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Says who? I had an orgasm in my sleep like a week ago. My college roommate talked about her wet dreams to an uncomfortable degree. She once woke me up moaning and aggressively humping her pillow while she was asleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 03:26 AM
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It's one thing for society to sexualize a person. It's another thing for parents to push their kids to sexualize themselves and I don't think it's the exception you think it is. We tell women not to sexualize themselves because doing so is cheap. Your naked body WILL get you attention, more so than a naked male body will. This is largely because females aren't the ones sexualizing human bodies to begin with. It takes zero skill to get sexualized. Just time and effort. So encouraging your child t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 08:06 PM
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I'll never forget my older sister sitting me down and saying "It's wrong for girls to masturbate. Boys *have* to do it, because their biology is different." That was the only sex talk I got. I still knew about pregnancy risks and STI's without a proper talk, because sex is everywhere - the good and the bad. Every other Snapchat ad I get is for HPV. I think more important than education, the West needs to teach girl's to value themselves for more than their bodies/biology. From what I can tell, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 05:39 PM
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Is that your argument here? Nothing is guaranteed? Bravo sir, you've solved the great mystery of the universe! Hey everybody! It turns out, NOTHING IS GUARANTEED!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 10:05 PM
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I didn't make it in my head, he proved it with his current qualities (IQ, work ethic, skill set are all CURRENT qualities) and his goals. God I hope you don't get paid to "fix" things. You'd be that plumber who causes a leak and charges an extra hundro to fix it. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 07:54 PM
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Not? It's just women who need to learn to read a guy better/hold out longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 03:44 PM
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Why become an engineer when you can just marry an engineer, amIright?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 03:33 PM
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Okay. I accept this answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 10:39 PM
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Whoa, whoa, whoa buddy. Hot tip. Never let people know that you've thought this deeply and know this much about pedophilia. If you look 16, it's because you have features that make you look particularly young. It's just my facial expressions. I generally look pretty clueless and lost. Plus I have low body mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 10:28 PM
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Women can only truly know themselves. Why doesn't this apply to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 10:22 PM
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Yeah I only get on PPD when my life is crumbling in front of me and I need to look away.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 08:34 PM
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I don't care about how much he's making now, but I care about his potential to make money in the future. In other words: his IQ, work ethic, skill set, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 07:19 PM
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Wow as a 26 y/o who often gets told I look 16, I take offense to the idea that it's because I have hormonal imbalances and not because of my blessed genetics/lifestyle. She then goes on to use Selena Gomez and Hailey Baldwin as contradictory examples? These two women have more in common than out of common - straight down to their questionable male preference. This is just a post of one women comparing multiple women to each other to help her deal with her unattractiveness. The truth is, I get to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 05:13 PM
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College was straight up culture shock
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 05:58 PM
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where sex Ed was probably nonexistent in their upbringing. Ugh. This hits home
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 05:52 PM
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Myers-Briggs is sooo last season. We're all about the Big 5 now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 05:12 PM
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I'm sure ex husband isn't biased it at all...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 05:45 AM
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And your ex wife drinks a lot of wine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 05:09 AM
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Coool Welcome to the dark side where men hate you because they assume you're a feminist and women hate you because you aren't one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 05:06 AM
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We knew about this sub for awhile. We just didn't get active until the covid lock downs drove us all to madness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 03:40 AM
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Is this a fantasy of yours? What does the demon do next? You can tell me. This is a safe place.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 03:39 AM
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I blame them for the crumbling social structure of America and the mental illness that accompanies it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 03:17 AM
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Ok... So have you been with a virgin before? I'm just - this is quite the specific conclusion to reach. I'm not even saying it's wrong. I'd just like to know how you reached something so specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 03:09 AM
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And this person before, did you take their virginity? Note: I assume there was a person before bc you said again. I really hate that I have to explain these things, but it seems to be the trend on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 02:55 AM
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You only date virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 02:46 AM
2

When I first heard about the orgasm gap, I thought it went the other way. I have a solid 5 orgasms for every 1 orgasm my man gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 12:18 AM
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Take on assertive role in irl + get slapped around in the bedroom = best of both worlds
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 12:07 AM
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Sometimes sex is the first step in de-radicalizing a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 11:47 PM
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There are better ways to filter for mental illness. For example: Can you quote Friends? When is the last time you ate Taco Bell? Do you have pets? How many TV shows have you seen start to finish? What's your bank to shoe ratio look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 11:43 PM
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What do you consider high?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 11:29 PM
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anti terfs and the anti swerfs If you're an anti-terf does this mean you are still a radicalized feminist? Your first comment had me thinking you were against feminism in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 05:37 PM
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predatory failed-women This sounds worse than just predatory women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 03:34 AM
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Some people seem to sincerely believe that they don't. You'll find them loudly proclaiming to be victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 02:20 AM
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women enjoy being neurotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 01:01 AM
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I can't tell if you actually think aggression is bad or if you're pointing out that society thinks aggression is bad? America is a fairly matriarchal society, despite what mainstream media keeps trying to tell us. You sound like a fairly aggressive individual, so I'm scared to ask, but what are you doing to get yelled at so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 11:50 PM
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That's what I thought might have been going on. I think the weirdest part was that he was tall and very symmetrical. You would think this guy would have been somewhat socialized.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 11:42 PM
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These are all true. I was responding specifically to the above mentioned scenario though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 10:42 PM
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"There are no solutions, only trade-offs" -Thomas Sowell
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 09:39 PM
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All you've said is that aggressive males are more likely to reproduce. You think aggression is a negative quality. I disagree. I think aggression can be a positive trait. The real issue is repressed aggression. Aggressive people need an outlet and some freedom to express their aggression in healthy ways - competition. Competition leads to innovation and growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 09:22 PM
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Red, but not Red Pill Woman or whatever they call themselves. I'm very objective in my views and I think this is why I see the same patterns the Red Pillers do. I know how I like my men. But to me, if I have to actively be submissive, than the man needs to be stronger. I know my own ability to be toxic and therefore am quite tolerant of "toxic masculinity" traits. I think a good person is someone who has the ability to do harm and chooses not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 06:02 PM
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This is - I'm going to take a moment to rant. I am so freaking annoyed by the number of men who tell me they're not participating in society. You not participating in your own personal development is not the same as not participating in society. You pay taxes. This is participation in society. And before you claim you don't have a choice in that matter, 1.) My grandparents live quite off grid and 2.) I know! That's why I've been saying get political if you want change. Get off reddit and get org…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 05:50 PM
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I don't really understand the results, but it looks like I lean red and if you account for my being female, I'd say I lean quite red. It was a pretty lame test and I'd feel a lot worse about the time I wasted on it if I weren't actively trying to waste time right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 05:25 PM
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I had this happen too. He wasn't aggressively sexual online, but just sharp and funny. In person he barely said two sentences and was the most awkward person I've met to this day. And he was a pretty good looking guy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 05:05 PM
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oh... and here I thought it was all about dick sucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 09:49 PM
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What do lips have to do with fertility?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 09:26 PM
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I suppose you could argue it. I suppose divorce doesn't take too much mental warfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 01:21 AM
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If women are NPCs then they must not be the conniving, gold-digging, divorce-raping, back-stabbing creatures most men on this sub seem to think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 12:12 AM
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All it says is more women are initiating prenups, which they credit to the rise of more high earning women, and that in general prenups are on the rise. And again nothing came up for lower earning men, because no actual stats were given. This is an advice column.Only 5% of divorces have prenups in place, which stats the obvious: MOST people aren't initiating prenups, man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 07:19 PM
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Is it standard for lower earning men to come with a prenup?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 07:00 PM
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Interesting. I wonder why they made me a manager then... It's not like I ever pull this move on someone above me. Just across the hierarchy. I wonder if having these meetings over zoom makes a difference. Also it's not "AS I WAS SAYING" it's "as I was saying" or "going back to...". You seem to be reading it with a tone that I'm not using.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 06:58 PM
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Do we actually know Bezo's thoughts on this whole matter? He made his ex-wife one of the richest women in the world, while remaining #1 himself. I'm sure he has some pride in that. I think the guys who yell the loudest on this subject have neither an abundance of resources, nor a woman who has loved and supported them. He cheated, he was in the wrong. If the woman had cheated, this would be a different conversation. She remained loyal (as far as we know) and her loyalty should not go unrewarded.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 06:48 PM
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Not true. I've been pushing for a prenup and also just a marriage contract in general and I bring very little assets to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 06:35 PM
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That hyper-sexualization is difficult to navigate. Do we fight and be prudes? Do we use it to our advantage? It makes us feel like prey all the time. Like we're always being hunted. We don't know which ones of you fall under the psychopath category. We just know on a daily basis that we're being hunted and it makes us anxious and at times and it can be really depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 06:25 PM
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I disagree, but sometimes I do compliment a point or something they've made, if it was something good. I'd say the tone is what might make you sound "petulant". If you get interrupted, you don't need to act like it's not rude. It's rude as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 06:19 PM
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What was the point of this comment? It does nothing to add to the previous conversation on political/government non participation. Also, who plans their hook-ups a day in advance? How old is she? She must be at least 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 06:02 PM
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Yes, but they always say these things in response to bias family courts, so step one is obviously take back family courts
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 05:58 PM
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This is true. I actually think it's possible albeit highly unlikely that one could pull off non participation while living in the US. I just don't think the risk would be worth the sacrifices that it would take. So I'll assume you were simply disagreeing for disagreement's sake until further notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 04:40 AM
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Are you saying you're going completely off grid? Or committing tax fraud? I'm very curious what non-participation looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 04:10 AM
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I don't think so buddy. You're leading your future generations to a life of hiding in the hills.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 03:45 AM
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Red-pillers and MGTOW need to get political. Take back family court and make marriage less risky for men, so we can re-establish the family unit. I suggest joining forces with the Libertarians. We're all going to be outlaws soon anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 03:39 AM
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It's def on the rise and I'm honestly scared that if something doesn't happen to curve it now, it'll be too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 03:26 AM
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The people who think we've conquered our biological tendencies strike me as the least self aware. They're also, ironically, the most anti-religious - but that's a whole other topic. I really just came in to say this is well written.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 02:01 AM
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I prefer traditional roles. Please, please take me out of the work force.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 01:33 AM
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I think the simple answer goes something like; the less attractive she is, the more she desires to be sexualized and the more attractive she is the more she wants a break from it. Females get sexualized at a sometimes alarmingly young age and asking them to remove that from their identity is no small ask. That being said, personally, if I could get affection and attention without being sexualized I would love it. It's never been option. I don't know that it ever will be. I think the younger you …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 11:45 PM
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Whenever I interact with someone I find intimidating I think about how they see me, how they see themselves in relation to me, and how I want them to see me. I get interrupted a lot. I just wait for them to finish and then I say, "Are you done?" followed with "As I was saying.. " I also get that summed up thing in meetings, the sales guy always says, "What she is saying is..." And you just have to let him finish and then ask "I'm sorry, did I explain that poorly?" the point is to ostracize the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 07:39 PM
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Intelligence, Confidence/Assertiveness, High Tolerance for Risk, Balanced Mental Health. I'm looking for a business partner more than a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 07:17 PM
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I also work in a male-dominated industry. I'm only assertive when I need to be, otherwise I'm pretty reserved and go with the flow. I make young men nervous and these days, thanks to #metoo, I also make older men nervous too. It's kind of fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 06:54 PM
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I only get away with things if it's men in charge. Otherwise, women hold me to insanely high standards. It's like they're looking to make me fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 06:46 PM
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Personally I agree with you. I do the same thing with puppies. Once a puppy becomes a dog I find it essentially useless. I bought a puppy for a reason after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 06:19 PM
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I feel this, but with death. What's the point of having people in your life if everyone dies?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 07:10 AM
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Yikes man. What does off the rails mean exactly? Did these women strike you as good people initially or do you like em crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 04:01 AM
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The leaders we voted for are failing us. Everyone I asked this election said they're "voting for the lesser of two evils" no matter who they voted for. People are taking matters into their own hands. It's just a slow change. I personally say stop waiting on the government. Y'all lost government when you gave women the right to vote. And the fact that you're waiting for it to come back to you is just insane. It's not going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 09:24 PM
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People fall behind when their leaders fail them. Strong men shouldn't rely on governments to change their situations. They should govern their situations. And avoiding the situation all together isn't strength and it's certainly not leadership. Not knowing who to trust is just a symptom of weakness. Not convincing people to be loyal to you is just a symptom of weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 09:12 PM
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Idk. I've never played a team sport and I still see the benefit of two people working towards one goal. I think people don't have enough ambition or something. Not enough resolve. Not enough conflict management. No communication skills. This whole argument is pretty reflective of the mental health crisis plaguing America. We hate single moms and nobody wants to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 08:55 PM
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I'm talking about actual spousal privilege. It's still a legal privilege of marriage, but I'm sure the government will find a reason to get rid of it. I'll say it again. No family and no friends will prioritize your future achievements as much as a spouse will.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 08:46 PM
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It's more like, "I don't think we need that" or "we need to make this move". No family and friends is going to prioritize your future achievements as much as a spouse is. You might want to be told an action is bad if you're looking at now instead of future, or even worse - the past instead of the feature. Or your emotions are winning. Also, someone to hold down the fort in case shit hits the fan. Relationships are about give and take and trying to not keep score while that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 08:43 PM
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More future oriented and their goals tend to align more than your friends. I'd say the best alternative is a business partner, but that doesn't come with spousal privilege - unless you marry your business partner. The problem is people want "romance", which is just a re-branding of unrealistic expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 08:37 PM
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stability and accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 08:11 PM
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Married couples tend to accumulate more resources and make better life choices. Once you start answering to someone else, having some accountability you start making better choices and things start falling into place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 08:10 PM
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They're more than just rewarded money for divorcing. They also get more welfare for being single moms. I've heard people claim to be advised to even divorce on paper to get more money. It's absurd that government would encourage this behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:57 PM
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current laws actively incentivising divorce Can someone explain to me why this is the case? It's so mind-boggling to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:29 PM
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I actually tried to when I was 18, but you have to jump through a lot of hoops. My biggest problem with it now is that I want to have a say in how my DNA gets raised. I want to know that the potential is getting maxed out and the nurture/love is abundant. So, maybe, but only if I can screen the couple I'm giving my eggs to and the DNA it's going to mix with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:26 PM
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Sitting on his lap. Freshly shaven legs. I'm so annoyed by feminists who tell me to stop shaving my legs. Bitch, I do it for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 04:18 PM
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It's too late for me Sufficient-Ad-3586! Go! Save the others!! Spread the good word!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 03:53 PM
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Never been my thing. I work for mahself and hate spending monay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 03:51 PM
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He's making me meet his mom in two weeks. So... Not ashamed and not cheating I guess... Just a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:50 AM
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Wow. My mom told me nobody would ever love me if I was fat. Nice to meet you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:47 AM
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Man, I worry about these young girls on social media today. I can't imagine. I feel like a lot of girls don't fully understand the implications of their "cute" pics. They're just replicating what they see getting the likes and the next thing you know you've got psychotic men sending them rape wishes and asking to buy them plane tickets to NYC. That's a worst case scenario obviously, but I just know that I was online very young (lying about my age young) and didn't fully understand what being sed…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:44 AM
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Yeah I know this to be true, but sometimes man. Sometimes....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:18 AM
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How much are we talking, body fat percentage wise? I'm just curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:14 AM
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yeahhh.... I like me some toxic masculinity I guess. It's kind of refreshing to not get my way all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:13 AM
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Really? Bc sometimes I think a little less self awareness might solve a lot of my issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:08 AM
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yeah it is... He's really smart and hard working. Takes a good amount of risk, but manages to be stable. NEVER gets angry. To be fair, I require like a lot of attention and bring waaayy more baggage to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 05:59 AM
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That's comforting. I could really use some real life friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 05:15 AM
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pre-dental's parent's didn't love him enough...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 04:02 AM
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I'm curious what makes you think he's on the spectrum?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 04:00 AM
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I'm painfully sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 03:57 AM
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Chubbiness. Women are more likely to be chubby with age. Some women carry their chubs better than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 03:49 AM
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I'm pretty sure I'm the type of girl "the game" (by neil strauss) works on, which seems very similar to Red Pill. It bothered me at first, but I'm okay with it now. I think I have a lot more insight into my own tendencies since discovering it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 03:36 AM
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Wow. You just hit at my entire life crisis. I recently took a tab of acid and found myself crying in the middle of the club, Why am I here. I know why guys are here. They're here for tits. But why am I (the tits) here? I still don't know. I'm just playing the game bc I don't know what else to do tbh. I don't want dependents. So what else does one do? Make success, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 03:19 AM
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It's just a feedback loop. They get more attention online than they do irl, so they put in more effort - use filters, learn the angles, photoshop. I think likes and comments are more preferred than DM's, bc the whole point is look at me, I'm desirable. I'm not sure, but I think girls care more about being desirable than the actual male attention that comes with it. but less attractive women are going to get way more attention than their male counterpart Always. It doesn't matter what the game is…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 02:57 AM
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Aside from the obvious privacy aspect, it's also a much bigger rush to get validated for your ideas/words. And to not feel like people are only paying attention/checking in bc of your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 02:37 AM
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Toe the party line? I have big mommy issues, which the feminists refer to as "internalized misogyny" so maybe that's what you're picking up on? I'm not fake and not usually a troll... Don't make me sad like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 02:32 AM
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Same. I had Instagram for two years and I have no idea why. I literally shut it down today. I like my anonymous media a bit too much though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 02:17 AM
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I think so. It's not that more attractive girls don't crave it, but they get it irl. And then the uglier girls are trying harder and more willing to uhm... Take their clothes off for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 01:59 AM
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Pretending in what regard?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 01:07 AM
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To be fair, my super beautiful mother had no issue getting her ego addicted to crack back in her prime. It was just different. And more dangerous. She actually had to leave the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 01:04 AM
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If we're going to be throwing blame around, better dish it out to the thots who continuously defy realistic beauty standards too. I can't imagine being a young girl on instagram today.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 01:02 AM
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Young woman here. My social media use is minimal. I actually just deleted Instagram today. Still, social media has made me used to getting an unhealthy, unattainable amount of attention. It's like crack for my ego. I never have to feel alone either. I just log in to some random app and someone there is willing to engage with me, distract me... This has been very problematic in my current relationship, as he cannot provide the amount of attention that I am used to getting. As a result, on a bad d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 12:47 AM
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This seems to be the common consensus. I'm very confused as to why he would put in the effort to get my attention, if my existence just causes him stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 12:14 AM
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That actually made me smile, so thank you. He's not ashamed. How do I say I'm pretty and not sound conceited? I'm also educated and not poor. I'm worried he thinks I'm too flirtatious... We obviously have different views on what flirting is and I know he doesn't think any guy can interact with me without feeling lust... I just... Is this normal male behavior or is he... extreme?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 12:03 AM
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He's definitely not cheating. I just want to know what's going on in his head tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 11:57 PM
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Part of me thinks maybe it's just this specific co-worker. I know he's pretty socially awkward and they don't want distractions. But he's accused me of making sensual eye contact with strangers before. He admits now that was ridiculous, but it just feels like something weird is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 11:56 PM
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Ashamed?? How do you figure?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 11:34 PM
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I feel like I have to explain my chaotic music choices.... Matt Maeson Kid Cudi (It's been a rough few months) Apathy (I've been working out a lot) Rainbow Kitten Surprise (I almost lied about this one, but... ) Hucci (Again... Been working out a lot. But I'm fine. I'm totally fine.)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 11:00 PM
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The co-workers & friends are always males. I'm pretty extroverted and good at making people feel comfortable, which I think makes him uneasy sometimes. I know a lot of his friends were "competing" for me when we first met, so Idk if that has something to do with it. Idk if this is male behavior or he has problems or I've done something wrong. He has no problem taking me out to bars or clubs though. So it seems to be only an issue with his personal peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 10:30 PM
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My man doesn't like to introduce me to and/or have me around his co-workers/friends. Should I be concerned by this? He's very introverted, so it's not like he hangs out with people often. But he recently asked if I'd be willing to leave our place when his co-worker came over and I just feel like it's a bit over the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 08:26 PM
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Women don't like to hear a man's fears about women, even if the guy was a victim of domestic violence or rape. Women also won't tolerate this fear of other women when it's coming from a woman. The majority can't seem to wrap their heads around their own behavior being toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 08:09 PM
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This just made me feel a lot better about my relationship, as it is quite the mirror image. BF is pretty blunt and this is actually one of the qualities I really liked when I met him, but now I have many insecurities that I didn't have before. On the other hand, I'm as blunt as he is. We talk about it often and have come to the conclusion that men get criticized way more than females and are therefore better at handling it. We're both working on it. Glad to hear you've been in it for at least 15…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 06:55 PM
1

Or covid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 03:53 AM
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Why is abortion legal? Doesn't change the fact that reproduction is the biological goal. Again I don't believe in abortion and I never said men should solely be responsible. I'm saying they're ALSO responsible. Both parties can abandon their child. It's called adoption. But if they don't reach that conclusion together, then one is likely giving up their time and the other their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 04:51 AM
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How so? Single mothers are obviously being held responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 04:36 AM
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Wow. Have you forgotten the actual purpose of sex is to reproduce? It feeling good enough to do without that goal is a byproduct of the true purpose, reproduction. So when you have sex you consent to the risk of possibly producing a child with that partner. And for the record, I think abortion should be illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 04:15 AM
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Do you disagree that fucking psychopaths is a mistake? Do you disagree that sex without condoms is risky? This is generally why you shouldn't sleep around. The consequences can be life changing. Maybe it's not a baby. Maybe it's just herpes. Either way, good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 04:11 AM
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The girls I see.... Not good looking at all. I get that men will look past a lot of things if a girl is hot enough, but these girls... Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 02:00 AM
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West coast. I see ass and tits just walking down the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 01:50 AM
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I see guys walking around with basically nude girls and you can tell it's an ego trip for them. Onlyfans is so mainstream, I think a lot of guys feel like they're winning when they date one of these girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 12:50 AM
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No. If you consent to fertilization, you have also consented to birth. Ffs. This is a joke right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 12:23 AM
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I didn't say he gets to make a choice (unfortunately), just that he is ALSO responsible. I didn't say he is solely responsible. But he shares in the oops factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 12:19 AM
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Men and their learned helplessness in the dating world is just sad. It is unfortunately about responsibility because you are responsible in where you put your dick. Just bc a girl chooses you, doesn't mean you don't take all necessary precautions to guard your DNA & course of life. You wrap that shit in a condom AND pull out if kids aren't an option for you. The female is first line of responsibility, but there are some really crazy women out there and it is on you not to get suckered into that.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 12:08 AM
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Because YOU are telling me he's giving all signatures by just having sex; no matter if he disagrees with everything else. What I was actually saying was that if one person decides to adopt or abort, then the signature of the other person should be required for that action to take place. If one party says no, then they can take full responsibility of the child. This isn't the system we have in place now. So, by default, if the woman chooses to keep the baby, the man either has to jump borders or …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 11:48 PM
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You have to pretty out of touch to equate instagram to real life. And we aren't talking about judgement. We're talking about responsibility. You help bring life into the world by banging a psycho chick, you are responsible for that life. The solution? Don't stick your dick in unknown pussy. It's literally that simple. Girls need to not bang trash and guys need to not bang trash. This is how trash stops being made. Is that going to happen? No. That's why we now have to discuss who the burden of r…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 11:32 PM
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I don't think abortion should be allowed, but I agree all these choices need two signatures to happen. But again, the man made a mistake somewhere along the way, and asking him to contribute isn't the worst thing. Y'all act like single mom's are sneaking into a guys bedrooms and stealing their sperm. It took two people to get the baby here. It's not crazy that two people be responsible for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 10:44 PM
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I love how the problem is the adults and everyone's solution is to kill the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 10:34 PM
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Ugh. It takes two to get pregnant, only one to carry the child to term. HE made the choice in either 1.) Not using condoms &/or pulling out or 2.) Not properly vetting his partner. HE has to also take responsibility here. You don't get to force abortion or adoption on your partner. It is way more cruel for the guy to push the girl to give up her child than it is for her to expect him to man up and carry this burden. They don't have to do it side-by-side, but two people's DNA went into that child…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 10:25 PM
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This. Most of the single mothers I know are also the most toxic people I know. It's like the idea of compromising is completely foreign to them and they'd rather have their "freedom". They're the women who constantly put themselves first and say things like, "Well if I'm not happy then my child won't be happy."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 08:53 PM
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Glee is nerdy. It's like a level past nerdy. It's theater nerdy, which is worse than regular nerdy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 08:33 PM
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Considering 5% of women in the US identify as LGBT and 19% of women in the US identify as VERY feminist, while another 42% identify as somewhat feminist, I'd say there are quite a few feminists out there takin' the D.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 08:29 PM
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They get laid by super duper feminists. I imagine it's a boring time all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 08:10 PM
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This is like saying nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 06:02 AM
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A guy struggling with dating is not about him not being a catch is mainly him not being lucky. I think it has more to do with him being boring/lacking personality & creativity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 04:39 AM
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This is just like "duh" though, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 04:28 AM
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I probably don't know enough about mgtow to be comparing it to anything. I just read their main statement on the website, which was all about sovereignty and self-governance. I can't say for sure whether mgtow is about checking out of society and giving up. From the little bit I've looked into it, it just looks like they've decided to start playing in way better suited for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 03:04 AM
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I'm a girl. I could be dead and still get sex. But you know what. You've convinced me. I'm on your side now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 02:40 AM
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I only date guys who I think would hit me back if I hit them. There's something weak about letting a woman get away with something just bc she's a woman. Trust me, I will exploit that weakness if I smell it on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 02:24 AM
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I would argue to say that if you CAN get it you’re not obsessed with rule following. You know yourself - secure, confident and most importantly mature. Getting laid has nothing to do with being secure, confident and certainly not mature. That's crazy talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 01:54 AM
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The only way to win is to not play.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 01:36 AM
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You only have to start navigating an individual if you want to keep her around or she's legitimately not like any other person you've met before.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 01:27 AM
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Yes. It seems to me mgtow is just Libertarianism leaking into one's dating life. I personally find this mindset attractive. I also fully believe in my ability to take care of myself though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 01:22 AM
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These men are probably just slobs and don't want to clean. Honestly though, I'd be more impressed/willing if a guy invited me back to his hotel room and not his place. It's a good strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 01:09 AM
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These look like good guidelines to me. Idk what the fuss is all about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 12:54 AM
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My man can have a harem, but I have to wear the ring. We've actually talked about this. He says as soon as it happens I'm going to feel differently about it. To be clear, I think I have some issues and am not the norm. Also, who knows... maybe he's right.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 11:54 PM
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I knew a girl who straight up told her boyfriend if he cheats she just doesn't want to know about it. I can't help but pity her a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 11:35 PM
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My mans is pretty "alpha". I think my presence just makes him more "alpha" too. He become more desirable to other women when we started dating. Also, he is much more put together now and I think this propels him even higher up the food chain.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/20 11:25 PM
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And I find talking to men fun bc I'm more willing to play mind games with them. You took one thing I said and painted a picture with it. You think I don't respect women. That's fine. Idk why you assume I respect men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 11:07 PM
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Well I make fairly destructive decisions, I know that. I can't blame him for questioning the type of people I keep around. Obviously I wouldn't be friends with someone I suspected capable of rape. He's a good guy and I know his intentions are pure. Relationships are all about give and take.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 10:54 PM
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What is toxically feminine about allowing past trauma to taint my world view? It's unhealthy, sure. It's not toxically feminine. My closest friends in the past have been other females who have mommy issues. I'm not against all females. I just have a problem relating to MOST people. This leads me to operate best in situations were I fully understand the social dynamic at play. Co-workers? We get along regardless of gender. Classmates? Same thing. Men who want to bang. I can navigate that playing …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 10:31 PM
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If only sex were impossible to have without two people's consent. And I have every right to believe him when he says that, as I have a bad habit of putting myself in harm's way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 10:12 PM
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I don't think you're wrong... He witnessed a stranger surprise kiss me and I didn't prevent it from happening. I was drunk and the guy was drunk. He came in from my side view so I didn't see it. I shoved him off, but after the kiss had landed (on my cheek). But yes, I have routinely told him to check his jealousy/paranoia/whatever it is. It's actually been giving me a lot of social anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 10:04 PM
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It's not a personal attack on you, so don't try to make it a personal attack on me. My mother was very abusive. Idk what to tell you. Toxic femininity is a thing and pretending like it's not is only going to drive people like me and the red pillers further into our world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 09:54 PM
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As I have stated before, I have trust issues when it comes to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 09:39 PM
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Yes he honestly ruined my desire to be friends with guys bc I have a bit too much insight into their thoughts now. I work in a predominantly male field too, so learning how to "girl" better wouldn't necessarily serve me well. I can interact with them very well on a short term basis, but then I just find it exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 08:17 PM
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I got rid of all my male friends, except one when we got serious. This guy never flirted with me and we had a lot of childhood trauma in common. I just got rid of that guy bc he finally crossed a line, I guess it was just a matter of time. The issues is that I'm lonely now. I have major trust issues with women and am a bit too "autistically honest" which doesn't work well in female circles. I understand not keeping the males friends around that want you, but I don't know that my man fully apprec…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 08:04 PM
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It's not me he worries about. At least he says and I think it's true. In his defense he has seen drunk men attempt to cross lines many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 07:50 PM
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I'm not sure I understand the point you're trying to make. The above quote matches my females friendships perfectly. We take each on dates and I've met even their extend family in many cases. I don't do this with my male friends so much. Just one, but he is quite gay. What I see as a tad bit off is the fact the best friend's men aren't threatened by him. This too me is indicative of a big problem for OP. There's a reason they aren't threatened and I imagine it has a lot to do with the depressive…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 07:48 PM
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Yeah there's a lot going on here. The best friend's partners aren't threatened by him for a reason. That reason has something to do with his depression and inability to get a girl. He seems to surround himself with female energy bc it's the closest thing he can get to a girlfriend. I imagine if he had a little more serotonin he might make a move on one of his female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 07:36 PM
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My man cares way too much and it's a bit of an issue. But then again, a good male friend of mine recently crossed a line - a very subtle flirtatious compliment and I had to re-establish boundaries, so I can't even pretend like I don't know where it's coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 07:28 PM
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He says he's envious of her ability to get partners. He's not a good writer, but if you read what he's saying and not skim through, it's very obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 07:23 PM
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That post is about him not being about to get a partner, not him wanting to date his best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 07:18 PM
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The loudest and most confident girls ranked themselves highest It's a take a lot of confidence to put yourself last for the sake of everyone else's ego. So the Asian girl, in my opinion is actually most confident as she knows these girls' opinions mean nothing to her. The blonde girl, her "confidence" is actually aggression. Just watch her face as she gets moved down the line. Watching the girl who put herself first get moved down was my fave part of the video. Bitch, be humble.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 05:38 PM
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Yup. One of those girls who's instas are full of nothing but them singing straight into the camera.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 05:27 PM
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Imagine not knowing yourself so much that you just go for what other girls like. It's an identity crisis on their end for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 04:27 PM
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In the FSM, men do not count at all, except as handbags or something like that. In college there was a girl who would repeatedly go after any guy I was talking to/dating. It reminded me of my friend who would buy something after I said "oh I like this!" Both instance were so annoying, but the boyfriend thing took me years to understand. It was quite traumatizing bc she actually got a guy to cheat on me (I wasn't having sex with him, and she was more than willing). She obviously saw these guys as…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 03:36 AM
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This is the difference between real friendship and girls using each other. Your friend group sounds super chill and secure in themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 03:26 AM
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It definitely exists and is super toxic imo. I think it's toxic, because often the girl at the top has no qualifications other than being pretty and extroverted. If that's all you need to be to get to the top, imagine how shaky the foundation is. If a female is introverted and insecure, she'll naturally find herself at the bottom, even if she's a sharper person. If she's introverted and secure, she's just not going to play and will get slapped with the occasional, "I'm not like other girls" accu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 03:15 AM
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I feel like men must look for a while before girls finally catch on to why they're looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 04:24 AM
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Oh this is painful. I got on hot or not when I was 9 years old... And let's just say my self esteem sky rocketed. When I was 12 a 21 y/o entered into Claire's and offered to buy me something and asked if I wanted to go get ice cream. When my older sister came swooping in he acted like he couldn't believe I was 12. Bro, you're in Claire's!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 04:21 AM
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Expect? No. They tend to do it though. I think bc store doors can be really heavy and I do struggle with them and nobody wants people to see their gf get slammed in a door so... Might as well just open it. But if I reach the door first I pull on it. I'm not standing there like a princess.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 04:56 PM
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I mean I don't make a big deal out of it. Most doors are automatic these days, but if I touch it, yes I think about it... I don't obsess over it. But in the moment I'm like, oh no. I don't go wash my hands until they bleed or anything...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 04:16 PM
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This is a shit test? My man almost always does the interacting with strangers. If the door rings, he usually gets it. If I get it he still stands in the background.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 04:10 PM
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Are you an only child?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 04:02 PM
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A door that everyone else has touched.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 03:59 PM
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It is a joke. I've never seduced a stranger for help. Growing up, I saw my mother do this though and it wasn't a healthy thing to witness as a young girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 03:58 PM
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Well I don't have and never have had either parent in my life and I think I would trade all sexual relationships for that tbh. I should clarify that I'm a female and maybe this changes things. Idk. Just a somewhat off topic question, do you think there is any resemblance, mental health wise, in rape for females and being an incel for males?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:48 AM
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I would say I'm privileged for many other reasons before I listed getting laid. And I would say I have severe disadvantage in areas that I personally find more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:35 AM
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So basically, if you're getting laid, you are privileged?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:27 AM
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the privileged Where does Eliot Rogers fit into privilege? If I'm a short guy and both my parents are alcoholics and my father beats me regularly but I still manage to get a white trash girlfriend am I privileged? If I'm a soldier with PTSD and in an abusive relationship with a meth addict psychopath, am I privileged? I'm legitimately curious where this line starts and stops.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:06 AM
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Asking for a friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 04:53 AM
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I love asking for help. I make my eyes wide and I say, "excuse me sir..." and my voice drips with innocence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 04:47 AM
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I guess I missed the part where I got to choose which world I live in. I'm not surprised. I was a pretty dumb infant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 03:45 AM
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Uhm. No?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 03:40 AM
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If doors weren't so friggin' heavy! I'm 25 and was raised in an area where men always held the door open for my mother and I. And I was taught to always hold the door for my elders. And people just generally held the door for each other, but there was an obvious chain of responsibility. Now, my life is just a struggle-fest of attempting to maintain the appearance of adulthood while opening a 70 pound metal door.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 03:26 AM
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Yeah I really hate that I have to open my own doors in public. I'm not even joking. I love it when men open doors for me. But it happens a lot less now than it did just 5 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 03:15 AM
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Does this work in your favor at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 03:08 AM
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I can't wait to be old. I will exploit all them young'uns.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 03:01 AM
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I'm curious, what do you find maximizes you happiness? Also, when a pregnant women gets on the train do you pretend to be asleep?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 02:59 AM
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These women have some very unfortunate personal problems. It seems like penis envy is a real thing for some women. You have to accept your biology, otherwise you'll always be miserable. I def prefer PIV and it's the only way I really get off when a guy is involved. I mean oral is alright, but fingering can get dangerous. I hate my personal space being broken, so kissing is a big turn off for me. I don't like it when he focuses on my clit. If I wanted to get off via clitoris stimulation, I'd do i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 05:21 PM
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I got rejected for being a virgin more than once and one time I was like yeah but I'm ready to stop being a virgin and the guy was like you'll suck at sex, no thanks. And when I was still a virgin I got cheated on bc I didn't want to have sex. Just thought I'd throw these examples in to show the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 02:40 AM
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But we're all actively calling her ugly, so obviously that ain't it right? I mean we're talking about physical attraction and calling this skinny, make up wearing girl UGLY. she's unattractive bc she has a big nose and long thin face i.e. facial structure, which you claimed accounts for just 10% of a woman's beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 03:57 AM
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She wears make up and is still ugly but doing well, so what exactly is your point, OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 03:23 AM
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This comment is underrated
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 03:18 AM
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My mom
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 10:03 PM
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One of the girls said something like "I think we just ranked ourselves on who is the most extroverted, not the most personality." This. Is. So. Female. Also, the two more attractive, introverted girls were, imo, ranked last for some reasons (by the females, but first and second via males). I think this is very representative of the female mind too. In my experience, pretty and reserved females are seen as threats to a group of less attractive females. The more independent a female is, the more s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 07:17 PM
1

Have you read 48 Laws of Power?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 04:39 PM
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I see your point, but reading the 48 laws of power has nothing to do with labels. It's the labelling that is detrimental to ones place in life. People read the 48 laws as a means of navigation, which is also why people read the Bible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 04:33 PM
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Women just have higher expectations in general and that's probably why they tend to be less happy. This post went on to be a rant about men not trying as hard, but I think a healthier mindset would be: Women learn to manage your expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 04:21 PM
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25F | Purpose. No questions asked Reasoning - because even pleasure is meaningless if everything around you is meaningless. What is pleasure anyway? It seems impossible to have pleasure without (at least the potential for) harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 12:55 AM
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Conditioning, but by life experiences more so than media.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 06:22 PM
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I've done this before tbh. But during the "relationship" I would constantly remind him that we weren't dating, even though I'm pretty sure we were both exclusively only fucking the other person. We weren't dating so I didn't need to break up with him and could just fuck off. That's how I justified it at the time. Please don't lecture me. I've grown up since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 04:37 PM
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Okay well I'm sorry about your relationship, that sounds very difficult. Sometimes people don't know what they like until they figure out what they don't like. I'm sure breaking up the marriage and coming out was also v hard on your partner and I don't think you should make it all about you tbh. I'm not blaming the victim, but yeah it is up to women to cut ties with guys who seem off, to not go into alleys, to not go out at night alone, to not get too drunk, to be ready to pull a trigger. Most p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 06:24 PM
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I literally didn't say that. I said it's on the target to not become a victim. It's a harsh world, sorry if that pill is too big to swallow, but you should def try. I don't complain about high count women mainly bc I'm a female and I don't care. I'm not punishing anyone. Nature punishes the weak and vulnerable. And independence was never mentioned, so this whole reply seems like a projection of YOUR feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 05:05 PM
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Well, they're also getting older so idk?... Die?... Alzheimer's?... Blindness? Idk the possibilities seem endless.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 05:39 AM
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Oh ouch. That would be such an insane relationship. So toxic. No thank youuuuu. Swerve. Haha Damn I gotta do some personal work. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 02:11 AM
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For sex: man anything goes. It's on the girl to guard that kitty. For relationship: no lying, no murdering everyone I'm close to, thus forcing me to be dependent on you... This is such a weird question bc I feel like it's pretty obvious. Like typical unethical behavior is a no-no, but at the end of the day not getting swindled falls pretty heavily on the target's shoulders, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 02:02 AM
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Ah I like this post. I agree with it, mostly, too. Obviously though, pretty girl > rich man. The rich person might win bc he can throw more resources at the situation, but the public will generally side with the prettier person. And if that prettier person is female - game over bitches. I've been on both sides of this coin. I was an ugly kid. Now I'm an attractive adult female (mainly bc I got rid of my braces and glasses). It's a fun world, let me tell you. I violate boundaries and people let m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 06:54 PM
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Also. I probably would have joined the military. That's what my older brother did. I think largely to "man up". We were mainly raised by a toxic, single mother and she did that thing single mommies do where they basically turn their son into their bf. It was pretty gross tbh. So my brother dealt by running away and joining the military and I dealt by running away and dating older guys...men.... My brother is probably better off than I am now... I feel like when I'm out with a guy, specifically m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 01:30 AM
1

What an unfair world we live in, huh? Even if I were a Chad, I'd still rather be a female.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 11:46 PM
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Honestly as a man I'd be just looking for sex. It makes me sad to say that, but I do feel like women benefit more from relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 11:34 PM
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Right... I do think that women have a very messy biology/psychology thing going on though. Men seem to be very logical and that's something right? The hormones at play are very real and they can change a person's entire experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 11:20 PM
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Oh I'm very happy being a woman in like every scenario. It's fantastical (now that I'm an adult).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 11:06 PM
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Oh... Another excellent point. I suppose as a dude I'd be just looking for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 11:04 PM
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Huh.... I guess my girl brain just didn't consider that option. Idk maybe there's like a cat mouse game that appeals to me. Like getting a girl to come fuck you, a stranger. Also, I think there's a chance for establishing an emotional connection via Tumblr more so than an escort and let's be honest, I'm going to need every chance I can get with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 10:37 PM
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Well I'm not trying to get a girl alone on my yacht to poop on her. So I think my budget can be a lot more reasonable. I think, I'm not sure, but it seems like there are a lot more sub/masochistic women than there are dom/sadistic men so I feel like I can just appeal to that side of the Tumblr girl and play a fairly easy game.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 10:23 PM
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Thank you. 🖤 And btw, you look like the type of girl I'd be trying to get if I were a man on Tumblr. So be careful out there. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 10:19 PM
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Flying one girl out to do coke isn't that expensive, but perhaps MDMA would be a more economical choice. And depending on your skill set, computers can make a nerd a lot of money. I actually already do a version of this lifestyle and I have a pretty shit skill set tbh. I'm female though. Companies are dying to hire female programmers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 10:13 PM
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oh no honey... I'm awful as a female too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 09:49 PM
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It starts with him not giving me attention. "Why isn't he into me?? Everyone else is into me!" And then I work for his attention and he gives it and I feel like I earned it. Which is v underrated if you live in a world where things are given to you freely. That's just the attraction level though. What comes next (relationship or no relationship) is a whole different game.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 09:33 PM
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I'd be an incel or else I'd have been falsely accused of rape but tbh it probably wouldn't be that false. I do have a get laid game plan though for if I were a dude. Step 1.) Study computers, make money Step 2.) Develop a coke habit Step 3.) Get on Tumblr Step 4.) Fly girls with issues out to bang I think I would probably have more friends if I were a guy bc it's pretty hard for me to talk to most girls as a female (they just talk about nothing!!) and I've learned it's impossible to keep guy fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 08:55 PM
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This is starting to feel like a therapy session. (I'm not mad. I probably need it.) A lot of factors came into play. Definitely personality mixed with an unfortunate upbringing. My parents were just kind of busy when I was born. My father was losing his mind and my mother is just a selfish person... She's a good bit of a misogynist too. You throw a baby into that mix and I don't think said baby is likely to transform into a well adapted human, but I am trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 08:25 PM
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I used to break in to places, trespass regularly, did severe harm to a kid (he ended up in the hospital) all this was when I was like 8 to 18 years old. Then after that I started selling drugs in college. Mainly psychedelics, but also pain killers and occasionally coke. The stuff I did as a kid, I would get caught and reprimanded. Nobody suspected I hurt the kid on purpose. Nobody even questioned me. I'm an attractive, sweet, middle class, A student... I'm also female. I sold drugs bc I figured …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 07:43 PM
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I would def have a criminal record and that's no joke. I'm young though so maybe I'm just getting ahead of myself. Also though, I think my mom would have liked me more and that might have prevented the problem behavior. I wouldn't have been anorexic and probably would have been pushed into a more... Useful... College degree. Would I have been an incel? That's a difficult one. I like dominating bitches tho and so I feel like that might be my only saving grace bc otherwise I'm pretty... Reserved a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 05:07 PM
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