a virgin and a woman. I will say NO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 12:42 AM |
| 1 | The solitary best thing I ever did for my game was learn how to read body language.I was sent a private msg one day by someone using a fake account with a fake name saying that he loves me but he is not going to reveal himself (his true identity) because that would mean that he will "lose" me bla bla bla. He said that all he wanted from me was a secretive/private love relationship on Fb (just texting but as a couple would text each other), he wanted me just as texting sneaky link, if that makes any sense. (He probably was trying to test me to see if i had no self worth to agre… | /r/seduction | 15/04/23 05:06 AM |
| -14 | If men started to respect themselves more, we would have a much easier timeHow ? 9/10 are girlfriends to/ be marrying men of their caliber 9/10 guys (fit millionaires famous actors ect). It is the below 5 girls who no one approachs them ,even below 5 guys be aiming for the 5 and up girls. | /r/seduction | 15/04/23 01:48 AM |
| 10 | If men started to respect themselves more, we would have a much easier timeI'm a 28 yo mid girl and i have got no "simps" circling around me, my DMs and friends/follow requests section are dry as the desert , i do not get asked out/approached at all in real life too. May be i overestimated myself by saying i am mid, i am actually below mid. I will probably die a virgin, i guess. 🤷♀️🥲 | /r/seduction | 15/04/23 01:43 AM |
| 31 | What lesson took you the longest to unlearn ?Most hot girls are "losers" too without their good looks. They would have nothing else of value to provide to a man other than their looks that will fade with time. I would be displeased if a man have only money for me. That is not enough. A human is more than his looks and his bank account. He has to show his worth/value in other ways than this ways. We can find some loser girls who really have things going on for them in real life than just showing off their looks and material possesions in a … | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 10:48 AM |
| 0 | Is it true that dating become easier in your 30s?I have been on monk mode for 28 as a female hence why i am still a virgin. | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 04:57 AM |
| 2 | Is it true that dating become easier in your 30s?I'm a 28F and a virgin, heterosexual, i felt personnaly attacked lol. | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 04:55 AM |
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