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I don't stand up for men nor women, but for the truth. And speaking of christ you seem awfully quick to jump the gun and demonize all men and yet still except some sort benevolent treatment? Your heart is dark my child.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 10:16 PM
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This is misandrist at its roots, every misgiving and apprehension is because the abuser can't get his way? Have some faith or something lol, seek jesus the lord and savior!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:58 PM
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No, I want the goalpost to become egalitarian for women as well. No more I want to feel small and feminine, and want a dominant man. Just like how a man who wants a feminine submissive wife is demonized.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:03 PM
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Socially approved conspiracy theories. The only grain of truth here is society's constant attempt to suppress female sexuality throughout the ages, but it's not like men's sexuality is given free reign either. There is a reason MTFs are more demonized than FTMs, the corrupt male can't possibly be a pure woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:01 PM
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Ah no that. I just meant like it is enforcing traditional gender roles at its roots even though everyone is preaching egalitarianism. The point here is for women if they're pro no gender roles and egalitarian relationships to become more self-aware in the subtle ways they're perpetuating it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:58 PM
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I am not attracted to any specific behavior that would exclude others, I am attracted to living people doing sexual acts in the moments. But I confess that I find dominant women slightly more attractive just because I've always had issues with most women in my life being psychologically weak and dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:48 PM
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What made you get this notion from my post? No, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:47 PM
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Thanks, much appreciated. But on the topic of that marriage, would you say that the wife is still progressive in thought but has also came to terms with it? As in she doesn't want a progressive man? Or is this something you've been keeping on the down low.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:39 PM
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I don't like to play it and I have not requested it, it was requested of me so I obliged and I like everything. Ideally a more dominant woman is more my speed even, but sub is good as well, everything is good!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:28 PM
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Naturally, not because me man me better. But more so it's that kind of situation where I am most affected hence most likely to notice and analyze, unlike the one who's unaffected.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:24 PM
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It's a matter of percentages here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:22 PM
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The woes of the introspective modern man, what a sad state of affairs. Not really ma dude, I've met some women who were very aware of all of this and it's been very interesting and fresh to discuss all of these things with them. What I found is the deeper someone is psychologically speaking, the more mature, the less they will be attached to these ideas and require specific psychological traits from a partner. Keep your chin up and be logical about things regardless of how much alienation it bri…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:13 PM
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Let's agree to disagree!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:08 PM
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I am very well aware of that and believe that people can be more dynamic in the ways they like depending on the context. However, in spite of that I still made the above post because it transcends it. It's not just in the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:08 PM
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I doubt you've never seen it, I just think you rationalize it or rather filter it in ways that are aligned with your world view. You're a pretty progressive woman so I doubt you'd be able to accurately judge the ways women enforce all kinds of non progressive stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:05 PM
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Well you live and learn sister!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:00 PM
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I've been seeing the whole femboy trend/phenomenon and straight men. Kinda weird if you ask me but I know what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:59 PM
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Alrightyy then thanks for the info I haven't considered that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:54 PM
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Mysteries of the universe! But yeah seriously women on average are more mentally engaged in sexual dynamics and one important theme is the rock stoic man and crying destroys that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:52 PM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:51 PM
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No no, don't get carried away by your horses. I've always been homo ma man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:48 PM
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Fucking hell dude, you managed to illustrate perfectly the reason I wrote this post. What a fucking dilemma man. And you know what as much as I find the whole submissive shtick hot in the moment and everything(I find everything hot honestly), I can't help but pull back a bit since I feel boxed into a role, more than that I feel like I have a strict view of relationships being a partnership of equal footing but those things say otherwise. Thanks for commenting man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:47 PM
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I wouldn't mind some gay action dude!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:43 PM
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Seems to reflect the reality of all of my relationships and those around me. Maybe your circle or something, or the way you view this(overlook the extra manly stuff.) What are the repercussions of being little spoon? In the right context to an average woman maybe nothing and can be sweet to them, cute even. But take that with a couple of other non traditional stuff maybe a cry or two and you'll get yourself a lack of ladyboners.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:42 PM
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Naturally, but the mainstream AKA the majority is moving towards that goalpost.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:34 PM
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dude you're engaged now time to move on from identifying with us single folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:27 PM
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In romantic relationships, people tend to do nice things for each other (princess behavior, spoiling each other), pay for the other (gifts, surprises for birthdays or just because you want to do something nice), both parties are the small spoon, etc. Ideally this is the dream, but it doesn't actually reflect reality. So why aren't men willing to be the little spoon or do nice things for their partners? Because they've unconsciously internalized and understand the repercussions of doing that. It'…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:21 PM
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Absolutely wild flair but agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:19 PM
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Your choices will always be questioned regardless of what you do because people are largely ignorant so don't expect just learn to filter out the noise and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:16 PM
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I agree with you but this isn't an outward sort of task, it's more so psychological and inward. Women are obsessed with wanting to feel small, feminine, and just like a woman. They want to be dominated in all kinds of subtle and obvious ways which puts a damper on the whole equality thinggy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:15 PM
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Elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:13 PM
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Basically you claim that you know women's unconscious desires better than women themselves and at this point, is there really any sense in discussing it? Absolutely, I think there are some special cases when you can know more about a person that they know about themselves. The unconscious makes up around 90% and more of our mental processes and it is more so reflected in people's behaviors and no what they say. Women in this specific instance are incentivized and pushed to think along some PC gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:13 PM
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Americans, stop generalising "the west". No, what you describe maybe be right in America (don't know,and don't really care),but in many countries it aint. Here in Spain (and in many other countries,like eg Nordics) it ain't. Women here don't want to "to be treated like a princess, to be spoiled, to be paid for, to be protected, to be the small spoon, to be praised during sex, and what have you...",most will find it rude, condeceding or patronising Spain is more so Europe and I doubt it's that di…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:06 PM
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Humiliation is the same thing with cuckold shit, I will feel so bad contributing to your already bad mental health. There is nothing more submissive that constant need for validation and praise so yeah it does it for me as well lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:58 PM
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I don't really think what anyone says here should factor in anything that you do, nor does hard work justify some unreasonable standard if that's what you're implying. Take a breather and think long and hard about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:56 PM
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Gangbangs, being dominated, Extreme BDSM stuff, humiliation, and some others I think. Things that completely strip away a woman of what men consider as pride, and it's pretty shameful to be nutted on by several men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:45 PM
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I see how in light of that my comment might come off as insensitive and targeting you personally but it wasn't my intention so apologies for that. In the post I am mostly just talking about gender dynamics and what the majority of women want in men and I'm not in anyway trying to downplay the hard work you do to make a life that is worth living for you. I don't know the cultures are very very different, engineering V military, but more than that I'd have thought the former makes more money no?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:43 PM
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I mean I think the same thing, at the end of the day we're all incentivized to think the way we do and there is no objective rationale behind it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:28 PM
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You'd think so but no. Haven't caught up to your level of skill, to accept to work collaboratively with you, the percentage of engineers...?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:24 PM
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Not following, in what way have they not caught up?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:20 PM
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Crazy shit, I just remembered that my own parents married this way. They first saw each other in their wedding day I swear. Their brothers were very close friends, one had a sister and the other had a brother and that's pretty much it! My mom was more attractive than my dad and her family was wealthier relative to his country bumpkin ass which created a lot of resentment ma dude. Definitely not recommended.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:18 PM
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Yeah, and it's definitely a matter of culture. To some people the notion of dating and personal compatibility is non-existent, to them they give the greenlight to marriage simply if the woman is ready and if the man is a bit established (home and career.)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:16 PM
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A bluepiller's nightmare!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:13 PM
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In my own experience the more innocent, naive, virgin, unconfident, and inexperienced the woman is the less likely it is to fail. I don't know why. I am against those kinds of marriages though, because why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:12 PM
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Oh no we were talking behind your back because we're cowards and we couldn't do it in your specific comment. Although this is about you it's unrelated to you my man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:06 PM
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I just wrote one banger of a post, I can't wait for it to get approved. Here is the title so you know it'll be juicy. We live in an age of equality but women's sexuality still hasn't caught up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:55 PM
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Yeah, and "Chad" guys are inherently traditionalist and somewhat redpilled because they've had enough positive interactions with women to know what they actually want out of that dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:53 PM
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He's one of those traditionalists who's very sexist in the sense that he doesn't hold women accountable for anything and gives them no agency. If there is something wrong then it's because soyboy beta men aren't doing it right, boooring.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:48 PM
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Your flair wasn't lying lol, trying to sweeten your thoughts from now you slick! You're not the problem sweetheart, these mentally challenged guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:47 PM
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Yep their username rhymes with cock!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:45 PM
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Beautiful word indeed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:36 PM
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If we've learned anything is that yes men en masse have no self-respect when it comes to getting their dick wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:34 PM
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Yes make up does play a huge role in all of these issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:33 PM
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I did not say anything about how this affected me, I am just tired of every unhinged woman being secretly a man. Talk about misandry lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:32 PM
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People really do be saying the most nonsensical things and we talk to them like they're just misunderstanding and this is a normal conversation lmao. If anything this just highlights the immensity of the chasm between men and women now that even simple things can't be understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:08 PM
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Everyone's new motto if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:06 PM
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You know that there is no such thing as real magic right? Those magic tricks are simply visual tricks that take advantage of the mind's blind spots. The fact that you see, think, and feel something doesn't mean it's real. They do = that's just what I am able to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:58 PM
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Why do we entertain this kind of mediocrity seriously lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:55 PM
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True that, the weight of those feelings drive you to make a big outward decision in an attempt to let it all out there, which is of course at the end of the day both temporary and illusory. Oh how much big decision I made in the midst of an depressive episode thinking it's some sort of epiphany. It was tragic at the time but now looking back at it it's hilarious, peak human comedy if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:52 PM
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I am not complaining trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:48 PM
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Imagine being proud of not understanding of what a subset of the population is talking about. No one talks just out of their ass without any grounds in reality and as extreme and nonsensical things become there is a grain of truth deep within it that is driving it all forwards. Weaponized ignorance?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:47 PM
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They don't think it is, if you feel miserable then your life is miserable regardless of how many superficial boxes it ticks. I mean just Chester Bennington for example, a world famous rock star with fame, women, wealth, and power isn't that the peak human experience in the mind of everyone? Yet his life absolutely sucked freaking ass and he was miserable hence the unaliving. RIP.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:44 PM
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Perky is really a graphic word, the moment I hear that word images start to pop into my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:07 PM
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Mind blown!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:05 PM
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Jesus christ man, can't women just be bad by themselves? Everytime a woman is clearly unhinged in the sub there is a row of people claiming it's a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:03 PM
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Yes there is very close interconnected relationships between the status of your body and how it affects your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:00 PM
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How exciting lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:46 PM
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Not saying they can't, but they shouldn't be the priority. Your approach to relationships determines how much love you're willing to give/receive and how much of it is just looking out for oneself. Love is against all odds and all of that, you love for its own sake and not because they can pay your phone bill. Maybe you're just talking about emotional attachments. I know hoes who were absolutely wrecked when their man left, was it because they loved them o so much or because they lost so many pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:46 PM
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Good argument!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:42 PM
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Doubtful whether it's the truth if it goes through thousands of bitter minds, not really the epitome of objective and logical perception lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:35 PM
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Damn so the only value people have is either looks or money? Is this the age where love finally dies? I don't care for looks nor money in a partner personally, I just want to feel something dammit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:33 PM
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Talk about a non-conformist!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:32 PM
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More power to you, peg as you wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:32 PM
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It ain't, atleast here. Don't know what you do in USA. Here is 50/50 or bust. You don't get it man. It doesn't matter if there is some push for a 50/50 in pay or whatever. What matters is how these individual women conduct themselves in their relationships, and most of them want to be treated like women and so those same women who keep talking about how dreadful traditional relationships are enforce it in so many ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:31 PM
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Yet the very vast majority of women want the exact same thing that you do, there isn't anything individual about the matter we're just born into a specific system and become attached to it our whole lives. I am not arguing with that, I am arguing against us criticizing that system whereas we're the ones perpetuating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:30 PM
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There is no such a thing as a woman in a man's body. A woman is simply being born with XX chromosomes and then having the subsequent experiences related to being that which makes her psychologically a woman. A person with XY chromosome is a man because he never had those experiences because no one sees him and thinks damn a woman, hello little princess. Something doesn't add up here chief.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:28 PM
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He would actually be hot for like 5% of women, the rest who say he's hot only do so as a way to feel more progressive or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:24 PM
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You're allowed to have them and more power to you but just understand the implication of what you're enforcing so you don't become a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:22 PM
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It's a sentiment and a desire shared amongst the majority of women. I don't know if you've met women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:22 PM
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I am negative, awful, spiteful, and rude? Goddamn and here I thought I was an upstanding citizen. But seriously I'm all for learning but there exist such a thing as bite what you can chew, and she's clearly way over her head here. It's not a healthy for a teenage girl in a very vulnerable phase in her life to be reading all of this hateful content, she isn't learning anything healthy or worthwhile. I am starting to think that you're the awful person here man....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:20 PM
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I mean yeah they have a point in feeling how they do, there is an implication that they're impure or very sexual in nature. Rare TwoX W
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:18 PM
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It's not shame, it's questioning. Actions have consequences, thoughts, feelings, and subsequently behaviors shape the society that we live in. Everyone say we are this, but everything about them works against that. You want to be the woman in a relationship, you want to be coddled, spoiled, and treated like a princess because deep down you have very clear desires that are the result of your views about yourself, women, men, and relationships in general. I am not against this, but you can never s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:16 PM
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Do you see how most women drive traditional dynamics in relationships? We shouldn't push for progressivism in relationship where most women don't actually want it and want to be treated like a woman, a princess. Then they become contradictory wanting one thing and saying another to be PC.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:13 PM
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Ew, that's embarrassing. Imagine a man wanting to be called a good boy and be taken care of. You guys are really aren't doing anything to abolish traditional relationship structures.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:12 PM
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Baiting opinions on the matter, it's a way to gauge people's views on things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:10 PM
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Thailand is their haven. Are they really that much more common there?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:04 PM
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We're just more knowledgeable monkeys, we still haven't learned how to live or what it means to live. We're just following a predictable pattern of reactions that we were born into, it's sad and tragic but it do be like that, but maybe it doesn't have to be like that? That's the question I think. Does it have to be like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:02 PM
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I don't even have one at this point, just temporary stops.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:01 PM
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You are internalizing hateful shit lonely men on the net say and it's making you more hateful towards men as a group. It's a vicious cycle. Then you'll become hateful and project that into others who in turn will internalize and become hateful because you hate them, and on and on.... Transcend the shit by deleting that twitter and stop coming here. You need a lot of experience, maturity, and genuine understanding about the world to be able to swim through all of this shit without getting poop st…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:00 PM
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Not really I don't think it's transphobic. The time and mental effort that is spent by them both consciously and unconsciously to move into a woman's identity can never match mine and so there will always be a mismatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:58 PM
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It do be like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:56 PM
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No lol it just tracks :(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:56 PM
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Sigh, nvm you don't get me I might as well just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:51 PM
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You want to be spoiled like the good girl that you are, aren't you? Ick I felt gross just writing that, no thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:50 PM
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Take a freaking hint!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:48 PM
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Do you really want to grow up as a femcel? You're 17 now and it's time you start taking some responsibility over the things you think and feel young lady. As negative as this is to society as a whole who cares, you'll be the one who's most affected by all of that hate dudette. Stop internalizing grown ass men's misogyny on the net as it's ruining you, it's a defense mechanism but this defense is flawed in the sense that it has a distorted view of reality. You are in Twitter, Reddit, and PPD anon…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:46 PM
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Hey cmon we've been talking all day and you just jump to this guy, unfair unfair!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:42 PM
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I thought you were a reformed incel, a born again blue piller why are you lying to women? You actually said the other day that the average woman is more attracted to the average man than the opposite, good lord. What are bluepillers doing to you man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:41 PM
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Is it transphobic if I look at trans women as undercover men? Not in the sense that they're just men pretending, but that's how I perceive/feel it. Like there are some things I'll never feel comfortable doing with a guy like being sweet to them, acting a bit feminine with them, and so on... and this gets carried to trans women as well. I find attractive as shit but never romantically that shit is beyond gay for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:40 PM
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True thaat! Men's obsession with sex is the driving factor behind all of the shit we're dealing with right now honestly lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:37 PM
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I think it gets the appropriate amount of hate, you feel as such because you're comparing your own experience with it to that hate and it'll feel uneven, because you're a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:35 PM
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Maybe give me the benefit of the doubt and see beyond that. I know we're strangers so keep that as a possibility but look out for more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:32 PM
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It backfired because they were operating under the superficial assumption that it's a normal romantic relationships, however, deep down how they actually were was not something conducive to a loving relationship. It's like if two people have the superficial belief that they're bestfriends but the truth of the matter is they're mere acquaintances and so when life comes knocking and you need to have bestfriend kind of reaction and behavior you won't find it which would result in all sorts of confl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:29 PM
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I don't want you to settle, I want you to have healthy needs towards life and subsequently a partner so that both parties can flourish instead of just use one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:27 PM
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No dawg, it backfired. A relationship that is based on money can't stand the difficulty and complexity of life. Are your needs that much serious that an average double income salary can't cover? I've known men and women who were poor relative to you as in living with like 500$ a month and were not just happy and satisfied, they had everything others had not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:10 PM
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I've lived a long life, I went to the deepest and darkest corners of the human psyche, and I've seen the various forms human dysfunctionality presents itself and this is one of them. I am very genuine in my concern here, I don't want that kind of life for anyone, as superficially pleasurable as it is, it is limiting and you deserve to be more, more, and more. But yeah I have a sister like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:05 PM
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What's your end goal here, a marriage with a wealthy fellow?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:51 PM
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I know, it's so hard both emotionally, financially, physically, and psychologically. I don't know why you'd go for a deal such as this honestly. There is no such a thing as a free lunch so if a man is putting money into you he'll be expecting a lot of things, not just sex but others things that are emotional in nature and the thing is the fact that money is a big part of any dynamic puts a very hard boundary on both parties on how much they can connect because there is a deep understanding from …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:50 PM
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Hmmm I see, and how is it going so far?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:43 PM
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The lazy reader's paradox: When you don't like reading books you know nothing about, but when you know some things about the book you no longer want to read it. Is this an actual thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:40 PM
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Are you more into traditional dynamics or more egalitarian and seek a sort of partnership?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:35 PM
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I know that it's a socialized thing otherwise we'd fall into dangerous ways of thinking that women or men are inherently this or that. I don't think it's mostly a trope, I think the exaggeration is the trope but the observation in and of itself has some truth to it. No one said you don't like men, I just said your priorities are materialistic in nature, you want a good man but only if he ticks a big money box. I thought you were one of those I don't care this is what I want deal with it type of …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:33 PM
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Cow's titty fuel, the best fuel there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:27 PM
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I am aware no woman is an aspiring mogger and wants to ascend haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:21 PM
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At the root of it all there is an implication that might be deemed offensive to some, "Women love to talk about themselves unlike men", but more than that you're questioning very simple and obvious things. For example when you kept asking just to get me to say anecdotal when I said clearly that men do so as well but just at a lesser rate, then the other one of you projecting certainty into my claim whereas it's just neutral. I mean I believe what I said because that's what my experiences dictate…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:19 PM
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If you want a man that is taller, older, stronger, wealthier, smarter, and more educated then that desire doesn't just simply vanish when you ask for the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:11 AM
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Are you excited to get married to this person and possibly the spend the rest of your life together or just the idea of being a fiance then a wedding and then becoming a wife? You've always struck me as somewhat distant in your relationship to that bf and not that emotionally engaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 10:49 AM
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The comments are delightful. Like how delusional to be for you think all reasons behind a divorce come from a very healthy place, I understand that some divorces are necessary and bring relief to both men and women who were with shitty partners, but there is also a subset of divorces that is just driven by raw dysfunctionality which at the end of the day is still a win who wants to stay with someone like that! Good riddance I say.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 10:47 AM
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You're slightly offended otherwise your logic wouldn't be so flawed, something that happens only when people are somewhat in their feels. This is perfectly fine, it's an observation that I've noticed in my time here. I know a lot of details about the personal information of the women here unlike the men, it could be confirmation bias and if some people have disagreements they're free to share it. However, I also know that this a topic that can be offensive to some because it has some implication…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 10:42 AM
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Personally I think in terms of dating in general women tend to have a more narrow view of reality simply because it's easier for them and when things work you never really think too much about it. However, the guys in the sub specifically aren't really the definition of an objective view of reality so yea definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:50 PM
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and although men do the same thing it's not nearly at the same rate Did not claim it was non-existent. Why were you offended by my statement, did it sound sexist to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:41 PM
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r/DeMewing you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:34 PM
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No, why do you ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:33 PM
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No way that face is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:06 PM
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Purely anecdotal, not from just this sub but other life experiences as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:04 PM
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It's only out of respect, rip christ bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:04 PM
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-10, nightmare fuel man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:01 PM
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We need volunteers from PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:59 PM
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No way in hell I'm a 8/9 dude and my experiences reflect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:55 PM
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I noticed something in the sub, women just love to talk about themselves more and interject with anecdotes and although men do the same thing it's not nearly at the same rate. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:54 PM
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Here you go again man, like jesus christ what is with you and looks. It's fine to be average looking. But yeah looks don't put bread on the table and the more negative variables exist in the life of a woman the less she is to prioritize looks. In third world countries gorgeous 8 to 9 women willingly marry 3 to 7 men with happy faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:51 PM
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Who wants to talk about their big dick and wealthy family in PPD man seriously. Women just love to talk about themselves more.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:49 PM
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Definitely, it's just a way we men cope I guess lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:46 PM
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Women's overblown fear is a double-edged sword, on one hand it makes their lives miserable by being so afraid but at the same time it contributes to giving them other social privileges. I don't know if it's a net positive or negative from a purely beneficial standpoint but it's definitely not good for society as a whole as they become more resentful of the bogeeyMAN.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:45 PM
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Cheaters are really something else man, they make it sound like they're living in some romantic fairy tail.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:42 PM
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Fuck just when I thought I finally found my golden ticket I see that all of the guys there are filthy rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:31 PM
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Sensitive as in what exactly, sensitive to people's words/opinions and life's circumstances which would make you a sort of a liability in those situations due to you crying and freaking out. Or sensitive as in more socially aware of the repercussions of your actions and hence can be perceived as a nuance to people who just want to get on with it? The others even more so, big boobs are very sought after and sexualized, a lot of men are interested in egalitarian dynamics, weird friends are great, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:21 PM
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Strong pussy game = the existence of a pussy? Or is there something else involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:10 PM
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Real con: lack of self-awareness because all of those aren't cons.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:58 PM
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Most of your relationships which aren't that many started as friends of friends, isn't that what you always say?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 07:00 PM
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That's even worse my boy. It's not that I disagree with you per se, but the frequency you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:56 PM
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Dude I thought you were both of those things because for as long as I can remember you've been making comment after comment shouting about how looks aren't important for women and that competence, confidence, and all that is more important. Which everybody can see as you being average or somewhat unattractive but have other good things going for you like money and others things which makes you deep down somewhat uncertain whether these women really like you or they're just with you because of li…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:10 PM
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But can you see why it can perceived by some as unhinge? She's happy because essentially her husband through trial and error has managed to understand that she is undecisive, bad communication skills, and just generally all over the place. The fact that she's happy about that reinforces those types of behaviors and that isn't necessarily love/care or whatever but more so a coddling of an immature person who doesn't know what they want. It's a very well known trope of women not wanting what they …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:58 PM
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Provider huh!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:46 PM
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You can fix him!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:14 AM
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