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OYS #19 (2 months since last one) Stats: 6’4, 104kg, 35Y, divorced, 2 kids coparenting Lifts: Bench press 127,5kg x3, unilateral leg press 95kg x6, chins +18 kg x3, hip thrust 130kg x8, overhead press 70kg x6 What do I want/Vision: To become the best version of myself as a congruent and integrated man where I take action to create the life I want. Mission: To live life with presence, acceptance, discipline as my own mental point of origin Completed reading: Sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rian Stone yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/26 09:42 AM
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OYS #18 Stats: 6’4, 103kg, 35Y, divorced, 2 kids coparenting Lifts: Bench press 120kg x5, unilateral leg press 90kg x6, chins bw x 12, hip thrust 130kg x8, overhead press 67,5kg x6 What do I want/Vision: To become the best version of myself as a congruent and integrated man where I take action to create the life I want. Mission: To live life with presence, acceptance, discipline as my own mental point of origin Completed reading: Sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rian Stone youtube channel, Book of Pook,…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/26 08:28 PM
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Your inability to stfu proves his point.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/26 01:19 PM
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You could be right. What I want is sexual freedom/confidence derived from options and abundance. I also want to experience love without any attachement/oneitis. I want low drama, non-monogamous relationships and to simply have fun (game) and enjoy female companionship. To achieve this I have to work with my need for control, external validation and be mindful of how i project early frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/26 10:00 AM
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OYS #17 Stats: 6’4, 106kg, 35Y, divorced, 2 kids coparenting Lifts: Bench press 130kg x2, front squats 92,5kg x5, chins bw x 12, hip thrust 130kg x8, overhead press 62,5kg x6 What do I want/Vision: Become a congruent and integrated man Mission: Regain self-respect and become a master of discipline Completed reading: Sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rian Stone youtube channel, Book of Pook, 16 laws of Poon, 48 LOP, Rational Male, Practical female psychology, The Game, Alabaster Girl, TWOTSM, mystery meth…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/26 12:34 PM
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Yes you read that right. It is retarded.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/26 07:29 AM
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OYS #16 Stats: 6’4, 107kg, 35Y, divorced, 2 kids coparenting Lifts: Bench press 122,5kg x5, front squats 90kg x5, chins bw x 12, hip thrust 130kg x8, overhead press 62,5kg x6 What do I want/Vision: Become a congruent and integrated man Mission: Regain self-respect and become a master of discipline Completed reading: Sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rian Stone youtube channel, Book of Pook, 16 laws of Poon, 48 LOP, Rational Male, Practical female psychology, The Game, Alabaster Girl, TWOTSM, mystery meth…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/26 02:47 PM
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She doesnt seem to respect your authority. This could help you reset your mental point of origin
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/26 12:16 PM
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Yes it was mostly logical and boring in retrospect. I guess my ego left out that part. I failed to game her properly. I did sprinkle in some agree and amplify. When asking for the date I was explicit and told her that it’s something special about her that I would like to explore further and if she’s free the day after. She told me that her broken heart has a name and that she’s taken/not interested. She was a fit girl so in a bar setting I could given her a neg/AM/C&F «Image me and you in a pill…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/26 07:19 PM
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OYS #15 Stats: 6’4, 107kg, 35Y, divorced 5, 2 kids coparenting Lifts: Bench press 120kg x6, front squats 85kg x5, chins bw x 12, hip thrust 127,5kg x8, overhead press 62,5kg x6 What do I want/Vision: Become a congruent and integrated man Mission: Regain self-respect and become a master of discipline Completed reading: Sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rian Stone youtube channel, Book of Pook, 16 laws of Poon, 48 LOP, Rational Male, Practical female psychology, The Game, Alabaster Girl, TWOTSM, mystery me…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/26 10:13 AM
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Do you know the difference between shit and comfort test? Would a captain laugh at his first officer when the sea is rough and the waves big? Your wife is soon responsible for 3 kids, not 2.
/r/askMRP24/03/26 12:25 PM
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OYS #14 Stats: 6’4, 107kg, 35Y, divorced 5 years ago, 2 kids coparenting Lifts: Bench press 120kg x5, front squats 80kg x5, chins bw x 12, hip thrust 125kg x8, overhead press 60kg x6 What do I want/Vision: Become a congruent and integrated man Mission: Regain self-respect and become a master of discipline Completed reading: Sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rian Stone youtube channel, Book of Pook, 16 laws of Poon, 48 LOP, Rational Male, Practical female psychology, The Game, Alabaster Girl, TWOTSM, myst…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/26 11:44 AM
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Red Pill parenting
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/26 07:16 PM
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Good questions. I don’t do direct approaches, might be because I have OLD as a parachute/buffer against rejection. I’ve had good success when gaming (having fun) in social settings as long as I’m OI, embodied/grounded and curious. Combining in some threads, negs, push/pull. Success in my romantic life is about abundance mindset and being a man worth fucking. Fucking alone is external validation so I can’t use that as a metric of success. So I believe success for me is to have a strong Inner game…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/26 04:22 PM
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Shared custody every other week.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/26 02:51 PM
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OYS #13 Stats: 6’4, 110kg, 34 Y, divorced 5 years ago, 2 kids coparenting Lifts: Bench press 115g x6, unilateral leg press 81kg x 5, chins bw x 12, hip thrust 125kg x8, unilateral dumbbell overhead press 32,5kg x 5 What do I want/Vision: Become a congruent and integrated man Mission: Regain self-respect and become a master of discipline Completed reading: Sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rian Stone youtube channel, Book of Pook, 16 laws of Poon, 48 LOP, Rational Male, Practical female psychology, The Ga…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/26 12:51 PM
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I've not had a clear vision on what I wanted from the relationships other than to experience abundance. Now I see my aspirations more clearly though.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/26 07:38 AM
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I’ve been experiencing with different girls in the 22-40 year age range and with different lifestyles. From young partygirls to older fitnessjunkies. I like female company but I also like my freedom. I tell my dates that I’m open for a long term relationship if it feels right. I’m not chasing a relationship but I’m open for it. I do see myself in an LTR but not one where we are living together.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/26 06:23 PM
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OYS #12 Stats: 6’4, 108kg, 34 Y, divorced, 2 kids coparenting Lifts: Bench press 114g x6, unilateral leg press 80g x 5, chins bw x 12, hip thrust 120kg x8, unilateral dumbbell overhead press 32,5kg x 5 What do I want/Vision: Become a congruent and integrated man Mission: Regain self-respect and become a master of discipline Completed reading: Sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rian Stone youtube channel, Book of Pook, 16 laws of Poon, 48 LOP, Rational Male, Practical female psychology, The Game, Alabaster…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/26 02:37 PM
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How can you break/lose something you don’t have? If you had a smallest clue of who you are and where you are going in life stupid bitching over dog water wouldn’t affect you.
/r/askMRP28/12/25 02:56 PM
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My ego is like a big and heavy armor. And I have no intention of being a warrior. The first step is to be aware of what triggers the need for validation. In my case it can be a combo of fear of rejection, inadequacy and loss of control. I can focus on what I'm grateful for to validate myself. The second step is to reflect on the moments leading up to me opening my mouth and asking myself if I'm speaking to impress or to add value. I have sucked big time here. Or if i'm reacting instead of respon…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/25 07:11 PM
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You are right I have issues regarding validation. Do you have any tips to how I can get rid of this unattractive behavior going forward? (Except from Lift, Sidebar, STFU).
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/25 03:03 PM
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OYS #11 Stats: 6’4, 105kg, 34 Y, divorced, 2 kids coparenting Lifts: Bench press 105g x5, unilateral leg press 80g x 5, chins bw x 12, hip thrust 120kg x8, unilateral dumbbell overhead press 30kg x 5 What do I want/Vision: Become a congruent and integrated man Mission: Regain self respect and become a master of discipline Completed reading: Sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rian Stone youtube channel, Book of Pook, 16 laws of Poon, 48 LOP, Rational Male, Practical female psychology, The Game, Alabaster G…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/25 12:03 PM
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Hard to be mad at the lion for hunting the antelope. Or the great white for killing the seal. I don’t see the difference between hypergamy and the lion/sharks need for survival.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/25 05:14 PM
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Thank you for your insights. Every great life needs a renunciation. I'm not who I want to be yet because I have to overcome the darkness before I can win in the light.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/25 10:00 AM
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I would like to say yes to your second question but I think anger/bitterness has blinded me. Spinning plates is low risk. Low emotional investment, no oneitis and less failing of shit tests. Living with a woman is a lot more difficult when you don't have a strong frame and purpose. I can see that when I hold back the women hold back themself and get the need to seek comfort/reassurance. And when I lack trust in myself, share insecurities and weaknesses the women fail to trust me. The attraction/…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/25 04:07 PM
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I’m taking a break and not setting up new dates atm. I have a main girl 25 yo that I see 1-2 times a week. And a 31 yo that I see sporadic.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/25 02:13 PM
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OYS #10 Stats: 6’4, 107kg, 34 Y, divorced, 2 kids coparenting Lifts: Bench press 104g x5, unilateral leg press 80g x 5, chins bw x 12, hip thrust 120kg x8, unilateral dumbbell overhead press 30kg x 5 What do I want/Vision: Become a congruent and integrated man Mission: Regain self respect and become a master of discipline. Completed reading: Sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rian Stone youtube channel, Book of Pook, 16 laws of Poon, 48 LOP, Rational Male, Practical female psychology, The Game, Alabaster …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/25 12:28 PM
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When I operate from the frame of not needing a specific outcome. The nuance between needing and wanting. F. ex. initiating sex but being OK with not having it. Initiating sales conversation but being ok with the rejection. Putting myself in uncomfortable situations and being ok with the outcome. Wanting is ok. Needing is not.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/25 02:18 PM
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OYS #9 Stats: 6’4, 107kg, 34 Y, divorced, 2 kids coparenting Lifts: Bench press 102,5g x5, unilateral leg press 75g x 8, chins bw x 12, hip thrust 120kg x8, unilateral dumbbell overhead press 27,5kg x 5 What do I want/Vision: Become a congruent and integrated man Mission: Regain self respect and become a master of discipline. Completed reading: Sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rian Stone youtube channel, Book of Pook, 16 laws of Poon, 48 LOP, Rational Male, Practical female psychology, The Game, Alabast…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/25 02:03 PM
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If you’re hesitating I think you know the answer.
/r/askMRP20/11/25 12:20 PM
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Yes you could be right. Do you have any guidance regarding this aspect you point out?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/25 05:18 PM
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Thank you for seeing through me. How do you believe I can be the most authentic/attractive?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/25 05:16 PM
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OYS #8 Stats: 6’4, 107kg, 34 Y, divorced, 2 kids coparenting Lifts: Bench press 95kg x5, unilateral leg press 70kg x 8, chins bw x 12, hip thrust 120kg x8, unilateral dumbbell overhead press 25kg x 5 What do I want/Vision: Become a congruent and integrated man Mission: Regain self respect and become a master of discipline Completed reading: Sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rian Stone youtube channel, Book of Pook, 16 laws of Poon, 48 LOP, Rational Male, Practical female psychology, The Game, Alabaster G…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/25 02:13 PM
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I believe many people use humour as validation seeking behavior, meaning you feel good (validated) if you make other people laugh. To much and uncalibrated and it becomes unattractive. Humour does however play a huge role in game and becoming attractive. But that's after lifting, sidebar, STFU. How fucking boring would the world be if we took everything as serious as womens emotions.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/25 01:16 PM
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OYS #7 Stats: 6’4, 97.5 kg, 33 Y, divorced, 2 kids M6 F8 50 % custody Lifts: Bench press 105kg x5, Unilateral bulgarian squats 43kg x 8, Deadlifts: 172,5kg x 5 Pull ups: bw x 12 +21,5kg x 3, OHP 76kg x 5 What do I want/Vision: Enjoy the process and pursuit of goals. Live a meaningful life that the future potential of me would be proud of. Fuck my emotions. Act anyway. Mission: Fix the man. Think and act like a man. Completed reading: Sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rian Stone youtube channel, Book of P…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/24 01:08 PM
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My aspirations and definition (not limited to): Physically in shape/attractive Mentally attractive. Playful, charming, charismatic, interesting, seductive Abundant mindset and leader of his life. Goes after what he wants and sees the world as his playground Outcome independent. Not heavily invested emotionally. Willing and able to walk away. Sees women as a complement to his life and not the focus of it His own mental point of origin, prize mentality and displays positive self-interest and healt…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/24 07:14 AM
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Yes. Happy wife happy life. He should be monitoring his wifes feelings and mood at all times in order to initiate when she is not tired. She decides. He must be doing chores to her standards and listen to every demand she makes as this will make him perfect and sexworthy husband, receiving praise from all her female friends. Even his inlaws are pleased with him. But deep inside himself he feels something is missing. This is step 1. In step 2 he limits/cuts out his friends, gym and social life to…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/24 03:04 PM
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Family/friends: Had a good week with kids. It has helped me to journal my thoughts and choose better mental models to shed away my ego and create a more balanced approach to coparenting without my bitterness. When I own my shit the bitterness goes away. I don’t own my kids, it is what it is and my ego is not my friend. My ex is very pleasant atm, but I’m aware of the storm she can create. STFU and AA. Being assertive and not giving her my DEER. Focus on what I can control. Work/finances: Have be…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/24 12:38 PM
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OYS #6 Stats: 6’4, 97 kg, 33 Y, divorced, 2 kids M6 F8 50 % custody Lifts: Bench press 104kg x5, Unilateral bulgarian squats 42kg x 8, Deadlifts: 170kg x 5 Pull ups: bw x 12 +21kg x 3, OHP 72,5kg x 5 Vision: Enjoy the process and pursuit of goals. Live a meaningful life that the future potential of me would be proud of. Fuck my emotions. Act anyway. Mission: Fix the man. Think and act like a man. Completed reading: Sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rian Stone youtube channel, Book of Pook, 16 laws of Poo…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/24 12:38 PM
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Hinge58 HB7. Continuing to see her 3 more times with her going on holiday in between. When she came back from holiday, she asked if I was seeing anyone else which I AM’d through the first time but she’d ask me again after we fucked a few times. Told her that the standard gentleman doesn’t kiss and tell which sends her the message. She dipped immediately after that. Was able to get her out on a date a few days later and it went as usual. She said she was extremely wet, and was also extremely horn…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/24 01:56 PM
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She replied “I think I feel good about it (right now)”. She started to cry of course but it did nothing to me really, I suggested she stay with her mum or friend for a while. Still hasn’t left (yet?). Nothing really? You are afraid of the consequences of divorce and her emotions (amygdala activated - reactive state). She can feel your dependency/lack of frame. That's why you fail to stfu. So what if you give her half, you still have the ability/resources to create wealth and income in the future…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/24 09:08 AM
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OYS #5 Stats: 6’4, 96.5 kg, 33 Y, divorced, 2 kids M6 F8 50 % custody Lifts: Bench press 100kg x5, Unilateral bulgarian squats 36kg x 8, Deadlifts: 165kg x 5 Pull ups: bw x 12 +20,5kg x 3, OHP 70kg x 5 What do I want/Vision: Enjoy the process and pursuit of goals. Live a meaningful life that the future potential of me would be proud of. Fuck my emotions. Act anyway. Completed reading: Sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rian Stone youtube channel, Book of Pook, 16 laws of Poon, 48 LOP, Rational Male, Pract…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/24 01:03 PM
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When you stop chasing and build your SMV with sweat, tears and blood you will get the self respect and confidence to DHV. But only if you do the hard work. You will be more DNGAF and naturally excibit more attractive dark triad traits. Women should only complement your life and not be the focus of it. This is a frame we need from the start. This will take away the neediness/codependency which fucks up attraction. Let them chase you for your validation. It's easier to pass comfort/shit tests when…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/24 02:05 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/asqi8r/depressive_and_anxious_wives_how_its_all_your/
/r/askMRP29/11/24 12:53 PM
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“It’s become very clear to me that she views me as boyfriend material.” Do you understand how and why this statement encapsulates your problems? It's a catch 22. Me not needing a relationship will give me what I'm looking for. It's my own attitude towards my perception that is affecting what I want in order to enter a new reality of abundance, confidence and non-codependency. Choosing comfort over growth. I see that I need to plate her and be covert about options. When the time for comfort tests…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/24 07:39 AM
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OYS #4 Stats: 6’4, 96.2 kg, 33 Y, divorced, 2 kids M6 F8 50 % custody Lifts: DB bench 90kg x5, Unilateral bulgarian squats 32kg x 8, Deadlifts: 162,5kg x 5 Pull ups: bw x 12 +20kg x 3, OHP 67,5kg x 5 What do I want/Vision: Enjoy the process and pursuit of goals. Live a meaningful life that the future potential of me would be proud of. Fuck my emotions. Act anyway. Completed reading: Sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rian Stone youtube channel, Book of Pook, 16 laws of Poon, 48 LOP, Rational Male, Practic…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 01:47 PM
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Yes, but maybe I did not read the point about LMR enough. Please send link to pfp.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/24 01:45 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/7aeibr/back_to_basics_mystery_method_the_game_and_the/ Might be clueless now, but I know I can only get better.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/24 01:20 PM
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Yes, I was going anyways. I call it outcome independent.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/24 12:46 PM
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I agree, im thirsty of beer and I like to fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/24 12:29 PM
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OYS #3 Stats: 6’4, 96kg, 33 Y, divorced, 2 kids M6 F8 50 % custody Lifts: DB bench 90kg x5, Unilateral bulgarian squats 30kg x 8, Deadlifts: 160kg x 5 Pull ups: bw x 12 +17,5kg x 3, OHP 67,5kg x 5 What do I want/Vision: Enjoy the process and pursuit of goals. Live a meaningful life that the future potential of me would be proud of. Fuck my emotions. Act anyway. Completed reading: Sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rian Stone youtube channel, Book of Pook, 16 laws of Poon, 48 LOP, Rational Male, Practical …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/24 09:18 AM
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3 1/2 years since divorce. LTR 2,5 after that ended 4 months ago. 1 ONS since that. Instead of trying to fix her feelings and digging to get answers in order to try to fix the situation I withdraw my attention. Wrong to say affection, as I'm doing my best to provide comfort.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 01:18 PM
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Lack of discipline in terms of not enough workouts To pussy to call the girl I met at the concert Operating in my wife and childrens frame not being OI Escaping from negative feelings with hits of dopamine from music and validation from friends/family/coworkers/dating
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 09:57 AM
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Family: Goal is to have fun, be engaging and a strong rolemodel for my kids. Be the cat (proactive/assertive) and not the mouse (reactive/emotional). Kids are doing better. Focused on making the communication through our homes as free as possible. No hysterical 2-3 hours crying from F8. I’ve stopped trying to fix her emotions. Instead I reward positive behaviour and withdraw affection when being hysterical. I’m still operating in my ex wifes frame by jumping hoops in order to slow down alienatio…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 09:22 AM
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OYS #2 Stats: 6’4, 95,4 kg (+0.4), 33 Y, divorced, 2 kids M6 F8 50 % custody Lifts: DB bench 85kg x5, Squats/hacklift: 80kg x 8 Deadlifts: 150kg x 5 Chin ups: bw x 10 +15kg x 3, OHP 65kg x 5 What do I want/Vision: Enjoy the process and pursuit of goals. Live a meaningful life that the future potential of me would be proud of. Fuck my emotions. Act anyway. Completed reading: Sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rian Stone youtube channel, Book of Pook, 16 laws of Poon, 48 LOP, Rational Male, Practical female…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/24 09:21 AM
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OYS #1 Stats: 6’4, 95kg, 10 % bf DEXA, 33 Y, divorced, 2 kids M6 F8 50 % custody Lifts: DB bench 85kg x5, Squats/hacklift: 80kg x 8 Deadlifts: 150kg x 5 Pull ups: bw x 10 +15kg x 3, OHP 65kg x 5 Vision: Live a life that the future me would be proud of. Fuck my emotions. Act anyway. Completed reading: Sidebar, NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rian Stone youtube channel, Book of Pook, 48 LOP, Rational Male, Practical female psychology, The Game, Alabaster Girl Up next: mystery method, bang day bang Working out/hea…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/24 12:27 PM
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