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| 24 | I believe ghosting is unhealthy and toxic | Debate | Appropriate_Cook_508 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 03:09 AM |
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| 2 | Therapy is harmful and doesn't actually help women. Men should not go to therapy.I don't agree with this. To put it plainly as someone else said, therapy is what you make of it. If you have some real shit to talk about (for me, I was raped as a child and grew up in an environment that didn't support me whatsoever), and you have shame or emotional ties to that shit, therapy helps. If you are a narcissist, therapy won't change you. Lying doesn't help. And I can't speak for people of any gender whether they lie to their therapist or not. But I agree that people do. but that isn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 03:08 PM |
| 1 | One of the biggest problems in dating is men *think* they want easy sex.My opinion, and not discounting your point at all when expressing it: Feeling worthy of other individuals is the first step to finding a forever bond. If sex were easier, that worth is moreso present than not. Women, for instance, find it easy to feel worth from others, but oftentimes have difficulties in relationships and such due to individuality. However, and I CANNOT stress this enough; you absolutely cannot know what you truly want until you have fulfilled the wants you currently have. Ever… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 03:59 AM |
| – | Men have no options.I mean, a lot of this is leaning on the assumption that people are overall healthy-minded individuals. Usually I just empathize when people speak on their experiences because of the whole two points of truth and the actual truth notion, but I've been out and about and men will literally get in fist fights with other men for no reason, women will witness it, then they'll go up to those women and flirt with the women and they'll both be into it (FL is wild) This world is FILLED with shades of gray… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 10:23 PM |
| 11 | Men have no options.As someone with hobbies, very easy to get banned or barred from somewhere just by having interest in someone. Even if the situation was respectful, tension is very much a thing and people want to avoid it if at all possible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/25 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Men should stop lying about having low standardsI talk to everyone I match with online. I always swipe right. How they look isn't a factor. How they look at me and talk to me always is. If you showcase masculine expectations you will not be in a relationship with me. Unfortunately most women, regardless of shape, have those expectations. My opinion? That's why they are single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 04:25 PM |
| – | The real reason behind the male loneliness epidemic is that there are more happily single women than menWhat is normal? A question my therapist would always ask each time I try to iterate a normal. Fact is, humans are social creatures. Sex is the highest form of social activity. If women are having as much sex from men as they want and men aren't having as much sex as they want from women, that would cause whomever is having less sex than they want to feel more lonely. Both men and women group up pretty evenly these days. The only difference is how free and available sex is (cis sex specifically) … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 12:37 PM |
| 4 | Sure we don't like it when men sexualized women. But we all still live in a society that encouraged men to sexualize women though.When women hit on me, it is moreso "look how sexy I am, don't you want it?" vs "wow you're so sexy, can I have some?". Following that signal is what has connected me sexually to women. I have to accept that they wouldn't be putting that out unless they find me attractive, but there is definitely a "perceive vs be perceived" going on that is one of the many inequalities amongst the different genders. One could argue that it's a power women possess and it is counterbalanced by the strength men pos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/25 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Men are Love-ShyI don't agree with this. I think insecure people are love-shy. Regardless of gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 08:55 PM |
| 4 | CMV: divorce favors the maleYea I mean if anyone was going through a divorce and was upset about it, and they weren't in custody of kids and even lost their home, they would probably work much harder and longer hours as a distraction and to compensate for their unfortunate position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 03:49 PM |
| – | Sexual interactions shouldn't be limited by relationships.What taboos are you referring to? Like incest? Wtf 😒 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 02:08 PM |
| – | You cant say “Guys arent even given a chance” and then tell women “Choose better”.I think vetting out socially awkward people is stupid. Give someone who is socially awkward at least 3 months if they have everything else in order. And also TAKE THE INITIATIVE. That in and of itself could win you the best man ever. Initiate that first romantic kiss. Pay for his meal. Ask him out on a fancy date. The men who are doing that for you are the ones you need to worry about (manipulating assholes, cheaters, etc). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 07:08 PM |
| – | Sex is a need.I just pointed out your lies and you are burying yourself in ignorance. The blue pill definitely suits you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 04:56 PM |
| – | Sex is a need.I don’t think friends are a need You are literally engaged. That person you are engaged to is your friend. Also, literally any therapist could tell you that some sort of social bonds are necessary because we as humans are social creatures. Do you truly think you'd be ok without your husband? Bc if so you should just file for divorce and keep the ring you treasure. What was the point of that conversation? Having this conversation is important to establish the route cause of issues we otherwise ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 02:36 PM |
| – | Sex is a need.❤️❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 03:40 AM |
| 1 | The parents of boys have an obligation to teach them about attracting womenI agree with this. My family didn't directly teach me anything, and left everything up to discovery. I still haven't discovered what it takes for someone to be into me long term. And I am afraid that no amount of therapy and currently socializing will help this at all.. If you don't want to be involved with your kids, please don't have them. My life would have been just as meaningful if I was aborted, so do so if you aren't in a position to take care of your children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Men dont care about men’s issue.I'll do my best to see things from his perspective and answer these questions. That's just incredibly sad, isn't it? Why would men themselves go along with it? Seems like a crabs in a bucket mentality. Everyone wants to be the one on top and the rest can go die for all they care. Well, it's men and women. OP states that afterwards. You never mentioned why women would view men this way, and yet talk later about needing to feel comfortable around men for sex. Doesn't that answer your question? Men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 08:38 PM |
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