Appropriate_Pie_9839 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
95	What is the female equivalent of "full stomach, empty balls"?		Appropriate_Pie_9839	/r/RedPillWomen	29/03/24 08:06 PM

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9	Stuck Are there other towns within driving distance that you could extend your reach to? I agree with exercising, finding one gym time or one group class and going consistently. If there is a coffee shop or similar cafe, go there as frequently as possible. Especially if you go at the same time, you'll start to see the same people. Don't limit yourself to women your own age. Older retired women can be great friends. Or just having a casual chat about the weather with the old man at the grocery store ca…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/04/24 12:25 PM
9	Is 70/30 okay for young couples? Yeah, it's often considered part of running a household and done by women. I think of household budgeting as far different than financial management, which is higher level things (bringing in income, strategy about promotions, retirement investing, managing taxes, determining when to finance vs buy cash, ultimately determining what large financial purchases to make and when). Of course it looks different for every family. In my family, my husband determines how much goes to fixed expenses (mortg…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/04/24 06:43 PM
4	Is 70/30 okay for young couples? In that case, can you just ask him what your household budget will be once you're married? I assume you'll need to be making many of the household purchases (at least groceries, kid items, maybe more), so will need to know what you'll be working with. In the end though, if you believe he should be doing all of the financial management and you believe you should not question his decisions, then it is more of a question of dealing with your own anxieties about it and settling into trusting him. Th…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/04/24 04:00 PM
9	Is 70/30 okay for young couples? One of the more feminine tasks of financial management is creating and managing the household budget. If you are worried about emasculating him, perhaps you could suggest that you begin making a budget for when you are married, when kids come, etc. Through that process, which of course will need to be collaborative, it will emerge if you can live on one budget. You could also ask him to give you the total income that can be used on annual expenses (clarify if it is before or after taxes), then m…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/04/24 02:57 PM
5	The One Who Got Away This doesn't exactly sound like emotional cheating. I mean, I bet his wife doesn't know about the message and wouldn't be thrilled, so its edgy. It kind of seems like he needed to communicate that to you to get it off of his chest and find some resolution. It seems like the two of you had an important and caring relationship at some point. It feels to me like you could respond in the spirit of love with something like "I received your message and thank you for your good wishes. Out of respect to…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/04/24 06:09 PM
12	What is the female equivalent of "full stomach, empty balls"? That's so interesting. I always read the advice to give a man space and not be so needy for attention, but I'm honestly the opposite. I feel loved and secure when he gives me space and privacy to do my own thing. Like he deeply respects the rich complexity of my separate self and trusts that I will always return and engage with him when the time is right. I guess that feeling of being "released" by him is a form of feeling deeply emotionally understood.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/03/24 09:51 PM
8	What is the female equivalent of "full stomach, empty balls"? I love these. The feeling of monogamous security is one I forgot	/r/RedPillWomen	29/03/24 09:45 PM