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Say honest weaknesses, "sometimes I get distracted and unfocused, but I balance that out by dedicating time and effort to the task at hand"
/r/askTRP28/01/19 08:07 AM
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You want to drop her, she wants you as a friend. If you stay you're making her happy and not doing what you want. If you want to ghost her then ghost her, texting less and less just takes effort and is unnecessary
/r/askTRP27/01/19 10:56 PM
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Define what Alpha means to you, what do you think you'll be doing when you're alpha that you're not doing now? Makes those things a goal and try to reach it. Don't forget to look back at your progress, you may not be as alpha as you'd like now, but compare it to 3 months ago before you started this journey. How much have you improved in that short time? This journey takes years and doesn't get completed ever, it's never ending.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 10:54 PM
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Convince yourself by talking to them and finding out first hand
/r/askTRP27/01/19 10:50 PM
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Hone your interview skills (firm handshake, being dressed well, confident voice, minimal stuttering), practice common interview questions (why do you want to work here? Why should we hire you? What are your weaknesses?) Explain it by telling them the truth and spinning it, you focused more on work so deferred finishing college for a couple of years.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 10:45 PM
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Who cares what he thinks, that's his opinion not yours. There's validity in not shitting where you eat but bring friends with your coworkers, even having them on Facebook, won't really harm you. Do what you want it's your life, take other people's opinions with a grain of salt.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 10:39 PM
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Tell her she's not and move the conversation on.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 10:37 PM
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The more you hold frame and more experienced you get at it, the more it becomes your normal and easier to do.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 10:35 PM
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No natural knack for this I was cringe in my teens, sometimes now even. I've just had experience and found what works for me and can say the right thing more often than the wrong thing. It's easier to give other people advice than yourself. I would tease further "You text back fast for someone with friends" or make a guess as to what I think they're doing "let me guess, at a bar and you're trying to convince the DJ to play Drake". This is your conversation with her so play it however you want yo…
/r/askTRP26/01/19 01:34 AM
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Most effective way to improve your game is to improve yourself. Go to the gym and follow a routine Have a healthy diet and get enough sleep Make sure your clothes fit you well and in style for you Have hobbies, play sports, do run things Work on your personal finance skills and budgeting Learn how to walk with proper posture, how to enunciate and speak clearly Learn to not care what others think about you and gain confidence in yourself
/r/askTRP26/01/19 01:30 AM
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You never had to be out of the game, fat, short, poor guys are still in the game and can pull there's never threshold of when you should join. Being fit and having a good attitude means generally you can pull higher standards but people have been getting laid without ever going to the gym. You may not be up to your own standards but probably much someone else's so go out there anyways and take the initiative, the experience will only make you better if you ever reach your goal standard.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 01:25 AM
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That's exactly what it is, amused mastery knowing it's a shit test and that they might not even be aware of what they're doing. That's the mindset to have don't take it seriously.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 01:22 AM
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She may have responded "?" because she didn't know what the why was in reference to. You're learning, slowly but steadily. I feel like that lines a bit abrupt, maybe joke around a little "are you spending your Friday night with friends or Netflix?". It's an open question so there's many ways she can respond (if she does) and gives you options of what to continue talking about "is that how you usually spend your Fridays" or "My Fridays are spent _____"
/r/askTRP26/01/19 01:21 AM
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Something that I learnt when I started self improvement was how to get away from being just "content". My room worked perfectly fine for sleeping and changing and what it needed to do, but it was just that. I rearranged my bed, got new pillows, got a new shelf and rug, added smart LED lights and added posters now my room is somewhere I truly like to be in rather than a utility. You say you don't need a luxury car and are okay with what you drive, but have you looked into an upgrade? I find until…
/r/askTRP26/01/19 01:16 AM
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What endeavors do you find rewarding? If you try and picture your life not being boring is there anything you picture?
/r/askTRP26/01/19 01:11 AM
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You can read all about how to assemble and bow and shoot an arrow, but that doesn't mean you can pick up an arrow for the first time and shoot a bullseye. As with everything you have to practice and gain experience before getting good at it. Don't read the sidebar and just try to regurgitate exactly what it says, take it one step at a time and try to work on one principle at a time. You think a girl needs to come to you to talk, but they feel the same way so at the end of the day neither of you …
/r/askTRP26/01/19 01:09 AM
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Red pill doesn't say that all women hate fuckboys but find them sleeping around attractive. They don't find the sleeping around attractive, they find attractive guys attractive and are upset they can't lockdown these fucks boys. If he's attractive enough to sleep with many girls he will and does, they don't like that behavior but they like him. I don't think it's disrespectful or a red flag to mention that it's just what she and most people think, this is it the first time you're hearing her say…
/r/askTRP26/01/19 01:06 AM
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Too much push, sarcasm doesn't translate well over text sometimes so unless you've been talking awhile that might've come off as mean.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 01:02 AM
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Glad it's resonating with you and hope it helps, experience will help as well the more you get used to them the easier it is and less thought you put into passing them. If you do one more "alpha" thing than you did yesterday that's improvement you don't have to go chop down a tree or ask yourself "what would James Bond do"
/r/askTRP26/01/19 12:59 AM
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When I close a date, usually when walking back to my car or at the peak of the date I'll say "Thanks for doing xx with me" then go in for a kiss. Sometimes straight for the kiss, other times I'll go back and forth between her eyes and lips then go in. When on a date that's going well, if we see/say something funny, similarly to you I'd comment we should check it out sometime or how we should do that as our next date as a way to let them know I'm interested in another date. At the end of the date…
/r/askTRP26/01/19 12:57 AM
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First one is a bit aggressive and forward, I don't know what the Bumble messages were like but I'd slow it down immediately asking where she's from and arranging a date tomorrow. The second one is more normal, shame she ghosted that but it happens. The not saved one would work if it wasn't a first message I feel, if she isn't free to join she'll just rbomb there's no need for her to respond or to go.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 12:45 AM
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I think you need to try to stop making every action you do an alpha action. Alphas aren't alpha all the time, but every now and then do more things alpha than beta. There's also many ways to respond to things so many that are alpha, beta, in between or neither so you need to respond how you naturally and normally want to respond. It's good to think about what the best way to respond but if you overthink it you're not being yourself but instead acting. With you seeing every conversation as a shit…
/r/askTRP26/01/19 12:41 AM
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It sounds like you go on dates and everything is perfect in person and end with kisses or public blowjobs, but what are you texting them after? They all ghost you after a date that sounds lovely so I'm thinking there might be something happening during or after the date that's turning them off.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 12:35 AM
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When you say "immediately" is that the first text you send them, or do you say something like " Hey it's wellhellothere45 from Bumble"? I usually text them for a bit to get used to it, and after a couple messages try to set up logistics. Of course you can say all the perfect things but still have them not respond, that's just part of the game.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 12:31 AM
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Go with the group and have fun without caring what your former oneitis does or doesn't do. You like the friends and want to go out with them so don't let her be the reason you don't. Try not to let her presence stop you from hitting on other girls or friends there either. It's worth going, the former oneitis is a former oneitis so try not to focus on her and what she's doing.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 12:27 AM
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I don't go to bars much but at parties/clubs I find it hard to talk and have a conversation amongst the noise and people. I tend to introduce myself an afterwards like to just dance, play drinking games with them, go around talk to other people and have fun then run into them later. Sometimes I can then whisk them away somewhere quiet to makeout or talk and get their contact info.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 12:23 AM
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You say you talk to each other way too much and don't do fun stuff, have you tried to change that? Such as instead of complaining you find a solution and plan a fun date or try holding back a conversation.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 12:18 AM
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If you've only ran into each other accidentally then it's time to run into each other on purpose. Set up logistics so it can happen at a time and place of your choosing.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 12:15 AM
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Maybe suggest a planned outing after meeting them and getting their number, so when you text you can talk about the outing logistics instead of asking them out then? Don't take it too personal if they don't respond, especially on tinder most girls are chatting to a lot of guys, don't have tinder notifications on or just rarely check tinder. If you're not having luck with your current technique maybe switch up the introduction or don't say anything stupid. We don't have any photos of what your te…
/r/seduction15/02/16 02:08 AM
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If you wait for a girl to be at the club or a perfect place to talk to her you'll barely meet any girls. It's Day Game, you approach anywhere and say anything. You could have asked what she's buying or what stand sells the best fruit or anything as if she's just another normal person at the farmers market. Remember, shes not a goddess she shits and puts her pants on one leg at a time like the rest of us.
/r/seduction15/07/15 03:16 PM
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You already know what to say, just have to be confident enough to go up and say it the 1001st time. Worst she can say is no but you'll feel better being rejected than wondering what if.
/r/seduction15/07/15 02:54 PM
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Agree with the article and it makes sense, but what age/area do you think this is relevant? I'm in high school so texting is very common.
/r/seduction19/05/15 05:21 AM
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In person is almost always better but just her straightforward and in the first message ask them out. They might not respond right away so having a legit conversation could be harder and take long to get to the point
/r/seduction21/12/14 04:40 PM
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