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It's very funny that no matter how many times for a hundred years or a thousand years women will say we don't want another child to come home here comes home another child. Mom
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 09:09 AM
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If you could redo it would you still get married to the ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 02:40 AM
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You write a bunch but I do not understand anything you are saying. You just say nonsense. Man hamster, that's all I hear, how it's not your fault. Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 09:07 AM
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Can you please say this but explain it so I can understand what you are saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 08:57 AM
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We do what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 08:55 AM
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We are
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 08:54 AM
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Ha ha I can ask him but Monday. He mostly just says you're all beasts and it's not even your fault ha ha ha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 08:50 AM
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What do I do about it? Listen to you cry? I got hubs he says I got this. What do you all want? You want hubs to come save you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 08:47 AM
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So you live this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 08:27 AM
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I'm not blaming anyone. I don't even have any grievances. I'm just asking you to tell me what will make you happy with equality? I don't want to hear any male bitching I hear that enough on here. Just tell me what it will take for you to think now every thing is equal between us. Just spell it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 08:25 AM
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What norms then? Spell it out. How hard is this just spell it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 08:22 AM
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What more do you think needs to be done then to get full equality? At what point will you be happy with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 08:20 AM
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How is that not how it is right now? Unless at can finally illiminate racism against blacks and against women to give them equal opportunities?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 08:18 AM
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You give to much credit. It's the game men use so they don't have to take responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 08:16 AM
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What would be equality for you? If feminism had not pervert it? If you get to choose what equality means then what is it for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 08:09 AM
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I can't even begin to explain to you how much nonsense you are just saying right now. Hubs has huge benefits from me and I him as well. I'll be honest here I can not even understand what you are saying. It's just nonsense words.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 08:06 AM
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I don't I'm asking men what they think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 08:00 AM
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So equality to you means everyone has an ideal partner and lives happy ever after?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 07:59 AM
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I never said anything about oppressive at all. Who are you talking about? Not me! Now I could what? Get a job? My great grandmother was a weaver. Get a credit card? Hubs has a bunch of them I just pay them off when he says to. You think women were all chomping to get more credit cards? Do whatever I please?! You mean do whatever I can. You're all confused you think I lived in a party while I lived to survive and to do my best to thrive. I think all of this is because and only because men wanted …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 07:57 AM
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I still don't understand what you're saying. What would make the world for men and women equal in your eyes? You write a bunch but I have no idea what you are saying at all and I just read it three times. I don't know what you are trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 07:38 AM
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Nobody has answered my op.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 07:36 AM
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So equality means woman go with the hottest guy around? But you think this means the gay twink because you don't know who or what a hot guy is? Women are going with the hottest guys around already. And you're all really angry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 07:35 AM
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I asked men to explain what equality means to them and I do not understand what you are all saying back. What else do I say? Why can't men just say what equality means to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 07:33 AM
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And you blame women that you don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 07:02 AM
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Why can no man answer what equality means to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 06:59 AM
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So equality means you're actually a woman and now I'm the man? But I still get pregnant while I guess you watch porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 06:58 AM
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No that's way too long
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 06:54 AM
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Everyone should be treated the same even when they are different?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 06:53 AM
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I have no idea what you are saying. How could I leave behind my role and adopt your role? I already tried, it was a disaster. We take on your role because you won't. Then when we try you blame us for trying. Point out what you don't understand? I don't understand what you don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 06:51 AM
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What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 06:47 AM
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What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 05:26 AM
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Does reality not exist for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 05:25 AM
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WHAT DOES EQUALITY MEAN TO YOU?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 05:21 AM
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Guide
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 05:20 AM
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Ha ha who takes away your authority? It's taken away so easily. I'm asleep I take your authority from you in a dream. I have more money than you, what do you do? Cry
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 05:19 AM
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I'll just restate. What does equality mean to you? Tell me male.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 05:15 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 05:14 AM
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I do not understand what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 05:13 AM
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Can I have some of your Valor? Ha ha ha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 05:13 AM
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If you had any power? Ha ha ha. OK man, imagine you have power. What would you do if you actually had power?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 05:11 AM
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My God, you think that's true? I'll tell you what to do boy. I'll tell you follow up. Do you even hear that all you do is tell somebody to order me better? You say, tell me what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 05:10 AM
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So in your imagining of equality I would have no duty towards you, and you would have no duty as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 05:05 AM
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I'm sorry if I didn't respond their were five hundred responses and despite what you all say being a mother and a house runner is a full time job. I couldn't even read them all. Yes so we are equal now, as you say it. So let's hear, what does equality mean to you? Does it only mean you no longer have any duty towards women? Is that what equality means for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 04:25 AM
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When I cook one of our chickens I'll turn the breasts into chicken Alfredo and the thighs into stir fry mostly. Let's be honest here nobody can even really tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 03:27 AM
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Why do you think men stopped caring about their kin? You say that you would care about them. Do you have them to see if that's true? I will say my brothers did not and do not care about me or really about anyone except my dad. Whom they serve to this day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 03:20 AM
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You could realistically believe he wasn't a loser stringing you along. Was my comment not clear? I think it was so what are you trying to say to me here?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 03:17 AM
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I do every thing I can think of to be as sexy as possible. I have learned as much makeup as possible, I even have magnetic lashes. I have eleven wigs now with caps so I can dress up. I ask hubs what he wants me to wear and I change into it before he gets home. I redo my makeup right before he gets home. But no I can't do it 24/7. The kids run around and make messes like crazy. I want the house clean before he gets home but I still have to do my makeup. Plus change into "comfy clothes". Hubs alwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 03:16 AM
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Congrats! But you say here that you both wanted to get married after six months, so you could realistically believe he was not stringing you along.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 02:07 AM
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If you're trying to waste years of a woman's life so you can figure out if you're going to stop being a man baby then I would suggest she cheat and dump you. That's what I did when I met hubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 09:51 PM
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This is a super weird way to look at relationships. You're not buying a house. I got married in my early twenties and I've been married for ten years. No woman should allow a male to waste her life being his forever girlfriend. Men think they can just try out a woman for a few years while they screw around. It's embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 09:39 PM
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A year or two? That's ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 09:31 PM
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My hubs married me after three months. I was already living with him so he said we're getting married so find a courthouse and figure out it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 09:30 PM
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I was raised in a Baptist church but I think my dad only took us because he had a DUI and he had to go to church or to AA. He chose church. I don't think it had any effect really. They didn't teach us how to date or tell us who to date. It was mostly about feeling good. They did tell us not to have sex until we were married but then they told us if we did that Jesus would forgive us. All we had to do was ask him with our heart and stop having sex before we married our husband. If our future husb…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 02:59 PM
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Men are losers who expect women to lead them. But not only that they expect teenage girls to do it. Even better men expect teenage girls to magically know that they want them to lead men and if they don't then these men will just be huge losers in response. Do you see a problem here?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 02:33 PM
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Ha ha ha I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 04:57 AM
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I don't know what you're saying
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 04:56 AM
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As a woman I am all for FDS. So many men are pathetic and weak nobodies. They think this will get them through life and it will not. We say no. No more! Males, wake up! We're not taking your loser shit anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 04:13 AM
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Now do you try?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 04:08 AM
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Hubs wants me to draw him a new picture of mommy Biden giving out his spankings ha ha ha. I'm already planning it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 02:59 AM
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Their was a thread were a short guy was saying that if a woman says you're short he would reply about how he's the shortest midget to ever live. Something like that. He wanted guys to make fun of themselves. Don't do that. I'll do all the short guys a favor. The short guy I went with? When I said you're so short. He said so short guys scare you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 02:56 AM
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So you do have a duty towards women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 02:51 AM
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So you would say that you have embraced feminism and are now a feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 03:00 PM
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Reminds me of this great meme. https://i.postimg.cc/8C67bSLD/2343.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 02:57 PM
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How would having a duty be self serving but having empathy isn't? I think it would be the opposite wouldn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 06:23 AM
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So you don't have duty but you do have empathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 06:07 AM
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Ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 06:06 AM
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What do you even offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:56 AM
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Laugh?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:53 AM
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Do you want your wife to have a career?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:52 AM
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Yes of course she is the better hire. You just lost. Male hamster overdrive ha ha ha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:51 AM
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But he's evil and I'm a wimp who gets beat up and pays for porn to jack off. Gosh I should follow the morality to pick you. Oh my God you're all pick yous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:49 AM
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Can you just say nobody ever gave me nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:42 AM
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Do you think you just said women are attracted to power? Do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:38 AM
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Are their ones you do go out of your way to help?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:36 AM
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On the internet I'm a leader now ha ha ha
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:33 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:33 AM
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"I only have duty if women have the same duty back, that's why it's called a duty" Did I get that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:31 AM
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Children come from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:30 AM
0

Hmm. So you think women are stronger than you? Is fatherhood an assignment? Ha ha ha did you sex up the girl? 😇 Of course not women have more power than you. She did it to herself!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:29 AM
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What duty does your wife have to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:27 AM
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You have no idea what you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:27 AM
0

For everyone else you think your duty is actually just an exchange? Is that duty?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:26 AM
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So child support is OK? What ending with their mother do you still feel like you have honor?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:25 AM
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Women being hired at all? While males say I'll never support you and you must have a job. No it's males weeping and their hamster going overdrive to say, no I didn't just get beat by a woman. But you did ha ha ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:24 AM
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We will tell you what to do and you'll do it and like doing it cause that's who you are. Open the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:22 AM
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No problem
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:20 AM
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You just think he's a jerk because you don't want to hear it. You don't want to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:19 AM
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Can you decide?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 05:17 AM
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The world I wanted? I'm not a boy I never dreamed I was the king of the world. I dreamed of following the man who becomes the king of his world. I still think that quota hire is just males way to protect themselves from accepting their true failure. A woman got the job over you? Oh my how that must harm the male ego. Of course you can't accept it. She's just a "quota".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 03:46 AM
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I think power is action, and to be able to act. Hubs says power comes from responsibilities, and that only with responsibility comes any true power. He says the true power to act comes only when you know and accept what your actions mean. Lately he's been telling me about how voting is actually giving up your power because you give up your responsibility. I will say hubs can act ha ha ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 03:43 AM
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If they stopped taking you for granted would that bring honor to this duty you gave up, since they took you for granted?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 03:38 AM
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What about to make her proud that she's with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 03:36 AM
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So things are so messed up now that your duty is lost?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 03:35 AM
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I've never voted, I'm the mother to four children, I've been married for a decade, and I haven't had a job for eight years. But only because I got lucky and met hubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 03:33 AM
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Where do you think power comes from?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 03:32 AM
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Are you doing anything to make this other world you mention closer to the world as it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 03:31 AM
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Would you still feel the same if your relationship didn't work out and the mother was no longer your girl? But the children were still your children?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 03:30 AM
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A living breathing and innocent child. Could you live around starving children and feel nothing? Since they are just "fuck trophies"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 03:05 AM
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I think that's fair. But what would women showing basic manners towards men look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 03:04 AM
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Do you feel any need to have honor for your girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 03:02 AM
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I can go along with what you're saying. But I do have a question for you. What about single mothers? What about the children of the single mothers?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 02:54 AM
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I never chose for any of this feminism stuff. I just watched it on TV like everyone else. I never chose for no one to care about or guide me. Nobody ever gave me a quota job. I worked at Walmart in the deli and cooked chickens and made sandwiches, eventually I learned to write on the cakes and doubled in the bakery. Don't you think most of this quota job crap is actually directed towards men? To tell men that the woman who got the job instead of you doesn't really deserve it, you didn't actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 02:52 AM
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Why would you help an old woman but not feel any duty towards a young one? I know this may come as a surprise but women aren't blessed with any kind of special wisdom when young. We're just as lost as everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 02:45 AM
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Would you describe your personal philosophy as self oriented or the word with worse connotations, selfish?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 02:41 AM
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What duty do you feel towards your own children?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 02:34 AM
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I had a brand new baby as well. Hubs got us some formula by talking with the store manager at target. I was about ready to start making my own diapers out of old towels but he found some.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 01:29 AM
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Any one else get tired of having a bunch of sexless virgins tell you that what has actually happened in your life is somehow wrong because of a crazy ideology made up by divorced losers and yet more sexless virgins? The whole ideology is just dumb dumb male hamster baloney so they don't have to feel bad for being a failure anyway. "What actually happened in you life and all your friends lives totally doesn't happen at all because my virgin loser friends and some divorced losers said so on the in…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 10:36 PM
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Ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 10:22 PM
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Doesn't matter men don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 10:22 PM
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Doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 10:22 PM
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Women don't want to date a scrub. I don't know why you all think this is some kind of hidden secret that you've managed to figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 02:57 PM
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What you are saying is meaningless nonsense. Men approach, women do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 02:35 PM
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What bothered me most was going to the grocery store eight months ago, you know cause people are just dropping dead in the street, to buy baby wipes for my BABIES. And watching this old woman take the last pack. So now I clean the babies with a rag.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 04:50 AM
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I heard horses don't run right without regular oil changes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 04:24 AM
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You did the cooking as well? Of course you did
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 04:20 AM
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Online dating blah blah blah! But on online dating blah blah blah. When I'm just a picture blah blah blah. Ask one of my non existent male friends to take somebodies trash to pretend they are middle class ha ha ha! I know I just have to check the bank account of every guy. Why I go through their pockets to find the bank account. Oh he has a savings account with some money? I'll get all that money ha ha oh my I can't even believe you guys think this is real. I think if one of those super bombs th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 02:51 AM
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No I'm pretty much just a normal person. I don't even know what world you guys live in. Internet world of nonsense stories?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 02:26 AM
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Forced to penetrate ha ha ha I can't even. Are you serious? What lengths will men go to so they can pretend they are a victim?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 02:25 AM
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But have that and use it for going with a woman you aren't attracted to? Through the entire experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 02:15 AM
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You just don't know what you're talking about here. You have no idea how many males I've rejected or are rejected at all. This is just another one of those "but in online dating" blah blah blah "but in online dating!!!!" 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 02:14 AM
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Isn't that because of a wet dream though?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 02:07 AM
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I think this might be projection or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 02:06 AM
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Ha ha ha I made eleven dollars an hour at Walmart when I met hubs but I had no idea that he even had a job. Guess what? He had a good job. I guess I was just digging gold and taking all his money when I didn't know how much money he even made for a year after I was married to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 02:06 AM
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I can't even respond to so many of you guys. This is just la la land stuff. That girl rejected me but that's because she's wrong and her brain is broken? Oh my I think I might get it. Hubs says that males fallen nature is to want no responsibility. I've never really understood him but here you say when the girl rejects the man it isn't the man's responsibility, but the woman, and then the male hamster tells him it's because her brain is broken not because of anything he did. Cause he bears no re…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 02:04 AM
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A woman not wanting to have sex with you doesn't mean she wishes you any ill at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 01:49 AM
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No it can't you have to actively tell them that their behavior is unacceptable. You have to say no and clearly. It's only sexual harassment after that. Source? I have been sexually harassed and stalked and theirs almost nothing you can do besides take every safety precaution.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 01:48 AM
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When I was a senior in high school I was a teachers aide for my English teacher. She had me grade papers for her. I should have failed 80% of the students but she told me then they'd never succeed in life. Maybe she was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 01:46 AM
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I learned a long time ago that men don't mean friends when they say we're friends. What does dating down even mean? I swear nothing you guys say has any basis in reality at all. If we're dating then I'm not dating down. Ugh please don't tell me you think women should be "distributing sex equally" or some other gross porn sick male fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 01:41 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 01:35 AM
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It's sexual harassment only after you tell the guy to stop and he keeps doing it any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 01:31 AM
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None of what you just said makes any sense at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 01:31 AM
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That's ridiculous. Maybe very pretty women do but not average women. You get just a few guys who approach and then it's them or nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 01:23 AM
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The man has to be aroused for that to happen. The woman does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 01:22 AM
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I think every guy has a few women they don't want anybody to know about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 01:21 AM
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Because the man has to be aroused for the sex to happen. So he must be aroused. For us you don't have to be aroused at all and sex can still happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 01:20 AM
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It's not a little thing done once it's a ton of things over a long time that is the turn off. Men just are blissfully unaware until the moment you don't want to go to bed with them anymore. Then they think oh it was just one little thing. It isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 01:16 AM
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One of my biggest fears is that the guy I'm with is actually gay. My very first boyfriend broke up with me because he wanted to be with other men. In my experience what bothers men is when they find out about guys you went with just to get the validation that he would go with you. I don't think women are going with guys from pity. I never have maybe someone else can tell how their experience was?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 01:14 AM
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No they are not sexual they are more like guys you could be friends with. They get sexually harassing when they try to start making things sexual and don't stop when you tell them you don't want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 01:09 AM
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Is that really true? If you had to choose from a super obese stinky woman or a really hot guy you'd still pick the woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 01:07 AM
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You're mistaken here. Other women prude shame they don't slut shame. I got made fun of for being a prude by other women, at least until I wasn't anymore. A long time ago when I finally became sexually active and took off my promise ring I was talking with my best friend and I remember she laughed and said, you're such a slut! This was a good thing. All my friends were much more accepting of me after. Only a few of my boyfriends have been slut ashamed of me. What's funny is when it happens back t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 01:06 AM
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Don't most guys have a few women they've spent the night with that they don't want anybody to know about?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 12:57 AM
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But what about online dating? They just type this up to every reply you write them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 11:40 PM
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Just have the party anyway. I've already planned Thanksgiving with my sister in law. We'll have about twenty people over.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 11:37 PM
2

No this is wrong. We do like sex we just don't want to have sex with every guy around. Just because we're not men who will sex up basically any woman doesn't mean we don't like sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 11:32 PM
2

Yes ask out girls at school or at Starbucks or wherever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 02:54 PM
1

So then why don't we focus more on helping people live fulfilling lives and reduce suicide?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 05:09 AM
4

Why don't the mediocre guys just date a mediocre woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 04:57 AM
1

Can you put up a picture of this girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 04:27 AM
4

I never used online dating. The world isn't entirely only online dating. Just don't use it. Nobody is making you use it so just don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 04:06 AM
3

If this short Asian man was a charming smooth operator who knew his way around yeah I would notice him. I've gone with two guys I'm sure would surprise the men around here. I'm not proud of it but they were in the right place at the right time and bold. I think that shorter or less attractive guys just usually don't build up the personality that is really attractive. Probably because people are mean to you growing up?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 03:01 AM
12

I'd say 70% of a man's attraction is from his personality. The remaining 30% is from his physical looks. I may even be 80/20%. The way a man acts, how he moves, his confidence, his skill, and then his experience. All of that is his personality or his style, that's how I always thought of it. For women I think it's 50% if she is extroverted and the other 50% is how she looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 02:50 AM
2

If you peel an avocado, slice it in half, then put an over medium egg on top with a slice of provolone you have an avocado egg!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 09:41 PM
2

Go look up her young pictures. Melania Knauss young. Trust me not very bold.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 08:41 PM
0

Never bring her up and throw away anything he has that reminds him of her when he's not around. He'll get over it I guess. Hubs still has this one girl I know he wished would have worked out and that was from thirty years ago. I know he loves me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 08:13 PM
1

I met my hubs at 24 as well!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 07:06 PM
3

I looked up a lot of pictures of Melania trump when she was young. I don't get how she was a super model I think even I was better looking than she was. Then I played a survival game on my tablet that hubs just got us. He got tablets for everyone. Oh and I put locks on all the kids tablets cause second oldest took his to bed and stayed up all night downloading everything that popped up and completely filled the entire thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 07:03 PM
3

Well I'm glad you did meet someone eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 07:01 PM
3

Very harmful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 06:58 PM
4

You don't lose weight at the gym you lose it by eating fewer calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 06:57 PM
2

Why didn't you date when you were young?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 06:51 PM
1

What it actually means is you are going for too low of quality of guys. You actually have to raise your standards which is counter intuitive but that's the real of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 05:03 PM
-1

Ha ha yeah or who knows maybe he'd fall off a roof cause he's so tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 05:00 PM
1

And men fail again
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 06:40 AM
1

Has anyone ever told you that you bounce back and forth between extremes? Black and white thinking? I say no it's not that massive extreme white and your reply is so it's all pitch black. I could say no, it's not all pitch black and then you'll say, so it's a blinding white? It's neither of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 03:24 AM
1

You don't know at all what happened. Hubs was a badly hurt man like so many of you. He gave me a chance and I gave him a chance again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 02:59 AM
7

I don't use social media. I'm not surprised though. Males thought we're just stupid and you can just use us forever until we're old and then throw us away. No responsibilities ever. You all can't lie about what you actually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 02:47 AM
2

I don't want a servant that's what I just said. I don't think I did that on purpose though hubs said I did do it on purpose just not conscious. I think I did know but it isn't what I wanted and I didn't want anything bad to happen. What would you have done? What if you wake up to find that you have a servant? Do you tell him what to do to not be your servant? But then? He is still a servant. So what do you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 02:05 AM
2

I think it's the only part that matters. But no I don't want a servant. But if that's what I got then what now? Should I tell him to not be one? I did that once already. I didn't want anything bad to happen and I did love him. But how could I tell him what to do to be a leader? It's just not even a possibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 01:54 AM
1

Ha ha he said he'd never learn cause that way he never could do the laundry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 01:53 AM
-1

Ha ha he once told me that he doesn't even know how the washer worked and so I tried to show him and he pretended he was retarded and put my shoes into the laundry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 01:16 AM
2

I'm not unpleasant or ungrateful. Hubs just has different ideas about stuff. Let me give an example. A few weeks ago we went to the park on the weekend and tried to play frisbee golf. Later we were at the playground while the kids played and another mom was there with her two kids. She was talking about how she wanted another but her hubs was saying no. She said she stopped taking her birth control though. Then she was talking about how great he is and how he changes all the diapers and how some…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 01:08 AM
4

I bet their is a man somewhere with a very fulfilling life doing just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 12:50 AM
0

Ha ha a few months ago hubs got home and threw all his clothes on the floor, and then toddler took off all his clothes and threw them on the floor as well. Hubs said, "oh I should start putting them in the laundry". Guess what he still does?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 12:46 AM
3

34F. Purpose. Pleasure is a fleeting moment of endorphins. Fulfillment is better than fleeing moments you can not hold on to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 12:44 AM
0

Men don't do housework. They do one batch of dishes then think you'll keep the kids entertained while they play a video game and never consider at all how maybe you want to play a game on a tablet rather than keep the kids entertained so he can play a video game.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 12:35 AM
3

If a man expects that much from you then he needs to provide equal value back.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 12:23 AM
0

My hubs knows he's asking a lot from me to be a home maker. Sometimes I have got pretty angry anyway because they really just don't see it. They don't even realize it at all how much work it is. I just learned to sleep during the day on the couch where I can hold the baby and it won't fall. Meanwhile the other kids wreck the house ha ha ha. Then even if hubs is nice when he gets home I feel terrible because the house is a huge mess. It's really important to have date nights without the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 12:18 AM
1

How ever much you weigh you look really great!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 12:13 AM
1

Ugh is everyone on online addicted to pornography?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 12:03 AM
6

Ha ha ha no hubs just says put this in your phone so you don't forget to remind me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 12:01 AM
10

Every time we have a new baby I get two hours of sleep if I'm lucky. I know my fitbit tells me. Sometimes I would sleep for thirty minutes. It gets to the point where the baby starts to cry so I wake up, take care of baby, and go back to bed while hubs is entirely sound asleep. I'd sometimes get so mad I'd shake him awake but he'd just roll over and go right back to sleep. I don't even think men are aware of this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 11:59 PM
1

What's bde?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 11:55 PM
3

I don't think women make goals this way. Do they? I don't think any of my friends had goals like this. A goal would be to work on a cruise ship for a year or to go visit Greece.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 11:55 PM
2

A man being a strong provider and leader is a part of who he is though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 11:49 PM
1

What does she do for her business?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 11:49 PM
4

In men's defense one of our family friends is going through a covid divorce right now. After friends hub started working from home he realized how little she did and started getting in arguments. I do a ton though but I also know that she did not. We were friends for five years and now that she's getting divorced she won't talk to me anymore at all. I hate it. Hubs also has a friend at work who has a stay at home wife and hubs friend doesn't get home made meals, buys fast food for dinner, and wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 11:47 PM
11

Hubs says everyone is confused and they become who they want to date rather than who the person they want to date would want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 11:41 PM
8

I don't judge my hubs by his wallet. That's not true at all. I also never visioned myself being a stay at home mother either. I do wish hubs didn't have to work so much but he's been able to get down to usually fifty hours a week. I wish it was less. Not so he could spend more time with the kids but so he could spend more time with me. Though the kids are all over him as soon as he gets home. Then they fight over who is getting his attention. Oh I do sometimes wish he was home to use his dad voi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 11:40 PM
1

I really don't want to hear about you rubbing your genitals. Save it for the thirsty guys I'm sure they'll be impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 04:43 PM
5

I bet she invented the red pill!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 04:33 PM
1

The evidence is all around just look around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 03:58 PM
1

Porn turns men into passive do nothings who are women on the inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 03:50 PM
2

Porn addiction and porn sickness are possibly the biggest issues facing men today. Like addicts though males cry and say no don't take away my pornos what will I do without my precious pornos?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 03:07 PM
5

Hubs says porn makes men weak and like a woman. I didn't understand why my fist real relationship was so depressing but I do now. It's because my boyfriend was porn sick. I don't think anyone should be watching it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 02:45 PM
5

It's sex as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 03:58 AM
1

If the woman thinks the guy loves her and is going to be her boyfriend then isn't that rape? Rape by deception? If it isn't it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 03:55 AM
3

Hubs told me today that some guy wanted to go around him in a hallway and he was literally shaking in fear because hubs didn't have a mask on. Can someone die from fear? It's cortisol right and that can kill you I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 03:36 AM
1

Men to men? If these guys were men why would they need advice to be a single moms boyfriend? Shitty guys everywhere already do this without needing any advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 06:05 PM
1

It was a Baptist church. That's what they told us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 06:03 PM
2

So what happens when they get old? What if he dies? Then she just gets to live in poverty? Why would anyone agree to this? This is like single mother ghetto land where everyone has a boyfriend but nobody has a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 04:29 PM
2

She'll get child support no matter what. I've seen family get the guy removed from the house anyway all you have to do is go tell the police he was going to hit you. Plus if they are married what will her family think if she leaves? How would you even feel secure if he won't even marry you? I think you'd be more likely to leave him if he won't marry you and get child support anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 04:03 PM
3

Hard mode? Ha ha ha how terrible are these guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 03:52 PM
5

But if they aren't married what stops her from just leaving for a different guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 03:48 PM
2

That seems more risky than getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 03:24 PM
1

What is a huge age difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 03:18 PM
3

When I was a teen in church they told us about how we could become a born again virgin if we got a promise ring. Later I thought they were trying to get us to lose our virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 03:18 PM
8

No risk no reward. Seems like a dumb strategy to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 03:15 PM
3

Ha ha my hubs is fifty now. I think he was a lot more bothered when he turned forty though. I still worry he's going to cheat on me with a young girl. I don't think every one ages the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 03:13 PM
1

Don't they want a family though?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 03:12 PM
3

Hubs thinks voting is bad and he calls the president everyone's mommy so he really doesn't care who is our new mommy ha ha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 12:28 AM
5

That's hubs and Biden riding a unicorn into the future ha ha ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 11:08 PM
7

Hubs asked me to draw him a picture that he can put in his office and when someone asks him about the election he can just point at it. I'm so happy about how it turned out! I can't wait to give it to him when he gets home! https://i.postimg.cc/4yqZP9tX/2331.jpg The only down side is he wanted it to say it's time for a new mommy but I drew the lettering in pen instead of pencil and didn't leave enough room 😞.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 10:46 PM
5

Isn't 180 pounds pretty skinny for a guy that tall?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 03:13 PM
1

I've been getting messages wanting to sell me heroin and fentanyl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 03:06 PM
2

I've had sex with every guy I've been with the day I met them except one. With him we waited a few months and then decided we should have sex after we were already committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 02:30 AM
1

Wow what a jerk. You deserve way better than that. I bet he's bald and hideous now. Good riddance to that POS.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 02:21 AM
1

Emcel? What's that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 02:15 AM
2

No she's not fat. She's about as pretty as me. Explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 07:58 AM
2

I'm sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 07:57 AM
1

I'm not sure either but find a midwife team. You can't predict when you'll be in labour so find a team and get to know them all. The midwife will be with you through the whole experience. The level of care is a thousand times better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 04:40 AM
0

I don't think any of that is true. Why would you be more likely to cheat if you've been screwed around with losers? Wouldn't you be less likely to cheat cause now you've got lucky and met a winner? I think it means you hold tighter so he doesn't leave you. I think you can predict who is more likely to cheat by the man, not by the woman. The man predicts if she'll cheat. I know I think for sure cause I just saw this happen. Hubs brought a worker home and his wife and told me they were about to ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 04:36 AM
4

Hubs married me. Nobody has still to this day married one of my oldest friends who is still a virgin. If you all care about n count why am I married with a big family and a great hubs while she has nobody and plays her ps4?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 04:17 AM
1

I very strongly suggest midwives. Find a great group of midwives who really care about the experience and will be with you. My hubs has been with me the whole time and their is absolutely a place for him. While in the deepest to have him holding you and guiding you but for the rest of it? No man knows what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 04:15 AM
3

Why would you be sorry? Is it that bad? Ha ha ha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 03:36 AM
7

How are anyone ruined by sex? I'm confused here. How is someone ruined because they wanted to have sex and they did? Because it wasn't with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 03:27 AM
6

Why do men get twice as much room?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 03:26 AM
1

Those were just extroverted girls you were dating. If you were dating an introverted girl she wouldn't have big conversations with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 03:19 AM
2

By what age?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 03:18 AM
2

That's really awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 03:11 AM
1

The smile they are talking about is the smile of the sheep gives to the wolf saying I'm not going to hurt you. Right before the wolf eats the sheep.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 03:10 AM
2

I graduated high school ha ha ha. Hubs says he'd rather be with me because I take care of our kids. I guess you can just put your kids in a child development center 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 02:46 AM
3

What is considered a low m count woman? What about a low n count man?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 02:24 AM
1

Hubs is Danish. I think they are a very good looking people. Tall and just big with blue eyes and dark hair. I'm not sure what I am yet I still have to spit in a bunch of tubes and mail it in. Are you short? If you're just short I think you should try to date short women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 02:18 AM
4

How in the world is it easier for socializing if you're a woman? Not every woman is a social butterfly or an extrovert.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 02:13 AM
-1

I said women don't date servile wimps who get beat up all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 02:11 AM
2

Assertive doesn't mean woman beater.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 02:07 AM
1

My first birth was at a hospital with an angry Russian doctor, a woman, who barely appeared as my first was crowning and just ripped him out. After that hubs told me to do research and we have gone with midwives since. It is such a better experience in every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 02:03 AM
1

No. We already got it at the beginning of the year. Hubs had a real bad time and had to leave work because he thought he was going to black out and was having a hard time breathing. But he says no vaccines ever so it's a big no over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 01:53 AM
2

Ha ha I don't want to work. I'm busy at home all day every day. I never have enough time to get everything done.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 01:50 AM
-1

Jesus did not want everyone to be selfless wimpy servants.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 01:30 AM
2

Oh wow women date assertive men not servile wimps who get beat up all the time? Good thing you have all these studies or I'd never have believed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 01:25 AM
4

Of course it matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 10:40 PM
0

How does beimg selfish and assertive require you to commit the sin of pridefulness?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 10:35 PM
4

It is a thoughtful fun and nice man. Just not one who is a servant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 10:32 PM
2

Did you work at discount tire?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 10:30 PM
1

If you really want it then you'll actually try to get it. These guys don't try.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 05:19 AM
2

Memes are supposed to be funny this one is just sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 05:18 AM
2

It's mind boggling! These people can't even imagine that you'd care about your own children? I'm sure their personalities have nothing to do at all with all their issues though. Surely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 09:53 PM
5

I'd be worried about getting hunted down and going extinct. I'd also wonder if unicorns really were just old timer descriptions of rhinos. I'd go find a hunter and befriend him and he could ride me around. We'd be best friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 01:37 AM
1

Why would I want to appear like I give a poo about what exactly? Also without doing anything? Doing anything about what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 12:37 AM
0

What does based even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 10:54 PM
2

I'm attracted to guys that make me feel sexy. Some have been short, two of them were tall, one of them was chubby, but I think most were just average guys. They just made me feel sexy and that makes me attracted to them. As far as do I understand my own attraction? No definitely not. Hubs like to point it out to me. I don't think women are meant to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 09:22 PM
2

Sorry to hear that. How would it mess with you though? Unless you are just about to have sex how would you even notice?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 08:57 PM
1

They can do a surgery because of that? I wouldn't let it bother you nobody but you is going to care. I didn't even know that chronic masterbating caused it until a few weeks ago when I read a link someone here made.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 08:47 PM
5

Why do you think you were like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 08:12 PM
1

Great men don't sit around waiting for a woman to approach them. By definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 08:11 PM
2

That's just guaranteeing you won't get a great man. I already did that anyway and wasted five years of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 07:39 PM
3

Why would you have a criminal record if you were a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 07:33 PM
1

Do they know what causes a stutter now?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 07:23 PM
0

Well like I said I'm very shy so I would not have made a good man. There are a lot of men that aren't shy though and they seem to do well. Plus they are in the driver's seat. That's a big benefit of the male gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 06:48 PM
2

I wanted a great guy. Great guys don't sit around waiting for a woman to get that desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 06:47 PM
0

Do you like using the internet more for communicating since you can just type what you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 06:45 PM
1

Uh hello I'm married for a decade now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 06:39 PM
2

I just told you. The guys who were going for me were not great.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 06:31 PM
2

I have a great guy. If you mean before hubs what was stopping me was the guys who were going for me were not great.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 06:27 PM
1

It's better for men because they get to choose who they go for. Women just have to hope you get lucky and a great guy goes for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 06:13 PM
4

Creepy guys are guys who don't understand social cues.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 06:12 PM
0

Ha ha ha you're actually scared you'll go to jail if you leave your house? I've seen people with studies that say men who go to jail have girlfriends more often. Maybe some jail would be good for struggling guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 06:11 PM
8

Hubs tried to speak with my brother about dating a long time ago. He just told me that if he wanted to know about women he'd ask me. Back then I thought that was fine but I didn't know as much as I know now. He did tell me he was a pornography addict and he worried because his thing was crooked. I didn't realize that happened to guys because they are chronic masterbaters and I also didn't realize how badly porn sickness ruins males brains. I guess it worked out though. Brother is married now and…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 06:06 PM
18

I'm not an incel and I never was. My twin brother was.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 05:50 PM
8

Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 05:45 PM
32

I'm short and have a very small frame. I'm also very shy and introverted so I'd just sit around and wait for some girl to come talk to me. I also have a twin brother who was an incel until his thirties.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 05:44 PM
6

But you stand out by doing stuff not by becoming prettier. In that sense it's easier for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 05:35 PM
13

This sounds like a good time for you to go talk with your sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 05:27 PM
1

Did you ever learn that women like a rebel? It's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 05:08 PM
142

I'd probably have been an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 04:06 PM
1

I don't think that. I think you misunderstood.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 04:00 PM
1

Their isn't. Nonsense. Next you'll claim nothing exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 10:02 AM
1

I'm not you. I don't care about my looks match. In fact such a thing doesn't even enter into it. It never did. It's a delusion. You're just making up a delusion. Their is no such thing as a looks match. You're just making it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 09:12 AM
1

Are you seriously posting an image of a down syndrome girl for your world view? What paints women in a bad light? That we prefer to date men who know we are people and avoid at all costs guys who refuse to accept that we are people too?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 08:23 AM
1

I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 08:19 AM
2

So you had no boundaries and got walked over? So now you don't trust yourself anymore? When you don't trust yourself you can't trust anyone else. A liar is the easiest person to lie to. They don't know what's true. I would suggest you learn to trust yourself and set good boundaries. This way you can trust others and decide who you will trust and who you won't. Maybe a good year or two journey to find yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 08:11 AM
1

Their is no such thing as looks match. This is saying my orange is the same as your apple. Is the orange firm with a shiny peel like the apple is juicy and just a bit of squeeze? They aren't the same. Nobody thinks this way until they come online and get mind washed by incels claiming they are a victim and puking all over the oranges and apples. Successful males know the woman is a person and they help bring that out of her. That's one part I'm saying to you. We already deny what we are. If you …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 08:05 AM
1

But this is what a woman does. I had to erase my reply when I realized what you are actually saying. The things you are saying is you think you do what a woman does.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 07:30 AM
1

Keep a good attitude and live the best life that you can. It's the only one you get so make it the best you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 07:25 AM
1

How would you know what personality she has? If nobody does or even has one? You're the worst kind of male. Already you wonder if you are a person and one male says you are and I understand you, another says you aren't. Which guy would you go with? What's wrong with that picture? Do you think even ugly people shouldn't have someone to hold?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 07:20 AM
1

I do. I'm a person. Is this why incels fail? You don't see the person? Better than me in money ha. I'm a mother I stay at home. I once had a job where I made eleven dollars an hour. I felt really good about it at the time. Looks? He's a guy. I'm not. He's twice my size. I don't even think I care what he looks like. I care that he cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 06:58 AM
0

Why couldn't they have control over that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 06:54 AM
1

I think I did get lucky. But is he better than me? How would someone even define that? He's different than me. I don't think you can compare this stuff. He's a man. I'm a woman. We're not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 06:42 AM
1

I don't even know what hypergamouse means.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 06:32 AM
1

I just got lucky 😛
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 06:32 AM
1

I'm sorry. What happened? I just avoided it. I don't want to be mean to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 06:31 AM
1

I've been working on a pair of socks for hubs for Christmas but getting the toe right is a challenge! Plus he wants me to make a winter hat for this girl he's got working for him that he calls autistic girl. I think he's messing with me but he says it will be good he'll tell her my wife made this for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 06:31 AM
1

I think I do understand. You want a mom, per say. Some of us don't get that but you can give it. To your children I mean. Maybe you'll have to give what you want. Isn't the song goes you get what you give? Give it then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 06:29 AM
1

Women don't have to be victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 06:28 AM
1

Is this the part where I tell you what a victim I am as well? And now we compete to be the deepest crab in the bucket? No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 06:28 AM
1

Ha ha ha that's just a lie to see what you do though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 06:27 AM
0

I guess you'll have to figure it out then. If you want something bad enough that's what you'll do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 06:26 AM
0

What part of it isn't in their control?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 06:26 AM
-1

That's all fake though, just like online dating. Why don't you just meet someone in person?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 06:20 AM
-1

Why don't you just meet someone in person? That's what I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 05:44 AM
0

But if you go make an online dating profile it says to list everything you want. That doesn't mean what you'll get. It says list everything you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 05:31 AM
2

But you would be able to see their passion and their pain. Oh my. That's the style.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 07:47 AM
1

If you get a sewing machine it's really easy to hem clothes. I think you can make clothes from one as well but I'm not sure how. I can knit clothes though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 07:47 AM
1

Theirs nothing you can do? You can't choose something better? I have to say I don't even know what you're talking about. Hubs says the female fallen nature is the nature of a slut. Hubs says the male fallen nature is the man who will not take responsibility. I think maybe he is wrong here. Their are other fallen males. Why can't you make what you want to exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 07:39 AM
1

That's really great! I'm very short so I never cared about length but I used to have a friend who had to. Hubs found me a website custom jeans dot com and they are really cheap in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 07:36 AM
2

Oh my. This is victim puke. I wish you had a great mother to hug you and a strong father to guide you. Now what do we do?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 07:08 AM
1

Hubs finished a shed in the backyard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 06:35 AM
2

What position? What position? Hope? The hope position?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 06:34 AM
3

Oh men are thirsty boys? Ha ha ha do you think so? I've only ever dated one man who was six foot plus. I'm not saying I don't care. Oh my I dated two ha ha ha. I've only dated two real tall guys. The rest of them? They were tall in my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 06:21 AM
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I've never done that. I've never put anyone down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 06:19 AM
1

No just me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 06:19 AM
1

Hubs said men will go crazy when they figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 06:17 AM
1

Ha ha ha it isn't. It's not their looks. Truth. I'm not saying I don't like an handsome man. But the guys I didn't go with who kept trying? They were better looking than the guys I did go with, physically. It's something else. It's their style.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 06:01 AM
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If you really want something, if that's a relationship, if that's having sex with a person, or if you want something totally different, then wouldn't your life show your true desire? How would it not? If an incel really wanted to have someone to hold would he not do whatever it takes? Even if it means getting shot down a few times? If it was what he really wanted, his true desire and he was being his true self, you'd see it. In who he becomes. Incels want something else. Or they are truly discon…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 05:37 AM
1

You mean the guys who get drunk at the playground where you take your kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 05:12 AM
2

Hubs got me a 23andMe kit but didn't tell me. Now it's here and I'm actually kind of nervous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 03:40 AM
1

Isn't that the strawman?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 03:38 AM
1

Find clothes easily in your size? I have to either buy children's clothes or pay five times as much to get an actual 00. That or I have to go to a thrift store.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 03:37 AM
2

Don't you think the victim mentality is far more harmful?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 03:33 AM
3

I grew up in the south and everyone is race aware. People would talk stuff about blacks, and the blacks would talk back. I had a bunch of black friends while I lived their. Now I'm up in the north and they think they are way less racist, but they only think in stereotypes, and I might see one black person a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 03:32 AM
1

People don't get treated badly in Montana.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 03:29 AM
2

Stardew Valley is really fun
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 03:27 AM
1

Why do they keep asking then?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 10:55 PM
2

I've never known anyone like this but I only have a few friends. I will say that any girl with bulimia is likely completely insane and guys would be smart to avoid them. They don't have any self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 08:30 PM
2

Good makeup takes a lot of effort and skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 08:24 PM
6

Ha ha I did change! I breast fed four kids. Now I've got saggy a cups with stretch marks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 08:20 PM
1

You just stand on your tippy toes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 07:13 PM
1

Wouldn't it be the short woman who vertebra loses since she's always looking up to get kisses?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 07:00 PM
1

I dated a lot of shorter guys before I met hubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 06:57 PM
3

A man raping a woman doesn't mean the woman finds him sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 06:17 PM
0

Why don't short guys just date short women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 06:15 PM
2

No this is male centric nonsense. Males are not selecting the men women want with their male competitions. This is a male fantasy so males can continue to believe they control women's sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 06:09 PM
2

Oh ha ha never mind. I mixed the two things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 06:06 PM
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A c cup is large. What about women with an a cup? Until I had my first child I was smaller than that. Their wasn't even a reason for me to wear a bra. It bothered me a lot but I didn't go around and demand men change their brains so they didn't like large breasts. I didn't let it make me give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 06:03 PM
1

Their are a lot of women that need to do some grooming and start watching makeup videos on YouTube.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 06:01 PM
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Why shouldn't women get to be with someone they find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 05:46 PM
1

Only weird incels say that. Women never said that it's the word incels who did.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 05:42 PM
2

One of hubs friends is a pretty tall handsome guy but he started to go bald a year back. He just does a comb over It made him go from hot to not in a snap. He should just shave his head.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 05:42 PM
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Men like women with large breasts. No woman has control over that unless she gets a painful, expensive, and dangerous surgery. Yet you don't see women going around demanding men change their brains so they don't like large breasts anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 05:38 PM
1

How many men don't get good haircuts, do basic grooming like trimming their eyebrows and keeping their facial hair in good order? Or get their diet in line and do some pull ups every day? A lot. I read something like seven in ten men are overweight now. I mean it's a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 05:33 PM
1

I think three months before you go too crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 09:50 AM
1

Hubs says it will turn you into a woman on the inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 09:49 AM
1

Yeah. He put on all the stove tops when I left him. He was the crazy one. He broke in with the key I gave him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 09:39 AM
2

As I work to understand what you could be. Why won't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 09:00 AM
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I do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 08:58 AM
0

Hubs would eat you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 08:54 AM
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Why don't you understand? A bad man tricked me. He was a bad man. He tried to set our apartment on fire. I told several males. Hubs? He laughed. He just laughed and told me I was stupid. He told me I deserved it. He was right. What do I need to understand? Lost loser males want what they did not get? The wolf didn't go eat, the food walked up to him and committed suicide. Loser males want the sheep to feed him. The wolf just eats the sheep. Which man would I want to follow?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 06:51 AM
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Several per day? Is this what a pretty girl gets? Oh if we all could just be the most beautiful girl. I did braid my hair today and hubs said I looked cute. I guess compliment plus one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 06:11 AM
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By whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 06:06 AM
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How many compliments do you think a woman gets?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 06:01 AM
-1

I can't understand victim mentality? I can. I lived the life of a victim for many years. It made me dumb because it was a lie. When I met hubs he was always telling me how important it was to take responsibility for everything that happens to you. I can admit it all now but I could not then. I told him what a victim I was. He ignored it and told me I was not a victim but in fact I was the perpatrator and he never went along with my victim puke, he always told me that I had to accept it was my fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 05:48 AM
0

I'm not disgusted by men. I love men. I even dated an army man once. I spoke with hubs about it a lot. Army men are turned into followers and become the servant leader. Which isn't a leader at all. They become the best servant you'll ever have. But women don't want a servant. We want a leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 05:42 AM
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Ha ha omg yeah sometimes you get horny. Maybe you rub against the couch. Hubs told me about when he was a teenager he tried to have sex with the vacuum. He said it didn't work. Ha omg OK I once used a collection of paint brushes. I've done worse. Why don't you just get a pocket p-word? Or get a nice girlfriend? Then you'll both be happy!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 05:02 AM
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It means why would a girl care about your self esteem if you don't care about hers when she needs it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 04:46 AM
3

That's actually kind of cute
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 04:22 AM
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This is a misunderstanding of the female sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 04:20 AM
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Oh I'm sure you could find a guy to put it in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 04:19 AM
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Horny loser men who don't care at all about women's low self esteem want women to care about their self esteem?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 04:19 AM
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Ha make a reasonable decision? So now women make reasonable decisions? Trust me when young and horny and filled with alcohol reasonable isn't how I would describe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 04:17 AM
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Gay dudes will fetishisize you. Why not just go gay? You'll get what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 04:11 AM
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Ha ha omg yes! Such a better answer! Maybe we can swap I'll go back in time and be young again only super horny, which I was anyway but I guess male horny, and you get to be pregnant four times for nine months each and push a baby out of your hole. Fair trade!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 04:10 AM
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What would be the point of understanding something we already know?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 03:30 AM
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Ha ha ha yeah he does
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 03:30 AM
1

I like stardew valley a lot. I was playing Kingdom hearts but one of my boys started playing my game so now I don't know where I'm at. Hubs bought us a switch so I could play animal crossing plus he got mine craft for the boys. Oh I also like board games a ton. Uno, Yahtzee, and we've got a bunch more. We just got trial by trolley as a party game and it is so much fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 03:07 AM
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I wish guys could understand how to be good leaders. More guys. Hubs says you can't lead someone into being a good leader. He says you can just point out to guys that theirs a way up and out of where they are. It reminds me of a story I heard at church. There's a man drowning in the ocean and he cries out, "God save me!". Then a rope ladder falls from the heavens and the man thrashes about and drowns. In the afterlife he asks God, why didn't you save me? God replies did you not see the rope ladd…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 02:35 AM
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Well sometimes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 02:32 AM
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Ask former girls? Ha ha ha. How would I even meet his friends until we're already going steady? Tell me about yourself? Oh that's a good one. Nobody ever tries to get to know the person they are going with. I'm sure if I had just tried to get to know them they would have said, "I'm actually a huge loser going nowhere you should avoid me at all costs". I'm not even sure it's worth getting into what dating is actually like for a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 01:07 AM
2

So you're just not going to address anything I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 11:19 PM
2

So if you were a horny teenager who didn't know much and every girl around you was trying to get into your pants, and you wanted them to, would you then be solely the only person responsible for the outcome? Even if we accept your moral claim of responsibility here so what? Young women aren't thinking in this crazy way you want, nay, demand that they do. Just that sex feels good and I want to have it. Also where would you get plan B? Unless your parents take you how are you going to get birth co…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 11:08 PM
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Your guys understanding of women and dating from a woman's perspective is so insane and wrong that their is nothing to talk with you about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:11 PM
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I've been married for a decade so my plan worked somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 08:30 PM
2

So I just get online and order the brofax so then I know?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 08:23 PM
2

I was finally able to find hubs a pair of jeans he likes! He's always complaining that he can't find any pants that fit around his thighs. He's got really large legs so he only wears shorts even in the winter. But I found a pair of relaxed fit jeans and I just bought him a size that was too large and told him he can just wear a belt. And now he's wearing those!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 07:27 PM
2

When I met hubs he tried to not let me know where he lived. He kept trying to rent hotel rooms. He'd say but this one has a hot tub but I talked him into taking me home. I'm glad I did. Later he told me he didn't want girls to know where he lived because once he broke it off with them he didn't want any crazy girl coming over to go crazy or to stalk him. And once I knew where he lived I just moved in with him ha ha ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 07:25 PM
1

Libertarians are liberals.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 07:22 PM
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How are we supposed to know which guy is serious and which one isn't? You all claim that it's attractive guys doing it but it isn't. Ugly guys do it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 07:06 PM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 06:57 PM
1

So what's the plan? We just let children starve? It's easy to critique how about you go beyond that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 08:13 PM
1

You can't follow until he leads.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 08:13 PM
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You can't follow someone who doesn't lead
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 07:49 PM
1

So do you think the good men were trying to help the most amount of people?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 06:05 PM
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We sit their so we can follow. That's the only thing we can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 06:03 PM
0

If I sit next to you in the car at the 7-11 and I don't tell you what to do it's so that I can follow you in what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 05:22 PM
1

What does modal mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 05:21 PM
5

Why are so many males so desperate to abandon all of their own responsibilities?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 02:20 PM
1

Don't be porn sick in my thread. But yes I just do what he says.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 02:19 PM
1

You mean the incentive for men to create new single moms. Men are creating the single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 02:16 PM
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Him
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 09:13 AM
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Ha ha ha no. How would we know anything about that? Don't be stupid. We know we're young, we're horny, and here's a guy who says come over here to be with me alone. I'm not young anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 05:22 AM
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Hubs takes responsibility. Males are held to it. And males can't stop but trying to take what is placed on them and put it on anyone else, even children. What hubs takes on himself. That's why
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 05:11 AM
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Ha. He tried to get exactly what I wanted at the time. I have a question from you. Why can you not understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 03:54 AM
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Why did you say quite the opposite when you meant exactly what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 03:53 AM
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This isn't the same thing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 03:51 AM
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HA. No I just wanted him to just fuck me. I wanted to get fucked. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 03:29 AM
1

Because you're idea assumes young people are robots and we're all just computers?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 03:28 AM
1

Why not just get every girl's tubes tied at eleven? Or cut off their clits? Anything and everything so that men do not have to be responsible. Hubs keeps saying this is what you're like. I can't believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 03:27 AM
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And what power do you have to enforce your delusional fantasy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 03:25 AM
1

You really don't
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 03:24 AM
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They do have miserable lives. It doesn't matter. As a once young girl I wasn't thinking about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 03:09 AM
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So that children don't starve. WHAT I WROTE IN THE ORIGINAL POST
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 02:48 AM
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No it isn't. I was a young girl once. I thought I'm horny. I thought this man wants me to go be alone with him. I did not think anything at all about anything else And history shows when males abandon all responsibility we just get street urchins. Welfare came after. Welfare did not come first. The street is wet because it is raining.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 02:25 AM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 02:21 AM
2

He takes responsibility for his own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 02:19 AM
2

Who takes care of the kid so you can go to work all day?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 02:19 AM
0

So then put the guy in jail and then what? The child starves?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 02:18 AM
2

No you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 02:18 AM
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Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha! No. You guys really just have no clue what is going on at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 02:17 AM
1

And yet here we are right again right back at my original post. Read my original post again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 02:17 AM
1

But only her action cause she did it by herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 02:14 AM
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Don't want the child don't have sex with the girl without a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 02:11 AM
1

He isn't like you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 02:10 AM
1

You mean let the children starve
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 02:09 AM
2

A teenage girl doesn't have the same agency as a twenty five year old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 02:01 AM
2

I don't agree that women are the selectors.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 02:01 AM
1

If you have a point I'll engage in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 02:00 AM
0

So when two young teens who are ruled by hormones mess up we just put them both in jail?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 02:00 AM
1

Now we're just back to the entire point of my post. Women aren't thinking about the children of the future when they are a horny teenager. They are thinking I'm horny and this guy wants me to go hang out with him alone. And the result will be starving children.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 01:58 AM
3

How about men use a condom? How about men don't have sex with us unless they are prepared for what it can mean? Why do only women have to have all of the responsibilities even unto creating bizarre put mothers in jail scenarios? Nonsense scenarios? How about men just take some responsibility for what they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 01:56 AM
4

Women can only choose from the men who approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 01:48 AM
1

Ha even my hubs when I just met him tried to not use a condom. I made him at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 01:45 AM
0

So while he is in jail the children just starve?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 01:42 AM
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Yes. He's my hubs I listen to him and respect him. He's the greatest man I've ever known. I'm not a single mother. I just have this trait that is somehow missing in so many males. Empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 01:39 AM
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Ha ha ha oh no. That's not it at all. They are usually far below your relationship league. They are just in your sex league.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 01:38 AM
1

I know?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 01:37 AM
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Every male plan involves zero responsibility on the man at all. Males want zero responsibility and zero accountability and just somehow expect a horny teenage girl to act like a wise old woman. Every male plan involves placing the entire burden for everything including his own choices into the women. And then you just try to shame women into accepting it. Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 01:36 AM
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Yes the welfare does work. Now we don't have street urchins. Children don't starve unless they have truly bad parents. Parents meaning both the mother and the FATHER. How come none of your plans ever involve the males taking any responsibility at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 01:34 AM
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So the males get the girl pregnant and then put a sword over her head and say you'll be impoverished and the child will starve unless you somehow come up with the aborting money and figure out how to do it? So when this male plan to abandon all responsibility ends with a bunch of starving urchins then what? Welfare again and males complaining about having to have a little slice of responsibility for the children they make, again?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 01:32 AM
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Oh another male blame shifting all responsibility to naive young girls. Also I'm sure history is far more complex. You just stating that isn't helping me to understand better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 01:29 AM
2

Yet in the past of our history that I read about in high school they couldn't find a way to get money. So the kids starved, were put to work in terrible conditions, or just abandoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 01:27 AM
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If a male leaves a girl he put a baby in how is that not a financial abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 01:26 AM
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No. Males are creating fantasy nonsense worlds because the idea of males taking responsibilities for their own weiner and their own children is so shocking to so many males.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 01:26 AM
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I've never known anyone like that but when I was young I knew women who had their boyfriend living with them in secret. The economy is a real mess hubs tells me about all the homeless he sees now. I'm lucky I met him and he's got such a great ambition but he tells me how bad things are getting. I'm not sure how to fix the economy so people can survive on the jobs they can have.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 01:24 AM
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Strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 01:22 AM
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But their wasn't fewer children in the Victorian Era their were a lot more. Young women don't think about is this guy going to have a lot of money and take care of the baby they think I'm horny and this guy wants to take me to his room alone. Plus males lie. They will straight lie and say that they will take care of the child and then just bail anyway. If you get rid of welfare all the children will still be born, only now they will suffer horribly. The real issue is men refusing to take respons…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 01:21 AM
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And the men who create those children and then abandon the mothers? Why let's give them a medal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 01:17 AM
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When we had a society filled with abandoned children, starving children, child labor, and innocent children suffering responsible men and women chose to create welfare. You have a better plan? I've got one. Men start taking some responsibility for what you do with your thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 01:15 AM
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Men could not go have sex with young naive women. Why do they have sex? It's possibly the most powerful instinct we have and also very pleasurable. We are made to do it. But my gosh suggest men stop getting young naive women pregnant and then abandoning them? Oh no that's expecting a male to take responsibility and only women should have responsibilities. Also I'll say it again welfare is a pittance. It's nothing. It's barely enough so the kids don't starve.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 01:14 AM
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You're just repeating yourself now. Let's consider the women who may be stupid, may have poor impulse control, may have parents who aren't engaged or even no parents. And some male who nobody can tell to take responsibility to without you guys blame shifting everything to women comes along and puts a baby in her? Now what? We let that innocent child starve?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 01:10 AM
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Women aren't having children to get more welfare. Welfare is a pittance. They are having children because they like sex and they have sex, which then gets them pregnant. As far as your comment about why should average tax payers incentivize more of this behavior? That's what my post is about. That is not what is happening. What is happening is the children were their, starving in the streets, so then welfare was created. That's literally the point of my post. To discuss how you guys do not under…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 01:07 AM
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I'm not going to address the first part of your comment as I've addressed it with the other people here. But for the latter part? The reason to provide welfare to those mothers is so their children don't starve to death in the streets or get sold into a coal mine. Welfare was created to ameliorate the suffering of the innocent children.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 01:04 AM
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Yes I'm sure we can all expect young naive women raised in a cycle of poverty with parents who aren't engaged to not only be responsible for their part, but for the male part as well. "Just take responsibility" says all the males who then completely refuse to take responsibility for the child they created.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 01:02 AM
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Yet the debate is shifting to repealing roe vs wade not providing young women easy and free access to abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 01:01 AM
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What about young women raised in a cycle of poverty? Often raised by a single parent themselves? Who is going to help them get on birth control and help them understand they need to take it every single day at the fame time every day? The rest of what you said? The women have to take responsibility because the men don't. A man gets her pregnant, and then he bails. He doesn't take care of his own child so now it is up to her. And when this resulted in so much suffering of innocent children then t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 12:56 AM
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Society does shame single mothers. Hubs won't allow us to hang out with anyone but other married families and he often speaks ill of single moms. The other day he made up a very denigrating song about them and sang it to me all day long. You know a way to not have single mothers everywhere? Men stop getting these women pregnant. I know one of these shocking ideas that require male responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 12:53 AM
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The young women who end up as single mothers often don't have parents who are engaged enough to go help them get an abortion. Other women are against aborting on moral grounds. How about men just stop getting naive young women pregnant? Can't do that? Then what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 12:51 AM
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Women aren't having casual sex with men out of our league. We're having it with fuck boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 12:25 AM
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I did it because the first guy wasted five years of my life. He wouldn't have sex with me and we had sex maybe twice a year. Then he got a surgery he didn't need and right after getting back to work he quit his job and told me he couldn't work anymore. He was like having a child and when he touched me I felt like throwing up so I cheated on him and then I told him and he still didn't break up with me. So I just kept doing it and telling him I was until the other guy told me to move out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 06:30 PM
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The way you write is the way a porn sick man would write. I don't need to do anything to make my hubs not watch porn he's the one who explained to me how badly it's ruining men. I don't need to lead him to not be a porn addict. I don't need to lead him in our sex life. He already leads. He says the reason so many guys want a woman to lead is because the porn sickness has turned the guys into women on the inside. You know what I did when I wasted five years of my life with a porn sick follower ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 05:55 PM
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The man who doesn't look at porn leads his woman to be the woman he wants. The porn sick man just expects her to lead him and then gets sad when she doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 05:17 PM
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The woman just responds to the man. All this "the woman isn't good at sex" baloney is from porn sickness.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 05:15 PM
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I don't know what you are talking about anymore nor do I know why you just got so defensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 04:45 PM
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Guys who are bad at sex have bad sex lives and blame the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 04:44 PM
2

Kind of like the chicken and the egg problem right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 04:37 PM
1

Effort is everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 04:37 PM
2

You mean if you're in a dead bedroom? I was once. You just have to find a new man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 04:36 PM
3

One way to spot a man who is bad at sex is he complains all women are bad at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 03:05 PM
3

Hubs has stories of girls he dated who were delusional because of social media so I believe that as well. I barely used it and he told me to erase it all years and years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 02:59 PM
2

They all go like that except for one I've seen where the average looking guy was hanging out with obese poly weirdos and even they got divorced last year. The only reason I even know what those freaks were doing was because he's my brother. Hubs still said we can't hang out with them anymore. Of course his hamster convinced him he really liked obese colorful hair women but now that he's got a main one he wants her to get her stomach stapled. For her health.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 02:58 PM
2

You try so you can succeed? What kind of question even is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 01:52 PM
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I think it's the biggest reason we have an epidemic of delusional losers these days
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 01:52 PM
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I don't even think it's about raising or lowering standards. I think men are just delusional now. Before hubs decided that we would only spend time with other married families I'd say that his bachelor friends all massively overestimated their league. I think it was because they were very unaware of which women were actually interested in them because they just didn't really try. They all wanted a very attractive girl to just show up and ask them out. Then we have had married friends who do the …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 01:00 PM
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I just like to read it on yahoo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 04:38 AM
4

This morning hubs went to the bathroom and came back singing a song to himself. He sang it to me and said he just made it up. He calls it the strong and independent single mother song ha ha ha. Then he went to work and when I called him he was all excited and told me he had come up with the next two verses and a chorus and he sang it all day long as we talked. I wrote it down for him. He keeps singing it and laughing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 01:51 AM
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I think it's very real and helps me understand hubs. Ha ha but I also read horoscopes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 01:43 AM
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I didn't say it was smart, a good idea, or anything like that. It isn't smart, it's a terrible idea, but I don't know what else to say to you. I can't change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 01:41 AM
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It's not a hive mind but just one part of what makes a man attractive. The status he has. But men misunderstand it so badly. It's not male status it's the status in the woman's world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 01:34 AM
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Maybe I'm dumb but I have my hubs and I listen to him. What do you have? The TV? And you get mad at me for trying to help the best I can now that I've learned so much so I try to pay back what was gifted to me? Males
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 07:27 AM
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I get you think this. You're wrong. Males want to be something else. Most of them anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 06:48 AM
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Most males entire life is pleasing you. The best servant ever, is what males tell you they'll be. Compete to be the best servant ever. I can't even describe the embarrassment. Another group of males says to you, do this. Do that. I don't even know what to say. The group who says do this, do that, isn't the same group who has a yacht and a lot of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 06:44 AM
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Ha ha ha maybe for the really pretty girls. I'm just an average girl but telling you how I see it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 06:40 AM
1

To be with you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 06:40 AM
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You just don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 06:39 AM
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They want a mom. I think I understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 06:35 AM
1

Women have full dominion over the status of the men women want. By wanting. It must make men go insane. Hence males claim they are the ones, and nonsense follows. He has a big boat. He won the ball throwing competition. Oh my, anything a male can't control. You can't control this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 06:28 AM
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Men don't look at that. Most of men don't even know he exists anymore. Men look inside at their own ego and say, if I were a girl, I'd go with the guy I want to be. Men absolutely do not at all do what you say. Males do not look at the guys women go with and say I want to be that guy. Males do not even acknowledge reality! No man would look at the guy women want and say I want to be him, except now I'm old enough to tell you this. Just open your eyes and look around. It's happening all around yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 06:16 AM
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No they don't. But they could
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 05:52 AM
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It is far worse than you think
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 05:52 AM
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Men look at it wrong though. Men can't think of who has that status, and must think it is what they look up to. Hence men are totally wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 05:43 AM
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This is just the male ego again. The men with status in a woman's world may not have any power at all in the man's world, though they could. Perhaps they don't though. Likely they don't have any power in the male world at all. Can a male imagine that? A man with no power at all in the male world, with all the power in the women's world, as far as the status goes. Why can't men see it? It must make them crazy if they do so they deny.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 05:41 AM
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He tries?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 05:36 AM
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It's not black and white like that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 05:11 AM
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You all can't stop. Men must define the status that women want. You don't. Women define it and no it isn't the captain of the sportsball team.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 05:09 AM
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Ha ha ha like the guy with a big boat who sleeps on a pile of money and takes pictures with girls in bikinis that men want to be. The guy men want to be is not the guy women want to take them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 05:06 AM
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Not where I live
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 05:04 AM
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I should learn to write this better but this is the crux of it. Men don't make it. Women make it. Women want the status of the woman's world not your world. Men just can not accept that we don't want your status world. It's just nonsense. You all sound insane when you try to tell us that we want your status world. This does not match my life or my friends lives at all. None. The male status world is a world I do not think about at all when I'm thinking I want or don't want to go with a guy. I li…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 05:02 AM
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You're still just doing it! No my claim is your guy status world is nonsense! No girl cares about the guy with a big boat unless other women actually want him to take them. You're still claiming the male status world is the women's status world and it is not. Don't care that you want to be him so you can drive around a big boat while some bikini girls sit next to you in a picture. Brooding tall man with nothing that every girl wants to talk to? Why every girl wants him to talk to her. So I want …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 04:58 AM
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It must make men insane in some way to imagine that women are deciding this status and no matter how many boats you buy or how much TV you show it's still not real. Women decide the status that women want. Males just keep wishing they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 04:54 AM
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The guy every other girl wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 04:52 AM
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No. Men think other men want to be him, so he must have status. But he only has male status. That's not what matters to women. What matters to women is do other women want him. You're all getting very confused by this. I think the confusion is men want to believe they are the granters of this status and you are not. Women grant this status.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 04:52 AM
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If I were to imagine two men in a room, one with male status and the other with female status, men would claim the one with male status is the one women want. Or the one they showed you on the TV is the one you'd say you want to be like. I call this talking to a brick wall. Cause we both are. Only a male would even think Zuckerberg exists at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 04:49 AM
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You're still doing it. You are still thinking that the status you care about is the same. It isn't. Oh he has a boat? Thinks no one ever. It's even just on the short list of is he funny, confident, tall, in control, but the status part is the status that we will actually see. Has a boat, other men want him, other men do what he says, none of that is on the list. How would you even know? It isn't the status you see. In fact I would dare say most males can't see it at all. It's the status you can'…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 04:28 AM
3

Why not just give each other respect and kindness anyway? I went back to the city not very long ago and I was just shocked at how rude everyone was and not even to me! They were just rude to each other constantly. I noticed they look down all the time and are almost unaware of what's going on around them at all. Like they are in a cacoon now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 04:10 AM
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Ha ha yeah I guess. Something happens to people in a dense city. It's almost like they check out. Maybe sensory overload? They are rude all the time and barely aware of anything even happening around them much less that other people are real and exist around them. It's very bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 03:49 AM
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Guys can get fucked just like they want and imagine in their pornos if they just finally accept the fact that they are gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 03:31 AM
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Yeah some of them. Not the places I think people would expect at all either
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 03:31 AM
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Where I live now people are all nice to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 03:20 AM
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If your girlfriend isn't up to snuff then communicate better with her. How is she supposed to know what you like and want from her if you don't tell her? You can't just expect women to read your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 03:19 AM
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Since most modern males want a woman who fucks them I bet most of these guys will love this idea. Why not just go gay already boys? It will be just like your pornos
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 03:10 AM
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What is up with this bizarre modern male desire that women 'participate' aka lead in the deed? It's from pornography addiction isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 03:09 AM
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They shouldn't because it is
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 03:07 AM
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Don't you want to live in a world where people are nice to each other? At least a modicum of respect for everyone? Or would you all rather live in a world where nobody is kind ever just because every girl you meet doesn't have sex with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/20 03:06 AM
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I did it to look good for hubs as I was nearing thirty. He told me I already looked good but I can tell he likes it. Especially the eyes and lipstick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 02:00 PM
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Why do so many men around here have a victim mentality? It's super unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 01:48 PM
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I didn't learn makeup until I was late twenties. Youtube is filled with great makeup tutorials. You can really improve how you look with some effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 01:46 PM
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Hubs says the boomers all met their wives by taking a six pack down to the local high school. That's how his dad met his mom. My dad took the six pack down to the middle school 😅. And then the boomers were so ashamed because of porn that they put up a fence around the girls and all it did was make sure they only met the guys who ignore the fence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 03:21 AM
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Like I said good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 02:52 AM
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Which girl gets to speak for everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 02:42 AM
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Good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 02:18 AM
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Because we have to
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 02:08 AM
1

You can't fat shame but thin shaming people is perfectly fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 02:02 AM
1

Obese people are malnourished because their diet of potato chips, soda, and breakfast cereal has no nutritional value.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 01:48 AM
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Women don't care about money or status either. They care about what other women think about the man but other men are blissfully unaware of this. And money? Women aren't thinking about money when they go with a guy. This is male projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 01:29 AM
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How would I even have a choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 01:21 AM
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You're just imagining what you would care about if you were a woman. Looks, money, and status are things men care about. Women care about how he acts in all kinds of situations, his body language, his confidence, sense of humor, and personality. Looks matter of course but the rest of those things matter as well. Money and status are things men care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 01:15 AM
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Hubs says that other guys will spread rumors that you're a bad man who tricks women and its because they have women on a pedestal and think that women want what men want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 12:57 AM
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Ha I knit blankets but I guess you could use it for a dog and cat
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 06:47 AM
1

That's what I just said duh 😛
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 06:46 AM
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Jessie!!! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 06:46 AM
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It's all just money laundering though. Ha ha my gosh but I'm stupid, and I am, yet none of you even see it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 06:45 AM
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To never see your kids laughing. If you can't stand it, I'll share
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 06:44 AM
1

Why do you think you chose a life like that? It's not no kids I've got four and we are making more. Their are kids. If you are feeling really bad about it I can share with you pm.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 03:00 AM
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No he says she's one of the best. I don't think he's mean to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 02:55 AM
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Ha no. I'm listening to an audio book about giants and I talk to hubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 02:49 AM
1

Do you have any kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 02:30 AM
1

What do you mean plating? Ex pat means you moved out of the country? I moved to a few states and lived in Canada for awhile when I was young. If nobody can get money from the bank then do you think they'll all buy houses and condos and stuff to rent? But if everyone is getting evicted then rent should go down right? If rent goes down how will anyone pay for their mortgages? Hubs said it will take awhile to play out. Ha I guess I am worried some.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 02:03 AM
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He said if their was paper money nobody would keep it in the bank anymore. Plus we need deflation and some other stuff lol. I dunno. He says he was hoping housing prices would go down but that he thinks the bubble will be reinflated because negative interest rates, and that's why they are getting rid of paper money. He says we'll buy more next year. So they can't have negative interest rates unless nobody can take paper money out of the bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 01:46 AM
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Hubs says a lot of people are getting evicted but rent still isn't falling and that they are going to get rid of paper money to do negative interest. And he said this means houses will only cost even more. Maybe it depends on where you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 12:47 AM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 12:26 AM
6

Hubs got a new person working under him and she's a girl. I was so jealous right away. He calls her the autistic girl and says she has a mustache and can't even talk but I can't help it lol. When he realized how much it was bothering me he started saying her name all the time but pretending it was an accident
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 12:01 AM
5

Why do you think the construction industry will be hit?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 11:54 PM
2

Hubs says to ignore the election because voting is a trick. Amazon still has t-18 toner that I need anyway. What's the worst? I'll just have trashy girl roots for a bit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 11:13 PM
2

I only have to get it done every six weeks and I bought a two set. I'll just order more in like a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 10:53 PM
2

Why would I buy more than one?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 10:47 PM
2

Lucky for me one of my sister in laws does hair so I paid her to touch up my roots. But they were sold out of the toner I needed. I had to order it online and pay out the nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 10:44 PM
0

I read a story about that and it's just a way for guys to launder money. Girls aren't making money doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 10:40 PM
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Ha ha I already stay home and teach my boys and hubs already makes all the money. I've been thinking about selling clothes I knit but I don't know how and I really don't have much time. What I've seen is divorces happening since now the guy is home and he sees just how lazy his wife is. I've got friends who are home schooling now but still don't pay any attention and just put their kids in front of a computer. They can do it now since they are now work from home. They don't want to send their ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 10:39 PM
2

What are collagen supplements? I've still got loose skin from my last pregnancy but now it just looks like super wrinkles on my tummy. I figured the only thing that would help was time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 05:42 PM
1

No it's the pornography. It turns them into women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 04:53 PM
1

Masculinity, leadership, protection, sense of humor and conversation are a few more I can think of off the top of my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 03:22 PM
7

Why not just teach people to have good boundaries?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 03:20 PM
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If you're nice to them then you would just get accused of having an collection of beta orbiters.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 02:12 PM
2

Do you guys only consider a males value his money?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 02:07 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 01:48 PM
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Of course she didn't. If he wants those things he has to
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 01:48 PM
1

Nobody acts that way in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 01:23 AM
1

But nobody is perfect. Everyone has some flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 01:03 AM
-4

Did you ever tell her to dress sexy? Did you ever ask her what she liked? Did you kiss her?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 12:48 AM
1

Yes. I went with the attractive guys. But you do not understand what that means
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 04:32 AM
0

Somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 03:15 AM
0

Then why do guys get mad?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 03:15 AM
1

How about 0 - 1 - 2. Ha ha the 2 guys weren't really interested in me 😛
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 02:36 AM
0

I think it turns them into women on the inside
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 02:11 AM
8

I think most guys just want a girlfriend and if they wanted more variety they could get it if they tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 01:33 AM
-1

They were old men except for the young guy who was incredibly weird and I thought might kill me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 01:32 AM
0

I've never accused anyone of sexual harassment. I think the things that bothered me the most was back when I was twenty I worked at a gas station and old guys would really creep me out. One guy gave me a skeleton and told me he understood me. Another guy gave me some box I never opened and threw away. Later he asked me if I opened it and I said no and he told me their was a bunch of money in it. One time I hid in the bathroom and then called the police because this guy stayed in the gas station …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 01:22 AM
16

For men it's because only a few guys try. I don't think most guys actually want to be promiscuous. Most want a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 01:06 AM
13

I'm a millennial but I see the younger guys. They are very feminine. They lack ruggedness and are very timid. A lot of guys were like that in my generation but it's gotten so much worse. Not only are they feminine and timid but they are all passive or passive aggressive, I don't see much for assertive men in the zoomers. I think most of them are addicted to pornography.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 01:00 AM
1

It's more like an is attractive or is not attractive scale for physical attraction. So it's a 0 - 1 scale physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 12:53 AM
1

If a cute girl told you that you had a nice butt wouldn't it feel different to you than if a big fat girl who needed to shower did the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 12:48 AM
0

Why does this fact make men so upset?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 11:13 PM
1

I didn't feel any pressure at all. The only pressure I got was to put out and not be a prude. Until I met my hubs and he told me we were getting married I hadn't even thought about it. I know a lot of my friends wanted children when I had my first (twenty four) but they were not financially stable. Luckily for me hubs had worked for a long time to get himself into a really great career. But at the same time he didn't have any time to waste. Sometimes we both wish we had been able to spend more t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 11:10 PM
1

I don't have any kind of 1 - 10 scale is what I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 11:03 PM
0

I've gone pretty low I think. I can't use this scale though. If I find a guy attractive and I'm horny around then and he approaches me then I went with him. I've found a lot of men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 10:54 PM
1

What does cinematography mean exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 10:46 PM
1

Ha ha I don't like them myself but I do love that feeling as well
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 10:46 PM
1

It's in the book Dataclasm by the okcupid people from years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 10:45 PM
2

It's nice to not just be forced to stay with the first person
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 10:44 PM
1

I hate those kinds of movies. What's a J horror?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 10:43 PM
2

I like watching them with hubs because he'll explain the underlying human fear behind the movie and how the movie does it right and what it does wrong. We don't watch gore or torture flicks though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 10:42 PM
1

I'm not asking if it's dumb I'm wondering if it's true
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 04:46 AM
3

I don't like them but my hubs does. But real horror he hates the torture stuff. I like how he analyzes it. How he explains what the real fear is. I didn't like to watch them for a long time but he would say we're watching a comedy and was there with me. I guess for a long time I didn't like it, not at first for sure. But I do now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 04:43 AM
1

You didn't like that girl then? Even though you both liked horror movies (I don't) and you spent that time together. That still wasn't enough for you to keep things going? But just enough at the start?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 04:40 AM
3

Yet the study says the most important question for compatability is do you like horror movies. I'm not the one claiming it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 04:34 AM
1

But you two were a couple and not a nothing. So what if she covers her eyes? Maybe she just doesn't want to see the trauma. You never say if you and the girl who would cover her eyes were a couple or not. So is the premise true?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 04:08 AM
1

I don't know what those people are like. Why were they so into horror movies?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 04:06 AM
3

I wonder if it is that's why I was asking. Why would that one compatability question be the most relevant? If it's other things that increase compatability then what are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 04:01 AM
1

I said masculine not muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 01:39 AM
1

No one trips over anything to marry a virgin. When I was a virgin with a promise ring on going to church every Sunday, in church activities, wanting to get married nobody at all was trying to marry me. Can you guess what they were trying to do? My friend who never took her promise ring turned thirty this year. She finally took it off and said she's got her wizard powers. Want to marry her because she's pure? She still wants to get married. Go marry her. Nobody tries. A lot of people tried with m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 01:37 AM
3

I've rejected men I thought were attractive and later watched them and hoped they would come over again. They just came over at the wrong time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 02:48 AM
2

I think I'm probably a five. I've never used online dating and barely used social media, which my hubs told me to erase ten years ago. I found a lot of guys attractive in my time but the majority of them never did anything. There was one time one of my exs met my husband and I and I was shocked at how short and ugly he was. I used to think he was very attractive. I might have thought he was still attractive if I didn't have hubs standing next to him. I never thought I deserved anything. Some guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 02:43 AM
1

The woman probably mistakenly thought the guy was flirting with her and when he stopped, or she realized he wasn't, she then wonders what he's doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 02:35 AM
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Simple men call complex broken. Women are just more emotionally complex than men. Masculine men get this and it doesn't bother them, in fact they harness it. Other men get very upset that women aren't as simple as they are. A male thinks my peter is pressing into my pants, I must be horny. With a woman it's a bit more complex. Simple man then gets angry that woman isn't as simple as he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 02:34 AM
3

I watched a few minutes of that video. The entire dynamic is weird and unattractive. I'm glad I never used online dating it looks horrible. How are men even supposed to appear attractive when the entire dynamic is supplicating? In a scenario like that I'd just pick the tallest hottest guy. The entire group thing is so awkward as well. The guys don't look like they are being themselves at all just putting on a front and how would you expect a girl to respond with everyone watching her the entire …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 01:55 AM
1

I think fathers are just going to have to teach their daughters about their darker nature and what the consequences of embracing it are. Right now women are not taught anything about their own nature. Instead we are taught that we are good so when we do something bad we just assume it's actually good. It's pretty confusing actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 01:32 AM
2

They marry average normal women with a normal healthy sex drive. They don't marry virgins at all and they don't marry the two groups you said either. But I guess when you don't have an argument just put words in my mouth and then say they're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 01:26 AM
1

Men don't marry low n women though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 12:49 AM
2

Is everyone here a weirdo or what
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 12:47 AM
1

If alpha vs beta is a spectrum then wouldn't the goal be a man with enough alpha traits that he is mostly faithful and when he slips up he doesn't rub it in while enough beta traits that he's a good father and provider?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 12:32 AM
2

That's fair!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:27 AM
2

That's a long time for a girl to wait and hope he's actually got a plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 03:17 AM
2

My husband and I got married after three months.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 11:28 PM
1

Does he kiss you when you're sad? Super cuddles that's what I call it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:46 AM
1

No you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:44 AM
2

So men watch too much porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:37 AM
1

My hubs says voting is evil. And I've never voted
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:34 AM
1

But how could we do that? I don't understand how
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:34 AM
2

But we can't choose that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:09 AM
1

Nobody wants to be that person
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:09 AM
2

No we think he's might be my husband! The man who takes me forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:04 AM
1

And I did. Because my husband made me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:03 AM
2

Why don't you tell this to a girl when she is still a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 02:17 AM
4

But you don't want sluts?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 01:39 AM
1

I'm not sure I understand. But me and my friends who are married we didn't wait. We "gave" sex. Sex isn't something you give. I think their is a misunderstanding. I don't get what you are saying. Sometimes my husband is the most attractive man I've ever seen. And sometimes he isn't. He still looks the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 01:38 AM
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No it's the exact opposite. How do you not see it? It's men who refuse to accept responsibility. What responsibilities of a man's life do you think strange women need to accept? It's you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 01:33 AM
2

😄 thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 01:31 AM
0

That's part of how you know they are high value. But you still have to look out as so many low value men just act that way as well. Hmm. What do you mean when you say look matched? I don't understand what this actually means.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 01:07 AM
1

My dad was a single dad. Why didn't he just go for a single mom as well? I always wondered
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:58 AM
4

I thought you all cared about virginity though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:41 AM
1

This looks match talk is male think. I've gone with a great variety of men and at first I'm not thinking anything at all about keeping him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:41 AM
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They would be happy if the girl was actually a man and he came and asked them out, took them out, and had sex with them. How many healthy body weight virgins are around? A million? Fifty million? You say men would be happy to be with one of them. But they do not go and make it happen. Another. Male. Lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:38 AM
2

We're coming up on our ten year anniversary. This was a long time ago
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:17 AM
7

Are you asking women to go on official dates and then marrying them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 11:58 PM
6

Religious men don't go marry a virgin either. They lie about it like the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 11:42 PM
0

Yes they are. You aren't giving women any other choice to meet a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 11:35 PM
3

🙃 Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 10:35 PM
4

Myfitnesspal and I have a fast metabolism
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 09:13 PM
2

👍
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:13 PM
3

You look really good!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:03 PM
2

How old do you think I look?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:58 PM
7

OK here's me https://postimg.cc/vcs21GK2
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:57 PM
2

How were you being an asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:32 AM
1

I mean leaders of women. I don't see very many leaders of men. But I'll make the claim that you are wrong here as well. The man who can lead a woman, is the same man who could lead a man. I'm sure you would want to think you're a leader but just can't lead women. I'm sure it's a girl's fault as well. Her brain is just a bad brain. Maybe the smart guys can fix it by making sex robots and program that brain the right way since God made us all wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:21 AM
5

Perhaps it's the way they ask
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:13 AM
1

Ha ha ha. Oh my! I bet you're a hit at parties explaining how other people don't understand. Did he just flirt with that girl? No see you don't understand plus I'm very smart, and not a criminal, but maybe autistic. He spread his arms wide, leaned forward five inches, did a half smile, laughed, glanced down, and what did he say? Write that line down and repeat it like a computer. I just don't understand why girls say I'm creepy! I just need bigger muscles. Just be yourself and stop. I understand…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:09 AM
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You say asshole I say leader. One guy tells you what to do, the other guy looks at the ground as he asks you if you like him. One guy takes you away, the other guy asks you if maybe you might give him permission to maybe do something, if you tell him to. If you're all so smart how come you can't figure this out?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:04 AM
0

I appreciate very much that you are trying and not giving up. You know what makes a winner? He never gives up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:57 AM
-1

You're just telling me that it's raining because the ground is wet again. I'm telling you that the rain doesn't happen because the ground is wet, it's raining for a different reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:37 AM
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I am picturing many men I have went with. Some were attractive and tall, others were physically unattractive (something I only realized later) and short. The one thing they had in common? They made me feel sexy and attractive. So that's what I picture in my head. I'm sure you want me to answer like I'm a man and tell you his large chest and shapely waist drew my eye. But I'm not a man and women are not men. I picture a man who makes me feel like I'm a sexy beast.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:36 AM
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One makes me feel sexy. The other one does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:14 AM
2

It's because one group of guys will take proactive action and ask the girls out. While another group of guys sits around doing nothing. Girls don't go for criminals, criminals go for girls. This is a wet ground makes rain story. You've got the cause and effect backwards. You'd think intelligent men would be able to figure this out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:43 AM
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You guys just do not understand what is actually happening. If I ever did use this online dating and I read that I'd think it was sweet that a hot guy who was like the guy I lost my virginity with was concerned he did something wrong. Heck but a young guy. The guy I was with first was in his thirties.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:32 AM
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Nobody reads the profile they just look at the pictures. Also fifteen years old? How old do you think women are when they become sexually active?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:57 AM
0

I think if you have too few is the worser option because at some point you can't have any more
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:35 AM
2

He's six four. Both of his brothers are also very tall. He says his biological father was short but then he means five foot eight. Sometimes I forget just how tall he is until he's giving me a big hug chest to face and I go to kiss him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:33 AM
1

Hubs says it's because he's Danish. His mother is six foot herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:16 AM
1

Only four right now but we are trying again. We've got four boys and I really want a girl. Hubs says he wants his own football team but right now I just want a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:15 AM
1

Heck ya! Let's get some little armies going!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:07 AM
1

I'm only five foot four and my sons are gigantic. Freakishly gigantic. My eight year old is almost as tall as me. All four them are way above the top 1% of height for their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:04 AM
1

You just have no idea. What caring do you have for the struggles you don't have? Men are the true loving and caring people. Accept your place below a man, who has no idea of your life, and cares none for it, as he says we care. And tells you that you don't care. You have no idea and care not at all about the struggles of a woman, because they are not your struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 04:56 AM
2

Not getting a date isn't going to kill you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 03:40 AM
3

I think in the past life was much much harder for low value men and that this made them much tougher. Giving low value men an easy life with nothing to be afraid of and endless porn has made them wish they were women. Only with none of the fears and struggles an actual woman has.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 03:38 AM
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We all forgot to add you know how tall they are!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 01:31 AM
1

I just realized what the post before this forgot to mention. You know how tall someone is before you go with them! When I was young I went with this one guy that I met much later with my hubs. I remembered the first guy being very tall. Then I saw my hubs standing next to him and realized just how short he actually was. When you're only five four basically every guy is tall. I think guys do start to shrink as well. My father in law has probably lost two inches since I met him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 01:25 AM
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I was with that guy for five years. I've been with my husband for a lot longer and all I knew about him was the latter. I'd say he was very confident, pretty funny, but he smelled like the best thing ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 01:18 AM
2

I only went on one first date my entire life. I knew a lot about him by that point and he made a big show out of asking me on the date. The rest of the guys I've been with we just met and clicked right away. I'd say I knew how they looked, how confident they were, and what they smelled like. Oh and how funny they were!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 12:29 AM
2

I remember the first shit test I did to my hubs. Well I don't actually remember it but I remember him explaining it to me the day after it happened. I don't even know why I did it. In fact I don't even remember doing it. He says that is normal and that I would, and will, shit test him again. But he says it's nice how little I do it and that the only reason I shit test so little is because he passes them. I wish I wouldn't but how would I not? I don't even know I'm doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 12:16 AM
1

Is that not a good number of people? That seems like a lot to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 12:11 AM
2

You can tell how experienced a guy is by how he acts in the sack.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 12:07 AM
2

They don't though. And it does make you exceptional
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 04:42 AM
4

I wish my husband could work at home. Recently he's been able to go from sixty hours to forty and it's amazing! He's worried a bit though I can tell. Theirs a point where less stuff but more time is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 04:18 AM
1

You don't think guys who spend a lot of their life building up a life don't want an attractive classy woman who can bring real value into their life? Of course they do. I'm sure they'd rather you be everything you are, but with no experience and just somehow you were born that way. But that's not how it works. I also suspect men misunderstand what winner means.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 04:02 AM
2

Scrubs always want everyone else back in the bucket. Never can imagine the lives out of the bucket. Always imagine how their bucket life could be made better, by someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 03:35 AM
1

You just did what I said you did, again. Scrubs mad. Scrubs lie to women and tell them successful winners are fat and old. Sorry scrubs I guess it's time you level up. Or just sit in the basement with your sticky socks pretending you're getting revenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 03:14 AM
2

I've never heard a winner say plan to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 03:12 AM
2

Sorry but women don't have to stay with a scrub who gives up giving value just because marriage anymore. Neither does a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 03:11 AM
1

Disagree and agree. A woman can't depend only on her body and looks for her value. She has to have more value than that. Social savvy, ability to run a household, emotional support of her man, love and encourage him to be his best, and you bet you can age but still be beautiful with class. Grace, class, intelligence, be able to hold a conversation with your man, to be able to stimulate his mind not just his pants, to be their for him. Only low value men think a woman is just a vapid boring thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 03:10 AM
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No offense but you don't strike me as someone with a relationship to emulate. Also telling women to get back in the bucket with the scrub crabs isn't the honey you think it is. Get back in the bucket for the true love male lie from the scrubs or the scrubs are going to jack off to porn forever! Gag. No thanks. You might want to rethink the threats from loser men to be even bigger losers if my lady doesn't save them. Scrubs don't get saved, they just enjoy the free sex they get from a girl who pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 02:53 AM
2

Making your own money how would you have many children that you can ensure are going to be fully taken care of? I also find it touching that you males just assume all the winner men are just fat and old. Ladies don't go for a winner! Why bother they are all fat and old! But scrubs that want you to put out right away while you pay for half the date will give you true love.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 02:44 AM
2

If you change the definition to bad by definition then by definition they are bad. Their isn't a lot left to discuss at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 02:34 AM
1

Here is an actual worry that nobody but women will tell other women. What's your solution? The male lie of true love and marry a scrub? That's why you've got to offer value to get value. And it doesn't stop. You have to keep offering value the entire time. How often do you see a woman upset that she has to keep offering value? It happens but the majority of the time it's a man upset that he actually has to not only offer value but he has to keep offering value.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 02:31 AM
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So a woman can leverage her assets, build herself up, and try to land a high value man and perhaps fail. Or she can just follow the male imperative and lay with scrubs who expect you to make more than half the money and are five seconds away from downloading pornhub rather than try if the relationship isn't going the way they want right then. Women tell other women aim for the stars. Men tell them either you put out for every scrub, plus you pay for half the dates, or else I'm going to go watch …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 02:21 AM
1

Gold diggers know their looks will fade that's why you have to offer more. And a quality woman will offer more The kind of support both emotional and social that only a quality woman can bring. Don't worry I already got my husband and my family. I fully support every other woman recognizing her value and telling all the scrubs level up or, yeah, go back to the basement with your sticky socks and porn. You know how we get herbs here? Letting scrubs get some like women have for the last fifty year…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 02:15 AM
0

I do wish your true love story well. Hopefully your girl has found a winner on his way up, not another big talking scrub.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 02:04 AM
2

Get a winner guy in his thirties and ride the train up with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 02:03 AM
3

If girls keep dumping a man perhaps said man should rethink how valuable he actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 02:02 AM
4

Marriage is a trade. It is a transaction. A gold digger knows she's got the value of her youth but it isn't enough to keep a high value man for life. She knows she has to offer a lot more back. And a high value man will help support her back in her desires to run and build the household, while she supports him in his desire to be the best man he can be. It's the male imperative lies that have afflicted the dating world. Every male now thinks he can just be a scrub with a few lines and he should …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 02:00 AM
3

I don't know what you are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 01:57 AM
5

Another reason high value men should support women being gold diggers. We know a man with resources is rare and we know we have to provide high value back. Do you think I eat 1200 calories a day because I don't like food?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 01:45 AM
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But is she gonna run your house? Is she going to appear in public events with you and increase your status in the male hierarchy? Is she going to up talk you to other men's wives? Is she going to be available 24/7 for you? Is she going to build you up and act as a column of support for the life you build for her and her children? Oh that's right scrubs don't care about any of that since they work at discount tire.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 01:42 AM
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No sugar girls are not that smart because they are trading what they only have for a short term to get only a short term gain from the male. A gold digger is looking for that ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 01:39 AM
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A gold digger is going to be realistic about what a relationship is and why you would enter into one. With her as well so she will looks maxxx to the extreme and she will bring her A game to the bedroom and to household management. But she'll have expectations as well and your bucks factor into it. The downside is she will probably be in her twenties by that point having believed male lies about true love and love conquering all. Lies she won't believe in anymore which must really make scrubs an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 01:36 AM
7

I think it's smart for a woman to care very much about a man's ability to procure and create resources. I have no idea why this makes males angry. Scrubs I understand why you're mad if a girl cares about the future she could have with a man and she doesn't want to share a two bedroom apartment with four other people and you. But for women? Smart women are gold diggers. I would have thought that a place filled with stem nerds would approve of women caring about money. Why go to school for so long…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 01:31 AM
1

Where did she go?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 06:21 AM
1

She got sexxed up I bet she's happy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 06:21 AM
0

I, me, I'm a real person, I don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 06:19 AM
1

I know zero
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 06:18 AM
1

Go enjoy your slump buster I don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 06:18 AM
6

Why do you keep claiming you care about that then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 06:17 AM
0

Yes. Why do you care? Virgin girls here? Me here, old, kids, married, yet here you are. On the internet. And you bet I'm still better with my body count
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 06:17 AM
1

Yet nobody dates the virgin girl
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 06:14 AM
1

Married
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 06:14 AM
2

Fantasy world
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 05:29 AM
1

What
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 04:45 AM
2

Yet I'm a wife, a mother to four, and my n count zero friend is a lonely spinster. Men want spinster, they say online, every day, and date them never
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 04:44 AM
-1

I've never ever been anything but anti slut shamed by girls. Only guys have slut shame me and only on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 04:43 AM
-3

Oh did we hold all the men down in the last feminist meeting so now guys are forced to just go for the girls they want not the girls nobody wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 04:42 AM
1

I never said that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 04:41 AM
-1

Because they don't make themselves known
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 04:41 AM
-1

They aren't. You guys are lying
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 04:33 AM
3

The girls with zero end up with zero
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 04:32 AM
4

How would she notice guys who do not exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 04:14 AM
-2

You all keep saying this but it is not true at all in reality. Nobody wants the virgin girl. Tons of guys want the not virgin girl. Make whatever nonsense claims online only you want. It isn't true so no girl sees your nonsense and thinks that's true
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 03:46 AM
-5

Oh you're that special?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 03:41 AM
-1

It's defacto. If attractive men wanted her then she wouldn't be a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 03:41 AM
-8

Probably ugly girls
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 03:40 AM
2

You all keep saying this but it isn't true. I have a friend who is more attractive then most average girls, yet no man wants her. She's a virgin, because nobody wants her. You guys do not understand what is going on. The only physically attractive girls who are virgins are personality unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 03:40 AM
0

How would she know it though?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 03:38 AM
0

Yes it does
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 03:27 AM
2

Sorry not every girl is born with high self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 03:26 AM
-11

This isn't true. I don't know why guys think this and I don't know why guys make studies to try to prove it. Women do not slut shame each other. It's the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 03:17 AM
2

I'm very introverted and that isn't my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 03:14 AM
2

Women don't want to get a man to chase her. Women feel attractive if attractive guys are going after her. Nobody wants to be the slump buster. Only a man could think the slump buster is winning
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 03:13 AM
1

What more would need to be done short of holding men at gunpoint and forcing them to recite "I love promiscuity"? So men don't have any free will? Who do you think is making this culture you don't like?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 02:47 AM
1

What's stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 02:40 AM
0

Yes they are. Nobody dates the girl nobody wants
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 02:39 AM
5

Yet none of you date those girls. You just talk about it online.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 02:36 AM
-1

This is the male interpretation not how a woman experiences her life. An attractive woman is a woman that men, actually personality attractive assertive men who know what they are doing, want. A girl doesn't know she's attractive because she's got sixteen inch thighs she thinks are fat. She knows she's attractive because men want her, and they show it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 02:35 AM
12

Somehow guys think it's other girls slut shaming. It's not its other girls anti slut shaming. I was ridiculed for two years for being a virgin when I was young. By other girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 02:32 AM
-9

A girl with a zero count is a girl nobody wants. Nobody wants a girl with no self control or no self esteem either. But do you guys really want the girl nobody wants? If you do then why don't you go date her? Her body count is zero after all
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 02:18 AM
10

By interpreting my actual life with what you posted in this study. In real life nobody didn't want to be friends with the fat girl who was a slut. And nobody really cared that you slept around in college, and in high school they cared if you didn't. But other girls did care, in college, if you were attractive. I think the study may have inadvertently discovered a correlation in women not wanting sexually active, single, but attractive other women as friends. I don't know what stories they told t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 02:16 AM
25

In high school other girls were far more judgemental of you if you were not promiscuous. In college a lot of girls are not judgemental if you are sexually active, but rather if you are sexually attractive. I think this study may be interpreting sexual attractiveness rather than sexual promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 02:07 AM
2

It isn't normal to think you're in love with someone you have seen casually three times. It isn't normal to then fall out of love because this person likes your Instagram a lot and responds to your texts quickly. None of this is normal behavior at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 09:44 PM
1

What's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 08:41 AM
2

Haha me too :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 08:23 AM
2

Male vetting
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 05:09 AM
5

Nobody is sitting around thinking I'm going to vet everyone except my friend who vets everyone and finds fault in everything. Do guys even think I'm going to vet her? You know who vetted? My husband vetted me. I vetted him as well. I thought he was attractive and he wanted me. Now I'm married with children, a husband, and yes I took my promise ring off a long time ago. To be wanted. She's alone and lonely. Where are you guys to go marry her? Doesn't she have what you want? A good character. Go m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 05:08 AM
2

What do you think is a good answer for young women who really do have low self esteem?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 04:41 AM
20

I have a friend who has good character. She's now thirty and still a virgin, no man cares about her at all. I thought I had good character, I was raised a Baptist, I wore a promise ring. I guess I have a bad character though because I wanted attention from guys. I wanted to be wanted. As far as a woman vetting for character? We do. Why do you think we dump losers, break up with assholes, and keep looking for a good man? You think an honestly good man has a giant sign on his head that says just w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 04:31 AM
1

They're very weird and should be avoided
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 03:39 AM
0

You guys really don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 03:36 AM
1

It doesn't mean she liked it. It means he liked it and so she did it for him. Because he wanted to and she wanted him to be happy and pleased.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 03:33 AM
1

Didn't you just say that you acted that way and it wasn't you and it didn't work?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 05:51 AM
1

Who else came along and changed you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 05:47 AM
3

How about be honest to yourself, don't be afraid to be honest, and want to be the best person you can? Do people really think that a social leader is loud? What does dominant even mean? Is it how guys experience dominance? The loudest guy is the dominant guy in the guy world I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 05:44 AM
3

If you weren't being yourself then who were you being?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 05:32 AM
3

I don't understand what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 05:30 AM
4

What was the facade?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 05:10 AM
7

Do guys really live in a facade just to be with a girl? What do they do when they are found out?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 05:04 AM
0

You don't think nerdy guys are all fine inside do you? I think a lot of guys have that messed up part in them, they just live in denial and never share that part of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 04:54 AM
9

My hubs loves to play video games but he's always working and building stuff so I have to bug him to relax and play video games. He told me he used to just play video games all day but one very sad time for him he realized he wanted a great life for himself and for his family. So he changed his own life before I met him. Now I can bug him to relax and play games. Honest I wish he would relax a bit more. I love video games. We once played divinity original sin together for two weeks while he was …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 04:50 AM
1

Romance novel heroes are anti heroes. Think a thin guy who has badly applied eyeliner, but secretly he's incredible. He just needs the heroine to bring it out of him, usually through her intense suffering which shows him that he really is the hero. So now he can save her, but only through intense suffering himself. Maybe a navy seal Chad, but he's got to be really messed up inside and really hate himself and just trying to die. Then the heroine can come in and suffer to show him what a hero real…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 04:42 AM
38

First a man wrote that. A man who likely wanted to encourage women to be a mistress. Second women can leave their husband and not be left destitute now. And she can take another should she like. Women aren't forced to sit and bear a thousand insults anymore. A wife can leave now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 01:27 AM
1

For real
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 11:50 PM
5

Going by what I've seen so far almost none of you guys understand women at all. So how would anyone teach young men anything about women? They'd end up teaching young men all kinds of ridiculous nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 11:49 PM
1

If you want x in life the way to get it is to go out and do the things that will get you x. Why this place is filled with guys demanding and scheming ways to get women to just give them x I do not know. But that's not how life works. Other men and women are not going to change to give you what you want. If you want your life to be a certain way you have to go make it that way. As far as my life I've got what I want. Nobody gave it to me. But I do think I got very lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 11:39 PM
1

So now the point isn't to magically change female nature so young women don't date for fun but for mystery reason but to punish women in some kind of revenge fantasy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 09:01 PM
1

This is all nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 05:59 PM
9

Women don't chase after men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 05:35 PM
3

Women never feel that way. This is a failure to understand how women feel attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 05:34 PM
3

If I'm attracted to the guy then yeah that's long enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 05:30 PM
1

Young women are not thinking about any of this stuff. You guys have all these incredibly convoluted nonsense ideas like all men in the entire world just have to not want a girlfriend or wife and then magically young women will stop dating to have a fun time. It's nonsense and totally fails to understand what young women are actually like. Why not just be a fun date, date the girl, and then ask the girl to get married? You see this plan would actually work for you. Your nonsense plan about someho…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 05:29 PM
1

OK. But how would this make women stop dating guys for fun and instead date them for mystery question?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 04:41 PM
1

OK. How would guys doing what you suggested somehow make a woman go from dating to have fun with no planning for an end goal into what? How will men behaving the way you suggest somehow make young women now have some kind of plan and the knowledge necessary to enact said plan? And what plan would this make them have somehow?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 04:19 PM
1

What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 03:49 PM
-1

How in the world would this stop women from dating? You know what stops women from dating? A guy saying let's go get married and start a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 03:38 PM
4

I once spent a few months chatting with a guy online and then met him in person. I'd say you get to know more about someone in a few hours in person than months of online.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 03:17 PM
2

I've never used online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 01:48 PM
2

I've slept with six people. I guess I dated them all. I did wait with one guy I dated for a few years but that was because I wasn't that attracted to his personality. He was more timid but I thought he would be a good husband material. I was wrong. What's OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 01:32 PM
10

A few hours. I haven't ever thought much about it. I have regrets but I can't change the past so I don't worry about them. They don't have to do with making myself wait. No I slept with my husband a few hours after we met as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 01:11 PM
2

Your entire post is fundamentally wrong. Your base ideas are false so the entire post is wrong. All of it, 100% of the post, is wrong. I suggest you go out and date some women, talk with them, get to know them, and build a base of knowledge that isn't completely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 01:22 AM
5

My perspective is that you don't have the slightest clue what women are actually like or who they date. Or why they date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/20 12:54 AM
1

My husband's friends make fun of one of their friends about it. Worse when he isn't their.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 05:10 PM
0

How did your mom do 90% of the child care if she worked full time?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 05:00 PM
1

I don't vote. So their you go. Do you think the single mom is going to magically teach what only a man can teach? Because she's poor? I used to be poor and my friends were all single moms. They just were bucket crabs and told themselves their lives were great. What do you think that was like? What is a girl going to learn here? Be attractive and take care of yourself. How is a girl going to be the man you men won't be? Why do you insist women become the men you won't be?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 07:20 AM
1

Some things don't change
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 07:14 AM
2

So that other men will respect him
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 06:08 AM
0

Of course they do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 06:07 AM
4

I care what other men think about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 05:41 AM
4

Happy marriages don't get divorced. Unhappy ones do. I want more people to have happy marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 05:39 AM
2

Aww me too!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 04:23 AM
0

Why do you think that women are somehow distributing sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 04:17 AM
0

Fewer good relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 04:17 AM
1

Do you think theirs something you don't want to find out about?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 04:16 AM
2

Of course I care. Why would I want other men to look down at my husband? It would be selfish because I would be putting some almost meaningless thing, my last name, above other men respecting my husband. I'm a part of his family now and just like my sisters in law we have that family name.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 04:13 AM
5

I love and respect my husband and would never want other men to think less of him just because I selfishly want to not change my last name.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 01:33 AM
3

The man will be made fun of and looked down on as weak. The woman will be viewed as temporary and not a real marriage. She'll also be looked down on and people will start to call her names in private. People will assume the marriage is bad. I know one of our family friends has a wife who refused to take the man's name.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 11:43 PM
1

What do you mean sex doesn't work? Do you mean she's dry down there? Their are solutions for that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 09:38 PM
2

I run on the elliptical sometimes but I don't need to work out. I watch what I eat and I can fit a size zero so I'm good. I'd hate to lift weights and get all bulky. It's not feminine. My husband does lift weights though and he's a bit over twice my size.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 09:30 PM
1

They aren't hitting on me I'm taken. They are friends and I'm just watching them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 06:04 PM
1

You don't know about his past?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 04:36 PM
1

Now that I'm thinking about it it's hard to come up with specifics. Here are some. One guy gets uncomfortably close to people and acts weird while he does it. Weird nervous ticks that I'm not even sure they are aware of. Bragging about dumb fake things like they are not even aware of how stupid they sound. Trying to put others down but in ways they think are caring but they don't have the social skills to realize that everyone else knows they are just being insulting. One guy when he saw my new …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 04:35 PM
1

No they wouldn't. Young women aren't thinking about money or anything like that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 04:26 PM
0

I think so 😋
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 05:48 AM
1

You weren't curious to get to know him? He didn't tell you about his life? You don't think he wanted to know about your life? How do you get to know each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 05:22 AM
-3

What if he did say something
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 05:21 AM
-3

Maybe they will change because the cheating is your fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 04:53 AM
1

I know a few creepy guys. Like seriously creepy your skin crawls around them. I guess it is because you don't know what they are going to do. They aren't scary in the sense that they are big or tough. But they are delusional to a shocking degree, have such a poor understanding of the world and reality that you just do not know how they are going to react to normal stimuli. They constantly show how little base of reality they have by their words and actions, and the fear of confusion they have in…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 04:52 AM
2

what works for me is knowing she has chosen me out of all the other potencial people she could be with This isn't how it works. This is a tell that you put women on the pedestal. Which means you'll also take them off at some point, which is scary Also it is potential. With a t
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 04:40 AM
9

The stories of women talking about their sex lives amongst each other have been greatly exaggerated
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 04:31 AM
1

If you kept just basic laws regarding crime and violence, women would be wary of being pumped and dumped impregnated if child support and other severance packages didn't have to be paid No they would not. Because women aren't thinking about taking all your money. Young women are not thinking about money at all. But maybe their fathers would care a bit more and teach them better. Child support and alimony is to get fathers to relax. Women don't think about these things at all when they are young.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 04:26 AM
1

They'd be pretty jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 04:24 AM
-2

You don't think a guy could cheat but still care about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 04:23 AM
2

In today's society, MOST people are not having sex PERIOD. This isn't true. This is just what your echo chamber looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 04:22 AM
1

What makes you think women are not aware of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 04:21 AM
2

Sounds like going to a sausage party
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 04:20 AM
1

Lol. You are greatly overestimating women. But in the last grand feminist meeting I suggested we stop tricking the poor men folk as badly. You guys have bought us enough houses for now and it's kind of sad seeing how weak you've all gotten.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 03:15 AM
21

Women say just be yourself because dork guys always end up putting on ridiculous acts around women, bragging about stupid things, puffing out their chests, acting totally fake, getting all insecure, and putting girls way up high on a pedestal. Women who know these guys as friends know that the way they actually are is fine. They just need to be themselves, have some confidence, and stop putting on some dumb act. This monkey dance you think you need to do makes you unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 10:56 PM
2

Mental illness
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 04:44 AM
3

School
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 04:40 AM
2

Women are told the truth about their lives and by men who don't think girls are something they aren't and can never be. Men don't lie. Nobody celebrates twisting a girl up just to get in her pants. They think it's wrong they don't high five and they think about her. They care about her. Men are taught to be strong and don't look for strength from a woman. They look at her as their love, to guide. They don't get all upset that nobody was guiding. They don't get upset nobody did their part, that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 04:39 AM
0

No woman has the responsibility to help make you more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 12:41 AM
5

An Incel Uprising would occur Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 12:38 AM
4

Men would shame you for being a prude as well cause they just want sex. They have no intention of sticking around if you get pregnant nor do they care how it affects your heart or the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 04:40 PM
4

When I was young the women didn't slut shame each other. They bragged about it. You were shamed for being unattractive so guys didn't want you or for being a prude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:43 PM
2

When you're finished having children you could get a mommy makeover.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 11:07 PM
5

Abdominal separating occurs, stretch marks and loose skin on both the stomach and the breasts, upper thighs and hips gain fat, you use your body to feed a baby. It's a big deal you just can't see it with clothes on
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 11:05 PM
-1

It's because often the man now acts like a child as well and the woman realizes he isn't actually leading. So she starts to think of him as a child and care for him like a child. This is extremely unsexy so she'll still care about him but she won't desire him sexually anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 11:01 PM
1

Hand jobs don't count
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 02:12 PM
16

Guys say they want girls to use their youth to date a man for keeps, rather than use their most valuable times playing around and dating. Their are good reasons. If you're a guy and you go play the date for fun game you hardly have time to build a great future. So you have to choose. Build a great future, or date for fun. They say women choose to date for fun with their best years, and use their worst years to date for keeps. Their are reasons for this but this is why guys are upset. It appears,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 08:48 AM
1

Lying is counter productive. Doubly so, triply so, truly so, if you are lying to yourself. Sometimes a girl wants to just be wanted, their is no play. Just be the guy who is their to want her when she wants to be wanted. If you have no game then play the game. How is that lying? If you have to lie? Then what are you lying about?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 06:58 AM
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